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Hey by the way, don't try some cheesy pick-up lines on eigtheen years old girls when you're 40. You're freaking up my mom and dad.
/r/seduction13/08/16 07:56 AM
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Go for it! you're welcome man keep it up, experiment, you'll have failure but improve eventually
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:50 AM
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Awesome! Don't worry about being turned down, you must not take it personnally : some people are OK with being approached, others don't like it, and it will happen less and less as you improve. Fuck yeah I'm nervous when I go talk to a girl. I try to make it the most situational though, and with experience you can tell when someone is open to be approached. A pickup line will always be busted out in 1 sec, so use them if you want but it should always be in a funny way. You can just say hi and th…
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:49 AM
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Great piece of advice, thanks. That's the kind of thinking that has to be on this sub, everyone will benefits from it.
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:41 AM
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Hey! Me again haha. So in my point of view, there's two (and surely more) ways to achieve your goal. You choose to 'catch them all' and manage to have 2-3 or more girls you are regularly having sex with and can see one time a week/every two week while still going out and picking up girls on week-end. I'd personnally choose to focus on having more fuck friends on going out because it's more rewarding in the long term and you can actually develop a nice complicity with some girls, while not having…
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:35 AM
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Sure, it's NoFap Some people are suspicious, others make it a religion but between the two extreme resides an overall awesome and positive community focused on self-improvement which I personnally love, although it don't go there this often.
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:14 AM
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You're welcome. If you want to learn more on it there's a dedicated subreddit
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:22 PM
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You're so welcome! Keep it up, go for your dreams!
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:19 PM
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Hey, maybe just go for it ;) ? Don't (over)analyze too much. You'll know only when you'll have tried.
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:38 AM
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I tinder-challenge you : Match almost anyone (avoid the ugly as fuck though) Text everyone. Have shit tons of fun. Your goals are : FIRST : to have them respond. No matter what. Try anything. Any fuck that makes you laugh. SECOND : your goal is to have their facebook and/or facebook and/or a date. Same as above, anything it would take and makes you laugh! THIRD : once you get your first numbers/date, now you must redo the challenge, but this time you must try the most risky things while still ge…
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:34 AM
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"masturbating obviously" try not to. It will give you more will. And go out, talk to people, talk to girls, share yourself with them, see which ones you have good chemistry with. Then propose to hang out, see what happens.
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:25 AM
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Learn to open up. If you want one day a satisfying relationship with another human being, that's a must do.
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:23 AM
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Hey James! Welcome, it's so good that you chosed to improve! Here's my advice : trust your hearth and trust your guts. Don't be afraid to try, don't be afraid to fail. "Pick-up" is more a way of "improving yourself" and "overcome you shyness" kinda thing. Don't get hypnotized by puas, gurus and weird technics name, that's all nerdy marketing things. View it as learning how to be more social and more attractive. Finally, height doesn't matter. Sure, if you look like Brad Pitt it will helps, but g…
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:22 AM
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Meet a lot of people. Just go and say hi. NOT on apps. Apps are only to improve text game!
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:16 AM
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In two words : be yourself and be centred.
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:33 AM
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"I know it means she wants to either kiss or more than likely sit on my face" No, it just means you have nice lips. Seriously..
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:29 AM
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The way of the superior man The power of now
/r/seduction12/04/16 11:04 AM
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Those are totally seduction books to me.
/r/seduction12/04/16 11:03 AM
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That's cool :)!
/r/seduction06/04/16 01:40 PM
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Be clear about what you want towards them
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:32 PM
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Perfect reaction. Shows a lot of confidence. I'd probably do the same, I hope!
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:31 PM
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Good job. Hot and confident girls will stay with hot and confident guys. Yeay
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:30 PM
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Hi
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:20 AM
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Abudant mentality is just a tool for developping detachement and encouraging more experiences.
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGsTi05YPms
/r/seduction07/02/16 10:58 AM
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That's awesome :)
/r/seduction05/02/16 08:18 PM
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Hey if you wanna pm me once you've read them to talk about it don't hesitate!
/r/seduction05/02/16 08:18 PM
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The Book of Pook, by Pook himself, and The Way of the Superior Men by David Deida. Please read them.
/r/seduction05/02/16 12:03 AM
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Thank you, this was a really nice and insightful post.
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:27 PM
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What did you do last week-end? RAN NAKED PLAYING COWBOYS AND INDIANS WHOOOO!
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:22 PM
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Thank you for reading it
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:06 PM
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Thanks for your kind words, and you're welcome!
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:05 PM
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It should! :)
/r/seduction03/02/16 11:25 AM
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Thanks! Let's do our best to improve the overall quality!
/r/seduction03/02/16 11:22 AM
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Both are insanely great. Dividing pick-up between those two instead of taking the best of both of them would be really sad.
/r/seduction03/02/16 11:15 AM
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Hi! It's true that I've finished reading Models a couple weeks ago and I must credit him, for he has put words on what I felt. I didn't thought about it since it was so clear to me that pretty much everyone on seddit have heard of vulnerability through posts about Mark Manson. This post was however written with sincerity and in an attempt to help, from hearth, reflexion, internalization and my personnal experience of this vulnerability concept. I never claimed it was my own, since it would have …
/r/seduction03/02/16 11:04 AM
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I liked it too
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:26 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:25 PM
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That would be a better way to do it, and it's also used in boxing training. Just make sure you don't hit the ground and don't do it on a too hard surface. Your hands will thank you!
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:46 PM
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I wanna add something : I personally am very attracted to girls that show maturity and I can both have fun as well as deep conversations, so be playful yes, but don't hide your personnality's deeper side.
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:40 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:38 AM
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Hi, as I'm doing boxing since over one year, it's my duty to say you should NEVER punch solid surface with your knuckles. It will only harm you and can damage your bones permanently. If you wanna learn to fight, go in a club with proper equipment, or at least use bands, boxing glove and a punch bag. I understand it may have help you in term of confidence and that's great, but please think about reviewing your training, it's seriously wronging you.
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:32 AM
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Don't think to much. You like her? Then go for it
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:02 PM
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Get better pictures. Mostly have to dress well and have a good lightening, and interesting background. Ask a friend to help you, go see 'hot or not' photos to get inspired. Tinder is all about look at first. Only depending on the order I put my photos, I get more or less matches. The photo that gets me more matches looks like it was taken in studio (but it was just a selfie with in high quality, with a good light on my face making a black background, slightly photoshopped to have better lightnin…
/r/seduction31/01/16 12:12 PM
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"Wait..." Kiss
/r/seduction31/01/16 12:04 PM
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Yeah but it's not one on one so it has not quite the same meaning. Try isoalting her?
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:03 PM
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Go find better girls somewhere else
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:07 PM
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Some people are just flaking everytime. That's it. Personally I would just move on until she decide to actually meet each other.
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:01 PM
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Worst advice ahaha
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:59 PM
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OK didn't get it
/r/seduction30/01/16 01:39 PM
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It is
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:12 PM
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It's a way to translate what my inner beliefs are. I don't see it as a trick at all. But I love Star Wars.
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:11 PM
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Body langage I'd say, but for me it's mostly through the eyes. Like : I'm. Trying. So. Hard. Not. To. Kiss. You. Right. Now.
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:09 PM
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Because it's about more than just seduction
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:21 PM
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You see it as a win when you sleep with her, thus you're invested in the outcome. I see it as a win when I expressed my sexuality and made her feel I'm interested.
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:20 PM
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I'm seeing having sex with them as a something that will happen anyway as a natural consequence of us being attracted to each other. So I may or may have not sleep with them yet, in my head it's the same : I'm being sexual, and with girl I'm really into I just can't act another way.
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:18 PM
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Hey, thanks for your testimony. That's amazing. I'll be much more aware with how I spend the first 1-3 weeks hitting on a girl. You're right, we're all doing this unconsciouly everyday. To the girls we just don't view as potential mates.
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:10 PM
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Great man! You've come a long way! For the rest, relax and dare to take actions, you'll slowly learn and get better and better as you get mor experience. Enjoy the journey :)
/r/seduction28/01/16 03:37 PM
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You need to realize asking her for her number has nothing to do with not being nice.
/r/seduction28/01/16 03:33 PM
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But it's okay for a few of them to grab mine? No it's not, you're not an object. Its bothway. If you didn't say it's OK, you wouldn't like a girl you're not necessarly attracted to do so. When you see the same group of people every day, it's pretty obvious to spot out the ones who are sexually attracted to you and those who aren't, and those who are actually looking for a relationship. Maybe, it doesn't give you the right to touch them inappropriately based on a guess.
/r/seduction16/01/16 08:07 PM
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Let your sensuality flow
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:21 PM
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Don't, unless you're making out with them. This is sexual harrasment.
/r/seduction16/01/16 05:24 PM
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Introduce yourself everywhere you go, "Hi, [name], nice to meet you" and introduce people to each other. Then greet everyone you know. That will make your social expand like crazy
/r/seduction16/01/16 05:20 PM
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It NOT a terrible idea, it depends on your intent. If you're seeking something out of it, then you're doing it wrong. If it's genuine, then some girls will reject you, some will adore you : that's what happen when you're polarizing, and that's a good thing. As for sexual interest, I tend to think from experience that it's not something than can be hidden if you're acting accordingly to what you feel. If you think she's hot, then every things you say or do, that particular way you smiled or looke…
/r/seduction14/01/16 12:07 AM
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Lubricant and a good hour of foreplay
/r/seduction26/12/15 11:29 PM
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1... 2... 3... don't think, open saying whatever comes to your mind
/r/seduction26/12/15 11:29 PM
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Did you personally experienced this?
/r/seduction21/12/15 11:51 AM
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Think about it for 4-5 aditionnal months before taking action you could fuck it up if you act too much in a hurry.
/r/seduction19/12/15 10:43 AM
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What's the 'modern school of seduction' about now? It's about becoming an attractive man. Nothing is wrong with old school game if it's giving you results, but many say that it's a bit 'fake' because you're only giving the impression of value, not actually being it. RSD and Mark Manson for exemple focus on becoming a naturally attractive guy which is really paying off more in the long term, and much more satisfying.
/r/seduction08/12/15 03:22 PM
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Talk to girls with no expectations + escalate
/r/seduction08/12/15 03:18 PM
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That's great what is the most important is that you tried. Through trying failure you'll learn what you are doing right and what you can do better. From my experience when a girl leave or don't go for the kiss it's because she don't feel comfortable enough and it she's not really sure if you're really interested in her or just wanna pull any girl
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:41 PM
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NoFap Workout Dress well Eat healthy Talk to girls with no expectations
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:37 PM
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Text
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:36 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:35 PM
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This is so bad. You need to be more of a player otherwise you'll never be able to have success. You need to pursue AT LEAST a thirty-two women at the same time if you wanna be able to pull the one you really like. Trust me I read this forum since seven years and even if I never actually approached women because I'm too afraid I watched a tons of RSD videos so you should listen to my advices.
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:34 PM
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Quite.
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:30 PM
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Be interesting. Honest answer
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:23 PM
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It means she wasn't into you
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:21 PM
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It's because YOU ARE trying to seduce them. Seriously wtf is wrong about that? Own it! Stop bitching and stop beating around the bush
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:20 PM
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56. Grow a vag
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:16 PM
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"I'm currently not actively looking for one"
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:07 PM
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Yes it did but only when I fucked them just to fuck
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:57 PM
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"I'll teach her to make espresso at my place" killer pickup line haha go for it. It's tinder, it's not like she's expecting you two to become best friends
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:56 PM
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I bet John doesn't give a shit
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:54 PM
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I did
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:53 PM
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You don't escalate enough
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:52 PM
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"Hey, it's me. I'm like blablabla. You don't like it, that's OK. You love me and wanna hang out too, it's cool. Peace."
/r/seduction17/11/15 11:24 AM
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OK but those girls didn't live with their parents, that's what I was thinking about.
/r/seduction17/11/15 11:23 AM
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Use lubricant Don't do anything special to ensure fwb. You had sex. It's on. Continue being attractive. Just make it clear you don't want to be in a relationship if the topic shows up. Stop overthinking
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:02 PM
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Practicing texting is the shit
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:59 PM
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I don't wanna interupt okay I totally do if it feels like you're doing it to everygirl that's not very attractive at all. Be more genuine. Also don't try to pretend you're not here to fuck them. Because you are. So own it. That's way more sexy.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:59 PM
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The BOOK OF POOK. Because. Just read it. It's a bible, if not THE bible. Those who have read it know. I'll email it to you if you swear by all the gods to read it till the end. It's like Mark Manson's Model, but more simple and raw. Epiphanies incoming.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:54 PM
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A single pussy can trap your dick forever
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:52 PM
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Hey great. Share naked photos when things are getting hotter bro
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:50 PM
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Go one assuming she's interested because she is.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:49 PM
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How did you do that? Seriously teach me master! I almost always bring them to my place but I'd love to do it the other way.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:48 PM
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Self doubt is a deal breaker
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:48 PM
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More lubricant your magics fingers need, my dear friend.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:47 PM
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Fuck other women
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:46 PM
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a way to combat this Take out your sword and stick it straight through her stomach before she can say 'dick'
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:38 PM
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<3
/r/seduction15/11/15 11:35 PM
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Being unreactive means you don't care because you don't let your own emotions being changed by external factors.
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:19 PM
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Photos, skype, projects, talking about future together, joke, sharing stuff, sharing emotions, having deep conversations on subjects that matters to both of you.
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:17 PM
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When a girl is dancing in front of you, engage. There shall be no doubt. She's here to have fun and/or sex.
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:16 PM
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"Because dry again, the next day their pussies are. Yes, hmmm." -Yoda
/r/seduction15/11/15 09:01 PM
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You're so cute.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:27 PM
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Are you already being physical with her? I think that what makes the difference between hanging out with a friend and being in a men to woman frame.
/r/seduction12/11/15 12:14 PM
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Run after shouting very loudly "SHEEE'S MINEEE, GET THE F*CK OFF!" like you're some sort of Smeagol night clubber. Also, try to choke her friends. It demonstrates you're alpha, and will make her like you more.
/r/seduction12/11/15 12:02 PM
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Face straight into their boobs.
/r/seduction12/11/15 12:00 PM
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Make another post outlining our tinder strategy, there's interest! Experience and exposure is the only way you can really get better This is so true People LOVE talking about themselves Haha You're in no rush Seduction is low but intense energy Sitting in a cafe for 30 minutes, going on a walk for 30 minutes, sitting on a park bench for 30 minutes, and then walking back to your place to watch tv If you've been doing this effectively, she will be very attracted to you. And if she isn't, then you …
/r/seduction09/11/15 08:56 AM
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"What would you do if I kissed you right now?"
/r/seduction06/11/15 11:58 AM
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Instead of worrying about “what to say” instead worry about “what you want.”
/r/seduction06/11/15 11:58 AM
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I chose to let go for the first time. Like purely let go. I can't describe it any other way that just freedom.
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:38 PM
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I added 'Let it happen' because I'm really tired of trying too hard
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:12 PM
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Be 100% confident that what you're going to say is interesting for everybody to listen. Just be like: ok, that's me, if you don't like it you can live but I think the shit I have to say is interesting enough. You'll see people respond pretty well, because everybody likes confidence.
/r/seduction03/11/15 12:29 PM
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Could you elaborate on that?
/r/seduction02/11/15 03:37 PM
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Met a girl like that once : she didn't want to kiss nor fuck but she came home and slept in tiny underwear while hugging me. It drove me crazy. I don't know, sometimes they have somtething in their head and they just stick with it, no matter what.
/r/seduction02/11/15 03:33 PM
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Focus on yourself means putting your efforts in becoming an interesting and attractive person rather than to try to attract girls through a 'strategy' of being funny of touchy around them. You should be that fun and attractive guy all the time, becoming and owning it and then it's effortless. You don't give them no attention at all : you give them the attraction they deserve, that's different
/r/seduction02/11/15 03:25 PM
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Be clever and adopt those two mindsets. I think I'm more of an attractor which always helped me close girl as soon as I sensed they were into me, but when I go 'hunting' haha I get dramatically more results. Be attractive like a magnet + go out and expose yourself to women and be a hard closer, I think that's an interesting formula.
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:54 PM
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Get tested
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:51 PM
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I'd say it's both : if a girl is insecure she will want to have reassurance of her 'uniqueness' and that's why she may ask you why you choosed her in particular.
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:48 PM
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I've tried somewhat to replicate what they do Why do you say it's a big mistake? It's awesome. That's how you learn. I think the most important is to learn to love yourself and stop being afraid to express what you feel/think.
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:21 PM
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You're welcome for my answer. Have a great day too
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:18 PM
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My friends seem able to do it unconsciously and with very little effort. I make sure I'm flirty, funny, touchy, and I only text them when I want to set up a date. Why do girls never stick with me? Looks like you're putting too much effort in trying to attract them, and this collapse after a while. Focus on yourself. That's how you attract effortlessly.
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:04 PM
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You : Hi Girl : whatever bullshit You : realize you're OK
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:59 PM
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I always thought that once I'll start to loose hair i'd shave my head.
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:57 PM
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I think that you know the answer. There's no magic, you gotta work on it.
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:56 PM
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I noticed he made terrible eye contact. Its the weirdest thing to me now, because I subconsciously felt he was less confident. He had the sort of eye contact I used to have, only looking at you for a few seconds and then turning away. That's so true. You can tell where a man is at just by looking in his eyes, as Tyler says. I've found that eye contact makes me more present in the interaction. I get out of my own head and am a better listener. Something about the eyes is focuses you in the conver…
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:56 PM
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You should go out and start to meet women
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:53 PM
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It doesn't fucking matter. Seriously
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:52 PM
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Your anxious because you're afraid of being rejected or ignored because you derive your sense of identity from how much people like you.
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:48 PM
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It's me. I'm fun and when I subcommunicate a girl I want to fuck her I'm serious about it.
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:47 PM
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Start to chat with people wherever you go.
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:45 PM
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It's great but gush very hard to read.
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:44 PM
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I agree it wasn't a healthy relationship, and I'm glad to be out of it.
/r/seduction31/10/15 09:30 AM
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Honesty can't be stupid
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:58 PM
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What do you mean by "a full 20/20" ?
/r/seduction27/10/15 06:00 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:17 PM
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Glad you could relate to this. As for the wording I think I didn't express myself correctly, by 'fucking around' I meant 'joking with'.
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:10 PM
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Your job is awesome ! I can't wait to read it again completly. I think I have more of a rugged clothing style. What 'peacocking' (=strong) pieces could I wear or add to this style, to developp it even more? Also, I need a new backpack, would you have some specific to this kind of style to suggest? Have a nice day
/r/seduction27/10/15 12:29 PM
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It can be a great experiment. I never did this, thought I would be curious to try once.
/r/seduction27/10/15 11:26 AM
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Don't try to flp it upside down, you understood what I meant.
/r/seduction27/10/15 11:15 AM
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Thanks I'll check this out. Would you pm me the link?
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:01 AM
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That's exactly what I meant, thanks. Also your second guess is right. I would have texted and waited for a bit and then went to meet her.
/r/seduction25/10/15 11:16 PM
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They are. This particulary girl needed some guy who was all about her, she told me it herself. I'm not angry at her because I didn't want such a codependant relationship. Just saying than, sometimes, a bit of jealousy shows that you care.
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:18 PM
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I lost her at the club and texted her the day after to see if she wanted to meet before I went on vacations but she didn't replied. Now she has flown back to canada I guess.
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:14 PM
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showing desire but not neediness
/r/seduction25/10/15 08:31 AM
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I'm hit in the guts with truth
/r/seduction25/10/15 08:30 AM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction25/10/15 08:29 AM
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"I'm still virgin."
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:51 AM
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I lost my girlfriend because I wasn't jealous at all, and she went for guy she thought may care more about her.
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:46 AM
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And did she connect on Tinder inbetween? If not, wait. If she did, wait a few days more and then if she still didn't respond text her in a non-needy way (either randomly text her sth of value like a private joke or anything fun, or make a move as offering to take her number or facebook, or giving an SOI in the form of unashamed sexualisation) In my experience, when a girl doesn't respond, you have to find the balance between being too insistent (replying too quickly, too much, being needy for he…
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:45 AM
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Fucking awesome game !
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:27 PM
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There's no rules except what works and what doesn't. If it works for you, you should keep doing it.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:25 PM
2

Everywhere outside a brothel. Don't be so judgmental man
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:23 PM
2

You bang your head against a wall a few times and you don't forget next time. Don't fucking dare to say that by skype.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:21 PM
-3

I don't because I think it would be an offend to the kind of (intelligent) girls I date and also it's not my style at all. I'm like, a broke fun interesting student. Not her dad.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:19 PM
4

Don't ask, offer. She's attracted and interested. Simply ask what her schedule is and find a time that works for both of you. Next time suggest an activity and then make a date out of it, it's way easier.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:17 PM
2

Then go on and do it.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:13 PM
1

No, you don't understand, I don't give a fuck if you're being pretentious, but I think this may seriously be hurting your game with women.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:13 PM
1

Since when she didn't respond?
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:10 PM
1

Too mainstream
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:42 AM
2

The Book of Pook
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:41 AM
1

I'd say don't game her on tinder but rather on facebook or # if you already know her
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:39 AM
2

Go out with younger people
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:39 AM
1

Good advice. Also show playful sexual interest more
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:39 AM
2

Next time trust yourself and you guts and try a moove, you will feel happier even if you fail
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:37 AM
1

No but it's good for you
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:35 AM
5

Ok you learned things but you look so pretentious..
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:35 AM
2

It isn't. Guess what it is and you can join the dark side.
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:18 AM
1

Good, then what does it takes for you to be chill, happy with yourself, and how can you grow your social circle?
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:14 AM
2

Sorry for my honest answer
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:13 AM
1

Yeah of course you should try, just don't have too high expectations.
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:11 AM
-3

"I really like you but I'm young and wanna make my experiences before I settle down because I think it's so important and I don't believe in couple because there are so much unhappy ones around us bla bla bla." Or lie to her, cheat on her and then moove on.
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:14 AM
1

I mean that you're far from getting this girl yet, so you should better focus on how to improve yourself and your game before even think of settling.
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:10 AM
0

Who you wanna be?
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:05 AM
1

She said she had work and would text me back but she never did. Don't count on girls for that, be proactive. How old are you? This I'm maybe a 5 and have never had a girlfriend. Implies that I can see myself with this girl.
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:02 AM
5

Like maybe she wanted to text you and it was you know, in the morning.
/r/seduction23/10/15 11:56 PM
2

Your second article is really great
/r/seduction23/10/15 05:14 AM
1

If you don't make sexual innuendo, then it should come off as sex happens naturally as the climax of your sexual ease. The key is to be sexual but at ease, relaxed and fun (laugh) about it. If you're a bit insecure about it, learn how to frame it in a fun or -depending on your age- safe way (don't ask me how just open your eyes on how guys that are good with ladies act) and MAKE thoses lights jokes about you and her under a sexual angle for godsake's.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:04 PM
1

Man, it smells from kms away that you just use this as an excuse to fuck them and you're insecure about it. So my 'transition' advice would be : be secure about it and make it subconsciously clear in their mind with kinos and being more sexual that you'll fuck them so they know what they are up to if they come and it don't feel like a trap.
/r/seduction20/10/15 10:16 AM
1

Now
/r/seduction20/10/15 10:11 AM
2

Start now
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:39 AM
2

Wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:26 AM
1

I'm up for it
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:13 AM
1

Haha that's so sneaky but I love it and I'm sure it works. Gotta try it once. I don't drink so it'll be the most obvious move for the two girls who'll be with me ahaha
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:59 PM
2

'I don't slut shame. I don't judge. You can do anything with me and you're safe'. This is the most effective pussy wettner I know in my personnal experience. I can relate this factor of being non-judgemental to EVERY girl I had an awesome sexy time with. And I'll add that Many women are looking for the guy who they can let it all out with. It's a lot of fun when you become that guy. This is the most important inner belief any pickup artist will ever have. Once you view yourself as this guy, you …
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:56 PM
3

Your post is long yes, good that some sentences are bold. You're one the right way, congrats. You are not a looser, nor you need to have sex to be validated. Don't deppreciate yourself, you're fucking awesome as you are, improving. The lesson #4 you learned is huge. And bravo for your awareness of the process you're in, it's truely uncommon, it'll help you a lot :)
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:26 AM
1

Get balls (it's not said in a mean way)
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:07 AM
1

Learn to convey manhood through your voice (slow and low tonality).
/r/seduction11/10/15 04:48 PM
0

This is gold. Totally worth reading if you're like me always wondering how to approach in clubs. Grab her by the arm, look her in the eye, and smile. This assumes you've handled your approach anxiety.
/r/seduction10/10/15 05:13 PM
3

That's great ! Thumb up for stepping outside of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction10/10/15 04:43 PM
4

"[I stop here because i don' want to be needy]" You see that's the problem. You can't seems always cool AND have success with women. You need to try take risks and fail. Fuck that's stupid.
/r/seduction10/10/15 04:41 PM
3

By becoming self-validated.
/r/seduction10/10/15 02:20 PM
136

You seek validation.
/r/seduction09/10/15 03:53 PM
1

It's because it's the masculine energy's purpose to be free, while it's the feminine purpose to trap. If you want more to be in a relationship with a woman than she wants, you're lost. Stay on your purpose, be a man. Your goal should aim way higher than a relationship.
/r/seduction09/10/15 03:50 PM
1

Those are nice
/r/seduction06/10/15 10:34 PM
1

Looks awesome, in bashing your insecurities and forcing you to let go of giving a fuck.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:28 AM
1

Ok so here's my way of seeing things. If you want to have hot women to gravitate around your lifestyle, you need first to give them something to gravitate around. So, have a plans for your future and a strong social circle. Get your shit handeled. Then, meet those girls and insert them into your life, one by one if you have to. That means, pickup dude. Wherever. Except specifically working with women, there's no way your lifestyle will be filled with hotties from the start. Even rockstars have t…
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:41 PM
4

It’s kind of crazy. Every time I’ve gone through rough patches with women, it was because hooking up with them was my number one priority. Once I’d begin to fill up my schedule with activities for myself, plans to help others out, and just being with my friends (and making new ones) is when girls started to fall into my lap. It just happens. I totally agree with you on that.
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:29 PM
4

There is always fucking hot cosyplayed next door girls at comic cons ! They are often cute and in-their-world girls, and I'm sure you could totally connect with them if you dare to say 'Hi' and open up a bit. Producing is awesome once you begin to djay a bit around. Ok just be a DJ and fuck all those party hotties. And if you have more specific taste, their are tons of hot girls in the electro music world.
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:27 PM
1

My situation is too fucked up to change. False. This is completely false, and you know it. You need to stop making excuses, because it's your life, and nobody will ever be able to change anything except you. You need to embrace the path of self improvement or continue bitching around. You have the choice, and it's yours and yours only.
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:22 PM
1

and run away
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:53 AM
1

vibe with them!
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:50 AM
0

not all girls
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:48 AM
3

Cool man! Keep on!
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:44 AM
4

AWESOME
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:31 AM
1

Thaaanks mate !
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:25 AM
2

Okay here's exactly what I would personaly do : Say to myself 'she's just a friend' to be totally outcome free and put pressure off. Continue texting her value and fun, but without fearing sexualisation (means not fear to talk about sex or sexy topics, to tell her i like her or find her hot when i do, to do some kinos irl or teasing her through text depending on the topic) Drop in the idea of seeing each other to do stuff we found out to like both to see how she responds. if she respond well, as…
/r/seduction26/09/15 12:11 PM
2

Usually writing in all caps translate you're shouting. So I guess it depends on how funny you fou d the joke. Personnaly I use caps scarcely
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:10 AM
2

You're welcome :)
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:08 AM
3

Haha didn't see that
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:07 AM
2

It's true people should get advice from people who have success and not from those who don't have results in the area they wanna improve. I also think that instead of looking for mispellings or formating mistakes those on this subbreddits should get inspired by the way op write, because i bet he writes to thoses girls the same way.
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:21 AM
1

I slowly get more and more answers as it becomes usual for them to get non-needy texts from me every once in a while, then if they're interesting we begin to enjoy texting each other and meeting again is just a matter of time. I also bump into some of them sometimes, and as we text not too much but regularly they are usualy more interested because of the investment they've made. The point is, you must really be interested in the girl because if you aren't, she'll sense it and you'll come off as …
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:42 AM
1

If you're bored and wanna improve your text game while having fun, totally worth it.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:43 PM
2

I never ever next. I just FO. And/or text some funny shit out of the blue sometimes. Then they usually start to chase. I next only girls I'm not interested, not the one I'd like to fuck at some point. That would be fucking dumb. I only 'next' them on my head.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:41 PM
6

Maybe you're afraid of success. I now that at one point I reached a milestone a bit like you, were i was clearly attracting girls but I was too afraid to really make things happen. I think part of me was afraid of success, because of social conditionning and everyone expecting you to stay where you've always been at. In truth, fuck social conditionning. You improved : "Generally my life is more fun now than it used to be. " that's awesome. I past this sticking point by saying : ok, i'm worth fuc…
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:36 PM
5

Most of women don't give a fuck about how you text them. They'll even chase you if they believe you don't even take time to answer them properly.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:13 PM
10

No, it's actually more than that. Say naughty things, be bold, use statements, be unashamed, text shitloads of women to not give a fuck anymore and get a sense of what works.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:11 PM
1

That's amazing ! Just try ! That's the first time of your life you won't know. Then for the rest of your life, it will be more and more usual. Let yourself be excited and do what feels right. Just don't put your tongue too deep in her mouth and let her breathe enough haha.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:21 PM
2

Introduce yourself, introduce people to each other, go to parties with friends, focus on having and bringing some fun and then isolate the girls you're into.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:18 PM
1

Whisper in her ear.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:17 PM
1

A simple everyday life hack that will make escalation so fucking easy and natural is to start to kino everything. Find the way to communicate through your body.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:16 PM
2

'Be yourself'. I know it's sound shitty, but truely, when you want to fuck a girl and you're just being nice, you're not being yourself. So man up, let yourself express your sexuality and fuck her.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:12 PM
1

My point was that some newbies don't know shit about what to text. They come up with an 'hello' or 'whats'up' and nobody is having fun. It's just basic logic to make them realize they'd probably be bored as fuck too if they'd recieve such text, and they better start to add value and fun to the way they communicate. I could find very funny to text a girl 'fuck you little shit' out of the blue, but the truth is it'll bring me nowhere. You need to find what you would enjoy texting and what's making…
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:08 PM
2

You live in such a complicated world.
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:01 PM
1

Work on yourself. See yourself as an investment. What do you want to be? A man with more charisma? Look for books, article and vids on the subject. Then try what you learnt and keep what worked for you. You want to be more stylish? Read fashion blogs and look for upcoming trends, then experiment what suits you. You realise you know nothing about the world or politics. Read online newspaper and begin studying some maps. You think you don't eat, drink or sleep healthy enough. Again, check some art…
/r/seduction15/09/15 12:58 PM
1

So true. I would even say the game is about confidence. Confidence to expand, to grow, to try new thing, to ask and go for what you want. That's it.
/r/seduction15/09/15 12:52 PM
2

you already have a solid rapport going on. I fucked a lot of girls months after I got their number or contact info. I had almost no rapport when I met them. Maybe one evening, a few hours or even a few minutes. They weren't all all over me at first, so I took my time. I wasn't needy, pushy or rushing, just chill. They saw congruence in me and they liked that. I totally agree on the chase point through, I wanted to post on the subject as #2 because it made such a shift in my game.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:05 PM
2

True. But by the fact she doesn't know you yet, if you didn't met her through social circle you'll still need to convey this value in a way or the other. And you can convey way more value by expressing yourself than just represent something and waiting for her to chase you. It's like, you give her a taste and then she wants more.
/r/seduction14/09/15 01:26 PM
1

It means dream about what you want to be, then make a concrete plan to achieve this and take action. This applies to women because you'll become more interesting and more attractive, so when you take action with girls your chance of success will improve :)
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:29 PM
1

Fuck them ! They know nothing about you. You can't derive your sense of self from others.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:11 AM
1

Ok thanks man.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:09 AM
1

'Perhaps my textgame is shitty, maybe I'm too direct with setting up a date.' Yes. In my experience you need a bit of small talk just to convey you're happy, confident and outgoing before actually meeting girls. Also 'date' is a bit connoted. You should try 'hang out' or integrate them in an activity you were going to do anyway.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:07 AM
1

It'll make you look desesperate, as a redittor below said. Rather has something saying : hi, let's party or anything more positive.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:01 AM
1

I thought at first it was another post complaining about how being introverted should prevent success with women. Good job bro ! I really like the 'being in environments i feel comfortable in'. You should expand your comfort zone yes but when it comes to picking up women you should do what works for you, there's no right or wrong way. Great stuff.
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:57 AM
1

Just run into your room haha. I did the same this week because my roomate knew a girl I was bringing home and we didn't want us to be caught. Say wathever excuse about you not wanting to see your roomates today. Or even better, come at night and say let's go to my room to be more still and don't awake them.
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:38 AM
1

Thanks! I was feeling really grateful and happy when I posted this
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:35 AM
1

Just drop at somepoint that you're someone who's really free and like it this way. Also say you're young and cannot really think about engagement because of your lifestyle and all the things you want to explore. Girls will understand and love you for that if you're being congruent. Even if they don't share your point of view, they'll respect you for being honest and a man of integrity.
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:33 AM
1

What i'd advise you to do is to become the best yourself you can be, and then develop and 'open to sex' attitude with girls. This way, girls will begin to gravitate towards you and you'll just have to make things happen by creating opportunities for you and them to move things forward. I answered more in detail about approach in the comment above, I'll let you check this out :) EDIT : I want to share more with you because I feel like we can relate. Try for some time watching TONS of RSD videos, …
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:31 AM
2

I would say that through the past years I went from a subjective 7 to a subjective 9. I'm ten in my mind. Because truely, nobody will ever be happy with the way they look, so better accept that, do your best and assume you're the shit regardless of your flaws. I'm no subjective 10 yet to me, because I'm still a little boyish, which doesn't bother me because it fits to my current student lifestyle. And to be honest, except a bit of workout, facial hair that grew and a bit more style in my clothes…
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:27 AM
2

I developed the habit of starting casual conversations with people around me. When it's girls and things go well, I either escalate or state it would be nice to see them again and look for a way to keep in touch (number, facebook, or sometimes i just ask them where they hang out and know i can bump into them again at this or this place). Most of the girls I have seen were just girls I at somepoint decided to talk to, regardless of whether they were friends I knew, friends of friends, girls I wou…
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:11 AM
2

You think people have to like you in order to like yourself. In fact, that's the exact opposite.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:45 PM
1

Fun and confident. Not so much reactive. Very physical. Quite into deep talks. Expressing sensuality by taking my time, space and moving a bit slower yet with more decisiveness than people usally do.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:43 PM
1

Then have some bigger problem man ! What is a girl you didn't even met in real life compared to your life and aspirations ? Fuck this girl ahaha. Really ! And fuck your ego that need validation. You are better than that and you know it.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:39 PM
1

Awesome that you admit it to yourself, and go past jealousy. It's good to let us be inspired by other men. My advice would be : do what he does. Find schemes in his behavior and habits he has and integrate them in your life. Do your salsa baby and you'll stay authentic while becoming the ultimate panties wetter you want to be.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:35 PM
0

As someone once said, if you can't genuinely say you weren't taking advantage of a girl that was drunk, you'd better haven't had sex with her. Past this point, alcohol is made to help people have fun and ease social interactions, so don't overthink it. Also just in case, never use physical strength or go on after a clear 'no' (=no with cold body langage, and/or negative emotions behind it). EDIT : I made a misprint between 'can' and 'can't'. Now my comment has a sense.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:28 PM
3

Do you fuck some of them ? I'm not bitching I'm really genuinely asking.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:20 PM
2

Do you think a lion will masturbate ? Bitch please. Be a fucking lion and go hunt some chicks if you want pussy.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:18 PM
-2

You went about 470 days and all you could think about was still sex ?! You weren't addicted to fap, you were addicted to sex. I'm serious. You just went from an addiction to another. And put the pressure for it on your girlfriend. That's fucked up. Sorry if it hurts, I went through the same at one point. But go past it, it's really worthy. You'll cease to treat women as a sex objects wich is HUGE for both your pick-up skills and the connexion you'll have with them.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:16 PM
1

It made a dramatic difference for me in the way that I was forced to escalate and move thing forward if I wanted little Mi5ery to feel satisfied. And NO it won't make you cum easier, quite the contrary actually. I was very surprised of experimenting this. You'll last longer because you're not acustomed to cuming anymore. But also be more excited wich is fucking nice to get pussy. Also you'll have so much more willpower to achieve things if you were addicted to porn or fap.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:09 PM
1

Do the 90% - 10% technique. Greet her, get closer and then look deep in her eyes with a smile. She'll then have the choice to do whatever she's comfortable with at the moment. Plus, staring at her confidently will often make her want to kiss you. You put the pressure on her.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:02 PM
0

Then know they're attracted to you.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:58 PM
2

Be present, THRIVE, engage. This will prevent you from overthinking and you'll develop habits that will become a second nature to you. As other redditors said, the thing you think "bad boys" have is unquestioned confidence, boldness and unashamed sexuality, something anyone can achieve with enough willpower to take actions.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:53 PM
5

Man, you tried. There's nothing to feel bad about it. Sometimes girls use you, and sometimes you do, sometimes both do it and sometimes both are being honest, nice, and aware it's a win-win situation.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:49 PM
0

Then why did you asked?
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:44 PM
1

Really try to understand and listen to the person you're talking to. Build healthy habits focused on learning.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:41 PM
1

You need to expand on every aspect of your life at the same time if you wanna see progress. The strength of the chain is always the strength of the weakest link. Maybe you should add pick-up boot camps and technique to your lifestyle, or at least go out fucking regulary and talk to girls a lot with a clear intent of seducing them.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:39 PM
1

You can make moves and still not chase. You demonstrate value, then offer her a chance to be part of your world by hanging with you, and if she doesn't take it, no problem. You can do it quite a few time and yet still respect yourself and you're still not chasing. You do it because you enjoy her presence. Chasing is getting worried about her wanting you, about her replying to your text, trying to have her react, making too much of concessions or efforts to get her.
/r/seduction09/09/15 03:10 PM
110

It's up to you to go from cute to hot. Man up. Stop bitching and complaining. Amplify your sexual vibe. Desire hard. Develop penetrating eye contact. Be unashamed of yourself, your desire or your sexuality. You seems like a frustrated child. My comment is not meant to get you hurt, but to help you grow.
/r/seduction09/09/15 01:34 PM
2

You covered the value part -and made an amazing summary, thanks man. But I would add that for a girl to chase you, you have to let her room to do so. Someone's gonna chase. You can't chase her and expect her to do the same. This is key.
/r/seduction09/09/15 12:37 PM
12

What you should not do Never touch her, and then unexpectedly go for a kiss at the end of the date Be worried about being physical or expressing yourself Take excuse when you know it's the right moment Make too much of a thing of kissing What you should do Brings value Connect with her Be confident in the fact that if a girl spends time with you, she likes you Overcome your fears Be physical Listen to what you want or know it's right Slow down to express sensuality Go for it when a bit of tensio…
/r/seduction08/09/15 11:10 AM
15

7.23 sec exactly.
/r/seduction08/09/15 11:00 AM
1

Value and room for her to chase you.
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:46 AM
1

Maybe you're too much of a dancing monkey in general. Slow down, talk about what genuinely interests you from time to time, open up, don't be afraid to show vulnerability. You set the frame, so if you're always joking, nobody will dare to open up.. I also had this issue, what helped me was to change something on my everyday interactions with anyone, just as I said.
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:45 AM
-1

Let it gooooo.
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:42 AM
2

I just had a fabulous insight ahaha. I always wondered why deep talks i had seemed to attract girls so much. I just found the link with it being confidence. Being confident showing total vulnerabity and honesty. This may have a link with those two girls fascinated by the OP making those interviews confidently.
/r/seduction06/09/15 09:19 PM
1

By being non reactive and bring (text) value. You text what you like or want to, not what the girl would expect from you just to make her happy.
/r/seduction04/09/15 08:13 PM
1

130+ matches for only 4 girls met, 3 KC and 1 FC I don't call this success in my personal view. But thanks!
/r/seduction03/09/15 10:54 AM
1

Make solving puzzles the new trend.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:39 PM
1

I'm a funny confident guy at ease with his sexuality, and i'm also quite into deep talks (but that's my way). I don't care about what people may think of me, and I'm willing to improve and bring value to the life of people surrounding me. I'm non-judgemental. I know I won't get every girl, and I don't wish to : I'll get the girls I'm attracted to AND that are good for me. I came to this point by asking myself how i could be bettering myself on a daily basis, reading a lot of stuff, learning a lo…
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:27 PM
-2

It's impossible. No one ever do that.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:14 PM
2

That's true, keep it clean. I would also say : make it personal, have something to play music, have a large bed if you can afford or find one, be sure it doesn't smell like lion, have condoms stuffed in a few locations, with at least two of them you can reach from your bed.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:13 PM
0

Really true ! Everybody one this subreddit should also be on r/NoFap and vice versa.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:09 PM
1

Great advice
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:08 PM
1

DON'T DERIVE YOUR SENSE OF SELF FROM OTHERS. You should really focus on feeling good on your own, man. How would you a girl to be attracted by you if you are not ? Core confidence is everything you need, and when you'll have that, you'll see all others aspects of your life handled. Build it ! No more excuses! Do whatever it takes ! Stop preventing yourself to become successful with shitty rationalization ! You're here, you learn, you grow : that's great. It's the way it's supposed to be. Focus o…
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:07 PM
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In my experience, I've found myself attracting girls that came from very differents worlds. The truth is, You wanna be the brand. A really high status person will always make you wish to be like them in a way if you're insecure about yourself. he same applies with girls. Stronger frame wins. In this exemple, John just looks like a chode. Check out Tyler's video for more on the subject.
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:15 AM
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Your perception defines your reality. Great job man.
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:14 AM
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I was in that position for sure during a part of our relationship. I really had to change my mindset, wich I did. This chick made me grow so much, and made me discover so much that it's really hard to stay grounded I'm aware of it. Now I'm not questioning the position in our relationship and what I can do about it anymore, I'm seriously asking myself if she's a type of girl for me. And that frightens the sh*t out of me, because I love her. I think I don't come from that rescuer frame anymore. I …
/r/seduction27/08/15 03:15 PM
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I discovered that by stoping checking people in the eyes looking for feedback I was becoming more at ease and truely wouldn't give a fuck anymore. Also, stop judging others. Your mind will stop having this habit and eventually you'll stop judging yourself.
/r/seduction27/08/15 01:06 PM
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"You must be hungry.. Let's eat." Pours cupcakes into her throath... "NOO!" Girl dies. Cupcakes : 1. Player : 0.
/r/seduction27/08/15 01:03 PM
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I got 130+ matches on Tinder over a few months use. I texted every girl at least once, even though I wasn't really attracted to all of them. I meet 4 girls IRL, KC two of them, FC the fourth one. I was also really picky. None of the three girls I actually met, even though they were cute and I liked their personality, really attracted me and made me want to hook up again. Huge waste of time if you look at scoring, but my phone game went to sky rocket levels (I usually got the phone number of ever…
/r/seduction27/08/15 12:58 PM
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That's the best advice I recieved too. From a female friend. It means be congruent. Nobody is truely their outgoing, unstifled, best selves. If everybody were, nobody would need help.
/r/seduction16/08/15 08:35 PM
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I agree. Flaking has (almost) nothing to do with text game. You need to make them want you. How do you text girls to receive your desired reaction from them? Girls react to me. I do not seek reaction from them. That's the mindset. Give value, fun, and care less.
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:24 PM
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So happy to hear it ! It's a truth I totally relate to.
/r/seduction16/08/15 01:26 PM
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Thank for your comment. Please mark that I don't view this as a technique. This is an analyze of what I do now naturally and what works for me. Sure you should be in the moment. I'm sorry for you hating so much on this, but I'm not gonna take away anything of what I said, as it could be helpful for others. Obviously, most of people come here precisely because seduction does not come naturally to them, so I tried to described as well as I could what I'm doing, to give them a sense of it. My whole…
/r/seduction16/08/15 01:16 PM
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I can relate. My girl best friend since 14 years would discourage me from making a move on girls I liked in college, not that she wanted my any bad, but in a way of protecting me from being turned down I guess. Well, it still fucked my dating life as I would never get reference experiences since I decide to have it handeled by taking it in my own hands. So, take responsability of your dating life. It's worth it.
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:05 PM
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So true. Always pictured it this way for myself. Like cats they'll go to the most indifferent person in the room.
/r/seduction17/06/15 03:19 PM
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'Don't go in expecting anything. Main goal should always be to have fun and see what happens from there. If you want to kiss her then do it. There is NO reason not try.' I wouldn't have said it better myself. Cheers :p
/r/seduction13/12/13 10:10 AM
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Proceed by imitation. Find great man figures who could become references for you and begin to act like them. You have for sure an idea about how your ultimate alpha male figure is. Figure out wich traits caracterise him and ask yourself 'how would he act now ?'. Then do your best.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:45 PM
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Why don't you just freeze them out? You never now, if you do so they may get in touch again a few months later, or if you meet them accidentaly somewhere you may have your chances again. I find that texting something like 'Ok, I understood you have no interest in me' conveys low value. Instead, assume they weren't worth it, freeze them out and make sure they understand that you offer one chance, maybe two, but not much more, and they will be sure to take it next time. Cheers!
/r/seduction06/12/13 09:43 AM
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