MiaAOT Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is It Just Me?	DISCUSSION	MiaAOT	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 07:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	A goals collage Love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 06:14 AM
5	Amen Claiming it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 09:32 AM
10	I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you! I’ve heard dudes humble brag like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 03:09 AM
13	Pickmes be like, "If I just say the cost of the engagement ring does not matter and confirm that I have no standards, the LVM will finally feel compelled to propose to me" as if that's how it actually works. Subtly lying 2 yourself about accepting bare minimum as "love" won't make him love u harder! If you truly love someone the price of the ring doesn’t matter which is exactly why anyone should go above and beyond and spend a shit ton on it. Women are worth every damn penny!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 01:31 AM
21	What to say when guy asks you out on another date for the next day? Agreed. Get in the habit of communicating that you need at least 3 days notice if he wants to make a plan to do anything. I’m making that a habit with everyone tbh. You’re a busy woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 04:57 PM
8	Ladies, without FDS I wouldn’t even have considered this one. But we’re together for 6 months now and I can confidently say I found my HVM! 🌹 I have similar questions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 01:57 PM
62	I want to hug this poor woman violated by this pornsick scumbag. And then drive her to the police station. She’s 18. She’s not a woman, she’s a child. Even if she was. . . Your comment is harsh. Have some empathy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 07:19 PM
10	Asking men how tall they are before agreeing to a date? If he’s “fudging it a bit” he’s lying to you, and probably shouldn’t be trusted. No promising partner and no partner that meets your general requirements—I’m assuming—would be bothered by that question. You should just ask, cause you can’t control a man’s perception of you. The right potential partner will be unbothered.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 06:02 PM
1	Man tries to get his girlfriend to sell the condo she worked her ass off for so he can take the money and be put on the deed since his is shitty and he can’t benefit from the one solely in her name. He tries to guilt her into selling by slut shaming her since she used stripper money. “Dumbass” though? That’s harsh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 12:21 AM
3	Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?! He contributed absolutely nothing to the conversation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 11:46 PM
19	My sister just got this exciting dude, he asked her on a date and then decided to switch up on her??? Anytime a guy uses pet names I cringe. Mostly, cause it feels so fake. I’ll never be comfortable with forced intimacy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 12:28 PM
5	Is it ok to think that a grown man (30+) dating a teen girl is always worng or am I really just being a judgmental PrUdE? I don't know what to think anymore Always wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 09:39 PM
1	Why is pickmeisha used as a term? When there are clear racial undertones in the word? Pickme.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 02:33 AM
32	Sorry!!!! (Not) guy was so damn thirsty. The projection.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 11:50 PM
9	The truest words my ex has spoken to me after several years of him jerking me around Congrats on all of your accomplishments sis!!! Keep it up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 11:42 PM
2	Girls, we have a lurker 🙂 You’re absolutely right. “Weirdo”was way too kind. Your analysis is spot on. It’s crazy cause I’m almost certain he’s doing a weird kind of projection when throwing around the pedo accusation. It’s just so ass backward but exactly what you would expect. I didn’t check out his posts or anything, but he did come in my inbox. Just blocked him. I don’t have time for that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 05:51 AM
6	Girls, we have a lurker 🙂 He’s a weirdo. He knows you can’t even mention bananas, popsicles, or eggplants when in convo with men without them acting like sick-minded imps. Women didn’t make the rules, we just happen to know what they are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 04:07 AM
1	Do you meet more quality guys compared to east coast? I live in LA and have only met 2 decent men here in my entire life I’m 27. One is gay, and the other is from Harlem.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 03:47 PM
4	How do you work on feelings of inadequacy? Need advice! Awesome advice. Especially the first line of that 2nd paragraph!!! 🔥🔥🔥	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 03:25 PM
14	I fucked up and became too emotionally vulnerable too quickly, and I’m not sure if I should cut my losses and move on or continue. This is really kind advice. ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 06:38 PM
2	Takeaways from the way men drive their vehicles... What is an MVM?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 06:28 PM
1	How to not let men’s disrespect hurt my self esteem? I would say that under any other set of circumstances—i.e. platonic friendship, work colleague, familial relation—you wouldn’t trust someone who is entitled, rude, or inappropriate. So, under dating circumstances you definitely shouldn’t trust them or their perception of you at all. If one of you close girlfriends had written this post in your place, you’d probably be able to tell her that too. You wouldn’t let her believe or internalize a self perception made up of the opinions and attitudes of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 02:00 PM
8	Is a guy [25M] whose friends are mostly attractive women whom he’s previously crushed on but with whom he’s remained friends, is he a LVM? Sis, you know that man is LV. On to the next one asap.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:45 AM
2	A man is charged with raping a minor he met in an over 21 club. The energy that you’re putting into the convo is misplaced because you’re a little more than beside the point. Nowhere was this post concerned about grown women who look like children, you brought that up but it really had nothing to do with the issue at hand. The fundamental intervention being made here is concerned with addressing pedophilia which only children are direct victims of. So, young looking adult women, we’re not talking about y’all right now. Unless your purpose is in-fact to compl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/20 03:45 AM
6	A man is charged with raping a minor he met in an over 21 club. Tbh men should stop engaging in casual sex and one night stands if they feel like they have the ability to put themselves in this position, or if they feel like this is likely. But the story is most likely a lie. It’s hard enough to get men charged under the “perfect” circumstances let alone all of that mess above.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 10:00 PM
9	A man is charged with raping a minor he met in an over 21 club. Kudos sis. The existence of young looking adults, doesn’t change the fact that 15-year-olds look like children. If you look how you described yourself then adult men should feel hesitant about approaching you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 09:57 PM
7	Romanticism has ruined many lives, true love starts with us Beautifully put. ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 05:53 AM
2	On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worth We see you sis! Keep it up!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 09:58 PM
2	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works You shouldn't have to play games. If we gotta resort to what feels like playing games then the person probably isn't the right person for you. We shouldn't want to be with anyone who we feel like we're getting mixed signals from.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 02:21 PM
7	Dude shames her gf for “embarassing” him while giving birth to their child, then ghastlights her and denies everything 🤢 Not gonna lie, you had us in the first half. 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 04:27 PM
2	I Wasn't interested in a girl but caught feelings. Now I’m In the friendzone and want to to get out of it. She probably likes you too. Ask her out on a real date for when you are able to do so safely, pick a day time and place, communicate the details to her when you ask, pay for the date, could also be a picnic date where you plan it well. Done. If you aren’t weird it’ll probably go well.	/r/seduction	17/07/20 01:26 AM
6	Is this a common issue? Guys doing chores/housework badly on purpose so stop asking them to do it... Sooooooooooooooo common! I. See. It. Constantly. Everywhere. All the time. Common. Pervasive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 02:50 AM
1	Do you think him being embarrassed about where his little sister works make him a lvm. A lot of people are calling him the AH in the comments, but I honestly think he isn’t. He may not be HV, but I don’t think he’s trash. What’s your opinions? Agreed. Birds of a feather.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 02:47 AM
1	Do you think him being embarrassed about where his little sister works make him a lvm. A lot of people are calling him the AH in the comments, but I honestly think he isn’t. He may not be HV, but I don’t think he’s trash. What’s your opinions? What even were his concerns?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 02:34 AM
1	When you post hot pics of yourself on insta, a guy from hinge I hadnt spoken to in months returns. I wish I hadn't said sorry Thumbs up! A1 response.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 07:50 PM
1	Help me make sense of this predicament I’ve faced for almost a decade now. This sounds like a pretty normal dating experience, everyone has to keep dating until they find their person. Keep your standards high, don’t settle, and when you person comes along y’all will be on the same page.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 04:00 PM
1	What do you think of snooping partner's phone? If you are having those thoughts, feel like snooping, don’t feel like you can trust him then trust yourself and intuition and leave him. Don’t even waste your time on the heartache.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:56 PM
31	Using specific language to distract from toxic behavior Goes deeper in BDSM spaces they refer to it as “breath play” and hitting as “impact play,” why not call it what it is? What you call it doesn’t change what it is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:52 PM
35	Scrote pretty much ignores a date and then texts oh hey how are you! out of no where. #menactdumbtogetawaywithshit He does know, he just doesn’t care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:49 PM