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| 23 | Integrating dark triad traits + Christianity | MichaelCeraGoneWild | /r/RPChristians | 28/08/20 04:04 AM | |
| 3 | Anyone read "Recovering from Biblical Manhood & Womanhood"? | MichaelCeraGoneWild | /r/RPChristians | 04/09/20 09:26 PM |
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| 1 | Women are like cats: They like getting scratched.Redpill is “dead” because it’s mainstream now. Gen Z has all of this in their vocab now. It won. There’s no need for acting like this is some tucked away corner of the internet. Everything claiming “redpill” now is just trying to claim the brand for something entirely different (or for personal gain). Probably safe for young men reading this to integrate the old stuff and move on with their lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 05:54 PM |
| 5 | After date everything changedYou probably didn’t do anything wrong, she’s just not really interested but likes the attention. Move on 🫡 | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 05:09 PM |
| 10 | How Cheating taught me Game“I’m Catholic so cheating is okay” Hebrews 13:4 you are not Catholic, you are pathetic | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? | Ask TRPFrame doesn’t mean you always get your way, rather that you’re willing to walk away. You don’t need someone else to follow. You are going in a direction and inviting someone to join you or not | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Spiraling, a cry for helpThat’s great about #2. Don’t feel guilty about needing people either. Humility can be our greatest strength for exactly situations like these. Funny, I have a friend who someone once said “he’s got a unibrow but he actually kind of pulls it off?” It’s shitty when someone pokes at an insecurity, even inadvertently. But the best thing you can be, even if you looked like how you want, is to own your shit. Gaslight yourself into appreciating your unattractive features. I don’t know what you look lik… | /r/askRPC | 10/03/23 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Spiraling, a cry for helpI’ve been there. Lot of similarities. For me, a few things to keep in mind eventually helped. 1. In terms of career and goals, it’s good to have goals. If you’re struggling to reach your goals, then make them smaller until you do - even laughably small. Eg send ONE email offering your services, or sign up for a course that will teach you a skill you want. Anything that lets you tangibly mark progress. For faith, it sounds like you’ve got a good roommate. Most important thing here is finding peop… | /r/askRPC | 10/03/23 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Why you should not put women on a pedestal.Red pill communities are dead because weirdos treat it like a religion. OP says “here’s a useful mental heuristic” and autists screech like they need a modus ponens logical flowchart Instead of being so easily disagreeable, they could’ve added some of the reasoning themselves they said this lacked?? Eager to be right instead of being useful | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/23 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Girl on my church started to pretend we are dating.Who knows? Ask her why she said that but keep it lighthearted. Eg “so i heard we’re dating now” with a laugh Keep it simple. If she flirts back, keep it going | /r/askRPC | 27/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How to handle wife of 10 yrs who wants to go tell my family instead of reconciling arguments with me firstFinally a sane comment. Being a doormat isn’t Christlike, and thankfully you advocate for genuine wisdom and not unconditional suffering in a false sense of servant leadership, which seems to be the direction several other comments point to. | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Does the whole "Ask the fisherman not the fish" thing limit useful discussion on this sub?Forget all those rules. There’s only one and it hasn’t failed me. Is the person giving the advice hot (woman or man)? If not, discard opinion. Not memeing, this cuts out 90% of advice which is usually crap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Wife is flirting with Daughter's gradeschool teacher online.For those downvoting - I suggest you read your Bible, particularly Matt 18. Go to the person in sin (he did), if they won’t listen bring in another, and if they won’t listen still bring it to the elders If you’re pressed because I suggested a woman, lol do you think she’s more receptive to two dudes talking to her or another woman who will reprimand her? Y’all gotta use your heads | /r/RPChristians | 23/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Wife is flirting with Daughter's gradeschool teacher online.The moment she refused to show you messages is the moment you needed to bring in another church leader, preferably a female one who will tell her to sort her mess out If she refuses, go to the elders. It is not overreaction. The messages may be tame but not wanting to show you her communication with a man she’s fantasizing about is as big a red flag as you’ll ever get. This could be your last warning before something even more serious happens (maybe with someone else who isn’t the teacher, bc sh… | /r/RPChristians | 22/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 0 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?Based and no-pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 5 | My Church has no girls my ageFast-forward 5 years and nothing changes. What will you wish you had done? | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?In my experience, the better you get at putting up with BS, the less you have to. The BS will show up very very subtly before you even have an actual relationship. Nip it then and then once you’re together it will be hella smooth. Underneath it all, she just wants to know she can trust you to lead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 43 | Game Is Not About Getting Women... It's About Gaining The AdvantageYeah go out and fuck up a bunch and push yourself to be 5% uncomfortable every time | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?Def subtle. Like when she starts complaining after you say you’re hanging out with friends that night. No arguing, the argument is what she wants, not to be right Just saying “you can feel however you want, I’m spending time with friends. See ya” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:38 AM |
| 4 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?Not Op, but a dude who puts up with bullshit Gotta call that out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:28 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone run a "Red Pill" type course for men at their church?Great initiative. One thought to add is the primacy of leadership. That’s the stand-in word for “alpha.” The first task is to lead oneself. The second is to lead one’s family, if you have one. In case of pushback, creating leaders would be a good way to pitch it to other elders. Strong men create strong families. And if your church is like any other in the west, there is a lack of single men, and this kind of program would have strong retention and attraction for them. | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Should Christian's take antidepressants?Do you have folks to help, or at least encourage you on the journey? Other men as peers, or leaders you look up to? | /r/askRPC | 20/02/21 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Looking for Help and Council from Righteous Men (or Women)Maybe try a real church (that believes jesus is God and not on equal spiritual footing with satan - yes Mormonism considers them originally equals). A church that follows the nicene creed to start | /r/RPChristians | 19/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Should Christian's take antidepressants?If EVERYONE is telling you to take them, it is strongly worth considering. But it’s serious, so talk to a doctor and tell them exactly what you said - you want stitches, not a bandaid. Another thought: if you do go in, go in with a plan to be OFF them eventually. What another poster said, maybe you feel depressed bc you have a depressing life. Or as J Peterson said, “you’re not depressed, your life just sucks.” The plan to get off is (1) identify areas A, B, and C (usually body, career, and a ro… | /r/askRPC | 19/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Would you wear a mask in church?based | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Dating Scene in the ChurchDude, super interesting thought with the passive dread. I will 100% endorse that for worship leaders, since it's associated with rockstar status. The husband structure was just the story formula mentioned at the end of the Dalrock post: Of the two, the Husband Structure is the one we most commonly see today, albeit generally omitting item E or replacing it (and often D) with the wakeup call. A. Husband lives with virtuous wife B. Husband is a drunkard/gambler/wife-beater C. Wife and children suf… | /r/askRPC | 13/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating Scene in the ChurchInteresting article. I just sent that to my old pastor to see what he'd say. I've never been one for Christian media but it's pretty funny to read the Husband Structure like that. It's like the blue pilled hero's journey | /r/askRPC | 13/02/21 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating Scene in the ChurchMy old pastor, who I really respect, is a blue pilled alpha. He has wondered out loud several times why (in his estimation) women are more spiritual than men. This was, and still is, a very masculine-oriented church, to the point that it used to be a pretty big complaint from some of the women. Like, a cussing on stage kind of place, but theologically extremely orthodox. Part of me thinks that because the pastor is very alpha and got married very young that it makes it harder for him to sympathi… | /r/askRPC | 09/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Correct. That said, woman have unfair advantages within their competition around looks since they have options around makeup, surgeries (which is shockingly a lot more common than I thought) fashion options. Men technically have many of these options, but realistically...no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Dating Scene in the ChurchThis one. I know loads of single men and women. Most of them reject each other lol. Both groups “fine” but not actually hot. No one wants to say that though, especially in tight communities. Not-hot people date all the time, they just walk through a bit more shit to get there. Usually adjusting to their own hotness level over time, just like in any other social group. Also, I went to a church years ago that was exactly the kind of place that told guys to “man up” and start asking out more women.… | /r/askRPC | 08/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 31 | Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons./thread I’m glad this comment is at the top | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 15 | A ‘Masculinity Crisis’? China Says the Boys Are Not All RightNot wrong. Also diamond hands bröther | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?)Awesome. A helpful question might be “can I see this woman as the mother of my children?” That’s been clarifying af for me in my dating life. | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/21 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?)You say you don’t want to spin plates, but that’s exactly what you’re doing by dating four women. To take a different tack than everyone else here, ask yourself “are my actions getting me closer to my goal of marriage or not?” Going on dates with lots of women, even simultaneously, can definitely get you closer. Then there comes a point (3-month mark?) where you essentially know if this is someone you want to pursue things further with or let them go. You DEFINITELY know by 6 months. If you know… | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is just the logical conclusion of a low sex drive and high sexual risksWell said and happy cake day b | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How to vet for virgin woman quickly without wasting time?This. Use a 1 rep max calculator and edit with your actual stats: https://strengthlevel.com/one-rep-max-calculator | /r/RPChristians | 20/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women are creatures of the presentCurious - what's her cultural background? Religious, traditional...? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?wanted this, thought I got it a couple times, wasn't the case. now doubtful it truly exists, so why not just go all out the other way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 3 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?Well that's the realest thing ever said on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Does RPMen and RPWomen have views regarding women supporting their men that are kinda opposed to each other?If you subscribe to the “beauty and the beast” paradigm where a man is wild by nature, and a charming enough woman essentially tames him, then no they don’t necessarily contradict. How true the paradigm is is another question. Def true for some people (I’ve personally witnessed it) but not a perfect analogy for all, or even most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Imagine being a women who struggles with datingThis is what I tried to communicate to my female friends struggling with dating. When they gave off that vibe, the only men who approach are either (1) guys unaware of social cues, or (2) guys who are aware but think “no” means “try harder.” Gave up trying to help them because it got nowhere lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Questions about escalationGood self-assessment. A pastor told me once how your wife either doubles the potency of your ministry or cuts it in half. Be wise as a serpent and your wife can help you have an even more powerful ministry | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Imagine being a women who struggles with datingBased and selfawarepilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women love men of all ages and men never become invisible or unappealing to women after a certain age, but men are attracted to youth and women after a certain age become unappealing to them and invisible?I don’t think it would be, but any attractive trait all comes down to reproductive success. Men can reproduce for a long time. Women have a shorter window, so men are attracted to traits associated with that window. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | How do you interpret 1 Peter 3:7?It means the husband has more power—therefore he should use it gracefully, not tyrannically. | /r/askRPC | 05/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 88 | Greetings brothers, just broke up with ltrI notice guys tend to feel the pain of this later on than women, so don't feel badly if you feel totally fine and then in 3 weeks you randomly feel like shit. You'll be alright. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 13 | How to respond to a girl who takes days to reply? Basically a ghost who comes back ?It’s only a game if you keep letting yourself get played | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to build a simple and versatile wardrobe?Hire a stylist and tell them you want a versatile wardrobe. Then you won’t have to think about it each day | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In 3 Minutes (infield)Just ask her out and keep it super casual and light. Drop a simple "hey let's get dinner." Did that this week with a girl I've known for years | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manhey man, off topic but black male in london "Ok dude..." ...Zuby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Should you not be plates with a whore?"High value girls" don't let themselves be plates. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Christian roommate refuses to be alone with a girl, pressures me to chaperoneLol what? No, brother. No. If he thinks it’s wrong to be alone with a woman in a room, he needs to either find her another place to stay or tell her not to come at all. If his standards for dating require a chaperone, and he’s not willing to make the financial sacrifice to make it happen because it’s a “waste of money” then he’s not serious about dating her. If you actually wanted to chaperone for him, that would be very generous of your time. But you are under 0.0% obligation. | /r/askRPC | 14/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Plate was attacked by random dudeDid she or anyone call the police? Obviously she trusted you enough to say what happened. If it were me, I would've strongly encouraged her to talk to the police, or done it myself if I knew who the guy was. You don't attack someone else on accident. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Overweight WomenIn general, no, it’s not attractive. I’ve been attracted to slightly overweight women if they carry it well on their body and have genuinely pleasant personalities. Unfortunately many are insecure and overcompensate with bad attitudes, which doesn’t help. It’s also a bit of a red flag for a potential LTR because it tells me they’ll probably let themselves go even more once they’re settled into a relationship. Tbh I still think big hips are great if the waist is thin. Any body type is good with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 05:23 AM |
| 0 | How to be more douchey/cocky?If you have to ask... | /r/askTRP | 03/11/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Is redpill toxicAnything that makes you take most of the responsibility in life is healthy. Anything that makes you place most of the fault or responsibility on others is toxic. Both exist in RP world. Like the other comment said, think for yourself. Chew the meat, spit out the bones. It’s sad if someone young gets bitter so quickly. Be bold, not bitter! | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about ending LTR of 3 years for seemingly no good reason. Perspective bros?Lol is this real? Imagine this same story but genders reversed this is like one of those stories where a woman leaves the dude out of nowhere and then he gets red/blackpilled maybe try, I don't know, talking to her?? FOH with talking to someone else instead dealing with what's right in front of you first. resolve your current situation (one way or another) before moving on | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Am I doing all I can at 19 to be a high value man?absolutely the best answer here. quality friends make or break your life | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Ease my mind bro’sThis is what dudes who are trying to fuck all the time overlook. Plating works on lower quality women. If you fuck casually enough STIs are inevitable (some more treatable, some less so) and high quality women won’t want to be with someone with STIs lmao | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I give off a better vibe and more of a ‘bro’ aura?Simple: how much fun are you having in convos? If you WANT to laugh and joke more, you can. Paradoxically, if you’re not afraid of not being “neutral” and having a brand of humor, you’ll probably appeal to more people. Just be a brand you actually like that what you attract the right kind of people | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck happened to this sub?Yup. WSB used to be the best. Then PCM (teetering on the edge). If it gets too popular, it starts to appeal to lowest common denominator | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I have a Question about Chinese Footjobswell it doesn't work if you're only using one foot | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I have a Question about Chinese Footjobsyou know it's bad when fuckboychad tells you you're too horny | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 11 | "Wow you're quick" after date proposal"or we could talk for three weeks and then have the convo slowly fade away" whatever, just have fun with it | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Is John Eldredge considered red-pill by this community?What? When did he have an affair? What interview are you even talking about? | /r/askRPC | 25/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?The bar is a good shout! Aye, gonna make a pit stop in Sweden first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 3 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?I mean more meeting new people while out. You can come in with someone and sit together, but I’m tired of meeting folks through apps and wanted to meet someone organically. Might just be time to go to a country that’s actually open! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 7 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?Where is here? People “out” in Denver still get seated separately so it’s not quite natural to walk up to another table and strike up a convo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To ItJust ask her to keep the mask on during your date. Keep the mystery alive | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | My first and only girlfriend really messed my head up - does the pain ever really go?If you do nothing, the pain remains. If you take aggressive action on your life (in all areas) the pain will starve and you'll find joy. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Fourth Generational Warfare: How Women Are Being Weaponized Against You And What You Can Do About ItSeasteading my man. The sooner this gets off the ground, the sooner a (theoretically) untouchable bastion of freethinking will survive. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 7 | Fourth Generational Warfare: How Women Are Being Weaponized Against You And What You Can Do About ItEverything I disagree with is autism | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I just landed a really high paying job as a 21 yo, and I need to know what to do.Also look into having beekeeping on your farm. Another huge tax advantage. I think Bon Jovi took advantage of that and only had to pay $100 on his huge farm, lol. Also, congrats man. You're right, don't tell your friends or family what you make, but accept personal satisfaction in what you've earned. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it bluepilled to want to be a Tradcon with a huge family?Church, or church-adjacent groups. Next bet is finding someone from a culture who wants lots of kids (e.g. Latina, NOT urban yuppie who never wants to leave NYC). Don't get married without a prenup and you're golden. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Ex Plate Claim she’s Pregnant, I think she’s lyingAugust 13th she says she had her period. Oh, show's over. She's lying about your paternity. Contacts you over a month later? IF she's not lying, then she had sex within that month, missed her period Sept ~13th or whatever, took a test, and thought "oh shit, I don't remember who it was/he's a deadbeat, but I still have azxander's number!" She's probably texted the other 3+ guys she's slept with in the last month and told them she's pregnant. Keep receipts of her earlier texts saying she had her p… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Christians and Churches in EuropeChurches can be great (or not), but real “church” is a community of believers. If you’re new, you definitely need someone to disciple you. From the Bible itself, the way “being a Christian” is done is by imitating someone else who does it well. Every believer needs that (few do it). I would only commit to a community where you have someone who will specifically disciple YOU. I like vineyard churches. But any denomination can have a mixed experience depending on the specific group. What country a… | /r/RPChristians | 10/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Top-tier post. Great insight. inb4 "but you have to have looks for initial attraction!!!" no, you just need that initial conversation somehow. If you're doing it through apps only, yeah you're fucked lmao. If you're meeting people like a normal human, just bring your natural charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed women being extra friendly and pleasant right before they are about to do something fucked up?Based | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 11 | Have you noticed women being extra friendly and pleasant right before they are about to do something fucked up?Don't read into the names - quarterback is the traditional leader of the team in American football, since they're the ones that take the hike and throw the ball, and also can call the play (if the coach gives them room to). Linebacker is a defensive position, and their job is typically to rush the line and tackle the running backs (and some receivers). Just American football names. No idea why each is called each. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Total Chad move in the club....advice?frame BTFO | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Anyone read "Recovering from Biblical Manhood & Womanhood"?Thank you for the thoughtful answer. I am neither endorsing nor critiquing the book as I have not read it, but I appreciate you making the proper effort to give a meaningful, reasoned response. Honestly, a little disappointed with many of the empty, upset responses like the one saying "this is from demons" with nothing of substance. Critique is great, just back it up. I'm not an enemy lol, I'm on this sub! And this sub is as close to a midrash as I'm probably going to find. | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/20 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Men are better at seeing a person's intentions in dating, than women.It's the exact same insecurity for men and women. Men starved of attention will still take a poor form of it. Mature men know how to spot time-wasting women. Mature women also know how to spot time-wasting men. Maturity is a minority, which is why OP thinks men are better at it, when really it's uncommon to find maturity in most men or most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Overcome Your Fear of Beautiful WomenFor sure. It's like celebrities—once you can "have it all" you often realize what you actually want, which may look nothing like what everyone else wants. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm feeling extremely good today, and I've written everything that comes to my mind in this blissful state.Right on. Love #6. | /r/RPChristians | 30/08/20 07:45 PM |
| 9 | How would you guys proceed if this happened to you?Wow, man. Keep up with yourself right now. This is not the time for "resolution" just realization. Don't fight any emotions that come. Just fight to acknowledge them. The dust is still in the air. Once it settles, then you'll have clarity to make any decisions and next steps. Your mom may deserve some blame, but maybe not. Now isn't the time to make that decision. But if you feel that anger, that's totally okay. It's all about you for the next few weeks. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Integrating dark triad traits + ChristianityI like this a lot. "Love your neighbor as yourself." If you do not love yourself, you will not love your neighbor. This lesson seems truer the more I see. I.e. the people I see without any sense of self-worth don't truly act out of love for others—they typically act out of the need for validation, either from the person they're "loving" or from their own belief that being good means they're worth something. No greater love than to lay down your life for a friend. That means your life was the mos… | /r/RPChristians | 30/08/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Integrating dark triad traits + ChristianityThanks for the response. I'd love to hear more about your understanding of scriptural reasons to be dangerous. | /r/RPChristians | 29/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 4 | How can I improve my looks?• Shave • Hair. Look up styles for your hair type/length. • High-quality, fitting clothing. No more loose T-shirts. You can be skinny and still look good if the clothes fit. Everyone else said lift, and that's cool. Most important by far is attitude. Lifting helps with that, but strong masculine attitude is based on whether you feel you are in control of your life. Do things that make you feel that way. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Finally found abundance and self resepctMacho is a half-joke, not worth getting riled over, and not worth caring if your gf laughed. It's just teasing. Your friend's follow-up seems different. That seems like more of an actual insult. And if that's when you're girlfriend laughed, you're right to call it out (though I hope you did it tactfully, for your sake). Seems like a bit much to break up over, but you said in a comment there was more context, so hey. The only way is forward. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | There needs to be time limits on dating if we want to encourage people to marry.Correct. But you can logic your way out, which is half the purpose of dating: finding out who and what is not for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Integrating dark triad traits + ChristianityQuality answer. Love this. | /r/RPChristians | 28/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Girl confessed her feelings to me, I’m not interestedAgreed. A girl expressed interest in me 4 months ago. Politely turned her down. Now she's engaged. Yes, really. But no hard feelings between us! But the friendship naturally wound down after that anyway. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome apathy as a young man?The only real answer | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 38 | Why does taking sex off the table work?Wtf, top tier answer. Genuine wisdom. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 25 | Gf giving guys her snapchat thru instagram DMsFrom the streets she did emerge, and to the streets she will return. 🙏🏼 | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 04:08 AM |
| 10 | I finally did a cold approachYou’re further than you were last week. You’re winning. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Dating: you are inviting her to join you on an epic adventureConfidence every time | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 92 | Too red or too blue? I ditched her at the club to go the carnivalThis is fucking hilarious. You do you man. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Is this breakup a test?Lots of talk and no solutions. It was essentially giving her ammo to talk about with our mutual friends. Straight up lies about what I had said in those conversations. Context: she had previously created issues out of nothing earlier in the relationship. The break up started with one of those, but this time I just said OK instead of fighting. So then we broke up. But because she didn’t expect me to break up, she then flipped and tried to get me back. It was always about who was controlling the r… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Is this breakup a test?Been there, only got worse when I started responding. She’s craving drama and conflict. Notice she’ll do all this rather than say what she’s really thinking. It’s a game. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Modern Day "Christianity" is worse than feminism when it comes to gender roles and totally useless for single menMost men I’ve met in Christian circles tend to funnel into either “nerdy” or overly-charismatic-to-the-point-of-desperate. There are certainly exceptions, but those two demos seem to outpace so many others. Have you witnessed this? Do you have any thoughts on why this seems to be a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Dave Ramsey and the epidemic of fake "TradCon" Christians who Apply gender roles only to men but absolve them from women: Are they worse than feminists?Maybe “southern” is a better name for it? I notice guys in the south more easily spout the blue-pilled alpha points. But bc the south has more Christian-ish culture, they often wrap it up in that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Dave Ramsey and the epidemic of fake "TradCon" Christians who Apply gender roles only to men but absolve them from women: Are they worse than feminists?No no, you don’t understand. You gotta live like no one else so you can live like no one else ;))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 12:19 AM |
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