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This one tried to friend zone me. Said she wanted me in her life for the long haul. Fuck that shit. How old are you man? Im 29 and I'm only getting to learn this truly as Ive been avoiding this whole scene due to my baggage which im chippin away at
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:41 AM
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I feel I am progressing. I've realised that it is indeed myself who is responsible for attracting these types of women. I've read that someone who had a neglectful mother, tend to go for the same type of women as mother in order to "get things right" this time around. I've arranged some EMDR therapy for myself as I believe im carrying trauma from childhood, which in turn makes me attract and be attracted to these sorts of women. Is there any particular moments in which you realised you had broke…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 07:09 PM
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I believe he was neglectful in this case. And from the beginning, to expand on your point, I did feel a sense of comfort from early on. Luckily I have been working on myself with a psychologist and knew that this was a potential sign of me having an abandoner on my hands. I've been burnt before so I had my guard up sufficiently this time to not trigger my abandonment issues when she withdrew. Before I would have found fault with myself and play shrink with her, but I know this is a fruitless end…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 11:37 AM
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This thread is epically useful for me at this moment in time. I was seeing a chick lately her didnt have a good thing to say about her father. After we fucked for the 1st time she began to withdraw and I had to propose going our seperate ways. I feel its fear of intimacy, I have issues with intimacy too due to a psycho mother growing up, so this is another lesson in not ignoring the things discussed here. Thanks guys.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 06:03 AM
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My mother is a BPD, never diagnosed officially but my sister is in mental health and is certain she is BPD. These people are a vortex of negativity that sucks the life out of your soul, having one as a mother is a rather difficult situation to deal with from such a young age, having the choice to avoid these people is a great thing rather than than being the child of one.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:25 AM
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Sounds like you still have some residual trauma from the break up you described. It sucks big time when someone sh1ts on your character like that, you wouldn't be normal if that didnt get to you one way or another. I've felt the same whem seeing an ex that things ended badly with, luckily you had a gym to expend that energy away in.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:48 PM
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5 foot brunettes with daddy issues and highly manipulative traits.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:06 AM
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Ghosting will say that equally. You saying it's done when she has already said that, will come across as stupid as she's the one that has control here, because you've given it to her continuously.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 02:10 PM
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Robert Glover: drglover.com Susan anderson: abandonment.net Good luck with torturing yourself and being a beta orbiter buddy
/r/askTRP20/03/17 09:56 PM
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Yeah so clearly this woman is a validation whore cunt. You were an option of many for her it seems. Susan Anderson has a website, check it out she has several books. Robert Glover wrote "no more mr nice guy". He has a website with a forum, I'd recommend you join it. The reason why it would prolong it is the same way picking a scab prolongs a scab. You'll keep jumping back to square 1 in regards to moving on/getting over this bitch, every time you communicate with her.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:09 PM
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If i'm brutally honest with you. You're gonna be suffering either way, if you message her you're going to prolong it. She probably is back with him, classic branch swing. Have you been reading the side bar? Have you looked at Robert Glover or Susan Andersons work? She's a therapist specific to abandonment. Also, what red flags did this girl show, besides fucking you when she has a boyfriend?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:09 PM
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Exactly, you're not exactly in a rational place right now. This cunt knows she has you by the balls. If you did anything like that you'd be the bad guy and you'd end up feeling worse than you're feeling now. Angers good though, it beats apathy, just don't seek revenge. The guy shes with is in for being fucked over too in time, if that makes you fell any better,
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:55 PM
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Why do you want her back? Even if you did get her back, she'd do the same thing down the road. Bitches are fickle as it is. The similarities between your situation and the one I had recently is not surprising. People are people (women are women), its clear your suffering, stop giving your self respect to this bitch, you've already given her enough of it. Are you angry about this shit at all?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:26 PM
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You should ghost her because she doesn't give a flying fuck about you, and another man is sucking her titties etc If you keep getting in touch with her you'll attain status of orbiter, but it seems you already have. You've become the very thing her former ex was when she left him for you. This chick has done the same thing to you that she did to him.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:16 PM
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If you can get 1 like that you can get another. 9 months? That's gonna take probably as long to move on from realistically. Wiser men than me have advised you to ghost this girl. Delete her number etc. I'm guessing your in/from the US? Plenty of hot bimbos in that place man. I'm guessing your in your early 20's, this is a valuable learning experience, you'll realize that about a year from now.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:55 PM
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Revenge fantasies are normal, but they'll only make things worse if you follow through. It pisses me off that hot bitches can walk away from what they've created scott free. But they'll bring themselves down eventually, this bitches looks will fade aka end up as a single mother on welfare lol How long were you dating her for?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:41 PM
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She hasn't messaged cause the other guy is probably balls deep in her man. Sorry to be so blunt, the girl you thought you knew was a projection of what you want in a woman, she never existed. How long were seeing her for?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:20 PM
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It would be helpful if you went to a few therapy sessions man. Posting here can only get you so much. This girl sounds like a manipulative cunt. That message she sent you was a way of pushing you away and reeling you in at the same time. I've been there, you're already enmeshed with this bitch. Listen to these guys, no contact, it'll probably take months until you feel like yourself again. That whole thing with the ex, she's created a triangle to stroke her massive ego and is playing both of you…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 11:19 AM
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The 6 pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Branden
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:17 PM
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I'm also in Belfast man, how bout that?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:37 PM
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The ship has long sailed. I haven't seen this chick in a couple of months. Turned out to be a slut too, pretty sure she has BPD as well. I got roped into her dramas/moods and lost my sense of self for the month we were hooking up. Who knows if she was looking for another bang, or just trying to use me for validation like quicklogaccount said. Its probably the former.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 08:46 PM
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How do you mean by feeler text?
/r/askTRP01/12/16 08:04 PM
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I recently saw a 23 year woman who I was fucking, keep her ex as an orbiter in order to get lifts, the trash took out, and basic emotional tampon duties. The coldness of it all shook me to the core, the guy was declaring his undying love, she used false hope against him in order to get these things.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:21 PM
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Agreed. Unfortunately the last chick I was with was a mega Hoe, however, her blowjob skills were terrible, go figure.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 11:16 PM
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Unnatural colored hair (Blue, Green etc) Tons of male friends Seems to have only a few female friends Lets you raw dog on 1st date Can relate most situations to story about someone they used to "Date" Absent or love/hate relationship with father. Very outgoing/social On medication for some sort of mental health problem. Angry/violent I experienced all of these with 1 chick this past fall, turned out to be a ultra Hoe. Also, TRUST your intuition. I didn't and learned the painful way.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:08 PM
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This same scenario happened to me too in late summer, I worked with the girl (I know, don't shit where you eat). I can totally relate to this, I was seeking more than just a casual sex arrangement. I discovered TRP after the whole thing. In hindsight I was DEEP in BP consciousness. I spent a lot of time at hers over the month we were seeing one another, I stayed over many times, which I think was a mistake too. I got too attached and literally over night she went cold and aloof, along with serio…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:50 PM
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I've recently found TRP in the last month or so and I can relate to this. I'm going between relief at seeing the truth about women, and despair/sadness at having to let go of my previous false beliefs/assumptions in regards to them. I think also that I've been naive in thinking that women are just like me in regards to the way I think and see the world. Clearly this has set me up for many falls. As I approach 28, I'm glad I've been woken up, but also disappointed that I didn't find it sooner.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:03 PM
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When I boxed and had to make weight, I would but a shit load of chewing gum. Chew lots of it and spit the saliva it produced into a cup, this will help you get the lbs off. I wouldn't recommend taking anything like clenbuterol or ephedrine however.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:12 AM
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Thanks for the input man. Yeah, looking back, I can see clearly that it was simply a bit of summer fun, which I perhaps got too caught up in. And in regards to emotions/feelings, I think your right, they don't mean anything unless you attach meaning to them. I'm going to enter monk mode for the next few months. I'm due surgery in a few weeks and Im just gonna focus on getting my shit together, and getting back in shape and learning a martial art. Women can wait until then.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:00 AM
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I have been passive throughout these experiences. I bought into the saying "It's not meant to be" therefore, I would avoid taking responsibility for the experience each time. I have realized I'M the common denominator in all of this and I'm now at a stage where I know I need to finally learn from all this and improve myself, otherwise it will continue to happen again and again. I definitely have had a scarcity mentality when it comes to chicks and I therefore ignore red flags, and my intuition, …
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:25 PM
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I recently was on a 1st date, and the girl started mentioning her ex and how "She loved him, but wasn't in love with him" In hindsight I should've got the fuck outta there right then. Instead, we were seeing each other and fucking for about a month, and literally overnight she lost interest and ditched me. She is now back with the ex, but I don't envy him, this chick is certified fuckin crazy.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:52 PM
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Thanks for the input. In hindsight I should've got out of there on the 1st date. But because I hadn't got my dick wet in a longggggg time, I ignored many red flags. I have a knack in my limited dating history of getting girls who are "Damaged goods", almost all of them have given me a similar speech to the one she did about being damaged.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:28 PM
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