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Yet Elliot Rodger types still couldn't lose virginity, despite being murderous psychopaths, so your premise is false. That was a result after not getting laid tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:59 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:53 AM
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Can a lot of women answer that without mentioning their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:52 AM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:51 AM
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the number one thing i would tell my son is to be himself. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:50 AM
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Whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:46 AM
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I haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:56 PM
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Of course they can
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:51 PM
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You can't really state intentions with women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:36 PM
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This shouldn’t be done in a setting where sexual harassment charges could be a problem, though. You mean everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:27 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:24 PM
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Lol I never asked what mentality you've had to adapt. That implies that you try to see things that way. I was asking what exactly do you feel when you see average guys And there's no way you assume that unless you feel the guys you dated are average and they weren't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:51 PM
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So all your other brothers get the same results
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:48 PM
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Y not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:17 AM
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People still have to learn to socialize with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:45 PM
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Basically yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:43 PM
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Any number of reasons. She was only interested in the topic, or maybe she was interested in getting to know you and changed her mind, etc. Woman are just incredibly flaky. A sign of why you should have plenty of options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:39 PM
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It's weird in a way. Don't get me wrong I haven't cleaned my room in months. So my room is a mess. But when living with my sister imma be honest it was kinda weird. I wouldn't clean my room in sometimes a month if I'm being honest. So it was messy. A couple of snack cake wrappers, a couple of soda cans, alot of paper from mail and mostly my clothes be scattered.... Now my sister would alot of the housework but then again her room and her office were 10 times messier than mine. I mean you literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:35 PM
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Yeah you definitely trying to be funny 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:10 PM
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Percentage wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:20 PM
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Exactly. Why you having 3 in HS there are plenty who didn't get their first until probably 25
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:18 PM
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Nah I don't buy that either. The guys who have it easy are always assuming it's easy for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:10 PM
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So then that's about men and their partners, not men and women. Wow 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:55 PM
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Well yeah that a better way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:55 PM
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Men don't usually know when any women are on their periods, If they are dating them they do apart from if it affects their sex life. False. They just might know because you told them Men more often ask a woman if she's on her period because she's angry or upset than actually care about any periods. Half truth. That's not the only reason men would care about those periods
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:50 PM
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Well you were right then. I still find these stats incredibly hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:48 PM
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Why should you be exempt ? Asking the wrong questions I never said nor insinuated? Sure they are. If you sucked, you die, removing your unadaptable/uneducable genes from the pool All organisms are expected to adapt or die Which goes against what you originally said. Which is that they born to do it. I never said that mammals never adapt. I said simply learning to social for men is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:46 PM
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You made previous posts in the past saying most guys are just basically players and just getting sex so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah that doesn't mean they are born to do it. They have to learn how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:41 PM
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I think you are making it confusing. 5plus can be anything. So it would have been more accurate to say between 25 percent have between 5-10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:40 PM
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What actually happens is that nobody cares when a woman is on her period Very untrue. Have you met many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:39 PM
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It is. You would never realize because you are not a man. It's extremely hard for men to learn. And we are not born to do anything but survive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:38 PM
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Because women want the best possible candidate to date/procreate with. They don't like the idea of dating men with the potential to be better. Just want the guys already close to or already at the finish line. And in America being someone who has a wife or gotten laid is a sort of rite of passage for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:37 PM
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It's extremely hard to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:33 PM
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Unfortunately what we feel should happen is not how it actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:28 PM
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Yet men are punished for not being in control? Yes It's funny that sexism only goes one way. It goes both ways. But in this case it favors the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:16 PM
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Where do you see 58 percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:15 PM
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Of their emotions? They are allowed alot of more leeway to not be in control
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:12 PM
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Because men are usually expected to be in control
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:10 PM
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That means the relationship is probably coming to an end
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:09 PM
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I see women say shit like “The bar is on the floor for men” and I’ve never really got it. I mean if the bar is on the floor, then there wouldn’t be a disproportionate amount of men who have never had a relationship compared to women. But when I hear the way my girl friends and see how women online complain about their boyfriends, husbands, and partners it makes sense. Those are usually copes mechanisms for girls who are treated like trash by the high quality guys and think it's the new norm for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:06 PM
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I'm pretty sure most guys feel the that way when they break up because it's harder for them to rebound
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:55 PM
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Of course it is. And even if you didn't make the claim it doesn't support the original claim. It's definitely possible for someone to get married without having a few relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:49 PM
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If you dated the guy there's a pretty good chance other women want him. Otherwise why would you want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:47 PM
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Lol you're not going to tip around the original point. Which was that most men before 30 have a few hookups and relationships. Which your links don't cover
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:32 PM
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I remember you. You only date f boys that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:33 PM
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Where does it specifically say how many partners and relationships guys have before 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:33 PM
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You honestly think most dudes in this sub haven't touched grass in years? Tsk tsk tsk How the hell do they take care of themselves then? By not working?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:27 PM
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I don't think she was getting to most women are racist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:26 PM
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Race literally does not exist. It is a social construct. 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:25 PM
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If you're male it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:23 PM
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Jeopardy music
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:47 AM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:42 AM
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Wouldn't be far off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:42 AM
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Nah that sounds cap. What stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:41 AM
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Honestly yes. Men have so few options that they have to take as many avenues as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:35 AM
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Because that's not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:34 AM
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Nope. But I know she wouldn't need as much care as my son would need. I would probably put her in sports too. And get her to travel with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:02 PM
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As a 21 yo with no romantic experience, not even a kiss or being on a single date, it seems to bother my parents a lot. They did not exactly react well to news that had to do with my failures in this subject, ie when I told them I had to go to prom alone lol. Yeah me as well. But I didn't attend prom. I absolutely hate when my parents or other adults used to ask me did I have a gf. It pissed me off to no end. They would all say yeah she'll come along but they be so oblivious to how condensing it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:55 PM
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My ninja
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:51 PM
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You have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:50 PM
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This stupid comment
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:34 PM
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In my experience, simply treating women with respect and socializing with women as friends is all that is necessary to find many good connections But not good dating success
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:32 PM
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Nahh
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:30 PM
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I've met plenty of women who've pretty much gave their version of you woowed me of the night. Now I think sex is the table talk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:29 PM
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Is that your actual lived experience Yes I've read that we swallow 20 spiders in our sleep throughout our whole lifetime, but as a 36 year old light sleeper I am yet to wake up with a spider crawling in my mouth That was always a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:21 PM
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People with good self-esteem don't have those thought patterns. That is so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:15 PM
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get sex" as if it's something a woman gives to a man as a treat. It usually is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:14 PM
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Which has its own pitfalls in itself. Most women are not gonna date their guy friends. As far social circle goes it can be extremely messy because unless you are the only dudes in your circle you have to constantly deal with male competition and bad information getting out. And when it comes to hobbies some do not favor meeting new women you can date all that often. What if a guy is into hunting, chess, or Larping? Not enough women that do that. And the ones that are doing those hobbies are gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:09 PM
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Beats me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:46 PM
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And be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah because how else are they gonna get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:42 PM
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Because their usually is always a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:48 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:43 AM
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A whole 9 nine months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:07 AM
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I don't think you're advice is gonna help either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:02 PM
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Gotta use this one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:17 PM
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What happened next?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:15 PM
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Recurring theme
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:13 PM
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how old are you? 27 i am a bartender, cold approach is happening CONSTANTLY and successfully in some cases. I watch couples meet all the time and then start coming in together.. it’s not a rarely seen occurance. it happens. Cold Approaching happens at bars. More news at 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:15 PM
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I don't know if a buy that one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:12 PM
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Nah not in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:10 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:10 PM
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Perfect Gif
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:09 PM
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no one is curving average guys with incredible personalities.. Except alot of do in fact do that. Because the guy maybe came off a creepy clumsy or he didn't surpass her looks threshold. Which is very common if i’m curving someone it’s because i’m not attracted to them for some reason that doesn’t fit your idiotic narrative… You dare speak about idiotic narratives with that foolishness you said last comment? Also which ones? have rich hot guy trying to date me currently and i’m not attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:08 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:56 PM
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Not that type lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:56 PM
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i invite you to my bar. i will introduce you to the women i know who have zero standards. i’m 5 minutes from west virginia, but the bar i’m talking about has a whole other level of women.. the type that gamble at 2 in the afternoon. That’s not a dig on west virginia i am a fan of appalachia.. that just happens to be where those women congregate, go in there and tel me you can’t get laid.. It's very unlikely. Since alot of women vastly underestimate how easy it is to get laid even for men because…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:56 PM
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I just don't think cold approaching is feasible anymore. Maybe social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:46 PM
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Why not get to know them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:42 PM
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Hot guys are always in gyms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:41 PM
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I think it's better to just say no because when those guys see you again they'll approach you yet again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:41 PM
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It's not a really something you have to think about because you approached so often isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah you are clearly lost with reality.. you can tell because you ended your first statement with facts you have plenty of options too I do not but go ahead you just aren’t interested in them False. I'm not going to admit I have absolutely no women that were interested in me and me not interested in them. But most of the times even the ones I'm not all that interested in I give a chance and even they lose interest lonely desperate women fuckin everywhere but you don’t bang them Clear sign that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:38 PM
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I never really get flirted with. So my brother always falsely assumes girls are flirting with me. When they are not My brother: " You know that girl that you work with likes you right? Me: She's Gay My brother:" Nah she really likes you Me: She literally has a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:49 PM
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So you was never interested in getting to know a physically attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:46 PM
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No. Just that they have different standards for different dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:45 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:44 PM
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I never think these count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:44 PM
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So y'all met at school?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:43 PM
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About certain things Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:42 PM
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Unless he’s super obviously Henry Cavill handsome or something (which I would never in a million years get.) The night is still young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:41 PM
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I agree that I am somewhat being black and white but I usually assume a woman is always underselling it because I know plenty of women who feel they aren't being approached because they don't like their options so therefore those approaches don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:39 PM
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Still a Chad. He had game. He got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:35 PM
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One can hope tho right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:34 PM
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I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:19 PM
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Your avatar confused me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:17 PM
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What if a girl were to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:07 PM
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I didn't ask if you would be okay with it. I asked for you date your friends? So did you ever date your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:40 PM
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It's not rhetoric. It's just the truth. It's not Men aren't getting married because they don't want to get married. Partially true. But also because many aren't getting picked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:38 PM
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Yes true, but if no men cold approached anywhere then a lot of people wouldn’t meet at all. Untrue. Because most people meet by proxy. Friend of a friend, work the same job, etc. How many couples have met in a library, or at a coffee shop or in a club! I don't think it's as many many as you think I think in the actual gym part or if they have their headphones on, then no, but I see no problem being friendly to someone as you’re walking out or socialising at the end of a class. You need to talk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:38 PM
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Looks money status
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 PM
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We're you attracted to him from the jump?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 PM
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I don't agree. At most of the social events I have been to, if the young men would just not act like jerks (make basic conversation and stare at a woman's breast the entire time), they will get plenty of female attention. HEAVY SIGH Not this stupid rhetoric again. This needs a whole post dedicated to it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 PM
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How long did you guys talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:31 PM
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Gotcha. Getting girls is way too hard nowadays. You have to be hank moody to make things happen even in social events
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:31 PM
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Picky
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:30 PM
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We got lunch together a few times before it fizzled out. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:29 PM
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And also because a random guy have a very high % chance of being incompatible with me and/or have dealbreakers I cannot accept. So you date most of your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:28 PM
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Aren't you a Dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:28 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:27 PM
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Then revealed it was him You mean he revealed it was you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:27 PM
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You asked what made me want to meet up as opposed to just talking. I wouldn't have been talking if I didn't want to meet up Uh no. Not true at all. People have conversations with strangers they don't like at all. I mean in this case it was you was attracted to him and you enjoyed the conversation most likely We talked for about an hour Ahhh so that's what it was
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:25 PM
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I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:23 PM
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How did you guys meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:23 PM
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LMS guys. LMS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:22 PM
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Their are tons of girls just like you who are extremely skittish around men they don't know. Which is why cold approaching is extremely hard for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:22 PM
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Ahh okay I see. Then I find it weird some women are totally against it, Because most women prefer not to be approached because it came get annoying especially if the guys aren't attractive to them because I think it’s fine to approach someone in a bar or a gym class Yeah more social settings are usually more acceptable. But some guys have to get creative if they don't go to bars much. Also gym has some fairly negative connotations around it as well. Unless you are a fairly attractive ripped dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:20 PM
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Chad Alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:17 PM
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Looks are not important to you to finding a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:15 PM
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Now I know guys are doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:13 PM
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Yep, that's how I met my SO. I was in a shop, he flirted. He was funny and cocky and brazen in a way that caught me completely off guard. We talked and flirted and I was having fun, so when he told me he was going to be in my neighborhood that weekend and we should get a drink I agreed How long did you guys talk? I don't understand why you'd be "talking" to a guy you didn't want to pursue anything with so that question doesn't make sense to me. I gave him my number because I wanted to see him ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:13 PM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah but I think besides social settings people generally didn't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:09 PM
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I don't even know if it was common ages ago
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:05 PM
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One reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:05 PM
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please can someone clarify for me if cold approach is limited to being approached in the middle of something where it’s not expected to be social, i.e. in the middle of the street, a shop etc. or if it includes like bars parties festivals etc? It doesn't have to be limited to non social settings. But it is a lot harder in non-social settings. If it’s the second then all the time. I love meeting people at festivals and raves. Sometimes I give them the eye or sometimes they just approach me How di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:01 PM
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When you approach your girl that you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:56 PM
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What did he say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:52 PM
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And I'm guessing he got a date? And you don't get approached at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:49 PM
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I don't know. That's tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:48 PM
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He's beginning believe in his inner Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:48 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:47 PM
3

You say that now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:47 PM
4

No guys have ever asked you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:46 PM
1

Aye aye aye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:36 PM
4

What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:35 PM
1

Knowing women it's probably like 9999 rejected and 1 accept
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:34 PM
1

No it's because women are more picky for partners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:21 PM
1

Me, I literally just said it, and women say it all the time And I wouldn't be inclined to believe you. Since alot of times you guys are very inconsistent We want old men to leave us alone. Well this I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:52 AM
1

Since when did what women say they want and what reality shows every congruent on a consistent basis? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:46 AM
1

Nah I call bullshit every single time. Most prefer older. The guys who struggle to find partners the most are between the ages of 18-29
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:36 AM
2

I know how you feel but even then most women prefer older men anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:33 AM
2

That doesn't mean all older men are going after younger women are creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:29 AM
2

No. I don't mind if she's not. I don't know where you getting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:26 PM
2

I'm aware but for women they want more finished products
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:25 PM
22

Yeah honestly this advice never really resonated with me well. It's like as a guy you are forced to choose. You can't really improve while dating most of the time. You have to level up and then eventually date. Because it feels like that's the only way they will accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:21 AM
1

It's an intentionally low-effort strategy to quickly filter out anyone who doesn't want an immediate hookup (or sexting). Doesn't matter if it only rarely works - many men on tinder are cheating. Not really. Only a very tiny amount
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:17 AM
5

Well I've heard from my wife's friends that they get dick pics all the time. Not a surprise Who the fuck does that? A fuck ton of men Do guys seriously not understand that basically no woman wants to receive those? Not really. Alot of guys are so unbelievably desperate that they don't know what works so they adapt a throw whatever is at the wall until it sticks strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:04 AM
3

No they aren't. Which is where the confusion comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:51 AM
5

No I'm being dead serious. Just because men want casual sex doesn't mean that's only what they want. They make it so apparent they want casual sex because they can't get it that often
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:40 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:10 AM
2

But they are very picky about who they choose to be publicly and socially paired with. This is still false
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:10 AM
9

And before you say no they want girlfriends my like messages beg to differ. Just because you get messages on sex doesn't mean men still don't want girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:02 AM
1

I agree but I don't think most men wanna result to just picking other women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:51 PM
8

Very clear indicator someone does not read red pill material
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:22 AM
2

And even then I still find that incredibly hard to believe. Because that implies those same men kept those women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:07 PM
2

If he has one then that's probably the one he dates. If he has another to cheat that means he has two. Most guys don't even have that let alone 1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:00 PM
4

Yes but even then there Is virtually no conceivable way that most men are cheating at the levels that alot of women in this thread are promoting because have considerably less options
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:35 PM
2

I don't know those numbers. But I don't think it's as much as you are implying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:17 PM
4

Such an incredibly false statement. Like no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:56 PM
12

50 percent of men not in relationships is still alot. Also you are tripping. Most men can't get sex without relationships. So what makes you think alot of those single guys are casually dating with sex included. Like no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:55 PM
1

In their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:53 PM
1

Well I don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:51 PM
-1

Disagree heavily. The ones that have it the hardest are straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:44 PM
1

It's easy for lesbians and gay men to find partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:42 PM
1

Most women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:05 AM
34

They don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:15 AM
1

Yeah Prostitution and incels prove that false
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:15 AM
1

Or people keep trying to swear it's so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:14 AM
1

You make everyone so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:07 AM
1

😑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:06 AM
2

No. I'm simply saying they are capable of attracting them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:04 AM
1

10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:02 AM
1

You gotta be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:00 AM
3

Not a female and not delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:44 AM
2

Many women cannot attract the men whom they are actually attracted to for relationships. Sure they can
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:54 AM
81

This is true. This reminds of situation that happened like last year on this subreddit. A woman was ranting saying things like alot of men cheat, play games, and are very manipulative. One of the Redditor called her out by telling her how it's damn near impossible for most men to do that since most men are not even capable of getting women that consistently. Then she said that we couldn't possibly assume she was talking about the bottom feeder men that no one wants could we?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:54 AM
0

I think I exaggerated mostly on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:46 PM
1

Me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:45 PM
2

Be yourself. You're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:45 PM
1

Decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:08 PM
2

Because you're a woman. You guys think most of the above average guys are average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:07 PM
2

Simple in theory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:23 PM
0

Not a lot of low value men cheat. That's false
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:50 PM
0

You think beta males are destined to leave you once he improves? So you want a beta male that never improves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:49 PM
1

Whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:19 PM
2

I get that it's inner game but I can't seem to replicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:18 PM
5

Not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:18 PM
6

After a long time I think I believe in leagues too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:13 PM
5

I don't know if I would use hot to describe them all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:04 PM
1

Dude no. You just missed the point entirely. You can be a ladies men with no so great looks granted you have great xfactors in play. Money, status, has great game, tall, funny, or a combination of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:00 PM
1

The process is WAAAAAY too long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:58 PM
4

Because girls are never attracted enough and flaky as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:49 PM
4

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:48 PM
1

I don't get what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:48 PM
1

He's a Chad just not in the physical sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:47 PM
15

I don't think confidence is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:46 PM
1

Like no duh Of course you need 1 to say yes but that doesn't mean it isn't hard to find that 1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:46 PM
1

I see we got a chest thumper. And dating down is hard enough these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:30 PM
16

Is charisma even enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:28 PM
12

Ok so he was Chad from a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:27 PM
37

This is such a great answer It's a harsh truth but if you struggled with girls during middle/high school it will be a long process till you get into a leveled playing field. You literally missed the phase where everyone was carefree clumsy and when guys understood girls were the same as them not more or less. Yeah and I think I'm gonna paying for that the rest of my life. Girls right now I find too incredibly hard to attract and close the deal with. Being a sexy and attractive man besides the ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:26 PM
1

Ok maybe I exaggerated. I know a decent amount
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:15 PM
11

If you’re trying to date women who are younger than you , you’re the problem. I'm going to stop you right there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:00 PM
1

Most women have better quality and quantity. You gotta admit that as a woman
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:33 PM
2

Chads sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:48 PM
2

No I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:54 PM
2

Chads think everything that isn't super smooth or natural is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:36 PM
3

Meet them through social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:58 AM
3

They didn't meet that way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 AM
7

I don't blame you. When I hear some people say women aren't Rocket Science I say sure. Rocket Science is way easier
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:36 AM
1

Yeah it's got annoying the few hundred thousand times
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:35 AM
19

They have more options
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:34 AM
2

That's what really pisses me off about guys who say they struggle to get woman and make more than 6 figures. Like wtf are you doing with yourself? Why don't you spend more money to make yourself attractive? No? Ok then be single and be stupid. The only thing that costs the most is time. And learning how to have game, have an attractive personality, or great charisma cost the most. Because they are extremely hard to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:07 PM
2

High school?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:05 PM
5

If only my biggest problem with attraction was face acne
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:04 PM
18

I think alot of girls are more homophobic than they let on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:12 PM
2

Dude most people care at that magnitude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:00 PM
1

Got orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:31 PM
1

Because they haven't usually done it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:15 PM
0

Don't know what the hell blue culture is....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:02 AM
1

That's racist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:42 AM
1

I'm the grand scheme it's better to just not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:27 PM
3

I never people aren't allowed to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:26 PM
1

Even if it's someone you actually like it's simply not worth it in in most cases unless you know you are already an attractive person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:25 PM
2

A 20 percent success rate is fantastic odds. Even some naturals I know don't get that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:24 PM
3

Yeah but cold approaching is a whole nother thing entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:23 PM
1

Yes but it's very unlikely you will get that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:58 PM
1

Key word is some. I think he's referring to not approaching women that are fond of you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:30 PM
-3

It negates the primary reason you said women don't like to be approached
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:08 PM
7

I think they cold Approaching more than anything because they hate being approached by dudes they don't like. Which is the vast majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:36 PM
5

Well you missed the point of his post entirely. I don't agree that you should always shoot your shot unless you in Chad category because are way too insanely picky for cold approach to work. But no where did his post imply to just downright ignore her feelings of being uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:35 PM
13

Most guys are not chads so they are rarely gonna get this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:30 PM
9

And even then the ones that are bold enough to approach don't get much results from it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:27 PM
0

I disagree heavily. Getting women is extremely hard nowadays and only benefits the guys that are already extremely good with women, physically attractive, funny, got money, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:27 PM
3

Don't see how it's a poor take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:23 PM
7

Just did it mowing the lawn this morning. Where is my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:37 PM
10

Leaning game is damn near impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:35 PM
5

Most do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:35 PM
2

Bend don't break
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:39 PM
1

Why would I need something for someone else to find me attractive? That doesn't make alot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:35 PM
1

How did I describe what men needed to get relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:28 PM
1

What did I describe you were like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:24 PM
1

It's easy as pie bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:21 PM
7

They Bogo too. So give one to a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:21 PM
3

What are you even talking about? What did I describe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:20 PM
4

When did my post say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:20 PM
5

So how exactly do you get dates without doing those?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:13 PM
3

I don't know what you are talking about sir
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:12 PM
1

They have nothing to envy with men because our dating lives are much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:32 AM
5

They have nothing to envy with men because our dating lives are much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:31 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:15 AM
2

As a dude? Ha! Buy a fucking lottery ticket. Total crapshoot. Learn to be a mind reader. Bust your ass in the gym and the workplace, learn how to satisfy a woman in bed. Grow an extra inch or two in height and cock. Learn to cook. Develop an interesting personality. Check every box a chick has and time your moves absolutely perfectly. Be strong, stoic, masculine, yet sensitive, intellectual, and kind. But also be an asshole. This is where your mind-reading comes in handy. Don't forget to argue w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:39 AM
2

Dating most men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:36 PM
1

Sorry I meant the men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:49 PM
1

He must have looked like a goddess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:20 PM
3

That's not what I was referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:19 PM
1

And I think most women are just not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:18 PM
1

Both but mostly cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:17 PM
0

No you idiot
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:49 PM
14

And no one likes to chase haphazardly after non interested parties either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:43 PM
1

If only I tried that method
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Done. Got a gf and three sneaky links. That was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:39 PM
2

I think I know why you get so much pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:38 PM
0

approaching in real life is the best HARD DISAGREE. Unless you are incredibly good looking, have great game, or money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:37 PM
3

You approach a girl and talk to her like a regular being. Do people ever get tired of saying this? Because I had to assume they were aliens right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:36 PM
2

I said about 40 accepted. I didn't tell you how many flaked or changed their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:31 PM
1

If you’ve asked thousands of women on a date, that means you’re basically asking any and every female you encounter on a date. Mom but I did start off that way. Didn't end that way That’s not how you get a date. You build a rapport with a woman and then ask her out. You don’t just reach out blindly in the dark flailing your arms around in hopes that you catch something. Right I learned that lesson. But unfortunately you don't have alot of time to do this with cold approach If you aren’t hot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:29 PM
-1

Not really a surprise. I could tell as soon as you said you met her at a gym. Girls despite the fact that they hate being stared at the gym are always on the prowl for attractive guys at the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:27 PM
12

Its pretty well documented (within the limits of the studies which mostly focus on exposure to a certain facial picture) that people you see more often will likely seem more attractive to you over time. Tell that to all the guys in the friendzone I think this is a major problem with dating today. People don’t have communities anymore to meet people organically. Join a club or beer league sport. “What are you doing after this” to an acquaintance who know you is a lot easier than “hi my name is Ji…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:25 PM
1

Then it's clear that those girls are attractive just not physically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:22 PM
-1

Being 300+ lbs doesn’t make someone conventionally unattractive? If they are great conversationalist then yeah they are attractive I wouldn’t want to date you just because you come off as a vulnerable narcissist and that’s a red flag but you can easily change that I don't give a shit. Why all you women believe that your arguments all of sudden gain credibility because you disprove of dating me? Like newsflash! Most women wouldn't and it's not because of the reasons you just named. So stop acting…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:04 PM
6

No I mean she probably already had a decent level of attraction to you if she spoke to you first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:00 PM
5

Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 PM
3

I guess so. Mars is great this time of year
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 PM
1

And make the first moves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 PM
2

Most of my matches are bots
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:56 PM
2

It's just never that simple unless you share circles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:55 PM
6

So she liked you already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:14 PM
1

They can't be unnattractive if they are easily getting dates or their standards are in the dirt. Which is fine I'm not judging them for that. Both it's probably a combination of both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:05 PM
5

Chad problems 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:03 PM
2

How many women have you actually asked out on a real date? Thousands How many of them rejected you vs accepted? Maybe like 40 What do you mean by this? If you're a 6 or 7, then only ask out 7's or less, it's not a difficult concept. Just be realistic about what level you are on. So what? That doesn't mean you will get results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:02 PM
4

For most of my friends this also applies, I don’t know where you’re pulling these ideas from Because it's obvious easy for the to date. If they're average women or above it applies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:58 PM
6

I don't buy gym relationships just happening. Lots of girls have crushes on gym guys because obviously in shape and muscled up dudes. You likely ran into a guy who knew exactly how to pursue you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:53 PM
7

I guess that's a good story. It seems the only way you can do it actually in a semi normal way. Nothing is normal when you are unnattractive male
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:52 PM
4

It starts with actually asking them out on a date. It's a step way too many men don't even attempt before they start complaining Don't know if I can buy that Aim within your league, and ask girls out on an actual date, and you'll start to get dates and eventually a relationship. If only if was that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:50 PM
1

First person to answer is a chest thumper. Yeah not ironic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:44 PM
4

Yeah but Id argue most do opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:10 PM
5

I have. But then again... I know that most women if they find having sex with their husband a chore then they eventually opt out completely. And that's how dead bedrooms start. So not saying I don't nessesarily see this happening just not enough that it's a big problem like you mention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:06 PM
5

It can be filled by women but how the problem is incredibly hard for women to fill. Let's say we lived in a society where only women existed to work the tough jobs and protect themselves. They could still do it. They are the apex predators after all. But it would extremely harder for them to so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:05 PM
5

Men aren’t expected to sexually satisfy their wives like women and expected to Don't see this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:03 PM
1

I'd say female. As a guy you are held to a higher standards and punished more for not owning up to the plate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:02 PM
2

Does this apply because more women are in healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:45 PM
3

Where in any of my responses did I blame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:34 PM
10

I like how women like to use the argument that if someone is held more responsible or suffers inequality by another man it doesn't count. It still counts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:12 PM
0

Where is the if not less here? And that's only because women live longer. Which is like you said is voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:48 PM
1

The third one isn't tho when it comes to sentences. And drafts are not. And if you want more responsibility girls can decide whether or not a child enters or leaves this world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:43 PM
1

Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:36 PM
0

Because you literally don't know that rich women often times won't date a guy who makes less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:35 PM
5

Never said anything about jobs. I said you hold less responsibility. Which is true. More men take the harder jobs, go to the military, and get more time for the same crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:34 PM
2

And life. You're held to less responsibility as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:18 PM
16

Aren't men targeted more for violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:16 PM
0

You're so naive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:15 PM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:47 AM
2

People who talk like this are just simply to stuck up to talk to in person. I know McDonald's, Zaxby's, or Wendy's is not a 5 star restaurant but I'm not going to downright refuse to eat there in every circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:04 PM
10

Oh Gawd. What FDD hole did you crawl out of? There's plenty of men who dress well and look well but still aren't that great at talking to women. Despite what your last experiences has taught you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:02 PM
5

Go ahead. Tell me about it afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:07 AM
3

Then dating should be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:43 AM
1

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:56 AM
1

I think this applies for both I might be wrong. People are more forgiving of people who they place alot of investment into. Like how many times can we account about a time a guy who beat his women and she forgave and came back. Or how many times have we seen a girl physically assault a man/ destroy his property and he come back? I don't know about you guys but it's A LOT on my end
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:48 AM
2

Yeah alot of women don't have much reason to be honest about their partner counts because of the repercussions of people blabbing. I am a guy so I guess it's in my nature to be slightly curious of how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:42 PM
1

Yeah usually the girls I know that are single and are virgins who are really hot are usually in the religious side as well. Usually from what I have seen the girls who are really attractive eventually having sex because most guys are just throwing themselves at her left and right. And of course she eventually finds someone granted on how high her standards are. Usually if being honest I meet more men that are in their 20s that are virgins. Granted it's harder for those men to get action. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:07 PM
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Hookup culture is on the rise and men just assume the worst about women (example: I’m a virgin and some people don’t believe me, I’ve been told it’s because I’m attractive but it still rubs me the wrong way). More and more men are getting into the red pill and judging women based of it (my ex broke up with me because of that but wanted to get back with me a few months after). I mean if I'm being completely honest depending on how old aand attractive you are if you were to tell me you are a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:39 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:15 AM
1

Stop complaining and just stop trying if not worth it. Dating is not fair for most people, but guess what? You either stay single or try again. No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:18 AM
1

What an idiotic answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:17 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:17 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:11 AM
-1

You are vastly overestimating it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:07 AM
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Also I’ve never been to that country yet, is it nice this time of year? No it's horrible. Our chemical plants are stinking up the whole place. I'm kidding it's fine. At least in the south I know a lot of hot women who would disagree Why do they disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:40 PM
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It’s as fair as it can be considering women need complete investment from a man in order to safely have and raise children with someone who won’t abuse them. I'm confused by this one You have to be fair when you consider how much less we have to be accountable for in that Regard. Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:38 PM
6

The vise versa would be the same for women. Which is what most guys would go for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:36 PM
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Like bro if she’s fit, she’s already out of your league. I don't think guys really only go after fit girls. They are ok with most girls that just aren't obese
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:32 PM
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Too many entitled average dudes out here thinking they can get baddies without offering anything. You're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:26 PM
12

Except Hot women and Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:26 PM
3

I’m 6’5 and in very good shape and handsome. Picking up women has been a breeze for me. I’m always scratching my head at everyone with all these struggles or bad experiences with women. Imagine being so out of touch that you don't notice being 6'5 is a huge advantage for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:21 PM
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I never said I was RAPED but sexually assaulted. This has happened on more than one occasion so it’s safe to say men get TOO comfortable when you approach them. Do I think ALL men do this? Of course not. But it is a RISK women are taking that is not worth it. Sexual assault can happen. Rape can happen Both of these things can happen without the aid of approaching. Which is why the woman I know who are successful at it were very transparent from the get-go that they didn't want to pursue things i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:05 PM
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No, YOU are off here No. That would still be YOU The norm in general is men approaching women. Not what I was arguing So it’s ironic that you would even bring up norms when the act of approaching a man period is not normal. It's not. But it's not weird in relationships to the original argument you made earlier. Which is that men hold the power because they choose to approach. Which women also have the same freedom of doing Now you’re arguing what’s not normal when approaching men in general is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:59 PM
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You are way off here. I'm saying the norm is men not graping a woman because she approached a man. And no I'm not trying to invalidate your experience. I've spoken to plenty woman who have approached and plenty of women who don't. The number one reasons they approach is not the reasons you gave. It's usually a combination of ego, fear, and entitlement. At least when it comes to a lot of girls approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:26 PM
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That's the exception and not the rule. I know you might have have bad experiences but that's not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:59 PM
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I don't see why. Even then they would hold power over approaching and they have power
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:46 AM
1

You're right. But unfortunately most women find most men both
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:44 AM
1

Nice girl
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:33 AM
1

Women have the power to ask out men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:06 AM
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They do Way bigger advantage than 20 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:02 AM
1

Well all that is true. Which is why men. Complain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:01 AM
1

Y
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:57 AM
1

Only the really attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:52 AM
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That is an example of a situation that's not in a dating lense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:48 AM
5

Good. There are not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:47 AM
5

I don't agree. And I'm pretty sure most men wouldn't agree to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:23 AM
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No not saying it's not. But I also am aware that life also happens too and plenty of people lose their jobs all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:23 AM
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Well according to you most guys can get a gf if they aren't really that annoying. So by your logic most men can get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:22 AM
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I agree that the simp crowd can be toxic at times but where are these guys calling these men simps for getting flowers? And how does that relate to relationships themselves being gay,?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:21 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:19 AM
5

And you're a full of malarkey. That's not how most women operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:18 AM
-1

No probably not for oil. But something like lacking a good job sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:15 AM
3

And tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:02 AM
5

Is there a way to give you 100 thumbs up? No? Just checking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:01 AM
0

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:59 PM
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I'm pretty sure most guys wouldn't try anything if they knew the the girl physically intoxicated enough that she can't really tell what was going on. Then again that's an extreme example. Because are we assuming both were drunk in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:57 PM
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I take it the slums of Chicago haven't gotten any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:56 PM
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Like 90% of work most men do is to build the initial attraction and rapport. If you can get that the the rest is much easier. I wouldn't agree. Because people fall out of attractive for men all the time. Especially when a man is not as manly or in control as they previous assumed. But when women say the bar is on the floor they're talking about men they're already attracted to and have some level of emotional investment in, not some dude on the street who hasn't spoken to them yet that needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:54 PM
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No it wouldn't be. Because I know plenty of wives who can't cook. Most men are not going to go ape shit if their wife and kick their girls to the curb who can't cook
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:52 PM
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It's something women say all the time which isn't remotely true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:51 PM
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When they say the standards are "on the floor" they mean that men often get away with really uncouth or shitty acts because women just expect that from them. It's not about appearance or looks like so many men want to believe, it's about their actions and how they choose to carry themselves. Which is pretty false because most men do suffer immensely from being shitty and uncouth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:51 PM
1

Which makes no sense.... You're done here and you're blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:27 PM
1

How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:56 PM
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I guess you're right. But you're still full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:29 PM
1

Proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:52 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:52 PM
1

Because I think guys believe Women should make more moves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:26 PM
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I think you are vastly underestimating the difficulty of getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:38 AM
1

Ok I'm what capacity are average men getting casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:41 PM
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But you don't seem to know what proper male experience is when you think they can easily get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:32 PM
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Because you're not willing to do an easy experiment. When clearly one of the commenters asked you to do it and you could have made an ai male to not use someone's pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:21 PM
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But if you simply mean just meeting women, striking up conversation with, and asking for her number/for a date. That is generally not that tough. All you have to do is be respectful, I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:44 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:43 PM
1

Sure. What traditional things are you doing for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:57 PM
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Because you are obviously stuck in certain way and don't wanna see any perspective outside your own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:56 PM
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But you are all the way Wrong. Your opinions are so out of touch with reality in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:55 PM
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Even then you are incredibly out of touch. There are plenty of men who do those bare minimum things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:55 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:28 PM
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Lol you are so out of touch with reality. Do you only date gas attendants?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:24 PM
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Lol why not just make a tinder account for a guy and see for yourself. Oh wait. You don't like experiments to prove yourself wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:19 PM
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She's doesn't want to be proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:12 PM
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Because alot of women who who say they are traditional just say that to get the benefits of being traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:10 PM
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😑
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:00 PM
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No stop using plausible deniability to get your point across. You could have just said both genders spread negative advice that only benefits one party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:59 PM
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How are guys nitpicky,,?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:58 PM
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No they are making approaching taboo unless the guy is very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:54 PM
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I'm a guy. So if a unnattractive girl asks me out it's still kinda flattering. Because I'm a guy. It rarely happens. But for girls I'm pretty sure the answer is no. They are most of the time creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:57 AM
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You really think dating was easier back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:04 AM
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Relationships and dating have always been transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:49 AM
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If you knew both sides do it then why not just say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:26 AM
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You'll never hate dating apps more than men hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:25 AM
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You know only a few men are part of hookup culture right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:51 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:50 PM
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You and 95 percent of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:50 PM
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Married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:42 PM
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A lot of people will have sex with any girl anytime. I can tell you have very little knowledge of how most men are operating in this day and age. Some people don’t see the point in dating when they can just have sex. True. But most guys are gonna try better methods which is ask for a date Of course decent guys still ask women out, but plenty of trash guys will feel fine talking to you for weeks before taking you on a date. Lots of guys date while broke or cheap so they aren’t going to just go on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:41 PM
5

And most guys will ask
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:30 PM
1

You know only a few men are part of hookup culture right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:25 PM
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I think most women find it easy to get sex. Maybe not good sex, but sex nonetheless. Finding a date is harder, but not hard unless you’re ugly I think. How is finding dates harder? Most women don't go straight to sex without a date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:24 PM
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Which almost never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:15 PM
0

Yeah it's most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:32 PM
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Lothario I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:21 PM
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People take those rating's WAYYYY TOO SERIOUSLY. They are rating not nessesarily on their looks but how much they consider them what they like on the celebrity crush scale. They can obviously acknowledge RiRi is Way above average. But for some guys she's not really their cup of tea. Some guys would rate someone like Ariana as more attractive. Because that's exactly whom they prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:59 PM
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They always usually do because women have a crap ton more options
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:55 PM
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It means read harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:54 PM
2

Which wrong way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:53 PM
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The beautiful of both sexes don’t have to put in much effort to get results. Now I clearly know you are full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:52 PM
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Lol no. That would only work if most women saw most men as above average. Which they clearly dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:51 PM
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See my point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:48 PM
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Should be and actually are are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:47 PM
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Even when I was more in shape and had some spare cash picking up women was not easy so. It's a lot more than just being in shape
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:46 PM
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I didn't argue that it was
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:45 PM
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You kinda proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:44 PM
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I understand that. I'm just saying guys like that are a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:44 PM
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Actually I was wrong it was 30 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:43 PM
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You can get women without those things. It's just way harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:40 PM
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I disagree wholeheartedly but are insanely hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:39 PM
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Yes most men are not like your friends at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:37 PM
-1

But most men would say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:35 PM
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Chest thump
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:33 PM
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This is extremely obvious information. Well maybe not to you before you did the experiment but guys are way less desired than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:10 AM
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Nope not at all. All this is new to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:53 AM
3

Sounds like another chest thumper comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:52 AM
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Dude. The post was never that most men couldn't procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:50 AM
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Never claimed that they did sir
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:35 AM
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No you're just mad cause you're blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:33 AM
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Good for you Jacob Palmer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:33 AM
3

I don't lift with my legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:32 AM
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dude just stop trying and let them come to you Oh Gawd. Don't know why I never thought of that. You're a genius Here again. Another chest thumper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:31 AM
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Never thought of that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:30 AM
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not young women Id disagree on that. But I do agree with everything else in you first paragraph I can think of so many more impressive/difficult skills to learn than getting women to fuck you. That is sad that you hold it in such high esteem I could give two shits what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:30 AM
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Yet again. Another chest thumper. You guys need a post to describe how annoying you guys are and out of touch you guys are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:29 AM
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Yes but then again alot of attractive people are likable, intelligent, and funny because people give them more opportunities to learn and talk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:17 AM
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And here comes a chest thumper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:54 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:53 AM
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Def my fav part of your post OP, it’s second to you urging men to make money so they can get women but then lamenting that women will only want them for their money ??? I was listing the cons that be a part of compensating for bad looks or career achievements with money. You have your pros but also your drawbacks You make it sound like men getting into relationships is extremely rare when a quick trip outside reveals the overwhelming majority of average people (men and women) ARE in relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:37 AM
4

Couldn't that argument be also be made for women with relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:27 AM
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But how many men are going to want to set their standards extremely low. Guys stabdaiare already low enough as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:25 AM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:23 AM
1

Very early age. Maybe 9
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:43 AM
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Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:41 AM
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I'd say 5 to 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:03 PM
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I didn't really say old dudes. And yes they are. Women most definitely find older men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:06 PM
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Yes they are. Most women don't like men younger them themselves and they usually find 30 year to 40 year old men the hottest. 30 year old and 40 year old women don't like 20 year old men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:49 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:15 PM
-1

I find women like this weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:14 PM
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The man’s efforts or not has no bearing on her decision Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:49 PM
1

This scenes like incredibly obvious information
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:49 PM
1

It's the worst
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:37 PM
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I hate posts like these
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:36 PM
0

Because it's usually extremely more complicated than this post is letting on
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:36 PM
0

Of course you think that way. But men have it far worse. It's much harder for us to get partners for sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:36 AM
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Key word is you. You do.... But most women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:40 PM
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You're definitely of coping is that I subscribe to your bullshit logic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:41 PM
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Personality can be more important but it's often people might not really get to know someone if they are already written off for having poor looks. Also having an attractive personality is EXTREMELY hard to have. So most guys again are not gonna be viable for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:02 PM
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It's weird to ask women what their view of regular is because women's standards by default is a helluva lot higher than mens so their perception of average is almost always bigger than a guys. And most women most men as below average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:32 PM
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No that's not what most RP men say. Some do. But alot understand it's alot more than looks and money. You're maybe talking about some of the annoying ones in this sub reddit. And I don't buy the idea that most of you are seeking regular guys that's cap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:13 PM
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Women are looking at an 18+ year commitment and seek someone who is compatible, comforting, uplifting, supportive, etc. RP men have erroneously boiled those many varied qualities down to looks and money. That is simply not how our brains work. If you listen to the good ones. They will tell you that multiple things are taken into account. Like money, height, looks, career, game, experience, humor, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:50 PM
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Never said sex appeal and money only matter. You just made an ass out of yourself with that assumption. And bring low value is not universal but women are more attracted to men other women are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:37 PM
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The article is false
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:01 PM
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Yes but you are the exception to the rule and not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:59 PM
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I’m certainly not attracted to men who are dating multiple women. If I was dating a guy a knew he was with other women, I’d drop him. Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:58 PM
0

Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:57 PM
1

Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:34 AM
1

But that doesn't mean it's equal kiki
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:20 AM
1

Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:10 AM
1

Oki can say least agree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:14 AM
0

What's your secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:14 AM
0

Just be truthful this time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:12 AM
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Dude no. Even with the encouragement most women still don't like dating younger men. I've been Approaching women for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:08 AM
1

So what's your real number?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:07 AM
1

Stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:59 PM
-1

How much success you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:57 PM
1

Duhhh. This is very self explanatory information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:56 PM
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Because women normally don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:55 PM
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Sounds like it doesn't it. But then again the top men cheat alot. Not the low value ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:30 PM
1

Well actually no. You're points are nothing more than...I'm a woman so I know more about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:37 PM
1

You mean like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:17 PM
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No. You're just wrong unfortunately. You being a woman doesn't make your point better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:13 PM
1

Because they usually aren't near as thirsty as men are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:50 PM
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Because first off the numbers are exactly even. Women may get into long term relationships with men but that doesn't mean those particular men are not sharing or also dating other women. The incel types don't do this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:06 PM
1

Now she's adding parameters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:04 PM
1

No. Yours. Would take the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:03 PM
1

Because you are literally discrediting everything I saw with nonsensical points in the grand scheme. Women do in fact want men with more money, who are more established with their jobs/careers, are more experienced when it comes to women, and alot of men look better as they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:16 PM
1

Wrong about what exactly you bozo? I never said they didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:11 PM
1

Except they do say this idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:11 PM
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No they didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:09 PM
1

It's still false
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:05 PM
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make more money Who cares, women can make their own money now. have more experience, etc More experience in what? lmao Are you really this dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:03 PM
1

One of the dumbest things I've heard in Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:01 PM
1

Sure it can. That doesn't mean relationships are evenly distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:57 PM
1

Because older men are more physically attractiv, make more money, have more experience, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:48 PM
1

No you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:38 PM
1

Disagree heavily. Women do indeed prefer older men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:37 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:37 PM
1

Yes y'all do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:31 PM
1

But rare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:31 PM
1

I know. Women don't like guys their age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:30 PM
2

Because no. That doesn't mean it's even distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:29 PM
2

Ok. Woman are attracted to only 5 percent of men. They want Rob Piper basically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:47 AM
2

Of course it is if you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:45 AM
2

No that's just period. Less options equal less cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:47 AM
2

And options. Mostly options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:45 AM
3

The ones with less options are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:22 AM
1

You dating a rich guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:14 AM
1

You right. It's 10 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:44 AM
2

But most guys can't get gfs as easily as women can't get bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:42 AM
1

Bish whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:27 AM
3

But that's not what the original argument was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:21 AM
1

Yeah she's definitely in a sunken place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:30 AM
3

Underrated Dating Advice: For most young men growing up they should play sports and play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:27 AM
2

Yeah hot people are usually allowed to get away with alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:26 AM
2

Chick you are loss. You don't even know what you are arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:25 AM
2

You're comment had little correlation to the topic brought up. The myth of men getting relationships easier. None of your comment addresses that. It's just brings up nonsensical points that weren't even brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:47 AM
1

You say that like it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:44 AM
3

Neither does it mean men do either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:40 AM
1

That's for you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:39 AM
2

What does that have to do with the topic at hand? The post was dispelling the myth that men had an easier time getting relationships. So why are you bringing up what men are open to casual sex? That still doesn't prove the myth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:33 AM
2

I see a pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:31 AM
1

Desperate for relationships with men they don't like tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:31 AM
1

For you maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:29 AM
1

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:25 AM
1

Your statement would still be pretty false
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:23 AM
2

No one says that Excellent. But you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:22 AM
2

Because generally it's usually the guy who wants it more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:21 AM
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This is so not true. You understand that those women will lot of times not be willing to give up the box if relationships are not involved right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:15 AM
1

That doesn't make it easier for guys to get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:14 AM
2

This answer is not true at sll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:14 AM
2

Hmm good point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:13 AM
2

Then just be ok being a spinning plate who will never get commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:12 AM
2

No. Women actually do want older men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:05 AM
2

Because it's false
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:04 AM
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That's BS. Most young women do in fact want older men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:04 AM
1

Exactly why I say women just find dating younger men unnappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:03 AM
1

That's....also vise versa unless the man is rich
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:02 AM
1

This comment confuses me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:02 AM
13

But that's a literal contradiction to what you said earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:59 PM
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Because you don't know how foolish you sound. Get a picture of unnattractive woman and make a tinder account and see how many matches you get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:42 PM
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Which part? Saying that guys did have the advantage back then and now they don't or are you saying they didn't have the advantage than they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:41 PM
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Are you daft? If anything you could make the stupid assumption that I can't date older women by most post. Why would my post tell you anything related to me that I can't date younger? If I'm thoroughly convinced that women want older men then I probably would have said something along the lines of me dating younger in previous comments. Not only are you stupid...but you're a fucking idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:00 PM
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No the post should be named exactly what it's named. If you're not going to contribute to good conversation then you are being a downright nausance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:32 PM
1

GEORGIA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:32 PM
1

No it's called real relationships. You need to move out your college town
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:31 PM
1

That's usually the case though. Older men make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:31 PM
1

I see it irl too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:29 PM
1

Disagree heavily. Most women are into older men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:29 PM
1

Sounds like a pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:28 PM
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No that's just how interpret it because you're a woman. And women don't usually don't like 20 year olds pass a certain age. Guys still do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:28 PM
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They are more attracted to men in their 30s and 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:27 PM
2

I'm not a woman dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:47 PM
1

No way. Those guys are actually related
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:45 PM
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Nah. I some of the hottest women I have seen are still dating older men. Extremely hot ones I see are usually dating older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:38 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:33 PM
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Yeah but I'd bet that most women do in fact like prefer older men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:33 PM
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I went to nightclubs. They are still not very common. You can meet more if you go to clubs but again not very common. And most of those women are not even cougars. They may sleep with younger men on occasion but that's just by proxy of who's more likely in the clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:32 PM
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Never said they weren't a real thing. And I have been with cougars you dummy. They just aren't as common as you are making them. Actually they are extremely rare
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:14 PM
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Exactly what I have seen. Especially if the woman is older
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:12 PM
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Wrong! I literally lost my virginity to a woman 10-15 years older Because that one little anecdote changes everything? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah I read this one a while ago. Doesn't seem as common as I'm seeing it in real life. I'm seeing alot of numbers in-between couples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:09 PM
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I do think women find men in their 30s and 40s much more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:07 PM
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I do think women find men in their 30s and 40s much more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:06 PM
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Neither women nor men want to date someone significantly older or younger…even if we did, where would we find one? Because Tinder or Work doesn't exist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:03 PM
-1

Met plenty of women irl that date men 15+ years older Madame
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah I don't think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:59 PM
-2

You got a cite
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:30 PM
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If anything, the vast majority Yeah I think this should be common knowledge by now. Like I was I watching porn once (😏) and their was this new girl on the scene. And they do what they normally do in those porn videos which is ask who the girl is, where she's from, why she gotten into porn, and how many bfs she had before porn etc. And basically she gets into how her last boyfriend was like 37 and she's only 20. And she goes on for about a minute that she thinks she's in the minority for liking o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:29 PM
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Therefore most women will be more likely to get played by a younger man whose new to the game, than an older man whose had his fun and wants to retire. I don't know about that. Since most older men are getting the cream of the crop
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:25 PM
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Its older women that start to like them younger. Don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:08 PM
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Dating a 21 yr old man when you're a 35 yr old woman has zero appeal - Kinda the point of my post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:07 PM
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Whats the difference between "no strings attached sex " and "we've been only been dating for a few months, hes treats me nice, we have good sex but now hes saying he isnt emotionally available or doesnt want a relationship". There is a difference. But most women are probably going to get into a situation like that with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:07 PM
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Id say most prefer a guy who's mostly older about 4 years. And usually they will date younger If they really find the guy physically attractive. But most men aren't in that category
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:58 PM
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I don't know. Do those studies just talk about what women rated older men off looks? Because a shit ton of women in my area date guys who about 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:57 PM
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I just seen it a couple posts ago
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:55 PM
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Women want older men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:36 PM
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I remember I used question on AskReddit or dating used to pop that asked what's the difference between dating a guy or a girl for bisexual people. And there were a decent amount that flat out said dating guys is way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:52 AM
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Don't forget learning how to game women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:50 AM
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Imma be completely honest. In that situation I would have been mad. BUT!!! Looking at from the outside looking in. I can understand why both parties were mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:49 AM
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This has gotta be a joke. So who are the rest of the men dating then models?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:15 AM
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Yeah that's usually what it means. But even then I still think those women are still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:36 AM
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Yes but most women still don't like the majority of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:27 AM
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Men are just expected to just have more things handled to get women regardless of the stage they are at in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:25 AM
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Nah. They lying to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:00 AM
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She would be hard wired to cheat This....is BS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:40 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:47 PM
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Nah. Even though there are some toxic males on this same very subreddit they don't compare in the slightest to the insane logic and mental gymnastics women have in general have on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:47 PM
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Defensive to the point of just sounding ridiculous? That's where I draw the line
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:33 PM
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I get that. But obviously as my question is implying the approaching and sex has already happened. I'm asking in terms of making committed relationships happen they are already dating somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:50 PM
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Have you ever had a casual relationship with a girl who was this and not eventually commit to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:52 PM
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They say likewise for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:50 PM
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Usually it's if I find someone just downright repulsive or just a person I don't get along with. But I can get along with girls I have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:47 PM
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I'm not talking about approaching women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:46 PM
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Better yet stop being so defensive of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:43 PM
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Imagine if men start talking about how much we deserve better in relationships or casual sex. Most women would look at us like we are crazy or entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:40 PM
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Kinda. Hard to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:36 PM
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More women to men ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:06 PM
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But it does happen extremely often. I just told you that most women are not underrepresented in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:13 AM
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But there aren't nessesarily more men than women in college. Most of the evidence seems to point to the opposite. So those women only grants and scholarships only seem to further the opportunity for women. On top of that let's say you are right on your assessment that are just more men at these jobs? Well what special privilege does the guy in the scenario? If he's under qualified he's not gonna get that job just because he needs to meet a quota. Hes not getting hired
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:03 AM
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does women having their body autonomy stripped from them not matter because men are dying in war? So which is worse than? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:43 AM
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Deflection yet again. You need a new bag of tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:40 AM
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My point is that the ultimate agressors are always men, so why don't you guys ever adress men being violent or rapey for your own sake instead of taking it out on feminists no one irl gives shit about? Pure fantasy. You need to wave your white flag. This lame attempts are moving the goal posts are childish and repetitive. You lose sight of the argument (when it hasn't changed) every single comment then throw out a nonsensical claim to take the heat off your back for not coming back with sound ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:39 AM
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False. Because clearly the guy above did mention where women were privileged. Not we're men and women were equally privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:34 AM
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It is her choice and i largely don't care Of course you don't. Which makes you I'll equipped for debating this topic however it gets awkward when men or even jealous women see a fully clothed androgynous childish acting streamer then bully her by thinking she's a whore or some kind of other shit by reaching awfully and projecting or sexually harrasding her Don't know what this had to do with the slut topic but ok Also there are guys on internet who sexualize or fetishize themselves for female at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:32 AM
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Buhahaha wow. So because most of those crimes are commited by men.... Those victims of those very same crimes are not privileged? talking about women's privilege does nothing to solve these problems you know? It doesn't. But then again I remember what the post was about just in case you forgot. OP claimed that most women didn't have much privilege outside of dating. I disagree. So I named the privileges women have. You see how off the rails you get just to save face? The argument was never about…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:30 AM
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Wow. So because women were less privileged before.... Any privilege they have now is... .....not a privilege? Because it's affirmative action?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:26 AM
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"I'm Going to Ignore all the privileges you just named and instead tell you all the downsides to being a women". I mean we can also play that game. Is it also a privilege to recieve more harsher sentences for the same crime, fight in wars, commit more suicide, recieve less funding for domestic violence, get little support for sexual abuse, but more likely to be raped in prison, be more like to killed in prison, be more likely to die from gang violence, be more likely to die in wars, get alot mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:24 AM
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The only civil person is the person that agrees mostly with you? Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:12 AM
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😏😅😅😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:09 AM
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Such a dumb response. You have problems but your problems don't negate my problems? So being objectified and sexually harassed is worse than fighting a platoon of gung ho Russians?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:09 AM
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Your sister has 5 m&ms and you have 8 m&ms. Your parents see this and think it’s unfair that you have more m&ms than your sister. Your parents give your sister 3 more m&ms. You get angry because your sister is privileged. Your sister thinks you are retarded. So. I'm still confused. How does this relate to the commenters points?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:06 AM
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If they enabled sluts then what the hell are the sluts doing? So there's nothing wrong the women is doing by enabling those same me to objectify her when she profits from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:05 AM
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😂 my boi is back!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:03 AM
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i see so many posts on here and other sites alluding to the “privilege” attractive women benefit from in dating and in general society. i don’t think it’s a privilege to be treated well for being fuckable You don't find this a privilege? So would you rather be treated like the plague or someone that is seen as a repulsive sexual option? Also this privilege is not exclusive to women. Very physically attractive men also share this privilege. Both most men aren't in that category. i don’t think it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:02 AM
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Half of the privileges you are listing are literally just attempts at fixing existing inequality. Calling that a “privilege” would be like saying that having more awareness campaigns about female rapists in an attempt to combat existing biases and stereotypes means male rapists are privileged. What the hell does any of this even mean? Your point about only fans is the most brain dead shit I have encountered all day. 🤣 Very ironic considering your first paragraph in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:33 AM
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Where you been man? We need you to school some cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:30 AM
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And that’s not even counting how they make thousands taking pictures of their butt holes for only fans. When does that get factored into the wage gap? Or is that called a thigh gap? Who are we kidding, women in the US don’t have thigh gaps. Not sure if that’s a privilege tbh, but Ben & Jerry has mad profits. I'm dying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:29 AM
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I'm sorry but that's gonna be most girls now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:44 AM
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Sorry to tell you this brother but most women especially in America that aren't heavily religious or in long term relationships get around a decent amount. That's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:18 AM
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Obviously it's not if I felt the need to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:53 PM
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You're right but the way it is framed from saying that it somewhat implied that you disagree with OPs post or his way of thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:49 PM
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No it wouldn't be. Because she starts off her post with newsflash
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:45 PM
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The commenter disagrees with OP saying that women are flaky on guys they don't like. But I disagree with her because women are in fact not attracted to most men they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:32 PM
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why should we elevate some small minority/niche group up as if they hold any significant sway? EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:30 PM
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🤦‍♂️ Unbelievable. This person confirms women are flaky because they’re not interested in a man. Did you not literally read my last comment? Most women are not attracted to the majority of the men they meet. So they do indeed flake on me they do no like. So indeed women do flake on the majority of men they meet because they aren't attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:18 PM
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Most are. Because most won't be attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:13 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:12 PM
1

I agree. You care but it's not a huge deal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:12 PM
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So making yourself care about the relationship is more to bite you int the butt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:12 PM
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Yeah but it's till missing the point. If most men are not attracted to most men they will be flakey with those men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
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Which is missing the point to OPs post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:09 PM
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Which again. Makes my point and OPs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:08 PM
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Apparently you didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:47 PM
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If you're cold Approaching most of the time you are not going to have that. So most of the time just get her number instead. If she offers insta just refuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:55 PM
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Women are not flaky if we are actually interested in Which is most of time a rarity for the majority of men women meet. Which is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:42 PM
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It's doubly acceptable for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:41 PM
3

Never do Instagram. You're just begging to be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:40 PM
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Lol he's just as likely to get rejected. Chubby girls get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:39 PM
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Same reason why Red pill pisses off feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:48 PM
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Id say the women in the photo with a good enough face in a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:29 PM
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I don't what the hell is this subs problem. The girl in the picture looks good as hell. Thick in all the right places
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:28 PM
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Again no. That still makes little sense. Just because you would date overweight men doesn't mean my standards are higher than yours. Because last time I checked women and men value different things. If a fat guy was financially good, handsome, and had great humor it wouldn't matter if he struggled a little in the weight department.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:08 AM
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Doesn't matter what you call it. Men not dating overweight women is not the same as the standards you have set
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:47 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:35 AM
1

I just told you how to get girls with Money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:26 AM
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Lie about how much money you have. Say you work you work at McDonald's but use your Money to look like a celebrity. But nice clothes, flashy jewelry, great haircuts, etc. Then say you have bad credit because you spend most of your money of material possessions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:24 AM
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It sounds like you already know what you want then. You can get women with money but they actually like you for you especially if they know you are just a guy who shows money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:13 AM
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Most guys on here claim they have low standards yet they truly have high standards like: she must be skinny, have big boobs, round butt, pretty face- with a small nose, big eyes, perfect teeth, plump lips, must be early 20s etc.... This is so utterly false and frankly I'm tired of women saying it. Especially when time after time there's not enough evidence to back this up. Do men go after very attractive women? Of course they do. Doesn't mean that is their threshold for their partner to be datea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:11 AM
1

Looks are more important for girls picking you buy for overall happiness it's money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:09 AM
1

I don't agree with this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:36 PM
0

Buyers do set the standards. Women are the buyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:50 AM
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Or the advice sucks despite it's good intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:09 PM
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I'm sorry but it still bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:22 PM
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be genuinely interested in other people and treat women like you treat everyone else I generally hate this type of advice. I don't treat women like everyone else because we have different ways of interacting with others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:26 PM
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Going after is probably not the way I'd describe it. But they are more attracted to the men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:45 AM
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Dude no. That's such a childish way of interpreting people. Just because someone is more attracted to a guy who's taken doesn't make them shitty. But nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:04 AM
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Everyone does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:55 PM
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Good for you. Most other guys don't meet that stride this quick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:57 PM
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Because unfortunately it is. Especially if you're a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:41 PM
1

Actually no it's backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:11 PM
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This is funny because women do this all the time. If women are gonna play the field than so should men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:10 PM
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I'd agree if if he said more willing. But not 100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:10 PM
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I think you just a have specific sample size. Most girls I know regardless of their morals are more attractive to taken men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:08 PM
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Lol nice Become Human joke
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:07 PM
2

You need to get your head out from all that sand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:37 AM
0

As a general rule. There is a balance. Don't be so forwards sharing vulnerabilities but don't always be so quick to hide everything. If you are going to vulnerable. Talk vulnerable but don't act vulnerable. I.E. crying, low self esteem, emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:29 PM
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He doesn't have to be either. Doesn't mean I have to personally do it though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:26 PM
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No I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:46 PM
0

Not true at all. 80 percent of Americans are not overweight. And most men are ok with dating a woman who might is slightly overweight. I'm talking a woman being like 5ft6 160 -180 pound range. It's starts to be really unnattractive in the 190 plus ramge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:33 PM
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You literally think most of those subs are bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:07 PM
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Wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:07 PM
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I really find it hard to believe that most men's standards are fairly high
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:05 PM
-2

I think this girl in this case is just a flirty girl. She flirts with no intention of it ever going forward. Just because you gets a kick out of flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:41 PM
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No. Just because there is an even number of men and women doesn't mean that it will be evenly distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:20 AM
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I don't get how this makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:18 AM
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Ain't this the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:36 PM
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Disagree. Men give equally as bad advice to men so its not a gender issue- everyone can give bad advice. I disagree with your disagreement Red pill teaches men to be extra confident in their self and hide there emotions because they think women will judge them for it. Well it is very useful to hide certain emotions that aren't attractive Another red pill advice: Muscles attract the ladies. This simply isn't true if you don't have a good face or personality and are short. Very false. Women do ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:29 AM
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This answer is straight bogus. Most men do legitimately are asking advice on how to get consistent results from women in their league but it's still much harder for average men to get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:25 AM
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Well that's still awful advice. Intentions are good but it doesn't help most men. Most men have little luck on OLD and try to socialize with women. But again they come up short when they aren't good at those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:24 AM
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No one ever said that. It's just shitty advice because it implies that most men are in fact treating women like aliens and that is the primary reason that they have had no success in dating. Which is hugely false. I have saw your comment frequently on this very post. So you seemed to have been on this post for a while. One Redditor used a perfect example earlier of how women in most dating subs overly use the advice to take a shower. Here's the thing I'm aware that personal hygiene might be a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:24 PM
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It's still shitty fucking advice. I'm pretty sure most of the most socially awkward men can have normal conversations with women. The problem is they can't not talk to women in overly platonic way. Despite what people tell you. Talking to women is not the same as talking to dudes. The most obvious difference is that you are not interested in dating those guys and most guys are not into talking about much emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:15 PM
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THANK YOU!!!!!! Omg I want to fucking scream when I hear people say that shit. And they tell this to men all the fucking time like men have to be treating women like fucking aliens to ever have a hard time getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:13 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:11 PM
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Because that's been working so well so far right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:02 PM
2

OMG! IF I COULD GIVE GOLD!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:00 PM
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It's so overused. I refuse to believe most of the male population doesn't know how to wash their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:00 PM
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Instructions unclear. Penis stuck in the shower rod
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:58 PM
3

Buhahaha SpongeBob reference ftw!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:57 PM
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r/dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:59 PM
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I'm an average guy and have had tons of luck!" I mean it also an extremely common trope for men to say they are completely average and sleep with the whole damn block when they are not completely average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:58 PM
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Yeah definitely it's that reason and because she's probably Insanely picky. Physically attractive girls are approached. She probably rejects most men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:57 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:33 PM
1

I'm pretty sure most women are having more casual sex then men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:31 PM
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Of course you'd be rejected alot more. But you still would get a decent amount of success approaching Chads than any regular guy can get approaching other regular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:30 PM
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What I'm saying is that being a woman isn't the entire or even main factor that decide women's success in dating. I didn't get a single date before I developed social skills. I grew up socially isolated. I was incredibly awkward when I was younger, and didn't get any attention or dates from men until I developed my social skills. Men didn't just fall into my lap. I had to actually work on things such as my communication skills to attract men. Im sure you did. But I think being a woman is the maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:28 PM
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This doesn't sound like something super popular subs would allow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:43 PM
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I don't think it's rare for men to care about it real life they don't usually talk about it openly. Now they will compromise on this because of lack of options alot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:22 PM
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Not in real life What do you think I'm referring to video games? Adults don’t talk about things like this; it’s understood that character stands alone. Not openly at first but usually people will observe you to see where your numbers actually lie. Sometimes through subtle actions or your words. Besides that, people who are fixated on someone’s past sexual experience should understand they are neither entitled to that information or likely to get the truth. I think most people understand that. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:21 PM
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“My 5’4 guy friend who’s no Adonis has slept with every woman I know, including my wife” I fucking died!!! 😏🤣😅😂😂😂 That's soooooo true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:17 PM
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For long term relationships is it pretty concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:06 PM
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and don't forget the most important rule. TAKE A SHOWER! BECAUSE YOU STINK!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:04 PM
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You are still very naive. You may decrease your rejection rate because you probably don't approach very attractive esq men. But your success you do have is very dependant on your gender. You can't convince women of this simple fact tho. Even though it's a fairly obvious. Naivety is very common amongst women because of the coddling they do have compared to men in dating. This doesn't surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:59 PM
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I don't fully agree with you there. Insanely good social skills massively increase your success with people alone. But I think she is overrating her social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:11 PM
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I haven't been rejected because of my social skills. Imagine really being that naive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:09 PM
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The advantage of being a woman alone is enough to approach. It just is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:07 PM
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Dumbest take on Reddit. This is considered normal takes you guys. Please tell me this a joke 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:05 PM
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I still don't buy the partner count one. It might be alot of promiscuous men throwing off the averages
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:00 PM
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What if I said that one of your aunties, grandmas, or cousin has raped a boy before?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:58 PM
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That is not what most men think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:57 PM
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People who struggle struggle for 2 reasons 1. Their expectation of the women they want is too high for what they can aquire. In other words on scales of 1-10, A guy who is a 5 once a 9/10 and will not accept the 5 and 6 he has better chances with. Nope don't agree at all. Most guys will go after average girls like crazy because they odds of them getting a 6 is extremely small. Let alone a 9 A person put no effort in getting women. More content with playing video games and having discussions of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:23 AM
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Me. And I struggle because I'm not physically attractive, struggle to talk to women, aren't that funny, don't have that much game, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:20 AM
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So a big thing I hear is to become friends with women first. You failed already. That's the exact opposite of what you should be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:19 AM
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For a guy? I'd say about 28. For a woman? 22
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:14 AM
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) Women who view male virginity as a red flag are likely (almost certainly) misandrist, so forget them. Nothing of value lost. I wouldn't nessesarily agree. they might just not want inexperienced men or find it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:14 AM
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No that's not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:41 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:40 PM
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I assure you that morals have little to do with being low value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:43 PM
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can't grasp it? Because the problem is the the same people who are complaining about the whiners are the ones who have consistent relationships and can't grasp why everyone else is complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:40 PM
1

What's the in-between in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:39 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:38 PM
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Guys like you claim that when a man is unsuccessful romantically, his confidence dies with his non existent sex life. From experience, I can tell you that it is the exact opposite. Due to lack of confidence a man's sex life is non existent. Well Id disagree with you. Confidence means Jack if you're aren't good with women. And not having sex drains a man's confidence Realistically women have no interest in having access to only few men out there. There would be fierce competition for all these me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:35 PM
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I think genuine attraction is more of a factor, I feel like saying women want experienced men is the same as saying women only want bad boys who are tatted up and ripped and pump and dump and that's just not true, not for all women. Not for all women. But most women do prefer experienced men. Over inexperienced men unfortunately I actively preferred someone who hadn't had tons of experience because having many partners typically equates to more std exposure which is a huge turn off for me as are…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:21 PM
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They may be the case for you. But that's not likely the case for most inexperienced men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:06 PM
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That's the crappy part about it all. I thought we reached a point we're men Can talk about problems without seeming whiny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:12 PM
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That's the crappy part about it all. I thought we reached a point we're men Can talk about problems without seeming whiny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:12 PM
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Well frankly I'm sick of tired of it. I couldn't give two craps about the people who are tired of the whining and the complaining. It's a huge problem for.men and women that most people can't even grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:09 PM
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Proof that the dating climate is messed up nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:04 PM
0

Yes you are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:00 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:58 PM
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Yeah this answer is out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:58 PM
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Yeah but internship implies not being paid. Which most people aren't willing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:18 AM
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I don't expect most women to agree with this. Especially the ones that like inexperienced men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:48 AM
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That said I can assure you that being a nice person who women like isn’t about learning and practicing “manipulation skills”. I believe your thinking is way too innocent in abc esque to really get the full picture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:46 AM
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I'm clean shaven Jeffro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:45 AM
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Can't say. I don't relate to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:32 AM
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Nah I'd say the latter is better for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:31 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:27 AM
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And experience by your own implicationss. Trial and error is basically you operating off experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:23 AM
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Except for the fact that there are slightly more men than women at a young age, this doesn’t make mathematical sense Uh what? If there is an excess number of men that means there are gonna be some that don't pair up. There is a reason most men do have sex once they get older, and I believe that there are more men in their 30s having sex than women even No Inexperience will only make a man struggle for so long until he finds an attractiveness match woman who eventually wants to settle down. Uh fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:22 AM
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Women absolutely fawn over an attractive shy man, so no. Yeah no duh. But most men are not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:17 AM
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Apparently you all don’t like when women are honest on here. How did you get that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:16 AM
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This is so dumb. What are the odds that a guy will be inexperienced but simultaneously a huge risk taker and but are also smooth and attractive while doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:15 AM
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You know that's not what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:12 AM
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Original innocence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:50 PM
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Most men would get a virgin women if they could. But sadly most can't. Especially in America. Finding a woman who is over the age of 25 who isn't heavily religious and a virgin is extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:50 PM
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I don't think they really do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:49 PM
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So basically....they need experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:48 PM
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Most women admitting themselves on older posts that they are likely to assume something is wrong with the man if he lacks experience past 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:47 PM
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An experienced dud of a man is less appealing than an inexperienced good time fellow. Dude what? Are you guys living like your life is a fortune cookie? What makes you think the inexperienced mam is gonna be a fun time around everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:16 PM
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After a certain age (25+) having no experience means you’re BEHIND the majority of men. Which is kinda what I said but ok. But what exactly is the experience for a 25 year old men. Because I'd argue most men are still pretty inexperienced at that age. Younger (19-22) inexperienced women are much more forgiving about younger men’s inexperience Depending on if they have dated more experienced men on more occasions Stop listening to older women talk about their reasonable experience preferences and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:13 PM
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For you it is. But for most women they prefer experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:08 PM
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Yes but charisma is still reliant of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:21 PM
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Which Is why I said most men have a harder time getting that experience beyond a certain age. The women won't give them the opportunity to it much pass a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:21 PM
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I completely read your comment. Its just not really on point imo. You are talking about exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:20 PM
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I'm saying you cant make the connection while simultaneously dispoving of the entire point of my post. Unless there is a certain point the context changes the entire scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:19 PM
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The ultimate xfactors for getting are game and status. Those are insanely hard to require. Don't need much looks if you have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:14 PM
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Experience isn’t necessary, because inexperienced women will just pair up with inexperienced men In theory yes If the counter-argument is that even inexperienced women are more experienced than inexperienced men, then it’s not like women have a choice. Beat me to it Women want monogamous relationships so eventually they’ll just have to pair up. Women don’t want to spend the rest of their lives in soft harems with “experienced” men and having to share them with other women It doesn't have to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:07 PM
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False. What are referring to when you are saying attractive. Are you referring to strictly physical or just overall in general attractive. Because most men won't be complete head turners in as far as physical attraction alone. So most will have to compensate in other areas. The unnattractive men can still have experience granted they give themselves enough opportunity to do so. We all have unnattractive physically unappealing friends. Doesn't mean we want to avoid them like the plague. They usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:48 PM
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That's the reality for most men these days. Society forces you to be a strong pessimist or a blind optimistic. You're either George Costanza or Ted Mosby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:35 PM
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Facts upon facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:21 PM
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Never said or implied that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:20 PM
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I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:19 PM
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You can't make the connection that the reason alot of men are awkward is because they are inexperienced. Which is comical. Also inexperienced men being a great conversationalist and great at making moves are the anomaly not the rule. And now you're gonna do a lost reply of why inexperienced men who just pick up girls regularly are a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:14 PM
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How can they step their game up if they lack experience to know what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:11 PM
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It’s not inexperience. It’s the awkwardness that a lot of inexperienced men have 😑. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:08 PM
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Take it all you want. You still ain't getting that 400 dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:08 PM
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And who has charisma? People with lots of experience sir
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:07 PM
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don't get a fuck and neither should you. But I still do. So now we have an impasse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:06 PM
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Damned both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:02 PM
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I don't have a compelling enough answer for this. Because women do require a TON of work and effort to get an keep especially. I fight with this knowledge of why bother everyday. I don't care what most of the PPD community is saying relating to it's really not that bad. No it is bad. But I have to fight that feeling everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:54 PM
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Logically speaking but reality wise it's very unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:17 PM
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That doesn't mean the guy will be transparent about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:56 PM
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If men had more types it wouldn't matter much if they couldn't get those types
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:42 PM
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If men went with a wider net then they should have an easier time getting women but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:39 PM
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Those women can still find plenty of men who will want relationships. And most men will compromise on sex for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:19 PM
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Man you are reaching so hard. Men don't get mad for half of the stuff you are mentioning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:12 PM
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Alot more time and effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:01 PM
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What top thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:58 PM
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The shy girls will meet up with men if they are attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:56 PM
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Take all the knowledge you've accrued here and go apply it to a ton of both men and women. Simp hard. The problem is you very much won't get relationships this way. You'll just end up friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:01 PM
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I disagree heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:59 PM
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Yes but you don't really need to be most of those things to be successful consistently if we are talking women specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:59 PM
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This still will offset by their lopsided options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:58 PM
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Been trying it offline for years. Still insanely HARD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:58 PM
1

Except it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:37 PM
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No because you are being very unrealistic in your scenarios. This is a common problem women have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:36 PM
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What men mean when they say they have given up on dating is they aren't making advances unless a pretty girl slaps them around the face with indicators of interest. No because guys will still make moves on unnattractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:11 AM
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Well you can negotiate who does more chores when the guy is available at the house? And the what the hell is emotional labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:09 AM
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You are not living in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:08 AM
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You need to tell her how the world really works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:07 AM
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No you don't. Most women are not that desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:00 AM
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Very detailed response
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:58 AM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:57 AM
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There isn't much alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:57 AM
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Of course it is. But then again I'm not superman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:56 AM
1

That's literally means nothing. If Justin Timberlake all of a sudden became broke would stop slaying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:54 AM
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Why does there need to be something deeply wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:51 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:48 AM
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Uh no. There are plenty of women are socially inept without being weird cat ladies and don't keep themselves attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:47 AM
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Guys have less options to date, have, sex, get relationships, have to make all the first moves, pay for most of the dates, and have be more socially savy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:01 PM
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So their not that unnattractive then. They may be physically unnattractive but that doesn't mean much on general attraction. I mean Danny Devito Is unnattractive physically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:59 PM
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All ranges. Even when I was exclusively going for below average chicks it didn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:57 PM
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I never liked this advice. I know plenty of men who have their own hobbies. But it's still hard to date women because of that. Because almost every woman is getting chased in their spaces if you like dancing, sports, or just barhopping
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:56 PM
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Except when you're a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:54 PM
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idk why guys act like this isn’t a thing) Because from what I seen this is not exclusively what men go for. They go for all range of chicks all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:50 PM
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Many guys do not, though, and unless they put in some kind of work to become someone actually interesting to women, dating will always be very difficult for them. So therefore that would mean dating is worse for men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:49 PM
2

I'm not fat and I still struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:48 PM
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I don't think most women are single. Except the very old ones
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:43 PM
2

But that's also on women too. But they can still not leave their homes and get matches on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:42 PM
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Well that help but compare because it's so unbelievably hard. And most of the efforts seem disproportionate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:42 PM
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I cant take this seriously. Why does it benefit men and not women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:40 PM
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How it does it fall on the women? We're going to pretend that men aren't working more hours than women overall in jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:39 PM
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If I had to rate it on a scale between 1 and Rocket Science it would be Quantum Mechanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:37 PM
4

Oh no. Me and Tinder are done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:33 PM
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Honestly I still find it hard to believe. Because I'm below average but godamn it I know I'm not social retard. Yet women feel absolutely impossible to date. To picky and way too flaky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:32 PM
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Well that's kinda my point also. You're not hanging around unattractive men. So how would you know how unnattractive men are doing if you don't hang around them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:30 PM
1

That you met in your entire life? Sheesh. You must really not like hanging around dudes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:37 PM
10

What about guys like me who get barely get any matches and when I do it's a girl trying to promote her only fans? As much as I hear women complain that guys in social media want sex....at least they actually like them in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:35 PM
16

I've never been able to easily find the latter either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:34 PM
8

You're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:33 PM
5

Or it could be because you hang around alot very socially savy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:32 PM
4

I think these are primarily the exceptions and not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:31 PM
1

They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:30 PM
3

You monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:30 PM
10

Because she might have fruit snacks. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:20 PM
8

But I don't think it has anything to do with gender Anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:18 PM
7

Worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:17 PM
2

How long did they have to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:17 PM

That's... Not what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:09 PM
16

It's not as complicated as you think. Women make up the majority of people on social media and the majority of people watching most television. This social media platforms and television programs tailor more to women because that's their primary audience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:06 PM
4

I can break this down pretty fairly. So here's how it goes. If I were to give you a decent idea of women it's that most mainly want relationships with a guy they find attractive. The problem is they usually can't find a guy they who is all in one package. They will meet guys they can emotional connect with but they are not reallying physically or emotionally attracted to, they will meet guys who are hot but give off the vibes that they would be a horrible long term partner, they will meet guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:08 PM
1

ASAP Rocky IGGY Azalea, Rihanna (supposed cheated on her while pregnant with his kid, Rita Ora, Kendall Jenner, Tahiry Jose, Chanel Iman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:22 PM
1

Because they feel alot of men value their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:20 AM
1

What ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:08 PM
1

😒
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:49 PM
1

That wouldn't be 70 percent. That's about 66
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:48 PM
1

Did you forget I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:57 PM
3

Do more “romantic” acts =/= romance. Shit- most the time it’s just something they saw on TV or movie instead of anything actually thought out. Dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:56 PM
2

Nah I wouldn't say that. Unattractive men imo are more loyal. They usually can't cheat even if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:56 PM
5

Where are your numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:55 PM
1

I'd still wanna get wined and dined
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:11 PM
2

Never said women should do more. I highlighted that men do more romantic acts despite going after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:08 PM
2

If your standard is warm and willing then options don’t affect anything but your ability to act on your desires. It doesn’t impact the presence or absence of those desires. I don't agree. It does play apart. Depending on morals you can overide these. Also yo you’re arguing that more options changes a guys ceiling which isn’t necessarily true. It just changes his floor. A man having less options doesn’t stop him from lusting after women significantly more attractive than himself. He’ll still lust…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:07 PM
1

You really think women just date average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:52 PM
5

More options equal more standards. You are less likely to be loyal if said person doesn't hold up to your standards. And men usually have the lowest standards because of their lack of options. There are plenty of men that could probably want to cheat but still can't because of limited options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:51 PM
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How many men do you know talk about waxing their private parts, Most guys I know do tell me they manscape Because it's usually annoying for the women to give head. or are watching what they eat cause they don’t want women to think they are fat? Alot actually. Because they are trying to get into shape. But it also depends on what type of body type they are going for. Because I have coincidentally enough encountered guys who tried to bulk up more for being too skinny. Or wondering if the outfit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:47 PM
2

You took this one scenario and ran with it like its the plague and it's clear you think that the women in this scenario probably doesn't have high standards but is just constantly running into liars and phonies. Here's my thing. If you met me. I don't give a shit about age. Unless you're like 50 plus then maybe I'll fall back. Most for the most part I approach women from most ages if they are attractive enough. I mean some 40 year old women be looking smoking in my area. So I can't help it. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:31 PM
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Sex sells primarily to men because they desire more of it because of Testosterone and because they have less access to it. I hear women all the time say they have to stop being friendly with men because they interpret it as flirting. Never hear many men say that about women. Most of my friends would tell me that most of their dates despite having no connection wanted a relationship. I almost never hear the equivalent for men. I hear of alot of women who have stalked and followed by their ex boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:16 PM
1

I think most women are less loyal than men. Men have far less options than women. So they have alot less opportunities to cheat. Women have far more options and far higher standards. And how does the divorce rates approved that most of those ended by the guy cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:04 PM
1

They care. Just not to the same extent as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:16 AM
0

Objection!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:09 AM
-5

And what they want is Superman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:08 AM
3

Yeah they do however keep options close tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:07 AM
1

Sure they can. They can work out, build their careers, build their social class, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:05 AM
4

That's a contradiction. Most men are not attractive to most women so therefore they don't have options. Men becoming more attractive wasn't even the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:03 AM
0

What is everything you reject from RP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:50 PM
0

Almost everything eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:47 PM
3

The odds are small for guys to get success approaching women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:46 PM
5

Because they have less options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:45 PM
4

Yeah. It says men have less options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:11 PM
4

That definitely has to do with options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:10 PM
3

If that was the case I would have started a Fleshlight company years ago and prostitutes would make little
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:05 PM
1

But men can develop attractiveness through years of hard work. So can women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:04 PM
3

It doesn't. This is the biggest weakness in RP philosophy in my opinion. I can't really find any particular descriptions of dating in RP thought that really strike me as false, but when you combine them all it really lays out a hellish, transactional nightmare-world. The only answer I ever get when I ask about this stuff is "just spin plates bro, enjoy the decline". Fucking gross. Lol like no. The hell you talking about. It definitely gets into the topic of love and subjects such as how to pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:52 PM
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You know women can still approach men right? And it might take 5 seconds to approach but you're odds of getting that success from that approach is extremely small unless you are extremely attractive and smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:37 PM
4

I'd rather be wined and dined as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:36 PM
1

I don't agree at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:35 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:24 PM
2

I think you're half right. The cultures of the west and the east are vary different. One of the things that are a so called rite of passage for men in the west is for them to lose their v card. Granted I bet it's a rite of passage in Asian culture too but not as prevalent or as important to lose by your 20s.. So yes I agree that some misogynistic tendencies can be rooted in the so called disdain for virginity in the west.. but it doesn't quite tell the whole picture. Because are we claiming that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:41 PM
1

You mean the conservative parent "sex talk". RP men aren't rebelling against "blue pill platitudes", they are rebelling against the useless sex talk given by conservative parents. All that means is "sex is bad; don't get her pregnant". That isn't "dating advice" and was never intended to be. That's not what I said. And that's not really true. It's becoming clear that many men have taken this advice literally and fail to understand the complexity of that directive. Opening doors and tipping a hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:24 PM
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How is “don’t be a dick” bad advice? It's usually not. But that's usually not just the extent parents go to teach their sons about dating. They usually tell you to cherish women, treat them extremely kindly, and to basically to do very unselfish things with them that could potentially hurt them. Sounds good on paper but most men get into a bad habit of placing ones needs above their own. If anything men alot of men suffering from heavy dosage of blue pill need to be alot more selfish because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:07 PM
3

After not very much scrutiny, what becomes very apparent is that “the real truth” that Red Pill holds is ideals that are very basic common sense things that the average joe is already aware of (even if they don’t do anything about it themselves). I beg to differ. It might seem very obvious now since there has been resurgence of people adapting more pickup artist esq material or red pill material. If you listen to how most people talk about dating though now it's usually people telling some sort …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:35 AM
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I think most rpers can be successful granted they want to put in the massive amounts of hard work. It's not really their mindset unless it's in the very extreme category. It's the work they are willing to put in. I follow RP but I was never willing to put in the massive amount of effort it take to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:29 AM
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I don't believe only attractive men treat women bad. Not at all. Attractive men are usually the ones that can get into a relationship first tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:40 PM
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I see the exact same thing of women just raising their kids and getting a job. Like those same people make it seem like those women cure cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:24 PM
1

Not really Because you're assuming that most of the women have heavy hangups about having a lot of sexual partners or have a big moral compass on lying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:00 PM
21

You honestly think most men are attention seekers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:20 PM
7

Bad teeth in the UK is such a fairly common phenomenon in that area that it's probably considered normal. But usually if a physically unattractive guy is cheating is because he more than likely has some redeeming qualities somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:56 PM
5

MRA and the manos here are totally different spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:54 PM
2

Sure she can lie, but that's no way to build good foundations for a relationship... But most women will still do it anyway. They might not like to lie but everyone has skeletons they hide
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:53 PM
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The two examples I gave -- remembering a birthday and washing a dish every once in a while -- are the two specific examples that I can remember from my own life. It's happened before, I just don't remember what they were on reference to. In social media, I remember it being used in reference to an article about men feeding their own children or taking them to school. Again, the bare minimum for a human being that the man helped create. Yeah I think these examples are taken way outta proportion. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:52 PM
0

That still wouldn't count as most. That's 33 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:51 PM
1

My mistake then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:50 PM
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I know this is not always the case. But people are more willing to accept bad behavior from someone with redeeming qualities. Such as they have a very entertaining personality, are physically attractive, or someone you emotional connect with. A person with just selfish and narcissistic tendencies and no redeeming qualities isn't gonna get picked to date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:49 PM
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Hmm. That's weird. I met plenty and dated a few and they didn't have a rape past. Alot got groped, and touched on, but not raped. I gotta look up numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:38 PM
1

It's only very diminishing if everyone finds out a woman is very promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:36 PM
1

If he’s using you for sex then you’re not going to get the benefits of sex. So it’s a pointless endeavor. You’d be better of masturbating. But that's not true tho. You are talking about a very specific situation when it comes to casual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:22 PM
4

That's a tall order to assume most women in their mind 20s have been sexually abused
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:20 PM
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More women are getting with fat, lazy slobs with porn addictions and who play video games all day. You could say the same about jobless women, who are pot bellied, and get on Tik Tok all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:16 PM
4

So therefore the bar would be kinda hi wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:14 PM
3

I haven’t known any normal well-adjusted guys looking who are single. I see plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:13 PM
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I think it's more so that they will accepting bad behavior from attractive men and then complaining about it to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:12 PM
9

The bar is on the floor" specifically means that men who do the bare minimum are praised like they're curing cancer. Do you have any examples of this? And it's kinda weird because women will always have far higher standards than men so what men consider high will always be realively low for women. It would be like a woman approaching a man and planning a date. For most men that's a bonus. But for most women they consider they very minimal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:09 PM
3

I agree with your statement but that still would be a contradiction to your title. You should have made the title say that the bar is not low. Not standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:03 PM
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It's because women will take the attractive men they date whom they placed alot of investment into and got hurt by and apply that to all men. It's kinda like when women say all men like to look at other women's social media, cheat on you, and are incredibly unchivalrous. When most men don't even have the options to act that narcissistic on a regular basis with multiple women for that long. The unattractive guys in their eyes don't exist. Yeah alot of this TikToks you see are basically virtue sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:00 PM
4

I think he means in a way that people tend to oversell their dating success or partner success.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:44 PM
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For 80% men and 20% women dating market is brutal. Men have to meet high standards set by women and at the same time face fierce competition by other men Remaining men and women will disagree with that, trust fund kids will say that becoming rich is easy, and dolphins will say holding your breath for 10 minutes doesn't require any effort... because privileges we have are invisible to us until we lose them. I agree Listening to blue pill women advice is like sheep getting advised by wolves. Be ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:43 PM
2

Because it doesn't have to be one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:37 PM
1

It’s extremely harsh and juvenile. There’s no attributes or characteristics behind being a victim to sexual assault. Well actually there is. Depending on the victims. Have you met many? It might sound harsh but then again some people need harsh rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:36 PM
1

Because of this realisation, I'm now far more open to the idea of a committed relationship, mainly because I don't particularly like the idea that by having a one night stand with a woman, it is actually going to be diminishing her value. It's an unfair trade But it's only diminishing if everyone finds out about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:34 PM
3

You can say that we all went through our version of anger phase after discovering how men really are and what they think about women. You honestly think that most men subscribe to the dark side of red pill? Take a look at Andrew Schulz video on Fresh and Fit, then Aba and Preach's multiple videos on Fresh and Fit. When you read the comments you'll see that's not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:27 PM
1

I was a dumb ass “I’ll can’t date a girl who’s been raped” follow all the “what it means to be a man” masculinity rules as teenager. Your first hard rule might sound harsh buts it's actually not. From what I noticed the women that tend the be the most trouble behind the extremely manic ones are the ones who have history of sexual abuse. Hard for them to trust anyone after that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:14 PM
1

Maybe because they are two different spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:12 PM
4

Yeah it's that 2 year drop I hear about that Chase Amante discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:09 PM
14

I as a guy understand that there is probably never gonna be a time where we can almost fully talk shop with women about dating because it's generally gonna sound too offensive for them to hear. Especially because we have to do proactive with making the first moves. Alot of times if we discuss strategy around women it's gonna sound manipulative to them. When in reality we need to be making ALOT of those moves and making them appear as natural as possible to not seem try hard. We can talk on a sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:08 PM
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I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:59 PM
1

So much easier to get laid if you like women and like being around them, just dont respect them too much. Dude no. If you are only going off being off a fortune cookie then yeah maybe. But you need alot more than to get laid. There are plenty of men who like being around women who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:59 PM
1

I would say the best shortcut is being natural, being yourself, if you try to be someone else, you’ll mess it up. This advice never works for beginners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:42 PM
1

How is this supposed to happen in casual hookups as I mentioned above (ppl ghosting the next day, etc) where you barely know the person? FWB this would maybe apply to. Because you can still have a positive sex experience with a casual hookup and a meaningful connection That's not what I said at all. I meant the version of intimacy that includes NSA casual sex. Some women enjoy attention from their male friends without sex, as well. But nowhere did I say we want to be in a relationship with no se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:41 PM
1

You don’t have those added benefits if they’re using you. When someone is using another for something the point is for them to extract benefits while giving nothing in return. So there will be no sexual pleasure, emotional support, pillow talks unless they guys intentions are to do more than just use a random woman for sex. Again not nessesarily. He could be using you for sex and not be committed to you. Or want to commit to you How so? If you took a woman to expensive dinners and gave her money…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:38 PM
1

Nope. It's the fact that guys are desperate for sex because they get no affection I'm general. And are willing to put up with bad sex out of sheer desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:33 PM
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Most guys do not care. How do I know? I have slept with men. Sounds like a generalization Usually only men that have been in long term loving relationships know how to please a woman. Guys that only do one night stands or fwb are usually bad lovers that don't care. You're think in very black and white. It doesn't have to be either or. Some people have different stages for their lives FBW makes them maybe a little better if the fwb guides them but even guiding a guy gives no guarantee hope of him…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:32 PM
1

Women can orgasm if they have a decent lover that knows what the hell he's doing. An orgasm is not required for women to enjoy their sexual encounter. It helps. But not required. Also why the hell are you even bringing this up,? That's not what I was arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:29 PM
1

You do not have to be shallow to be attracted to man who's tall, has money, and in shape. You are just attractive to the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:25 PM
3

You're sister sounds very interesting. What does she normally not believe you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:21 PM
1

Yes but he would have to rely on the internet to get those very same books unless they have those books available at every bookstore. And he doesn't know for sure if these books are worth buying. The internet provides book reviews
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:19 PM
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As if the internet is the only remedy to ones dating issues? How do you think dudes did it before the internet? Which is why I asked you the question. But anyway what exactly are you implying here? That a guy is supposed to ask his friends, get a dating book, or read a magazine? Well first off you're implying that the male in question has friends, or at least has reliable friends they can lean on to give them good advice and not judge him harshly that he's struggling. And how are we so sure that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:18 AM
2

That goes to show how little you think of women. Here we go. The majority of people don’t like to be degraded casually. There’s a portion of people that enjoy it as a sexual kink, which they’re allowed to do. But for dating and relationships, women don’t just ignore being dehumanized because a man is so handsome. That’s red pill fanfiction. I agree. But people do allow people with more value to get away with things. Even if they are mortally corrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:12 AM
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How? How can a sexual encounter be pleasurable for a women if she receives zero pleasure or satisfaction from? Maybe I had to put this in caps. Women CAN derive pleasure from casual sex if it's good or she really desires the guy. I never said or implied that it will always be good. She wouldn't know he was a selfish lover until she slept with him. Agree. But that's usually means it's a one and done type deal. No repeated offenses being had here. It sucks that it happened the first time. I agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:10 AM
3

Yeah I remember this video. She made very good points years ago. You're a winner and I love you already
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:04 AM
1

So, some people enjoy it, not everyone does. I would argue that the majority of women do not. And there's such a thing as faking it. But like I said. They may not enjoy the fact they are getting used. Because for most women, good sex happens after we make that connection with someone, feel comfortable with them and have somewhat of a bond. That is definitely still a thing without relationships. Hell it most of the time a prerequisites for women to engage in casual sex with a man. If that wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:02 AM
1

Mutual sex is not mutual pleasure I didn't say that it was. I said it can have mutual pleasure that fact is the reason for the lack of appeal and why people wanting to use you for sex is not better than people wanting to use you for money. No not nessesarily. Because you still have the added benefits I also mentioned in the other comment. Take it like this. Spending lots of time and money on someone you’re not sleeping with isn’t fun. Agreed However if they spend the same amount of time and mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:54 AM
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You could apply this to women’s ambivalence towards easily available casual sex. I feel like it’s been repeated here before that the casual sex we can get is such garbage quality that it’s not even worth it. And that's the disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:51 AM
1

I was never saying that I looked at women one way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:50 AM
2

How will that not make sense. The post I just made showed that alot of women looked down on men who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:49 AM
5

Well it doesn't matter what you would do. Most women would still date him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:48 AM
2

No he’s not. There are plenty of legitimately sad OPs who know how to express frustration while maintaining enough perspective to not blame the world for their crappy luck. They get sympathy and treated in good faith. At least until the incel brigade comes to start a shitshow, calling women bitches and courting company for their misery. It’s very easy not to do that, you know. Well I still disagree heavily. Alot of complainer men who are frustrated are penalized for it heavily. They are basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:48 AM
1

Only if the woman WANTS casual sex. False. That implies that a woman who doesn't like casual sex can never enjoy casual sex if the opportunity presents itself. Which is very untrue. I have slept with women who weren't all into casual sex and they have enjoyed sex with me and have also talked to women who enjoyed casual sex with other men And it's laughable to assume hookup sex is good for the woman, even most of the time. Why is it laughable? And what makes you think the guy would provide any em…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:25 AM
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Men who use women for sex don't give a shit about their pleasure. Which I why I clearly said can get mutual pleasure out of sex. Also if a guy if a selfish lover in bed it increases his odds that wa woman won't want to sleep with him in repeat sessions. So that problem usually solves itself. Just ask women how many bad sexual experiences they've had due to men only prioritizing their own orgasm. Don't need to. I already know a ton since I've talked to women for ages about it and they share this …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:18 AM
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Am I making up all the angry bitching and moaning from sexless guys blaming everything from women to social media to Netflix shows that we see on a daily basis? Yeah kinda. Because you're implying that most men are complaining are in that extreme. If you don’t like being called out for acting like an incel, don’t act like an incel. Well that's the point of the post. Anytime a guy complains in frustrated way he is labeled an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:14 AM
1

A person uses you for sex is still the girl and the guy getting mutual sex out of the scenario which can be enjoyable for both parties which also has added benefits of conversation, mutual attraction, and some emotional support. The latter is basically using you for your attention while giving you absolutely no affection. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:08 AM
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Why is not better? A person uses you for sex is still the girl and the guy getting mutual sex out of the scenario which can be enjoyable for both parties which also has added benefits of conversation, mutual attraction, and some emotional support. The latter is basically using you for your attention while giving you absolutely no affection. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:07 AM
2

You didn't have to. You are implying that most of the men who are complaining are misogynists. So therefore shouldn't be sympathized with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:05 AM
7

You don't know if it's true alot of time. Alot of time it's just a shaming tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:56 AM
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Better than people only wanting you for attention and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:53 AM
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Well this is false. What evidence do you have of men on this forum abusing women for sex in Mass?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:50 AM
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Your last point makes no sense. No misogynist I have ever confronted or spoken with didn’t have a history of misogyny And how the hell would I know that I just met you? Yeah you are needed elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:49 AM
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Why should I learn from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:44 AM
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This is good Link
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:44 AM
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Alot of times a woman will have no idea if the guy is a good person. They usually assume that he isn't if he wants stuff like casual sex or multiple partners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:43 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:41 AM
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Against this is the disconnect. It's a very childish way of looking at it. Why should the guy be looked down on just because he can't get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:41 AM
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Dude no. You are swing it heavily. Just because a guy make want nsa sex doesn't mean he have to be a manipulative person to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:39 AM
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I couldn't even get success from them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:37 AM
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So where exactly are they supposed to turn if they don't have dating success?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:36 AM
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My buddy of mine tells girls straight up he's trying to just have sex and have a fun time. And the women are ok with it. So yes they do operate this way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:18 PM
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How much history did you actually read? Because a huge part of why women got those rights is because a bunch of men supported those women and approved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:10 PM
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Yes but the people who are qualified to give advice are usually giving a guide on what similarities people prefer in people they want to date. Not every women in the world wants a 6foot tall who makes a lot of money and has a six pack. But I'd be willing to bet a majority would
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:09 PM
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mean....what exactly do you want women to say though? I'm no Blue Piller but I've seen women give some solid advice to men who struggled with dating that ended up getting dismissed because of "Muh 80:20 Rule", "Muh AWALT", or "Chad doesn't have to do any of this though." Yeah I can agree that's bad faith and shouldn't always be dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:07 PM
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The Models you're waiting on to comfort are being having fun with REAL PEOPLE!!!!! It's funny because I hear women say that these incels are waiting for models. But I never see evidence of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:06 PM
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I follow RP but I'm believe I'm aware when it's going to far. I.E. AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:59 PM
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Don't let it have a D1 football team
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:47 PM
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On a related note, I remember having a conversation with a female friend a few years ago and I once mentioned how hard it is to find a quality girlfriend in the small town that I lived in. She recommended that I should find a girlfriend from online gaming because her female cousin met several romantic partners online, so therefore it must be easy, even for a male like myself Funny enough I used to roam the internet seeing if their was a guide to picking up women on Xbox live. Yes I did that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:47 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:45 PM
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Very insightful answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:43 PM
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It's like listening to a fat person bitch about being fat, but instead of eating less and working out, they blame everyone and everything but themselves. I tended to get into complain but that's because of the overwhelming difficulty it takes to improve (or this scenario get skinny)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:43 PM
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This right here. Even if men see women as sex objects he's not going to be penalized if he is very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:36 PM
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Unless what you want is the validation that comes from being wanted, in which case, say that instead and we may sympathise more. But but but.... we do say that. We want the satisfaction of sex and being wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:34 PM
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Arguing in bad faith, which is often the path men take here, makes the tougher task the toughest. I assumed that they didn't alot because of frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:30 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:29 PM
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As a society we see men who struggle as worthless. When I was depressed, I've had an intervention from my family (mostly women) to explain to me how my depression was affecting my mother and I should snap out of it. Unbelievable. What were you depressed about and how did that conversation exactly go if you can remember it? You cannot change the world, but you can change your life. Very good quote
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:23 PM
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Yes, it is completely pointless if your complaint is that you cannot get regular casual sex with little to no effort. Most men aren't doing that tho. They are complaining that it takes a shit ton of effort to get sex let alone get dates. And getting it seems very reliant on luck. Forgive us for not weeping for your frustration I sense sarcasm here men here who DO claim to be able to do so routinely comment about their sexual partners in incredibly disrespectful ways, often brag that they don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:09 PM
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I be willing to argue that most men do care about women's struggles. The reasons many women have as much rights as they do today are because men also fought with them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:59 PM
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I always find this arguments really obtuse. First off... You flat out assumed that it was my problem when the post clearly describes problems that I or other men face. I clearly said in the post that not everyone who disagrees with you is not a misogynist. So long as you continue to treat interactions with women as attempts to “get” what you want But everyone does that believe it or not. If I like a girl I'm going to want something from her. Which is her time and affection if she likes me back. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:58 PM
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You are saying the men become misogynistic because random women on the internet can’t help them figure out how to get causal sex? No I was mostly referencing black pill and red pill And that leads them to hate all women? No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:51 PM
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The bare minimum as in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:47 PM
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But how do we really know that only the minority is struggling? and a lot of dudes aren’t actually doing a lot of common sense shit Like? and are arguing against it even tho some things they should be doing just to be doing it: not just cause it will get them laid. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:44 PM
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True. Which is why I can't bring myself to argue with women on some occasions on our dating struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:40 PM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:39 PM
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20 rejections in a row? That sounds like good numbers compared to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:13 PM
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The issue is if they are actually a misogynist. Men struggling with dating get a lot of support on other subs. I think that heavily depends. It's only when a guy is not very transparent about his dating struggles. If he says I can't get a date and find it hard to talk to people most people will support because they can sometimes relate. But if gets into a lot of big problems that guys are really afraid to talk about like....I can't get casual sex with girls, then most are going get offended. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah which is why I really think women should download tinder make a profile as an Average guy and see how hard it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:06 PM
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I thought that some souls would be reached in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:05 PM
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Projection basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:03 PM
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Women only want Chad, if a woman dates an average guy he must be a beta bux, young men aren't having sex anymore... But here's the thing. This scenario is extremely. But....I have to admit that from what I have noticed the game is getting WAY harder for average men to succeed. Men are having sex but that's only with the aid of relationships. The so called hookup culture is really a myth since only women and very attractive men are participating in it. But I do agree tho. We exaggerate alot but d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:02 PM
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No. They usually show me with there dating options or verbally express it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:58 PM
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That would still make sense. Just because you don't have sex with your partner everyday does not mean you couldn't easily find a partner in a heartbeat to have sex with you if you were single. So why are you even making that comparison? You’re obviously going through something and you don’t want to listen to an actual woman who was going through what you and millions of other men/women are going through now No You just don’t want to admit that women have it hard too. They do have it hard. Men ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:55 PM
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I don't agree. Most women kinda don't wanna feel like they kinda missed out on dating around in their 20s so they opt to mess around with higher value men until they get a sense of what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:41 PM
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And this is a big problem. How the hell was anything you just said above misogyny? Do you even know what that word means? I guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:37 PM
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Did you not read the comment? I said it's easy for you to get sex. And fine stick with your previous talking points because it's clear as day you interpret what you wanna interpret even though clear as day said what I mean. This is why it's pointless to argue with women even on a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:32 PM
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Those are snusnu dates, not LTR dates. Wtf is a snusnu? Anyway. Regardless of that fact it's still harder for men to get dates. Especially so if the woman in question knows ahead of time that the guy just wants sex Harder as in "no matter what, men need to demonstrate commitment, because we are hunters-gatherers" yes. I mean I wouldn't really word it that way but sure I guess. Mostly on the fact that men have to do the majority of the work in the courtship process while impressing the woman and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:11 PM
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You're making a mockery of guys who complain about not getting sex. Implying that it's pathetic and they won't die from no sex. But it's easy to complain about that when you're a woman because sex is a something you can easily acquire. It would be the equivalent of you complaining that you want a job in fastfood but only McDonald's, Wendy's, and BK are willing to hire you. To a guy who can't get a job at all he's going to be super bitter that he can't even get those jobs. And grateful when he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:04 PM
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I don't think you get it. But anyway this conversation is pointless to have with alot of women since they will never actually believe men when they say picking up women is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:59 PM
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I have noticed this tho. The other guys below are invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:57 PM
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Dates - only in "I want snusnu" pre-step sense. No. There is a huge gap there as well. And you're forgetting you usually need dates to get sex. And women get asked out all the time If there is a relationship desire gap, it is definitely not men wanting it more. I wasn't discussing who wanted it more. I was discussing that getting relationships for men is much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:55 PM
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Well it's clear you lack self awareness. I also have worked in retail for many many years and that's clearly not the case at all. Almost every single time I worked in retail my girl coworkers were getting asked out by all type of guys and they were not thrilled about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:52 PM
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Maybe the women u r talking about are younger and immature? Nah. Old and young. I don't care much about age. As long as you are not like 55 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:50 PM
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No. You are delusional. Even when I was in shape playing sports it didn't change much. I highly doubt you have much real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:47 PM
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Wouldn't both of these facts alone discredit the idea that women are far over men in sadness?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:46 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Which is why when guys keep saying just stop caring to get women....it never works for me. Because that means I'm an uncaring social plague
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:37 PM
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I know you didn't. I'm saying for the guys that did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:35 PM
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So you basically you did ask a trap question? Because I thought you asking Honestly until I read this comment. I posted this comment last night and I just read your question today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:34 PM
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I think men do overall have less life satisfaction because of the overwhelming pressure he has to go through to become a productive man of society. A productive man has to be a bunch of things and most of all please alot of people while simultaneously gaining the respect of his fellow man. And because of that we have to take far more risks in life to strive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:58 AM
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Yet men "off" themselves at way higher rates than women. Something is not adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:56 AM
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The serious shit in life is the waste of time To bad as a guy 90 percent of the time you are spent chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:54 AM
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I disagree. It's because men lack the experience to know when they should push boundaries and when not to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:53 AM
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