| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 46 | Godspeed, Max | Mickwillie | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/21 01:12 PM | |
| 8 | Is my loose-change bowl a permanent home for my old wedding ring? | Mickwillie | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 08:09 PM | |
| 5 | Is there a dollar amount you would place on keeping your divorce amicable? | Mickwillie | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/22 10:55 PM | |
| 2 | Recommendations needed for attorney-free cooperative divorce in CA | Mickwillie | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/23 07:51 PM | |
| 1 | Starting to think this sub is not for me | Mickwillie | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/21 02:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | FWB questionsAll wrong | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Is my loose-change bowl a permanent home for my old wedding ring?The question isn’t to save it or get rid of it. It’s more how to get rid it | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Recommendations needed for attorney-free cooperative divorce in CAThanks! Super helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Contemplating Divorce/Legal SeparationOh lol, thanks. Needs to be $60-80 for the wife to believe it | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Contemplating Divorce/Legal Separation$20 per act? Where is this? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you tell your kids it was their moms birthday if they were with you the day of?If you have to ask this question, you’ve been seriously scarred. Please get help. Try some Ketamine or psilocybin therapy if you’re in the right state. Otherwise seek out some sort of professional | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Casual Hookups During SeparationNot sure what having kids or not having kids has to do with it, but whatever. Also not sure if you’re asking for the sake of your legal stance. If you’re asking ethically? Dude, get the fuck out there and go get yours. Practice. You may need it depending on how long you’ve been with the same woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/22 08:17 PM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]Get over that shit. Have some faith in your ex and your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Life changes after divorceDamn I am feeling this comment. You took so many of the words right out of my mouth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 05:17 PM |
| 13 | STBX is love bombing me (and it's kind of working) [Vent]Women are fucked up arent they. Especially the good looking ones. That’s what happens to a person I guess when they walk around there whole life being desired. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Freedom! That's all I wanted to remind you all today. You're free, or you're on your way to being free.Fuck yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | (Standard Operating Procedure) The initial phase of divorce.OP - I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. Other men - this is the experience of a scorned person. It does not have to be your experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | In LawsInteresting topic. Newley separated so curious without answers. For me, it’s my STBX (we have kids) that will likely maintain the relationship with my brother and his wife and their kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Feeling sadReal talk | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Day one I guessYeah this fella needs an attorney big time. It’s funny how the more you make the more you risk. If she gets half your shit, that’s a big chunk of change. Half my shit I would barely bat an eye. I’m middle class in California, in a poor state I’d be upper middle class. But compared to OP, I’m broke as a joke. I’d still rather be in OP’s situation (obvi), but I’m happy my STBX can’t take me very much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Is marriage worth it?Sorry to hear brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Is marriage worth it?We’re you referring to the second marriage or the first? Or both, lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage worth it?That’s your takeaway from his post?? I completely agree with the statement and it’s not about anyone being BETTER. Are you kidding? Guys in this thread have pain and it shows. We feel for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is marriage worth it?Damn some of you guys are really scorned. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Looking to make the jump but scared and getting pressured to stayFor a minute I thought I may have written then and forgotten. Except my kids are younger and my wife and I have almost no assets. Same story though. I’m 99% sure this will end up in divorce one way or the other, and yet we are starting therapy (with money we don’t really have) soon. Oh and I’m not living in the home. Everyone here will say I’m stupid for that, but I’m not looking for anything more than 50% custody. My wife is a much better caretaker than me. I’m a mess. Anyway OP, I can totally … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing BPDGot it. OK that’s quite different from my situation. Thanks tho. Good luck, sounds like you’re doing your part as a dad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing BPDHey bro thanks for posting. I’m currently separated with two boys 8 and 11. Can I ask why your boys can’t stand their mom? Overbearing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys I need help....Um yeah. You should ONLY be consulting an attorney. Falsely accused of rape? That’s heavy bro. Hang in there. Better days ahead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/21 01:05 PM |
| 0 | We have come to agreement and uncontested divorce but I am worried I may be conceding too much financially . I don’t want a whole mess but Is it possible an attorney would answer my questions just regarding financial monthly payments I have agreed to, to check if it’s fair enough? Phone call maybe ?Bottom line, you MUST take the opinions you read from this group with a grain of salt. Many of these men are in real pain, and regardless of the situation have chosen to resort to hate and spite. No matter what don’t end up like that. Better to keep thing as amicable as possible even if it costs you a bit more. It will have been worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife and I moving toward divorce. Unsure of a lot but we want to do as amicable as possible and avoid lawyers and court. Just mediation is possible ? Anyone have experience in this outcome without a messy court situation and lawyers ? Thanks for helpFair enough thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Almost out of money!I’d rather just give the 50k to my ex and kids than the fucking lawyers | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Wife and I moving toward divorce. Unsure of a lot but we want to do as amicable as possible and avoid lawyers and court. Just mediation is possible ? Anyone have experience in this outcome without a messy court situation and lawyers ? Thanks for helpHow can you give this advice based on what you know about OPs situation. Comments like this are why I’m starting to see this group is toxic for some | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Wife and I moving toward divorce. Unsure of a lot but we want to do as amicable as possible and avoid lawyers and court. Just mediation is possible ? Anyone have experience in this outcome without a messy court situation and lawyers ? Thanks for helpYou’re a hero son ^ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Wife and I moving toward divorce. Unsure of a lot but we want to do as amicable as possible and avoid lawyers and court. Just mediation is possible ? Anyone have experience in this outcome without a messy court situation and lawyers ? Thanks for helpHit me up please my friend. I honestly thought I might’ve written this post and just forgotten.I’m going to the same thing and I’m just skeptical as you | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Just beginning “trial separation” any advice would be helpful. Been married 6 years and have two young kids. Feeling extremely anxious.I can understand custody but why would staying or leaving the house affect alimony? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/21 04:57 AM |
| 7 | I (29M) asked my spouse (28F) to come home during our separation due to loneliness.. I’m realizing that I was happier without her being here.. I don’t know what to do.Get out now period. I wish I had upon that realization. Now I am 45 stuck and miserable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | About to apply for divorceYeah GTFO while you can. Trust me man it don’t feel like it now but you can have a whole new life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 5 | How can I make ends meet by being divorced?That’s dark bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/21 06:06 PM |
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