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Ur jaw in the first pic looks pushed in and doesn’t show off your jawline. Get pics with friends too, show that you have a social life
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:48 AM
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I have months where I feel nihilistic and months where I feel on top of the world. Whether I have a good or bad time depends on my life situation, how well I’m eating/sleeping/exercising, my social circle, etc. Your environment can have a large impact on you. If you can improve substantially in at least one way a month, I believe it will do a lot of good towards your mental health.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:22 AM
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Man this says a lot coming from someone who gets irritated this easily. Some bitch energy
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:53 PM
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I wouldn’t cry around a girl I’m attracted to. Many women see it as a weakness, although some can be more lenient than others. It’s ok to cry, just do it either by yourself, with a mental health professional, your family, or friends that you are very close to and trust.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:05 AM
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A lot of how you do it has to do with your libido. If you’re extremely horny when you do it, you’ll be tossing the girl around and treating her like a toy (which most love). You gotta have some mental foreplay in mind or something so it gets hotter, so try being really dominant, make the girl squirm, etc. If you have a porn addiction, you’re probably not gonna have a high libido since you’re beating off every day, so limit that as much as possible. I was addicted when I lost my virginity, but wh…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:32 AM
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Expected a bpd girl with multiple other diagnosed mental illnesses to not abuse me emotionally in my first relationship. Had violent mood swings, threatened to break up with me constantly, crossed boundaries that I told her not to cross, etc. I was desperate because it was the first girl who I got into an LTR with and did everything I could until she broke up with me
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:36 PM
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Short girls, 4’10-5’4, with nice petite bodies. Fun to pick up and toss around, they’re usually very submissive, and I like being bigger and dominant over them.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 10:30 PM
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Probably #2 or #3 then. Higher chance she’ll eventually come crawling back, unless you chased after her, but get yourself to the point where you would hardly consider a ONS with her without her bending her back over and begging you
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:29 PM
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Several things could’ve happened: 1: Her ex is hotter than you, and she monkey branched back when she realized the grass isn’t greener on the other side. One good thing out of that scenario is that the trash took itself out. Never allow her to be an important part of your life again. 2: This is a demented shit test to see if you simp/chase after her, and as long as your not contacting/reacting, you’re “passing” it. Never allow her to be an important part of your life again. 3: She has mental ill…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:24 PM
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America definitely has a bigger issue than other areas with simping and being thirsty as hell but there are decent guys out there
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:26 PM
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Lot of people here will say to not give a shit but personally that’s a different level of disrespect, especially for best friends to do. I would distance yourself from them, try to find more respectable guys who’s dicks don’t override basic levels of respect. Billions of girls out there and they gotta fuck the one girl they know you don’t want to see/hear about ever again? Thirsty motherfuckers like that don’t deserve the bro code that comes with being a decent friend, and you should just demote…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:13 PM
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Buy cheap xbox’s, ps4’s and Nintendo Switches and sell them for higher prices on online marketplaces (preferably where you meet up to remove shipping fees)
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:14 PM
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Cardarine for endurance/recovery, but apparently it may lead to cancer and insomnia
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:28 AM
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The less you care about how you text, the better you get ironically. You learn to get your words across quicker and simpler, which people naturally are drawn towards. I can sympathize with you cause I had the same problem, but I realized that I was the most beta bitch on text and somewhat alpha in person which probably confused the shit out of my past girls. Your friend’s case is pretty interesting though. I’m guessing he’s a looker for sure, knows how to find monkey-branching girls and how to s…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:46 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding TRP. You can still have an emotional connection with a woman, but how strong that connection is, as well as the woman you’re connecting with is what you need to look out for. The purpose of TRP is to improve your SMV, change your biased/unrealistic outlooks on life, and make you a happier person overall. Lot of guys here think you have to live life miserably or based off of how many girls you’ve banged in a month, but there’s more to life than that. Cheap, short t…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:11 PM
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Can you post the ranges for all these results?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:33 PM
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Damn right
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:10 PM
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Friend groups are important to form. Join a frat maybe, that’s an automatic pass (if you make it through the pledge process) for parties with dozens of sorority girls. Get a place where you can invite people over to hang out, join a club, etc. Gonna be weird with Covid but there’s still a lot of opportunities, especially when you’re a new freshman
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:34 PM
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Surround yourself with your friends, eat out with them, go to the gym, etc. Spend time with your kid, do anything to preoccupy yourself. Your brain is going through withdrawal because of the “love” chemicals in your brain, and you need to be doing everything you can to get through to where you’re no longer addicted. Might be a couple weeks, month, etc. The point is to improve yourself as much as possible, and make sure you never contact her. Talking to her will make nothing better.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:20 AM
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Any girl that wants to fuck you and you’re not already in a relationship with won’t bring up potential rivals to you. She’s just going for your attention which her boyfriend is probably not giving her “enough” of. If you want the best chance of getting with her, pulling your attention back and waiting for her to come to you are your best options
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:47 PM
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Bruh just give up. She’s playing some weird ass games but your time is being wasted when you could be improving yourself or going after women who are more straightforward.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:37 PM
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Dump her while you still have dignity. Some girls have complete and utter dependence on their emotions to rationalize their actions and “logic”. She probably has some messed up boyfriend complex cause of her insecurities and past trauma that makes her get addicted and bored quickly of her bf’s. I dealt with one of those girls and the best thing you can do is end it now
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:28 PM
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You’re easily in the top 20% for male physiques, even more so in America. 50% of guys here are considered obese, another 25% skinny as hell, and that leaves 25% somewhat fit guys. You’re well within that 25% range, just keep lifting and you’ll get to that top 5% physique
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:46 PM
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Personally I felt the same for a while, I would definitely limit ejaculating to every other day, helped me get rid of the fatigue majorly
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:01 PM
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Well you’re extremely fucking insecure, first of all. You probably don’t have anything you’re proud of that you’ve gained/accomplished. People with no purpose are the most miserable people in the world. Keep working on the gym so you get a body you’re proud of looking at the mirror. Get better fashion so you’re proud of how you look in public. Get a job that you’re proud of working at. It’s hard to start, but you’ll be thanking yourself 10 years down the line for laying your foundation today.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:37 PM
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A lot of us here have been like this before, and the best advice I can give you is to get your diet in order. Most people don’t know the dangers of a bad diet after a life-altering event, and you don’t want to feel tired, have a brain fog, etc. when you’re trying to block out the negative thoughts. It’s near impossible. Idk if you’re gaining too much weight or losing weight, but even if you have to force yourself, eat proper meals with a lot of protein. Eggs for breakfast, sandwich/burger/hotdog…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:35 PM
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High body count is a red flag for both sides if the person has enough self respect. Most girls and a lot of guys though are insecure as shit so they’ll rarely leave you if you’re open about it
/r/askTRP08/08/20 06:44 PM
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Do you feel shame when thinking about the idea? I’m sure you know (if you read the sidebar) the correct choice if that’s the case.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 06:42 PM
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With brown eyes, especially if they’re dark brown, are gonna look fake with colored eye contacts in general. Also, women are pretty damn superficial, so once you take the contacts off infront of them they’ll subconsciously think you scammed them.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:41 PM
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Not with your scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:56 PM
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If it’s motivation to improve overall in life, then it isn’t the worst necessarily, but you just don’t want it to make you an impatient person. If you rush to become mega attractive, you’ll probably turn to PEDs, plastic surgery, and a host of other methods that will harm your health and lifespan. If you’re desperate to get rich, you’ll be more likely to take higher paying jobs, despite them making you miserable and losing the freedom a lot of young people take for granted. Use whatever you’re f…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:02 PM
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Sexual market value. It guages how attractive someone is to other people, like if you’re handsome, rich, tall, smart, confident, etc. I like it a lot better than the black and white beta/alpha dichotomy cause no one can be fully beta or alpha.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:31 AM
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Read the sidebar. I flipflopped between Blue Pill and Red Pill for 6 months until I finally got around to reading it. Cleared up a lot of things for me like boundaries, SMV, female psychology, etc.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:18 AM
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😢😎😢😁😎💀👄pp
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:39 PM
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And? I get attention from girls who aren’t fatasses (I’m in America, average weight is overweight for women). I don’t get a shit ton, but it’s consistent. Solid 7-8’s, about 1-2 a month. Women go up too when they approach, but I only get approached probably once every 2 months. I practice good self improvement overall, I’m not buff yet but my face is attractive from what the girls I’ve been with told me. If I was a 6 or lower, no way would I get approached just for my looks
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:02 PM
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Yea, most people who come to TRP have big egos, think they are doing everything they can and end up hating themselves as if they’re put under a curse or something. It’s amazing how many buff dudes with sharp jawlines I see wearing god awful clothing, have terrible posture and hygiene, and stare down everyone they encounter like complete weirdos. Then they complain why they aren’t getting the girls. It’s insulting to be told you aren’t even doing the basic foundations of self improvement, but aft…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:13 PM
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In my eyes a 6 is average. Depends on the person. I get probably 6 solid chances with girls a year without dating apps. I would think an 8, 9 or 10 can get way more than that. Point was though that you don’t need to be extremely good looking to get a chance with a girl. But if you call yourself a 7/10 and get no pussy/girls, you’re not a 7/10. You’re a 6 maximum, and you fail in either looks, confidence, game, betaness, etc.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:11 PM
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He’s your friend, right? Friends like to help eachother, so ask him for some advice about fashion. If you make it fun for him, he’ll be honored and will help you with some basic tips that could improve your SMV greatly without you needing to even work out. Of course you still need to work out. Improve your posture. Fix your rounded shoulders, anterior pelvic tilt, crooked neck, etc. Stop mouth breathing (bad breath). Practice some basic daily hygiene (fix acne, bad smell, etc). Get a good hair s…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:25 PM
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What was the context of your breakup? If she broke up with you without you also wanting it, then block her. She’s just trying to be a “good person” in her head and probably wants some validation that you still want her and wants you to be her safety trampoline when things get tough with Plan A. There’s plenty of info in the Sidebar and TRP as a whole telling you that this is not in your best interests. If you broke up with her, she may be trying to restart things, and if you want something then …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:28 PM
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There are people out there who, right out the door, are gonna be an obnoxious, bitchy, rude asshole to you. They have extremely large egos and they’re pretty much modern society’s highschool bullies, without the scrutiny of the latter. They’re usually trying to get a reaction out of you, either to prove to themselves or those around them that they are macho, amazing, confident, powerful, etc., or to test you. In both cases, I tend to give them a “ok weirdo” look, and pretend the interaction neve…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:12 PM
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My first serious relationship was with a BPD girl with more mental illnesses than I could count on one hand. I was blue pill at the time but I had confidence, fucked her within 2 weeks and she chased me and asked for a relationship. Everything went well for a month, then we went back to our homes after the college semester ended she started to get wildly depressed, anxious, and broke it off cause she felt she was bringing me down. I wasn’t really emotionally invested so I agreed pretty calmly, a…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:03 PM
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As long as a girl’s open to trying new things with me and is putting out consistently, I’m happy in a relationship. If she limits it to vanilla sex only though, doesn’t give blowjobs, or god forbid tells me to wait till marriage, I leave immediately. Any girl who isn’t excited to have wild sex with you is not worth LTRing.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:38 PM
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If it was only once and didn’t happen consecutively, she could just be not in the mood. You sound overly worried and I know a lot of guys here will tell you to next her, but you said it yourself that you guys had sex yesterday, and there’s a myriad of reasons why a girl may not be in the mood for one time. However, if this becomes a trend, it definitely signals that there is something wrong going on, especially if there isn’t a rational explanation. Start probing if something drastic changed in …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:33 PM
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Personally I’d tell her to fuck off and move along with my day, but if that’s not good for your reputation just ignore her.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:23 PM
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Workout/run when you get the urge to spank it
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:23 PM
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It does, but letting it be the leading factor towards a relationship is a dumb choice. That’s where the concept of beta bucks comes in, and that can lead to divorce rape, your spouse cheating on you with Chads, etc. You want a good mix of being sexually desirable, having confidence, and being economically sound. At least with being attractive/confident you can develop an abundance mindset and have women approach you, give you IOI’s, etc, but with being rich, they’ll only be attracted to the 0’s.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:24 AM
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Depends on your age and where you are. If you’re talking about any girl under 22 in a first world country, that means jack shit to 99% of them. Now if you’re in a developing nation, and/or are at the age where women are approaching/hitting the Wall, I suppose you’ll have a bonus with your higher class, but that’s just one factor, and having a higher overall SMV will attract higher SMV women.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:40 AM
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I feel you bro
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:46 AM
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It depends, if you’re just watching them watch actual content like Pokimane, or you’re primarily going to their streams/videos just to look at them cause they’re hot, then unfollow them. If they actually produce content that takes time (playing videogames alone doesn’t count imo, unless they have really good editting), you can keep following them. Otherwise you’re pedestalizing them and that could create an unhealthy obsession for women who look similar down the line. I’m 0-2 with relationships …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:46 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:41 PM
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Yea, that’s a major issue I have. When I’m relaxed around certain people I can shit talk, laugh, joke, have fun, etc without them getting butthurt. I guess it’s when people get offended by what I say, even though it’s superficial 99% of the time (a lighthearted joke, misunderstanding, etc). Usually, I distance myself almost instantly from those kinds of people unless I’m forced not to, like in a classroom/work setting, but even then I’m not too concerned about their feelings. What I was thinking…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:17 PM
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Just be there for him for his fall. Poking fun at him, especially after he gets crushed is just gonna push him to the edge, and do something irrational.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:10 AM
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I mean, excessive masturbation has been linked to decreased sensitivity, and each guy has their own technique. Maybe do multiple times in a day? Takes me 3-4 days to fully recover if I jack off 3+ times in a day. I naturally last really long though, I don’t have a crazy high libido either, but it’s almost impossible to come during sex if I wanked it the day before.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:13 AM
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Maybe try masturbation once a week or twice at most, it’ll definitely make you last longer. Be careful about slipping back into your addiction
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:07 AM
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I doubt there’s a correlation that exact. It depends, 10-15% is better than 20%-25%. The leaner you are, the more your muscles and veins will show, the sharper your jawline will be, you’ll get abs, clothes will show ur frame better, etc. That’s one aspect though, doesn’t matter how lean you are if you have dogshit posture, no muscle, shitty haircut, pimples, etc.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:27 AM
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That is a factor to be considered, and men in themselves are not perfect either. However, society has a stigma that demonizes male sexuality, and shit tests are in principle meant to question a man’s frame. If a girl does it enough, she’ll create a beta husband who will never leave her, or improve his SMV and instead get fatter, weaker, skinnier, etc. Men also think more logically, so as long as the girl is putting out at a level he enjoys, the man’s instinct is satisfied.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:15 AM
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Well clubs are a good start, and go to any public event and try introducing yourself to people. It’ll build your social skills and maybe your confidence if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:55 PM
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Joining a frat is something I found that improved my social skills a lot. Got pushed a lot to improve my looks, fitness, and got my weak personality shaken up a lot while pledging. It’s certainly not for everyone though, and joining the wrong frat can fuck you up way more than it can help you.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:48 PM
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Oh it’s real, but it’s a concept that isn’t discussed extensively. The cock carousel is for women who need constant validation due to their shitty life circumstances (most being mental illness/poor mental health, ego complexes, not properly moving on from Alpha exes, etc), so once they leave a relationship they go through a hooking up phase, and eventually go back to a “monogamous” relationship. My ex had a lot of mental issues, and she was very open about her past to me at the beginning of the …
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:34 PM
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Unicorns don’t exist, but I’m sure you can find a girl who fits those requirements for you, but the search gets harder the lower your SMV is. Once you get her though, it boils down to a matter of maintaining frame, being financially and fiscally independent as you possibly can, and focusing on what really matters in life. Keep in mind though, there are nearly infinite amounts of external factors that can fuck your life up, and what truly determines a woman’s value is her ability to stick through…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:59 PM
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I suppose it’s due to the fact that our attraction is predominantly based on physical aspects. For women however, it could be physical, personality, money, status, power, etc, and a failure in any one of these can result in the loss of love by a women. In short, women have less to upkeep, so a man’s love for her is unwavering compared to her’s.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:42 PM
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Yea, I always noticed my ex was a complete sheep IRL but on the phone she gave off this false bravado
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:29 PM
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Exactly lol. But I’m talking like crazzzzyyyy crazy. My last ex, the first time we ever hooked up, was moaning like crazy and said “please don’t love me”. I stopped and was like wtf, and she realized what she said and immediately backtracked. Again my fault for going into a relationship with that mess, but the sex was amazing
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:48 PM
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