Miercolesian Archive

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1	Need some advice, got a girls # at gym don’t know how to play it. For a response to her first text you could just ask her if she is looking for a) a successor to b/f, b) a piece on the side, or c) would she just prefer a threesome, and could she please rate in order of preference. What is the worst possible outcome? She might laugh and send you an amusing and flirtatious reply, or she might say that she's pregnant and getting married next week, or she just doesn't respond at all. I know this might be seen as a high-risk strategy, but in my experience there is …	/r/seduction	08/02/21 07:01 PM
2	How to get in touch with a girl who you don't have her number? Mutual friends or acquaintances? Google if you know her name and occupation or college. Phone her workplace and ask for her.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 05:07 PM
33	Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup) You did well, but the next time you see her, smile, nod, and address her by her name as if you are friends. Because who knows, she may be seeing somebody now, but she might stop seeing them in the future. Nothing is forever.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 03:06 PM
1	Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive level Pretty much anywhere. Often in their retail workplace. If I see somebody I like to look up I will just make friendly conversation with them on the first few encounters, and then give them my card with something personal written on the back if they seem particularly receptive. A lot of flirtation can be done with the eyes. The more plates you can keep spinning, the more resources you have to fall back on in times of famine. and pestilence.	/r/seduction	04/02/21 12:53 AM
2	Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive level No, and I have been getting very good at reading The smiling eyes of women from behind the mask.	/r/seduction	03/02/21 02:43 PM
1	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? I think all of this is correct. I think a lot of it stems from her being British because people don't quite know how to read her and she probably doesn't use American slang so she appears to be rather formal to the guys who talk to her. Like Princess Diana or something, so she makes the guys feel that they are not quite in her class. I have family in the UK so I know there are quite a lot of social differences.	/r/seduction	31/01/21 01:09 AM
2	Advice on threesome If you go on vacation overseas somewhere like the Dominican Republic, then you would find it very easy. However I can tell you based on quite a bit of experience with threesomes, that it is very difficult to get the right balance of personalities etc to have a threesome that works well. So even if you did find somebody willing to do it you might have to go through quite a lot of trials to find somebody who it really worked with.	/r/seduction	30/01/21 11:34 PM
1	How do I initiate for sex? It will work if she has already decided to have sex with you.	/r/seduction	10/10/16 04:09 PM
3	How do I initiate for sex? She has already decided long ago whether she might have sex with you, so all you have to do is find out without exposing yourself to too much risk of rejection. You can lightly stroke her hand, then hold her hand, and then (assuming she does not slap you or kick you in the testicles, which should be taken as an indication of lack of consent) a peck on the lips, then looking into her eyes. By this time you should have a pretty good idea if this is going anywhere. Now at this point, you say "Oh, b…	/r/seduction	10/10/16 04:07 PM
-14	Does anyone remember a video explaining why people don't like people who like them too much? With perceived value, and lowering of your perceived value by trying to hard? I think this is the one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uny1K5jnkYo	/r/seduction	02/03/16 11:19 PM
3	Dating a more religious girl? Well you've got to talk to her about it. Ask her why she stopped you. Ask her how far she would go on a good day. Tell her you want to see her orgasm. The worst thing she can do is run away and tell you never to speak to her again.	/r/seduction	26/02/16 09:50 PM
1	Dating a more religious girl? Just be honest with her and tell her that you are not religious, but that you are strongly sexually attracted to her and want to have sex with her. (My wife is somewhat religious and I am a complete infidel, however I occasionally have to remind my children that Jesus is watching everything they do.) When you tell her that you are sexually attracted to her, this will have the effect of arousing her and she will go home thinking about what it would be like to have sex with you. What the long term…	/r/seduction	26/02/16 06:47 PM
0	Getting laid when you're place isn't an option A motel.	/r/seduction	26/02/16 02:57 AM
1	Does a Lamborghini Attract Girls? Pickup Up Girls in a Lamborghini! A pickup truck is better.	/r/seduction	21/02/16 03:46 AM
1	Why do I always miss the opportunity to hookup? You don't always have to lean in for a kiss like the leaning tower of Pisa. You can just tell her that being close to her makes you horny and touch her hand, then brush her arm, then her neck or cheek, before applying the lips to hers. Make it purposeful, like you are in control and know what you are doing, that you are toying with her sensations.	/r/seduction	20/02/16 01:59 AM
0	How should I go from kissing to sex? Tell her "I want you to touch my dick with your hand" or just take it out and put her hand on it if you are shy.	/r/seduction	17/02/16 10:36 PM
7	40 plus wife here, I am curious if any of you could help me? Tell him that you would like to have lesbian sex with a woman and have him watch you fuck her. This is guaranteed to work.	/r/seduction	17/02/16 10:32 PM
1	Older guys that have success with college girls, what are you noticing about college girls that go for older guys? I am 64 and my wife is 28 and gorgeous and she aand I have a daughter who is 3 1/2, so I might be overqualified to comment on this. But the answer might be to focus on the individual person, their emotional needs, and other needs they might have like financial security. Now I will admit I did not meet my wife in the US, and she had a three year old daughter whose father had been killed in an earthquake, and she had a small family, so was rather alone in the world, so you can not easily replicate…	/r/seduction	17/02/16 01:18 AM
6	Penny dropping moment: Passed a shit test on Tinder and realised I've been fucking up a long time I think you did fine. Being a doctor, or even a medical student is a definite plus when it comes to seduction. For a start, you have a huge amount of experience of examining bodies and observing physical traits and behaviors, plus you have advanced knowledge of physiology. Then there is the assumption that in the future you will be earning a healthy stipend in an honorable manner, which is a lot better than telling her you are a crack cocaine dealer. If the women is interested in dating an embry…	/r/seduction	17/02/16 12:57 AM
1	How to learn to dance I speak as someone who is the world's worst dancer, but the truth is that you have to be into the music, regardless of whether it is rock or jazz or salsa, or bachata, and then physically express your bodily movements through the music. My seven year old daughter is a wonderful dancer. You can play her tango music, cha-cha-cha, ballet music, rock and roll, swing, meringue. and she dances perfectly, even though she has never had a lesson. I don't know how, but clearly she hears the music and know…	/r/seduction	15/02/16 12:56 PM
6	"Look at her like you want her." I've literally never done this and I've realized this is my problem. Any success stories or tips on this? Goodness me, yes! There is a girl in a supermarket where I often go who has this effect on me. Every time I see her I feel a twinge of arousal and imagine the softness of her skin and what it would be like to touch her. Every time she sees me our eyes meet and she smiles and speaks, even when she is with another customer our eyes meet over the shoulder of the other. Now you will laugh your head off when I tell you that I am 64 and she is about 24, but the point is that when real attraction exist…	/r/seduction	15/02/16 12:46 PM
1	Girls that I sleep with always want to be my girlfriend. How to be single without causing constant pain? I would try hookers or sex tourism overseas. I don't think what you seek can work for the long term, and of course the girls will get hurt, and your local pool will be fished out and the waters polluted. Or find a more attractive girl with whom you do want a relationship.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:15 PM
1	Black girls tho... Black girls are used to being hit on by black men, who are very direct. So don't be shy. Tell them they are sexy. Flirt with them. Then ask them when you are going to get together. Even if they have never been with a white guy, most would like to try it at least once. Many black guys won't do oral sex, and they have heard that white guys like to eat black pussy, so you can hint about the taste of brown sugar. Black women are great fucks and are my preferred sex partners. I am white. But they won…	/r/seduction	25/01/16 10:57 PM
1	Second Chance for Sex on Valentine's Day?? Sounds like she is an alcoholic, so make sure you get to fuck her before she passes out drunk.	/r/seduction	18/01/16 01:15 AM
1	I've got a girl coming over to drink wine on my couch tonight. Escalation tips? Well, it could be that she is just a wino and wants a free drink, but more likely she just wants her friend to come along for safety and to check you out. If everything goes well, the friend can suddenly "leave early" when she gets a text or call from her BF. What you want to avoid is everyone just getting drunk and keeling over. It sounds like she wants to get some alcohol into her to get the deed done, but is too timid or nervous to do it without chemical assistance. Just greet her with a "hey…	/r/seduction	05/01/16 11:19 PM
2	I am so proud of myself Either she finds you attractive or she doesn't. To be attractive it helps to be good looking and to have money, or at least have the potential to make money later on ,or at least have a career with some prestige. For example a dentistry student will attract girls who can see themselves living a dental lifestyle with free dental treatment even if he is poor and ugly. The fact that you and she like the same TV program or band will not make a lot of difference. When she dumps you for a guy who is a…	/r/seduction	16/10/15 02:33 AM
3	I am so proud of myself It is not flattery. He finds her sexually attractive. It is always a good idea to tell someone you find them attractive, because then if they go on a date with you it will not come as a shock to them. Of course you don't have to say "I wanna get into your panties", you can be a bit more subtle than that and still get the same message across.	/r/seduction	16/10/15 02:28 AM
1	My coworker said she was hungry i'm sure I can't just say "white wine, movie, your house." And expect a positive reply That would be the perfect response, but it sounds like you are afraid of rejection even though she has already practically laid down in front of you and spread her legs. Actually you could just say "White wine, movie, your house, but hold the wine and the movie." The thing is that if she is hot to trot it will not matter what you say, but if she wants out it won't matter what you say either. But why the wine? …	/r/seduction	12/07/15 02:45 AM
11	Setting the sexual tone on a first date. Let's do an exercise: "I tame lions for a living. They are just big pussies. What do you do in your spare time when you are not seducing men?" Keep it light. Flirt. Gradually lead into some suggestive talk. Don't just "go in for a kiss" like you are attacking her. Say things like "have you always had such kissable lips?" and gauge her response before you stick your mouth over hers like a toilet plunger.	/r/seduction	12/07/15 02:27 AM
1	How can I smoothly escalate from taking home/making out to sex? In the Victorian erotic classic My Secret Life, the hero Walter describes pulling out his dick as the number one key to seduction, since once a woman sees your erect penis she can never stop thinking about it. I would not go quite that far, but in this situation putting her hand on your penis over the clothing is fine as it will arouse her and let her know that you are aroused. In most cases she will now unzip you, and you are off to the races. Your real problem is the "making out". Do not do th…	/r/seduction	13/02/14 08:38 PM
1	Did I fuck up? Yeah, well there you go. All women, even the most gorgeous, are insecure, and so telling them that they are attractive is like slipping female Viagra in their coffee. You probably could have skipped the breakfast and taken it straight to bed. The below is in response to the post above: "That's why kino is important and so is using double meaning phrases and being flirtatious." Yes, these things are OK, but are only necessary in a very brief phase. Seated at the breakfast table with her, he might…	/r/seduction	09/02/14 03:03 PM
2	Sexual Movies Ideal for Escalating/F-Close! The movie could be romantic or scary or dramatic. A movie that is specifically sexual is not necessarily best for this purpose. Really anything that arouses the emotions and makes her feel safe in your arms. Dr Zhivago (long), Love Story, Jaws, A Passage to India, Danes With Wolves, South Pacific (wonderful romantic songs and scenery). It depends a bit on her, because if she is a intelligent intellectually developed person, her preference in movies will probably be different from that of a shop …	/r/seduction	09/02/14 02:25 PM
2	Did I fuck up? You didn't exactly fuck up, but you acted a bit like a kid of 18 with a woman of 22, a bit overawed and out of your depth. The positives are that she agreed to the breakfast date at your place, liked you cooking, and sat on the bed with you, laughed, and spent quite a bit of time with you. Knowledge of your family (via your brother) is probably also a plus. I think you should have shown sexual interest in her much earlier. As she enjoyed the breakfast you might have said "You are probably wonder…	/r/seduction	09/02/14 02:06 PM
0	Backpacking and not managing to hook up with any girl I'm attracted to - help me! What country are you in? How about the local girls?	/r/seduction	09/01/14 09:53 PM