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Anyone kind of see that they're the same issue? Maybe if women had more orgasms then they'd enjoy sex more = more sex for everyone. Not all but a good proportion of my sexual partners have seen foreplay as a bit unnecessary, I wanted to please them and was told not to be bossy so I rarely came. Then the thought of sex wasn't that appealing and the bedroom activity tailed off
/r/MensRights18/08/19 07:08 PM
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No fuck isn't the opposite of fuck... celibate?
/r/MensRights18/08/19 06:28 PM
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Do they make you squirm in your tortilla wrapping?
/r/MensRights18/08/19 06:27 PM
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Highschool is viscous, I was very glad to leave it in the past
/r/MensRights18/08/19 06:27 PM
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I think your username is clever
/r/MensRights18/08/19 06:26 PM
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Fine I'll get my mum a Twitter account, you asked for it dude
/r/MensRights18/08/19 06:25 PM
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History suggests neither would be that successful. We work optimally as a team, also it depends on what you’re measuring success on. If those ten men were innovators and involved women in construction etc the village with more women might be more successful because they’d make wayy more babies half of which would be men (roughly). It’s said on here that MRA don’t think men are superior but you clearly do, I don’t think we should start a gender war tbh
/r/MensRights18/08/19 08:04 AM
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They’re not giving these kind of people attention because that’s exactly what they want. They’re in the world living and being reasonable like most of the population.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 07:58 AM
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My point is, despite alleged feminising of these subjects the boys still seem to be doing well. Don’t see how your biology point has any relevance
/r/MensRights18/08/19 07:53 AM
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Boys are still out performing girls by a fairly long way in maths and physics
/r/MensRights17/08/19 07:36 PM
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And yet the boys performed overwhelmingly better?
/r/MensRights17/08/19 04:53 PM
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Looks like it’s evened out in recent years, the difference this year was 0.4% so, I think it’s good news
/r/MensRights17/08/19 04:53 PM
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Well, it’s not the only card is it
/r/MensRights17/08/19 04:51 PM
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Maybe they are. It’s a really old movement, there’s loads of people who would identify as feminists but genuinely care about men
/r/MensRights17/08/19 04:51 PM
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This is the loveliest thread I’ve read for a while. I try and compliment my male and female colleagues on some aspect of appearance and the quality of their work at least once a week. Attractive women crave compliments on something other than appearance and it seems from here that men are v short on appearance compliments
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:31 PM
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There are worse things in this world than being cute
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:27 PM
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You’re just bein too coy, boy
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:26 PM
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Aborting male babies isn't part of the left agenda, but I do see the point you're making, this shouldn't be allowed
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:30 AM
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I agree, when I saw these first I thought it was a one off because it was so extreme but these subreddits are breeding hate. I did see some pretty crazy stuff on the incel Reddit about killing women so I'm not sure I'd say they were tamer, but they're banned now, this Reddit should have the same treatment
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:29 AM
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Yeh good idea, let's make a bad situation even worse and make the taxpayers pay for prison and care and fuck up a child's life in the mean time.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:26 AM
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His dead pan expression I guess, but he probably just wasn't smiling at that moment
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:24 AM
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I think it’s tricycles need fishmen. Have you got a source?? :P
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:13 PM
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How can you say I’m spreading misinformation when I looked at the most recent version of the source you suggested? And I’m not the one spreading it either, I responded to you
/r/MensRights16/08/19 06:49 PM
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Yes, I did read that too. Apparently it’s not enforced. Here in the UK it’s not a thing. Over in the states businesses have more freedom. In the EU it’s illegal for car insurance companies to charge men more, despite them being more expensive. In the US I gather men do get charged more, again, businesses have too much freedom, arguably. Despite this technically being discrimination, it benefits all parties in the outcome (lots of sex, maybe love), the company makes enough money, everyone is a wi…
/r/MensRights16/08/19 06:03 PM
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From 2017? Also stop downvoting me dude, I’m not doing anything from my trying to educate myself. I want to make sure the data I quote to people is up to date and accurate, otherwise I won’t be credible and my arguments will fall on deaf ears. Don’t treat me as an enemy for challenging your numbers, especially when you haven’t sourced anything helpful for us to look at
/r/MensRights16/08/19 05:25 PM
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Came to say the same thing as egalitarian whistle. Thanks for your time, I will read through tomorrow. I’ll just add my comment came from looking at the OCs source which did class made to penetrate as rape. Still the numbers weren’t equal. What I’m saying which is proving unpopular is that it shouldn’t matter whether it’s equal or not, we know enough to know it’s too high and it’s under reported. Is a victim any less of a victim because statistically they’re less likely to be one? I think not. T…
/r/MensRights16/08/19 05:08 PM
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I’m pretty sure I read the source the OC mentioned and it said 1 in 5 women and 1 in 14 men, including made to penetrate as rape. Some of you guys are just male versions of feminists, ignoring data to make yourselves the “real victims”. You’re the reason Men’s rights has such a bad rep, congrats
/r/MensRights16/08/19 05:00 PM
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Funny because I informed myself from the source you mentioned and it says they counted made to penetrate as rape. In massive writing, on like the first page. Can’t miss it
/r/MensRights16/08/19 04:53 PM
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It is, literally says it on the first page
/r/MensRights16/08/19 04:50 PM
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Here’s the source https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/2015data-brief508.pdf But it says 1 in 5 women were raped and 1 in 14 men. We don’t need to twist the data, 1 in 14 is still really fucking high for people to be saying it doesn’t exist is ignorant and wrong
/r/MensRights16/08/19 03:55 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s wrong dude. We don’t need to lie about things to get our point across. It doesn’t matter if men get raped half as much or a tenth as much, it’s still too many men getting raped and not getting the help, justice and sympathy they deserve
/r/MensRights16/08/19 03:44 PM
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In the US it is, the 14th Amendment generally doesn’t apply to private business and sex was not included as a protected class under federal public accommodation law. It’s why they can give seniors and kids discounts and not be sued for age discrimination.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 03:39 PM
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It’s most likely designed to benefit men in the first place by making sure there’s enough women on there. As you might have been with tinder data men are “less picky” than women so they need to even up the numbers by making it free.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 12:21 PM
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Agreed, we didn’t vote to crash out with no deal, everyone was fairly ill informed then, now we all know the reality a bit more I think we should confirm
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:11 AM
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Not for whatever reason. But I think it’s reasonable to say this ban is more left leaning, I don’t see that the right would be pro banning gender stereotypes particularly, that’s not to say they’d think gender stereotypes are good, just that bans on adverts are silly. The two types of people you have here are a left wing pro ban anti stereotypes, and a more right wing anti ban and anti over sensitive snowflakes. I am pro the ban, not because it’s offensive per se but because using tired out gend…
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:09 AM
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By the way I'd like to say thanks for asking for my story, it's clear we have differences in views but I'm glad we have the opportunity to talk. Also I'm sorry to hear about your own life, may you also find truth.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 10:09 AM
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You're right dude and you've got a great attitude, you are not retarded at all. The irony that you'd be called a retard for holding such mature view says a lot more about others than it does about you. You do you, short men live longer btw :D
/r/MensRights16/08/19 10:03 AM
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Women are allowed sexual preferences as much as men are. You can't force yourself to be attracted to someone. However, making a big song and dance and shaming people for not being attractive is wrong whoever does it.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:59 AM
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I'd just add that the calf is killed or sold for veal if it's male, and kept alive if it's female in order to continue the process. A lot can be said about a nation or individual from how they treat animals.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:56 AM
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Exactly, expecting everyone to agree with everything is unattainable. MRA disagree with each other too sometimes and that’s ok as well
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:12 AM
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It’s important, I agree. One thing men can do is report more, I know there are valid reasons for not reporting but it needs to be done anyway otherwise the problem remains invisible. This is not victim blaming, it’s raising awareness
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:11 AM
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That’s fish :P
/r/MensRights16/08/19 09:05 AM
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I'm trying to say the opposite, so we're in agreement I guess
/r/MensRights16/08/19 08:54 AM
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What is bullshit? Banning adverts?
/r/MensRights16/08/19 08:12 AM
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Alexis isn't presenting a left wing view. It's a right wing view, right wing is pro status quo, pro freedom, against nanny state, against government intervention. Thus it is the right that is against the ban. It makes much more sense that he is calling anyone who gets offended by adverts a snowflake, than simply saying it in this case because it's against men. I've seen so much commentary on this ban and it's the right thinking that the government is censoring things and taking it too far and pa…
/r/MensRights16/08/19 07:59 AM
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I don't think he is attacking men, honestly I don't. The rhetoric surrounding the advert ban as a whole has been like this, it's seen as government censorship, nanny state, too sensitive, you name it. People will be saying exactly the same thing when there are bans in the future that maybe banning ads with negative female stereotypes, they will not switch over to being right wing opinions. The opinion that banning ads because they contain negative gender stereotypes is overly sensitive remains m…
/r/MensRights16/08/19 07:54 AM
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I'm sure they use it. But the Alexis is against the stereotype ban, from what i can see. That's a right wing view, if we had to say it was one side or the other. Because it's against freedom of speech, nanny state etc. Lefties don't mind a nanny state
/r/MensRights16/08/19 06:41 AM
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Nice answer, v interesting perspectives. Thanks for the reassurance too, they do invite me along a fair bit which is fun but I'm always conscious I'm in their space kind of thing. I think they feel they need to behave around me but I enjoy a bit of vulgarity tbh. Unrequited love, while terrible and sad, is very much a fact of life. Knowing when to cut your losses is a valuable skill
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:14 PM
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I'm not so much making it about me as using my story to argue for child support. His family and my family also agree he said he wanted kids, they both did, it was planned, everyone knew about it. I think he thought he did, but in reality did not. He was responsible for child support and should've paid, it wasn't my mum's fault he changed his mind or didn't think having kids through. Parents are responsible for their kids, end of. It's not slavery, it's being an adult. Granted I think men should …
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:54 PM
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I see one person saying they think the ban is good and another saying the ban it is snowflakery. Neither opinions belong to the feminist left do they?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:20 PM
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You'll understand this is quite personal, so I ask for your sensitivity
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:17 PM
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Ok, my parents met, got married. Both said they wanted kids. We were born. My dad was an alcoholic, my mum tried to get him help. In the end the family doctor advised she take us and go for our safety because there were some situations where we'd been put in danger under his care. We moved, he to London, us to a smaller house. My mum had custody because he didn't want it, but it was completely open and the idea was that we'd spend time with him. She used to take us to London because he didn't wa…
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:17 PM
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Alexis might have, seems they're against the banning of adverts in the first place
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:00 PM
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Who's "they"?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:56 PM
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So you think that Dad's are incapable of parenting? And that it came about for a reason, what an interesting view to air on a Men's rights forum, and 19 upvotes so you're in good company. How weird!
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:55 PM
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Interestingly, no. Another advert was banned at the same time, deemed sexist against women, there were 3 complaints
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:53 PM
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You're talking nonsense, Alexis called people who complained snowflakes, that's more a right wing view
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:52 PM
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Why do you not think my father has any responsibility?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:48 PM
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What? So my mum should have surrendered my sister and I? Nice. Glad you're not my parent!
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:15 PM
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I am sans penis. Look dude, I don't know why you're trying to argue with me, and I am v confused as to your points. I believe she thought she was doing the right thing encouraging him to have the treatment, and I hope that this young man finds his way through this. I am just saying the relationship end must have been a terrible knock while he was already down.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:12 PM
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I don't disagree, but I do have questions. Why can't our hypothetical man just tell her straight that he's interested? Trying to woo women with gifts will attract the wrong people, you can't buy love. We're talking about women being clueless, but who buys someone gifts for ages in the hope they'll fall in love, separate note, I didn't realise men buying women gifts to court them was much of a thing anymore. The being married thing is somewhat different, because it's lying by omission. You could …
/r/MensRights15/08/19 04:06 PM
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I’ve thought about it and I really don’t think I would. I said the relationship end was the last straw on an already terrible situation from his own point of view. You misunderstood my point.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 03:48 PM
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I agree, relationship breakdown is hard on anyone in this case it’s looking like the straw that broke the camels back. Poor dude, I just can’t imagine. It’s no real consolation but it sounds like he’s better of without her since she said she’d leave if he didn’t get treatment, ultimatums like that are pretty abusive
/r/MensRights15/08/19 03:08 PM
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If child support payments are slavery then surely when a parent is expected to raise children alone with no support payments from the other, it is also slavery. I am completely against a system that cripples men financially, but reasonable payments if there is no 50/50 custody is best for the child. Growing up my dad, like most absent fathers, did not pay my mum any child support despite owning a house in London that is now worth 1.5 million. He didn’t make up for it in quality time with us. So …
/r/MensRights15/08/19 02:40 PM
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What are the systems in place that discourage boys? Just curious. Also 60% of places may be female but many degrees are becoming worthless. I wish I’d never done mine and had done an apprenticeship but what’s done is done and now I’ll pay for a mistake I made at 16 forever
/r/MensRights15/08/19 02:28 PM
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The BBC did, I think girls were like 0.4% above boys, pretty equal
/r/MensRights15/08/19 02:25 PM
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It's not good behaviour. But this isn't just someone else, this is the father
/r/MensRights15/08/19 12:12 PM
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Yes, really. True, men do feel pressure to stay working, women often feel similar pressure but inversely. Women who go back to work full time with a young baby at home are applauded by some, just as SAH Dads are, but shamed by others for being bad mothers. If you feel strongly that you'd like to be the one to stay at home with the kids/do 50/50 then it's important to find someone with the same core values as you. Granted, someone might change their mind, but I think the reality is these discussi…
/r/MensRights15/08/19 11:19 AM
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Both women and men are opting out of marriage because it’s a fucking stupid idea
/r/MensRights15/08/19 10:29 AM
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Leaving kids with Dad isn’t abandoning them! But don’t agee with what she’s suggesting at all
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:23 AM
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She did indeed, however that doesn’t make her a feminist automatically
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:20 AM
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This statistic comes from the UK where affirmative action is illegal. Also I would not consider giving up a career to look after kids a privilege, even if it is, men can and do the same thing, it's becoming increasingly common. There's not actually much evidence as to whether they want to or would rather work.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:15 AM
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Except that this statistic comes from the UK where affirmative action is illegal
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:11 AM
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Taking advantage of them by seeing them as a friend?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 07:47 AM
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Just curious, would you say MRAs are sexist because they focus on Men's issues?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 07:43 AM
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There were two adverts banned recently, one was the cheese one with a "stupid" Dad the other was one where men were adventuring in different settings and there was a shot of a woman with a pram. The first got over a 100 complaints, the second got 3.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 04:06 PM
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If it's definite then can I see your source so I can learn
/r/MensRights14/08/19 11:44 AM
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It doesn’t have to be
/r/MensRights14/08/19 10:04 AM
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It’s said a lot on here that women don’t equal feminists however often when a woman says anything she’s assumed to be a feminist
/r/MensRights14/08/19 10:03 AM
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You pay tax if you can afford to. In the uk the richest 1% pay a huge proportion of total income tax, I think it’s about 26%. These people are most often men. You’re acting like men are taxed at a higher percentage that women are, they aren’t, they just earn more and cost less because women do more unpaid work eg childcare and low paid work eg nurses, carers teachers etc
/r/MensRights14/08/19 10:01 AM
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Wow, you're very rude aren't you. I don't know where you live but I don't get taxed at 70%, it's 20% until you reach a higher threshold then it's 40%. I don't think I am pathetic for paying tax but ok.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 09:28 AM
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Good. When they announced that they’d be banning negative stereotypes there was backlash on here but I hope those people see that it’s a positive step. It’s not that it’s offensive per se, it’s that it feeds into people’s internal beliefs that men are not capable parents which they absolutely are
/r/MensRights14/08/19 08:46 AM
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Well, I’m happy to pay into the welfare system. Money isn’t everything and I can live on my 70% quite comfortably. I would not want to trade places with someone on welfare and I’m glad it exists.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 08:42 AM
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Well, pardon me for not doing an in depth statistical analysis on both posts! You completely misinterpreted my post to begin with, almost laughably so, and I was very polite about it. So let's not get too picky with semantics now shall we. Everyone seems to be in agreement that it's pervy whoever does it. However, I personally think, as long as you're not being obviously pervy, no one really cares. You're allowed to appreciate beautiful people, just don't make them uncomfortable. It's not like s…
/r/MensRights14/08/19 08:05 AM
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Very good point on motives and I am in agreement. However I'm not sure your numbers are right, it's equal, not 80%. However in younger children I think the numbers are different and higher number of female killers. More than 40% of the killers in these crimes were mothers, with fathers making up about 57% of those who killed their own offspring. However again, no one is saying how come 500 kids are killed each year by parents, what is going on with parents? Is there something to do with parentho…
/r/MensRights14/08/19 07:59 AM
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Not at all what I said. I said someone in the comments posted the same post but with the genders reversed and the comments they received were very similar. Thus I don't know if there is as marked a double standard as you make out. This is not the same as me saying it wouldn't receive negative reactions, quite the opposite, but those negative reactions were also received by this lady.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 07:42 AM
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Yeh, you've completely twisted it OP
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:50 PM
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Well this is a landmark event. If men were given more events despite already in most cases having more events then it wouldn't be news so much would it. A win for women shouldn't automatically be seen as a loss for men.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 11:19 AM
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I wouldn't say it was a disgusting double standard, no. She said she's thrilled to be announcing that they're adding new sports. If I thought it was disgusting double standard I'd have to find the other multi sports events disgusting for being the other way. And, I don't. I don't really care as long as it's roughly equal. They didn't taken men's sports away did they? The male athletes have the same games to compete in as they did before don't they?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 11:12 AM
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So this is the first event where this is happened? All the rest are either equal or have more men's medals than women's? Well then, doesn't seem to be much of an issue tbh
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:49 AM
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Ah maybe I got it confused with another case
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:27 AM
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Women are not responsible for things other women say and do. Same goes for men, just because some men do bad stuff doesn’t mean its “all on them to sort out”
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:21 AM
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You missed the end of the story where she was found to be lying and put in prison
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:18 AM
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Well why don't you quit and apply for a job where you have a/c and aren't expected to clean the toilets.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:12 AM
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It's a silver bullet that doesn't work though https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/a-gendered-trap-when-mothers-allege-child-abuse-by-fathers-the-mothers-often-lose-custody-study-shows/2019/07/28/8f811220-af1d-11e9-bc5c-e73b603e7f38_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_source=reddit.com
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:13 AM
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Someone in the comments above posted it the other way round and said the comments were the same, given that I don't think there is a double standard
/r/MensRights13/08/19 06:41 AM
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You're moving the goal posts there. Despite metoo many women still pose naked for male photographers. The point in this post is not to expand it until it's a scenario that is unfair
/r/MensRights13/08/19 06:36 AM
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Either it's a myth or it's not. It can't be both
/r/MensRights12/08/19 06:07 PM
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Pretty sure that does happen, I've seen data on black people getting paid less.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 05:49 PM
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Well, there are frequent posts on this sub raising awareness of things that are offensive to men. Everyone can be offended, obviously
/r/MensRights12/08/19 04:09 PM
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I agree, it’s a solid point but cloaked in a way that alienates men
/r/MensRights12/08/19 09:31 AM
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Pfft people call women fat all the time, this is Twitter. Plus she got called out. I agree this is about people thinking fat people are fair game for insults. As a former fatty I can confirm
/r/MensRights12/08/19 09:27 AM
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When she says child support what does she mean? Does she mean that if she stays at home to look after the child then you contribute financially? Because that’s fair if you both agree she’s the one to do it. If she’s working and you’re giving up your career then she should contribute more. It’s teamwork. She’s wrong about women not contributing, whoever is working should make up the deficit
/r/MensRights11/08/19 08:57 AM
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Your family should’ve been more sympathetic. It isn’t “women” who broadcast their problems though, it’s the media, it sells so they exploit it. They make women look whiney and weak and they ignore men
/r/MensRights11/08/19 08:52 AM
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While I don’t agree with her post she mentioned nothing about aborting a boy?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 08:46 AM
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Well it doesn’t sound like she’ll never see her dad. Hopefully they’ll come to a more flexible adult relationship. More doesn’t always equal better. My closet relationship now is my uncle even though I saw my mum most for instance
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:21 PM
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We don’t know enough to make that judgement
/r/MensRights10/08/19 01:18 PM
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I wouldn’t want to share with a 5 year old at 14 tbh
/r/MensRights10/08/19 01:15 PM
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Don’t apologise for speaking about your feelings and experience dude
/r/MensRights10/08/19 12:41 PM
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This is just my own experience on the other side. As a result of feminism and other societal changes women have a lot of pressure. I have a career that I love and have worked very hard for. I get asked constantly when I’ll have children and I don’t know what the answer is. There are certainly pressures on men, but we feel it too. We’re supposed to “have it all”, perfect kids that behave and a house that is immaculate, also a career. The mothers I speak to are feeling constant guilt for either ne…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 08:40 AM
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Saying you’ll never speak again isn’t respectful it’s childish
/r/MensRights10/08/19 08:33 AM
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The world would be very boring if we were all the same. I have friends from all walks of life, I think it’s healthy. We’re all a mixture of wrong and right.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 08:31 AM
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It is sexist, the EU outlawed it a couple of years ago
/r/MensRights09/08/19 03:24 PM
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Er no.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 03:02 PM
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Oh I'm not writing him off! I am just saying if he's mature, not to say he isn't.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 02:13 PM
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I’m only speaking from my own experience here. I grew up with just my mum and my sister, my uncle or grandpa would come and fix stuff for us and my mum returned the favour by cooking, mending clothes, organising family events etc. I think she actually can do a lot more practical stuff than she thinks but she clearly lacks the confidence. I own a house and car now and don’t like relying on people to help me so I’ve taught myself but it’s taken time to get over the belief that my brain is somehow …
/r/MensRights09/08/19 12:51 PM
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Agree. I wouldn’t have wanted to live in two houses either at that age. If her dad was mature and respected her wishes it might even lead to them being closer in the future.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 12:43 PM
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They won't let you see unless you pay, bastards. There were only three cases in the past three decades, according to a database compiled by Mother Jones. And research conducted by the New York Police Department found that only eight of 230 "active shooter" cases in the United States from 1966 to 2012 involved female attackers. And in the broader category of mass killings — including other methods of execution, such as arson — only 6 percent of perpetrators are women, according to a database comp…
/r/MensRights09/08/19 11:29 AM
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Find some good data that proves me wrong then. Another reply, another insult, dear me someone is letting their emotions get the better of them
/r/MensRights09/08/19 10:49 AM
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https://abcnews.go.com/blogs/headlines/2012/12/us-gun-ownership-homicide-rate-higher-than-other-developed-countries/ https://www.ft.com/content/200a8746-a7db-11e7-ab55-27219df83c97 Er no, just because you don't understand how to read graphs doesn't mean I'm a Beavis..whatever that is. There's some more for you. As I said, if you don't like my source, there are plenty more where it came from. As you'll see, they are mostly per 100 or per 10000 etc, to correct for the US having a large population.…
/r/MensRights09/08/19 10:29 AM
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Wow, rude but I actually love the muppets so it's cool. That's why it's per million, not total population.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 10:08 AM
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Oh sorry, I thought it would be obvious what I was getting yet. Er yes they do, but not nearly on the same scale https://www.vox.com/2015/10/1/18000444/gun-crime-us-foreign-countries If you don't like my source, there are hundreds and hundreds of others with these same facts.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 09:45 AM
1

"supposed to be" That's kind of the problem, telling people how they're supposed to be
/r/MensRights09/08/19 09:27 AM
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Ah, I was looking on my phone and it didn't show as a video! That is appalling.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 09:09 AM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/476445/mass-shootings-in-the-us-by-shooter-s-gender/ It’s way less than 10%, 110 are men, 3 by women
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:57 AM
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Agree, SSRIs are overprescribed for sure. “Oh you’re depressed are you? So depressed that you’ve come to a doctor, well here’s some drugs which will make you even more depressed for 2-3 weeks, maybe longer, good luck champ”
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:53 AM
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Does anyone actually think it’s ok though?
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:51 AM
2

Yeh I don’t imagine anyone is sucking dick to get employee of the month at a Store. Also he can suck dick if he wants
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:49 AM
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Other countries have video games, and mental health issues, and feminism...and yet...
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:34 AM
1

Lolol you guys think because boys are specifically mentioned in the articles that they're only going to help the small minority of girls? You're mad, that makes no sense, obviously they're helping the boys, they have to, they make up the majority of knife crime perps. The goal is to reduce knife crime, no one is going to spend a load of money to make girls feel better., it's a crisis, the idea is to stop people dying Jeez. Find me evidence that the funding is only to help girls if you're so conv…
/r/MensRights09/08/19 08:21 AM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/MensRights08/08/19 08:27 PM
0

They're literally talking about initiatives to help perpetrators of knife crime, the vast majority of whom are men. There are countless organisations helping both men and women in the UK. I go on the soup run and I don't see all the food just being given to women. You're a fool
/r/MensRights08/08/19 07:49 PM
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So? They're talking about everyone? You're the men's rights equivalent of a feminist. I'm making solid arguments and you're just lazily repeating the same thing that barely makes sense. Good night I'm going to go to something fun
/r/MensRights08/08/19 07:11 PM
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No one has said anything about excluding gender. They're showing sympathy for a population which is predominantly males, the fact they're not mentioning that 90% of males are perpetrators is a win for men. It's good they're generalising in this case. Also this statistic is showing a rise in the number of woman carrying knives, carrying and using are v different. If other people are carrying, wouldn't you? Especially if you're likely to be weaker https://images.app.goo.gl/DJHH7DwZXYa6nVQv7 And mo…
/r/MensRights08/08/19 06:36 PM
0

No one is even asking him to give up a seat on a train, I have literally never been on a train where a man has given up his seat for a woman unless she was pregnant and never heard anyone saying that they expect that men should. I spend a lot of time on commuter trains, it just isn't a thing.
/r/MensRights08/08/19 04:11 PM
2

And yet, they do!
/r/MensRights08/08/19 04:09 PM
0

As I said, until recently 90% suspects were male and the 16-24 age group, my point is that sympathy of the situation that the perpetrators are in has been a common theme, which in my mind is good. I am glad the UK isn't just shaking their heads at the youth of today and are showing some compassion and looking into the root cause.
/r/MensRights08/08/19 03:59 PM
1

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/knife-crime-uk-stabbings-youth-service-cuts-government-austerity-a8901856.html https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/knife-crime-rises https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/785055/Knife_crime_safeguarding_children_and_young_people_110319.pdf https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/rising-knife-crime-linked-to-cuts-in-youth-services-9mpznzltv In 2017, 90% of knife crime offenders were male, this p…
/r/MensRights08/08/19 03:18 PM
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Not true, there’s concern about teenaged boys as well it’s in the news most days. Its recognised that the rise in knife crime is part of a deeper issue and simply punishing individuals with prison is unlikely to work effectively with no other preventive measures
/r/MensRights08/08/19 02:34 PM
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Slapping your dog is bad training dude, it might not be cruelty per se but it’s not best practice by a long way
/r/MensRights08/08/19 02:28 PM
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Environmental issues should’ve be seen as “leftist” they affect all of us and should be universal
/r/MensRights08/08/19 10:46 AM
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I went to a very interesting talk by the RSPCA (UKs first and largest (?) animal charity) they were set up 70 years before the first children’s anti cruelty charity NSPCC and today they still receive more complaints than the NSPCC. They often work in tandem because people who are cruel to animals often are to children as well. The reality is people are often more likely to do something when animals are involved
/r/MensRights08/08/19 09:19 AM
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It's not a right to not have to pay for an expensive wedding. No one is making you, literally no one. And we don't know the story here. The saddest thing about this is that insulin is so expensive in the first place when it doesn't need to be
/r/MensRights08/08/19 07:48 AM
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I agree too. I don't think women are evading tax, it looks like they're paying less because overall they earn less. I'm not talking about the gender pay gap per say but it's a fact that women earn less, for reasons such as having lower paid jobs and taking time off for children. Also the second someone gets pregnant they are going to cost the health service a lot of money because birth is expensive
/r/MensRights07/08/19 07:29 AM
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Racism in response to racism, two wrongs don't make a right. Racism is not tolerated in this sub, I hope you get downvoted more
/r/MensRights07/08/19 07:23 AM
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I don’t really know that much about the monarchy despite being a Brit myself (yay Brits) but I do hear people getting annoyed about tax payers paying for the royal family so maybe that’s why she’s not included?
/r/MensRights06/08/19 05:58 PM
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Ok. I do find it crazy how someone can get 3 months when someone else gets 20 years for a v similar crime
/r/MensRights06/08/19 05:56 PM
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Interesting you say that because I was just reading some research on that:https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/a-gendered-trap-when-mothers-allege-child-abuse-by-fathers-the-mothers-often-lose-custody-study-shows/2019/07/28/8f811220-af1d-11e9-bc5c-e73b603e7f38_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_source=reddit.com It’s still weird advice though, if you’re that concerned then it’s best not to be in a relationship, what’s the point of getting with someone then randomly accusing them of DV. W…
/r/MensRights06/08/19 05:54 PM
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https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/us/ex-arizona-teacher-sentenced-to-20-years-in-prison-for-sex-with-student.amp Woman getting 20 years https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/minnesota.cbslocal.com/2014/12/11/former-teacher-gets-120-days-in-jail-for-sex-with-students/amp/ Man getting 120 days Easy to do the other way round. These cases are very complicated and cherry picking to prove a point isn’t really helping anyone. There is inequality in the system in that boys are told they should “en…
/r/MensRights06/08/19 05:29 PM
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You should care about those type of people, many feminists are good people who care about equality and a lot are getting sick of extremists like NOW speaking for them and attacking men. People who are neither one or the other do need to hear the message but often they don’t know because they don’t care. It’s not exactly hard to find out info about gender issues online but many people are too ambivalent to do so. Caring about human rights is a personality trait with a spectrum, some people are wi…
/r/MensRights06/08/19 05:12 PM
2

Apart from emails and letters
/r/MensRights06/08/19 04:49 PM
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She doesn’t actually have as much as people think, still a lot obv but not the richest
/r/MensRights06/08/19 04:45 PM
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Another extremist twat, killing white baby boys is not on the mainstream agenda I don’t think
/r/MensRights06/08/19 03:43 PM
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Are you saying that the only way to not be accused of DV is to accuse your partner first? That’s some sketchy advice if so..
/r/MensRights06/08/19 03:41 PM
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I do think it’s a good point, there’s definitely an unhelpful stereotype of a tree hugging hippy which is quite feminine. But then again I think the idea that people don’t do something so important because it’s girly is a bit immature no?
/r/MensRights06/08/19 03:39 PM
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Not all good habits are "virtue signalling" some people do just genuinely care about the planet. I don't give a fuck whether people know my recycling habits etc. In my mind there is no excuse to not engage in green behaviour, most of it is pretty simple and refusal to do your bit is selfish and lazy, whoever you are. Since you mentioned clothing twice, I found you this. Research from Barclay card shows Men actually spend more than women on clothing (UK) https://fashionunited.uk/news/retail/men-s…
/r/MensRights06/08/19 01:33 PM
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JK Rowling, clue is in the pic
/r/MensRights06/08/19 11:37 AM
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I don’t think they’re teenagers attending his school, they’re extremists. Feminists were responsible for changing the custody laws from default mother getting custody to what’s best for the child. Granted mother’s still get custody more often but this is slowly changing
/r/MensRights06/08/19 09:00 AM
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In the UK circumcision is rare so the medically needed exceptions are the norm
/r/MensRights06/08/19 08:12 AM
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But in modern society the data shows the gender of the child murderer is more or less even, while history is interesting, I think it's more beneficial to focus on what the reality is now
/r/MensRights05/08/19 07:28 PM
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I just spread right back. It's considered unladylike to spread one's legs but guess what? Vaginas get crushed too and we have wider hips so, I say we all sit comfortably knee to knee with our brothers and sisters.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 06:09 PM
1

How do you know if you're not a stay at home Dad? Or are you? Excuse me prying, I'm interested
/r/MensRights05/08/19 06:02 PM
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Where's the dad in all this? I can't watch the video
/r/MensRights05/08/19 03:27 PM
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I don't have kids so, that's my first caveat. But I have worked as a full time nanny, now I work in STEM and I must say that being a nanny was far harder work. Sometimes it was great fun, but I found it extremely demanding both physically and mentally and the hours were long. The housework was only a very small side of it, as you say, modern technology makes that part a breeze. At work I can eat my lunch in peace, go to the bathroom in peace and have stimulating conversations, the work is mostly…
/r/MensRights05/08/19 02:56 PM
1

Has she? I’ve seen posts on MRA from tinder profiles etc where the woman is making a load of demands about the appearance of a match. It’s considered wrong that way round, is she therefore wrong to say that she isn’t going to change her appearance for a man?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 02:32 PM
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I'm not being a jerk, this is a genuine question, have you looked after young children all day everyday on your own ever?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 02:09 PM
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Isn't saying someone hasn't got the balls similar to telling someone to man up?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 01:34 PM
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What guy would give up a promising career to change nappies and be told they are having an easy life
/r/MensRights05/08/19 01:33 PM
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You think it’s normal behaviour for women to kill their children? Why?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 12:50 PM
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They'd see that the statistics show a pretty equal split. Would probably shut them up in that they wouldn't see the relevance.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 11:31 AM
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It wouldn't go down well, and fair enough. It's distasteful and necessary at absolute best.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 09:30 AM
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You can still get someone pregnant when you've had a vasectomy, although it's unlikely. There's a guy and him and his wife never wanted kids then they had a son and apparently he's a douche (his words). Overall a sad situation for all involved
/r/MensRights04/08/19 06:05 PM
3

I'm a Scorpio but identify as a Libra and that really offends me
/r/MensRights04/08/19 06:00 PM
1

Still don’t get it 😔
/r/MensRights03/08/19 06:25 PM
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I don’t know about the US but in the UK you can positively discriminate if you’re lacking a group
/r/MensRights03/08/19 11:43 AM
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Overweight people experience the most discrimination out of everyone https://www.britishlivertrust.org.uk/weight-uks-most-common-discrimination/
/r/MensRights03/08/19 09:32 AM
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Awesome, she’s mine too. She’s so disarming and straight forward. I think her and David Attenborough have had the biggest impact on people’s attitudes to environmental issues. And I think it’s wonderful in itself that an old man and a young girl can have that power, it’s so pure.
/r/MensRights03/08/19 09:30 AM
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All the generic safety signs we have at work are male eg men working overhead. The female engineers don’t complain
/r/MensRights02/08/19 01:09 PM
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Sounds like your school had some crap sex ed. Mine did too. I know you say "just imagine if teenage boys..." but why are we acting like boys don't make fun of teenage girls? I remember boys making fun of girls saying they were aroused etc when they had hard nipples, I remember the kind of stuff you're talking about too. All too well. Hopefully sex ed will improve, I think the erection point you made is really important because it also proves men can be raped.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 12:55 PM
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The entire page is disgusting? From your photos there is a post about how joking about small penises is body shaming, then some stuff on trans people and quite a bit about global warming which is undoubtedly a crisis. Of course I get why you wouldn't like it, it's very left wing. Doesn't automatically mean it's disgusting because you personally don't agree with it.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 12:48 PM
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Mmm IDK, society seems to take a pretty dim view of either parents murdering their child. I'd argue many people have a greater reaction to mothers killing because it is so against the stereotype that mothers are the carers and nurturers.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 11:38 AM
1

You can be equal without being the same but, one thing that is impossible is keeping everyone happy and making sure things are completely fair for everyone. That is a lofty goal that we should strive towards but don't despair when it doesn't happen because it is impossible.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 11:36 AM
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I agree with you that while it is a "fault" with their internal wiring causing unhealthy habits, it is true that most often they are coping with stress or internal distress by eating. But the majority of adults already know it's their fault, they're just in a helpless cycle. Most of us have some form of unhealthy habit that they can't break out of that can be over working, alcohol, smoking, weed use, gambling, social media, whatever. Someone telling us it's not a good idea is telling us the part…
/r/MensRights02/08/19 11:33 AM
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I think the way overweight people are treated in general is poor. There’s no need for it, I used to be quite fat and now I’m not and I’ve noticed such a difference in how im treated but it might be because I have more confidence now. Fat people are seen as greedy and lazy, but over eating is addictive behaviour same in cause as any other. Loving and caring for yourself and dealing with your issues is the only way to overcome it and that’s made harder if people can’t keep nasty comments to themse…
/r/MensRights02/08/19 09:06 AM
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I think it’s when the suicide rate is lower overall. But I don’t really understand, why is it 6:6 isn’t that just 1:1? I’m feeling stupid
/r/MensRights02/08/19 09:00 AM
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Who doesn’t?!
/r/MensRights02/08/19 08:56 AM
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How have you got 46 upvotes for a comment that makes zero sense. By that reasoning if a guy made a false rape accusation then he wouldn't be doing prison time because men can't be raped.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 08:27 AM
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Well it depends how you look at it, China does have a very high carbon footprint, but they are the world's workhorse and so do you argue that it's theirs or do you argue that the footprint lays at the door of the consumer. I have however had quite an interesting google and found that I was, in part, wrong. https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2019/01/chart-of-the-day-these-countries-have-the-largest-carbon-footprints/ I don't actually think humanity is going to die out because of metoo though, if anyt…
/r/MensRights01/08/19 03:53 PM
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I did read it and no I haven't looked at her social media accounts, I'll be honest, while I did comment on this it's not a top priority. Would you like me to delete it the link?
/r/MensRights01/08/19 03:37 PM
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You've taken that quote rather out of context my man
/r/MensRights01/08/19 03:27 PM
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I didn't know who she was so I googled her and this was like the third thing that came up: https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-life/kindness-relationships/
/r/MensRights01/08/19 03:07 PM
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Humans in the west have the highest impact on the environment by far atm
/r/MensRights01/08/19 02:39 PM
1

Agreed. I have so many friends who have met on Tinder and are in healthy LTR. I met my boyfriend on there, he was a 32 year old virgin and was way too shy to chat up women IRL. We give each other tinder based homemade cards for anniversaries :D
/r/MensRights01/08/19 02:27 PM
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But good for other species as humans are a disaster for the planet
/r/MensRights01/08/19 01:38 PM
1

So let's unpick this. His definition of objectifying is: "So, in fact, there is nothing wrong with a man objectifying a woman—that is, being attracted to a woman—as long as he doesn’t do it full-time." Pretty much no one has said that there is something wrong with being attracted to a woman, he's arguing against a point that doesn't exist. The definition of objectifying from the Cambridge English Dictionary is: ​​"to treat a person like a tool or toy, as if they had no feelings, opinions, or rig…
/r/MensRights01/08/19 01:20 PM
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This is kind of a weird point. Are you saying he's a good dad for supporting his daughter? Or an irresponsible one for exposing them both to danger?
/r/MensRights01/08/19 09:35 AM
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They can't spend it if they don't have it. And the only evidence that they spend more comes from data that suggests they're buying things that benefit both themselves and others i.e grocery shopping, child care etc https://www.thisismoney.co.uk/money/news/article-3769030/Women-end-118-disposable-income-month-men-thanks-childcare-costs-bills.html
/r/MensRights01/08/19 07:57 AM
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Those things may be so, but unfair as they are, the data that I've provided from a good source says: "Women born poor are more likely to remain poor than men. There are a number of possible reasons for the ‘stuckness’ of women at the bottom of the income scale, including that women are much more likely to be single parents than men are." So you're right, but that doesn't make me wrong. They're both true.Read the article and learn something, it's interesting. I'm waiting for a source that backs u…
/r/MensRights31/07/19 08:55 PM
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Lots of baseless statements, not all untrue, but very biased
/r/MensRights31/07/19 07:22 PM
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I’m talking about the claim that social mobility is easier for women? Especially if they’re hot? Yeh all fine if you want to be a whore but how can you claim that social mobility isn’t in the main job and income based, this research will have taken debt and living costs into consideration I’m sure. It shows women have less social mobility, which makes sense, because they have less income i.e are poorer. I feel like you’re talking about class to some extent, and it’s a different thing all togethe…
/r/MensRights31/07/19 06:35 PM
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The source is about social mobility. Yes it's more than just wealth but where's the evidence for your original claim?
/r/MensRights31/07/19 05:23 PM
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White collar crime is massive, you're right. You can get away with a lot if you've got funds and friends in the right places
/r/MensRights31/07/19 05:20 PM
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What are your basing this on? I wondered if you were right because I hadn't heard that women have more social mobility than men. Found that While 69% of men live in families with higher incomes than the ones they grew up in, 64% of women do. Very small difference, not in favour of women. I do agree with you about income inequality being a major source of crime though. Edit source: https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2013/11/12/gender-gaps-in-relative-mobility/
/r/MensRights31/07/19 02:56 PM
1

OP do you know it’s a false accusation? Because, while it happens, sexual assault also happens. Do we know she’s lied? Just asking the question
/r/MensRights31/07/19 02:29 PM
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Is it possible to do a poll type thing? I have seen a few women but I think a lot of them don't necessarily want to make a thing of it
/r/MensRights31/07/19 02:14 PM
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Er no. Abortion is not toxic femininity and just because reproductive rights for men are not as they should be, doesn't mean taking away other rights, which do often positively effect men too because they won't have to pay for/look after a baby that they don't want. Contraception goes wrong, people get drunk, some people think they're infertile when they're not. Doesn't mean they should be parents if they don't think they'd make good ones
/r/MensRights31/07/19 02:08 PM
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So when men are bipolar they're exhibiting toxic femininity? Way to kick people while they're down dude
/r/MensRights31/07/19 02:02 PM
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I can't imagine how hurtful this has been for OP and my sincerest commiserations but it's a stretch to reference murders in relation to a nasty divorce
/r/MensRights31/07/19 01:59 PM
0

I agree with Lonely Bicycle, I don't consider that my friends owe me sexual favours in exchange for friendship. You get friendship in exchange for friendship. Also, they're still at school, it's not that unusual to be a virgin even in your early-mid twenties. Doesn't mean people owe you sex.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 01:51 PM
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I get you :). Yeh that stuff is super cool, I've seen Colin Cloud a few times, he's a forensic psychic. Nothing supernatural, he's just really really good at reading people and makes it into entertainment. I used to notice more, but in public situations I take my glasses off and ignore most people unless I think I might be in danger. It's a recipe for a peaceful soul
/r/MensRights31/07/19 01:32 PM
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I mentioned it once, hardly insisting. I am acknowledging that either it doesn't happen to me or I don't notice because, as I said insisted I'm not that sensitive to facial expressions. I just don't really care, the seat is for a bottom not a bag, if they have a problem, it's their issue and I refuse to get upset about it. In the main, as I mentioned, people just move their bags when there's people, or you just nod at them and they move. I don't really know what argument you're trying to win or …
/r/MensRights31/07/19 12:15 PM
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Don't know what to say mate. I used to commute daily in London and never had this happen, I'm not particularly sensitive though. Most people just move their bags once it gets busy in my experience.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:07 AM
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Maybe they are, maybe you're reading too much into it. No one knows.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:54 AM
2

Owing to your user name I have this image of you as a sad T-rex in a cola-stained T-shirt
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:51 AM
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Yeh, a simple "is this seat taken" is easy enough. I've never had anyone deny me that request about from bullies on the school bus back in the day. Ah youth.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:49 AM
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Also, I am not misandrist for referring to a study referenced by OP, which was about heterosexual relationships
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:23 AM
0

I understand your points, some I do wholeheartedly agree with. Especially like your second to last point, it's a really important one that not everyone seems to understand. Couldn't you say pretty much all those things for men too?
/r/MensRights30/07/19 08:46 PM
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Yeh, good points. But I don't think we should be criticising the market team of a charity. They're not really the enemy, they're just doing their best. Last time I checked there was nothing stopping men from setting up shelters and lobbying the government. That's what should be happening, not endlessly criticising well meaning people
/r/MensRights30/07/19 07:03 PM
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I don't agree with NOW, they're extremists as far as I'm concerned, they're like the Westbourgh Baptist Church to Christians. They've turned women off feminism but it's only fair that women have a voice since they are half the population, what is that voice?
/r/MensRights30/07/19 07:00 PM
1

Ya because he took the time to comment, and it's true that his argument is detailing the issue. Not good practice for productive debate
/r/MensRights30/07/19 06:53 PM
1

Way to twist my words. What is your answer? If you reject feminism, what is your suggestion as a replacement? If Men's rights says feminism isn't necessary because we're all equal already, why does it need to exist?
/r/MensRights30/07/19 03:23 PM
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Here we go, knew the 'egalitarian' facade would slip eventually. What does that even mean? I do even admit that, because I'm not a fan of feminism, all I said is I see the competition of suffering stuff is very popular and that both sides are to blame. It's unhelpful whenever it happens. So shoot me, I really don't care internet stranger.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 03:05 PM
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Listen to yourself. The feminist here initially mentioned abortion, which is topical because of the recent law changes, she didn't claim women have it worse, the MRA then brings up a whole host of men's issues. I don't agree with how she then responded but we didn't see the whole conversation. Men's rights says it's egalitarian but some sure hate women having any kind of voice. Men should have their own rights movement, but women can't. Even though we're equal. No. Discussion surrounding reprodu…
/r/MensRights30/07/19 02:58 PM
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Your original point is that it's only feminists that ever make things into a competition. Even though the whole post is pretty much two people competing as to which gender has it worse. There's your proof
/r/MensRights30/07/19 02:42 PM
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You said initially that it is only feminists who do it. I don't think you're right on that. As a percentage of each group, I'd say there's equal competing in the suffering Olympics. But it's going to be hard for either of us to prove otherwise. Let's just agree that it's unhelpful because the issues should speak for themselves and move on.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 02:22 PM
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I understand what you're saying, I am not sure if you've understood my point. I am not apologising for anyone, I am saying it's unhelpful, whoever does it because it doesn't lead to solutions, just an argument. You're essentially saying MRA are allowed to do it because they're more oppressed by mass media, politicians etc. To that I say, go ahead if you want to achieve nothing and gain the same bad reputation as feminism.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 02:14 PM
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I'm not going to respond to your strawman, haven't got the energy.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 01:39 PM
0

You can witness it being made into a competition before your very eyes. Someone mentions abortion rights, someone throws back some men's rights stats. It's like a game of top trumps were everyone loses because no one knows that the rules are. Feminists are not the only ones who make it into a competition. Come on. Whataboutism is as rife on Men's rights as it is on feminist subs. My arse is speaking the truth, I'm not hating on anyone, just saying it's largely unproductive because no one is list…
/r/MensRights30/07/19 01:38 PM
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I do agree with you, it's woefully inadequate and the system is unfair.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 01:31 PM
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White ribbon's mission statement is that they specifically work to end male violence against women and girls. That's what they specialise in, just how the men's rights movement is solely for men's rights issues and that's fair enough. I don't really see a problem with causes specialising, it's like getting upset that a wild animal rescue isn't taking in abused pets. The study also shows that men are more likely to inflict injury, so it doesn't seem like white ribbon's cause is unjustified.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 01:11 PM
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Just visited the apple uk and saw plenty of white men. Maybe not half, but white men are not half of everyone. https://www.apple.com/uk/ https://www.apple.com/uk/tv/ https://www.apple.com/uk/ipad/
/r/MensRights30/07/19 12:04 PM
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https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/5d38c003-c54a-4513-a369-f9eae0d52f91
/r/MensRights30/07/19 11:49 AM
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UTI infections, STDs, cancer, and HIV, many of which passes on to their male partners, and this is largely due to its unclean natural state. Untrue, the vagina is self cleaning, trimming would increase those infections because the vagina would have less protection, just like clean shaven vaginas get more infections. I am against circumcision of any type, but I am pro facts too.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 10:48 AM
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The men's rights subreddit is mainly anti-feminism. Fine if men aren't speaking for women, but to say men are allowed to speak about their rights but feminism is evil in every way (which is a sentiment offered frequently here) is kind of unfair no?
/r/MensRights30/07/19 10:23 AM
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19 downvotes but no one has responded to my question. Interesting
/r/MensRights30/07/19 09:29 AM
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Agree, if they want to cut their hair, wear different clothes and use a different name it's completely up to them. The way boys and girls are supposed to be is largely influenced by society and has changed over history
/r/MensRights30/07/19 09:18 AM
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I checked out the sub, particularly liked their holiday message: Happy holidays all! May we all get what we wish for the next year - a real, noticible decrease in women's rights. Peace and good will to all.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 08:13 AM
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They have loving, accepting parents so, much less likely
/r/MensRights30/07/19 08:08 AM
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Yes it's better that we talk. OP makes some good points but I personally don't think it should be made into a competition. Women should have access to abortion and some states in the US are making that harder. Men should have reproductive rights too. The two shouldn't be mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights30/07/19 06:37 AM
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That's a really great point Sir! I'll be honest, you did come off a little rude at first but now I completely see what you mean and I agree. My question to you is, isn't gender roles bullshit actually helpful to your cause in some ways? For instance you're saying that no one should be telling men how to behave, I agree, but that is my understanding of what getting rid of rigid gender roles should be like. Practised fairly, it's the same thing. If you want to be manly, be manly. Everyone has thei…
/r/MensRights29/07/19 06:26 PM
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Yeh duh, because all sex is rape, didn't you guys know that?
/r/MensRights29/07/19 03:51 PM
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Have you stayed at home with young children? Everyday I mean, not just weekends or evenings. Because, unless you have, for significant time, you can't compare. Also easier than what? Easier than any other time of job?
/r/MensRights29/07/19 02:07 PM
1

Was she getting a short boy-style hair cut?
/r/MensRights29/07/19 01:52 PM
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Fair dos, I am sure it is more than one woman on earth per day, but my sources are anecdotes, so I have changed it for you logic man :)
/r/MensRights29/07/19 01:35 PM
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I'm sure you've observed that the women's queue is often longer. That's because, they do need more bathrooms, various reasons such as periods, more often with young kids, clothing takes longer to remove, urinals are quicker, woman pee more often especially after child birth, and presumably other mystery reasons maybe catching up on Facebook or reading war and peace, idk some women take FOREVER. I do think the picture in the post is unfair, I don't see what's wrong with male and female loos..
/r/MensRights29/07/19 01:23 PM
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Isolation, loneliness, whichever, don't really know why you are so set on arguing with me. For some solitude is great, for some it is helpful in moderation. But voicing your issues and getting practical help on resolving them when they're getting too much is important for everyone. You're claim that no men get any emotional relief by voicing their issues because you don't with yours, you are not all men though, just remember that.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 11:16 AM
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I didn't say anything about talking about problems. I said dealing with issues in complete solitude can lead to isolation and suicide in some cases. Watching a baseball game seems like a great idea, whatever helps, helps.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 10:40 AM
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*over a quarter in the US https://www.forbes.com/sites/niallmccarthy/2015/11/19/what-percentage-of-us-wives-earn-more-than-their-husbands-infographic/#4d98ce8a5736
/r/MensRights29/07/19 09:39 AM
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Or more women could make the first move more, don't see what's wrong with that
/r/MensRights29/07/19 06:37 AM
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I feel like you should've included that in the post, it is a bit misleading otherwise although it is true that it's unfair it seems more like favouritism because of who she is. I'm v against drink driving though so, still wrong. Was she speeding?
/r/MensRights29/07/19 06:31 AM
1

CBT doesn't work as well for men as it does for women. It can still have great results but hypnotherapy is definitely as good for many people
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:54 PM
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Hypnosis is amazing. I'm training to become a hynotherapist specialising in male depression and anxiety. It's a great practical solution that really works
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:53 PM
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For what?
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:51 PM
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No because they knew it was for an art project. Revenge porn is a very different thing
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:51 PM
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I don't agree. DV is all about power. But men don't always hold the power in relationships.
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:04 PM
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I don't think masculinity is fragile. I think some people's is though, when it's defining too much of who you are. It should be an important part of course. But when people won't do things they think are too "feminine" or make fun of other men for doing so. I'm thinking things like caring about baby stuff/childcare, caring about appearance, being gentle, sensitive, liking poetry, whatever. That's where it goes wrong because everyone should be free to do what they want to do
/r/MensRights28/07/19 10:15 AM
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That's a list of dissimilar examples, what's your point?
/r/MensRights27/07/19 06:16 PM
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Women don't choose to have children on their own, some do, but most of the time there's 2 people involved. Fair enough if companies don't pay good maternity, but it puts pressure on men to be bread winners for a time which is an issue mentioned on here a lot too
/r/MensRights27/07/19 10:29 AM
1

Why does Men's rights exist then?
/r/MensRights27/07/19 09:47 AM
1

What about people who bring up historical child molestation that can't be proven?
/r/MensRights27/07/19 09:44 AM
1

I missed the announcement that women don't have to pay tax
/r/MensRights27/07/19 09:13 AM
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Just to say it's really good to see these sort of comments/people being challenged. Protecting the image of MR is so important, absolute truth yes, unnecessary sexism no. It's wrong and it's harmful to the cause
/r/MensRights27/07/19 09:08 AM
2

4 people have upvoted, what do they know that we don't!
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:40 PM
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That he was told to cut off his hair, which he didn't want to do. The policy is just for boys, so, there you go. I imagine that wasn't actually the response you wanted. I find it interesting that the post is at 50% upvoted. Usually everyone is quite against sexist policies, but apparently not when it comes to hair.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 03:33 PM
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I agree, I completely believe that men that are victims of sexual assault are more likely to be ridiculed. But by a whole group of people? Who are victims themselves? And no one said anything? And the therapist didn't intervene? I just really don't think this happened.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 03:12 PM
2

I gave up with movies a while ago. Now it's all about those sweet true crime documentaries.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:56 PM
1

Targeting an advert towards a specific group that there currently aren't many of to meet demand isn't discrimination, it's just smart recruitment. Nowhere does it say men can't apply and I checked on their website too, it's just a recruitment drive. Also, there's a lot of comments on here everyday complaining that women aren't pulling their weight in dangerous jobs, a company has a push to recruit women into a dangerous job and everyone's whining about it.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:49 PM
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Agree, most firefighters are male, they're short of staff, target females. Good idea. Not discrimination.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:41 PM
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I think you're right. It's similar to if a company had a product that they realised only men were buying, they would be smart to do a marketing campaign aimed at women. Doesn't mean they don't care about their male customers, or than men are banned from buying the product, just, needs must. Business is business.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:40 PM
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I don't like feminism, it's the disengaging with women and society bit that I don't think is speaking for the majority of men. Maybe the original comment didn't mean that to follow on from the "we men" bit but it's how I read it. I'll delete my comment if so
/r/MensRights26/07/19 01:26 PM
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Mmm, I see what you're saying and I agree and disagree. First, I'm mindful of you sharing your personal experience and what you say about that, as far as I'm concerned, is true and absolutely true because it's your own experience. However it is not necessarily true for all men. We don't know that the cause of depression is feminism. We do know it's growing for both men and women and, as I'm sure you know, suicide is more common in men than it is in women and depression is more common in women th…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 11:49 AM
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I am not positioning myself as a spokesperson because it's ridiculous to say that men do this or women do that. It is not true that "we men" are disengaging from women and society in the mainstream, if some men want to do it then, be free to do what you will. But I'd suggest for many it's not really the answer for the majority.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 11:21 AM
2

Exactly, it is the same thing. No. Means. No.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 11:06 AM
2

What sort of things do you think would help support men suffering from depression?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 10:35 AM
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Wish I could upvote this more. If MRA and Feminists agree to operate under the Egalitarian banner and support each other, listening to each other with kindness, understanding and compassion, the world would be a better place. The trouble is, there are shitty people who will take advantage where they can, it's a cruel world. It's very difficult to limit the damage but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:48 AM
5

Do you have a source for your statistic OP?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:16 AM
1

Some bashing we can all agree on. Let's join together in our mutual bashing!
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:11 AM
1

Yeh, wha?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:10 AM
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"You men" have adapted, who made you spokesperson for all men? Honest question, I must have missed out on the vote
/r/MensRights26/07/19 09:08 AM
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Yes, people should not be allowed to change their minds. And even if you agree with their new mindset you should just discount everything they say even if it's based on evidence because humans are static creatures who must hold the same view forever.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 08:58 AM
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You have to understand that social media and youtube isn't real life
/r/MensRights26/07/19 08:42 AM
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r/notliketheothergirls Please don't apologise for the "majority" of women, it is not the majority of women and you can't apologise for something you didn't do
/r/MensRights26/07/19 08:24 AM
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I haven't found that to be the case. Failing is a part of life, you cannot avoid it, the more you fail, the better you get. You can choose to learn from them and make yourself even better than before, you can just get angry or give up. I do the former, that's not weakness, that's the definition of strength. So, I'm going to carry on doing that and you just do whatever you want, it's not my business.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:10 PM
1

Not in the UK
/r/MensRights25/07/19 05:59 PM
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Yeh I want to fail. Literally no one ever did anything great without failing. Yes I want to be able to cry if I need to, it's a biological function, not for women only. The feel sorry for yourself bit was added in by you so. Please don't police what men can and can't do and say. Especially not on a men's rights forum.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 05:57 PM
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I think that would prove to be an expensive waste of time at this point, very weak case.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 03:57 PM
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Until it leads to suicide
/r/MensRights25/07/19 03:26 PM
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So? Would you want your child to marry someone who is impatient, unkind, jealous, boastful, prideful? Who's a a self-seeking, angry jerk who's always raking up shit from the past? Who delights in evil and lies? Who doesn't protect you or trust you? Certainly I wouldn't and tbh anyone who does sounds like a horrible parent. It's just some sweet advice from a loving mother, it can be equally applied to any gender and the majority of it is basic human decency. Men and women are allowed to have stan…
/r/MensRights25/07/19 03:07 PM
1

And?
/r/MensRights25/07/19 09:11 AM
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I don't think they'd get the joke, much like you, babies have a different sort of sense of humour. Think along more slapstick lines if you want to get a baby going
/r/MensRights25/07/19 09:05 AM
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It's very sad to hear about. My dad didn't want to know me from quite a young age, knowing how that felt makes me feel for the children of these situations too
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:30 AM
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You say that, but it's not true. There are lot's of great guys on here, the majority, but I've seen an awful lot of comments on here that are extremely insulting to all women. It's important that the MRA doesn't become like the feminist movement, "because they do it" meaning the extreme feminists is NOT an excuse to do it yourself unless you are 5.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:24 AM
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Not the original commenter, but he didn't mention taking it to court, I probably would've.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:10 AM
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Babies don't feel pain, when a tooth forces it's way through gum they just shrug and take it on the chin.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:01 AM
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From a medical perspective I can't agree that they're the same. But they're morally comparable and we're agreed on that which is the main thing
/r/MensRights25/07/19 06:41 AM
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In what way is pro-circumcision leftist/SJW? Genuine question
/r/MensRights24/07/19 04:44 PM
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Don't think you understood my comment or I've found the strawman. I'm saying I think everyone should have the right to decide if they want to be a parent. Abortion for women, legal/paper abortions for men, or whatever you want to call them I don't care, both following the same legal time period. Babies are expensive and parenting is difficult to do well, there are enough humans that we can afford people the choice about whether they want to make one. I didn't say anything about paternity fraud, …
/r/MensRights24/07/19 04:41 PM
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Imo that's not really rape baiting, that's changing your mind. She didn't admit to rape baiting she admitted that other guys would have ignored her saying no and carried on which is rape. I've been with men where we've been getting it on and he's decided he wasn't feeling it that night. I just said ok and we moved on, didn't think they were rape baiting me.
/r/MensRights24/07/19 03:41 PM
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I don't think this is to do with feminism. Even r/Feminism agrees with you: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/8ua4h9/can_you_be_a_feminist_and_pro_circumcision/ They might well be guilty of not fighting against it enough, but they certainly aren't pro in the main
/r/MensRights24/07/19 03:36 PM
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And, what happened after she said you'd been violating boundaries? Did you ask her why? Surely she had to give a reason to somebody? This all sounds very fishy.
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:46 PM
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What media? The reality is it happens to both genders and it would be wrong to pretend it doesn't : https://www.politico.eu/article/theresa-may-faces-more-gender-based-abuse-than-jeremy-corbyn-report/ It's wrong in this case all the same, to use male as an insult, insults the whole male gender, pale, again, insulting and stale, meh could be ageist but they aren't that old. It's also unimaginative, I'm sure our fellow countrymen could come up with some far better words to describe him based on hi…
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:43 PM
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Just to clarify, did she accuse you of violating boundaries relating to the recordings? Or to something else
/r/MensRights24/07/19 01:50 PM
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I think it's disingenuous to say that is the only difference. FGM is more akin to cutting off the penis in many cases and has a much greater risk of death as a result of the procedure or secondary i.e in childbirth. However, both are barbaric, non-consensual and unnecessary, and I think this post is a great example of using comparisons to help another cause, rather than to dismiss it.
/r/MensRights24/07/19 12:07 PM
1

There is a push the number of 18-year-old men applying to study nursing has increased by more than 50% in a decade, according to UCAS
/r/MensRights24/07/19 09:38 AM
2

They're owned by the Tories
/r/MensRights23/07/19 06:56 PM
2

Mate, there was an announcement from the Queen that Boris is fair game, he gives it out, he can take it too. He's the leader of our country after all. Plus I refuse to see male as an insult.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 06:56 PM
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The post is at 43% upvotes, I think it's obvious who the troll is. And you're right https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/05/180524112351.htm
/r/MensRights23/07/19 01:14 PM
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You were the one who bothered writing a post so you obviously do care
/r/MensRights23/07/19 01:06 PM
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It was your delivery which led me to believe that. Birth control isn't always accessable or reliable. Abortion isn't anti men's rights, the fact that men are not allowed to sign away their rights before a baby is born is unfair and should be fought for
/r/MensRights23/07/19 01:03 PM
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Oh yes I forgot about the rule where you can only care about one thing! Damn that pesky rule.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 11:48 AM
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Marriage is about the least romantic thing I can think of. If people want to get married then good on them, but it seems like such an unnecessary gamble and hassle, most of it based on fear.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 11:22 AM
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I think you've hit the nail on the head. Feminism isn't as old as Christianity ofc, but it is old enough that over time and cultures it has changed and mutated such that there are very different groups of people with very different views but using the original name. It's important to remember that some people are shits, they'll use whatever they can to get sympathy and preferential treatment. There will always be someone abusing the system and twisting things to suit their ends. I spend a fair a…
/r/MensRights23/07/19 10:51 AM
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OP is a woman hater. His view on women having access to safe abortion: Right and call it slut shaming cuz they got drunk as a skunk and fucked chad so naturally abortion is a right...and cucks feed support enable and empower the hamster. Its like giving machine guns to children
/r/MensRights23/07/19 10:16 AM
2

Fuck the Tories
/r/MensRights23/07/19 10:05 AM
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https://bigthink.com/sex-relationships/men-have-less-testosterone-today?rebelltitem=4#rebelltitem4 Or maybe it's pollution, obesity and decrease in smoking
/r/MensRights23/07/19 06:40 AM
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You're right testosterone is decreasing, you're hypothesis is not backed up by any evidence though so shouldn't be presented as a fact. People smoke less, have unhealthy diets and there's much higher levels of pollution, studies show these all lead to decreasing testosterone.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 06:39 AM
1

I vote we add sitting on the manspreading chairs to the sidebar list of Men's rights issues and move the fuck on
/r/MensRights22/07/19 03:35 PM
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https://www.livescience.com/52998-women-combat-gender-differences.html ​ Yes. But the trouble with averages is they don't really work that well in real life. I could have my head in the oven and my feet in the freezer, on average I'm the right temperature, but in reality, I would not be in a good place.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 01:15 PM
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It's all made up, it's a comic book. And there is a female Thor, in the comic books, which are again, made up. So yes, you can make this shit up, and someone did, and now it's a film. This is not affecting men's rights in the least bit. Whining about this kind of thing makes the movement look like a male version of feminism which is quickly what it's becoming, so congrats.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 10:22 AM
1

Why did I get downvoted for this? Sorry for not demanding my boyfriend pay for me?! Jeez
/r/MensRights22/07/19 08:06 AM
1

Fair dos, it's the data that concerns me rather than what Sandberg is saying about it (didn't actually know who tf Sandberg was until I googled it). That's what I am basing my argument on as I've seen it coming up a fair bit with publications putting their slant on it. So none of my comments are so much about what Sandberg says. Men and Women should be treated equally in the workplace, if that's not what she's saying then fuck her
/r/MensRights22/07/19 08:01 AM
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It really depends what your definition of management is. It's maybe different from mine. I'm a manager and mentoring is an essential part of getting the best from my team. Knowing what their strengths are, where they're struggling, and where they want to go next. The women in my company are contributing just as much as the men and I can't see that an environment where men are offered that important benefit and women aren't, is a good thing. It's nothing to be gleeful about. Of course I see why a…
/r/MensRights22/07/19 06:43 AM
11

Lolol
/r/MensRights21/07/19 07:25 PM
2

Under the Tories the gap between rich and poor has grown and the average person has got poorer. Food banks and homelessness are increasing. I see things getting worse, I can't help but place some fault at the door of those who are in charge. Don't really care for labour either, I blame the system as a whole. Career politicians get to a stage where they lose touch, that's assuming they were in touch with their constituants in the first place. Angry as i am about this, it's happening to men and wo…
/r/MensRights21/07/19 06:49 PM
1

In the companies I've worked at it's part and parcel of being a good manager. I've always had male bosses, they've always mentored me and I've always proven it's worth it. I see why male managers feel this way, it's a problem with huge consequences for both sides
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:56 PM
1

It's not his time when he's clocked on
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:40 PM
2

Actually in some cases, they are. A manager is paid extra for managing a team, that means performance management/mentoring. I'd be rightly hacked off if my manager gave me less mentoring just because I was a woman. I'd understand,but I'd be hacked off and probably leave. I work hard and I want to do well.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:39 PM
5

All great apart from the fact he has down syndrome not autism
/r/MensRights20/07/19 05:14 PM
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I've paid more into my relationship than my boyfriend has because we pay a proportion of what we earn. I want equality so fairs fair
/r/MensRights20/07/19 01:50 PM
2

I always go Dutch, or at least I'll offer. The majority of dates I've been on I've found the guy insists, there's only so many times I'll go back and forth before it's obvious that's what they want. Then I'll say thank you I'll pay next time. I don't like not paying my way, it's unfair and it also makes me feel I owe them something which isn't the foundation I want for a relationship
/r/MensRights20/07/19 01:44 PM
0

The answer is pretty obvious isn't it? What people like in the bedroom/as a fantasy is different from real life. It's the same for both genders, some men like to be submissive and degraded in the bedroom but they wouldn't want to be treated that way at work for instance. It's all relative
/r/MensRights19/07/19 05:13 PM
5

She looks like a bitch
/r/MensRights19/07/19 05:04 PM
1

I see what you're saying and you're not wrong, but it's beside the point.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:03 PM
20

So you only have sex for procreation? I am going to guess not, but correct me if I'm wrong. You have sex for pleasure, therefore it's not at all unreasonable for your female partner to expect to orgasm if you do. Just because there's a more obvious reason for male orgasm doesn't make anyone more or less entitled to anything.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 09:44 AM
3

Let's not lie, our whole political system is completely fucked. I despair of British politics
/r/MensRights18/07/19 07:45 PM
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Wish I could like this more OP. Feminism has got too big and too extreme, but everyone has their battles, it only becomes unhealthy when fighting for those rights involves pushing others down and dismissing their struggles.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 06:35 AM
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I said healthy vagina, not infected. And it contains bacteria but not harmful bacteria. That's why you mustn't put soap in there because it upsets the "good" bacteria and leads to infection. I'm not saying one is dirtier than the other, a clean foreskin and healthy vagina should both be fine and normal. Both cleaner than a human mouth for instance
/r/MensRights17/07/19 06:33 AM
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Agree it's difficult to legislate, just relevant to OPs post. And trust me, you don't "just leave"
/r/MensRights16/07/19 03:44 PM
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I'm not assuming. I am saying there are some female breadwinners, because there are. What if your point? That there are none? What do you think my point is? My point is literally that some women are breadwinners, even your stat proves I'm not wrong. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/oct/20/working-mothers-britain-breadwinner-statistics-income I'm from the UK btw so stats will differ
/r/MensRights16/07/19 03:41 PM
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I see where you're coming from. The UK recently made emotional abuse illegal, which on paper is a step in the right direction. Emotional abuse can be just as damaging if not more so, I was the victim of emotional abuse and it makes you crazy, literally.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 11:56 AM
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This data is a bit all over the place. It doesn't actually tell us there's a spending gap. This source goes through the data in a more helpful way and highlights key differences: https://www.moneycrashers.com/men-women-money-sexes-differ-finances/ I found it interesting, hopefully you will too
/r/MensRights16/07/19 11:52 AM
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I'm anti circumcision but it is not true that a vagina is dirtier than a foreskin, certainly not a health one. Vaginas are self cleaning, vulvas may be comparable to a foreskin though.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 10:41 AM
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I've always thought ear lobes are a bit pointless too. Hoping to remove the outer flaps of my baby's ears so they won't have to clean behind them!
/r/MensRights16/07/19 10:10 AM
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I was thinking that too, ignorance is bliss, just tell them you did. However then I thought that it's important to take a stand and explain why even if it makes you unpopular. Also they might be helping out with bath time and nappy changes etc.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 10:08 AM
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That is interesting, and very sad. Does it happen at all the other way around? I think it'd find it hard to have a partner that earned 5 times more than me. I'd always feel I didn't have my independence
/r/MensRights16/07/19 09:19 AM
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I am not doing any assuming. I just think in all likelihood there will be some women that are the breadwinner. In fact I think it's actually around 40% in the UK might be less elsewhere. I earn 3 times more than my partner. So no assumptions here. And you can call me a liar if you like but I'm not exactly going to send you proof that these stay at home dads exist, they do. It's rarer than women staying at home for sure, lot's of parents I know don't want to be the one giving up work, some dads I…
/r/MensRights16/07/19 09:15 AM
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That's a pretty weird way to interpret it
/r/MensRights16/07/19 08:32 AM
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Provision implies material goods, which she didn't mention. What's so wrong with wanting love, support and protect in a relationship. Jeez, women have so much contempt for men for what...wanting a loving partner? Wow.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 08:27 AM
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She says she wants men to protect, love and support. Nothing about providing, you're making baseless assumptions. Why shouldn't women want a man who protects, loves and supports them? I know I do and I make sure I do the same in return.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 08:23 AM
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Does that make sense? If women are free to do whatever then men are not always going to be the breadwinner are they? Just purely on a logical basis. I've met loads of stay at home dads, there is still a stigma attached to it of course as it's still generally seen as woman's work. Most of the people I talk to agree that working a paid job is more appealing than staying at home with kids. I know which one I'd rather do.
/r/MensRights15/07/19 01:49 PM
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I still don't understand how single fathers are paying more? And how it's legal?!
/r/MensRights12/07/19 09:57 AM
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I didn't jump in, I posted commenting on what I thought might be the rationale behind the decision, I didn't tell anyone they were wrong. I think one can be candid in one's opinion without being rude and telling people to fuck off the second you disagree slightly with their argument. The biggest barrier to any movement is going to be people not understanding your point of view and not relating. I am not whining about people being rude, it doesn't particularly concern me, but it will prove proble…
/r/MensRights12/07/19 08:02 AM
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Well excuse me for not doing thorough enough scientific research. I was in fact taught a module on the HPV vaccine by one of the scientists who developed and and he never mentioned men so I thought I was clued up enough to date to comment on Redditook, everyone has got to start somewhere. Reddit is more interesting when people have a more natural dialogue. If we were in a room together, before google was invested, and we were discussing this, I would say how I felt and others would inform me and…
/r/MensRights11/07/19 07:35 PM
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Well they've been vaccinating all girls in schools for 10 years now, so I'm guessing that's the aim. Since people tend to have sex with people roughly their own age it will lead to hers immunity. So disagree on that. But.. I've done a bit more research into this and learnt a lot. I didn't realise hpv was so common in men, it's shocking that we're not made more aware of it. Women are screened every couple of years and men are not which is also a problem. Here's hoping it's extended to men too and…
/r/MensRights11/07/19 01:45 PM
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This makes complete sense. The reason is that HPV protects against cervical cancer and anal cancer which are life threatening and genital warts which are unpleasant but not life threatening. Straight men are not at risk of anal cancer caused by HPV and it will not protect them against anal cancer not caused by HPV. In an ideal world, sure everyone would get one, but the NHS hasn't got unlimited money, it doesn't make sense to vaccinate people against genital warts, it does make sense to vaccinat…
/r/MensRights11/07/19 11:29 AM
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I think there are other ways it could be done, obviously forced sterilisation of men or women would work but as you say I don't think people would go for it and it would be very difficult to manage humanely, not just on the left either. Safe access to abortion to prevent unwanted pregnancy, easy access to contraception and improved contraception for both men and women, would bring the birth rate down slightly. Improving how we treat children from lower income families and bringing back affordabl…
/r/MensRights11/07/19 10:24 AM
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Ooo plot twist. Yes I agree with you splatfan. Babeez at any cost!
/r/MensRights11/07/19 10:06 AM
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True. there is that, But having enough money for retirement seems rather less important than the survival of humankind, but I am being melodramatic perhaps. I think the answer is really that we need a new model, people are living too long and being kept alive long beyond what's natural for the old model to work. They are also, at the moment, holding most of the wealth etc etc. Anyway, I am not saying no one should have kids, but it is not selfish to not have them, whatever your reasons.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 08:12 PM
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Well, that's your opinion. This is literally a place for sharing opinions and ideas, if you don't like it, you're in the wrong place.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 08:00 PM
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Dating an 18 year old is not comparable to making a false accusation though is it. So, your comment is pointless. I think you're using it as an excuse to be mean tbh but there we go, that's just my opinion.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 03:07 PM
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The most important thing is that you don't reach for him for comfort and that you don't tell him he cheers you up. These things sound innocuous but will create a feeling of responsibility in him and when he grows up he'll feel it's his job to save people. I disagree with some of the other posters on here that you shouldn't tell him anything, very young children are extremely perceptive. http://www.copmi.net.au/parents/helping-my-child-and-family/talking-about-mental-illness/talking-to-toddlers T…
/r/MensRights10/07/19 01:42 PM
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Taking the moral high ground is the surest way to avoid mistakes feminism has made. The irony of comments like xmjones' on a posts such as this one never feel to astound me. I get righteous anger, I think we should be angry, but that doesn't excuse vitriol such as that.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 11:26 AM
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Being childfree is a massive plus to society. We have plenty of humans, quality not quantity, we should be looking after people that are here, not creating more hungry mouths. The environment simply can't cope.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 09:16 AM
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/s or are you just as sexist as the the women who wrote the tweet?
/r/MensRights10/07/19 09:14 AM
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What's wrong with that sub?
/r/MensRights06/07/19 05:40 PM
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So labelling women as insufferable know it alls is fine, but not the other way around. Because that is kind of what I'm getting from this
/r/MensRights06/07/19 01:58 PM
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I think it's sexist enough already. Like many things it's down to interpretation, mine may differ from yours but how I see it it's impossible for anyone to be right all the time, and so the "women are always right ho ho" tagline that is so pervasive implies more that women are unable to admit fault or listen to other views, to me this is far worse an insult than being wrong.
/r/MensRights06/07/19 01:56 PM
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I'm not excusing her, where on Earth did you get that from? It may surprise you to learn that I wasn't involved in her sentencing. It says it here: Phelan (18) of Clarendon Mews, Earlsdon, Coventry, who had to be given a reduction because she was only 17 at the time she entered her plea, was sentenced to three years detention. Maybe they feel because she's younger there might be a better chance of rehabilitation.
/r/MensRights06/07/19 11:25 AM
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But not in the UK
/r/MensRights05/07/19 03:06 PM
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This is the UK though, it would be very unusual for a 17 year old to be tried as an adult, doesn't matter on the gender
/r/MensRights05/07/19 03:06 PM
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For sure, it's lazy and unfair. It would be better to get the children to police it themselves with the help of teachers. i.e if incidents like blah continue then we will have to stop everyone playing football. If blah happens this is what you should do. It's sexist and it's setting a bad example for girls and boys and upholding the stereotype that boys can't control themselves but girls can.
/r/MensRights05/07/19 10:20 AM
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I'm not clutching, I am thinking of a time when more men feel they can come forward after a rape or sexual assault. If MRM is successful this will happen more and more. Rape and assault are very hard things to prove in their very nature, the bedroom is a private place. So what if this goes to trial and there isn't enough evidence for a conviction, it is not at all unlikely that this would happen. Would that mean he should automatically be punished as a false accuser? I am not a lawyer and I am v…
/r/MensRights05/07/19 09:23 AM
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So you'd support it the other way around too? If a man accused a women of a historical rape but couldn't back it up, as it usual in these cases, and she was cleared then he should be punished for a false accusation? Even if it couldn't be proved. Being found not guilty is not the same as being found innocent, it means there wasn't enough evidence.
/r/MensRights05/07/19 09:04 AM
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Yeh these are definitely the same as potentially giving someone an STD
/r/MensRights05/07/19 08:14 AM
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She was a minor at the time of the incident which probably had a fair amount to do with the difference in sentences. Please do not think I'm defending her, just pointing it out
/r/MensRights05/07/19 08:13 AM
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I haven't missed the point at all, maybe I wasn't clear enough on mine. I first acknowledged that her argument was flawed. But I wanted to comment more generally around the topic after reading some of the other comments. So I agree with your comment but my post is not in conflict
/r/MensRights05/07/19 07:06 AM
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I'm talking more recent Western history, I don't doubt that men have cooked in the past. I'm big into history to enjoyed your comment, thanks
/r/MensRights05/07/19 07:03 AM
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Yes, could be my friend. Switching off from emotions is way more efficient. That's why we're so much braver and better fighting wars, being politicians etc.
/r/MensRights04/07/19 08:40 PM
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It's great to hear you're all cooking, and it's a shame that this feminist is so contradictory. However it's undeniable that for many years, men for the most part did not cook and it's true that, statistically speaking, women do still do most of the cooking. I am not saying this is because of oppression though, so much as tradition. Gender roles becoming less important, partly by starting to value female contributions more, has led to men being able to take on what were traditionally labelled as…
/r/MensRights04/07/19 08:18 PM
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Algorithms these days are so sexist, it's unbelievable. Men do not think about sex all the time, people shouldn't even be googling to find out, should just be known Feminists are always saying things like men think in boxes, we are capable of thinking outside the box Men do not think women dress for anyone, they are too afraid to think any thoughts on women's clothes for fear of being labelled a pervert I did women think to compare: Women thinking meme - showing that feminists think only women c…
/r/MensRights04/07/19 08:10 PM
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Would you mind saying feminists instead of women? You might not mean to but you're creating an unnecessary divide between the sexes and rendering your statement false. Think you'll find most women are not like this example
/r/MensRights04/07/19 05:58 PM
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Let's stay away from blanket statements like this. It is simply untrue and unhelpful. The OP is doing the right thing in challenging this, but it doesn't mean that all female teachers hate boys.
/r/MensRights04/07/19 01:54 PM
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Yes, it would be allowed, OP is talking shit
/r/MensRights03/07/19 06:29 PM
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’ What gave it away? Was it my describing a ‘feminist-promoted narrative’ and how an ‘article contributes to undermining that narrative’? Was that the subtle clue? My explicit description and reasoning ?Mightyoak123: ‘But you know as well as I do’ Don’t strawman, you’re not a mindreader. Just make whatever point you feel an overwhelming desire to make without telling me what you think I think. That's not what strawman is, I am addressing what I believed your argument to be which is that most peo…
/r/MensRights03/07/19 08:25 AM
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I see the point you're trying to make. But you know as well as I do that if we actually went out in the street and asked people if they agree that women are never guilty of wrong doing, no one would say yes and if asked if they thought there were no good men, they would disagree. I'm so sure of this I challenge you to do it and prove me wrong. Now, I'm not saying I don't think men's rights are important, I think they very much are. But I don't think they're hindered by people thinking all men ar…
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:05 PM
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Personally, I don't really think that gender politics should be lumped in as automatically anti- MRAs. It's more complicated than that. Secondly, We simply don't know enough about the facts, it's an absolutely horrific thing to happen and I hope that the facts were carefully evaluated. Accidents happen, if it was decided that she followed procedure then that's why she's allowed back to work. It's perfectly possible that the investigation wasn't thorough but again, not an Men's rights issue so mu…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 06:29 PM
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If the genders were reversed the outcome may well have been the same. It doesn't seem fair but I don't think just because of their genders that this is sexist issue
/r/MensRights01/07/19 04:59 PM
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You're probably right. If it's intentional it could be because they've found women by clothes for men but not the other way round. In my family the men don't really enjoy buying their own clothes so they tend to ask for them for birthdays/christmas but I can't imagine a day where my uncle sees a cute blouse and thinks oh boy Mightyoak would look lovely in that
/r/MensRights01/07/19 10:15 AM
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The cost of marriage has got out of control. It's not even your own fucking wedding, it's other peoples too. My friends are having a destination wedding AND destination Hen and Stag dos. Yeh, happy for you guys being in love and all that but I'd rather not spend over a grand on the best day of your life.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 10:11 AM
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I don't agree with the wording of this article but I do agree with the sentiment. I'm blaming capitalism. It's one thing to be stinky in a haven't washed for days kinda way, but actually fresh sweat doesn't smell that bad IMO, it's just we're not used to it, I doubt anyone really noticed the smell of sweat before deodorant was invented. They need to sell us solutions to problems we didn't even know we had, that's how it all works. That said, I am keeping my deodorant now I have it.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 09:35 AM
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It's very complicated. Because possibly they would. Lot's of people do have a rape fantasy and it is not unheard of for people to continue to get aroused by the thought of their rape despite the fact they are traumatised by it. No one has much control over what turns the on. I am just passing on what I've heard, actually saw a post about it on r/relationships. I know of the case you're referring to and I want to make it clear that I am not commenting specifically on that case because I don't kno…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 09:24 AM
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Think you'll find most women will love this
/r/MensRights30/06/19 04:58 PM
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Very difficult to know if you're dealing with a rapist or a false accuser. They're likely to say the same things as victims
/r/MensRights30/06/19 04:54 PM
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This is Instagram so definitely not Twitter's fault
/r/MensRights29/06/19 03:39 PM
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Agreed. Yes 3/4 are a good alternative, I used to wear them but sadly I'm also quite short so they just looked like ankle swingers. I just thank the Lord I don't have to be a teenager again!
/r/MensRights29/06/19 10:15 AM
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Congrats for solving the nature vs nurture debate. Have you published your ground breaking research?
/r/MensRights29/06/19 10:11 AM
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Women's clothing is most often designed to show off their bodies. I was a self conscious teen and I could never find girls shorts that were long enough to not show my thighs. I used to wear boys clothes and was bullied for looking like a boy and they didn't fit properly. Girls clothes need to change, it's not affecting men's rights.
/r/MensRights29/06/19 09:33 AM
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Absolutely, it also wires women to find a man to validate them and then have babies, not be left "on the shelf". Everyone should be encouraged to find themselves, love themselves and be as independent and strong as possible. This is the only way to avoid toxic relationships, to be truly happy on your own. If you do decide you want to get into a relationship, your strong inner value will help you sift out people who are bad for you. However I think the MGTOW sub is not really an example of this i…
/r/MensRights28/06/19 10:21 AM
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I gave the OP what he asked for. I am failing to understand the point through, this man has rightly been praised across several media outlets. Who's saying what he did was toxic?
/r/MensRights27/06/19 11:49 AM
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http://projects.registerguard.com/rg/news/local/34427528-75/eugene-woman-rescues-drowning-man-from-willamette-river.html.csp ​ There you go
/r/MensRights27/06/19 11:37 AM
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Found the snowflake. Anyway bean is a term more commonly used to describe a clit is it not. Quite a nice lil fusion
/r/MensRights27/06/19 09:26 AM
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I agree with the other dude, since we're reversing genders here which I agree works well, imagine if you heard "Most men are either evil, stupid, or some obnoxious combination of both." backed up by what? Some trolls on Facebook? I don't know which girls you're hanging around with but I can say with 100% honesty that I have never once in my life heard one of my female friends say anything about dick size. It's actually my guy friends who are always teasing each other for having a small dick
/r/MensRights27/06/19 08:00 AM
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Agreed, this isn't about gender it's about abuse of power
/r/MensRights26/06/19 08:59 AM
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It's one sided because it's about one thing. I think you're expecting too much from a billboard.
/r/MensRights26/06/19 08:57 AM
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That's not how genetics works, prostate cancer is also hereditary and can be passed from mother or father It's not offensive, it's information that people might not know. It might prompt them to look into paternal medical history and be more vigilant about checking etc.
/r/MensRights26/06/19 08:04 AM
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So true, it's failing so many children. Mostly those to don't fit into the "ideal pupil", but also those who do. I was your classic straight A student but that meant a lot of pressure was put on me to go to university and do an academic degree. Thousands in debt later I'm wondering why? All that knowledge and for what, it's useless. I made those decisions as a minor, I'll be paying for it until I die. And I'm one of the lucky ones
/r/MensRights25/06/19 10:20 AM
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I agree, it's too important and complicated, everyone needs to get on side. It's a crisis. The education system in the UK (can't speak for other countries) is failing children who don't fit the ridiculously restrictive box ticking mould. Boys are effected more than girls and the sources listed are very interesting. This link between behaviour and grades especially, I remember pupils being moved to lower sets because of behaviour, then basically left to rot. These were most often boys. If I ever …
/r/MensRights25/06/19 10:07 AM
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It's cool dude, I just love animals, can't help myself. Sadly I also love me a burger so try and balance!
/r/MensRights23/06/19 03:56 PM
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https://scholar.google.co.uk/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=meat+testosterone+men&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3DmioRW8rv_YwJ You can easily boost testosterone in other ways if you don't want to eat meat. It's personal choice, but you'll be grand if you choose to cut down all I'm saying :)
/r/MensRights23/06/19 03:11 PM
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This article is bollocks but eating meat doesn't increase testosterone, in fact it's linked to lower sperm count
/r/MensRights23/06/19 02:36 PM
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Do you? I don't have one...am I in trouble?!
/r/MensRights23/06/19 02:26 PM
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Someone downvoted me because the UK changed the law to make things more fair to men? WTF is this sub
/r/MensRights22/06/19 07:51 PM
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I don't know, ask them? You're acting like I came up with the law myself. All I'm saying is stereotypes harm men as much as they do women. I know I'm not wrong, it's a sunny day and I'm going outside. Have a good day!
/r/MensRights22/06/19 02:05 PM
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Because it's putting men in charge of whether they want to be a father. No more wondering if your girl has remembered her pill. Condoms are the only thing we have atm and they're not as reliable as other methods
/r/MensRights22/06/19 11:33 AM
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Lol, just because you misinterpreted my point. You're also taking the modern feminist approach apparently. The ban is for harmful stereotypes. If you read the original reasoning it mentions very clearly that men being portrayed as stupid etc and women doing housework while men sit around. We don't know yet whether the ban will be taken to extremes, I hope that it won't
/r/MensRights22/06/19 11:32 AM
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I was responding to the "and not the other way around", it wouldn't be banning stereotypes if a male ballet dancer or female mathmatician was banned because it's not a stereotype. I'm not living in a clown world for disliking stereotypes. Men are paedos, domestic violence victims are women, rapists are men, a mother's love is the most important. Still love stereotypes?
/r/MensRights22/06/19 10:33 AM
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This ban is a step closer to that actually happening which would be beneficial for men
/r/MensRights22/06/19 10:29 AM
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I don't think they should be taxed because they don't qualify as a luxury item which is what VAT is for, but I don't think disposable products should be free either. I'd actually support mooncups or period underwear etc being cheap/free because of the benefit to the environment which benefits everyone and relatively little cost
/r/MensRights22/06/19 09:26 AM
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In the UK that wouldn't be true, the laws have changed so men are not charged more for insurance
/r/MensRights22/06/19 09:23 AM
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Male birth control would do a lot for men's rights actually
/r/MensRights22/06/19 09:19 AM
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Because it's banning stereotypes? Men being ballet dancers is not a stereotype,boys who like ballet are bullied and made fun of despite male ballet dancers being both necessary and talented
/r/MensRights22/06/19 09:18 AM
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Do you have a source that says there's as many female child molesters as men? I looked for a source and couldn't find one. I don't think you're right, I think there are far more male child molesters than female. Paedophilia instances may be the same though who knows. I think this is a MRM and here's why: There's a lack of support/treatment for paedophiles, everyone writes them off. And I understand why, it's an abhorrent thought for the majority than are not. However, the lack of support and tre…
/r/MensRights22/06/19 09:15 AM
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Bullshit
/r/MensRights22/06/19 08:37 AM
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Calm down dudes I just read a comment wrong.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 09:16 PM
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I think we call those chinos? The last 3 places I've worked have had the attitude wear what makes you comfy but dress conservative when you need to. It's been great everyone is more productive when they're wearing what they're comfortable in. It is a double standard though, but as with all issues, it's complex. The answer I believe is the workplace adapting. Don't get women to dress like men, if it doesn't look right on them. Let everyone be more flexible and ensure they have options for all wea…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 09:11 PM
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I think we call those chinos? The last 3 places I've worked have had the attitude wear what makes you comfy but dress conservative when you need to. It's been great everyone is more productive when they're wearing what they're comfortable in. It is a double standard though, but as with all issues, it's complex. The answer I believe is the workplace adapting. Don't get women to dress like men, if it doesn't look right on them. Let everyone be more flexible and ensure they have options for all wea…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 09:11 PM
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Khaki shorts are different from smart work skirts. The aim is to look professional, whether you're male or female. If it's super hot I do agree men should have another option but realistically there aren't many smart options that don't look like school uniform from the 1960s. I suggest someone design some but khaki shorts are most definitely casual wear. But I'm from the UK and picturing what we'd call cargo shorts, are they the same?
/r/MensRights20/06/19 08:46 PM
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Yeh I misread that! My bad, comment deleted
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:03 PM
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I see what you mean. Men should be trusted to police themselves, if it's going over the line then say something but men are allowed their own space. I do think it's positive, however, that the definition I shared was from a feminist website. So, I hate to say it but maybe there's truth on both sides
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:01 PM
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If feminists themselves are saying what they mean is the definition above then I just don't understand the issue. They do all seem like bad things for men and aren't unreasonable, are they?
/r/MensRights20/06/19 06:53 PM
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I wonder if there's a misunderstanding on what toxic masculinity is. Toxic isn't being used as an adjective to describe all masculinity. These are examples I found when I googled it: The pervasive idea of male-female interactions as competition, not cooperation. The pervasive idea that men cannot truly understand women, and vice versa--and following, that no true companionship can be had between different sexes. The expectation that Real Men are strong, and that showing emotion is incompatible w…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:25 PM
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I wonder if there's a misunderstanding on what toxic masculinity is. Toxic isn't being used as an adjective to describe all masculinity. These are examples I found when I googled it: The pervasive idea of male-female interactions as competition, not cooperation. The pervasive idea that men cannot truly understand women, and vice versa--and following, that no true companionship can be had between different sexes. The expectation that Real Men are strong, and that showing emotion is incompatible w…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:25 PM
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Do you have a link to the study?
/r/MensRights20/06/19 04:57 PM
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Doesn't sound healthy, I'd get out tbh. Also just because you say you're MRA doesn't mean you are? I would NEVER threaten to make a false accusation, that in itself is disgusting
/r/MensRights20/06/19 09:05 AM
1

Can we stop posting this tweet and then acting like this troll is speaking on behalf of anyone but a mentally deranged few?
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:04 AM
0

*austerity has turned London into a cesspool
/r/MensRights19/06/19 04:47 PM
4

This is a very refreshing and accurate comment
/r/MensRights18/06/19 08:09 PM
1

I read the article and can see no evidence that she's a "real man hater". Sure she could do more for men but to say she hates men is a bit strong
/r/MensRights18/06/19 05:56 PM
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If she dressed like this when you met her then there's not much you can really do. There's some good advice on here already about having a chat about it but you must be careful not to control your partner. You also have a right to leave if you don't like something about her.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 01:10 PM
1

You'll notice if you read my original comment that I said parents. I'm pro choice, for everyone.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 09:58 AM
1

She doesn't have any experience of being a short man though, it would be kind of fake for her to pretend she does
/r/MensRights18/06/19 09:57 AM
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She's allowed to tweet about her own experiences jeez
/r/MensRights18/06/19 09:56 AM
2

Accidents happen. Last time I checked this wasn't an prolife sub
/r/MensRights18/06/19 09:23 AM
1

The way society treats fat people is shocking, male of female, it's not right
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:38 AM
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Except no because there's plenty of men who haven't faced any of the hardships you mention. Let's not tar all men with the same brush. Depression isn't choosey, it can get you whatever your circumstances
/r/MensRights17/06/19 08:54 PM
4

So you should only have sex if you want to reproduce then?
/r/MensRights17/06/19 08:51 PM
8

It's not a stupid thing to say, slavery is a taking away of freedom and forcing labour with little to no pay. If parents are forced to parent, then I'd say it's not an unfair comparison, if a little dramatic
/r/MensRights17/06/19 08:50 PM
1

I always give my single mum a Father's day card, if I was raised by a single dad I'd do the same on mother's day. Her hard work doing the work of to should be acknowledged and I don't really see how being kind to someone you love is affecting men's rights?
/r/MensRights17/06/19 01:36 PM
1

I addressed both your points but asked for further clarification which I didn't get. Look I didn't like what you said because it's unnecessarily negative about women. If the genders were reversed and men were talked about like that you wouldn't like it. Respectfully this is the last I'll say on the issue, there's more important things to worry about
/r/MensRights16/06/19 07:01 PM
1

Sorry I don't get your last point, redundant? Yes ok, generalisations have their place, but I think it's best to stay away for generalisations of an entire population, especially when they're negative. If people stopped living by them, so many problems faced here would go away overnight
/r/MensRights16/06/19 06:16 PM
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There's not as much demand for male prostitutes, I don't really understand how that's relevant. This tweeter is obviously a sexist pig but that doesn't mean all women are seeking out men for money. I'm not saying there's no truth in your comment, but the way it's worded is a bit iffy in my opinion
/r/MensRights16/06/19 03:54 PM
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Generalisations are lazy in their very nature. That's the trouble, all men are this, all women do that. No. Humans are complex and varied. Plenty of women do not fit your description. Many of my female friends earn more than their partners but it doesn't matter
/r/MensRights16/06/19 02:15 PM
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I give my mum a Father's day card every year because she's both. I would've preferred to have both but I didn't. This is surely a nice thing to give to single mothers, there should be mothers day equivalents for single father's on Mother's day though!
/r/MensRights16/06/19 01:29 PM
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Bit of a lazy generalised statement
/r/MensRights16/06/19 01:26 PM
2

You're looking in the wrong places dude
/r/MensRights16/06/19 01:25 PM
1

I didn't say it never happens, I said to say it's always a woman is untrue. Show me proof it's always a woman and I'll retract my statement
/r/MensRights16/06/19 12:01 AM
1

On the one hand the phrase "fiddling while Rome burns" comes to mind. However, key is in the word harmful. The BBC article mentioned men being depicted as stupid and incapable especially in a domestic sense which I think is v harmful from a men's rights perspective. If we have a unconscious belief that men are not capable doing basic chores it's an easy leap to not granting custody because men are dumb amirght? They'll prob put the baby in the washing machine. There was a baby advert mentioned w…
/r/MensRights15/06/19 04:44 PM
3

Always? Unhelpful word, untrue statement
/r/MensRights15/06/19 04:34 PM
1

Well that all sounds very positive. My comment was referring to a scenario which the article was referring to, do we know if it's got any truth to it at all or is it all bollocks (no pun intended)
/r/MensRights15/06/19 06:56 AM
1

Not sure I agree dude. But let's just agree to disagree, besides I agree with you that saying it's scary is wrong
/r/MensRights14/06/19 07:29 PM
1

Isn't it in the context of just penis transplants in SA though? Not in general? Glad your buddy is ok x
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:43 PM
2

Scary is certainly the wrong word to use. Understandable but perhaps a step backwards. Now let me explain before you downvote. I'm a woman, if I give birth, or have any reproductive health concerns, I want the best person around to treat me, and I don't care if they don't own a vag or not. Like that matters!? Having the body part doesn't make you a fucking expert in the complicated art of transplant surgery. And owning a penis doesn't automatically make you the best qualified to make complex dec…
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:19 PM
3

This is more against transgender people the rights of which are rarely in conflict with men's rights providing things are handled properly
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:07 PM
1

Isn't this more to do with religious conservatism?
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:02 PM
3

Dick and balls
/r/MensRights14/06/19 05:59 PM
3

I mean, it depends what they are
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:48 PM
1

No it's more likely that they had a toxic or unstable upbringing and so abuse feels normal and comfortable. It's super sad
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:42 PM
1

There's a difference between withholding sex to control someone and refusing sex because you don't want it. Like the difference between ignoring your partner when they're trying to engage with you and not talking because you're tired/don't feel like talking. My opinion is that on its own neither withholding sex or ignoring someone is abuse in it's own right but they are symptoms, whether male or female
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:39 PM
1

It is abuse to control your partner, that's the point
/r/MensRights14/06/19 12:12 PM
2

Not really relevant to abuse though is it. Maybe they're just good fathers?
/r/MensRights14/06/19 12:08 PM
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I think you're spot on, I have a mate in a very controlling relationship and it's horrible to see. I asked him what he'd say to me if the tables were turned and he admitted he'd tell me to leave. It is a societal double standard and always has been. It's nothing new, in the 1600s men were flogged in the streets if they were abused by their wives. Thankfully we're further on but still ene of the big problems is that the victims themselves feel a great shame because they're supposed to be strong. …
/r/MensRights13/06/19 08:40 PM
1

Don't forget the pug, he's the real star. Does it really matter? Are there not more important things to be talking about? Equality is hardly feminist cancer
/r/MensRights13/06/19 07:08 PM
1

Course he's wrong. I don't disagree with your point, it's valid in some circumstances. But to say that all women have to offer is sex is false. My colleague and I just completed a project that is bringing the company over a million pounds extra a year, she didn't use her vagina once.
/r/MensRights12/06/19 12:49 PM
2

Wish I could up vote you more, glad there's some sanity and kindness on here
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:48 PM
2

Good luck with making the men's rights movement as toxic as feminism
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:31 PM
-1

I'm sure there are women and men who have used their attractiveness to get what they want. But to say their pussies are all women have to offer is ludicrous and archaic. I do not know that you're right because you're clearly not
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:04 PM
0

It doesn't hurt my feelings, it hurts the men's rights movement. It's patently untrue and you know it.
/r/MensRights11/06/19 12:40 PM
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Your comment is exactly the kind of vitriol that turns people off men's rights. Exactly the same if not worse than the radical feminists.
/r/MensRights11/06/19 12:29 PM
2

Thank you so much for your insightful and detailed reply. I'm really touched by it and I'll take your advice and see what happens. He came round last night for some birthday cake and his phone rang twice and kept going off, since he has barely any friends anymore I can bet I know who it was. He looked super uncomfortable :(. The reason for activities advice is gold, I think it's exactly what he needs :) thank you again
/r/MensRights11/06/19 12:02 PM
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I'm not saying we should dude. There are far too many radical people on all sides, they don't represent normal people. We should fight against all injustice. But to say you love to see a statistic that's showing up something that'll cause a lot of issues seems perverse. We should all be safe at work, safe from false accusations, safe from sexual harassment. False accusations hurt everyone.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 07:27 PM
-1

You love this do you? You love a world where innocent people are scared of mentoring other innocent people who just want to work in peace. The radicals of this world have ruined things for everyone else, by the sounds of it, you're one of those radicals. You can't fight hate with hate, everyone loses
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:02 PM
1

Really good post dude! As a human race we spend too much time bickering about things that don't actually matter and waste time getting to a solution. Often if we step back, we do all agree. But we're tempted to speak in generalisations. Men always do/think/say this and vice versa. It's unhelpful because it's almost never right. We're surely all rational enough to realise each situation is unique and complex and cannot be summed up in a tweet or a Reddit post. For instance abortion, as has been m…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 09:54 AM
2

The last time I went to an airport...
/r/MensRights09/06/19 04:47 PM
2

That's just not true though is it
/r/MensRights09/06/19 03:31 PM
3

They might not have stormed the Normandy beaches but there is no doubt they contributed to the war effort. They built the aircraft and pretty much kept the country running while their brave husbands fought, many sent to their deaths. They grieved, and while loss of life is the worst of all things, the destruction it leaves behind is the part that causes the pain. Dude, I'm not diminishing the men that lost their lives, I am eternally grateful and thankful to them. Men have demonstrated themselve…
/r/MensRights06/06/19 06:44 PM
1

Sweden has very good parental leave
/r/MensRights06/06/19 01:34 PM
-1

They weren't allowed but ok
/r/MensRights06/06/19 12:17 PM
2

Paid leave for Father's helps feminists too. Win win
/r/MensRights06/06/19 12:10 PM
3

Saying all women are the same is pretty much the definition of sexist. If it was the other way round you'd say it was sexism
/r/MensRights06/06/19 11:39 AM
1

The fuck is up with this sub? How is this post anything to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights06/06/19 11:02 AM
0

That's not what toxic masculinity means but ok
/r/MensRights06/06/19 10:01 AM
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