MikeTheAmerican Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	3 days in. Struggling to Move Forward	Need Support	MikeTheAmerican	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 01:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	3 days in. Struggling to Move Forward Hey man just wanted to check in and say thanks for your kind words. I needed them bad when I posted this almost 2 years ago. Hope you’re well brother 💪🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/26 07:16 PM
8	Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done? Therapy saved my life when I first started going through my divorce. It took me a few tries to find a good one, but don’t give up. Once you find one you’ll know after that first session. For comparison. I met my wife at 18. Divorced at 30. I’m only 4 months into this but already infinitely better than I was thanks to therapy. Message me if you need to talk	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/25 02:21 AM
6	Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done? Don’t listen to this guy. See a therapist. It saved my life when I first started going through my divorce. I just signed my final divorce decree today. Therapy is good. Don’t let anyone tell you differently OP.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/25 02:20 AM
2	Why did she become so EVIL? Ahhh no it’s sitting in the garage unfortunately. That would have been interesting though haha!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 07:12 AM
2	Why did she become so EVIL? What would reporting it as stolen do? “Her” is in both of our names. I have possession of it right now because I dropped her off at the airport and gave her a kiss goodbye like the good husband I was… what does reporting it stolen accomplish?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 03:34 AM
4	Why did she become so EVIL? Yes, that’s kind of the plan. I’m trying to have her served but she could be anywhere in the Pacific Northwest West and it’s extremely difficult and expensive to serve out of state according to my lawyer. I’m also still in the reeling grief stage I guess. I’d rather have her sitting across the table screaming at me trying to rob me blind because at least she’d be there. I just miss her.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 03:05 AM
14	Why did she become so EVIL? I wish my wife was being evil about the process. Instead she just disappeared and is completely off the grid. No idea where she is. She went to Seattle to visit her mom while we were taking a week of space in between couples counseling sessions and she never came back. Haven’t heard from her other than her telling me she downloaded a dating app, drove 3 hours away, and cheated on me with a woman in Portland and moved in with this random woman. 12 years in the trash all over some bullshit propaga…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 02:53 AM
1	For those who didn’t choose this… Last paragraph is pretty spot on. Can’t eat shit. My therapist said this is the natural version of ozempic 🥲. Can’t do shit at work but don’t want to be home because nothing here brings me any joy, peace, or distraction. I don’t understand how she’s out there fucking some other person when I can’t even look at another woman without being repulsed right now. Everything is agonizing. And yeah unfortunately, we’ve been together since we were 18 year old babies so everything is in both our names. Ex…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 09:19 PM
1	For those who didn’t choose this… It doesn’t seem like it but it’s hard to say since she’s been totally ghost since I found out she cheated. In our one conversation she said all she wants is our dog, all her jewelry, and her car. And yes we’re both only 29.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 08:13 PM
1	For those who didn’t choose this… Thank you, and likewise, sorry for what happened ed to you. No kids. Can’t figure out if that’s good or bad. Part of me wishes I had something like a son or daughter to at least have something positive to show for the last 12 years	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 07:56 PM
7	For those who didn’t choose this… I haven’t seen her since I dropped her off at the airport before all this happened. She blocked me across everything and haven’t heard from her in a while. I’m trying to pick up the pieces but struggling is putting it lightly. Life is cruel.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 05:41 AM
13	For those who didn’t choose this… I’m only in week 1 so this is all extremely fresh. While we were taking a week of “space” in between couples therapy appointments, she flew to Seattle to stay with her family. The day she got there, she downloaded a dating app and drove 3 hours from Seattle to Portland to meet someone and cheat on me. We haven’t even started the divorce process and she’s already in a relationship with this other person. She left a life of comfort in a brand new house we built together with a beautiful life and i…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 03:59 AM