Miltonwh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[deleted by user] Nothing yet I give up easily when i don’t have much to go off	/r/seduction	18/12/21 06:50 PM
–	[deleted by user] Well if she isn’t then so be it but I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt since I’m a complete stranger sliding in her DMs. She coulda not followed me back(I’m public) or not responded to my DM if she truly wasn’t interested. She’s cute. Figured I shoot my shot so I thought I’d ask folks for help.	/r/seduction	18/12/21 06:14 PM
–	[deleted by user] Ugh I know. I just keep using my FL visits as an excuse to rekindle something from nothing. I might just send the “hey, I’m in FL. Lmk if you’re around” (no here for work/ it’s been ages since we dated bla bla) and this will be the last attempt I promise. I’ll send it when I’m actually there so it doesn’t seem like I’m going there just for her. Last time, I promise kind stranger. Either way, I’m sure I’ll meet chicks down there like i did last time haha	/r/seduction	27/07/21 03:46 AM
–	[deleted by user] Very good points. We didn’t talk at all the first two years after the break up. It has indeed been me doing the chasing by letting her know I’m in Miami this past year. Last winter when she texted me about a friend being engaged I asked if she was coming home for Xmas and she said she couldn’t because law school + an internship and 2 jobs. Her bro is auto immune compromised and she worked in restaurants in FL of all places(covid). That’s when I mentioned if I should let her know when I’m in Miam…	/r/seduction	27/07/21 03:28 AM
–	[deleted by user] Thanks for taking the time to reply. Not trying to make myself sound like a deucebag but I’ve gotten “under” plenty of chicks since her. I’m currently juggling 3 and my head always goes back this attorney chick the post is about. Part of our break up was due to long distance and my unwillingness to move to FL for her law school (at the time she lived in Philly I lived in CT where we are both from). It’s been 4 years and I’ve been with a gross amount of girls and it’s always been a temporary fix.…	/r/seduction	27/07/21 03:09 AM
–	[deleted by user] Here’s what I think I’m gonna send. I don’t want it to sound to clingy or cringy: Hey you. How’s that studying going? I’m gonna be bouncing around Florida all August for fun and work stuff I have going on there now. Want to get together one of those weekends? I wouldn’t mind catching up. If not, that’s cool too. I’ll stop buggin ya when I’m down there	/r/seduction	27/07/21 02:50 AM
–	[deleted by user] For sure. The lack of her not offering an alternative or even assaying “sorry, I forgot to text you back earlier” is definitely a sign to keep pursuing other chicks instead of Re-asking if she’s free Saturday at this point for the music thing. What do you mean by not giving them an “out”? I’ve always said “if not, that’s cool” (usually when not getting a response the first time), because it shows I’ll move on with or without her and always gets a reply.. albeit this time a shitty one that lead t…	/r/seduction	22/07/21 08:36 PM
–	[deleted by user] Very good point. I started to like a new girl recently who I’ve gone out 3x now and have slept together. She’s wicked awesome (working on becoming a pilot/ knows engines inside and out/pretty hot). Originally texted her Monday anout doing something fun Thursday. No response so I’m baffled. Last night followed up with “Lmk about tm or if u want to hit up the music fest Saturday. If not, that’s cool too”. She finally responded with “Hey! I have to do hair today i can’t”.. no other suggestions noth…	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:51 PM
–	[deleted by user] Good points but what would you say to someone doing that that you’ve already met/slept with and they are playing those games? Here’s another case: 1 chick got back to me this morning after I said “Lmk about tm or if u want to hit up the music fest Saturday. If not, that’s cool too”. All she said was “Hey! I have to do hair today i can’t”. (Originally texted her Monday and followed up with that text last night). I know the salon she works at closes at 7 so clearly she’s just not that interested. …	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:37 PM
1	[deleted by user] Okay- 1 chick got back to me this morning after I said “Lmk about tm or if u want to hit up the music fest Saturday. If not, that’s cool too”. All she said was “Hey! I have to do hair today i can’t”. (Originally texted her Monday). I know the salon she works at closes at 7 so clearly she’s just not that interested. We’ve gone out 3x now and have slept together so I’m just speechless. Not sure if I should just not reply or ask her what her schedules like? At this point I feel needy and if she was…	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:30 PM
–	[deleted by user] Ehh.. I don’t think they mean no at all. It’s more.. please chase/give me more attention which I’m not good at with online dating	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:12 AM
1	[deleted by user] Hmmm… good points. I kinda started the whole online thing about 3 weeks ago and am terrible at small talk. I usually say something to make them laugh ask a question or 2 and ask if they’re up for a drink this weekend. I think about 6 matches were down. I met up with 1. Am meeting another tomorrow. And I just can’t make solid plans with the others because of scheduling conflicts. My friends are all married or have kids now so my weekends are completely empty unless I have plans with a girl so I’m…	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:10 AM
1	[deleted by user] Solid advice. I usually say (after plans have fizzled or they turned into flakes) “lmk if you want to do X, if not that’s cool too” but it comes off a little but hurt. I’ll try the solidified my plans already route because it shows you’re still a bit upset but over it and they’ll be more likely to offer an apology than my usually approach if it’s actually genuine	/r/seduction	22/07/21 03:44 AM
1	[deleted by user] Yeah for example I’m going to a small music fest in my town this weekend. Open air, drinks, good vibes good friends. No way she wouldn’t have fun.. with that said, it’s rare something like that happens. Inviting her to the beach or bar with friends isn’t really the same since they’ll all be trying to bang her somehow haha	/r/seduction	22/07/21 03:36 AM
3	[deleted by user] I’ll try it out! See what I said to another guy and lmk if anything comes to mind!	/r/seduction	22/07/21 03:29 AM
–	[deleted by user] It’s basically a lost cause so I’m seeeing if anybody has had anything work. One user mentioned to just invite to already established plans so I’m going to try that out moving forward	/r/seduction	22/07/21 03:28 AM
–	[deleted by user] Yeah I think that’s more for flakes though after you’ve already met and trying to set up a 2nd/ 3rd date. I go with “lmk if you’re down for X. If not, that’s cool too” after they didn’t respond to my last text after a few days. Literally just said this to another chick that I met off hinge about 3 weeks ago. We met at the bar for the first date, crashed a wedding, had a blast. Walked her to her car and texted throughout the next week. We hung out again last Thursday. Had a blast. Slept together.…	/r/seduction	22/07/21 02:56 AM