| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull? | MindFruitNinja | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 10:39 PM | |
| 3 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange? | MindFruitNinja | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:20 AM | |
| 3 | Explicitly expressing sexual desire - does it ACTUALLY work? | MindFruitNinja | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 01:43 AM | |
| 1 | The base of seduction: motivation or discipline? | MindFruitNinja | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 02:56 PM | |
| 0 | Does it matter if she knows me for a very long time? | MindFruitNinja | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 02:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Is tinder dying?You know, I'm quite speechless after this. I can't really react anything but agreeing. Thanks for these advices; in fact, it's worth a separate post, maybe. This sub may learn a lot from it | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Is tinder dying?I wouldn't specify the country (I use this acc as an alternate one), let's say I live in Eastern Europe. I think people have similar opinion as you, but meanwhile, they are also refusal to people on the street. Maybe safety issues, maybe general lethargy, I don't really know. I, though, really appreciate your attitude ( I love people and I love talking to people interpersonally), this is what I miss. I'm about to think that those who are not naturally like you are not likely to be successful in … | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder dying?I have to say, all my experiences (attempts, talking about the matter with more successful guys and even girls) show that "daygame" or whatever you call is usually a failure. At least here, so idk, it may have something about people's mentality. But as far as I've seen, people on the streets are usually busy with their everyday tasks and stresses, and therefore are rarely opened for attempts to talk to people. Even if it's about only some chatting and not flirting. So no, I don't think it's wort… | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter if she knows me for a very long time?Thanks! From being a child to being an adult is the most critical change, so expect to have a different person in front of you, should you meet up. This is why I've even considered trying at all, as I was not a child that many people liked. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange?Wow, you're really...inspiring, I have to say. Thanks for the words, I think you're right about overthinking, as I missed the entire point of the "if you die tomorrow" attitude. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange?If there was a formula, or anyone thought that, this sub would be long dead IMHO. I actually like, how people are chasing the means of success, even if it's just so simple as you imply. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange?You are a autistic fuck because you are using logic and thinking about your next word and next move when talking to people. When talking to people,it should not go trough your head,that thought process should not exist. you simply talk to someone,they will say something or do something,their action makes you feel a certain way and you react upon it. You are ignoring how you feel in search of "what would be the best thing to say now?" Sounds like something I should have known but missed somehow. … | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange?As you wish - the best I can describe is that all the things I wrote in the post are based on my experience. People often treated me as an actual autist (elementary school), or at least an outsider (high school) and when I analyze my behaviour and compare it to others', it seems for me that there's a significant and fundamental difference between the two. And I don't even have an idea, how should I react in certain situations, which is, apparently, a dead end for a huge majority of my attempts a… | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What can be done when even basic human interaction is kind of a challange?I can appreciate your honestly, but that's the issue: I have quite a lot of evidence to afraid that I actually act like an autist one. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Four months going out to bars. Still nervous/self-conscious out at bars.Is the "flow" you define is similar to the one that appears in the psychological model of game theory? I've got to read about this kind of perfect state, where everything, well, litereally flows because there are no true obstacles or flaws, and even those you bump into are just "challanges", which aren't impossible, thus bring out your maximum. I've already known for a while that it exists in games, but never thought that it can be applied to social interactions as well, especially because it's … | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Is loud music at a bar a blessing and a curse?Really? I mean, it's actually taken into consideration when such bars are opened? I honestly thought these places exist only for music, alcohol and the typical environment, not exclusively for aiding seduction. I can see the logic though: it's like "I should have thought, I just missed it". | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?I can't even imagine myself as a girl...but dating a girl who is identical to me...I don't know, might be worth some time. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?Hm...that makes sense! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?Some people do, some don't. The most important thing is to stay untouched by that. People will normally take over the dominant frame, and if that happens to be yours, they will stop judging you. That's what used to be hard for me. Sometimes it still is, but I'm working on it fortunately. If someone tells me about something he knows much about, i ask things that i don't understand, or that simpy spark my interest. [...] Stop thinking that you need to start a conversation on topics you know about.… | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?You ought to be careful here. If you really don't like a certain thing, you're not really capable of "taking" it on. Not really. You might tolerate it, but that's not the same thing. Well, yes, of course, I don't "take" everything with full passion, but I can show some level of interest. Some of them are "nerdy" to the general populace That was my problem then, I think. The places where I attempted to find girls IRL are usually filled with "general populace". This is why all my relationships wer… | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?Why even question it? Has anybody ever told you to like what they like? And if so, what i highly doubt, did they threaten you with something, death maybe? No, not really, but my impression was that people prejudge me if have a passion that is significantly different from theirs. Not once I was asked to shut the fuck up when I attempted to talk about video games. Since that, I became quite discouraged to talk about anything at all. Well, the situation is better now - it happened when I started hi… | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?Yes, I know, I got the same message in content creating. I absolutely hate faking myself, but it often happens that your true self is not interesting - let's be honest. I still won't do that, it's just a worry of mine. Thank you anyway! | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Being ourselves vs. keeping successfull?First of all: shame on me and my grammar, I wanted to use the word "broad" instead of "vague". I thought (wrongly) their meanings are similar. To fix myself: I wanted to say that I can be interested in much things without even the smallest level of repulsion. There are things that define me but if I'm interested, I can like the opposite as well. (e.g. heavy metal vs. electronic) I can "take" the interest of most of the girls (I think so at least), but when it comes, whether they can "take" mine.… | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 01:08 AM |
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