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MindTheFuture/r/TRPOffTopic03/03/15 01:43 AM
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this kind of streamers in general - yea, especially when it involves things like assistants reminding ”he said his dog died last time, ask him about that”, ”the big payer n.n has not been seen in a two weeks, send him a message saying you miss him yo life him back.” Then clearly a predatory business of selling illusion of emotional intimacy and personal presence, danglig the false hope of chance of the illusion turning real - it never will. That is the reason project melody is more authentic, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:04 AM
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When did alt-right turn to mean the "truly extreme-right/real-nazis/" -crowd? I thought the term overall covered more centrist types, neoliberals, Sargon of Akkad, the 12 rules psychologists, that Trump-gay-fanboy, Alex Jones & Joe Rogan crowds etc. Clearly not left but overall parliamentarian, somewhat moderate and ethnicity not being an issue. Are these not alt-right any longer? Huh. Fine I guess, no-one likes the crowd you talk about, they can have that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:54 PM
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I'm not getting this at all. The whole "entitled complain", it sounds so similar to how "men feel entitled to sex from women." no. Some people are happy in polygamous relationships and that works for them. If you can help these people in the community by adjusting some laws, then that is fine. Overall it doesn't really concern people like you who are not interested in participating in such sluttery. But if some do, what does that take away from the people who don't? I don't get this new whole se…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:46 PM
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Physical violence in relationships still keeps happening more proportionately to women Unwelcome sexual attention which goes way overboard. Related, the truly shitty men exist. And the men who prefer to be right rather than fucking. In business world / entrepreneurship there exists circles which are best accessible and valuable only for normal guys. Regarding dating, seems that women can go through years of casual sex hoping that being the way to find the right one to settle down with. That the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:23 AM
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He boasted at the party about it poking for a reaction, an utterly flamboyant gay with more biological kids than any man I know. Donated his seeds years ago and apparently being tall and succesful and selection being very limited, he has been very popular choice among the clinic customers. He'll have fun in 15+ years when one by one his kids get his contact details and want to meet up - what a get-together to arrange!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:59 PM
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Male & the biokids. Just want to beat the local high score set by a gay guy who has 9 kids through donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 11:16 PM
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Nope, baring rare exceptions, poly people tend to be low-tier. Casually attractive gravitate towards swingers and keeping it under the lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:56 AM
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Huh. Curious. I do see both the mentality ”world / society is going to hell in handbasket and there is little that can be done to it” and also the Happy ho lucky ”it aint that bad, we are fixing things and it is working, opportunities about and overall life is going quite alright.” But this is northern Europe, i get prevevalence of darker onlook in states.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:20 PM
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Seen quite a few burner/startup-type guys who are more or less acing it in life (business, travel, friends, creativity, ...) and they just radiate positivity. If man does well in life, especially socially and with meaningful progression, there is spark in the eyes. Stalled, damaged, fearful, frustrated, (and) netdwellers grow gloomy brows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:05 PM
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Answered throughout the years and the results are consistent: If I'm down and stressed, I always get INTP, when life is good I get ENTP and when really great results shift to ENFP. It's pop-sciency but the categories somewhat resemble the proper Big5, so something about is 'round the mark. But mainly, it is well known enough to be usable to talk about different kinds of people. I have no idea what Virgo is supposed to represent but I have a decent hunch of MBTI.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:07 PM
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... you live in a world where it is common to get rid of the dog when it gets old and get a puppy instead? I’ve heard of the idea of summer pet (get kitten at spring when moving to summer cottage and leave it to die in forest when aurum arrives and it is time to get back to city) but these people are rare and generally despised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:05 PM
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It is just not as visible. There is tons of gay for pay going on with young guys, if I remember right, some statistic said that of teens who voluntarily whore themselves for quick buck, at least equal percent, maybe more, are guys selling services to older men. No one just gives a shit about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:10 PM
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I'm not getting the dynamics of this. Strip clubs are all business, are there some men who think them otherwise? Men go to strip clubs expecting to pay for shows. This is fine if that's how one likes to spend their money. Strippers make their cash from private lap dances etc. For that, they need to seduce customers and if a man is there to buy one then what is the problem here? Is it that the usual moves for charming and milking most out of the customers are not working? Or do these men just dri…
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 12:54 AM
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Why would you want a SAHM? Career-oriented companionship is where it is at. The quality for services taking care of the kids is sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:55 PM
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Nope. Sounds cosy but I wouldn’t partner with someone whose main ambition is that casual. There has to be drive to accomplish way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:02 AM
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I don’t know about this where I’m at. Finland shifted from mainly agrculture and forestery to cities round ’60’s. Lie in farms were toiling to everyone, no such thing as SAHM there. Womens right movements became a thing well before that, farm inheritance practices being challenged and such. I don’t think comprable ”easy” stay at home -parenting was feasible option to many outside upper classes and the passed boomer-period. Doens’t really happen much anymore, life is too expensive for both not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:52 AM
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Figure it out: https://mobile.twitter.com/TitaniaMcGrath/status/1105660458718109696
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 03:42 AM
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You fell for Titania! :D She's the best: https://quillette.com/2018/12/13/i-now-understand-how-nelson-mandela-felt/
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 09:29 PM
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UK seems messed-up. I don't know what's troubling that country, been going worse there on all fronts for years now. It's fine to teach everyone at some point that if they are gay or something, that is alright, they can live with it and you don't bully anyone for what they can't affect. None can control where they get their boners from and none turns gay by knowing that some are gay. It is learned when they discover that wanking to men works while wanking to women doesn't. Same when learning that…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 05:23 PM
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What the actual fuck. And another headline from UK, what's going on with that country?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 05:18 PM
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The kid who made magic-empowerd artillery was very adamant that he is a boy, doesn’t want to be a girl and all girl things are icky - expect the ones that he liked. A competitive kid who liked to wrestle and fight - and this is allowed in the yard of a progressive kindergarten. I don’t disagree with the notion that there is unnecessary push towards transitioning among that minority crowd, topic to itself, but on educational institutions and at large, however progressive the talk, it is assuring …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 03:44 PM
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You truly are concerned, that meds meant for handful of possible trans kids to postpone their puberty, will be widely used by feminist mothers to neuter their boys, and this is a significant and plausible threat?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 03:08 PM
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I base my views on what I see and not on fearmongering, boys here mostly grow up manly: RP-stuff is all over local boards and manosphere terms are popular search keywords. There is that percent of soft guys as there always has been, but based on the what I see locally, whole soyboy alarmism is exggerated.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:26 PM
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What I've seen of the gender-neural and kids, is that the boys who like red and glitter, build an artillery of fire pink cannons where the glitter tells of magical power that makes the explosions strongest ever, while girls who get lots of cars as toys will tuck them to sleep in their little car-beds. Normal order of things is quite ingrained and resilient, who gives a shit if the toy artillery is red if that makes it cool for him. I'm quite convinced that most kids will grow up just fine. Were …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:00 PM
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Utterly irrelevant. This is meant for the really fucking rare cases when a kid keeps insisting that he/she is a trans. Bunch of medical outliers - this doesn't affect 99% of population. But the topic keeps appearing as it makes for shocking headline. No, no-one is forcing this stuff to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:18 AM
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This is just a phase of adjustment. Transwomen are women but having grown with testosterone brings them huge advantage in sports. Already there is talk about defining categories alongside history of observed testosterone levels. There is that African genetic woman who has some syndrome causing testosterone production - similar calls are made to exclude her. Were there a competitive field where the estrogen that trans men grew up with would give them a huge boost, we would hear talk about excludi…
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 12:11 PM
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I’m seeing these claims for theocracy popping up more around the manispehre and it’s ridiculously stupid. We just recently got free from the shitshoe that was the society where most were religious. So much unneccessary suffering, especially for men. Has it all been already forgotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:46 PM
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Bad habits die hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 08:01 AM
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And father taking a few months leave to closely nurse the new-born with better formula than what is currently available more closely closely resembling the fauna of real human milk. Easier to hire a nurse. I feel iffy about the idea of baby forming an early imprint and bonding towards a robot. There are things like smell and pheromones to consider, alongside emotional singals such as smiling and cuddling, and I’m not certain how very important they are to overall development. Would kids nursed b…
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 08:46 AM
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Brilliant and expected in a sense that it brings freedom to reproduce for everyone. If choosing so, having a genetic offspring should be a equally easy option for men as well. Though in comparison, they are not addressing the importance of first year of nursing and the delivery of beneficial bacteria.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 04:29 PM
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You brought this to yourself. https://m.imgur.com/gallery/NHzVJ
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 06:18 PM
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RP is about adapting, individual operating succesfully in current environment. I see the longing for strictly enforced rules, even wishes for theocracy among incel & mgtow crowds, those who gave up nor won’t see the game worth it. But hardly in pua/RP. Personally, absolutely no, cannot tolerate any policing of others that is not absolutely neccessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:19 PM
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Hah, that would go to a long debate- what you guys consider socialism, the nordic model, has worked just fine here for several decades and our economics are running alright. With feminism, we'll see, what I see locally is that the extreme feminist are most visible in headlines but not really that effective on actual politics. When every major party is feminist in name, it doesn't really mean much, and the then they form radical feminist parties that drawn votes from lefts.. I'm sensing among lay…
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 12:00 AM
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Same with Europe. My quess is that you’ll do better there in the long run, mindset in USA is better adapted to hard times. Or who knows, will be curious to see how all this spans out, hardly possible to affect it much. My stance is on trying to keep cool head while fools and crooks seek to benefit from splits and crises of the season.
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 10:50 PM
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Certainly there can be seen decline in relation others, but lots of the talk is fear-mongering and doomsaying that’s been present for decades. At one point it was acid rains, otzone hole, peak oil, y2k, Bush was titled as the bumbling idiot that will ruin USA, new Russian scare, terrorists, economic depressions of grand scale has been predicted to collapse us within two years at least a decade now... And still, we are are rolling along just fine, there are jobs, services are still better than in…
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 05:35 PM
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Nah. At worst it is going towards global-corporate-royalty-dystopia with strong divide between haves and have-nots, a huge pre-emptive and gamified surveillance throwing risk-individuals to slave in prison-industry for silliest misnomers and child-rearing religious nutheads from all fronts holding the power. West won't collapse nor will our civilization die, but the golden age of Nordic-model nations might see an end. All this doom and gloom ”west is dead" bullshit from left and right is annoyin…
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 03:05 PM
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I interpret that as feeling stuck and dissatisfied within circumstances that don’t bring out the best of oneself, running on suboptimal routines. While the exact causes or conditions are unclear, some change is needed to get to better gear. Could be that one is dating a downer, churns too much at work, needs a new hobby or fresh perspective by moving abroad - something needs to change for life to move again towards a fulfilling direction. This applies mainly to people who are more reactive rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:02 AM
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As if they would need or heed any advice. Grown adults make their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:02 PM
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i’d rather tone down the whole social-animal aspect. We tend to need company to stay healthy and happy, how about not? I notice my general yearning for socialization (and knowing that good company is damn good for our mood) can be more of a hinderance. How about default mode of life as happy hermits expect once in a year flocking to a beach to catch up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:16 AM
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I’m for the individual and seeing and acting in the world for as it is. If you had what it takes to make 150k just by being attractive, you would, at least as side gig. Nothing wrong about monetising the looks, and no point in being bitter about someone doing it. Sure, it’s not equal to men, but neither can most women pull that off. World is different to the very attractive.
/r/MGTOW19/01/19 11:39 PM
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Bullshit. What matters is results. She ain’t harmina anyone and provides a service with clear need and audience, using her skills and assets. Smart easy money. Good for her making most of what she got while she got it. It would be morally wrong not to take the money from the idiots. If not her, someone else would.
/r/MGTOW19/01/19 10:43 PM
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Yeah, have to admit that classist prejudices irk me up, petit-bourqeois keeps the society stable and it gets so much uncalled hate from the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:15 AM
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There is point in hiring someone to do the things you know you could do yourself and it is called convenience and expertise. Do you cut the hait of your kids, friends, so and yourself? It’s easy, fast and you surely have scissors and mirrors at hand. So bourgeoise to pay someone else to cut some hairs, are you too good for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:31 PM
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That's the shittiest possible timing, peak exhaustion before it starts to get better. Somewhere in year 3, positives even with negatives and then they surpass them. At year 5, having that kid around is great.
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 10:08 PM
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It’s the same as hanging out with losers. Would you spend time with that beta-Bob, as kind and goodhearted he is, he is kind of uselfess and might even hinder you moving towards your goals. Many succesful men want to work & asssociate their careers with high-achievers, unless seeing potential to use. Similarly, why would woman stick with a colleague from a past job that she has already moved on, just reap the benefits and find the next opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:41 AM
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There are still issues that harm mainly women, physical violence related to intimate relationships being still the big one. Also, depending of the country, punishments of real sexual violence can be seen too lenient. This issue mainly affects women of working/lower classes and some ethnical minortities. I'm quite alright with feminism that focuses on this kind of clear cut topics: real crime with real damage with real victims and real proof treated unjustly. Go on, talk hard statistics with deta…
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 11:54 PM
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Eventually yeah, but I’m in no rush and no numbers are not the point, 2-3 flings /year on the side of the ltr sounds like a fun arragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:45 AM
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Hermafrodites are a 100% real thing, rare but true example of truly mixed physiology. Sex is also observable in brain structure differences, thus it is plausible that those regions can get mixed up as well -> transgender is real, based on physiology and widely supported by evidence and experience. What is implausible about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:20 PM
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Black pill leads to not even trying, but the rage passes. Once you see people for what they are, you can start enjoying it without expecting too much. The purple/bluepillers are that way because for them things just worked kind of alright, they got relationship-skills naturally but also get burned hardest if being too naive. Redpillers/pua learn with clear-cut and instructions and diligence for creating and sustaining personal boundaries, value, attraction and initiative. Then there is even marr…
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:08 AM
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Men are pigs and women are their equals. These discussions are good because it is raw glance to real bahaviour of our species how it has always been. And this is fine, this is how humanity rolls. Only fools dwell in idealized views - or worse, try to enforce them. Better know that if play in mud, it tends to get dirty.
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 03:17 AM
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Blah. Women are just being genuine themselves as they see best. This kind of crap is like them complaining that games and porn keep men undateable Peter Pans. See people for what they are without illusionary expectations, then take it or leave it. Modern times have not ruined anything as everyone can be and behave however they prefer as misguided some might find it. Noble freedom for everyone to live as they like (within the law), no point in whining about choises others make.
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 02:17 AM
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You have the same freedom: a perfectly cut suit on a toned body is lingerie for men. Small tension and subtle flirt is just fun. You know it won’t go anywhere because it’s your work. Not a distraction, merely a small reason to smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:54 PM
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Don’t be a bore. Less restrictions the better, IT/everthing goes dresscode is optimal unless you are facing customers or investors. Smart people handle themselves just fine and those who can’t need to find work elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:22 PM
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It’s a brilliant idea which will expand equal parenthood opportunities for everyone. Just add some govermental supports to prevent it from becoming a class issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:05 PM
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Women being equally efficient workers and competent participant sin all ranks and sectors of society leads to more business and taxes, thus to society with better services for everyone. Nordic model just works well: opportunities for self-actualization, freedom to choose knowing there is a safety net, and happiness gained through individualism. Nothing lost. I can’t see real benefits of other approaches. Sure, finding a woman to start a family with in early 20’s would be challenging, but I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:43 AM
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Always knew that I wanted to have kids, so it's no surprise that I think kids and being a parent is awesome, especially after the first few years. If you think you could raise a kid on your own, do the gay father thing and rent a surrogate womb with tube fertilized eggs. It'll cost quite some, but still less than a divorce and you won't have to worry about parental alienation.
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 11:32 PM
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Both are horrible choices with negligible positives. I would rather keep the hobby of drawing pin-ups and trust that women can handle it. Sounds that they wouldn't be legally bound outside the workforce, so those who persist would still find jobs just alright. Any silver lining for visual porn ban? More work for erotica writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:14 PM
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I have to congratulate local feminists for their activism. They arrange tons of low-barrier-of-entry creative grassroots events, be it drawing, dancing, music, cooking, gardening and all kind of social events. And everything is nice, almost free, with organizers are surprisingly competent. Of course there are the mandatory voiced code-of-conducts in the beginning, but as long as you're not asshole, it is just fine. Seems like they want to do things for their community, the anarcho-rooted non-com…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:36 PM
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How about renting a surrogate womb with carefully selected tube eggs and raising a heir by yourself? It’ll cost some, but it is entirely possible to continue your bloodline without involving the risks of the marriage. Gays do it, so can you.
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 11:45 PM
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As old propaganda books go, distract and divide the audiences with freak show, they’ll be too much in upheaval to effetively protest significant but boring changes. Gays and lesbians are already boring mainstream for emotional reaction. Hopefully trans* will soon be casually boring too, as all this circus just makes it more difficult for those few who have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:29 PM
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I got that, but is it really how you’ve always understood it? How much did you have to work to get to intepret it like that? Tbh, in real life, i’ve seen those phrases mainly used in context of lazy losers justifying to themselves not doing their best and still expecting whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 08:10 PM
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What? How? Just being themselves walks hand in hand with the idealistic "love you just the way you are" - expectation of embracement of their how-ever lacking state?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 04:31 PM
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Mgtow works and is dangerous to power balance, it must be supressed. What if the strongest slaves would choose only to support themselves? Such a waste of potential and selfish hogging of resources that community(consumption) depends upon! Millions of businesses live upon what you are breaking! This must be detrended, you are not allowed to realise your powers in a truly noncompliant manner. Please, stick within the framework!
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 10:07 AM
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West is already throughly discussed. I would love to hear insights on this from those who have lived in developing countries, or say Japan or South-Korea. How is it there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 11:37 AM
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This will be fun again! The usual: restrict alchol & smoking to only weekend events, social media and games allowed only between 22-10am, no porn, less sugar. Meditate, read, study, lift and sleep enough. This time skipping drawing, it is fun, but not a priority right now and can easily suck toi much time from other activities if not timed, maybe keep it as reward for the good days. Can do for month, physical part is irritiating but doable, the real challenge is to fill the void left by cutting …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 12:18 AM
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Yeah. Feminine men can be hot if they can pull the ”he has his life going so good that he doesn’t have to give a fuck if someone disses him or not”. But not if he signals less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 12:27 PM
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Looks aside, that whole good-wife vibe. Serial monogamy of years-long relationships, can support herself finacially, knows how and likes to keep a home, not being boring, developing and sustaining delightful personality radiating joy de vivre etc. But that is nothing comparable to a man becoming celebrity multi-millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 08:28 AM
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For fame! Start an YouTube channel of impro ballet practices in public, stick to daily training video schedule sharing insights ffrom day-dance. Certainly your non-fucks-givery, goal orientedness and amusing mastery will get you noticed!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:15 PM
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Hammer movie marathon! Lust for a vampire introduced me to genre, it’s good one, but check out trailers here: https://io9.gizmodo.com/the-10-best-and-2-most-baffling-hammer-horror-movies-1748428176 With good company and appropriate mesurements of wine, nothing beats dark night with cheesy old horror camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:59 PM
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Went once to wedding in premises of an christian monasteric. Monks seemed to be really into collecting mushrooms and beekeeping. Alive and kicking as there were many in their 30’s and 40’s, thou no idea how they find new recruits. Also heard of a local hardcore christian sect, opus dei maybe, 20 men strong brotherhood of high-level scientists. Works well in continuum proper christian monasteric traditions. There is also a buddhist monastery with communal living arragenents in the city, and seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:15 PM
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Who the fuck would like to live in society like that? Degeneracy is both tons of fun and damn useful. It only messes up instinct driven animal-people who can't keep themselves in check. We're better than that. Self-restraint is the core virtue upon which all the wonderful western freedom stands on. Utter stupidity to even consider regressing centuries back to rule-slaving nursery schools. They only build shithole crab-buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:26 PM
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Dive hardcore to anglo upper/creative/hipster class. Max out looks and style, carry great accent, vocalbury and vibe, ace it like your family made bank in colonies and bought mansion in Hertfordshire century ago. You’ll meld in just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:48 PM
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Absolutely! Such a chirpy happy crowd to mingle with a boosted token status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:47 PM
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Did that cute passing crossdresser thing while still young and pretty with same observations. Sucks but the masculinity has grown on as the years pass, not that invisible any longer. Unless you lasered it off, grow some facefur and own your shit, it gets just fine to rock it as man in your thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:46 AM
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Ever read that RPW dominance-lvl/treshold post? (https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/8s728s/a_new_way_of_looking_at_relationship_dynamics/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=RedPillWives&utm_content=t3_8tx02m) I think you’re not seeing beyond your own group and ignoring the views women who see high dominance men most desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 09:13 AM
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Maybe... that sounds like the r/redpillwives, but I don't remember seen them using it. Recently seen pink-pill mentioned mostly by the femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:58 AM
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Pink pill (old) - one woman project coining that never stuck around: "It is right to (ab)use men for maximum fun and profit, and here's how." Pink pill (new) - female incels, "even the bottom tier men want only Stacies for relationships, no hope for ugly girls to find love"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:17 PM
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Indeed. RP was the place that explained to me why it was seen more attractive that I went out with guys, didn't much tell when and if I'll get back and ended up confessing about flirts and kisses that happened on the adventures, vs. beta-like staying home and catering with extra attention. That whole balance from man does what he wants and it is easier to be forgiven than get a permission to appearing as weak and overtly considerate ass kisser. Early on, I assumed that of course the latter is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:37 AM
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Just saw an old friend and his gf in their new flat. The shock - He has become dog people! It is all her fault! The two dogs saved from hard fate define their life. They downgraded neighbourghood to get a backyard for the dogs. Everythigns scheduled so that the dogs get the do therir walks, nothing can be spontaneous, call well in time. Dog accessories take tons of space and the places smells like dog. Coming difficult background, they are challenging for visitors. Friend was wasn't too happy ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:42 PM
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Same foundation, both have that phase emotional turmoil and focus on doing and getting what you want in life, but they branch to different directions: - RP end game is that once you know the field and have what it takes to operate on it, women are worth it, whatever that means for the individual. Even /MarriedRedPill is a thing. - Good life involves women. - MGTOW is about knowing how the game works and deciding to skip the field alltogther, just not worth it. Do your own thing, come whatever. R…
/r/MGTOW22/08/18 07:37 PM
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Were there widely available and affordable means for men to decide to become single parents, would you?
/r/MGTOW15/08/18 09:52 PM
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Disgusting.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 02:45 PM
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Wasn’t there someone terming Pink Pill to be exactly that? About how to best amorally game men for maximum profits. That was way back, I wonder what happened with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 03:57 PM
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Bah. People are stupid, they err and accidents happen. It is better for everyone to have that option easily available. You don’t want more unwanted kids to the world raised by parent(s) who are not ready for it, especially the irresponsible kind of who’d end up needing services like this. Rejoicing about this just smells of unrealisitc puritan morals. In real world, young drunk people fuck, mistakes happen and it is better for society to recognize this being the reality and help them to recover …
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 06:54 AM
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Wouldn't that kinda place be easy to find? During last few generations all the weird ones have emigrated to the major cities where the liberal spirit accepts everything, subcultures bloom and no-one gives a fuck about anyone as long as they get the job done and keep to themselves. And rest of the country has stayed more or less traditionally conservative, sometimes communal, even religious. I don't know exactly how it goes there, but here (socialist boogieman northern Europe) what you're talking…
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 12:40 AM
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How that logic work out? God punishes sinners by sending killers or mad going extreme because of all the gay?
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 05:56 AM
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Purple chaotic good. The hippie camp - fuck rules, do whatever works to get whatever you want, but with optimistic glint towards taking care of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:05 PM
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Quite much, depending on statistics, surpassing MtF's. TERFy answer would be blame yaoi-anime and manga which guides uncertain girls wanting to become femine gay men instead of keeping it old school cool as gender-non-conforming women. (waa-waah, there are no butch-lesbians anymore, just icky icky trannies! )
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:46 AM
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I find your take on queer theory curious. Might you expand upon how the normalization of alienation could work out? Do you mean that with cultural narratives & social trends, cishets would feel unease, even guilt for not being part of the revolutionary, victimized, trendy rainbow? When I grew up, GLBT existed as more of a preference description and subculture for hooking up rather than all encompassing identity-theory as it is today. T was divided to transvestites and transsexuals, transgenders …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:51 AM
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31, after 7 years of a co-habiting relationship, so it was more of a formal excuse to throw a great party than some special transformative milestone. Edit: First I looked at this thread baffled at how young you guys are marrying, and then sighed a fair relief seeing that most had dated at least 4 years and lived together. Like glance to age of my parents when forming a family before thirty was still the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:29 AM
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So the worst possible effect is that those grown up with testosterone do better in sports? Oh my. Aren't there some regulations for this on the olympics? Regarding scholarships - you get eligble once you go through the process. I'm for proper screening, two years minimum till you get papers changed, proper real world test, therapy and enough opportunities to back away if it wasn't not for you after all. Then, when it is like certainly the right choice to make you comfortable in your skin, the es…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:17 PM
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Good for them, do what you think is right, we got ya. Whatever the reasons, it is a valid real phenomena, harmless for the rest of the population and irrelevant to the society at large, other than that happier people make better workers. Kinda boring tbh, but still the topic somehow gets people all worked up. I mean, even if all of the people who would be transm do it now that whole phenomena is well known, overall effect would be marginal. Like now that no-one gives a shit about bi and gays who…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:58 AM
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European centre: strict, proper borders & against federation, social democracy with capitalism builds best societies, and liberal in the sense that the married gay atheists should be able to protect their home grown weed with their own guns. Politically, real beef is to face the multiple issues challenging the nordic-style societies throughout this century, Trump & SJW are rather irrelevant questions in comparison.
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 08:35 AM
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Depends where you live. Countryside or US - car is a neccessity, one cannot live without driving. A large city in Europe and flat near the centre - having a car is optional, a nice to have luxury or a hobby, but not something that really adds much to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:27 AM
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Graduate, move out of the country, complete few meaningful art-projects, climb in Alps, have more than one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 09:25 PM
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How can you define if your fear consenquences of ”uncontrolled” casual sex are just or correct? Looking from a liberal country that sounds like highly over-concerned prudishness snidely masking a silly hoity-toityness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:15 PM
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It gets more interesting in the next century, so, a man for rougher ride with higher ups and downs, or woman for stabler standing in a community during hard times? (Assuming that the starting regions keep the same. ) I still have lessons to figure out about manning it, so another man-round would be a good refresher and anyway likely a shorter run. Then, woman after that, just to prevent it from getting stale and to replenish my reincarnation credits by making new bodies to go about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:54 PM
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This might work for some, but those in the target market, who have hard time attracting company, idea of effortless sex in combination with illusion of companionship - ”the girlfriend experience” will make droppng out of r/smp more common. Still, for that to happen, it will take be decades till AI’s will get to level of plausibility portrayed in the movie She. It will be fake and they know it, but it'll convenient enough and cognitive dissonance is easy to disregard as they'll be "just waiting f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:32 PM
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Same. Only thing is that I know in those communities there can be pressure to go with the flow of fully transitioning as default treatment, while many can live with their dysphoria with lesser means. Say, old fashioned - transvestites of any gender, nowdays called as bi-gender or something else newfound which just means that they feel a degree of gender dysphoria but for them the right choice to live with it is not to fully transition (and that they can have good life like that as well). I'd let…
/r/RedPillParenting07/03/18 03:02 PM
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yeah. Bad girls want worse guys. Nerdy women are feminine in many ways, but often are not interested in participating the changing mainstream feminine social trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 08:08 PM
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utopian naivety. Communism will evetually bring happiness and equality to everyone and end the oppression of the capitalists. But for that to be possible, western culture must first be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:16 PM
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Don’t know about that, not my hood. I was going to say that if not there, then where it would be easier to prefer custodies to fathers as parents of equal standing. But I don’t know, what would it take from society? Women who can prefer career to family life without judgement. Removal of financial child supports so custody is mostly based on income of an parent? That would enforce custodies to men, want it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:31 PM
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Can’t remember the source, radio interview heard few months ago with a laywer in a some Nordic country where the system should be more balanced. Said along the lines ”based on the statistics on divorces we handle, men just don’t seem to want it.”, Take it or leave it. Sure, this can tell that men give up before even trying officially because of the unlikely odds against an unjust system, but wouldn’t find it farfetched that many prefer just to roll with the defaults. Would be glad to be proven w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:11 PM
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On a similar thought regarding terps/mgtow claiming custody laws as big reason for not having kids. Majority of these men would not want to be a single father after the divorce. Sure, the system prefers mothers and is all kinds of messed up in US, but mostly, it is the men who won’t contest the kids going to live by their mother. This came up in a inteview in a Nordic country where the system is more balanced, but still, when the reason for difference between amounts of single mothers vs single …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:02 AM
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This is just utterly horrible. I cannot understand how so-called "civilized" people are so nonchalant about genital mutilation of children. Shame on those troglodytes.
/r/MensRights13/01/18 07:39 PM
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That can be a smart move. She had the assets to go for that route, knew what she was doing and looks like she handled her finances well. Valued more than most on medium engineering or academic career. With that, she should be able to retire or switch to different path whenever she wants to. Not bad at all.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 10:31 AM
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Gays have losers too and on old days, would go for religious duties or stay bachelor, bug the effect applied on bisexuls who could be pressured to form families instead of dating mate of their choice. Still, overall their numbers shouldn't matter if the society otherwise has plenty of large families. Only when the heterosexuals are not breeding properly poeple start to blame gays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 11:53 PM
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How long should the distruptive externalities be present for them to be considered the new norm, and reality without them a exexption? I feel you phrasing is set in wating of return to some kind of purer state, which is futile as such state might neve exist again. Can fathom countering balancers to your distruptive externalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:34 PM
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Yeah, way before reddit existed I figured out that I leaned trans, explored it and decided that transitioning is not for me. I can see how such can plausibly be speculated as symptom of gender issues, but alone, it is not enough to warrant consideration of that drastic measures. It's nice to be a pretty girl in twenties, and better as succesful man after. RP and other self-dev stuff helped on figuring out how to enjoy masculinity - something that I missed in my upbringing. Find the local queer c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:48 PM
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This. Repressions sucks for all parties involved and balls out femme guys can do just fine, nieches exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 01:33 PM
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By how vocal some are complaining about all the odd gender identities popping about, quite many I'd say. It's easier to pick one from the rainbown indentities than be dress-toting girly-guy and state being just a, or the, man as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:39 AM
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Yes and no. I like the idea that kids are taught the rudimentary aspects and behaviours of their probable gender, but I'm against enforcing roles if the individual interests of the kid seem to differ, especially after they hit teens and start to figure themselves out. That whole gender variance is a thing. It is one thing to know how to perform assumed role, another to figure out what works best for that individual - if it looks like a case where defaults may not apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:44 AM
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Factors are many, one aspect lies in the cultural history. In countries with majority protestant church, a main virtue has been the ability to constrain yourself; to control your emotional expression and actions regardless of what goes underneath. Don't eat that candy if you know you'll get a better reward later on. Keep the stiff upper lip. Don't react to provocation trying to draw you out. This also means keeping your head calm when facing sexual stimulus - becoming kind of a game, visual prov…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:02 AM
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Know a woman who is a brilliant designer, market analyst and a CEO with excellent insights on the business, great social skills and overall sharp go-getter attitude. Not a close contact, but what she is doing and has accomplished is inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 03:35 PM
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That disgusts with sex is a very US-thing. In Europe atmosphere towards it is quite more positive (and shunning your positivity with all things violent). Overall I think the the S/RMP is more strict there and your marriage laws are more messed up, so that's why I see your defeatism more justified. The scale from just-world-fallacy to reasonable expectations with a bad hand dealt, the latter is worse there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 02:51 PM
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Or assuming worst, doing your best for years you'd raise be beta-bucks for an older bottom-barrel single mother, or have a loving relationship with a down-sydrome woman etc. In a way you have degree of dignity left there as you see those as comparable options which you would never choose to accept to seek or settle with. As an eternal optimist I trust that, assuming you're a really a 4-5, with persistance and determination you would eventually find more than that, and defeatist nihilisim / black…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 02:25 PM
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Back to my first point, you don't want what is available with the merits you have. It is not only the women who choose to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:59 PM
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Sure, what do you expect? Still there will be some sex in the relationship. Aren't you a defeatist one. And if it is just sex with any woman you're after, here, It is not rare to see middle-aged loose drunk women looking to get just laid if you have any game at all. Just suit up and lead like you know what you're doing, the bar is set low.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:34 PM
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I see our perspectives differ here possible because of cultural differences between our countries. Here, while bottom part of men are lonely, the attititude of constant self-improvement and going somewhere in life for years, combined with proactive stance of social and wanting to meet people seems eventually get even the lousiest of men hitched before they hit 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:21 PM
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And likewise, you wouldn't take the the ones that are available. I mean if you go for the very bottom of the barrel and you've improved and have your shit together, no doubt you could find a fat 10-years older single mother with mental issues, but surely that doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:47 AM
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So your looks move from 3 to 5 and you'll have a chance with 2's, better than nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 02:57 AM
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Not pure RP, but in general anything that will increase continuous self-development of men will benefit the society at large. Better men living healthier and more productive lives will yield more prosperous society with less drop-outs and happier relationships. Even as this is an unintended consequence of individualist optimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 12:59 AM
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Yeah. Demands for degrees can be silly, but it is just markets working. Extreme example which caused debate here: when there are only so many cleaning jobs about that can pay a minimum wage, for all the hundreds who apply, it is straightforward selected the few who have a degree in cleaning (actually for running an industrial cleaning business - but such degress exist!). This is the consequence as no-one but extreme market right-wingers are willing to cut the minimum wages while economic situati…
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 08:12 PM
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However, there are no jobs, especially those low barrier of entry. Loads of unemployment all over the EU and the jobs always around requires a degree from recognized (western) institution. Unless you code, and do it well.
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 06:37 PM
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Rarer taste to really match, winging it 1 in 300 of the relavant age- and cultural groups. Not too bad though, similar people tend to flock together and technology provides excellent interface for cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 12:32 AM
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This was eye-opening to me as well when I first moved to live on my own. But yeah, just thinly under modest surface, plenty of good, smart and kind people do drugs, experiment with sex and have wild stories to tell... or at least are curious about having such experiences to get those stories to remember. You might be their ticket to that adventure. Unlike the good people for whom they have to keep proper face, of course it is fresh to meet company where they can be open about thirst for life. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:28 PM
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Just for the sake of curiousity, how about you go and take one of those cruises popular with pensioners? It might prove insightful, and even possible that you might find someone to sponsor you to tag along! Then just parade that delicious manmeat and glomp the sexobject limelight on a ship full of horny geezers hundreds miles from the nearest beach! Not that I know, but if the yellow press is to believed, and here, for the sake of hope, I choose to - the word around is that in places retirement …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 03:40 PM
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What is seduction to you? Someone acting utterly on on intent of charming another by inducing emotions - always wrong? Or, intentional acts to encourage and motivate or soothe - still inherently dishonest calculated acts of emotional manipulation and thus immoral unless unconscious emergent behaviour? You must hate marketing. Emotional manipulation is all around us, we work that way. It takes social acuity to see when & what act suits the context. Most can read it with clarity, aware of the inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 09:50 AM
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It can be unhealthy, but sometimes and for some, such is just part of more intuitive emotional interaction and language. I mean, if mere flirting makes you realise that you've been neglecting her and act to fix the relationship, it got the message through where subtler or formal attemps of communication may have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 08:53 AM
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Making someone jealous for passion and attention is kind of common thing. Ever heard of a girl flirting with other men when feeling neglected by her boyfriend, just to get him to engage more? Sure there are extreme ends, but overall people are not that fragile. If you try, can you see a bona-fine case where making someone jealous is part of the appropriate social dance rather than a grave immoral err?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 08:17 AM
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An old communal play for attenttion: A network of women posts crpytic shit in sync refusing to tell men what it is about and enjoying a day of attention and teasing. Never worth giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 01:12 PM
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Fair enough I quess. Percentage-wise those under 35 are way more out there, but nubmerwise it is not that clear cut. Sexually active life often continues well over to retirement, just that the venues are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 05:23 PM
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Were it safe, damn would it be fun to sell two week hormone joy-rides to everyone looking for anecdotal perpective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 03:45 PM
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Where do you pull that being the standard SMP expect for those in that bracket/usersof Reddit? SMP = those before first marriage/kids? The older I get the more I notice how much there are middle-aged and old people hooking up, having flings, looking for their nth marriage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:15 PM
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Queer feminist women who are into spanking trannies. Which is great as we have a shared interest. If that's your thing, please join the que. Tattoos, fucked up backgrounds, dreams of making it as creative, academia, way into pain and wild hair colors - it's all fine. And sorry guys, I know I fire up your gaydar, but it can only work if your looks are on level of Khal Drogo. Basically I know where my audiences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 08:29 PM
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Feminine / masculine behaviours during childhood/youth often correlate with gender issues, but not always, and not always to a degree of needing to go all the way. And more there is accepted variance to be a very feminine man without it killing social standing and dating, less would transition to get accepted in their feminity. But for many, it is still the right treatment for right diagnosis. Where sexuality and gender indenties mix, it would be of utmost importance for them to explore those wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 11:13 AM
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Yeah. I have less tolerance for clutter and don't mind wet, dirty or heavy things. She has less tolerance for dust and is fine with sewing and cooking. Tasks are split, sometimes there are discussions to balance the shares, my standards on cleaning and orderliness are higher, but overall it works quite nicely for two bohemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:29 PM
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You're just starting out and haven't gotten used to effects yet. Likewise, testosterone makes for a higher sex drive that can distract rational thought if you let it. Just learn to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:49 PM
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About "teaching an ineffective strategy"... I think those lessons are meant for guys who already get it: soften the tough guy, civilize the brute, dress the barbarian as gentleman, tame the wildling. First there is an assumption of naturally driven masculinity, something that guys just get or learn implicitly. Then this needs to be balanced and polished with advices for cosiderate and nice behaviour. Those who only listen to the latter by hearth and would require explicit guidance of the first, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:33 PM
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Indeed. Also bdsm and polyamory attract nerdy crowds. They read about it ton and then bump things with other nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:45 PM
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Oh please, as if it isn't mutual, bitching and moaning how shitty men are and how everything is their fault is a thing you can even get a degree on. Of course it happens all across the field if one looks for it, venting is humane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:10 AM
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Here, loans were and still often are considered a mandatory evil, something that you'll take only if you really need to, like when buying a house, because you are losing money in paying interest. Normal were/is that you save, gain interest to your savings and then spend it. US system normalizes lending instead of it being a costly expection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 03:53 PM
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Indeed, there are other systems in place for making that judgement. You guys enjoy one that makes it practically mandatory for everyone to spend money in that particular branch of business from early on, even if you would not need to. And you gladly accept this cultural/structural subsidy to your banks. What a marvel of businessmanship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 03:24 PM
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You know that credit history is a practice particular to US and in the rest of the world lenders lend profitably without it. You guys are being swindled and praise it as freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 02:53 PM
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Yeah. Though that leaves out plenty of cultural aspects of class such as habits, attitudes, practices and skils that are learned at home and affect the whole life. The school system is meant to work as the great balancer to even things out. But overall, even if the system were justly meritocratic, there still will be the "royalty" - serious capital, often inherited, which can hardly be reached by work. While possible in theory, overall as the mobility between classes has been slowing. And let's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:02 AM
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I see it/them as neat additions to traditional class theories. Where things go wrong is that when having a main focus on such things as gender, race, etc, one looks away from the clearest causes unequality: increaseing income gaps, disparities in wealth and purchachsing power etc. directly relating to accessiblity of services, lifestyle and well-being. SJW is a twine of theories and issues rooting from US, so no wonder they don't like to look at good old left for more effective and practical app…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:05 AM
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Yeah. feminine men like boldly all-out drag-queens get attention from women too if they fancy. Nieche isn't large but it exist, have heard complaints of all those dashing queens being gay. Utter pretty bitches full of confidence and certainly not boring. But timid beige guys... tough luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:07 PM
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There are feminists who aknowledge and support solving men's issues, but when there are decisions to be made on how limited resources (money) are to be shared, feminist always place priority on issues of women, claiming historical injusticies etc. As such, feminist movements are mainly and honestly about tacling issues of women. It is a mistake to consider them as movement for general equality, or ludicrously, as effecient way of fixing men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 10:58 AM
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Purple, occasional tranny that used to pass for a cute girl and had my fun with it- right now, no. As years pass, I'm starting to get the whole man thing more and I'm curious to see where this goes. Sure there are differences, but If you don't have major conflict between your software and hardware, gender is not that a big factor in satisfaction with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 06:43 AM
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Good concerns. So, there might be market for RO-systems/mods where the filtered side would be procecced through glass/ceramics/metals. Were someone knowledgeable on the market and engineering minded, this might be worth of looking into as nieche product.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:57 PM
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Tap water can be filtered. Check out the ones that use reverse osmosis -method as part of the filtering process. There are some available that fit under the sink. Just know that filtering take time, so water will come out at low pressure and filling a kettle takes longer. Still, enough for home cooking and drinking.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:56 AM
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On last part - did you miss the memo on women-are-wonderful effect revealing how women are collectively considered to be all things good quite more likely than men. Does that not include morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 09:03 PM
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Depends on age and years spent in relationships. For someone on late 20's, notch count of much more than 20 would signal issues with finding and keeping up long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:23 AM
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Vibrators are fine - the sex part is uninteresting. The companionship simulators are where the meaningful questions are at.. Eventually AI will be able to perform personality to level of plausible believability, immersion enough that one can fill in the blanks. Might take decade or two, but eventually it'll happen. Then what? Simulated customizable adaptive relationships with easy mode and save points? What are they good for, what are the dangers? Say, playfulness and depth of AI explored in mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 08:21 PM
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It works with Lutherhan work ethic where there is shared cultural pressure for everyone to work hard and taking support is seen shameful and something you want to get out of asap. Then it is feasible to keep a good support network for those who are unlucky - so that their normal lives won't get disturbed much before they bounce back to work. And those are so unlucky that need long term support are so few in numbers that it is not a big bill to look after our own properly. Along these lines, we l…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:14 AM
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Visual delight. Means may vary but there must be a sense of style, elegance & charm. Exciting. Take on adventuring, plaful fun and wit that matches with mine. Ambitious. Able to support herself professionally and as a responsible adult. Has long term plans and knows how to get there. Good, kind, healthy heart at the core. Not a bitch of selfish games nor burned black with issues. Intelligent / creative - passions to act upon. I'd get bored with square Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 12:52 PM
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Currently that would set US wages to 15k - 450k. Knowing the disparencies in large corporations between the very top executives (millions / year) and the lowest tier, even considering the quantity of those with a lower pay, the millions saved at the top would easily cover wage raises throughout the ladders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:31 AM
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Fixing income cap: Highest possible monthly pay can never be more than 30 times the national minimum wage. Want more? - increase the minimum wage. Target being return of a living wage where a single income can support a family and buy a flat. That would cascade in all kind of social benefits by making stay-at-home parenting with multiple kids feasible again for most, and vitalize the economy as low earners won't sit on their savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:52 AM
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Serious wealth over looks regardless of the gender. Looks are a attribute, could be considered as a skill or tool that if utilized appropriately may or may not improve quality of life. Wealth is already a result and starightforward to exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:49 AM
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Giving birth would be awesome. Going through blood, pain and suffering for creating life is so metal. Extra attention would just be a bonus. Periods, well, if you get lucky and hit the easy-periods percentage and not the wailing ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 10:59 AM
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AE https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Know-it-all Besserwisser was a popular word in 80's. While understable that you youngsters have missed it, it ain't that clever trying to reinvent it as 'spleining. There is already a good, neutral word for it. Creacks back in his rocking chair. Now you all can get off me lawn!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:49 PM
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As gendered subset of besserwissering, could be in some situations, but I don't think it that different than any other of forms besserwissering, term just highlights one casting of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 02:17 PM
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it is fucking terrrible even as the victim count is low. Swedish criminals use military grade weapons, for whatever reason, good luck to your cops. if it is imported class unequality that the integration process doesn't fix, (as there are no jobs nor housing for marginal workers), though shit, that wont go away for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 06:03 AM
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That amount of grenade explosions is just staggering for a small country. Why are they so common in Sweden when they are really rare in comparable countries. If it was the far right that uses them that commonly, it would have been around the press widely. I suspect that the grenades are from Yugoslavia conflict leftovers, but I don't have no real data on who has been throwning them. Maybe balkanese emigrated/refugee ex-solderies turned to professional crime and formed a local balkan mafia branch…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:21 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_grenade_attacks_in_Sweden That is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 09:51 PM
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Haven't really followed them, a USA thing and we get too much of that country in the news anyway. Glancingly appears that the anti-Trump movement has branded itself as women's movement, which seems strange, but then again maybe they were organized by the Clinton supporters. Still, USA internal politics are irrelevant from here and don't care so much I would bother reading about them in depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:40 PM
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Plenty of men and women in relationships occasionally masturbate with their prefferred stimulus. Sometimes you just want an orgasm and sex happens to be inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 07:18 AM
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Hearsay is that somewhere out there is a paper claimed to point that lots of different partners (on mainly women) leads eventually to lesser (capacity of) pair bonding. That the 20th relationship just can't feel the same as the second. Never read the paper, Could be misinterpreted or bullshit, and even if true, what exactly and how relevant the thing called "pair bonding" is in relationships? Actually, Now I'm getting interested, is it there some chemical that can be measured and they have filte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 09:16 PM
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Having sisters it is on me to to continue the lineage. Changing the surname is a woderful gesture, and while I could live without wife changing hers, I'm adamant that the kids have mine. But, I would be willing to change my surname in an old-fashioned marriage for title, land and business.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:23 PM
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If I remember right, the happiest people around are married couples without kids. By this, gays won't do as good as heteros. Sure, sex is always around, but that SMP is very judgemental on looks, you must lift and have a low bodyfat. Finding actual lasting relationships is way harder and most only want manly men. No kids leads to more funds to spend on lavish life, but this also often correlates with party lifestyle which may come with issues. If you live in liberal cities, look good, have a dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:29 PM
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Nowhere near as major thing as other issues stated in the thread. Filters out some, but that's it. Still, had I extra 100k laying about for vanity and a year to spare for recovery, would buy that 5-10 cm leg lengthening surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 09:33 PM
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That is like to saying that Christianity and Satan worship are one and same thing, because they share core beliefs while just aling to them in opposition. While the generalization holds in large, it is not a practical viewpoint. Even if sharing the similar roots, the differences on orienting and deciding how act lead to vastly different behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 09:36 AM
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With experienced moderators, this happens often on forums that have particular purpose and aim, often political. When the goal is to generate actions towards this goal, debate derails the focus. The approach is "This is not a place for discussion, this is a place to organize a movement for something. We agree already with the general gist of this. Let's make it happen now and focus on talking about how to do it best and kickban those that hinder this". Sure, the opposers want to debate, but ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 06:10 AM
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Relationship would likely end. I aim is to raise own biological children, preferably with their mother. All of these scenarios would conflict with this long term target, it would be just be fair to end relationship as the shared future would be incompatible by a major factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 09:12 PM
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Same. Waited for a while to get a red, then forgot about the whole thing and when I returned it had already ended. The community was fun for the first week or two. Did anyone try whatever it was this year - was it any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 08:20 PM
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Read it as lazy sperg, combo with soulmate myth, stick to these two to never drive to grow and get fucked. Bare this is harmful to naive and lazy boys. Read as nuanced part of whole, there is soothing and guiding value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 08:29 AM
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Men entitled, enabled and empowered to exert power and control. Kind of hot when phrased like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 10:38 PM
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Sly deadpan delivery : Yeah, that's why I met with an architect about installing traps around the house... and then spin it to a joke or a flirt.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:21 AM
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thanks. I agree in spirit, disagree in numbers, if one aims for a long lasting marriage. The legal obligations change the dynamics if they apply. In my country, they kick in only after marriage. Makes sense to see, exactly for the reasons stated, if sex dries up within the comfort of a semi-formal commitment then it sure will in marriage. This leaves a window to end the relationship without financial liabilities. If one is set to marry, why be hasty with it? 6 months is nothing. What article get…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 06:53 AM
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Never heard of the don't move together unless marrying in 6 months -rule. Contrary, assuming aim of long lasting marriage, an co-habiting ltr for at least two years should be recommend before marriage. Unless you're motivated by local laws, that should reveal all possible deal-breakers, see how the other behaves through ups, downs and challenges, and gets out if possible keeping-facades-till-married-stuff. Then, optimally, you're already well set in life as couple and the marriage, instead of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 05:31 AM
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Being crossdresser and doing well in life do not exculde each another. Succeed in life and you can dress-up how the fuck you want and find women who'll want you. Own it up, do it damn well, and have a blast. While it exculdes many women, crossdressing with confidence is a known kink for quite few women. Worst is to crossdress with shy and shameful way, the point is to portray that you have things going so well in life, you can just enjoy your kink and give a middlefinger on the normal social exp…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:03 PM
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Biggest difference would be in lessons learned. Party-life, habits and their effects on well-being - roads already explored, curiousities fullfilled, way more mature standing in life. I focus more on career, might consider switching the field. Relationships as they come and go, assuming sustained experience, would prefer older men and women, if things look good, might settle down earlier. Were I really cold and immoral and aiming to optimize, I would try to snatch a successful and moderately att…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:17 AM
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I hate this kind of people, they complain, discuss solutions, they even agree to a degree, nothing happens, be willing to go with them to activities, endless excuses and hamstering why it won't work or can't suit their special case. Like kicking swamp. The complaints are just venting of frustration and grasping for sympathy, thus easing the pain in short term without drive to fix the real issues behind. I could bear it now and then, but if the problems sustain for years, mere ranting when bitter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 06:50 PM
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Outside the careful advices, and not bp, if basic self-improvement advices has been applied, travel abroad and go to a nice rave or festival, do MDMA and go where people are dancing. Huge boost of serotonin in a place removed socially and physically from normal environment can be a quite shakeup on the harmful thinking patterns. If things are really that down the drain, why not try heavier measurements, just know to play it safe. Of course it isn't a real lasting solution, but even if temporaril…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 02:30 PM
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Huh. Most. Unless you paired up for good really early, live in small town or are religiously restricted, getting past nine is kind of given. Few short relationships and some flings. As in, one new partner per year and you would still have time for a ltr. Triple digit is rare, but over 9, certainly most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 04:40 PM
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I'm from nordic country, here outside the queer support-hug-circles where they process their issues, and counting out the conservative twats who want to enforce their morals upon others, the general attitude is meh. Each to their own but not really that special or interesting. Good you got your meds, but it is as interesting as talking about diabetes. As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 01:42 PM
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Yeah and no. Used to be a cute trap, passed easily and boy was it nicer to be a pretty tween girl than short nerdy boy. More attention, everyone was so nice and others made the initatives. Not passing anymore, and not so trans I'd need to go down that road, but I kinda miss that I was able to decide by the mood of the morning which gender the others would likely treat me on the day. I also quite like how I'm treated when sharply dressed in suit with manly facial hair. I feel the professional wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 09:00 AM
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To address this point, find the book The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. Point argued in tje book to have a steady loop small steps of learning theory, applying it in practice, then evaluating the results, and strarting from studying again. Pure book smart without applied experience carries only so far, you need both. As it goes in lean softaware development - fail fast, fail often to keep on course on what works for you and what doesn't, withou hanging too much on assumptions. There isn't that much …
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:45 AM
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Trans and gays rarely have kids and are often hard working and loyal employees if treated well, not wanting to cause hassle to keep their financial security. Especially on stem fields, my understanding is that they tend to perform well, and they are fields where it is common to have eccentric personalities, who are just kept out of sight of public / customer facing duties. Say, compare to people on autistic scale - can be great coders, but depends on the person to consider suitable position.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 07:19 PM
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That is already happening. There is a pressure to move healthcare to private companies owned abroad,who arrange taxes and profits so that they money won't stay within the borders. In my country, our education systems and ownership of natural resources - goverment owned lands with deposits, forest, water are structurally being adjusted so that privatization and selling of will be possible. Also, infrastructures like roads and power-networks are being sold off. They reason, to pay off loans requir…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 12:02 PM
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'We're becoming the men we wanted to marry." "Money and Power are very seductive." Normal women entitled to having it all, accepted only the top notch men, who, having options, would not commit, and then it was too late. The thought of having kids and commitment during the fertile twenties did not even pass by. And then: "It was as if the men's thinking hadn't caught up with what women were told to expect from life." Really? Those lessons could've been learned without keeping stumbling on mistak…
/r/MensRights31/05/16 10:10 PM
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Really? I now and then hear women humbly bragging of success of their husband. "Bummer, he is practicing with the band again, but they got invited to play in Paris and I get to go along, so exciting!", or "His mobile game was rated high and has plenty of fans, I hope he'll soon start working on a new one." Kind of, look what a big fish I caught - told with a happy smile. I still don't buy that a bot could satisfy prominent factors feminine attraction. Sure it would be a great toy, but it is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 11:46 AM
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That is manly way to think showing off. Bots can't compete in a way of "I snatched and tamed this rockstar who hundreds of other women lusted over." or "My husband just got promoted and he is taking me to the product launch party in NYC. How about yours?" If it is something you can just buy, then there is no challenge. But sure, on the plain sex-department, a good AI could play the bad-boy verbal game and dominant psychology right, but without providing real value and llackking all the aspects o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:44 AM
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For those to whom the partners social status matters in attraction, bot would not do. They cannot satisfy the intangible attractors of alpha man. I can see a low-lvl man mbeing happy with a bot, but not a high-status woman. You can't derive any social value, providership, protection or status boost from a bot. But overall I support the idea, a bot with emotionally intelligent AI that can somewhat keep up the suspension of disbelief, they would provide good enough partnership to millions lonely p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 05:37 AM
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As these fetishes have been learned through repetition and seeking stronger stimulus, they can be trained away, at least weakened, by choosing better stimulus. Nofap for a while, and then when, return to startung point - thought of fucking hot women. There is porn that aims to act as antidote to emasculation, and better, do it dominantly fucking real women. It takes years to learn a fetish, learning them away won't happen immediately. Mindfulness meditation supports this, as it trains you to not…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:52 AM
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Yet this is how it often goes, people are not ideal. If faking stable family is not an option on the table, then better to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:53 PM
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My understading is that divorce is better for kids than two parents forcing themselves to live in a horrible marriage. Separated parents who are content with their life > constant fighting and miserous co-habiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:55 PM
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Feminism in practice, when there comes a time to decide on how to allocate scarce resources, is a movement that prefers women. With its recent history of practice (considering how life is in the Nordic countries), feminism is not an egalitarian movement. And even with the parts that claim to be egalitarian, they are interlinked with constructs are not clear cut. Here, there is no systematic oppression and I disagree with the principle of equality of outcome. It tries to enforce ideology uprooted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 09:56 PM
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Or how moderate nationalists relate to the nazi-fringes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 09:34 PM
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Give it shot and get over it. Do together something exciting you rock at, take the lead, demonstrate your value and potential, and at the end game it clear where you stand with her and be over it. If you get rejected, you took the opportunity and learned from it, then move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:58 AM
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Ah, determism. Cure from nihilism is the illogical leap towards romanticism. Maybe, one day is different for some unforseen consequence. Something odd in the water that day, a stroke leading to new synapse connections replacing some that died, accident or near death situation, the unlikely divine intervention or religious experience. A seed-event for change is unprobable, but within existing possiblities. Then, if it is within possibilities, if there is will, one may focus on improving those pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 09:44 PM
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*common disclaimers go here * Do psychedelics. Just recently circulated articles on recent scientific findings on how LSD an related substances can help those with depression and addictions, because they temporarily increase neuroplasticity and this moment can be used to think outside the hard-wired thinking and behaviour patterns and create new synapse routes outside the settled ones. Chemical solution to allow moldability, add this to a right setting and I don't know where you get the right ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 09:27 PM
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Admittedly, this lifelong dream took form during adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:36 PM
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Wife in the east wing, Governess in the west wing, Maid in her room, mistress by the gazebo, secretary in the office, butler by the kitchen and gardener in the shed - whenever my career as international adventurer allows. So far the wife part of the equation has been solved, working on the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 04:45 PM
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No, not in the article but in the discussion of that community which can be assessed as feminist. The resentment is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 05:40 PM
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Metafilter discussion about man building a Scarlett Johansson robot. The outrage is more about that he made his robot to look like a celebrity, but just observe the general sentiment. Extreme judgementality based on vague creepiness of objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:44 PM
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Yep. Of course courtesy and degree of discreetness is expected when the household involves children, but I would not marry a woman who is sexually boring. Only some kind of twisted polygamy where marriage is for land, money and power and mistresses are part of the picture, that is the only conceivable scenario where marrying a genuine prude may happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:52 PM
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Purple. Coming from nordic country, I expect bills to be split or taking turns. If I initiated I would pay for the first but after that ... not being ok with it would look bad on her and would not consider for LTR. I'm egalitarian to the core and chivalry is not that. There is common courtesy and helping those in need, that is enough. Marriage and kids - sure. I believe that having kids is worth the experience in the end. The most capable get way too few kids anyway, so it is a responsibility. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 03:38 PM
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And most of this would be fine, if the other side were there too. Strong law enforcement to remove criminals from society. Asylum seeker that rapes? Swift deportation. Islamist activity? swift deportation. Caught lying in the asylum seeking process? kicked to refugee camps outside. And a citizenship to require decade of good track record, before which deportations can be dealt with three strike rule, regardless of the background. Problem is that we don't have EU wide power structures to do this,…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:32 AM
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Some are, some are very strictly against. But of the common trends: Community, wanting to belong to the mainstream narrative of what is considered good and moral, signalling that and expecting it from rest. Related, there is the "we are European, we are good and tolerant and civil (and thus more advanced than the rest), if we act differently, that would be backwater regression, step to things we've already advanced out of" - smugness. That is core part of their ideology and they can hardly see n…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 07:44 PM
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Answered, while wanting to add disclaimer of "gauss-curve populations". This is what I think goes for the most, but significant outlier groups exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 10:19 AM
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Yeah. Of course he wanted her, and then being too afraid of rejection, intense emotions, revealing his sexuality or fearingmaking fool of himself, whatever excuse there exists for not taking action, and hoping that "things evolve by themselves", meaning she would initiate after he had proved being a good guy. He does not know that it doesn't work like that, and when it does, it is for reasons he doesn't comprehend (being beta provider). Only if this were purely business, say a freebie for gettin…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 08:09 AM
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Tell that men will adore a women who has 1000 times sex with one guy, but wont seriously value a women who had once sex with 1000 guys. And to cherish the feminity - she has potential to be a spectacular woman instead of imitation of a man. These affect her value as a sought partner. And as women control sex, men control commitment, it is best to marry during early-mid twenties to an ambitious man. Rather than go for the older succesfull guys who are not after commitment, tell that to-be-alphas,…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 03:08 PM
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Meh. The Monster High are the best dolls around, who cares about the Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:45 PM
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We are the heirs of the greatest civilization. Dance to downfall if that is what you see right. I'm too old for nihilism.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:08 AM
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A better society. Pendulum will eventually swing to other direction and there will be time for sons of good men to drive that change. Heritage of the west is worth protecting and carrying onwards, regardless of the errors of the last decades.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:35 PM
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But get kids, with or without marriage. Eternal bachelorhood is a personal victory, but loss for the society. What we need is stable families raising capable kids, especially sons fathered by RP-men. Imagine raising a son with what you know now - how would he reign!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 09:45 PM
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Gained motivation leading to working out alot and have gained newfound value towards masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 03:00 PM
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Depends. Find a partner to co-live with, get the kids and the whole package without taking it to the title or marriage. Stable long-term co-living relationships are great, no need to make it worse by legal agreements if that is your fear. In my circles, there has not been marriage horrorstories and breakups have been relatively easy - so far, but also, no-one cares if one is married or not, so the difference in social status is barely neglible. Wait a decade till you marry if at all, kids can co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:08 PM
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INTP-A, though when life is awesome results go to ENTP Purple / RP moderate - hard to define the line. I mean most of the RP stuff is descriptive of reality, but not of the whole and there is plenty of crap to ignore. When going outside the common knowledge, situationally appliable. Chromosonal male and for sake of clarity let's leave it a that. Not very fond of strict definitons am I. Now what was black pill again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 11:53 AM
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I wish /r/getdisciplined and such would do the same. Something about the roughness of TRP keeps me motivated to make the efforts to get ahead. It has emotional charge, drama, anti-pc humour, eventhough you have process the shit from the worthy. It is a empowering environment for guys freely express thought and emotions, even be rude and obnoxious if so. Multifaceted self-improvement + pragmatic can-do-no-excuses attitude + no tone policing + active community. Haven't yet seen a similar community…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:25 PM
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He is bit smug, look like a cosy Christmas evening with a gf, maybe got that pajama as present. Liberal, in or after university, decent income and comfortable life without much struggle. He is doing reasonably well without stressing much about it. Not a leader, bit off a asskisser, would not trust my back. Thinks he has a sharp wit. Right now, he is reminded of that the he read somewhere that flu can sometimes be something worse, and better be in safe side and get an insurance. Without knowing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 04:42 PM
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No. While reading horror stories of awful women is good to remind that women are people too, such place would just feed victim mentality circle-jerk. Realism is ok, gritty naturalism is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:02 PM
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Alright, I'm in. No energy drinks & soda. No abundant recreational internet. 30min daily some-limit. No snooze in the morning. Add: Draw or play an instrument every day.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:03 PM
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Short term: Sex/relationship/social skills classes. I don't know the chains of causality ending up to as incel or neet exactly happens, but I bet those can be recongised and acted upon early on. Recognize the steps that can lead to it. Overall, some kind of non-digital ingeraction social clubs / camps will become useful as it is easier to isolate to virtual spaces. And have it properly realistic and science based, similarly as teaching about the dangers of drugs should be. Mandatory goverment fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 09:51 AM
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And sometimes, as mating strategy, it works, at least if one won't go full way. A public tranny or drag-queen is more exciting partner than a boring beta male. It shows confidence, and kind of "I don't give a shit what others think, my life is so good that I can do this regardless what some might say." Sure the selection is way lesser than for a alpha male, but better than for any omega. One could be draq-queen and bore-beta at the same time, but to do it openly takes some balls, and that filter…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:40 PM
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I like to get back to reading the best of posts now and then. Daily grind of new posts has started to be lacking. Maybe it was better back then, or maybe I've grown over it, but there is little new insights. For example, when was the last good discussion about applying powertalk?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:36 AM
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Short term negative, long term positive. Once men find about it, it usually causes emotional turmoil and depression, but that phase passes, and in long term it is empowering and socially balancing. Once mainstream, there will be a negative effect that it is margnializing for those who don't, or don't want to fit the paradigm. But that is another debate and balance to be found. It stings, but has valuable points that once integrated, will produce more stable and happier relationships for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 10:46 AM
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I agree, lined face carried with great posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:33 PM
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Nope. Current amount of kids is fine and I'm alright with using condoms. If new one accidentally happens, we'll deal with that one way or other. Wife said that she doesn't want any more and might consider some option. I won't do a vasectomy as I want to keep open the option to father more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:25 PM
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Mainly I want them to be success oriented, multifaceted achievers. So naturally the "general knowledge" parts of redpill will be presented. And awarness of it all - the variance of the people and thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 01:05 PM
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Great article, but seen it linked at least four times. I wish someone would redo the experiment, maybe in different country or social group, more perspectives like this would be enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 05:16 PM
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Hah. Sure - never change her mind about feminism and stormed off. You made her face that she cannot argue for her views and feel uncertain. Sowing seeds of doubt! Great that you kept it calm. She'll talk with her friends for assurance, it'll feel better, but doubts will linger. She'll come again to test the views against you, loaded with better definitions and fresh arguments. Keep it calm and be the caring logical brother and she'll build resistance against the cult-fringe-feminism. Have fun!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:57 AM
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I've read it working. Somewhere was comment from women who said all of her romances had developed from friendships shrug I think that works if you're not really close friends, more of aquiantaces. Friend of friend, someone from work, part of the group of friends / social circles you have good times with, but not really someone you spend a lot one-on-one time. That's the group where to look at first when single. Sometimes there are friends who trie to pair people up and take pride when they succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:54 PM
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Exactly. The model of "strangers to friends to romance" is their way to approach, as this is how sexual attraction formed to them usually, and it can be reasoned with "if friendship doesn't work, then there would be no hope for the relationship to work either". Some claim demisexual tendencies of being comfortably sexual only with people they are already emotionally intimate. Friending as pick-up strategy hard to draw lines around, sometimes it works, clumsy, often entitled or tacky, but it is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:16 PM
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Those discussions there are quite good, even when disagreeing. (that and the other manosphere article with over 1000 comments) I'm impressed by the variance of viewpoints presented, the quality of arguments and civil atmosphere. On the text itself, it got picked apart of it's weak points in the comments. She agreess on abundace mindset, aloofness, confidence - bodybuilding is recommened. Gist seems to be that even if the RP-theorethical framwork might be in err, the overall advice produces the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 11:21 PM
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Uncut, and happy that I'm not. Awful thing to do to kids. Fine if you do it as adult, but it is seriously something that the person should have their say and not something decided by the parents. Shudder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:31 PM
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Saw it rephrased as douchesplaining and I'm going with that. Takes the genderbias out of the phenomenom of someone acting like a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 08:00 PM
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You are young and have all the years in the world to get laid. So start with basics: Get fit, get your future going to a good direction, get social and go have awesome active life. Do alot of things - whatever interest you and is within possiblities, and learn good at some. Point is that you are constantly developing yourself. Once you're well on your way on living exciting life, you'll meet people, you'll do things together, show off your skills - then getting laid starts to be easier. Instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 07:09 PM
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Absent RP-father led to identification with mother, to a BP-rebellion of not being similar to dad, with "socially aware" upbringing by politician mother. As years have passed I'm seeing the wisdom in fathers ways. Curiously my sisters rebellion turned her to a masculine woman, though both might have made the mistake of trying to be similar person to which one is attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 01:18 PM
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This is one of my main beefs with it as well. I'm all for social & sexual dynamics, self-improvement and field reports of applying these and the lessons learned. But then when there are posts bordering conspiracy theories of cultural marxism, then it gets on thin ice. If I want to read conservative rants and political discussion, there are better places for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 08:54 PM
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What a boost to TRP popularity and visibility it would be. RP-community would just move elsewhere and get a nice little badboy-victim-trophy to carry proudly, with plenty of free publicity. Separated, it would probably get more radical. If instead of their own forum, they'd move to a voat or somesuch, they'd bring a good audience with them. So I doubt it'll happen, and if it happens, TRP won't suffer of it at all. I don't see much positive that would follow for Reddit, Unless reddit has advertis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:54 PM
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Would love to go there some year. What I've heard of it sounds like a good festival, and it would be fun to do whatever it takes to participate in the spirit properly. But I don't know enough to really have opinion without actually visiting it. Seems like in the popular culture event has some baggage in style of "would you date someone who went to Burning Man - twice?" which is bit weird, but maybe the reputation is different in states. Anecdotally here in northern Europe, those who have heard o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:03 PM
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Both. Works for for the female audiences as something more empowering and relatable, lots of males are attracted to them for various reason (more challenging to fuck/satiable to have to submit, subs who like women that can lead and take sexual intiative, maybe even some equality-things of that kick-ass man requires a kick-ass partner), and some men prefer to relate to strong women instead of alpha-men. In bdsm scene the sub men greatly outnumber the dominant women. Maybe it is this reflected pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 09:21 PM
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In the category of deciding to not participate in the SMP for whatever reason, similar to some MGTOW thinking, happier than incels who want to participate but can't. Still, applying rigorous self improvement and social development will help anyone get more satisfying life. While the sexual strategies of the TRP are irrelevant, there are still good material and links to pick and choose from. Though as community TRP is centered around sexual dynamics, so it's not that fitting self-dev group for as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 08:26 AM
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If things are exculsive, then it is a major betryal of trust and tells about poor judgement and impulse control. There are situations where open relationships might work, but fucking others without discussing it first, is just rude, inpolite, inconsiderate and disrespectful. Common unwritten limits overstepped. Most relationships don't work that way. It is about caring of oneself and the emotional connection in the relationship. If you're ok with such, it just tells that either one doesn't value…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 11:00 PM
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Sure, absolutely if your staring point is somewhere far ends of the kinsley scale. I'm not thinking I can pray the gay away if that is your starting point. But I've shifted during my years - I started with thoughts of being with pretty girls, had some minor perversions but kinda normal and alright with what I was- then it gradually got more perverted, had gender issues, phases when I thought mainly males etc.. and I've successfully also gotten it back towards normal, as in, sure, I can still get…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 09:00 PM
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Virtual communities, games and porn offering more pleasant, safer, less demanding and damaging options. Tempting to go for, when the alternative is to become money-slave in a traditionalist culture where the rewards for the prescribed filling the male-role aren't that great. They have the herbivore culture as well, as subcultures of rebellion against the corporate-drone culture - mainly from men, women still expect to get their rich providers. If there are plenty of men opting out of the society…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:56 PM
1

35, 7 relationships, most were few month affairs, two LTRs with co-living. Nevermind, not a bluepiller, should've read the first line.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 01:15 PM
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On the men I know of: They are confident and socially sawy, can meld in any group, tell good stories, provide value and joke. They escalate with women and know how and when to to play, what to say and leave unsaid. They can be most pleasant to be around, but can be also manipulative and self centered. Professionally successful and rebels to certain degree, with streaks of hedonism. Two have had difficulty on holding down a LTR of their criteria as they seemed to bond with difficult(drama prone) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 01:57 PM
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She seems to know what she likes and gets it. Good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:43 PM
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I like the discussion. Good atmosphere, lots of different experiences and insights on fringes. This place has edge on seeing how post-RP/feminism dances go
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:22 PM
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I've seen a man who is somehow personally pissed off at a particular woman for whatever reason, and then calling her a slut/whore/cunt because it stings. And cases of men trashtalking with each other calling women in general with degrading terms (those sluts at the club etc.), but that comes more of with message of "I can have plenty of women, I'm not pedestalising anyone, look how little I care". Neither of them is really slut shaming at the core, and I don't think I've ever really seen such, j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:45 AM
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Now this actually gets interesting. The often referenced reading of RP, "No more mr. nice guy", goes over much on one theory on the developmental psychology of being overtly nice or pushover, and has actually sound therapy-practices for getting over the.. he phrased it along the lines of "the naive egoistical survival strategies against experiences of abandoment during first 6 years of development". So at least some of the RP material does cover going over the causes. It would be interesting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 06:57 PM
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I say you're bullshitting about the consequences without anything to back up your words. While I see the paraller to daddy-issues - the pre-RP nice-guys, contradictionally I see the RP-toolkit being quite effecient in curing the symptoms. The hard talk about stopping the nice-guy overempathy, manipulation and entitlement, and growing up in value based on real merits and spine, grows personal frame and integrity, instead of the previous paradigm of only seeking validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 04:57 PM
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Practically: go to /alttrp. And if you want to date women, keep it in the closet, as bisexuality in men is usually a huge turnoff to most women who like their men manly. It is not ideal, but even if you're the top, still it seems to roll that way, so just know to be practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 12:57 AM
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For fuck's sake. If you're reading here, youre probably one of the good ones. Make some fucking kids and raise them well. Continuum of our civilization is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 12:54 AM
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If you're smart, yes, your responsiblity is to have kids. Lot of the best of us don't have any, or too few kids too late. Over population is technologically solvable problem. We can already produce enough food for everyone. Quantitity isn't a issue, quality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 06:01 PM
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Years ago I brwosed it regularly for /random vulgar fun, weird porn, useful links and creepy stories. It was good in it's own twisted way, relevant. A ritual of passage for any growing up net user; one doesn't know internet the unless you've lurked on the ugly side, it is the place to learn how to handle trolling, harrassment, obscenity and anonymity. Nowdays I feel I've grown out of it, but still occasionally visit to witness the spirit. The uncencored sewer, darkly beautiful in it's rawness. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 10:43 PM
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A guide indeed. I like your rhetorics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 11:55 PM
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Not a sporty person, but neither unifit. I used to do only cardio 2-3 times per week (running, cycling, bodypump/combat etc.). Now I excercise roughly the same amount but since january I have replaced lots of it with strenght excercises, with some running as warmpup and have occasional cardio class. It feels slightly different afterwards. Might be just placebo, but additional to the "post excercise-high", there is a distinct invigorating element that I don't get from pure cardio. Also the muscle…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:32 AM
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I agree. Having born prematurely I spent first month in a plastic box made of BPA (xenoestrongen) which I blame mainly on how I turned out. I hope those things are safer nowdays. But on other reasons, I do at some level agree on the "sexual targeting error theory" - never had proper male model nor understanding, had a huge longing for femininity, didin't understand how to get girls and how these things worked. It is possible that I chose to express the femininity that I so longed for throughout …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:12 AM
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Oh camoon. When I was teen, I noticed that I wanted to dress up like a girl, felt good in girls clothes and didn't understand why. No-one else I knew was doing it or talked about it, I didn't get why I had this urge and thoughts, and only seen some some old aunts in television that were kinda odd. I was not exposed to the phenomena it beforehand. After having a term, I googled it up, found other young people who had similar urges, got understadning of the scale of it, got to wonder was I transse…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:57 PM
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Still, it is thousands teens every year, and it is a visible phenomena in western societies and in the internet - teen boys don't shy away from odd corners of the net. It is better to have realistic understanding on what it is going on and why, rather than form the opinions from 4chan. And mainly, for those that it applies, it gives them right terms to google it up. Personally me it was reveleation when I found the term transvestite, found the support-associations and from there read up a scient…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:41 PM
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Big enough to be aknowledged (they are like that, now just in open, nevermind it), but too small to have any large effect in society. Some boys and girls who have trans tendencies will explore them instead of suppressing it and hopefully get it sorted out one way or other before they hit their 40's when it is more difficult. Large majorities will be as they have always been, and nothing singnificant in society will change because of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:32 PM
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Used to be a passable tween transvestite. Personal experiences compared to male mode: Everyone is so much more nicer. Smiles, help, friendly discussions, people take the initiative to get to know you. As male one is basically invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 09:31 PM
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To be honest, it just a shot in the wild, testing a hypothesis. I've read about transpeople saying that once they got their hormone replacements "their brains felt just right, as they should be". I've count myself to somewhere in the middle, so I'm curious and aiming to see how I will react to different balacnce. Maybe I can find comfortable, natural level of manliness if I aim for that. So far it has always been accepting the trans-somethingness and it's just fine, it is not a problem, but I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 12:15 PM
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One more axis would be the submissive-dominant dimension. What I find interesting that these are not set to stone. All of us have starting configuration and a degree which we can move on the axis. Common examples are bi-guys turning more gay as they age, and the "college-lesbian-phase". Those at the extreme ends of axis, cannot change noticably at all, for some it is social (truly bi, but identify as gay or hetero for social reasons), environmental (heteros who fuck each other when isolated from…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 10:35 PM
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It is a condition, for which the transitioning is currently the best possible cure. Causes are in hormonal imbalances during foetal development causing mismatching growth of the brain. Though I do think it is more complicated than that. Early development might create potential, and later exposure environmental causes (mainly plastic-hormones) can act as catalyst. Initial condition is physical, which later manifests as psychological issues. There are no pills, therapy or brain-surgery or such tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 09:33 PM
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Experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 08:06 AM
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I disagree with this somewhat. Gays have the Kinsley's scale and people do move on it. There is a starting point a range you can move around. The reasons why attraction changes are unclear, but a degree of change can happen during a lifetime. For some there is no range to move at all (clear straight & gays at the ends of the scale), but common example are bi-guys turning to more gay as they age (though, this is also affectd by the social factor of bisexuals being looked down.) For me, I've both …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 11:21 AM
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Lots of "normal sex" is part of bdsm if one is really pedantic, and people don't count it like that because it is seen weird. Good question, where is the line from rough sex? Hair pulling? Name calling? Considerate, tender missionary lovemaking is the stereotype of vanilla. Knew that kind of couples, and it was always the woman complaining being bored of his man wanting it gently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 08:29 PM
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D is for dominace, and normally people are more subtle about who and how they fuck. If someone brags about it like that in public, then I interpret it automatically belonging to BDSM games, because fetish scene and related subcultures are only places where I've actually seen that kind of behaviour and open talk about it. Normal in that context. Also, young people seem to be more or less aware of it all, know what they like, and exhibitionists like to play in public. If you like to dominate hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 08:12 PM
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They must be in some kind of bdsm-relationship and she is probably a sub who enjoys public humilitaion and he enjoys doing it and likes bragging. Good for them to have found paring where they both can express their kinks. It depends on the setting if that kind of talk is suitable or inconsiderate regarding the listener. As in - what made you think that the listener would be comfortable being involved in your humilition-games? Casually in normal bar - tacky, in a fetish-club - sure thing, go ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 06:29 PM
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Mainly, the over the top angerphase rants. Easily read as crude hate-speech. People used to tone-control take venting and growth-pains too seriously. Grand generalizations. Rhetorical practice that is widely shunned nowdays. There is good life outside its models and exceptions are plenty. But yet, the generalizations are for a reason. Objectifying and unegalitarian narratives. We love to think that we are quite similar and same rules apply to all. And that one can find a working identity outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 10:04 PM
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3 or more partners per year, and for women over 25, total count over 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 02:43 PM
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Further back, in France, gentlemen were the nobles. Or men who for some other reason didn't have to bother themselves with work. Synonymous with money and social status. With wide gaps in income and non-existant social support networks, hitching one would change everything. But I do get you gist. My take is that the social roles were clearer, and men were more masculine in general, so showing a polite constraint, meant that he could handle himself and had more dimensions to being an accomplished…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:48 AM
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Don't really know in large, this is just anecdotal. What I see in my circles, loads of middle-class educated men and women around 30rties in a big city, tend to either stay single or pair up and consciously decide against having kids. And those who have kids, the amount is less than decades ago - first kid is born after 30. Some are in fertility treatment. Some are happy with just one kid, others plan to have two, but absolutely no-one is having large families. I think that ouside religious grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 06:17 PM
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I admit that was exgerragation, but the bonds the close family are an important motivator. Even as not eveyrone is dropping outside of the society, loners are harder to motivate to sacrifice for a common good. In case of all-out-war or similar large conflict, yes it would affect everyone. But in a low-level conflict, avoidance of trouble and treshold to intervene would be higher, than for those who have experience to emphatize with parenthood and long term bonding. In a dire situation, a strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 05:46 PM
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The cultural messages about the rules of the courtship, social roles, expectations and results were clearer. No "just be yourself and you'll find someone" & "we have equality in everything and are post-gender roles". Which for man who takes them to hearth, implies that if you're just your own special butterfly it is fair to wait your soulmate to appear and take the initiative. Because of nature the market, the comfortable disney-eyed passive role doesn't work. The game has changed quite much fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:58 PM
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The notion that having lots of single men has generally seen as trait of a more unstable society, compared to cultures where most are married. Single men don't have that much to lose, so the they can take bigger risks, do crime, join gangs, paramilitaries, think about revolutions and conquering neighbourghs etc. Half-seriously, warfare has be seen as a way to take care of the problem of too many single men. For example, some theorize that allowing leading men to have multiple wifes, is a core re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:33 PM
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That is the best strategy. As you said, as long as one circle doesn't harm the other. Subculteres can be seen just as hobby/social circle to learn the social game and if you learn to handle people in one, the skill transfers to othesr. A jobless metalhead or lowly corporate-nerd can try to compensate their failures by arguing which is better,but it is clear that if you succeed at both, you're winning more than the one who only knows one group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:40 PM
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Had that kind of phase for a while, back then. First big crush + rejection at teens, hurt so much that I swore never to put myself in to that position ever again. Rather be without, than hurt myself again. Well, things happened and got over it, but handling rejection is not easy. There was the "be as you are and you'll find the right one for yourself" -message, which is easy to read as "don't bother improving in a ways that don't come to you naturally or are uncomfortable". And as women and men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 02:54 PM
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There is point that being non-comformist, you signal belonging to a subculture and you choose to game social points inside that tribe. And it is a fair strategy for finding a league you're comfortable and like gaming with. One can become one of the top-dog sof that group and reap the social benefits. But it only applies inside that category, say, after years you'll be one of the alpha metalheads of Budapest, it gets you metal-girls, you'll know bands, go gigs for free and have drinks on backstag…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:20 PM
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Interesting discussion. So the take is that a) for many men, replacing real relationships with porn has become the preferred option. b) road towards this state starts out early, before they are actually capable to attracting real relationships. c) It is not that bad, less rape and sexual harrassment, as interaction with real women loses it's special value. To each to their own, and good that they find ways to satisfaction. d) But accepting this leads lack of men with social skills and enthusiasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 12:01 PM
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Don't know about as frequent casual sex as portrayed, but serial dating (few months relationships) with occasional ONSs & fwbs, say, totalling around 3-7 partners per year, girls in their twenties and knowing mainly nerdy alt girls - roughly 70% of them had such years, until a long term relationships happened. Know handful who kept it relationship only, were either socially awkward, religious, asexualish and/or very study&career oriented, who probably have still their partnercount under ten. Few…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 11:33 PM
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Selectively redpiller - I appreciate the hard talking selfdev stuff and social-dynamic analysis, but ignore most of the derivates. Mid thirties, university, trans-something presenting male, politically - living in nordic country and liking it like this would make me a leftist/social democrat from us-perspective, tend to vote for greens,pirates & against (uneducated)immigration. Feminism - some good egalitarian stuff, especially back then, but also contains toxic non-egalitarian extremes. I appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 03:31 PM
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Yeah. You can be and stay friends, but it is awkward if the other wants something more and the other doesn't. Keeping the lust and crush suppressed is awkward, and while possible, tend to create tensions and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 03:51 PM
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. Yeah, actually yeah, because that would give them extra boost of visibility, more victim-credits, and mainly, if they'd migrate to a another site, say to Voat, which might increase the chances of a truly viable reddit alternative popping up. I miss how this site was way back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 03:23 PM
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Testosterone is a great drug. It is good to know the priviledges. I never really thought I had any. And if there are some, I better actively seek to use them. so maybe I can fix that not-wealthy part faster. So if I can get away with more, or progress faster just by being a presenting as white male, sure, why not (I'm a trans*, but I can pull off the traditional white male act). What would be the concrete ways to use these priveleges for your benefit? u/la-la-leesah mentions that you have to pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 11:42 AM
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not at all. It is fun and I like the idea of reproduction. And mainly, I feel that the sexual desire energizes me, works as an inspiration and the tensions it creates, are exciting. This is actually a second time today that I came accross the topic of castration - on other discussion it was a suggested solution to mgtow's, as in, if not getting sexual satisfaction makes you whiny, angry and hostile to women, please get rid of the sexual urges (and stop making a fuss). They don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 11:01 AM
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Nah, I truly believed at one point that, while there are women who are attracted by traditionally masculine virtues, there is significant portion of modern women who get off on men who are quite much like women. You know, best possible case: a girlfriend in a guys body - everyone gets along well, understanding and equality and such, lets just have good times together. And you know, there are some. But the portion of women who like their men soft and feminine (just not boring), is way way less th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:01 AM
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Mainly ingroup signaling. Part of freshly found identity belonging to a subculture, and they try to belong by mimicking and overdoing it. (Say compare to metal-teens - who is more true metal / punk / goth than the others?) That is what they think being gay is. Until later on become more ok with being themselves. Being overly flamboyant is a common phase that gays go to trough in tweens. Another thing is that it is a subculture where you're ok for not being manly. If you're grown up aiming to be …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:03 PM
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This is one of those things, that I choose not to pick from Redpill. While the analysis starts right, I can't agree with the conclusions. You'd actually want a childish companion? Makes for a fun fuck, but doesn't fly longer than that. What I look in my first-mate is a capable adult. Sure, ability to play is a must, but a immature woman who can't handle her shit is not worth long terming. Overall, I'm more inclined with developments that increase maturity of everyone involved.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:41 PM
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I hope that guy finds this discussion. He talks straight about himself - confessed lost loser pothead. He can handle being talked straight at and maybe hopes someone would, as he doesn't know what is wrong with him. A good kick on his mental ass can only make it better.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 02:01 AM
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Not true. Knowing trans-people, while some herbs etc are legal, serious oestrogen and anti-androgens are as controlled as testosterone. Require diagnosis that is not easy to get, because someone might blow their liver or make themselves infertile without actually being trans*. That said, wouldn't mind having a easier access to as nootropics.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:53 PM
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Read a heated discussion about this in Metafilter, with feminists hating this guy and explaining why his outcome made them so angry. They really hated the socially awkward, and that it'd be insulting from socially clumsy to ask for advice. Instead of reading guides, men should have balls to do the heavy lifting of trying things out, failing and figure it out himself (like everybody else). Asking women for an advice was considered rage-causing entitlement and the thought of educating a beta to be…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:15 PM
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A ugly one, omega female, someone who is well below your level and is happy to get any man, and tolerates any lacks to not be alone.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:25 AM
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Bi, having background with some trans-issues, first being feminine, and having the pendulum swing to opposite, I've read a lot on masculinity. Trp explained so much of the behavior I've seen in others and in myself - why things worked the way they did. For example, when I going out dressed confidently drag, getting laid with women was easier in than when appearing like a tender beta-boy. Mainly because of the sheer confidence show. Got comments like "you must have things damn well in life, if yo…
/r/altTRP22/10/14 10:43 PM
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While good in observation of what has happened, instead of the gangs as solution, I see the masculinity-reserve direction from artofmanliness as more thought-out approach.
/r/altTRP11/09/14 08:21 PM
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Several bi-related topics from main page have been removed with referral to post here. So wouldn't say altTRP is for gays only.
/r/altTRP11/09/14 08:14 PM
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Being involved with the industry, I certainly do recognize the trend. Partly I think the growing popularity is also about finding a marketing narrative. Advertising is expensive and competition is fierce, upmanship on the moral grounds can be a way to get a free publicity to your name. There is also part of finding a meaning into life of making of time-wasting entertainment by bettering the world through participation in a cause. Games being popular media among young men, there is also potential…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:01 PM
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