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| 24 | One of many gems in John McDonald’s Travis McGee... | MindfulStoic | /r/RedPillBooks | 14/08/18 10:26 PM | |
| 4 | Defending your wife | MindfulStoic | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 06:00 PM | |
| 4 | Coming Off Too Aggressive | MindfulStoic | /r/RedPillWorkplace | 21/03/17 09:18 PM | |
| 2 | Hyphenating the Last Name | MindfulStoic | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 05:12 PM | |
| 0 | BuzzFeed Yellow - When I Found Out I Wasn’t The Father | MindfulStoic | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/16 03:49 PM |
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| 1 | Social media is cancer to your life: A simple philosophy to become a tribe builder instead of a lone wolf.The irony of this post is amusing. How much of your day was spent staring at your rectangle to type this? If you’ve somehow found a way to monetize the time investment you’ve spent to write this then kudos to you. But if not, it’s equivalent to a fat person giving advice on losing weight. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How to get confidence when I can’t lift?Diet needs to be spot on | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Don't be me - I got cucked!That OP is doing too much talking and not enough listening. He seems to have a lot of free time available to spend making long posts and replies to people on Reddit. That’s valuable time that he could have spent trying to improve and unfuck himself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't be me - I got cucked!Smart people speak less and listen more | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/19 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenI also agree on the context point. In some industries that kind of socializing is not only normal, but necessary. The red flag to me is when a wife suddenly starts wanting to do drinks with co-workers without any historical precedence or work related reason for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 09:49 PM |
| 0 | I fantasize about having kids/family rather than banging chicks?And a blatent anti-semite | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | On My WayI can relate to many of the aspects of the story you tell and feel that I experienced something similar. I would just caution that in my experience, the shift in state of mind that follows an LSD experience can be fleeting. That afterglow you are experiencing will likey not last forever, which is normal. The intensity of what your feeling will likey dull as time goes on. This is why many folks who partake in LSD often go "back to the well" for a reminder from time to time. Each trip is a reset o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | One of many gems in John McDonald’s Travis McGee...Precisely. This was written in 1966. | /r/RedPillBooks | 17/08/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | One of many gems in John McDonald’s Travis McGee...This series is filled with beautifully written passages like this. | /r/RedPillBooks | 17/08/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Tried to have sex. Failed hardKind of hard to believe you’ve read all that you’ve claimed based on that description of events and behavior. If you did read it you obviously did not internalize any of it. Stop posting. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/18 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Discovered something interesting about my wife today... could use some redpill adviceI'm with you. Unless this is something you want to do I don't see the upside. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Discovered something interesting about my wife today... could use some redpill adviceDepends how deep we're talking. Tieing you up to the bed post with a blind fold is one thing. A full on DOM/SUB roleplay situation is whole other ball of wax (see what I did there). Once you go deep as a submissive and she sees you that way, is she going to be able to flip the switch back and see you as the dominant male. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Discovered something interesting about my wife today... could use some redpill adviceThe women I know who are into dominating men do not not want their submissive being the same person as her husband or SO. They don't want to be fucked by the same dude that they're domming and making submit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are horny. Women are bored.If you have to force it you’re doing it wrong. Reread my last paragraph. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 11 | How do you respond when your wife tells the baby things she wants to tell you?My wife does something similar: She mutters things under her breath that she claims is her talking to herself, but it’s really a passive aggressive attempt for her to covertly tell me something that she wants me to do. It’s real easy to deal with. Ignore it. If I’m not being addressed directly then I am not interested or concerned in what she is saying. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Don Draper - the poster boy of MRP?Draper is a good depiction of several qualities that are displayed when you take these strategies to heart, specifically his approach to work and women. He provides a great example for how to seduce and game women...but every sexual relationship he has eventually devolves into disaster. Lacks major emotional intelligence. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Don Draper - the poster boy of MRP?I've actually thought about this topic a lot in the past. Overall I do not think Don is a positive example for MRP, however, he does embody certain positive MRP traits. Positives: He's attractive, stays fit, dresses well, understands body language, speaks clearly and definitively, chooses words wisely, is witty, creative and successful. All this combines to make for a VERY charming package on the surface that both women and men are drawn to. Negatives: Below the surface he's a miserable mess. He… | /r/askMRP | 07/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Touchè! Lol | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/18 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Men are horny. Women are bored.What? Overanalyze and make all the excuses you want. Or join the fun. But don't confuse youngsters in this thread with your pessimism. Girls like to fuck. It's fun, try it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Why does why matter? Just have fun with them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Do many video game players just play "once or twice or twice a week for an hour or two"? Let's be honest here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Why does "why" matter? Just have fun with them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Men are horny. Women are bored.If you've had sexual relationships with several different women in your life, then I don't see how you can make such a sweeping generalization about them like that. I've known some that fit the bill you describe...but have known others that just do like to fuck a lot. They're not all the same in that regard, vaginas and libidos vary. At least that has been my experience with the sample size of women I have had the pleasure with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Yep. Plan activities that you actually want to be doing whether or not your wife was with you. Make plans that you righteously, honestly want to be doing. Don't make plans with the goal of eliciting a desired response from your wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Men are horny. Women are bored.I don't understand the gaming thing at all. Even before I knew what TRP/MRP was it was clear to me how unattractive and low value gaming is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Men are horny. Women are bored.Great post bud. I have personally experienced all the positive benefits you mention that come from being adventurous and social with my wife. I am the social planner in the relationship. She loves asking me midweek what our plan for the weekend is. Some weeks she specifically requests that we have a quiet weekend just us 2 (which I interpret as a comfort test and an overall win. She automatically assumes I have plans for us that involve other people, so if she wants me to herself she has specifi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Econ 101 vs Econ 202More matter, with less art | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I get called out on leavingThis is something I struggle with at night. During weeknights I'll try to initiate when things are winding down for the day. In these situations if I wasn't initiating I'd probably read a book and fall asleep. So if I get rejected at this particular time of day I don't want to have get up and do something just for the sake of doing something. I'd actually prefer to just read my book and get some sleep. That feels like the more righteous move then forcing an activity for the sake of dread. | /r/askMRP | 17/04/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningNor was I. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningNor was I | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningMeaning what? People in OP’s situation should just immediately divorce their wives once they start experiencing what he’s describing? That sounds like a knee jerk reaction and lacking of any nuance. I am curious what the outcome has been for other men who have experienced what OP is describing. And what actions may have been done to address the problem...before just removing her from your life like you suggest. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningI don’t see anything specifically regarding this topic in the sidebar. Are you referring to something specific? Loss of interest in my wife is something I’ve struggled with in my MRP journey. I am curious to read more examples from others who have experienced something similar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningWhere to find other resources or posts on this topic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningWhere to find other resources or posts the examine this topic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningCan anyone point me to any other posts or resources on this topic? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/18 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests and main events. They are NOT container wordsI come here to be reminded of the basics sometimes | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Our first time out as a teamMy wife and I have dabbled in this world. Just make sure to not get too close with the other chick. And ALWAYS make your wife feel like the number 1 girl. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Trust my gut ?This is gold | /r/askMRP | 05/01/18 12:10 AM |
| 6 | It's hard to lead if you don't have preferencesYou shouldn't need to 'conjure an energy to carry you through the night' via a table selection process. That "energy" should be an innate part of your personality that is not dependent on getting your favorite seat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameDefinitely seeing a mix bag of responses here | /r/askMRP | 22/09/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameI'm with you aside from the avoiding conflict part. Really not the case at all. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameGood question. The more the I ask myself that the sillier I feel. I'm not sure how it really matters beyond it being some arbitrary symbolic gesture. I like the notion of the tradition, but don't know how it really honestly affects anything in my life. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameWe're not sure if we're having kids. But they will have my name or I will not agree to having them. She claims this is only for professional reasons so I don't anticipate push back from her there. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameShe works for 2 MDs who are a married couple. The wife never changed her name and goes by Dr. Maidenname. So that is where this is most likely coming from. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameI don't see how it affects her current job at all. But will confirm that. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Hyphenating the Last NameClinical doctorate means she is going to practice whatever it is, not do research and publish as an academic would. Being published under her maiden name is not going to cause problems because she is going to practice, not publish. BINGO! There are lots of women who publish and operate in the workplace under their maiden name (Dr. Jones) but are legally and privately referred to by their married name (Mrs. Smith). This seems like a better choice than the hyphenated Smith-Jones option. I am seein… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Hyphenating the Last NameYes you did. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameMakes sense. But what constitutes a "solid case" here? She has only one publication in her maiden name and is less than 2 years into her career. What affect would changing the name really have for her career at this early stage? Yes I am researching that, but thought perhaps you could enlighten me as well. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameYea I think you're pretty spot on here. I see from 5 minutes of google research how changing a name is problematic for publishing credits. Although, she has only one published work so far (her doctoral thesis) and her career just started. I also just confirmed with her school that it is possible to have a name changed on your degrees and certifications. So I am taking your advise and trying to gather facts and educate myself. I need to confirm what specifically she is afraid will happen professi… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Hyphenating the Last NameThank you for the thoughtful reply. I can handle and welcome the brutal honesty of replies like u/red-sfpplus'...but this was the more measured tactical type of advice I was looking for. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameYou are a pussy faggot for playing tit for tat with your wedding ring. I have been married a long time, and I only wore my ring on my wedding day. Never have worn it since, not to prove a point but because I am not a fan of jewelry. I came here for this beating, and expected a response like this, so thank you. Although you basically just regurgitated my admission and critique of my own shitty behavior. How to move forward? Go and google, come prepared to discuss this with your wife with FACTS an… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Hyphenating the Last NameShe claims it's for professional reasons, not because of pride for her family name. But you're right, it exposes what her priorities are. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Consequences for disrespect?Do you have any personal experience to justify your passionate views on this? I understand that the majority of this sub likely agrees with you. I'm just curious where the sentiment comes from. Actual field reports or theory? My foray into that world has not been calamitous as you describe...for me it saved my relationship. But that is just my personal experience. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Consequences for disrespect?Why "poly" specifically as opposed to general swinging or hall passes? Are you looking to fuck other people, or to have emotional relationships with other people - because "poly" implies the latter. Wife and I have been swinging with other couples and single girls for 5 years...but it's never an emotional poly relationship thing. Just fucking. Much less complicated in my experience. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | About pastaOnly way to find out it is to try it. Integrate pasta little by little and see how your body responds. No food eaten one time is going to destroy your progress. Just be smart about it and don't overindulge. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | About pastaWhole wheat? Regular pasta is fine. That's the point of counting macros. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Calibrating your Time, Attention and CommitmentYour wife may be different and you have to figure out that balance of attention vs. aloofness that works best in both the short, day to day, and the long game. Trial and error will be the game at first. This reminds me of lifting. There are certain core fundamentals that you adhere to at first. Then with experience and trial and error you learn methods that better suit your schedule, genetics and personal preference. Never deviating too far from the fundamentals...but tweaking to more optimally … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?If you are asking this you haven't done the required reading. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the urge to fuck other women?Try swinging | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Coming Off Too AggressiveThank you for all the replies and insight. I am working on perfecting the right balance of confident, assertive and declarative with opinions...while also being collaborative and flexible. | /r/RedPillWorkplace | 12/04/17 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Some honest feedback from my wife.Then OP needs to make up his mind on what he wants, no? If he wants to stay in the marriage then he needs to move back in the bedroom, continue with the self improvement, focus on dread, lead and initiate. If he wants out he should begin the divorce process. If divorce is not possible due to financial reasons then he needs to begin taking action to fix that. Shit or get off the pot either way. The current status seems like a limbo hell. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Some honest feedback from my wife.Did OP say that the sex life doesn't matter to him? The fact of whether or not he has been using MRP to improve his sex life with his wife, and to what degree it has or hasn't worked, should be relevant context here. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingShe knows you know. Or at least she strongly suspects you know. She's feeling very guilty right now... I agree with this. Kudos to you for holding it in and staying quiet that you know. Keep holding that frame. Good luck brother. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Some honest feedback from my wife.Curious what's the sex life like? How does that play into all this, if at all? | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | FR: "None for me, Thanks"Brilliant analysis | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/17 10:44 AM |
| 3 | FR: "None for me, Thanks"I'm giving out more hard "no"s about life. She's constantly testing me. I'm eating more healthy and giving up restaurants for a month. She noticed I've stopped talking about going out, and asks me about it. A week later we're out running errands, and we go to one of our regular stops. I recognize this as a test. We sit down, smile, laugh, she orders her food, I pleasantly look at the waitress with a smile and say, "none for me, thanks." Wife says, "I thought you were hungry?" I say, "I am, I'll … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/17 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Met A Fellow RedPill Guy Last NightHuh? I think you're missing OPs point. The desire to have a face to face conversation with another man familiar with TRP would be none of the things you mentioned. Sometimes it's nice to speak to a human in person and not with a keyboard. Call me crazy but I enjoy friendly social interactions with like-minded men. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Coming Off Too AggressiveSame here. lol | /r/RedPillWorkplace | 31/03/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Coming Off Too AggressiveTo me, it sounds like you need to lighten things up some in your office. You said you're trying to be friendly and likable, but make sure you understand the difference between baseline, human niceness and going above and beyond to generate tingles; "likable" should be more than "not being an emotionless asshole." I think this is my problem essentially. Outside of work I am the man I want to be: I am above average looking, have a great physique and dress well. I have a large social circle of frie… | /r/RedPillWorkplace | 31/03/17 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Met A Fellow RedPill Guy Last NightOP is referring specifically to the people who frequent these subs. Yes, it's great to observe and speak to natural red pillers. But OP means people who know "TRP" specifically. People who know the lingo, the strategies, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Met A Fellow RedPill Guy Last NightFeel free to PM me if you ever want to spitball something in a one-on-one context with someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 08:22 PM |
| 34 | Met A Fellow RedPill Guy Last NightI would love to have in person conversation with someone about TRP. My interactions with fellow red pillers has only been online. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Planning to take family on a Disney Cruise.What is the best case scenario for you for a trip like this? How do you want things to play out? Do you realisitcally see that scenario playing out? If it doesnt pan out that way, is the financial cost worth it to you? | /r/askMRP | 19/02/17 12:51 AM |
| 3 | What are some good "the only real change comes from inside" type books?When I Say "No" I Feel Guilty | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%So next time you feel down because you think everybody's getting ass but you, think again. It's an illusion from all the sexualized media and advertisements that spam you on a regular basis. It's a narrative made by guys who exaggerate or lie about their conquests. The reality of the SMP doesnt make for a good story. This is not what I have experienced in my personal journey throughout the SMP. Maybe it depends on where you live. I live in a trendy area of South Florida. It's a large meat market… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 06:10 PM |
| 0 | On "being" poly.Poly can also refer to relationships where the couple has a shared GF. It's a broad term that you are overgeneralizing. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Leg Day exercises2) Leg extensions and curls are 99.9% worthless. Not true. Both movements are useful tools for hypertrophy. They can compliment heavy compounds nicely - they allow for additional volume to be hit without further stressing the CNS. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeUPDATE: I have listened to the advice of most here and avoided all conversation related to this topic. The only affect it has had in my life is that because my wife is no longer speaking to this friend, we haven't all hung out as couples like we typically would. I couldn't care less about that though, if I want to see the husband I can make my own plans with him (which I rather do anyway). So thank you for the kick in the ass everyone. My friend did address the situation with me in private. I ac… | /r/askMRP | 31/01/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeYou are a voice of reason as always. And a gem for this community. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeThank you for this. All helpful. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeThank for the serious reponse. I am clear on how to handle with the woman. My concern is my friend and I think your 2 scenarios are spot on. I think he'll respond with your 2nd scenario. We are all a part of a social circle that hangs together a lot, and at least in the short term that is likely going to change. To avoid that topic with a close male friend seems cowardly and feminine. Everyone telling me to just pretend it never happened doesn't feel right to me. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Defending your wifeThank you for sharing that | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeIt's seems the majority feels I should remain neutral at all costs. I am struggling with that. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Defending your wifeSo stay neutral when a feud erupts within your social circle? Avoid taking a side under any circumstances? I don't know. A man's gotta have a code at some point. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeThank you for that response. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Defending your wifeFor having a strong male relationship with a brother who I've been through hell with? If you say so. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/17 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Defending your wifeSorry if I wasn't 100% clear on the situation. I am not upset with this guy. He did nothing wrong, I have no problem with him. Our wive's our fighting. He is communicating with me as if nothing happened. We are very close friends who share a lot, so I was wondering if it is worthwhile to address what's going with each other. I am beginning to think it is pointless and likely not going to accomplish anything. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeOk, I think am following you. Even if I have an opinion of how she should handle it doesn't matter. Let her deal with it, even it means her fucking up the situation more for herself. It's not my problem and telling her how to act in these situations is NOT the role she wants/needs me to play. Yes? Oh, and her crying and venting did lead to some fun fucking. After she finished the sob story she crawled into my arms...I instructed her to take her panties off and she rode me until she had one of th… | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeBrilliant input | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Defending your wifeMaybe my guy friends and I are unique, but the fact that our formally best-friend wives are no longer speaking to each other is kind of a big topic to dance around. Avoiding an 8000lb gorilla in the room actually sounds kind of a feminine move to me. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeShe doesn't want shitty people in her life. This is a first time occurrence and she's ready to cut these people off. He is a good guy. Nothing changes that, just wondering if it's perhaps something we should address with one another. Not trying to get in the middle of it. I have done nothing but be there for my wife and post this thread. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Defending your wifeThank you | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Mr. and Mrs. Smith SyndromeAnd you pretty much have to accept that...or go MGTOW. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/16 12:00 AM |
| 3 | MRP hazard: When IDGAF becomes too realI was bitching in that post, but truthfully I have a lot of work to do. I have not lead her consistently for long enough to bitch like this. It's on me. She hasn't shown herself to be completely worthless yet, so that's not fair of me. I am fucking awesome, just probably haven't been awesome for long enough to make these complaints. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/16 10:05 PM |
| 8 | MRP hazard: When IDGAF becomes too realMan, this post hit home for me. I'm putting in all this effort to self improve (diet/exercise, spiritual growth, learn new hobbies/skills, etc.). She goes to work and comes home to drink wine, play on her phone and talk about how tired she is. Turns me off to her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | 3 little wordsGood post. Thank you. Learn the difference between "your" and "you're" brother. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/16 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Quick FR: She Doesn't Love YouAre you here just to troll? The point I brought up is a foundational belief for this community. If you are rejecting that premise then why are you here? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with people asking me to get married?Why does it matter what people say to you about this? Comments like those shouldn't have any affect on you. Laugh it off, give a wise ass response, ignore them, whatever. But stop giving so many fucks about what others think about how YOU should be living YOUR life. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Quick FR: She Doesn't Love YouShe never can truly love you. She only loves the way you make her feel. Read the TRP sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/16 11:31 AM |
| 9 | Quick FR: She Doesn't Love YouThis is something I managed to tap into myself, thank you for sharing. My wife and I are fortunate in that we enjoy the same social activities, so we do a lot together. We have an active social life with several friends where we've created this persona of being the fun couple that parties together. We don't do regular nights out apart, because we honestly enjoy letting loose and blowing off steam with each other. So I started using the moniker "Partner in Crime" or "P.I.C." to refer to her. She … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/10/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | For the first time in my life, I see the value of fancy cars in attracting womenI got a Dodge Challenger 6 months ago after years of driving shitty/boring cars. It hasn't been a magic pussy magnet, but I definitely get A LOT of comments about it. And women routinely tell me that it fits me perfectly. That can't certainly can't hurt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The MRP Bait & Switch - don't say i didn't warn you...Don't put too much stock in these mini "moral victories" though. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep non-sexual things interesting after 10+ years together?How do you keep sexual things interesting after 10+ years is the bigger issue for me. We enjoy similar activities, but after the millionth time fucking it gets kind of boring. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Wife is making me look badYou had me at "frumpy grumpy couch potato scroller." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 4 | The MRP Bait & Switch - don't say i didn't warn you...Or you stop desiring your wife once your SMV skyrockets past hers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/16 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I still have a nagging need for RecognitionYes, it would be great if people acknowledged your progress and took notice. BUT THEY WON'T. Any amount of time spent hoping, waiting or desiring that recognition is literally wasted time in your life. You are desiring something that will not receive. And even if you do receive it, it will not have this ideal epiphany moment of enlightenment and clarity for you. You will feel the same. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | tips on avoiding STD's?Abstinence | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Did reading TRP really changed you?Why is that? The MRP guys have found a balance. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | The real problem with me on r/Deadbedrooms, I waited too long.I am experiencing something similar. I've put in a lot of work. And have seen a lot of progress. But now there's this growing apathy for my SO. I have no ill will or negative feelings towards her anymore. Just fell meh towards her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/08/16 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Lifting mattersFitness and lifting is mandatory and a key component. But it's just that - a component. I was already in great shape when I discovered TRP, but I was lagging in other areas. In my experience, being a -10% muscular shredded guy will result in a certain amount of pussy falling into your lap. But that novelty wears off in long term relationships. I have been shredded most of my marriage. That didn't stop me from becoming a blue pill drunken captain. The shredded physique will not mask your other de… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Lex and Terry this morningTime inevitably makes all tingle attractions fade eventually, regardless of how "alpha" you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Best way to handle a wife's bad mood?I appreciate the stock answer. I've been lurking for WAY longer than my profile indicates. I've read most of the sidebar...I've internalized TRP and have applied it successfully to my relationship with success. It's an ongoing process though. Change doesn't happen overnight (much like lifting, bro). I am in the process of retraining her. It just gets exhausting sometimes. Sometimes I feel like the only way to win is to not play the game at all. That's where I relate with MGTOW guys. The juice ju… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Best way to handle a wife's bad mood?Ok. I'm just saying I'd prefer to not have encounter storms at all. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Best way to handle a wife's bad mood?Mine does similar shit as the OPs. I've gotten good about not letting her shitty mood affect me and ruin my evening though. I'm still going to enjoy the meal, movie, book, social interaction, etc. that is lined up for that evening. Her sulking doesn't affect my enjoyment of what I'm doing. HOWEVER... I do start to resent the fuck out of the fact that I have to live with someone who succumbs so easily to shitty negative moods. While I am capable of not letting her shitty mood affect me, I would m… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Porn with a Purpose: Experiment and DiscussionI wouldn't brag about that either bud | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Connotation to being called "bud"..?Doesn't bother me, chief. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Spinning long distance platehttps://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/ | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Porn with a Purpose: Experiment and DiscussionOh good lord. Go outside and talk to people. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Roosh V, say it is not so! My RP fantasy destroyed.I think it depends what your motivation for spinning plates is to begin with. I felt I had "missed out" in my early 20s and needed to make up for it after swallowing TRP by getting laid a lot. Once I got laid more I realized that I was looking for external validation. Once the novelty was gone, and I got a certain amount of experience under my belt, I took the pussy off the pedestal and realized how unimportant it really is. I was more obsessed with the ego challenge of knowing I could conquer a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/07/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Shame of past homosexual experiencesHate to give the textbook answer here, but keep reading the sidebar until you have fully internalized TRP concepts. That should give you insight on how to mentally approach what you are going through. We all have regrets in life. But they don't have to have any bearing on your decision making going forward. Keep reading and trust in the process. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 09:36 PM |
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