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It took my ex about 5 weeks to start texting another guy we both know him for 5 years now . we have been married for 27years it felt like the marriage meant nothing to her if she can do that so quickly . But i have found out what my ex is really like now . She has completely turned against me in the beginning she said everything 50/50 and be civil she won't even talk to me i have to send her emails which she doesn't answer. But i find that some people have no morals or even can't wait till we ar…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 07:42 PM
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It is good that you have reached out. It is a step in the right direction. I am 8 weeks in now since my stbx said she wanted a divorce. And I had the same as you depression, anxiety, panic attacks. I was at the bottom. I also thought that I was alone and had to go through this alone and that I would never be able to move on and thought I would die alone and in poverty. Here is my list of what I did to help myself Went to the doctors and got therapy. Told some of work colleagues about what is goi…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 09:31 PM
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The trouble is I have no hard evidence to prove it and how i found out is not exactly between the lines . Also I think my stbx instigated it
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 07:28 PM
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Yeah he was both our physio for 5 years and my last appointment was last Thursday with him . Then I found out on the Saturday what they have been planning. I thought about reporting him to his physio ethics committee to get him struck off and he has a girlfriend i thought about finding her and telling her what's going on . But I talked to people and they said don't do it what's the point it will only bring you more pain. I have cancelled all my appointments with him and not going back.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 05:41 PM
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Exactly what I wanted to say Exactly the same situation as me and my ex but mine only waited 7 weeks before going off with someone else after our separation
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 11:39 AM
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I am at the same stage been married for 27years and she said we still could be civil. It started off like that but has slowly got worse where she won't talk to me or even look at me and i know she will turn on me and i will need to get a lawyer to protect myself. She has moved on and I have not but I am trying to . I need to disconnect from her and show her that I dont need her and moved on. All this is easy to say but doing it is really hard and you will have some hard days. But take it step by…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 03:15 PM
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I have been married for 27 years just starting the divorce. I get on good with my inlaws I saw them as my 2nd parents. Now this has happened they said they will be there for me and I can talk to them . We only talk by text now and when they ask how I am I say not so good they change the subject. So from now I just keep it polite and say I am fine how are you . Also I know that my ex is there daughter and there loyalties will lie with her . But I think in the future the contact will stop all toge…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 02:02 PM
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Thanks for the advice you helped me gets some things in my head into place . The bit about calling her my wife really hit home with me thank you
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 08:03 PM
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Maybe ask her what the loan is for and if it is for the kids and she needs to buy them something then maybe you can buy it for them . But I would not give her the money she already gets enough from but if it for your kids that is a different story and only if you can afford it
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 07:02 PM
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I am in a similar situation to you . Me and my ex wife don't really talk be when we do we keep it polite . She does her thing and I do mine .we still need to have the talk about the house if she can afford to buy me out ( as she earns more money than me ) or we are going to sell. Or as she said she gives me what she can and then gives me more later when she sells the house. But for me the house has turned into a prison. So either she buys me out or we sell so I can move on . So I can heal. In my…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 07:04 PM
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I am in the same boat living with my ex . I think you need to. Start making plans to leave explore all your options so she can not take you for everything so it is done fairly. I have found that living together has turned the house into a prison, she has moved on and you have not yet . And how can you heal if you see her everyday, with all your thoughts and feelings. As for the kids I know it is difficult to leave and you want to be the best dad you can be and provide for them . You have a right…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 10:08 AM
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I know exactly how you feel I am at the same stage as you pretty much same situation. The logical part of my brain knows it's over but . The other part wants it to work and I think if I do this and do that we will get back together. But I am just kidding myself and torturing myself and i am getting sick of it . I just want to move on but I can't. People say it will get better with time, but at this moment it doesn't seem like it will happen anytime soon. I just want somebody to tell me what to d…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 07:04 PM
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