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You honestly don’t need to do a frontal stop if you are going indirect with questions. It would be kind of weird if you did so lol Let me put it this way. I’ve never had anyone not stop when I asked for directions since it’s common courtesy to respond.
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:03 AM
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Well in this case I would keep the communication to a minimum until you meet up. There is no point in telling her anything if you are stuck in a lockdown. All this will do is cause you two to talk too much over chat. Once the lockdown is over and you two can meet in person then spill the beans.
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:53 PM
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I mean how do you not know when you will meet her again irl?
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:49 PM
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Well, if you can't do it in person soon then go ahead and do it by chat. But in these types of situations it is best to go in person.
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:46 PM
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Well ok you have a decent chance since it's not that long. I recommend the next time you talk that you let her know you think she is cute and whatever else trait that makes her worthwhile in your eyes. Then move to setting up a time to going out sometime. If she is willing to go out with you, then you will have to move to being a bit more romantic and not just being friendly otherwise you will end up being a brother to her or worst. Also, do NOT make this invite over chat. You should be talking …
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:40 PM
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Well you have a thorny issue. Do you want to keep her as friends or risk it? Because depending on how long you have been friends with her it's quite possible you have been friend zoned. That being said, have you guys gone out as friends already? If you have then your chances are low to changing this into a romantic relationship. Not impossible, but it's terribly slim.
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:22 PM
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The guy has internal issues because of rejections, but he needs to understand women don't view guys as ugly the same way. Hell, they don't even care about looks as much. Kevin Hart is ugly as well. Reminds me of a pygmy from Ace Ventura Pet Detective, but it doesn't matter because he is a funny and confident sob. Women will overlook your physical shortcomings IF you have other traits that can override it.
/r/seduction23/10/20 08:02 PM
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Once they have answered your question you just transition: you look really cute. What's your name? Doesn't have to be complicated. You just need to let her know that you are approaching her for more than just a question. You can do any sorts of variation of this and proceed from there.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:59 PM
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You are not ugly. You just might not be someones cup of tea. You can improve yourself in other ways including how you dress, body language etc. Yeah, not being the ideal look makes it hard, but there are a ton of short guys with nice taller women. It just requires more effort to find them which plays into the numbers game. There are tons of videos on youtube of guys that are just god awful from a male perspective looks wise and they still succeed. I don't want to mention this ugly South Asian th…
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:52 PM
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Well it seems like you are dead set on this type of thinking. Nothing more to say.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:44 PM
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You need to put yourself where you can interact with people that isn't at work. Try meetups. I'm avoiding work since you seem to interact with those people just fine. Also, a lot of this is mental. At least you recognize your issue so you can work on it. Women don't view guys the same way guys do with women. They care more for your personality and body language etc then just looks most of the time. You are as good as anyone so don't let anyone put you down whether it's you taking pictures, getti…
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:42 PM
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Buddy, then there is something going on with your body language. You need to record your interaction so I can see what is going on, but I can almost assure you that you are doing something unconsciously to turn them off.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:37 PM
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You just solved your problem. Screw going direct and create a context for doing so. You just need a go to option for default. For example, asking people for directions NEVER hurts. Not sure why you feel the need to go direct when going indirect has worked. Don't reinvent the wheel. Also, good job for attempting!
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:36 PM
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What you said is just fine. It's how you say it that counts. If you come off creepy, fidgety, nervous etc then no matter what you say it will scare her off.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:17 PM
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If this is Tinder or online dating then you need to avoid these types of questions that blow you out of the water. Women are much more forgiving in person in general, but not all of course.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:16 PM
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Ok that's a decent number. No need to worry because at least you are cognizant of the situation so that's the first step on the road to improvement. There's a billion women available, so missing out on 50 is just meh.
/r/seduction10/10/20 04:30 AM
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How many women have you met? If you have met 100 and they have no interest in you then you got a problem, but if you have only met 5...well that sample is too tiny. Need more specifics.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:05 PM
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Well I don't have them, but to protect the other guys make sure to find out how many guys the girl you have gone out with. Also, please use protection....I don't think it gets enough attention and is really the only way to protect yourself other than abstaining.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:01 PM
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Good effort for talking to her. Although it was a good gesture to give her your number, it's best to get her number. Remember, girls will see you differently if they give you her number vs her facebook, but hell in this case it's better than nothing.
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:28 PM
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Lack of abundance in socializing is the problem. It's like anything in life. If you don't get it regularly then you will experience extremes which is causing this uncomfortable feeling. You will have to push yourself to have more interactions to make it the norm or at least until you become desensitized to it. You want to get to the point that it's just another interaction that you can enjoy rather than then this epic event that just happened. I'll give you a perfect example. You enjoy fitness s…
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:25 PM
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What she is really saying is your approach didn't work. More than likely it was a combination of body language and maybe she was having a bad day. Do not let one woman speak for all others. You realize there are tons more out there right and they are NOT the same. That being said, until we all become anti social, people in general will always welcome approach from others. We are social creatures. Also, why are you allowing your mind to be polluted from foolish thoughts about not approaching them…
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:17 PM
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The main issue is that you are asking too many questions on chat. You really only need to find out her interests and availability and set something up from there. Get her to come out with you and you will not have this issue. She has a ton of people constantly messaging her and unless you are someone important (you are just another guy trying to message her) then you will get no priority in response. Girls act way differently in person then on chat because let's face it the constant distractions…
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:11 PM
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Always do it in person.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:48 PM
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She is probably bsing you about the contract. If it was true that she was interested in you then that shouldn't have mattered. However, if she is truly a stickler for rules, then rip up the contract and ask her again. That will get you the real answer really quick.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:20 PM
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Distract your mind whenever those things come along. It seems like you are not busy enough so that you have time to think about it. If you truly are on the way to improving then you are already way ahead of the game.
/r/seduction06/10/20 07:24 PM
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Lol. It's very rare for girls to chase you and it's usually the ones that you don't want chasing you. I have experienced this as well, but that's just how the world works unfortunately. The ones you want have so many to choose from that they never have to use an ounce of energy.
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:00 PM
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Congrats on having women chasing you.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:39 PM
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Good luck getting women to chase you. You are going to need it. It's just not in their nature because there's a zillion guys always hitting on her. Why should she spend one second pursuing a guy? Not saying it's right because it would feel nice for them to chase, but that's just a fantasy in our minds. I suggest looking up youtube experiments where guys create a tinder profile with a girl pic and look what happens in just minutes.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:04 PM
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Like I said how she is treating you says it all. You mention financial support. Are you implying you are supporting her? If so, what is she providing in return? If it’s a one way street then yeah I can see why you are having doubts. However, if she is treating you with common courtesy and respect then it’s all in your head. I think we need a more full story because something is obviously triggering this thinking. Did something happen or was it a series of events etc?
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:54 PM
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Overthinking it buddy. If she is treating you with respect then that is all that matters. Don’t let all this value talk psyche you out because this is all in your head. That being said, I feel there is much more to this then you are letting on. People don’t just randomly on the whim think about being disloyal.
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:25 PM
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Can't assume she digs you. However, she gave you an excuse to talk to her. Find out.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:09 PM
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I never said being an emotional wreck for having feelings. What human being doesn't have feelings? If you read it carefully you would see I said talking about your feelings to the woman is a terrible idea. If you need to talk about your feelings then talk to your guy friends or girls who have friend zoned you because they will never see you sexually attractive. Remember, this thread is about improving your dating life and talking to girls and sharing your feelings is one quick way to turn yourse…
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:40 PM
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Honestly, the reason you are approaching is to find a woman that fits your needs. When you do that you can avoid following this and other checklists. Because if you are just trying to meet any girl and they don't fit your requirements then you are going to end up in a nightmare. This is why these checklists from women and those magazines are so popular. They seem so logical, but this is not how the real world operates. Here's a few examples. She says don't play games. Seriously? There are going …
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:00 PM
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Don't make it complicated. You could say almost anything as long as it doesn't come off strange. For example: My dog seems to really like you. What's your name? Don't need any cheesy lines or anything over the top because you already have an excuse to talk to her.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:56 PM
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Good lord. This is why you need to be in the field. If you could just sit at home typing about dating stuff then nobody would have any problems. This is something that needs practice in the field and nothing virtual will ever replace that.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:47 PM
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Yeah well good luck thinking you can get any. Usually, girls that have used you for their emotional needs see you as a brother. Unless she is from the South, messing with your brother is a no no.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:59 AM
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You are probably friend zoned. The fact you are even listening to their complaints tells me you are probably their emotional tampon when their boyfriends don't provide what they need. It won't end well in these types of situations. So if you are willing to risk this friendship then go ahead and try. I won't be suggesting any tips on these scenarios because usually it's a high failure rate for every one that succeeds.
/r/seduction05/10/20 04:55 AM
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It's only weird if you make it weird. Girls usually depend on you to lead so don't give her any reason to be weirded out.
/r/seduction04/10/20 07:26 PM
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Well there is no comfort. Small talk is nice, but there is no connection between you two. I also would not bother asking about the boyfriend. If she had a boyfriend she would definitely let you know about it. I would try to find out about her interests or hell let her know about one of your interests and you can go hang out that way. Set up a time and place and then ask her if she has a number you can reach her at. I would skip out on the part about no pressure on the going out part. Not sure wh…
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:24 AM
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You are talking way too much. If you have controversial beliefs keep them to yourself. Honestly, anyone here reading that would ghost you. Are you looking for the woman of your dreams or are you trying to conduct a lecture?
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:33 AM
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It’s honestly hard to tell you what you need to do unless I can see what you are doing. I can guarantee you that you are doing something off putting that is causing 65 girls to reject you. Now, I do give you props for at least approaching that much because putting yourself out there is important in improvement. That being said, I need more details about an incident or two.
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:16 AM
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Being confident means don't worry and over think things. I'm sure you have watched James Bonds movies and if you haven't go watch one.
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:08 PM
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You couldn't tell if she wasn't crazy over the conversations you two had?
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:04 PM
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Honestly, you are not a pussy. You are just not used to it. It's like anything in life, you cannot expect to become good by not practicing. Also, for something like this it is not easy when you are doing this by yourself. Having someone that can push you will help you get over that ledge to make progress.
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:16 PM
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