Minute_Sign Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	"b-but I'm homeless king" That’s why you never date potential. Either they never live up to their potential and you’re stuck or they do live up their potential and then proceed to leave you because the foundation of the relationship changes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 12:14 PM
76	questions my entire childhood That’s just extra dumb because Peter Pan never even ends up with Tink. Peter literally ignores the Pickme to be with ‘joyless, humorless, mothering’ Wendy. It’s almost as if being true to yourself and putting the things you value ahead of a random dude works out better in the end!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 08:28 AM
33	Newly-separated Scrote creeps on female FB friends, throws mantrum when they don't respond The only way this could have been better is if everyone ignored the idiot and his post got lost in the abyss. Why is it so hard to understand that people don’t want to be contacted about dating on non-dating platforms?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 08:21 AM
37	Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls? Adding to the biology bs, men like to ignore the fact that biology would go both ways?! Women would also be solely going for men in their prime especially if they themselves are in their prime. I mean there is no reason a 18 year old girl would ever be interested in an older man past his prime if ‘biology’ was the end all be all. If men want to argue that women don’t care about age/biology and that we care more about ‘status’ and ‘stability’ then they are just outing themselves for being animali…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 12:16 PM
14	I caught my husband watching porn and kicked him out This is a blessing in disguise. There is absolutely no reason to be with a partner who adds nothing to your life. The porn is just the cherry on top of this pile of shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 07:55 AM
11	FDS approved TV-shows? Really love Tuca and Bertie! Highly recommend it if you like animation that actually focuses on fleshed out female characters for once! Edit: If you like *adult animation. Honestly I’m pretty happy about the current state of children’s animation. You have no idea how much it would of meant to child me to have female protagonists in animation growing up. I’m so happy my nieces have the opportunity to grow up with better representation in media!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 11:27 AM
101	LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior. They don’t see women as people, it’s as simple as that. They hate the fact that we are autonomous and have the ability to make our own decisions so much that they will drag us through the dirt no matter what we do. That’s why FDS teaches us to put ourselves first and not bend to the fickle wants of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 11:23 AM
64	Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this... I’m just surprised he made it this far! Unless he did a complete 180 after babytrapping her there had to be signs or something during the dating period? Either way she needs to dump him. I mean at least that way it will hopefully be 50/50 and she gets the added benefit of not having to deal with him anymore!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 11:15 AM
395	I absolutely love reading stories like this. Like what do you expect the outcome to be? I mean look at that age gap! I’m pretty sure the only reason he was even able convince her to give him a chance was because she was young and inexperienced.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 11:42 AM
16	Bruh This is the second time I heard of something like this. Do men really think like this?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 05:47 AM
27	Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's Joker It’s sad how the opposite is usually true for neuro divergent women who end up being forced to fit into society.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 05:41 AM
137	Pickmeisha in Training: Very Sad Report this. There’s a good possibility this is some form of child trafficking. 13-year-olds don’t usually talk like that and the whole thing just gives me vibes it was set up by a 3rd party Edit: Also don’t call literal children Pickmes or Pickmes in Training. They are way too young to understand what they are even doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 05:22 AM
23	A Little Comedy from the Next Generation of FDSers The new generation gives me hope. I’m so happy they’re going to be better than we ever were.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/21 03:14 PM
17	Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras! Don’t be silly, there’s the 1% chance he was just trying to murder you! /s Seriously though I’m glad you got away from that creep!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 10:27 PM
54	“Build a man” 🤡🤡🤡 That’s why it’s better to wait at the finish line and work on yourself than be the cheerleader for a guy who will dump you the second he finishes his race.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 10:23 PM
45	Financial Abuse Stories like this just remind me of why cops should be avoided like the plague. I’m so sorry you had to go through this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 09:26 AM
66	Boundaries in bed I wish there was a better way to name and shame people like that so other women can avoid them like the plague.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 09:21 AM
81	Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game. SW will never be empowering but as long as it continues to exist we need to do everything in our power to protect the people in SW. This means we need to shut down and severely punish sites like OF which knowingly allow such things as sex trafficking and CP on their sites!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 09:18 AM
135	Horrified at the scrotes in the comments defending this POS, and the pickmes trying to make him feel better about doing a runner, leaving his girlfriend and her 7yo nephew at the site during an active shooter attack. Oh no his poor reputation! How will he ever survive! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 08:54 AM
69	Scrotes Rushing into every thread about r/MGTOW being banned to bring up Female Dating Strategy People complain about women on FDS having standards while men on places like MGTOW literally call for violence against women. We have every right to demand effort for our time, there is no reason for us to justify it. If men don’t want to put in that effort they can move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 02:00 PM
14	Western Desi women marrying men from "back home" If you claim to be an Oxford Student not being fluent in English is a major red flag!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/21 06:39 PM
18	Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments. It would be ok if verified dads were promoting the ‘dad-bod’ but it’s lazy 20 some year olds with beer bellies who claim the title!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 04:11 PM
38	Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments. Addendum to hypothesis: Men will continue to refuse to ‘settle down’ and continue to act like children as long as society lets them. Normalizing the ‘dad bod’ and age gaps just lets men prey on younger women longer	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 02:40 PM
2	This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠 You learn a lot about a man by the company he keeps. This woman needs to watch her back if this is the kind of friends her boyfriend has...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 01:46 PM
3	fr. She always builds a man up for another woman when she could have better spent that time on herself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 01:42 PM
32	If he wanted to, he would Hold men to this standard and they will. Either that or they’ll weed themselves out and stop wasting your time!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 01:39 PM
54	Loyalty through cruelty is not ride or die. One of two things happen when you ‘ride or die’ with a poor man. 1) He remains poor and you have to support him for the rest of your life or 2) He breaks out of poverty and dumps you first chance he gets. Do not ‘build-a-man’, save that energy for yourself and for your children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 01:36 PM
50	Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently. That sounds painful tbh! This sounds like a teenage boy or someone with zero experience with women trying to figure out what women want!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 10:16 AM
84	The guy is 55!!! 🤢 That’s why you should only make sacrifices for yourself and for your children. At the end of the day you are the only person that will stick with yourself until the day you die.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 12:23 PM
11	Accountability for Pickmeisha actions I would argue that Pickme’s don’t actually attract any men. LVM and NVM don’t even see pickme’s as relationship material, they see them as resources to take advantage of until something better comes by. I really hope this doesn’t come off as victim blaming but you can’t expect other people to respect you if you don’t even respect yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 11:07 AM
73	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. Glad he’s beyond hope. The less people like him that spread their genes the better	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 10:58 AM
59	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. Or the parents want their precious piss baby to break up with her. Heck my parents would have ordered a big meal for everyone or paid for the whole table after the first incident rather than let someone starve!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 10:56 AM
184	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. How can you supposedly love someone and still let them starve? I would even buy a casual acquaintance food if we ate together and it looked like they couldn’t afford things. Like how callous do you have to be to eat in front of someone who was starving and do nothing about it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 10:48 AM
39	When the most basic requirement is exhausting. Oh no it’s so difficult to show even an ounce of affection to the person I supposedly love! Of course I fully expect them to cater to my every want and need!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 11:32 AM
131	That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that. It is a luxury. At the same time women who chose to provide this luxury need to always remember how dangerous this line of work is. You are giving up your time and youth to someone who can take almost everything away in a heartbeat. Vet carefully and always have back up plan if anything goes wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 11:27 AM
89	Old school pick-me's... sabotaging their sisters since time immemorial Yes, I would love to gather by the fireside with you after you beat be black and blue for getting your dinner wrong! It’s as if old school pick-me’s conveniently forgot how much abuse women had to go through back when they had no rights!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 11:25 AM
14	Do you guys speak out openly about FDS principles and feminism? Exactly! If a man expects a housewife he better play the role of provider! Instead libfems want us to help shoulder the responsibility of being a provider but still be responsible for our old roles as housewives! Modern men have no idea how easy they have it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 11:10 AM
1	LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡 I would kill for a cushy 9-5 office job that could support my family of 4 and have walking my dog and playing with my kids be the only daily ‘chores’ I was responsible for!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 11:07 AM
50	Do you guys speak out openly about FDS principles and feminism? I don’t understand why most of the women I talk to have the biggest issue about men paying for dates. It’s as if they believe they don’t deserve anything better than the bare minimum. Seriously, these are women who in past relationships took over 100% of the housework and still paid for 50% of all expenses! Like sis, if he can’t throw down $20 for some cheap food for you then you’re highly undervaluing yourself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 10:37 AM
40	Gross! 🤮 This is why I do my best to get female doctors if possible. They actually listen to my symptoms instead of just dismissing them unlike most male doctors I’ve encountered.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 06:14 AM
66	Minnesota Supreme Court rules that man cannot be charged with felony r*pe because victim was “voluntarily intoxicated” Great so now if we accept drinks it’s ‘our fault for what happens to us’ and if we refuse drinks we ‘deserve’ to be harassed by ‘well meaning’ men who ‘just wanted to be nice’. Lose/lose situation as always	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 06:11 AM
78	this is such perfect advice. a man who loves you will never play games with you or your feelings, because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. if you’re starting to question your relationship, it’s time to go. If a guy likes you you’ll know he likes you. If he wants to marry you you’ll also know he wants to marry you. Don’t be a forever girlfriends to a LVM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 05:54 AM
21	Wholeheartedly agree! Stay safe out there everyone. Teach girls to prioritize themselves over others period. Self-care is not selfish!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 01:18 PM
85	The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour. ‘You need to step up your game to be worth my time’ Seriously kudos to her for recognizing abusive behavior like that right off the start!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 01:15 PM
66	I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women. I mean I’m pretty sure the men enjoy themselves a lot more than the women they’re jackhammering and essentially using as a fleshlight. Women gain absolutely nothing from hookup culture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 01:12 PM
5	On Raising men.... My school had a rule skirts had to be below your fingertips and I remember having to go to the nurses office once to change because my skirt was slightly too short after my latest growth spurt. I was late for my class because of it but the school didn’t care that the stupid rule was affecting my education. I guess making sure the boys weren’t distracted by my legs was waayyy more important that me missing class. The funniest part is that about a month earlier I got to spend time trying calm my f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 01:07 AM
188	Nothing but facts What they lack in life skills they more than make up in with being able to pervert feminist ideology to work for their own wants. Vet carefully	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 05:41 PM
120	they literally think in porn categories 🙄 Proof porn rots your brain	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 05:09 PM
14	If dating apps aren't working for you and you don't feel like you'll ever be enough, read this. Boundaries and luck. One of the most important parts of OLD is harshly filtering out people who don’t meet your standards and not wasting any time with them. Unfortunately a lot of women have a hard time of getting over the whole “just give him a chance, you can fix him!” mentality that has been hammered into them since birth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 04:08 PM
12	Yo?? They think it makes them seem young. Like I know you are 50+ so just act your age and stop making a fool of yourself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 03:59 PM
113	On Raising men.... I don’t just blame parents, I blame society as a whole. Men are allowed to get away with so much because of the world we live in. I mean for fucks sake girls are sent home from school because their exposed shoulders might distract the boys but boys literally get away with sexually harassing girls at school.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 03:30 PM
54	Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't. Society infantilizes men when it’s convenient for the men. There is absolutely no reason a man can’t use the ‘superior intellect’ that they are so proud of to figure out what needs to be done and do it instead of wait around for their partner to tell them what needs to be done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 03:26 PM
1	I feel so bad for her... his penis is more important than her boundaries. I mean it sounds like the husband doesn’t know how to do PiV correctly if he’s hurting her half the time... Also sexual compatibility is hard to tell when men get lazy after exclusivity/marriage. I know so many married women who have lost all sexual interest in their lvm after they get stuck doing all the household chores while working a full time job.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 02:34 PM
4	When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments: Lol combine that with his ED riddled noodle dick and you have a snowballs chance in hell of conceiving a kid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 01:49 PM
21	fEmALe pRiviLeGeS... MATRIARCHYYYY 😡 Lol ‘forced child support’. Child support is such a joke, it’s barely enough to help raise a child and that’s assuming the scrotes actually pay.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 03:35 PM
17	fEmALe pRiviLeGeS... MATRIARCHYYYY 😡 Matriarchy=‘holy shit women can take care of themselves now and don’t need me crusty ass to survive! It’s unfairrrrrr!’	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 03:32 PM
12	My shopping haul from today, featuring my two cat sons (left cat has been known to attack guys I date when they don't respect his boundaries or he gets a bad vibe from them). I've been single for 2 months now after dating an LVM and I'm spoiling and treating myself in ways he never did! They’re so cute!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 03:29 PM
41	Nah, sis Screw his feelings! If a guy can’t get you off he needs to work on it instead of pulling the whole ‘woe is me’ card!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 03:25 PM
21	This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this? And I agree sex can be an expression of love but saying SEX is a human need is wrong and dangerously misleading. It is like saying cake is a human need since cake is food and food is a human need.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 07:32 PM
123	LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK. See that’s what I don’t get about men. If they just want assisted masturbation why not just go out there and buy some toys? Like why drag another human being into your bs? The thought of having sex with someone who wouldn’t enjoy it just repulses me so I really don’t get why anyone would want to do it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 07:00 PM
36	This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this? Love and affection are needs but sex isn’t. Sex is sex and I’m tired of scrotes claiming it is a human need and coercing women who don’t know better into having sex with them because men ‘need’ sex and can’t ‘survive’ without it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 06:56 PM
62	The audacity 🤦🏻‍♀️ Girls must be falling over themselves trying to get a piece of that good personality /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 06:53 PM
208	LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK. Really wish guys like this would just go and buy themselves a sex doll and leave women alone...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 06:50 PM
47	This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this? When will they get it through their thick skulls that sex is NOT a basic human need. Do they really think that they are going to die if their limp little dick doesn’t get wet?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 06:48 PM
589	LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK. What kind of sick monster pushes their SO into having sex after they told them they were feeling ill? She was obviously not going to enjoy the experience in her condition so what was the point of pushing her into saying yes? I only see one disgusting pig in this relationship and it’s not the wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 06:32 PM
70	Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the comments Titles like this are part of the problem of why there is so much pressure on women to marry. The sad fact is men tend to benefit more in marriage (with married men often living longer healthier lives than unmarried men while the opposite is true for women) but society tries to push women into thinking that they need to get married. This title is unnecessarily trying to push this bias by singling out women as being the party being hurt by the actions of these broke men when in reality it affects …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 05:06 PM
133	Any man who aspires to be a “house husband” (even joking) is LVM If someone wants to be a “house husband” they better earn that title! Cook, clean and maintain the household while we’re dating/both working and then we’ll talk if we ever become financially able to afford for you to stay home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:41 PM
206	Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the comments I love how the title treats this like a bad thing for women... Broke men are hurting their own marriage prospects. Women are doing just fine taking care of themselves and living their own lives.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:21 PM
26	Talking of low bars, you might want to look in the mirror sis Who just throws dirty underwear on the floor?! How much effort does it take to walk over to a hamper and not act like a literal child?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:18 PM
272	Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effort Lingerie as a gift is always a red flag. It shows how selfish and thoughtless the buyer is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:15 PM
37	She said what she said. What's crazy is men will have a problem with this tweet not realizing that it's a reality lived by their mothers, sisters, and girlfriends, but the irony is lost on them. Even if she doesn’t work more than him why is she expected to keep up with all the housework? If your partner is not home and dinner time is approaching why wouldn’t you simply start planning/cooking something, out of the love you have for your partner, so you both have something to eat for dinner?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 04:06 PM
47	"WhAt dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe????" Everything else, moron. Lol! Lol men acting like we live in the 60s where they were the sole breadwinner. What do men even bring to the table anymore? I mean I can earn a living myself and buy my own place now. Heck I can even easily have children by myself if I so desire! Why would I want to date a scrote and clean up after them if they add absolutely nothing to my life? Taking the financial stress is the least they could do considering I’m probably the one who is going to be saddled with ALL the household stress and famil…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 03:53 PM
14	Kelly Stamps video on a date who “forgot” his wallet at a dinner, forcibly followed her home, Venmo’d her back the next day, and then requested half back when he realized there wouldn’t be a date 2 I’m glad she paid for him only because the guy sounds unstable enough to hurt her if things went differently. This video shows how important it is to vet a guy before even thinking about meeting up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 03:42 PM
104	An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂 Didn’t you know, men don’t mature after 15! No wonder his ex left him. I just love how he tried to argue after they asked him to leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 12:28 AM
14	I know I'm probably late to the party but my friend and I finally learned that being a HVM has ZERO correlation with someone's education, career, statue etc. Message the other girl, she deserves to know before she does something that ruins her life. Send her screenshots as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 02:44 PM
77	How extreme porn has become a gateway drug into child abuse I wanted to post that men are so stupid that they can’t tell the difference between reality and fantasy but it’s a lot more insidious than that. Men know exactly what they are doing. They purposely use porn and general media to to normalize their sick fantasies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 02:26 PM
62	If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older. ‘Dom’ is just a buzzword LVM use because they know they bring nothing to the table but their shitty personality. LVM think women just want ‘dom’ partners because of the popularity of books like 50 shades but they fail to realize the ‘dom’ in that story had a lot more going for him than just being ‘dom’	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 02:07 PM
4	Can men still be HVM after cheating? No. Your dad can be a loving father but he isn't a HVM when it comes to being in a relationship. Cheaters can never be HV because of the risk they pose in a relationship. They can still have their moments of kindness but it is best to avoid a known cheater for a potential relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 07:57 AM
16	Girl dating scrote 12 years her senior has him begging to fuck other girls while telling her he wants a monogamous relationship. She feels guilty for feeling uncomfortable 🙄 It's because they are brainwashed by a society that tells them they don't deserve better. If a woman wants to date someone that is financially secure they are a gold digger, if they want to date someone who is good looking they are shallow, and if they just want to find someone who they get along with and can actually stand to be around they are being too picky! That's why places like FDS are so important, they teach women that they have a right to choose exactly what they want in a relationship…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 07:48 AM
25	Sex worker admits she gets 3 rape or death threats a day, men constantly trying to low ball her services and demand things for free, as well as sexist and ableist slurs. This is the daily reality of sex work LibFem media keeps trying to sell to young women as “empowerment”. Pickmes take note, never listen to what men say they want, rather, listen to their actions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 01:13 AM
8	I just realized why children are so under valued in society. Children are definitely valued in society. I mean just look at the praise mediocre men get for gasp actually taking care of their offspring! There are literal videos praising men for doing simple tasks such as combing their child's hair. Single fathers are praised for their 'bravery' while single mothers are often looked down upon. So no, children aren't under valued in society- women are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 01:09 AM
38	Why is it that the uglier, poorer, less desirable a man is, the shittier he will treat you in the end? Undesirable men know that they are undesirable. That's why, when you lower yourself or their standards, they think there must be something wrong with you and thus treat you like shit. If you sleep with dogs you get fleas.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 10:06 AM
5	LVM caught in the wild. When I saw the title on the sub I really thought it was going to be about a lesbian couple where both parties were pregnant. I mean that's the only way someone could even consider themselves not being the asshole while asking that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/20 07:26 AM
13	Why do men always keep ghosting me without a answer? There are a lot of guys just going on dating sites looking for validation due to the quarantine. I wouldn't take it personally and just move on. Also, if you aren't doing so already, don't put too much effort into online dating until actually meeting up in person. I know the quarantine makes meeting up a lot more difficult but it's really hard to vet someone over the Internet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 12:12 PM
45	Commercial Surrogacy: Gay Scrotes and rich libfems exploiting poor women and calling it “empowerment”. There is a reason why you aren't allowed to sell your organs- it's to protect people from being taken advantage of. Then again it's not surprising the people in power don't care when it's only the lives and rights of women on the line...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 12:04 PM
9	Why some women are advised to never build with men: the minute they get something, all of a sudden they’re too good for you, you’re an entitled brat, and a gold digger!! The only people in life you should ever build are yourself and your children. A HVM will be able to build himself up without you needing to help them so focus on building yourself up and letting him do his thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 11:56 AM
10	Parents and enmeshment, mama's boys versus girls relationships to father's and dating marriage, wondering what people's thoughts are? Asking your parents/siblings/friends to vet your partner is fine. It just means you want a outside perspective on your relationship. Being so enmeshed with your parents/siblings/friends to the point that they control every aspect of your life is not fine and is deeply worrisome. The problem with mama's boys is that their mother is so entrenched in every aspect of their life to the point you are essentially just the third wheel in their pseudoincestious relationship. Don't be the other women espe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 07:49 AM
15	Let’s talk about the idea of women being “intimidating.” This is a great lesson to learn early, be wary about asking guys out. Even if the guy says yes you have set the stage for the rest of the relationship and he will never truly see you as valuable as he would have if he asked you out. Dick is abundant so don't lower yourself and grovel at a mans feet for a date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 08:33 AM
41	Reading the comments on this post made me sick to my stomach with all the “cool girls” coming out of the woodwork and men bitching about how they have it so rough to show basic respect 🤢 I don't hate 'cool girls', it's a phase we all have to go thru. What I do hate is the media that constantly tells us that this is how we need to act to be accepted. I hope one day this girl sees the light and breaks out of this awful phase before it's too late.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 08:15 AM
267	LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insane He wanted to hurt her and feel power over her. He didn't care about giving her the money he just wanted to know that he still had the ability to completely break her if he wanted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 08:12 AM
23	What are critical expectations to set early on? E.g. The most high value way to respond when a man suggests a coffee date instead of a real date etc. "Aww I love grabbing coffee with friends! Lemme ask if [friend's name] is free so we can grab some together!" If he insinuates the coffee request was a date then say "Idk grabbing coffee isn't really a date :/"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 10:12 AM
27	Every valentine’s I’ve said “I don’t care” about the occasion trying to be the cool girlfriend. Don’t we all deserve to be spoilt though? I genuinely dislike going out on Valentine's Day because places are just crowded and I find the overall experience stressful. I 100% do expect to be spoiled on valentines weekend though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 08:08 AM
16	Has any dude that says he “speaks sarcasm” ever turned out to be HV? Can a sarcastic person be HV? Yes. Can someone who has to point out that they 'speak sarcasm' be HV? Probably not, what a dumb thing to point out. The only reason I can see someone adding that to their profile is so that they can appear edgy. It reeks of immaturity and is a red flag if I ever saw one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 06:58 AM
35	Men won’t think twice about lying to you. Ugh there should be a soft rule about never having unprotected sex with someone who we aren't trying to conceive a child with. The risk is too great and it's not like we really gain anything from it aside from stress and possible STDs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 06:51 AM
57	Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in. The Pickmes that don't understand why doing stuff like this is dumb need to realize that they will still get men even if they don't degrade themselves to this level and instead actually ask for what they want. In fact you will get better men who actually want to put effort into the relationship if you respect yourself and insist on real dates with real investment. Women who ask for the bare minimum will get the bare minimum and nothing more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 06:46 AM
38	"Men marry who they want, women marry who they can." ?? Yes and no. It's a sex market for women only if that's what you are looking for. Most HVM approach the dating scene looking for partners whereas LVM approach looking just for sex. If you approach the dating market looking only for a relationship and choose not to settle for less you will eventually be able to find a worthy partner. This is why FDS is so important. Most women don't realize how much power they actually hold. We are the gatekeepers to relationships, we choose who we want to spend o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 08:58 AM
71	"Men marry who they want, women marry who they can." ?? That is only half of the saying. The other half is "woman date who they want, men date who they can". This just shows the importance of filtering out LVM who won't commit when you start the dating process.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 08:12 AM
3	FDS says no sex before marriage to get him to commit, but what if I want sex? No sex before they commit. That can mean marriage for some or just officially announcing you are a couple for others. The reason this is a rule is so you don't put yourself into a dangerous situation for a LVM who just wants to sleep with you and then ghost you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 10:52 AM
26	Ladies, men will DATE you and become your SO because you have low self-esteem, and will LEAVE you because you have low self-esteem!! "he will leave you because you have low self esteem" Honestly you are lucky if he does actually cut you loose because of your low self esteem. Most of these men will just continue to string you along and use you because you are so easy. They'll probably never actually commit but they'll be happy to have a fuckmaid around while they search for another woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 10:43 AM
4	My (22F) boyfriend (43M) doesn't want to introduce me to his daughters (10 and 8) and ignores our baby (I'm 26 weeks pregnant) Even if the younger person was 30 the age gap would gross me out. If your SO is old enough to be your parent then there are going to be some very messed up power dynamics going on in your relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 07:40 AM
52	Protect men! From...checks notes...single mothers? Single dads with a kid(s) should be a deal breaker for most people. It usually means that this jerk has already ruined some other poor woman's life and will probably do the same to you. Widowers obviously excluded unless they are just looking for a stepmother because they don't want to take care of their kid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 07:33 AM
67	When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town. "I was looking for a lil more than just a coffee tbh" Oh cool! Why won't you take me to 'nice restaurant' and we can enjoy some dinner together? Your treat! Seriously though coffee isn't a date, it's a way for LVM to feel obligated to your time without putting any effort in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 07:26 AM
10	In response to r/BlackPeopleTwitter praising men getting sex without taking women out on dates/belittling women who want more than coffee & soda dates. The male view on women who are male Twitter's ideal woman (one who doesn't expect anything or have standards), straight from the horse's mouth. A lot of people. This jerk will spin some tale about how their pickme ex was 'crazy' and how you are his soulmate! He'll probably even change his attitude completely around and maybe even act like a HVM for the woman he actually wants to be with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 09:19 AM
14	In response to r/BlackPeopleTwitter praising men getting sex without taking women out on dates/belittling women who want more than coffee & soda dates. The male view on women who are male Twitter's ideal woman (one who doesn't expect anything or have standards), straight from the horse's mouth. Lesson of the day: don't try to build yourself a HVM from a LVM because the LVM will leave you the second they find success because you remind them of the struggle and because they think they can do better now. Instead actually go out there and find a ready made HVM who wants to be with you. It's a lot less work and the HVM will value you as an equal that they chose to be with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 09:15 AM
12	Whenever Males See A “misunderstood” protagonist Violent sociopaths who usually also have a manic pixie girl whose willing to sacrifice herself for them at anytime. FIFY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 07:16 AM
29	THE AGE OF CONSENT IS 18 FOR A REASON: The leading cause of death worldwide for girls under the age of 19 is maternal complications due to being physically underdeveloped. 20s is actually the safest age to give birth. Grown creeps who normalize sex with teens only do so because they know that they can easily manipulate someone who isn't an adult yet. Honestly the age of consent should be ~20 because that's around the time when people have had a good amount of experience living away from home/living more independently.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 07:08 AM
1	Following someone first on Instagram? Do you want to date them? If yes then don't make the first move. That will set the dynamic for the rest of the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/19 07:10 AM
7	He wont text How important is texting for you in a relationship? If it is fairly important to you then you aren't being 'needy' by telling him to text more. If he doesn't want to take the effort to text more after you explained to him that texting and communication are important to you then maybe you two just aren't compatible. I mean he is a med student which means this lack of communication is just going to get worse with time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 10:10 PM
15	Today's Savage of the day is this girl from OP's post. I love the idea of having a boyfriend and "backups" waiting in line. This sounds less like having a backup and more like a girl trying to let a suicidal/obsessive guy down easy. She is in a relationship, why did OP ever think it was OK to unload all this baggage on her? I really feel bad for this girl.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/19 07:30 AM
332	Deleted him from everything Sounds like he was trying to pressure you into meeting at his house. What a jerk.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/19 07:24 AM