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| 18 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. I | MiracleMorni | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 02:01 PM | |
| 16 | Tips around feeling resentful | MiracleMorni | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 09:14 AM | |
| 14 | Wearing hair down | MiracleMorni | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/21 10:07 AM |
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| 3 | I had an amazing first date with a very ambitious man but I’m worried he will not have enough time for me , need some adviceExciting that the date went well. I think there is already great advice in here. If he likes you he will pursue you so sit back and try to enjoy the ride…also I would highly suggest to date more guys if possible. With dating I just mean going for a coffee etc. This will take pressure off of this one guy. Also keep investing in yourself doing hobbies, sports, etc. Enrich your life so your mood/happiness/excitement doesn’t depend on him messaging etc. Lastly: if in a few months you are not sure if… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IThanks that is true if I am honest I have never ever been in such a situation as with this wonderful baby who unfortunately has been so so challenging. It feels good to get some agreement from you! Still lots to figure out. Thanks for the comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IThanks for the honesty. Ofcourse there is a little more context to the story and to our life as a couple. I agree I shouldn’t have thought things would change magically. So yeah I take that to heart | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IThanks for your reply! Yeah I guess I am struggling especially with the idea of how to continue this when I work too…it is good to read your experience 🙏🏻 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IWow thank you so so much for your extensive reply! It really helps to put things into perspective…you are right that thing may ‘seem’ unfair but maybe they are not as he provides and there are consequences…I also find it useful to read your advice on filling your own cup first..thanks for that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IYes that is a good idea. Will try it out 🙏🏻😀 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IThank you very much I find a lot of golden nuggets in your answer that will help me move forward with this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IThank you so much!! I have to think and reflect on what you say and indeed do the comparison with a year ago. So I will take some time to reflect on everything you said. Greatly appreciate your input 🙏🏻 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IYes this is very good advice thank you! I would be up for having these conversations but my husband is quite averse to them in general. But I will give it another try!! I agree it can greatly help. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Am I a low value women? Would any man want to marry me?No! You are not a low value woman. We all have episodes in life we regret or wish we could change. But you becoming a mom has surely taught you new skills and behaviors, plus it seems you have matured since 18 and now you know better what you want. Try to change your mindset and see yourself as high value no matter what! If you believe you are low value, you will never live up to your true potential dear. So put back that crown on your head, walk with pride, be grateful for what life has given y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on your man going out all night with friendsMmm I think this is okay as long as he is reachable in case. My husband still goes out with friends quite a lot, it is his boys time, but we have an agreement that he lets me know every few hours how things are and also that he checks on me. Maybe this is smth you could introduce? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/23 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Field report: femininity classesWow this sounds really good especially if you are looking for a coach but with a feminine angle to it. Also to play out real life situations and see how you can react better and stay in your feminine. I personally can also recommend the content of Rori Raye. She’s more of a mature femininity influencer but I find her knowledge always very relatable and useful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/23 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to self discover more?First of all it is totally beautiful that you feel that way. So no you don’t have to worry. In terms of finding hobbies if you feel this can be interesting: I can recommend reflecting on what you used to love doing as a child, e.g. drawing, ballet, anything. If you still don’t find this helps you can also always improve in the area of housewifing and mothering. Read books or watch videos on how to raise better kids or how to bake nice and healthy treats :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/22 09:15 AM |
| 19 | newly single and red pilledJust wanted to say: you are only 31! You may think you are old but trust me you have plenty of good years ahead of you! A lot can happen in a few years and all the desires and wishes you have can still be fulfilled. I married late and got children in my late 30s. I still look young, take care of myself and my mindset stays positive and young as a result. Please don’t think your time has passed, this is the beginning. Really!!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Newly red pilledI have no advice apart from that sometimes you can start later in life and it is okay :) I got my first child at 36 and my second at 38. I married when 35. Life is still good and even though I would have liked to start younger I was in a similar situation and it did work out. So don’t lose hope :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 21 | I’m on holiday with my SO and I’m considering ending our relationship - how do I do it?I would actually wait a little bit, unless you are really sure you wish to break up. Maybe when you are home and he is still away in Europe, you start missing him and have some new reflections now that you are apart. Again I am not saying to continue something that you already are done with, but if there is some doubt in your mind and heart you may want see see what long distance does to you. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 29 | Fiance wants to exercise his options but I don't want to be cheated onI don’t think it is ‘red pill’ at all to let your partner sleep with other women. Having said that, I would communicate your boundary to him which is: it is not acceptable to you. If he is not willing to respect this you have decide for yourself if this means the end or not. Hope you will be able to navigate this tricky situation. Sending love | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I return to, protect, and define my feminity?Read the Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Losing weight as a naturally curvy woman?I like to eat fruits as snacks instead of sugary cookies etc. This has helped me a lot. Also incorporating dark chocolate (at least 70%) can be nice and trying to move at least 30 minutes a day :) btw curvy is beautiful so also embrace the body god gave you dear ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Could someone explain to me why some men don’t message you first on dating apps?To be honest from what I hear guys usually date around 3 women at the same time (unlike women, we tend to just date 1!). Now we can either hate that (I know I do sigh) or accept it as a reality. Also dating is just dating so maybe it is not such a bad idea to do what they do and meet a few different men yourself. And then I just mean: go on a coffee date or a walk etc. That way you can explore what different types of men offer and get to know what you want. And by no means I mean getting intimat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend who makes six figures annually thinks a good budget for an engagement ring is $1,000 or below.Wow I find that budget even on the high side! My husband is also an engineer. I got a beautiful ring for less than half of that money. I guess it is all about perspective. In the end I think instead of focusing on the budget focus on which ring you like. If it ends up being 2000 or whatever price I am sure he will get it for you once he knows that is ‘the one’ that you adore :) but maybe the ring you will love is not even 1000, you never know!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Looking for good marriage/ husband booksI would say The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle is an excellent one to start with | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/22 08:19 AM |
| 13 | Modern wimpy menYour world is your mirror so if you are only meeting feminine men try to ask yourself why you are attracting them. What belief do you hold (there are no good men) that keeps being confirmed? Unfortunately there is inner work to do but it will pay off. I can highly recommend content of Anna Rova on Medium and also her podcast Claimed to help you on your journey!! Hugs | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Tips around feeling resentfulThank you very much for your elaborate answer! I will have a chat with him and make a list of all I do that is a good idea. Hope it will help. Also will make more time for self pampering :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Tips around feeling resentfulUseful to have a reply from a guy actually. Thanks a lot! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/22 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Tips around feeling resentfulYep that is a good one. I haven’t done too much of this either. I guess this will help to bring back inner harmony. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Tips around feeling resentfulYeah I understand. Now that I think about it it really doesn’t make sense. Putting this thread and seeing the replies has really given me a new perspective | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Tips around feeling resentfulYes I think I am too nice. I agree we need a discussion. I will see how I can initiate it. Feels very uncomfortable but it will help I am sure | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Tips around feeling resentfulThat is true. I guess this is something I don’t know how to bring up even though I find it unfair too. I also feel I would be happier doing things in the house if I knew I wouldn’t have to pay for everything too…. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 02:11 PM |
| 12 | Tips around feeling resentfulMmmm I guess not actually! Good point | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Tips around feeling resentfulThank you for sharing your story. That helps. I will think of ways that could make things easier in our home! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Tips around feeling resentfulMmm good question. We still have seperate accounts and no shared account or anything. I do have a excel in which I put down all the costs for things like groceries and baby items etc. My husband has said he can pay for more but doesn’t initiate anything like money transfer etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Tips around feeling resentfulThat does make sense. Thank you for sharing your perspective that is very helpful already 🙏🏻 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 11:05 AM |
| 14 | Tips around feeling resentfulYes that is correct. I make a lot less and we split most things equally. He pays our house mortgage and I pay for anything else. It comes to about the same amount for each of us per month. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Tips around feeling resentfulThank you that is a wonderful idea that I will try out. Thank you very much | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/22 11:02 AM |
| 4 | mrs midwest yay or nayAlso a big fan here! I am not Christian and well over 30 but still she taught me so many things about being a woman and how to be proud of taking care of your house and family :) my favourite tip from her is to always look put together and to not own anything that isn’t cute so that you always look…cute! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Wearing hair downSo I had my baby longer ago so most of the shedding has happened. I guess I am just a clean freak so I hate seeing loose hair on the floor and on my clothes. That’s why I avoid wearing my hair down but I also think it is a pitty as wearing it down makes me feel more soft and feminine somehow. Also my husband has told me he likes my hair down :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Wearing hair downThanks ladies for your kind answers. I guess claw clips and brushing regularly are my main takeaways. Thanks you all for your shares!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Wearing hair downYeah I was a bit hesitant to post at first but happy to read the useful thread and the answers helped me a lot :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Wearing hair downAh yes like a claw clip! Indeed :) I’d still prefer to wear it down but the hair paranoia is real haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/21 10:13 AM |
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