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| 52 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer) | Field Report | Mirchii | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 12:52 PM |
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| 1 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityFor the story? It's probably the best game I've ever experienced - right up there with the Mass Effect trilogy. For the combat? Meh. Most people enjoy it because of the writing, storytelling, character development, choices, consequences and ethical dilemmas, etc. so if that's your thing then highly recommend playing it along with the DLCs. I've got an Xbox Series X which I bought last year, it's my first console since the original Playstation. Also got a Sonos surround system and an LG CX OLED T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityMeanwhile I take a second full-time job during the pandemic and focused on clearing my debt. Xbox Series X in my spare time... Witcher 3, Mass Effect, Elden Ring, Borderlands, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:08 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30When I turned 30, I didn't even realise it until someone told me. It's been happening every year since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Do you think cold approach is less common in a religious area?Yeah it's less common. Normally you get family involvement at the early stages. At least, that's how it typically is in Islam. Not sure about Christianity - I've never actually met a true Christian before, most of the people I've met who identify as Christian just go about relationships the way most non-religious people do in modern western societies. Which religion do you follow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:17 PM |
| – | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?Probably something to do with the quality of both men and women nowadays and the lack of morals. This isn't a problem in Islam (although, it is starting to creep in). Too many people have strayed away from God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Are there any examples in the present moment of a bachelor tax?Depends on the country. In some countries, married couples get tax and other benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What age does pretty privilege run out for women?Until your late 70s (maybe 80s too, depending) or when you die. I've heard that some people are also into corpses - yes that's a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:48 AM |
| 3 | What are you and why? (Also why are you here?)Who am I: An inter-dimensional traveller. Why are you: To explore and learn. Why are you here: It was an accident, I'm trying to get out - this dimension is batshit crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Loyalty. There's a reason why in most cultures and religions historically speaking, of all the crimes and sins a person can commit, treason is the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:01 AM |
| 10 | Am I Red-pill? Why does Red-Pill have such a bad rep?Purple is my favourite colour. I think you are also PP (hehe, PP), rather than RP or BP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?PPD men What does PPD mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?Most marriages end in divorce - congrats on your marriage, but be careful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?Why don't you two message each other, sounds like a perfect match! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Bluepillers use red pill talking points when talking to black pillers, and black pill talking points when talking to red pillersgoing to the gym, being confident, being charismatic, etc. Isn't this just common sense rather than a particular pill theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Christian single (F) desiring to be a wife and homemaker.You can try one of those Christian matrimonial apps. There's loads of them for all three Abrahamic religions. I tried a few of the Muslim ones before. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Reddit Censorship, TRP & RPWThanks - I'll check it out. That new UI is gonna take some getting used to. Never seen one like that before. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.I did a quick search and it appears to be a common myth actually. I'd be really interested in reading further if there is anything. I'm just asking you because you brought it up. But if you don't actually know anything then okay - moving on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Nothing in that article seems to suggest it and the one study it does mention isn't clear either - it was also mainly a questionnaire style research. Are there any controlled studies and peer reviewed medical research that demonstrate abstinence causes prostate cancer? I did a quick search and it appears to be a common myth actually. I'd be really interested in reading further if there is anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.How would abstinence cause prostate cancer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.Sounds pretty much like the Female Dating Strategy subreddit tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Not attracted to non-masculine boyfriend, what to do?I also know that his ex-girlfriend prior to me, did every single thing in their home. She even washed all his clothes including his socks, folded them nicely and put them in his closet. I could vomit. Plus all other household chores. He didn’t have to do a single thing. It actually pisses me of. Makes me want to yell at him, to grow the fuck up and learn to do stuff properly. Some people prefer being the homemaker and some don't. Some like to work and take care of the house, others just want to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Not attracted to non-masculine boyfriend, what to do?Okay I think I understand. He's rubbish at planning things - especially for travel. That's his weakness. Since you're a lot better at it, can you take ownership of that? It sounds like things are much better off when you play to each others strengths. His weakness is planning, what are his strengths? Your strength is planning, what are your weaknesses? It's a partnership, you gotta adapt and make it work for you both. It's unique to each relationship. This has nothing to do with masculinity or f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Need advice: Send a closure text after being ghosted?Block, cut all contact, and move on. Stop over-analysing everything and making it more complicated than it needs to be. Move on. You know this yourself, you mentioned it - but you're afraid to do it. Your emotions are clouding your judgement and rational thought. Honestly, this is quite embarrassing. Please don't keep doing this to yourself. It's not healthy and it won't help you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 13 | I feel like men don’t care about RPWI would suggest that you work on your mental health issues first before entering into a relationship. Also, sex does not mean commitment - don't expect commitment just because you let them have sex with you. You need to first discuss your goals, expectations, values etc. and if those align then only then do you commit to a long-term relationship. Never have sex before that. You say that men don't care about RPW, but so far everything you've described demonstrates all sorts of issues you yourself… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do men always come back?No idea - you will have to ask them. It's no good speculating - you gotta communicate and understand. It will be unique to each situation. It's up to you to either speculate and hearsay thinking everyone is playing you and you're not giving mixed signals yourself etc. OR communicating, understanding and learning what's going wrong and addressing it. If this is happening to you with every guy you meet then the common factor here is yourself. Either that or they really are being assholes in which … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Getting more attached to my partner and feeling out of controlWhat's the problem with his friend exactly? This is rather important and you've not explained it well enough for me to understand the situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 12:55 PM |
| 10 | Not attracted to non-masculine boyfriend, what to do?Aside from cooking together - which is easily addressed and doesn't sound like it has anything to do with masculine/feminine traits - nor does it show relevance to leadership and decision making. What other examples are there? For the cooking part, just do it yourself - if you can't, there's other suggestions I have. You mentioned a pattern. I would like to hear about some more relevant examples if you have any. Particularly examples where your partner is non-masculine or relevance to leadership… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Advice needed for Feminine EnergyWhat a load of nonsense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed for Feminine EnergyFIRE = Financial Independence and Retire Early. There's several subreddits dedicated to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed for Feminine EnergyThat's awesome - I work in software engineering myself and some DevOps. I would suggest after you've got a few years of commercial experience, get into contracting to earn 6 figures and then you can go back to permanent roles for a decent salary + benefits. The pay starts small if you're just starting out in your career, but you can easily get into £100K - £200K range in about 5 years (if you shop around often, every year or two). Depends where you're from due to different laws and regulations e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Body Counts and Quality Men: The 2022 Complete ReviewAwesome - do you think this is the one for you? Any common red flags to be aware of that you learned from your discussion with those guys or any you yourself can think of? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Misaligned values in a relationship.Your goals are not aligned and he wants to end the relationship. The only logical next step is for you to end the relationship, learn from it, and then move on. For future relationships, you need to discuss your goals, values, expectations etc. before you actually commit to the relationship. Important: sex does not mean commitment. Do not expect that someone will commit to you just because you had sex with them. You have to discuss all the important things above first and come to an understandin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | I (26F) don't know if I should bring up the marriage talk with my partner (28M) first, or wait for him to do it.Marriage is a conversation that should happen at the start of the relationship - at the very least both parties should be aware that the other is eventually looking for marriage - otherwise the relationship won't go anywhere and a huge waste of time. Better late than never though and you're only a year into the relationship. Talk to your partner about it now, ASAP. Of course you don't need to get married right away, but you both need to be aware of your expectations and what you're looking for. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | M/F roles with a Stay At Home ManYou are both a married couple living together. Can you not just tell him about your concerns? Open up a dialogue, find out if there's any issues and then address those first. Since you are doing the household chores yourself, maybe he doesn't feel the need to do it or think it's not that big of a deal? Because you're gonna end up doing it yourself anyway. Talk to him about it. Also, congrats on the FIRE situation - It's nice to hear about it in other subreddits. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Body Counts and Quality Men: The 2022 Complete ReviewHow old are you? Are you married / in a long-term committed relationship now? Those other guys you spoke to, are they married / in a long-term committed relationship? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:20 PM |
| 3 | I was a slut in my past, Can I still find a Good Man?There's no magic way for it. You need the will to put it behind you and start making different choices. Try doing things that don't lead to sex for now - there's limitless activities in that regard. Besides short-term relationships there must be other things you like? What are your interests, hobbies, career, etc.? If you don't have any then that's a good place to start and find out. You won't be able to forgive yourself and move on straight away - your choices remain with you until death. What … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Advice needed for Feminine EnergyWhat sort of IT cert are you getting? Is it related to your current work? I went into IT / tech as well when I was around 20 but only just started passive investment recently (ISAs, SIPP etc) - there's some really good subreddits on here to help with that. I would suggest doing it ASAP and not waiting - had I known about it in my 20s then my FIRE date would be 10 years earlier. Regarding activities - depends what type of person you are I guess. I'm introverted (INTP & INFJ) and mainly just read … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on showing respect to my boyfriendI'm really confused as to what the issue is here. You two are arguing over a nude picture you displayed from 5 years ago? Why not just delete it or change it and then move on? Why is social media or digital platforms influencing your relationship? Why do you need to go 'public' on these platforms? This all just seems really silly. You both are creating issues out of nothing. Stop with the online crap - no one cares - just keep each other in real life. No need to put on a whole show for the publi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | How to help him work out / lose weight without nagging?He might be more inclined to change his diet first. Some good options I can think of: intermittent fasting, low carb or ketogenic diet, etc. if not, a good place to start is removing anything with processed sugar and drinks (water, tea, and coffee only) - supplements as and when required - and then going from there Right now you're trying get him to make a big jump, but I think it would be more beneficial to focus on small wins that lead up to that. Diet is an incredibly important component of y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Should you delete men who are showing you mixed signals?Sounds like you like him, so just straight up ask him what he wants. If he can't do that and still gives mixed signals, then cut all contact and move on to someone who's actually serious and knows what they want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Should you delete men who are showing you mixed signals?Sounds like he just wants sex / a fling. Given that he's in med school and the even longer hours and stress that will soon follow, it is very unlikely that he is certain on marriage within the next few years - based on his behaviour you mentioned it seems even more obvious. Do not make the mistake of having sex and then thinking he will commit because of that. Move on to the next guy who's actually serious about it and knows what he wants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values?Yep, the government thinks a penis is required. There's also a grey area highlighted recently - been quite a few incidents on transgender male to females doing this causing quite a stir, and it was contested whether it's rape or not! Insane... | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Should you delete men who are showing you mixed signals?Are you being upfront with them on what you're looking for, your goals, values etc.? If so, and they are giving mixed signals, then just ask them for a straight answer. If you don't get a straight answer, block / delete and move on. It's a waste of time otherwise if you can't even agree or align with what you're looking for in a relationship and expectations. I realise it might be easier to just block rather than talk - but in the case of mixed signals - I think this happens more often than not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values?Except it's not an accident given that your friend wittingly / wilfully / knowingly did it? In which case, it is a big deal. Is it possible that you are lying to yourself to make it seem less of a big deal because it's your friend? I would suggest at least taking some time to think about it rationally rather than emotionally. Is it okay watching a relationship built on sexual assault go on for the next X number of years whilst the guy is unwittingly ignorant on what happened to him? If you still… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values?the boyfriend was immediately on board [...] He's not mad or fighting it, he just thinks he's stepping up. Does he know what happened? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 85 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.If there are no children involved, get him help if he's a danger to himself, then cut all contact from him and move on. Loyalty and trust has been irrevocably broken here and it also sounds like he needs professional help rather than a wife. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | When to have s*x with someone you date?Well then as Zipporah told Moses when he wanted sex on their wedding night: you may proceed. Zipporah : [wedding night] Who makes you happy? Moses : You do. Zipporah : What's the most important thing in your life? Moses : You are. Zipporah : Where would you rather to be? Moses : Nowhere. Zipporah : And when will you leave me? Moses : Never. Zipporah : Proceed. [sex] | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Reframing his intense work habits as self-careSee if this was one of my mates, I'd give him a proper reality check and tell him to stop being such an idiot. Business loyalty is a lie, never work for free, that this is really unhealthy, offer steps to address it depending on which stage of the career he's in, have a look at roles elsewhere, ask for a raise or extra pay for overtime, how to make the most of it to his advantage, think about his partner, etc. - really just a typical guy friend to guy friend conversation. At the very least he sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values?IMO, that's absolutely despicable behaviour and really highlights the double standards had it been the guy that did it and got a woman impregnated without her consent. If anyone I knew did that, I'd get them to tell the truth - otherwise cut all contact and part ways. UK law does not recognise that women can rape men, and yet we have crap like this that happens - even encouraged due to the way the legal system is set up... without any consequences or accountability. You do realise what this frie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to improve when your nervous system gets flooded?Personally, high quality CBD distillate (oil, crumble, diamonds, flower, etc). Really helps my anxiety and mental wellbeing, as well as loads of other benefits. Note: CBD is not psychoactive. Zero THC (or <= 0.02%) by law in the UK. I find that chelated magnesium glycinate supplements (or magnesium l-threonate) also helps my anxiety and quality of sleep. In addition I take various other supplements like vitamin D, B complex, Zinc, and so on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How to emotionally engage with your man?Be yourself and don't play mind games. There is no rulebook - it's a load of BS. You wanna message the guy you love? Go ahead. Again? Go right ahead. If he gets annoyed? Then do it less. Hard to read? Try to address that. Not affectionate enough? Ask him to help you! Etc. etc. you adapt based on the person you're interacting with and you help each other to figure things out. No rulebook - just common sense between two people in a relationship who learn from each other and go by what each one lik… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | When to have s*x with someone you date?I'm gonna include some of my previous comment that I posted elsewhere which I think is related: Be clear what you're looking for from the beginning. Don't just have sex thinking that means commitment. Only accept dates / meet-ups with guys who are also looking for the same thing and you've both established that from the beginning i.e. marriage / partnership etc. Don't have sex until you've had this conversation about your goals / plans / values etc. If neither of you have even discussed what it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How to start when you are completely inexperienced?Matrimonial apps or meet-ups (could be shared hobbies or something, nothing that involves getting drunk though). Be clear what you're looking for from the beginning. Don't just have sex thinking that means commitment. Only accept dates / meet-ups with guys who are also looking for the same thing and you've both established that from the beginning i.e. marriage / partnership etc. Don't have sex until you've had this conversation about your goals / plans / values etc. After dates / meet-ups carry … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Combating negative thinking and overthinkingDo you have an inner monologue? Do you imagine things visually? (Some people can and some people can't) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?There needs to be more large scale studies on natural herbal remedies. But sadly, because Big Pharma can't profit from it it will never happen and instead be labelled as dangerous. Wish there were more independent businesses that do they but they quickly get squeezed out by the bigger corporations and all the government red tape that favours the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How can I get more in touch with my sensuality? Struggling with a low libido and I’m concerned it may cost me my relationship.Chelated magnesium glycinate, magnesium l-threonate, zinc, and vitamin D. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | I’ve just realised that the reason I struggle to get into relationships is because I’m dating out of my leagueOver the last 5 years I’ve been in situationships with 4 different men who would have sex with me but didn’t want to commit to me. I believe this is why you are struggling. Enough with the 'situationships' / FWB and going straight to sex with everyone you meet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminine charms when you don’t do any domestic duties?There's nothing more romantic than a wife helping her husband put a custom built gaming PC together, 4K Blu-ray player, Apple TV 4K, hooked up to an 83" OLED TV, and a full Dolby Atmos surround sound system. Try it and I'm sure it will bring you both together as a couple and strengthen your marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women being friends - advice please!Why create an environment that produces all of these problems in the first place? The problems start small, the socialising, the texting, the jokes, the playful banter, the emotional cheating, etc. you won't realise until it's gone too far. Keep it strictly professional and don't socialise / hang out with guys in the first place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Can love language needs be met?This is one of my biggest fears of having children. I don't want to be (exactly) the same as my parents. At the same time, I'm hopeful that this won't be an issue if you have a partner that understands you and works together with you to make sure this does not happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 5 | New to this.Would you be willing to share what led you to this moment? What happened? To answer your question, no - it's not one specific ideology, and there isn't really a goal or cause, nor is it about not subscribing to feminism. Disregard anything you might have heard and look into it yourself, for yourself. Don't be afraid to ask questions regarding your personal circumstances and seeking advice - I've seen a lot of helpful responses in this subreddit. Have a look at the FAQ / sticky posts / sidebar / … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Nice one mate, appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Please read all 55 comments and double check for me. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 8 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Feminists only care about equality if it benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Exactly, mate. If you're ugly as a guy, it doesn't matter how wonderful your personality is - attraction is the most important thing because it determines whether you will get past that first stage or not. I've got no issue with this btw, it's completely normal - I just have a problem with hypocrites that say they only care about personality when they obviously only go for the hot ones lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:38 PM |
| 7 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?No one here is contesting that men find it difficult to lose there virginity - they can pay a prostitute - well duh... Nice deflection there. Age limits? We are talking about adult women - so you're talking nonsense here again - another deflection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:37 PM |
| 4 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?Any woman that tells you looks don't matter / looks don't take precedence over everything else initially, is either lying or blind - or both. If you're ugly as a guy, it doesn't matter how wonderful your personality is - attraction is the most important thing because it determines whether you will get past that first stage or not. I've got no issue with this btw, it's completely normal - I just have a problem with hypocrites that say they only care about personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?What does Q4W mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 9 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?What a load of nonsense and deflecting the point made. Go on any dating site and start messaging. In fact, you don't even need to do the messaging, it's literally a waiting game given how dating apps work, you'll get several interests in no time. Saying that it's difficult for you to lose your virginity as a woman is frankly a load of BS in this digital age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationI remember in one county here in the UK the police tried to enforce a policy where if a woman felt that you sexually assaulted her then she could claim it to the authorities. It didn’t matter if you actually didn’t or just looked the wrong way, what mattered was whether she felt attacked in her mind. That didn’t go down well lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 11:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationYep, I agree - modern western society has turned into degeneracy and identity politics… where feelings take precedent over everything else, because God forbid you hurt someone’s feelings and offend someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationYou’re not racist, just telling it like it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...Ooh right, thanks I'll do that next time. Still getting used to Reddit. I Google all sorts of things and then end up on various Reddit pages and comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...I dunno who that is nor how to reply to it lol. How do I reply to the auto mod? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationGo for middle-eastern and asian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationAre you male or female? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)If your profile picture shows that you are tall (min 6ft, a background like a luxury car and a big house, so it's easy to tell you are tall and financially stable), that you have attractive facial features (at least, symmetrical), and a light skin tone (e.g. white caucasian, mixed race, etc) - then yes. You can have a very generic bio. With the above type of profile picture, you are far more likely to get messages and if you message first then immediately upon seeing your profile picture you wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)If your profile picture shows that you are tall (min 6ft, a background like a luxury car and a big house, so it's easy to tell you are tall and financially stable), that you have attractive facial features (at least, symmetrical), and a light skin tone (e.g. white caucasian, mixed race, etc) - then yes. You can have a very generic bio. With the above type of profile picture, you are far more likely to get messages and if you message first then immediately upon seeing your profile picture you wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 6 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)Initially, it's from the first profile picture that is visible. Male accounts with no pictures get zero interaction unless someone has accidentally or deliberately found them from search filters. Yes, what type of picture you have makes a huge difference. If your entire body and face is visible, good lighting, good background, clothing, etc. everything in the picture makes a difference for male accounts. When female accounts communicate with male accounts, it's almost immediately after they've s… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:38 PM |
| 9 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)Sadly, not. I work as a contractor at different businesses all the time, and we are regulated by GDPR over here. I can look at develop, test and stage environments - but not production. However those other environments are just snapshots of production anyway. I can't post screenshots of that though. These environments are not publicly available - it's just what developers work on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:27 PM |
| 7 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)Active members for each gender has changed a lot over the years. Some dating apps use algorithms to make sure this is a fairly even split, there's also placeholder accounts, staff accounts, paid accounts and third-party businesses that help with additional accounts - these are mostly female accounts, because a lot of the revenue comes from when males spend extra money on boosts, extra swipes, etc. As for how many matches continue past initial few messages? Majority of the time this is incredibly… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:22 PM |
| 12 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)So what you are saying is that the other 90% who drop a monthly subscription or pay for boosts etc are what makes the apps the most amount of money, but those same people spending the money hardly see any payoff in return? I don't see how some of these haven't collapsed in on themselves there. Continuously paying for a service that provides little to no actual benefit seems like the definition of insanity in. So this is where paid features come in. You can convince the customer that if they buy … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:14 PM |
| 10 | What I learned from working with dating apps (as a software developer)Huh, why is this subreddit quarantined? It says there's 0 members and 0 online. Is this place dead? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Now that she's pregnant af, she figured maybe it's time to get back out there and get a bailout.I don't have any kids myself. No fucking way am I paying for someone else's. I'm gonna go via the surrogacy route to have my own kids. It's expensive, but they will genetically be my son or daughter and I the legal single parent - and no mother involved. Thanks to modern technological advancements, surrogacy is an option - an expensive one. But you are guaranteed a child with the traits of your choosing, you will be the legal father i.e. a single parent, no one else involved. Genetic tests guara… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Now that she's pregnant af, she figured maybe it's time to get back out there and get a bailout.I don't have any kids myself. No fucking way am I paying for someone else's. I'm gonna go via the surrogacy route to have my own kids. It's expensive, but they will genetically be my son or daughter and I the legal single parent - and no mother involved. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Land whale must think shes a 10 with expectations like thisAh right - thanks. More of a papaver somniferum guy myself. Ain't nothing wrong with natural herbal remedies! ;) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Land whale must think shes a 10 with expectations like thisWhat does 420 mean? I earn over £100K, smoke, under 6ft and this lady in the picture is absolutely disgusting - pass. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/21 12:10 PM |
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