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| 1 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?Excuse me miss I saw you from across the rooms I gotta admit you got my attention so I had to come over and introduce myself my name is… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 10:15 AM |
| 22 | Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it?Banter before you go for the kill. Be smooth but be direct | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Double Texting to set up 2nd dateWe’re in the minority and I agree | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Authenticity when datingI don’t want to have sex with you = I want to have sex with you NOW | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:25 AM |
| 2 | How do I flirt on InstagramMaybe your ig account is too over the top, idk. I’ll my game is irl. How do you open on insta? | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | 22M in Talking Stage with 24F—Things Were Going Great Until She Suddenly Asked for Space After Court AppointmentFind another chick so you stop stressing over this one | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 04:09 PM |
| 0 | How to stop thinking that an approach will be weirdNobody’s watching you bro. Just do your thing. I typically don’t approach until I get eye contact and/or a smile. | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Great Convos With Women then no responseGotta get creative. These hoes will have sex in some weird places | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Great Convos With Women then no responseBest advice here. Wrap your dick up. Somebody once told me regarding a girl being on birth control “ a pill won’t keep your dick from falling off “ | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 7 | How do I flirt on InstagramYou need social proof. | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayBro I smashed two girls I cold approached in Target. One was an insta date to Starbucks and another I picked up to take her to movies. Smashed both in my car. Idk what else to tell you lol | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach today2 cold approach lays. Out of like maybe 20-25 approaches. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayNah cuz you gotta step to her with the utmost confidence at the beginning. Women can smell a lack of confidence. OP ain’t had the utmost confidence yet, his voice was cracking under the pressure. Step to her with confidence, make her smile, make her day, get the date, get the number, get the drawers. I can breakdown what it means to have the utmost confidence | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayCompletely disagree. A cold approach by a confident man will make a woman’s day | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I am a 23 year old man and I had a burning question after looking through the sub.Women always have the leverage bc they got a vagina | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Bringing girls back in a ghetto apartment.A girl that need some dick won’t mind bro just make sure your shit is straight and smell good on on the inside. These hoes be wanting dick, as long as you and your crib smell good you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I destroy the “friendly vibe”Need to let her know that you find her attractive and the only reason you came to talk to her is bc you think she is attractive and also you have to break down the touch barriers. Banter with a woman is a great thing but at some point there has to be some type of sexual tension, whether it be through sexual innuendos or increasing the level of touch | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I destroy the “friendly vibe”Let your intentions be known from the beginning. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 10 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?If this isn’t bait somebody should tell bro that nice guys finish last - or in this case by themselves in the bathroom | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:45 PM |
| 0 | I met my chesty neighbor & got her number ..Go on ahead and hit that player | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 4 | How would a guy know if he’s good looking or if girls are just being nice?Looks. Gonna sound conceited but women look at me and smile a lot, that lets me know | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How to stop getting hung up on openersAs with anything else in life you have to get your reps in | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What should we do to not get in friendzone and understand if the girl is good or bad?Make your intentions clear that you want to be more than her friend | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 01:12 PM |
| 4 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Asking for a number isn’t seduction in my opinion. I’d like to build some sort of connection. I also like to fake walk like I’m walking away and immediately turn back and act like I forgot to get the number and I just gotta have it & I can’t leave without it. But the number isn’t the goal it’s just the means to get what you want | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:37 AM |
| 0 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Not even supposed to be asking questions outside of her name. Supposed to make assumptions whether you’re right or wrong | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:33 AM |
| 5 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?3 minutes. Ever boxed or sparred before? 3 minutes is a lot fuxking longer than you’d think… | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:32 AM |
| 24 | Best Ways To Get A Kiss After A Date?Just kiss her but be careful broski bc these hoes nasty | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannalol The older you get the more fun the chase is. Easy lays are boring at my age. I’ve had enough pussy, I need sex plus something else | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaSo you just want pussy handed to you a silver platter? lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:51 AM |
| 3 | The eye-contact game..Conscious effort to maintain eye contact. Today I caught eye contact with this stacked girl. I accidentally looked away but quickly looked back, I know she felt me look back but I wasn’t able to get her to look back at me. It’s been bugging me all day, now it’s about not making the same mistake twice. For clarity’s sake I was doing calculus homework | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 11:28 PM |
| 6 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaI disagree. There’s a zero percent chance to fuck her if you don’t show up. It’s 50/50 if you do… he just wasn’t confident enough at the time. Sometimes women wannna be chased for a second to feel wanted. You can skip the chase by making her feel wanted & desired. It all starts from the very first interaction. Men and women are alone for only one reason | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:55 PM |
| 14 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaThe right play is to chill tf out and keep increasing the intensity of the touch and then leave | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | talking to a girl she tells me she's not sure if she should go on a date with another guyProbably what she was waiting for | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyGot to be a smooth criminal. Be a gentlemen, be HONEST abt what you want. But you have to massage those edges when you tell her you only wanna fuck. You making the sex everything, make the chase the most fun part. If the sex happens it happens, learn to enjoy the presence of feminine energy | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:09 PM |
| 9 | Is she (18F) in the game?Looks like she really wants the attention more than anything else | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run?Easy. Have other women into you. Women want men that other women want too. If she’s the only one who wants you you’ll begin to lose value in her eyes | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Ghosted after a 3 hour enjoyable conversationToo much to read bro and 3 hours sounds like a long time lol came off needy af | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Canary Isnalds Nude beach etiquette?Sounds like op is risking catching something nasty lol | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowGet the fuck off Reddit and go do it | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am just getting to know already trying to make me jealous for her?Have you even broken the touch barrier? | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | First Date With Really Cute Girl On Tinder and Don’t Want To Blow ItBruh you already took that L. She gon fuck somebody in the car next week 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 07:55 PM |
| 2 | My first ever try at day game and I need some feedbackLol do better you gotta stay sober when seducing | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 3 | My first ever try at day game and I need some feedbackThat’s good work probably came on a bit too strong. She went with the instant date so that’s a good sign, prob give her a couple days to respond and then invite her somewhere as if you were already going with or without her. As far as touching goes you did it right by initiating touch in the first encounter now how you did it is a different story. But it must be subtle, you need to always start with a handshake when you introduce yourself to break the touch barrier, the hug is a good sign. I won… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Usually I'm the one approaching , but ...Bag = fumbled | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 12:38 PM |
| 2 | As a 5'9 guy what are some good flirty replies I can use against girls?You’re in the wrong mindset. You not getting any pussy until you change your mindset. As far as working out goes cut the carbs, increase the fat and increase the protein. Get lean, get mean, and get in between. You really gotta have that mindset of fuck these hoes outchea bc they be for everybody | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Got her number, no dateYou need more players on your roster | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Got asked out by business partnerBetter go ahead and hit that lol or somebody else will | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 10:07 AM |
| 0 | Atlanta Business TravelerLol yeah | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Daygame Approach Format Explained + 5 ApproachesI’m gonna have to concur sunglasses can’t be good for day game pick up. When you approach I’d rest the glasses on top of my head | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Atlanta Business Traveler[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I can ask out girls in public fairly easily but I am still stuck with taking them out.You said you don’t touch them at all, you have to break the touch barrier in the initial interaction. Offer your hand for a handshake when you walk over and start talking. If the vibe is right get a hug when you’re done. Touch barrier broken and escalated with the hug. Insta date is trying to get her to go with you right then and there. Act as if you were already going (even if you weren’t before) and invite her with you “Im going to Starbucks to get coffee after I leave her, I want you to come … | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | I can ask out girls in public fairly easily but I am still stuck with taking them out.Touch barriers and insta dates | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach girls when out with family?Even better than that is to approach a girl who is with her family | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach girls when out with family?😂 | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Getting laidLots of promiscuous girls your age. Put the phone down and make sure you get out and live life and touch grass. Be clean, smell good and dress decent and learn how to hold a conversation by bouncing off of whatever she is talking about. Make sure your social media accounts look good too, a horny lonely girl will fuck off social proof alone | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashWhat a bitch fest by OP | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl only wants to see me on Sunday/MondayDoesn’t mean you have to see your Tuesday every Tuesday just that you only see her on Tuesdays (not really tho) | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Can you give me some advice seducing the girls?You have to “frame” each interaction, that is to say you need a build a script in your mind of how you can steer the conversation and interaction. Overtime you will be able to improvise and go off script. But for now Each set should only be 2-4 minutes long. Get in, get the contact (number or socials, socials is better bc it gives her a chance to social proof you) and get the hell out of there. Don’t linger around her too long bc that’s when shit gets awkward. You have 3 seconds after seeing a g… | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Posture while talking with girlsMore important than your posture is your hands. Do not fidget around with your hands. Clasp them together right on top of your pubic bone and maintain eye contact to the point where she becomes semi uncomfortable but not like in a stalker weirdo type just maintain consistent eye contact | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Can you give me some advice seducing the girls?Approach anxiety, you’re just gonna have to man up and face it. Rejection actually feels good after the fact | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Can you give me some advice seducing the girls?A dry spell, it happens don’t let it reduce your confidence. No self loathing is allowed, continue to focus on you and level up | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 37 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Go do some push-ups | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 14 | Girl only wants to see me on Sunday/MondayExactly, have a “roster”. Women will inevitably have more options than you but you have level the playing field a little. 1-2 starters and 5-6 reserves. Having one girl for everyday of the week. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Libido & Stamina!For cialis go to hims.com get the 10mg and take half daily | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Failing MISERABLY at getting a girls numberGet a puppy yourself or borrow one lol bitches love that instant ice breaker. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | No excuses, just go talk to herUsing autistic as an insult is pretty terrible mate | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 0 | How do you manage 2+ girlsNever date a girl that doesn’t respect your wife | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | how do i get laid single male 38Lol I meant fake the confidence until you actually are confident and “stop whining like a little bitch” words from my mom when I was 12 | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 11:24 PM |
| 3 | how do i get laid single male 38Confidence. Fake it til you make it. Women don’t want a bitch ass lil boy | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Too busy to dateShe threw a fastball down the middle of the plate and he took a strike instead of hitting a home run | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?The only correct answer | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:59 AM |
| 0 | I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F)Find yourself a new cleaning lady first | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meBecause rejection sucks. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meMore advice, don’t just flat out tell her no. That’s too direct, reject her subtlety. Say “maybe” or “we’ll see” or my favorite “I could be persuaded” | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:59 PM |
| 10 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meIt’s called “The Power of No”. He will learn it sooner or later | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay tell a girl you have been having trouble with errections?Hims.com | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I (24M) had a girl (22F) over but all we did was talk from 8 PM to 3 AMFumbled the bag on that one my guy. Remember anytime a girl comes over she is already dtf, your only job is to NOT fuck it up. My gut says she gives you another shot but it’ll be your last chance if you don’t shoot | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 06:55 PM |
| 3 | 11 sets and 5 numbers😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?Sound advice they will be overlooked | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I smash this girl I work withI would stick with the plan I said. Make it short and sweet. I hope you get the drawers dawg 🤞🏾 Most importantly DON’T forget the jimmys | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | How do I smash this girl I work withPersonally I would go for the insta vs # bc of social proof | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I smash this girl I work withDo you know each other at all? If not cold approach her and just introduce yourself and tell her you think she’s cute and then compliment her on her makeup and hair since that’s what you noticed. A min or two of small talk then ask her out for a specific time and place. If she’s shy and quiet this probably doesn’t get asked out a lot she may be embarrassed and you may have to carry the conversation some. This whole interaction should last 5 minutes tops. Good luck | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 12:54 AM |
| 4 | How do you build a roster as a loner?Become rich | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainOf those 5 have you closed any deals? | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainThats also very true. Probably another good reason not go out on a dinner with date with a chick you haven’t smashed yet | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:42 AM |
| 9 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainIn my experience if a woman is going on a date with me she is already likely to fuck. The 🔑 for me is to NOT fuck it up by being needy or pushy or coming on to strong too fast. It really just means chill tf out and play the game. She’s already on a date with me so I’m going to enjoy her company and stick to my game plan on getting back to the crib, car or hotel or whatever. Chill tf out and do what Aaron Rodgers said and “ R-E-L-A-X “ | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 20 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainYup, keeping your pants on mentally is important. Also stop going for drinks, do something FUN | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 02:10 PM |
| 10 | Girl thinks all I want is sex. Can I turn this around or should I give up.I mean what do you want from her? You have to communicate what you want whether it’s just sex or a relationship or just friends. You have to make your intentions known. That’s your best bet | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 9 | How to make myself push for action on sexual levelGo a full 7 days and you should be raging with hormones. Your testosterone will be through the roof. Just my opinion. Good luck and don’t forget the jimmy’s | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 04:20 PM |
| 44 | How to make myself push for action on sexual levelYou probably be spanking your monkey too much. Get real horny and you’ll become brazen and nothing else matters besides fulfilling that need and desire to go to pound town. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Underestimated the struggle of initiating staying the night.Loosely translated “ I have seduced you enough, time to give up the drawers now “ | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Underestimated the struggle of initiating staying the night.“I’m having a lot of fun with you right now and I don’t want the night to end yet so why don’t we take this back to my place for a nightcap/drink” | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:30 AM |
| 5 | How do I attract the girls I want?Yeah it’s always about power and dating the girl that you like you’ll be more inclined to put up with more of her shit bc you like her so much | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 06:45 PM |
| 43 | How do I attract the girls I want?Somebody literally just said the best advice they have ever gotten was “date the girl that likes you, not the girl you like” | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 12:32 PM |
| 4 | How to crush approach anxietyThere’s no in-depth explanation bro, like Nike said “Just do it”. Most of us suffer from AA at some point, the 3 second rule is how I got over mine. And if I take a break from approaching then AA can resurface a lil bit. Then I have to tell myself what I told you. You got 3 seconds to man up and stop being a pussy. It’s either you walk over and talk to her or live with the regret of not doing it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:20 PM |
| 19 | How to crush approach anxiety3 second rule. You got 3 seconds after seeing a beautiful woman to man up and stop being a pussy | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 01:57 PM |
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