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Women do not make our hearts skip and give us butterflies. Fuck, this place got genuinely sad real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:33 PM
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Is there anything in the world that is even less meaningful than the up and down votes in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 11:19 PM
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I don't know, just answering your question if it's possible in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 10:21 PM
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Is that even possible ? Yes, if she's up for it. Usually through hypnosis. But it takes a fair bit of effort and time and if she's not into it, you won't get anywhere. It's not magic (despite what some stories on the internet would have you believe - a lot of them are just stories). Conditioning also fades quickly if it's not reinforced regularly or if something more important gets in the way. I know a lot of people who had great success with sexual hypnosis/conditioning and I've used it myself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 09:40 PM
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Pretty much everyone is manipulative to some degree, but I can think of two people who were really manipulative in the sense that they'd consciously try to stir up drama, lie, bend the truth, rile people up against each other, the whole nine yards. One was a man in his early 30s, one was a woman in her early 20s, dealt with both the same way once I found out: Told them I don't have time for their shit and cut them out of my life. Wasn't easy at the time, but I can't even begin to imagine how man…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 08:32 PM
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Eh, I'm not big on linking to other people's comments from other subreddits. There was a post at the top of TRP a short while ago about the "feminine imperative" (that's one of those buzzwords) and its effect on reddit. A lot of talk about the "feminine imperative", "feels > realz" (another buzzphrase that has lost all meaning) - zero mention of the simple fact that reddit is a business and is making decisions that will make them money. It's not about politics, feminism, "women invading male spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 05:11 PM
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Yes but unlike Tumblrinas we use our terminology in context when it makes fucking sense. Sometimes I don't know if posts like this are serious or not. You have to realize that tumblrinas think the exact same way about their use of terminology. There is literally no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:29 PM
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The problem is that people don't understand if they just repeat buzzwords because they're popular. It doesn't help that a lot of the time people don't even know what those phrases mean, they just know it's a way to shut down criticism and to get a positive reaction out of the people that share their mentality. It's no different from tumblr SJWs who shut everything down with "that's mansplaining!" or "you can't be racist towards white people!" It's just a way to avoid thinking. It doesn't matter …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:11 PM
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It has outgrown its usefulness. Maybe once upon a time it was about understanding social dynamics and understanding reality - I don't know for sure, but I'd like to think that it was. Today it's just about throwing around some thought-stopping buzzwords to pander to the TRP audience. It's not about reality or truth or even just understanding relationships. The preferred narrative has been set long ago and the mass of subscribers enforce that it will remain the preferred narrative, truth or usefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:30 PM
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I've known /r/TRP and the manosphere blogs for, I don't know, close to two years now (maybe one and a half). They only get worse as time goes on. There are definitely some basics they get right and some things that are useful to know (if you didn't already know them) - but because it is so full of bitterness and pseudoscience and plain bullshit, I could never point anyone who would need to learn those basic things to TRP. If it would be more streamlined and better curated (for a lack of a better…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:20 PM
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I don't see how it does more harm than good. We know what happens if it's not enforced: Circlejerks, circlejerks everywhere. As you said, the problem is that it is so often ignored and that it becomes hard to tell which side users identify with when hardly anyone is using regular user flairs. I said it in another thread (but I don't remember what the mod response was), IMHO: remove custom user flairs, force every user to pick a regular flair (red pill, purple pill, non-red pill/blue pill) - I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:00 PM
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Is it grooming if she is 18, and not 12? A legal adult vs a middle schooler, really? I'm just using the logic from your post. You say 18 is an arbitrary age anyway and that it comes down to "she wants it", so it's fine. I don't see how that would not apply to a 16 year old as well. Or 14 year olds. Or... Well, you get the point. I'm sure there is no shortage of 14 year olds who feel really mature for their age and who are convinced they are much more mature than the rest of the 14 year olds arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:34 AM
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It's legal, that's pretty much all you can ask for. But your post doesn't really make a strong point. 18 year olds get taken advantage off by insurance salesmen, taking out loans, being recruited by military, vote, etc. So you agree that they do get taken advantage of... and then you ask why it's considered taking advantage of them if older men go after them. If they respond to an older man's game or the idea of marrying young appeals to her, why would it be grooming if she is 18? Remember, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 10:58 PM
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As I said: Not worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 06:51 PM
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It's not hard to "determine" that this piece in all likelyhood wasn't written by a man, that's just common practice. A lot (I want to say most, but let's play it safe) of the stuff "from a male perspective" in women's magazines is written by women. It's just how the industry works. This article has the sole purpose of generating clicks, one way or the other. Why you would even take it seriously enough to read the whole thing - let alone post it here -, I have no idea. The Cut The Cut is a site f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 06:42 PM
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Ah, now it makes sense. No, didn't happen to me. Is it really different from being rejected for any other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 06:21 PM
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How did you get over it? Over what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 04:48 PM
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BP Men: Would you date a woman that had a higher BMI than you? Depends how much higher? I don't have a problem with girls a bit above or below their ideal weight, but skinny and fat bodys are both a turn-off to me. I'd go further and say that the body type is important, too. On the one hand, I've been with a girl who was quite a bit over the "ideal" weight but she looked gorgeous because the extra weight was evenly spread out over the whole body - on the other hand, I know a couple of girls who …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 06:54 PM
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I'm trying to imagine what a "conversation" with him would look like when he would tell you about his issues with women, his lack of success with women, and his views about the world and women He would probably sound as much of a nutjob as he does in his video/manifesto, which would end the conversation real quick. I would not want to talk to him and I really don't think anything I could say would make any impact anyway. Let's be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 11:09 PM
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People can claim whatever they want and they can start out with any ideals they like, but that doesn't mean it's sustainable in the long run. As the community grows they will need more money and at some point that money will have to come from advertising and investors - then all the "free speech" talk goes out of the window. Even if you would find a model where the users themselves pay for the upkeep (through donations or subscriptions or whatever), the core problem remains the same. A big porti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 10:30 PM
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Yes. How do you get from there to "men are socially stupid"? The people of the Dinaric Alps are, on average, taller than people in the rest of the world. That doesn't mean the rest of the world is populated by midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 07:51 PM
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The difference isn't about age, I just moved to a different (bigger) city at that time. Then I started going to different events/clubs/partys with different people and there it's pretty much 50/50 and women approach just as much as men The people there (both younger and older than me) are behaving differently than the people I knew for the first 25 years of my life. I've been approached by women anywhere between 21 and 30 (usually on the younger end because there are more young singles around), …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 04:49 PM
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Also, dismissing men as socially stupid seems rather sexist. "most people who do this are men" does not equal "most men do this." Most men are sensible enough not to act like that. But of the small group of people who do act like that, most of them are men and only very few are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 04:08 PM
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Reddit is a business. If giving rapists their own space hurts their value, they will get rid of them. They don't care about rapists, they just care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 01:37 AM
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Not sure where you get that from. As long as you're being respectful I don't see how it could be defined as "not socially acceptable" to approach someone (unless it's the Queen of England or something). You're not being insulting or breaching protocol by talking to someone. (Now, obviously, depending on what you say it can still be insulting, but that's a different matter.) The whole point of social awareness or empathy is being able to relate to other people and to recognize and anticipate how …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 01:27 AM
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Frankly, most "cold approaches" I've seen happen on the street or similar places were creepy. I'd even argue that the reason I don't see women act like that is because they have (on average) quite a bit more social awareness than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 10:37 PM
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From my experience it depends greatly on the location and the social circle you're moving in. The first 25 years of my life, it never happened. Then I started going to different events/clubs/partys with different people and there it's pretty much 50/50 and women approach just as much as men, they buy you drinks (which was really bizarre the first time it happened to me), the whole shtick. It took a while to get used to, but it's pretty nice. I can't think of many women approaching men in cafés o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 09:54 PM
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There's a really important piece that you're missing here Even more important is the demographic we're looking at. A huge chunk of the 50 Shades readers/viewers are women that TRP would never care about otherwise - too old, moms with kids, married, ... If we'd go by the popular fantasies for "women in their prime" (by TRP definitions), say late teens and early 20s, the hottest thing ever are gay guys who desperately need to be comforted all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 02:45 PM
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They're almost all cringey. And then there's this: http://imgur.com/a/Dar7V (sadly I don't remember if it came from TRP or /r/seduction)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 08:21 PM
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What are your thoughts on this? Sounds gake and fay. That aside, this line stood out: Pretty gobsmacking, and it left Michelle in floods of tears. So, a few days later, Michelle responded in the best way possible in an open letter on her blog Yeah, clearly that's the best way of handling private matters. He really shouldn't have messaged her in the first place, he should have rented a "MICHELLE, you're too fat to give me a boner!" billboard or something. What truly concerns me, the real reason I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 06:17 PM
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It's not about original thought, it's about making something your own. If someone is literally basing everything he does and says on something some random dude has written on the internet, then he's clearly not basing it on himself, his partner or their relationship. But if none of that plays into it, I don't see how it can be considered a romantic gesture. He has already removed everything personal/emotional from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 12:21 PM
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That's why I said it's up to interpretation. When I first read the original thread, that's how I understood the question (and judging by some of the answers there, other people did so, too).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 12:12 PM
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Which is the problem with the question in the original thread: On the guide, however, you find that his entire personality, his witticism, his romantic gestures, and all the things that made you fall for him were based on/inspired by this guide I guess it's up to interpretation, but to me that makes me think of someone reading lines from a script whenever he says/does something, so that would be the epitome of pretending/acting. And as /u/chasingstatues has said, how does that work with him "hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 09:48 AM
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At first I thought that you could have at least taken the time to sum up the details of the study yourself instead of just quoting a Cosmopolitan article. Then I saw that they give zero details what "new study" they are talking about. Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:27 PM
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They want you, Mr. Natty High SMV http://i.imgur.com/AL0Fw7N.png
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 02:59 PM
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What I meant to convey was that beyond a personality threshold, personality doesn't mean much to me. Yeah, so how is that an advantage over people who value both? I mean, you're basically saying that everybody would put as much emphasis on physical attractiveness as you do if they could get away with it, but why would they want to? Most people care as much about personality (or whatever non-physical traits they value, I don't think "personality" covers it all) as they care about physical attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 03:03 PM
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Most people who claim to be deep and not superficial are quite ugly in my experience. To be fair, most people who actually are "deep and not superficial" usually don't go around claiming to be deep and superficial. What I don't quite get in your post: On the one hand, you make it sound like it's a privilege: I feel like I highly value physical attractiveness in a mate because I can and that other TBPers would so as well if they were as attractive as me. On the other hand, you don't really seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 05:03 AM
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What is there to impede? just ways to deal with specific RP tactics. What is there to deal with? If you don't like what he's doing... don't deal with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 11:54 PM
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He's part of the furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:05 PM
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I dare say "common sense", but you could call it banning for ban evasion. It's the same people with the same intent making a new sub with the same topic, of course that one is going to get banned, too. Especially if it's a direct reaction to the first one being banned. Maybe if you make a /r/FPH2000 a couple of months from now it will stay. /r/fatlogic did the sensible thing and went private when the sudden influx of former /r/FPH posters came and spammed the place with FPH-style posts. They wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:26 PM
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you tried
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:57 PM
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Neither were any of the recently created versions of the banned subreddits but they were banned all the same. "ban evasion". Did that really surprise anyone? Was there a single user that really thought "Oh, /r/FPH was banned? No problem, let's just bring the people over to /r/FPH712351, we'll be fine there!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:56 PM
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A bit sad that the original "Discussion" thread was removed, having two threads with different topics didn't seem like overkill. But oh well. On a completely unrelated note, what happened to the mandatory user flairs? I remember a post about users having to pick a flair for themselves... did that idea get canned? I love custom flairs as much as the next guy, but it's kind of annoying to go to a "Question for BP" thread and then read through conversations of people with some silly flair or no fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:52 PM
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To be fair, I don't see (much) actual hate in TBP. A lot of making fun of TRP posts and a lot of cringing and head-shaking, but nothing like what /r/FPH used to have. But I'm not subscribed to either, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 11:28 PM
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True, but that doesn't tell us much except that they see more traffic than usual. They had a couple of "Reddit exodus" spikes during the last months (the biggest on in February), but the traffic dropped as quickly as it came. Voat is a (really) small fish compared to reddit, the influx they experience right now might be big for their standards, but it's still tiny for reddit standards. Just to put it into perspective, reddit is in the top 10 of most visited sites in the US and somewhere in the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 09:04 PM
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Yep, that didn't last long. Sometimes I do wonder why people who hate fat people apparently want to look at fat people all day long. I don't hate fat people and just seeing the stuff that leaks into /r/all is enough to be annoying. It has to be torture for anyone who really hates fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:28 PM
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Post something controversial in /r/TodayILearned for example and watch how fast it gets removed. The question is: Do the people who browse TIL care enough to stop going there? And the answer is probably "nope". Most of them don't give a flying fuck, they're just there for some mental fastfood. Is banning "offensive" subreddits a problem for the site? IMHO only if it affects the browsing experience of the average redditor negatively. Telling 150k /r/FPH subscribers to go and fuck themselves reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:24 PM
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And the world would rejoice shrug. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:12 PM
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It might very well not be, I didn't say it was a good decision. At the same time, I don't think that banning /r/FPH (or CoonTown or TRP or whatever the future might bring) on its own will have any real consequences. Sure, some drama in the comments, but realistically speaking... what percentage of reddit users really give a shit about /r/FPH (or its disappearance)? If they continue and crack down on more (and more mainstream) subreddits, that might cause people to leave. But as long as they stic…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:09 PM
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Maybe, if TRP creates enough negative publicity. /r/all was sometimes overflowing with /r/FPH posts (especially recently), I can't really say the same about TRP. Either way it wouldn't surprise me. Reddit is a business and business strategy is amoral. They'll do whatever they believe will earn them dem sweet, sweet moneys in the long run. And it's about time that Reddit starts making a profit, too, so be prepared to see more "sanitizing" of content to make the site more attractive to advertisers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 07:51 PM
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/r/badhistory (again) in 3, 2, 1 ...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 12:13 PM
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...but if you're in a gay bar, a gay neighborhood or dating site stating you're looking for guys, then it's no longer going against the expected norm. You expect gay people in gay bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 08:07 PM
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When a bisexual woman is attracted to a woman she doesn't have any problem walking up to her and ask her out and generally doing the legwork to start and maintain the relationship I mean, you pretty much have to if you go against expected norms. Imagine you're a gay guy - just waiting to be approached by someone you're interested in won't work out because a) there's a high chance he's not interested in men and will not approach you or b) even if he is interested in you, he might think that you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 07:53 PM
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If you don't even bother to post a summary, why post all those videos at all? It's beyond useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:00 AM
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Rationality destroys birth rates. Honestly, how comes TRP is so adamant about it being a terrible choice for men to get married but at the same time think that falling birth rates are the work of the devil feminism and not just another rational choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:44 PM
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doing society a service lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:26 AM
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Although it can't become a law in the U.S (I think, possibly in the European Union and other countries though), how long before something like this becomes standard practice? Female McMaster professors getting a pay boost to same level as men Uh... maybe something's missing from the article, but what's the problem with that? Researchers looked at the average salaries of male and female faculty based on appointment type, department, rank and the number of years in the rank. Seems pretty sensible …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 01:07 PM
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A possible difference is that one grew up alpha with a strong influence by an alpha masculine male figure who mentored him from a young age. So he's not "natural" alpha, it's just learnt behavior that he got taught earlier than other people. However, there are women who feel cheated knowing the man they're with started off as a less than stellar beta loser. I'm trying to think of a single real world example of that happening and I can't. That's like saying you're not going to fuck that 23 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 04:13 PM
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I'm talking about women who absolutely disdain non-natural alphas and beta men who have learned to act and ultimately become alpha, instead of being naturally alpha or growing up alpha. That doesn't really make sense. What is the difference between "ultimately become alpha" and "growing up alpha"? What is a "natural" alpha anyway? If you're born poor and work yourself up to wealth I'd say that's a lot more "alpha" than someone who was born rich and never had to earn a dime. If you're a fat fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 02:36 PM
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And haircuts. A proper haircut makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 02:29 PM
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it seems to me that it's less that they're incapable of it, and more that they just aren't interested in it. (...) if they already think that women are stupid and boring, it makes sense that they'll probably seek out people and situations to confirm that outlook. This is the answer. Pretty much the first thing RPers will say is that the only thing that matters in a woman is that she's young and hot (for sex) and keeps their house clean and their stomachs full (for relationships). Everything else…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 12:34 PM
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I seriously wonder if it really was written by a woman. Links to reddit so I am doubtful. Probably not. It was one of those throwaway one-time posts to /r/TwoXChromosomes with no follow-ups and was later removed. Half a year later it's still circulating... But the real tragedy here is that 70/30 makes better hamburgers than 80/20 anyway. That is something people should be talking about. Priorities, people! Priorities!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 02:12 PM
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I think it swings back and forth over time. Sometimes you get a majority of RPers, sometimes a majority of BPers. I think eventually RP will win out completely because noone else really cares that much. Most BPers aren't particularly invested in debating TRP because it's really just a waste of time. You see the same vocal RPers coming back here and making the same points for weeks or months (or even longer) because they think of TRP as something important. On the other hand you have a high turno…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 09:36 PM
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My question is for both pills: do you believe it is justifiable for a man to leave his wife/girlfriend if she refuses to sleep with him? is it justifiable for a woman to leave her boyfriend/husband if he refuses to sleep with her? What about fulfilling fantasies or accommodating kinks? Justifiable to whom? Personally I think it's justified - if you're unhappy, why should you force yourself or be forced to stay in a relationship that keeps you from being happy? Doesn't mean the wife or husband or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:22 PM
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Ideally, yes. But realistically, people change and discover/develop new desires or their desires become stronger or weaker over time which is something you can't plan for. Ongoing communication throughout the relationship helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:20 PM
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The right way, of course! /s Honestly, from what I've seen so far pretty much everyone (except the most deadbeat parents) tries to raise their kids the right way. They all want them to become good and healthy and balanced and successful and happy people. But plans mean nothing to kids. I don't want kids, so I'm not worrying much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:13 AM
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I don't have one and I think the world would be a better place if all religions were to vanish tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 10:40 PM
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Then why make an exception "if the child has biological defects or when it threatens the life of the mother"? She took the chance that this could happen when she decided she wants to get pregnant, so now she has the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 10:03 PM
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Self-proclaimed "Advice Goddess" Amy Alkon says she likes Joyce Benenson's book better than Sheryl Sandberg's. FTFY Considering I haven't heard of any of the three before this thread and probably won't anymore once I leave this thread, I conclude that I don't give a fuck either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 01:25 PM
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I don't identify with any pill but there was no flair for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 02:31 PM
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I don't remember. I think I first heard of /r/theredpill through /r/tumblrinaction, but I knew of some manosphere blogs before. From there I stumbled upon asktrp, marriedredpill, thebluepill, redpillwomen, punchingmorpheus and PPD. I like debates and PPD is a nice way to waste some time while on the train. I mostly read and don't comment a lot. I don't think anyone's mind will be changed here anyway, so I don't think it's worth the effort. It's just entertainment. It sometimes surprises me how s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 02:30 PM
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...why is this thread here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:34 PM
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If you were to tell me that you're broke and instead of paying your rent and buying food you spent your last money on scratch tickets because you plan to hit the jackpot, I'd call you an idiot and tell you that you wasted your money to go from "just" broke to broke, homeless and hungry. That doesn't mean it's impossible that you actually do hit the jackpot, just that it's so unlikely that you should have spent your money more wisely. The fact that peolpe have won the jackpot in the past does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:48 PM
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There's no way to tell since we can't talk to the people involved, it's all hypothetical. But let's be realistic: Once you're labeled "the cheater", that will stick. That's what everybody will see as the reason for the divorce because very few people will hear the details or see both sides of the story. It will anger the wife and give her every reason to make the divorce extra hard on him, it's what she will tell the children once they're old enough to listen and it's what friends and family and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:33 PM
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How do I put this... I'm familiar with TRP. I just think it's asinine. It's a stupid move to fuck someone else as an attempt to save or better that marriage. The only reason (and I'm not saying it's right or wrong) to keep this marriage alive is the fear he might lose the kids if it comes to divorce. Yet this is exactly what will happen if she reacts badly to him fucking around. He has a lot to lose and, from the way the article reads, not much to win. That's not a good move to make, period. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:33 AM
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Well, there is low hanging fruit and then there are pumpkins... The "X is just not smart enough/doesn't want to understand Y" can be done with any two random groups of people. Atheists? They close their eyes to the love of God that surrounds us! They're too afraid to face reality! Christians? They're just too stupid to see that there is no God! They're too afraid to face reality! That there are actually any RPers in here that follow this line of thought in dead ernest is... not quite surprising,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:13 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't hold my breath as far as rekindling her libido is concerned. I'd advise him to fuck someone else because that way he gets to have sex, not to get a positive (or any) reaction out of his wife. That would be a stupid argument, because it's just as likely that she'll pack her things - or, more likely, his things - and he's in for a messy divorce and a sad goodbye to his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:01 AM
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Or he might be off much worse. We don't know anything about him except that he's been stuck in a seriously dead bedroom for years and that his wife thinks that this is perfectly normal and that he's the weirdo for expecting at least a little sex in his marriage. I see no indication that TRP would work better or worse for him than any other approach. We can speculate that a bit of lifting and some dread game will turn her into a sex slave for him, but if we keep it realistic... that marriage is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 12:47 AM
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I'd tell him to find someone else to fuck and to be discrete about it. His wife made it clear she has no interest in sex, you rule out divorce and "talking about it" (which would inevitably end with him bringing up divorce as a possible consequence if things don't change), we can't really ask for any additional information or talk to them, so... She says she loves him and that things are going great, but she has no interest in having sex with him - if he doesn't want to end the relationship (for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 12:29 AM
5

Isn't the High School Jock guy still around? Slim chances of anyone being banned, I think. At least not for trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:43 PM
2

Well, admittedly it's better than his "rape should be legal" try, so... I guess that's progress of some kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:28 PM
5

You're trying way too hard, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:40 PM
1

My mother is a bitch, so you're certainly not alone in that :P To me it's simple: Good friends are hard to find. And that's true regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:40 PM
0

I don't think anyone of them can fix a car, but I don't think that makes them not-friends. To the rest: Yes. Fuck, they helped me moved and made food for me. Why don't you just tell me why it's supposed to be so hard to be friends with women instead of this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:45 PM
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Because prudes. What's next? Showing female nipples?! But seriously, it is legal here and I agree that it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 02:22 PM
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Friends. And yes, I'm sure they are really female and not just dudes in drag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 02:19 PM
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Sorry, but what's so hard about being friends with women? Or more specifically: In what way is it harder to be friends with a woman than with a man? I'd say a small majority of my friends are girls. Some of them I fucked, some of them I didn't fuck and some of them I have no interest to do so. But none of that has an impact on the friendship. I also have to say that of the friends I made in my adult life (childhood friends don't count because those bonds are out of this world anyway) girls often…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 09:10 AM
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2/10, would not yawn at again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 08:39 PM
3

Isn't that true for every conversation here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 11:18 PM
12

Of course. What better way is there to assert your dominance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 11:19 AM
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You know, everytime I see one of those "teach men not to rape" posts I rolly my eyes: Who the fuck doesn't know how not to rape? And then there are posts like this and I think: "Ah, right. That guy. Thanks a bunch."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 06:43 PM
1

well...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 03:44 PM
3

Define "useful"? From a first glance you'd need to make so many exceptions and bend the rules so much to make them work in today's reality that no, they don't appear useful. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. How does that work for guys with, uh, "performance problems"? I'm also pretty sure that "marital duty" by bible standards doesn't just refer to having sex but to having sex with the particular and sole purpose of creating offspring…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 03:38 PM
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Do you agree with any of the above statements? Not really, no. I don't see much (if any) bias by the mods, so I don't agree with the first point and the rest of the points seem to take PPD much more seriously than necessary. Do you think PPD is worthwhile? To be honest: No. But I still come back to browse /new every once in a while, so what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 04:59 PM
3

I'm kinda curious how one would choose a baseline for an experiment like this. Are women "more sensitive" or are men "less sensitive"? What is the neutral level of sensitivity to humor? And how do we define "funny" content without using laughing humans? Questions, questions... (No, there's no point to this comment, just something I was wondering about when reading.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 08:36 PM
5

This really belongs in /r/bandnames. Well, not all of it, just "Lizard Brain".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 01:07 PM
5

Not just attraction, preference. In other words people that - given the choice - would rather fuck a 15 year old than a 20 year old because the 20 year old doesn't look young enough for them. (In German it's even more specific, "Ephebophilie" refers strictly to men with a preference for pubescent boys, while "Parthenophilie" refers to men with a preference for pubescent girls between the ages of 12 to 17.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 07:24 PM
2

Fight Rules: No breaking US laws. Man, didn't you learn anything from watching Fight Club? The First Rule always is "You do not talk about Fight Club!" Fuck the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 02:37 PM
9

I think it has something to do with how many big dicks are involved, that seems to be an important part of understanding TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 02:35 PM
1

I thought Alphas are supposed to be the ones women try to lock down into a relationship by throwing sex at them and in the end they have to settle for the Beta because they couldn't hold the Alpha. If they just use the "Alpha" for sex and drop him once they got their tingles calmed because they never cared about them, how does that line up with TRP theories that women would rather share an Alpha for a relationship than be with a Beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 03:26 PM
3

This. If I were to buy a car, my father would come have a look at it. Maybe he'd pop the hood and look around, he'd give the tires a good kick, he'd check the papers and he'd make a really important face while doing so and then tell me exactly what he thinks of the car and pass his judgement, convinced that he's an expert who is to be trusted without question... but in reality his opinion is useless because he knows jack shit about cars. TIL my father is TRP for cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 01:18 PM
22

How long does that anger phase last again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/15 11:09 PM
23

I think you're looking for /r/theredpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 05:03 PM
1

How on earth did you get from the very specific OP "natural urge to kill" to something as mushy and all-encompassing as "feeling violent"? I've never felt a desire to end someones life. Doesn't mean I was never angry or never felt like I really wanted to smack some guy across the face to beat some sense into him, but that is miles away (the act itself as well as the motivation behind it) from "I'm going to kill you!" Same goes for rape. I'm sexually dominant. I'm a sadist. I'm as horny as any ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 07:58 AM
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He said that rape is a natural instinct for men but that doesn't mean it's right or moral in any way, men must learn to control their urges . He can speak for himself. I'm turning 30 soon and not once in my life did I have the urge to rape or kill anyone in particular or the urge to go out and rape and kill in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 11:47 PM
0

The above two statements are clearly contradictory How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 11:44 PM
0

Just someone looking for attention on the internet. That's the motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 11:37 PM
5

I don't hate either. Is that okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:56 PM
2

Why would the DB stories line up so well? Why would all the depression stuff make such a good fit with his new story? Huh? He wrote the old posts and the new ones. Why shouldn't they fit? And he's not there to promote TRP. You're trying to turn my opinion into more than it is. I just don't believe it's true, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:31 PM
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You think somebody spent 2 years on this? He created the account, faked all those DB and SW posts in hopes that one day years from then that a TRP subreddit would rise up and need some propaganda? No, not at all. I think he made some attention-seeking posts back then. And now he made a new one with "updated" content. That's all, no long-con, conspiracy theory or propaganda talk needed. Just someone looking for attention on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:17 PM
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See my initial comment. Edit: Just to cut this short, because I don't feel like going back and forth over the same points with no results: I won't try to convince you or anyone else that the post is made up. It's just my honest opinion that it is, no more, no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:03 PM
2

No, that's not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 09:57 PM
4

The particulars are different But they make a lot of difference. I'm not saying that acting differently won't have an impact on a relationship. Being dominant and taking care of yourself and whatever - yeah, that can work. I'm just doubting that this particular post is anything more than a made up story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 09:47 PM
5

Your wife never had sex with you after the wedding, never allowed any kind of affection, hit you in public and you had a counselor that not only saw nothing wrong with that - even tho you tried to kill yourself a couple of times and had a drinking problem - but never cared about what you said, thought your wife was doing perfectly fine and wanted to drug you to lower your libido? For years? Sorry, that's just a bit too excessive for me. Maybe I am wrong, but... eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 09:30 PM
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Honest opinion: I don't believe it. The guy spends two years in depression on reddit talking about unfavorable divorce laws, how men should be allowed to get a "financial abortion" and now this post... and he still claims he never had a look at TRP? And the "counselor" he describes sounds like a fantasy. "Let's imagine the worst possible thing that could happen." For years she didn't want the slightest bit of sex, she hit him in public, always pushed him away - but of course now she's turned int…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 09:15 PM
1

This is a tough one. I'm not an Asian man. I don't want to get married. I'm a total sucker for Asian women. So, uh... if I was an Asian man who wants to get married my answer would be... Yes, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 04:26 PM
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Get tested (both of you). Always use condoms and use them properly. Will that protect you from every possible risk? No. But it will protect you from a lot more than making decisions based on a self-reported partner count. If you have health concerns, that's a terrible way to go about having "safe" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 09:39 PM
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Examples from my own life would be the ass chewings I took from all around each time an ex cheated on me because slut shaming is wrong and I can't ever be upset with how a woman chooses to express her sexuality. Or "friends" who fully expect that I serve and provide as though I were a boyfriend, but I get nothing out of it whatsoever. Questioning this arrangement is met wit screeches of "ENTITLEMENT!!! LOL MALE TEARS LOL YOU ARENT OWED SHIT" So my question is why do you believe women are entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:59 PM
4

Cheating, lying, manipulating, all are good things for a woman to do according to feminists/BP people. Of course. Are you a zergling?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:51 PM
0

That properly debating/discussing TRP would require so much moderation that this sub would die out. There is so much junk and trolling to sift through but I guess if this sub had really strict rules (and would enforce them with deletions and bans) there wouldn't be enough people left to keep the discussion going. Not meant as sarcasm, just my opinion after browsing/reading here for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 04:03 PM
4

There should be a rule against posting videos without description/summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 11:55 AM
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Have you ever wondered how popular Instagram models can afford their lavish lifestyles? Actually... No. I didn't even know Instagram models are a thing. I know a guy who is a “model recruiter” who gets paid to find girls who are basically willing to whore themselves out to rich Saudis with oil money. The Saudis pay anywhere from $10,000 to as much as $50,000 per girl for each trip which last anywhere from a weekend up to 2 weeks and they basically **** the **** out of the girls multiple times a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:43 PM
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Maybe you should get out more. I'm serious, I've never seen anyone on the "extreme" end of the spectrum in real life. Most people live normal lives with normal relationships and no hate in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:27 PM
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And the growth is very linear. Ever since TRP hit 20k subscribers it grew by 10k every two months. (see http://redditmetrics.com/r/TheRedPill for reference) It's not growing explosively at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:33 PM
3

forming romantic relationships will seem kinda pointless But why? Without having to care about kids or some distant future, forming romantic relationships would be much easier. Less pressure, less consequences, just enjoy your time together while it lasts. People love to seek out intense experiences and falling in love is definitely one of them. It's enjoyable. It's fun to share your live with someone you love. In fact, it's really awesome while it lasts and if there are no severe consequences t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 02:43 AM
2

Something else I noticed: I think it would help if you would delete the whole comment tree when you delete a top level comment (regarding rules 4 and 5). Sometimes people have already responded to the deleted comment and the discussion goes on even after the original comment was deleted. That just creates clutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 02:36 AM
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Technology has advanced so much that we will soon be able to create artificial wombs and artificial sperm. I also believe that it won't be long until sex robots become a thing. Cleaning the house and cooking will also be really easy and not time consuming in the future because of the advanced technology Okay. I suspect in the future the genders will be mostly segregated. Why? I enjoy my relationships. I enjoy spending time with women even when no sex is involved. What makes you think that most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 02:33 AM
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I think this sub would benefit from some bans, as it is there is just too much crap to sort through. Even threads like this: http://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/314mu3/if_you_didnt_look_like_this_in_high_school_youre/ are kept up. A lot of the recent "CMV" threads have nothing to do with actual CMV posts, they just don't fit any other label. IMHO it would be better to remove them right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 07:23 PM
1

I didn't say anything about sex being/not being an immoral or illegal act. I just think it's funny that these are the connections your mind came up with when you tried to think of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 10:18 PM
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I like how you equate having a threesome with abusing children and other crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 10:04 PM
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Why would someone hate you for only having had sex with your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 01:25 PM
3

I don't think that's what the comment says. There are healthy BDSM relationships and there are abusive ones. Since they talk about the difference between healthy and abusive BDSM relationships, doesn't that contradict your statement that they can't accept that some women like rough sex or like being submissive during sex? that a girl wouldn't like being used for the pleasure of her mate, and only likes a mutually beneficial pleasure. Ill find more. If the girl likes being used, isn't that mutual…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 05:29 AM
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Could you quote what comment(s) you are talking about? From skimming the threads I can't find anything that says no women enjoy being submissive and dominated during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 05:10 AM
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A woman saying she wants her man to be with another woman isn't a first. It's called cuckqueaning. Is she just being honest knowing she needs "dread game" or is there some other issue? How would we know? We don't even hear her perspective directly, only what her boyfriend says she said. To me it sounds like she's into cuckqueaning, but it's hard to tell without talking to her directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:37 PM
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I have seen BPers defend this time and time and again Do you have a concrete example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 10:20 PM
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I'm five minutes in and I'm already lost. Who is who? I only recognize the names of GayLubeOil, BakerOfPie and MissPearl but who are Maya, cosine of pi and anna pickles? A short introduction would've been helpful (and screen names that match the reddit names). Edit: Out after ten minutes. Too much GLO cheese and I have no idea who is debating who. Does it get better later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 05:07 PM
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