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| 16 | The occupation of men on OLDI had the same exact experience as you! Nothing but jobless and homeless men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 21 | The occupation of men on OLDThis is what I found! So many on unemployment!! Thus all the time in the world to date multiple women. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The occupation of men on OLDThis is what I found! So many on unemployment!! Thus all the time in the world to date multiple women. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:41 PM |
| 8 | The occupation of men on OLDI have never found a genuinely well-off man online! Where are you seeing these people? I never even find any educated people. Mostly I find unemployed, between jobs, or minimum-wage types. This is why I gave up doing online 2 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 2 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮My mother and a close friend of mine are two of these people! My Mother actually begged for one of those Kirby things that cal also shampoo carpets. You’d think she’d died and gone to heaven. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 8 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮Yes, exactly this! I think of my parents. My parents have been married 55 years. She prides herself on a sparkling clean house. I can think of at least 2 occasions where he bought her a fancy new “latest and greatest” vacuum cleaner as a gift. She was ecstatic. She vacuumed nearly every day. Not for him, but for her. Some women pride themselves on this and would do it regardless of their relationship status. These practical gifts made what she insisted on doing easier, and faster. Then she had m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:07 PM |
| 43 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮I’m obviously the outlier here, but I appreciate what I call practical gifts. I’m going to totally get roasted, but my boyfriend installed a water softener and water treatment system for my house for V day and I’m absolutely thrilled. We don’t live together, he has his own house, so it is clearly just for me. And I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 6 | He wants to move in togetherCan I just say, it’s 2022 and PhD are a dime a dozen. I have one. My ex has one. It is no guarantee for any amount of success. However, WHAT you get a PhD in totally matters. Not only that, in some disciplines, like the one I am in, PhD students are paid a stipend that covers housing and food if you are able to budget properly. If he isn’t being offered housing or isn’t receiving a stipend, I would caution you - do NOT move in with him. He will be acquiring debt that will take him decades to pay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?My reply to her was this: “he has 3 children already, I have a better education than him and have my own business, so why on earth would I stalk HIM?” But she obviously felt he is a catch. I mean, if I was stalking him why would I have had 3 pictures of his d*ck that he sent to me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 39 | Where is your kids dad? Not 1 mention of him. Be careful who you procreate with.I’m in the same boat as you! I am child free and have had to cover for those with children for two entire years now. I am doing twice the work and where is the “thank you?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 12 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsNot a single comment about his personality or his matches. He’s a real winner…🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 27 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?I wish I had an answer. I had a similar experience. A few years ago I went on a couple of dates with someone. He kept trying to get into my pants but I told him that I don’t just jump into bed with someone. He was divorced and had 3 kids already so I wasn’t that interested. But we did have a couple of things in common so I was up for the occasional company on outings if he could behave. I noticed that he mostly only messaged me during the day and rarely at night, so alarms went off. When I got f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.My heart is breaking for this woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 41 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.I went to a couples therapist 10 years ago. He actually helped me to see I was with a serious LVM and helped me escape! And he was a man! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:06 PM |
| 223 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugThis reminds me of the time this guy kept trying to sleep with me after 2 dates. I refused. He kept trying. He sent me d*ck picks so then I blocked his number and his Facebook. Two days later I was going through my FB messenger and I saw his profile changed showing him with a woman. I could see it in my messenger even though I blocked him. I asked a friend to look up the woman. I then contacted her and showed her his messages. She said she had been with him every single day for 3 months straight… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 47 | I blocked and deleted ...If it makes you feel any better, my misogynistic father messed me up. I am still trying to recover from the damage that he created and how he treated my mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …I get it. I used to be like that as well. Until I stopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 8 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …ASTEAM. I actually vet men for spelling. Typos are fine. But if they say “how are u” or “cus that is what I want” or can’t spell esteem or other important words, it’s an automatic block from my end! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:17 AM |
| 124 | This is nothing but truth.I wish young women got taken aside and taught these very important lessons - how to have self-respect, how to weed out worthless men, how to focus on yourself rather than “how to catch a man.” Heck, I went to an Ivy League in the late 90s and at least half the women there were just there to get a husband…NOT get an education so that they know how to take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 31 | This is nothing but truth.If they can’t make plans with you in advance, it means they are either horrible at time management or planning and you will end up having to be his Mother if you end up in a relationship - planning his doctor’s appointments, his family’s birthdays, etc. OR You are the backup girl. The one to fill his time because it just became available. Either way, you deserve better!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 86 | This is what „women support women” is about!Yes, like Epstein. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youThe VP treats me well. He promoted me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:14 AM |
| 9 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youOmg, these men!! 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youNo I don’t report to him, I report to the VP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 19 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youThank you for sharing this story. I think I am experiencing something similar at work with a man. I was recently promoted and am a favorite of the VP. The man in question occasionally flirts and then goes cold. I think he is trying something fishy too, and I don’t like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:55 PM |
| 82 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to youTriangulation - I just had a man last week try this. The man in question is supposed to be giving me a quote on a house build. Instead he keeps calling to chat and invite me to stuff. I just want him to give me my damned quote. I’d be a lot more impressed if he stopped telling me how busy he is and actually do his work. Anyway, last night he made his last ditch effort and told me how there are TWO women who want relationships with him but he just needs to take things slow, and would I like to do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!My favorite is when a man tries to hit on me and tries to pretend he is a hiker but when you ask him a few questions you realize he is not an actual hiker. Like when you ask him how many 4000 footers he has done or which fire towers, and they say “oh I don’t keep track and count, I just go and hike.” Yeah, ok buddy…whatever. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.In my experience, the unattractive and low-income men are the worst and most likely to be disrespectful and seek constant validation…with other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.Yes, my thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 88 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.It was horrible to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:14 AM |
| 82 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.My intention was not to shift blame. I guess my point was, I have accepted that there are men like this, and there are a lot of them. Horrible men. Men who do not care about driving over helpless animals or putting others in danger. I guess I’m just shocked that a woman would stick around with a man like that. In my mind, a man who does that with someone with him is likely to do things like that a lot. Hopefully I am assuming incorrectly and this is the first time this woman has witnessed this m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:13 AM |
| 5 | I suggest we use this in the futureI just DIED!!! Omg, where was this when I was explaining about vaccination and 3 men who are anti-vaxxers told me to shut it…when I have a PhD in Immunology!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | I suggest we use this in the futureBest idea I have seen in a month!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 6 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!The last one I accepted a hike with told me how he was in the best shape of his life and was walking 6 miles a day and had been hiking. He said he was close to doing 4,000 footers. I suggested an easier, lower elevation hike just to see how he would do. He had all the right gear, but he looked like he was going to have a heart attack 1/3 of the way up - he was sweating through his shirt and his face was red. We had’t even gone a mile and it wasn’t hot, it was early spring. That is the LAST time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:40 AM |
| 15 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!Oh yes, as an avid hiker myself I find it hilarious when men tell me that they hike. When I ask them what trails, they mention little 1 mile flat paths. That is NOT a hike!! My hikes are 15-20 miles in the wilderness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 54 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!I love to hike. I’m a legit mountain hiker. Hiking is my main hobby. Yes, I will meet up with people to hike, sometimes men. I do NOT consider that a date. It is a hike, an activity, but it is not a date. I have had men consider it a date, but that is on them. I look for people to hike with, for the company and safety but I still hike solo (with my large dog) 75% of the time. I went hiking with one man 3 weekends in a row and he made a comment that we were dating. I shut that down and blocked hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 15 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesThanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 224 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesI confess I had a recent slip-up myself a couple of months ago!! I found myself attracted to a co-worker and messaged him a few times after he acted like he was interested. I realized what I was doing and stopped, but I cringe thinking how I slipped backwards. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴I LOVE everyone’s comments!! Can I just say that I got blocked from r/datingoverthirty today for suggesting a man was making misogynistic comments so…thank GOD for FDS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 10 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Yes, exactly! My brother is very affluent. My parents, and myself, are not. My brother enjoys exceedingly expensive restaurants. My brother then pays or just takes us out when he wants a family outing at one of his high-end places. This guy is an asshole, as are his parents. In my experience, when I went on vacation with my ex's parents, his parents paid for everything but the flights there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 20 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.He deserves someone who isn't poor? Omg, he's a monster!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Why is someone like you single???You are absolutely correct on that! I checked out the 3 places he was "rehabbing" and it was all cheaply done. This is not who I want to get involved with regarding rehabbing a historic property!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Why is someone like you single???I know, it's so very annoying and I hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Why is someone like you single???He is overweight, and I'm very fit. He is not attractive either. Nor is he educated, and I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Why is someone like you single???🤢🤮!!!! But you are correct! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:26 PM |
| 12 | Finally met my HVM 🥰Hahaha, OMG!!! Hilarious, I love it! At first I was like, how did this get past the mods?? But then I got to the "he's not homeless" and I knew it was satire!!! Thanks for the laugh!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 41 | Why is someone like you single???Well, I am not doing business with him, and his strategy did not work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 67 | Why is someone like you single???I gave her the full recap this morning. She had honestly felt that he was better than that, but now knows the truth. She used some profanity. I told him that his properties were not appropriate for me, and that I was more interested in the property that I had found, mainly the location (in a more affluent area) and just left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 56 | Why is someone like you single???Haha, I like that one!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 44 | Why is someone like you single???Yes!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 14 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂It reminds me of the man I met who cheated on his wife over 10 years with a woman who "shared his high level of faith in God" because you know, his wife didn't go to church. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Sadly trueThis is especially true for politicians!!! I'm talking to you Andrew Cuomo... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Ask a man which gender child he wants and dig WHY, not for the gold ya lurking scrotes 😅You'll find why he wants a girl if that is so, and if the reason is similar run in the other direction ladies🏃 That's dad duties reassigned🤡💩& a cheap💍 will buy him 2 slaves🤮👿Read the OP!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 21 | Single dads hatred for single mothers is pure projection. "I don't want to take care of another man's child!" No sir, you are looking for a childless woman to dump your parenting responsibilities onto, and a single mother is less willing to fill that role for you.Exactly! Don't bother with a single dad unless you are good with being nothing more than an afterthought and a therapist. In addition, he wouldn't be a single dad unless he had already proven to be a horrible husband/partner. The 3 single dads that I spoke to or went on dates with were all eerily similar - they talked about their kids nonstop, they whined about not seeing their kids every day, and they complained about their exes (she cheated, she stole all his money, she's lazy, etc). I wanted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 6 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!I'm sorry you aren't the doormat that I was hoping you would be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 126 | Ask a man which gender child he wants and dig WHY, not for the gold ya lurking scrotes 😅You'll find why he wants a girl if that is so, and if the reason is similar run in the other direction ladies🏃 That's dad duties reassigned🤡💩& a cheap💍 will buy him 2 slaves🤮👿My ex always said that he wanted a girl that was just like me. At the time I thought that was adorable and special. But now I see what he really meant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 68 | Single dads hatred for single mothers is pure projection. "I don't want to take care of another man's child!" No sir, you are looking for a childless woman to dump your parenting responsibilities onto, and a single mother is less willing to fill that role for you.I don't have extensive experience with single dads, but I do have some. I tried dating for a bit a few years ago, and at my age (40s), just about everyone has kids - some are even grown. I never got to the stage of providing childcare, as I wasn't around long enough. What I did find, is that single dads use their kids as an excuse to put forth ZERO effort into a relationship. I got canceled on last minute because they forgot about a little league game or parent teacher night, OR plans were cut s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 9 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!This is all vaguely familiar... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 12 | What FDS has taught me over the space of nearly 2 years.I really appreciated this post, thank you for sharing your journey!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 13 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!So basically, a degree in HR management is a degree in manipulation and abuse. Good to know! You opened my eyes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Beware the pick-me in your social groupI too sometimes enjoy doing this! I enjoy people watching while maintaining a bubble around myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 19 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!Awesome come-back!! 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!Yes, I see exactly what you mean. I was in academia my entire career until I entered corporate life a year ago. I have witnessed several examples of the situation you just described. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Gold strategy right there!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Lol, they ALL think their dick is special!! 😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 36 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!This is true. I got one of these a few weeks ago during a negotiation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 69 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!"You're too sensitive" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 29 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!Oh yes, with men there is ALWAYS deflection to the woman >> you are too sensitive, you misunderstood, you are crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 30 | This is the image that I have in my head when scrotes say dumb shit like "not all men are like that!" and "women can be rapists too!"A statistical outlier is just that...an outlier. As a scientist, I can tell you that outliers can be removed from the analysis and the paper published!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners.Thank you! I stood up for her and told her she should stand up for herself! I'm glad you understand that my intentions were good and I want better for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners.Truth be told, I believe my exact words were "he should not be doing that, that is wrong. You deserve better than that and I would tell him you are too busy to run his errands." If that means I'm clueless and misogynistic, then I'm a lost cause I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 13 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂They're not going to want you at 28 either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 20 | Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners.I wish more women DID have self respect!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 21 | Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners.I hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 71 | Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners.Oh YES!!! I saw a man at work having a much younger girl run his errands during her lunch break. I told her to have more self-respect and tell the man to run his own damned errands. Now both the girl, and the man, do not speak to me and tell everyone that I am difficult and a bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Rules of misogyny (taken from “feminist agenda” on Facebook)The 12th rule hits home for me today. For the past month every single time I point out a male behavior, it is dubbed misandry, or I'm told "women are worse." Sigh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 41 | HVM right there. Take note scrotesI really like my dog... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:44 AM |
| 81 | HVM right there. Take note scrotesYou won't regret it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:44 AM |
| 33 | "I Sued My Ex for Giving Me an Std--and I Won" - I can only see more of these cases increasing as more women fall victim to the increase of pick up artists and red pill clowns across dating apps.I am in the medical field, and yes they are arrogant. However, they do not typically act like they do not know how STIs are spread and take precautions. That doesn't mean that they don't sleep around, but they aren't having unprotected sex with multiple women at once. This dentist shows that he has sociopathic tendencies. He got one woman pregnant and gave another a STI within a 3 month period. That means he was having unprotected sex with more than one woman at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:33 AM |
| 51 | "I Sued My Ex for Giving Me an Std--and I Won" - I can only see more of these cases increasing as more women fall victim to the increase of pick up artists and red pill clowns across dating apps.Yes, I get that many, if not most, men are like that. However, most barely took a biology class. I'm surprised that a medical professional is behaving this way. I mean, does he not autoclave his utensils either? Every man that I encountered in graduate school (except one) was just as careful about STIs as I was. On average, the severe teflon penis attitude is associated with less education, at least little science education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:46 PM |
| 300 | "I Sued My Ex for Giving Me an Std--and I Won" - I can only see more of these cases increasing as more women fall victim to the increase of pick up artists and red pill clowns across dating apps.I had thought for the longest time that men who have multiple partners and who refuse to wear protection, thereby potentially spreading STDs did it out of ignorance. Here we have a man with medical training, a dentist, acting like he has a teflon penis that is incapable of getting STDs!!! The sheer misogynistic depravity is mindblowing!! I'm so glad this woman stuck up for herself and the court agreed that he was in the wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 62 | "I Sued My Ex for Giving Me an Std--and I Won" - I can only see more of these cases increasing as more women fall victim to the increase of pick up artists and red pill clowns across dating apps.Yeah, those comments at the end were horrible. It's like they don't think men should be held accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | "If he wanted to, he would." Stops hurting so much in time when you see it for what it is.We all need this reminder on a regular basis. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 40 | Found my next book.This is pretty depressing, but because I feel like it is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want his name on my doctorate.I refused to take his name. I already had publications with my birth name, so there was no way I was going to ever change my name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 52 | A question?Hahaha!! Me TOO!!! Don't you just want to say "just stand there and look pretty, don't speak." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 23 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021I confess I was on the fence about this a few years ago when I was seeing someone who was doing this. My "friends" said that that is just what guys do. The man said "it meant nothing." I waited a bit and did more investigating and found he talked to some of the women too. Looking at what or who a guy is liking on social media is now one of the first things I vet for. By interacting with other women in that manner, he is either keeping his options open or at the very least disrespecting you and y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 47 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021I dumped a man when I noticed he likes and comments on every single girl's selfie on his friends list. Nope, not doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:18 PM |
| 48 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsYES!!! Why does she want to marry him if he doesn't give a shit? Those were my feelings anyway when I left my ex forever bf who acted like he did not care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseIf it makes you feel any better, my blueprints for a 3 bedroom house with a carriage house with 2 additional bedrooms were completed last month and I just hired a contractor to build. This is all for myself and my dog. I will rent out the carriage house as a bnb. I'm entirely single and I'm too old for kids by this point - never wanted them anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!I have to agree with this. I am not gorgeous by any means, but above average. Then add to that my PhD. I dress professionally with my Brooks Brothers shirts. I am fit and very active. I have a few refined pieces of jewelry from zoe chicco and Tiffany's. Barely any men approach me at work. I know I am older, but I see the men flock to the very unattractive and obese 28 yr old who wears fake nails and has purple hair. I've been told that she has slept with half the men. They all act scared of me! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 15 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!I really like zoe chicco. I have a couple of elegant gold necklaces that are very refined and delicate. I also have a couple of things from Tiffany's. Just simple, but quality, pieces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 46 | Who knew?And just like that, I sort of like this song for the first time ever... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 6 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮This is gross. The NYT should be embarrassed for publishing such crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 9 | On the myth that your 20s are when you have the most options with HVM.I may be a new official user of FDS, and perhaps I do need time to "mourn my old beliefs," but my experience has been different than yours. I do allow that many in FDS have had different experiences and therefore different perspectives, but does being different make them wrong? In the end, I think we all have the same goal, and that is to grow as a woman, grow in perspective and confidence and self-esteem, learn our worth, and be happy being single..unless we chance upon the rare unicorn: the HV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | On the myth that your 20s are when you have the most options with HVM.Let me correct myself. Yes, HVM are rare. If they weren't, we wouldn't need FDS!! Lol That being said, I will change my stance to suggest that they are rare in general. In certain settings, they may be more concentrated than average, (ie higher education), but single HVM are nonexistent in your 40s!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | On the myth that your 20s are when you have the most options with HVM.So, because I did not date or sleep around with hundreds of guys, but did date 4 HVM that I missed out on, I would say that is pretty impressive in a 5 year period! So, I'll have to disagree with you. That was over 50% of the number of men that I dated in that period. I think the percentage of HVM is higher in certain settings, such as graduate school. There are not a ton of people, but the quality is better. I stand by my statement that it is harder to find HVM over 30 than it is in your 20s, b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | On the myth that your 20s are when you have the most options with HVM.Yes, I totally agree. By your mid 30s, all HVM are are taken and married and are going to stay married. I have seen the HVM that I met in college get married to their college girlfriends or women they met in their 20s and they are still married. I am in my 40s now. All single men in their 40s are single for a reason, and it's because they had failed marriages because of their LVM personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 11 | On the myth that your 20s are when you have the most options with HVM.I think that it depends on the situation and the woman. I don't think you can just state that HVM are rare. For example, when I was in my 20s, I was at an Ivy League College and following that I was in grad school. I met quite a few HVM at the time, but I was career-driven and kept moving around and was not ready to settle down. I have stayed in touch with a few of the men, and they all married shortly (within 5 yrs) of being with me, and 15 years later are still married. They have good careers,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:53 PM |
| 16 | But - but younger women love older men! /sIs 38 equal to "the wall" then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:39 PM |
| 17 | But - but younger women love older men! /sI don't either!! I feel so lost! 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 133 | True crime and age gapsOh wow, that is incredibly fascinating. I never made the connection in the past, but I think it is real. When I was in my early 20s, I went on 3 dates with an older professor, he was good looking, but in his mid 40s. He constantly talked down to me, and treated me like I knew nothing of the world. I was a grad student at the time, and though I knew I had a lot to learn, I knew I wasn't stupid and did not need to be treated like I was 12. I can see now that that man, who had divorced his age-appr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:10 PM |
| 8 | I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her responseHow about a woman run HER OWN kingdom and let that lazy ass do his own work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 24 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.We need to stick together!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 46 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.I don't know what college or University that is, but that is entirely atypical. Science has even published articles pointing out how there are more female students but that faculty and government research institutions are still controlled by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 43 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.But what was the faculty made up of in that Department? Although the majority of students may be female, males still maintain control of academia and the higher positions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 56 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.When I was going through graduate school 15 years ago, there were 16 grad students in my program, and only 4 were men. Out of those 16, only 2 got academic faculty positions. Can you guess what gender they were? Well, sadly they were men. The rest of us went into industry or got stuck in post doc positions. I got so close to getting a faculty position and was told the job was mine, but it went to a man from South Africa. In my old Department of 22 faculty, there are only 3 women. Men will mainta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 23 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”YES!!! I'm one of those women with a PhD. Everyone keeps asking me why I don't date. All I can say is, I'm not interested in these uneducated losers who can barely work 40 hrs a week and text me "how u doin beautiful?" I have standards, and I'm criticized for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:26 PM |
| 30 | good morning <3I hope this doesn't make me a horrible person, but I have thought for a very long time that one of the toughest obstacles for truly feminist women are other women. The patriarchy exists because so many other women let it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:48 PM |
| 26 | good morning <3This reminds me of my SIL who stopped working the second she got pregnant. My brother is very well off, so they have a cleaning service plus a nanny and most meals are catered. She spends most of her time going to art studios with her other elite friends. One day she went on a rant with me about how much of a feminist SHE is. Meanwhile, I had just finished up my PhD and was working over 60 hrs a week as a PostDoc. It was clear to me that day that she and I have different views on what it means t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I accepted a full-time job offer in my fieldCongratulations!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 17 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.I bet this isn't a joke. There are men out there who are just that depraved and just that entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!I think it's about the guy being lazy and worthless. Your comment reminds me of my cousin, who is married to a surgeon. Both times I have visited them I was impressed with how he called at least once during the day, and every evening he came home and interacted with her and me. He even took us out to dinner each time and made the arrangements and picked us up after work and drove us. This is after 20 years of marriage and 3 kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 44 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!Yes, that is my experience as well. My own brother is a partner in a finance firm. He travels internationally a lot. He is married with 2 children. He definitely makes quality time for his wife. Granted they have a cleaning and laundry service so neither do that, but they go out at least once a week to socialize with friends and he takes her on vacation (sometimes just the two of them) and from what I have seen, she never serves him. So yes, it appears to be more of a lower-class situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 19 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!Lol, right? 😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 23 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!YES!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 65 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!The man who posted this didn't even have a job, he just wanted a woman to work AND take care of him/be his servant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 137 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!I agree. The man who posted it was on unemployment and not working at all. Yet he still expects a woman to be his maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:06 PM |
| 43 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!He was on unemployment. He just expects a woman to be his maid, even if he isn't working. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | LVM: asks her to marry him then dreads his own wedding 🤡 if you're fiancee isn't actually excited to marry you then drop him before you tie the knot (and spend so much $ + time on a divorce and lawyer)Yes, thank you. I definitely saved myself from a messy divorce! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 16 | LVM: asks her to marry him then dreads his own wedding 🤡 if you're fiancee isn't actually excited to marry you then drop him before you tie the knot (and spend so much $ + time on a divorce and lawyer)I confess I made this mistake. I had a man propose 10 years ago. After "only" 5 years of being engaged and him not remotely interested in planning the wedding, I concluded he did not actually want to get married. The fact it took me so long is embarassing. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 15 | Let’s normalize calling scrote behavior for what it is! Manipulation, abuse, and liesIt's not just manipulation, it's emotional abuse. The same guy tried to tell me that I am too sensitive, I don't know how to take a joke (when he put me down, because he was just joking), and that there is nothing wrong that he likes/loves and comments on dozens of single women's selfies on social media on the daily, because it doesn't mean anything and he can't handle someone being so jealous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 16 | A reminder on the scope of this sub.Yes, same with me! I just created a new account as I want to participate!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 38 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Beats me. But I'm the psychopath! Lol 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 318 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!They are out there ladies. I had a similar experience once after telling a man I did not like his first date idea and preferred another location. I got 2 pages of texts from him about how messed up I am and how he is a catch and how I am messing up this great opportunity...oh and I'm crazy and a psycopath. All because I said "no" to going to some secluded lake where he hides a canoe and no one knows about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 23 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!We are vilified because we have found fulfillment that does not require a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:18 PM |
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