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That sucks. I've experienced it myself, and I wasn't even dating those guys. But I've been lucky enough to find sexual partners who are great at keeping things casual. I hope you'll have some luck finding someone like that as well. Why is stating facts about yourself boasting? I assume you're not making it up, so if you're charismatic, why shouldn't you be allowed to talk about that? Owning your strengths is attractive. I know some people can't stand it when others are successful or gifted, but …
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:18 PM
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Are you upfront about only wanting casual relationships before you go on dates? Women who only want that as well might be less likely to fall in love with you, especially if they don't develop feelings through sex. And yes, we do exist :) I don't consider charisma a bad thing in itself, it's all about how you express it and make use of it. And it doesn't come off as boasting, btw. People should be allowed to talk about what's working for them without others trying to bring them down :)
/r/seduction24/07/26 11:06 AM
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I'm going to reply to this as a woman who's seeing more than one man because I feel like it's the same situation regardless of gender. I simply tell the man I want to date that I'm already seeing other people, so he can choose whether he wants to continue or not. It's only casual, and so far I haven't met anyone who has had a problem with it. None of them want an exclusive relationship anyway. There's really not much more to it than that: be honest about it, and let people decide for themselves.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:06 PM
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I would think it was so weird if a guy pointed out that I licked my lips. It would also sound a bit awkward if we were about to kiss or having sex. It's just one of those things you notice but don't comment on. What would you even say? "Wow, babe, you're sure licking your lips a lot. Does that mean you wanna get down?"
/r/seduction23/07/26 05:49 PM
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Feeld. I still have one of them, a guy I've known for almost a year now. I had another one, but I "broke up" with him recently, so now I'm on the lookout for more. I like that everyone (at least everyone whose profiles I've seen) is on there to find sexual partners in one way or another, so you can skip all the small talk. I really hate small talk.
/r/seduction23/07/26 05:02 PM
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I was a late bloomer and was overweight, socially awkward and an easy target when I was a teenager. I've had some tough moments while going out. Sometimes guys found it funny to pick on me, especially because of my looks, and I went home crying more than once. It all changed when I lost weight, got fit, learned to navigate social situations and improved my self-esteem. But I've never forgotten how awful it felt to be targeted like that. Being negged brings all of that back. So I think you're mak…
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:14 PM
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On occasion, you approach a girl who just likes you, you neg her, and it all goes well, and you say 'the negs work' when in fact, you got her in spite of the 'neg' I second this. There have been a few times I've let it slide, and that's because it was very mild and only happened once. Otherwise I'll lose interest immediately. Teasing is often a lot of fun if it's done respectfully. Negging is just bothersome and the opposite of sexy.
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:01 AM
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Become that guy. Be the insider. Be the guy she be slutty with, and you will often see that "performed reluctance" vanish. To sum it up: Be that guy who doesn't judge women negatively for having all the sex they feel like. It shows.
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:48 PM
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It's not that I think it's rocket science or anything, it's more a matter of countering shitty attitudes and accusations if they suddenly decide they want to have a LTR. I've been accused of leading people on even though I'd been nothing but honest from the beginning, but it's simply not my fault if they won't listen. I don't think it's fair to call someone a player when all the cards were on the table from the beginning (sorry about the rant).
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:04 PM
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I'm a woman, but I'll chime in anyway because I've had the same considerations and have figured out what works for me. And it's very simple, really. I just straight-up tell the men I'm interested in that I'm only looking for something casual (FWBs). So if they don't want to believe me or respect that, it's on them. I was honest from the get-go.
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:04 PM
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From me and probably on behalf of quite a lot of women: Thank you.
/r/seduction15/06/26 01:59 PM
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I mention it when I think it's relevant, but it's not something I bring up in random situations. Even then, I get some backlash from time to time. Not that it's stopping me, it's a very nice and satisfying arrangement. At my age, most people have kids, so logistics and planning can often be challenging, and having a rotation, as you call it, creates more opportunity to have fun when I have time to myself. Otherwise, I'd probably only have one :)
/r/seduction13/06/26 02:04 PM
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Thanks 😃 I get slut-shamed for it quite often, so it's nice to see a positive attitude for once :)
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:47 PM
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There are levels of fitness. Some men think they need to be buff to look fit, but that's not how I see it. You can be fit even though you don't have bulging muscles, a very low percentage of body fat, and a six-pack. I'm currently seeing two men. One of them is very fit and muscular, but I must add that I didn't choose him because of that. It was his facial features and his personality that attracted me initially, but it certainly doesn't hurt that he's strong AF. The other guy is nowhere near a…
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:34 PM
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To me (F), the most important thing about a man's body is that it shows he takes care of himself and is healthy. Obesity signals the opposite, while being skinny isn't in itself a telltale sign. But there's a difference between being skinny and somewhat fit, and looking like you never work out at all. Being "skinny-fat" isn't attractive. As for myself, being fit has certainly increased the amount of interest I get when I go out. I get a lot more attention and compliments. Often, all I have to do…
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:13 PM
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Do you ever find yourself thinking about someone sexually the very first time you see them (F) Yes, quite often. I don't do ONSs though because sex is meaningless to me if I don't vibe with the guy on a mental level, and I want nothing less than mind-blowing sex. So I prefer meeting potential FWBs on dating or hookup apps and chatting a bit before meeting up. But I've met men I felt physically attracted to from the get-go. It's just not enough to go from point A to point B right away. When we th…
/r/seduction13/06/26 10:04 AM
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Are you sure you want to be around someone who doesn't seem to be curious in the slightest about you, your life, your thoughts, and your feelings? Because if this is the state of things now, it may very well not change.
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:07 PM
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May I ask what brought you to this sub, and what keeps you here? I've observed the same tendencies as you, and I've also noticed the backlash that reframing the fundamentals often get in here. It's an uphill battle, so there must be some kind of motivation.
/r/seduction12/06/26 05:59 PM
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😄
/r/seduction12/06/26 05:26 PM
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I'm right there with you. Like I said in the other thread, I think there's a built-in defensive mechanism to it. Being curious about and open to other interpretations will likely increase your awareness and understanding of the myriad nuances characteristic of social dynamics and interactions. And in terms of seduction, that's a sine qua non.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:29 AM
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That's very interesting. I wasn't aware of that, but it's easy to hear the difference. As only half of the statement is true, regardless of which side of "but" the clauses are placed, I'd suggest skipping it altogether and adjusting the sentence to match reality: "I've met Miss_Galoldriel. She's incredibly sexy."
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:18 PM
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Yeah, it's the negating effect of "but" and on top of that it disqualifies your own faith in what you just said. You're basically unsaying it. Depending on the context, it can be appropriate, but it sounds like it became a bit of a bad habit :) I used to have a tendency to over-explain myself and also apologize in advance for any misunderstanding my words might cause. I don't do that anymore, and it has added a lot to the weight of my words. It's definitely worth paying attention to patterns in …
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:41 PM
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That's an interesting observation. Can you give an example of some of the wording errors you've identified?
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:51 PM
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I get it. It’s less painful to think you’re being shit-tested than that a woman does not find you appealing. That's my thought exactly. There's a built-in defensive mechanism to the concept. It seems to me like it's some kind of emotional safeguard: If she makes you feel bad, it's because she's shit-testing you. The problem is that this sort of defensiveness may very well inhibit a much more nuanced understanding of social dynamics. Which in turn means that you're not becoming better. At best, y…
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:04 PM
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I don't get why you're getting downvoted for this. It's great advice.
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:00 PM
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But again, why are you so sure she shit-tested you by replying the way she did?
/r/seduction11/06/26 01:06 PM
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Why do you think it's a shit test? She could just as easily be mirroring your tone because she doesn't appreciate it. Or she could be mirroring it because she's cocky as well. I could probably say something like that to initiate a power play, and if the guy handled my resistance well, we could probably have some fun.
/r/seduction11/06/26 12:50 PM
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I agree. It's about staying true to your type. I've met guys who could pull off that kind of cocky attitude and make it attractive because it's an expression of who they are. And guys who couldn’t because it wasn't authentic. It doesn't mean that men who don't have that natural kind of cheeky and bold attitude are any less attractive, it all comes down to actions and words aligning with your core personality. And yes, the discrepancy shows to a much greater degree than some people tend to realis…
/r/seduction11/06/26 09:38 AM
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I lack the imagination to see this ever going down well.
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:11 AM
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Yup. I'm not into ONSs, but I have a couple of FWBs I see on a regular basis. I'm considering finding another one for more spontaneous encounters, if the others can't meet up when I have the time, but I'm not sure about that yet. If someone really nice comes along, though, I'm open to new adventures.
/r/seduction06/06/26 10:36 AM
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Have you tried Feeld? It's a hookup app, and in my experience, people are very open-minded and kink-friendly. I'm a woman and have only been looking for men, so I don't know how other women use the app or what they're generally looking for, but since it's very much geared toward finding sexual partners for all sorts of setups, I assume that they're there for the same reason.
/r/seduction05/06/26 02:44 PM
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The way I see it, if they cancel but actually want to meet up, they'll initiate the next date. If they don't, I take it as a clear sign they're not into me. I'll gladly ask someone out, but if the interest turns out not to be mutual, I move on. I don't chase.
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:25 AM
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It's a corny line for a corny situation. However, I do find that being deliberately corny and cheeky about it works for me. Gotta read the room and time it right, though, and hitting on someone who's at work is a no-go for me.
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:28 AM
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"Careful not to burn your hands, 'cause you make my blood run hot"
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:50 AM
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I've had the same concerns with an FWB, so I get where you're coming from and why it bothers you. My way of handling things is the same as yours: if they suddenly want more, we'll have to part ways because the asymmetry in how we feel could be hurtful, and I don't want that. I felt like this guy was trying to subtly push my boundaries, as if he wanted to see if I would change my perspective. But he hasn't said it outright, so I'm still trying to gauge whether he's keeping his intentions hidden f…
/r/seduction28/05/26 09:40 AM
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If I have the time, 5 times a week. And I dance almost every day, usually for an hour, sometimes more.
/r/seduction17/05/26 07:04 AM
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Humiliation rituals: go out dressed like an idiot or take an insecurity and broadcast it so you stop taking yourself seriously. A big source of approach anxiety is not wanting to harm your self-image of being a cool guy and feeling like a loser, so you have to break down that ego. This approach has been essential for me in combating social anxiety. I deliberately put myself in situations where there was a risk that people would think I was clumsy or somewhat dimwitted. Controlling when and how I…
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:01 AM
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As far as I know, that is quite common in toxic relationship dynamics. You get used to the constant shifts between feeling like shit (especially if you're being devalued) and feeling like the luckiest person in the world. The euphoria you feel when things are finally back on track is what you're up against now that you're on the other side of it. But it only feels euphoric because the opposite state is so utterly miserable that anything would look like gold compared to that pile of crap. It's ab…
/r/seduction12/05/26 07:44 PM
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It takes time to recover from a toxic relationship. Your nervous system is probably on guard in a way you might not consciously register, but it shows in situations like these, and it could very well be what stands in the way of you building close connections right now. I had a friend who turned out to be mean-spirited and aggressive, and even though our friendship only lasted 4 months, it affected me profoundly (due to other circumstances that were very stressful). It's taken me a year to feel …
/r/seduction11/05/26 03:38 PM
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I think you need to work on your self-image as well. And I say this with the kindest of intentions. You've called yourself ugly multiple times in this post, and your username isn't exactly an expression of self-appreciation. You have done something that has moved you closer to your goals, despite being anxious about it. That takes guts. You handled that conversation very well and you obviously have the resolve to move forward despite having this constant self-deprecating inner monologue. You don…
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:36 PM
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Dude, you're not ugly. And you have a nice smile :)
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:56 PM
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That's awesome! Hope you hit it off with her when you meet again :)
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:40 PM
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I'd recommend dancing on your own at home. I do that a lot. I put on some music with whatever vibe I'm feeling in that moment, close my eyes, and let the beat guide me. It's an amazing way of connecting mind and body, and it's very relaxing. When I'm out, I bring that energy and sense of relaxation with me, which makes it easy to let loose. Give it a try, you might enjoy it :)
/r/seduction07/05/26 05:28 PM
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If you're smooth on the floor, you're probably smooth in bed as well.
/r/seduction07/05/26 04:43 PM
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Thanks :) And yes, I agree. I think it's important to acknowledge and accept how you truly feel, even if that feeling is giving a fuck when you'd rather not. There's nothing wrong with wanting something or someone. It doesn't make you less interesting or less attractive. But it becomes a problem if you try to suppress those feelings because you fear they'll make you seem like you care too much. It's much better to just own it and go from there.
/r/seduction06/05/26 07:50 PM
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As I see it, it depends entirely on why you're not giving a fuck. If it's because you are content, comfortable in your own company, confident and you don't need external validation to feel good about yourself, then yes, in my experience this draws people in. It's like they think I have a secret, and want to know what it is. But if it comes from a place of bitterness, it has the exact opposite effect. It's a matter of having the right mindset.
/r/seduction06/05/26 05:59 AM
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Remember that she doesn't know you yet. And you don't know her humor either. When it comes to that, it's my experience that it's important to get a feel for the other person before rolling out the joke-artillery.
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:57 PM
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Maybe you should consider what kind of effect a comment like that can have. She mentions building trust further down in the conversation, so that's clearly important to her. People who don't have experience with psychedelics often have prejudices, like believing that tripping on for example LSD will make you go insane. Or at least lose control to a degree that can seem frightening to outsiders.
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:32 PM
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The last time I took LSD, I wouldn't have been able to carry a conversation that wasn't all shits and giggles. Kudos for being able to collect your thoughts. Why did you mention it to her? Or was it just something you said? It's a somewhat controversial drug, and I could imagine you putting people off by being so blunt about it.
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:25 PM
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Nice to see a post that's about seduction from a women's perspective. I didn't know these categories in advance, but I think I've got them right. I'm a blend of the natural and the charismatic. The Natural, because my authenticity draws people to me, men and women alike. People feel relaxed around me, which makes it very easy to have meaningful conversations. They typically feel comfortable opening up rather fast, and they want to keep that connection alive. I'm very playful as well, which attra…
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:02 AM
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This is my experience from Feeld, which was my go-to app when I dated. If the vibe is off from the beginning, I'm not interested in pursuing it. If we seem compatible but don't connect instantly I'll give it a go, but not for long though. I'll usually be the first to send a message after we've matched. I don't wait around to see what their next move will be. And I always make an effort, so if they don't mirror that, I don't pursue it. I'm not interested in half-assed, low-effort men. I want eloq…
/r/seduction03/05/26 09:51 AM
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They have clearly done some inner work. They know themselves, they know how to play the cards life has dealt them, and they adapt to circumstances and make the most of it. They are open to challenges and see failure as a bump in the road, not a stop sign. They keep on developing because they know that there's always something new to learn. Thinking that you've become an expert at something and you're done learning creates a mental barrier. Life will continue to throw you curveballs and they tend…
/r/seduction03/05/26 08:48 AM
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I don't know much about how other women operate aside from my friends and acquaintances, but I don't think I'm complicated. What I'm saying is that personality matters, and it's very much about having done the inner work that leads to being confident, independent of external validation and being comfortable with yourself I can tell if a man has his shit together the moment I see him because these qualities create a vibrance. As I said, it's a matter of how he carries himself. Confidence shows in…
/r/seduction03/05/26 08:00 AM
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If you by "action figures" mean sex partners, then yes, my mission has been to find exactly what rings my bell. However, I'm done at the moment because I haven't got time for more than two. Should we split up at some point, I'd go out hunting again. And use the same strategy because this one has proven its worth.
/r/seduction03/05/26 07:29 AM
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He's not my boyfriend, he's a fwb. I met him on an app, talked to him for a while, and found him somewhat interesting. Didn't feel a spark, though, but I was curious and went on a date with him to find out if I was physically attracted. And the moment he walked in the door, I knew sex with him would be great. Because his charisma brought an energy to the table that I find extremely attractive. I have another fwb who's physically fit, and he turns me on as well, but it's really not about his body…
/r/seduction02/05/26 08:19 PM
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To me (f), it's all about how he carries himself, his eyes, his smile, and his presence. I'm currently seeing a man I'm very attracted to. He's not particularly fit and he's rather ordinary-looking. But his eyes are expressive, his smile is charming and he has charisma. I knew from the moment I saw him that I wanted to have sex with him, whereas I've met plenty of "traditionally" handsome guys who I wasn't attracted to in the slightest.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:52 PM
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I've found that the most effective way to deal with fear of failure is to expose myself to situations where it might happen. I beat my social anxiety that way. So I agree with you on this. You need to accept that failure is an ever-present possibility, and one of the best ways I know how to do that is by reframing failure as a learning experience. An opportunity to grow which I wouldn't have had if I had never put myself out there in the first place - and kept doing it until I reached my goals.
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:06 PM
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Could you be more precise? I don't know what you mean by awkward body movement. Are you flapping your arms uncoordinately around or something like that?
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:35 AM
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Can you give an example of what you mean by "weird"? Quirky is often much more interesting than being mainstream. I prefer quirky men, and I've never had an intimate relationship to someone who wasn't like that. Or friendships for that matter.
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:01 AM
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In my experience, not feeling dependent on external validation has the side effect that people are sort of drawn to me. It's like I signal that I have a secret, and they want to find out what it is. It's kind of like being around cats. If you don't try to get their attention, they'll seek you out. And that's what happens to me, both on the apps and IRL. So yes, caring less about what people think can definitely radiate confidence and signal that you are comfortable being in your own company and …
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:40 AM
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Being a woman who communicates directly and unambiguously, I've often encountered men who believed that I was saying the opposite of what I truly wanted, which has been quite annoying at times. Especially with guys who would interpret my "I'm not interested" as a way of encouraging them to try harder, which means I've had to tell some of them to stop pestering me because they wouldn't listen. I think that some of this might be age-related, though. When I was in my 20s, I noticed this quite often…
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:30 AM
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Not needy per se. If the right man says that to me, I'll likely feel flattered. A little tweak: Scrap "really." "I'd like to see you again" sounds a bit more relaxed, and sometimes less is more.
/r/seduction21/04/26 07:46 PM
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Thanks, that's kind of you to say :)
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:21 PM
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I was on a date with a guy, and we were sitting at a table in a bar when his ex suddenly showed up and sat down right next to him, as close as she could get without exactly sitting in his lap. She looked at me and ignored me the rest of the time while she talked to him in an intimate way, but of course loud enough that I could hear what she said. He introduced us, but she kept on talking to him. I could see he was somewhat uncomfortable with the situation, but he didn't do anything, so after a w…
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:00 AM
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Ditto. I've always thought that it shows courage and resolve when a man approaches me and is open and honest about his intentions. It's cool.
/r/seduction20/04/26 03:54 PM
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Only if you're insecure to begin with. Brooding men seem boring to me. I find men who smile much more attractive and interesting.
/r/seduction20/04/26 10:59 AM
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Agree. And it's almost like some of the guys who think like OP never consider if the so-called "easy" women actually want to get laid just as much as they do. So it's not a matter of being easily pursueded, it's a matter of getting exactly what they intended. Just like the "seductors" set out to get laid themselves. So who's actually "easy" when all is said and done? We could also just ditch this ridiculous term and appreciate the possibility of having sex with people who want it. Another thing …
/r/seduction20/04/26 05:49 AM
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Agree. I've been tripping balls on shrooms at concerts and parties, and I was still much more in control of myself than I've ever been when drunk. The dose matters, though (obviously). Don't want no ego-death anywhere other than at home. And of course the same goes with alcohol, but when I compare the times I've been really drunk with the times I've been tripping on, say, 1-1,5 g of shrooms, the alcohol has made me significantly more vulnerable and has impaired my judgement much more than shroom…
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:13 PM
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Spoken like someone who hasn't got game and never will. At least not with that attitude.
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:32 PM
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Well, OP chose the "field report" flair, so does he have to include a question?
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:42 PM
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Have you considered choosing quality over quantity? It sounds like you're running some kind of fuck factory. I'm picky, and I don't have sex unless I truly vibe with the guy. Which means that sex is never a performance because variation comes naturally when you connect on a deeper level. And I don't mean emotionally, it's a matter of having a mental connection that elevates the whole thing to an experience we are both invested in exploring. Exploring being the keyword, obviously. And that's why …
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:37 AM
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Maybe you've just met a woman with the same goal as you, which appears to be having casual sex? And you're the one getting seduced?
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:38 AM
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You have no idea if she is "easy", as you don't have the full information on this person to understand if this is her being "easy" or not. Nice perspective. There's no way of knowing which thought processes precede her choices unless she tells you about them.
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:34 AM
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I know my type, and identifying them is at this point very easy. I do want to get to know them to some degree first (I've only used an app to find casual sex partners, so we've communicated for quite a while), so I'm not into one-night stands. Edit: But if I could somehow gauge a man's personality after having spent a couple of hours with him, I would probably consider having sex with him right away. However, I'm very open to having sex on the first date when we meet up. Some guys might think th…
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:25 AM
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It took me seven months to feel ready to date for casual sex, and after a while I found some guys I'm now seeing regularly. It was the right timing for me (the first 6 months after the divorce were crappy for various reasons), but you should definitely do what you feel like doing. No one should decide when you're ready other than you.
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:31 AM
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If a man says anything like that to me, I'm out of there. It's crappy behavior and an instant turn off. Edit for clarification: If you accept behavior like that just to get in someone's pants, you're going to look like a person who doesn't have standards and will let people walk all over you without showing them any consequence. You can of course choose not to care what they think, but if you keep on taking their crap, you're sending yourself the same message.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:37 PM
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Hello I'm a 20 year old college students. I have no dating experience but I do talk to girl. Now to the point, how do we sext? What should I do while sexting? What do the other person expect from us and is there anyway I can develop my sexting skill. To all the sexting master pls help me 🙏 In my experience, sexting often falls flat and gets cringy if you escalate too fast. It's not that you always have to go slow, but you need to get a feeling of each other before bringing out the big guns. Ther…
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:03 AM
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Two things: It looks sad. If sex doesn't make you look happy afterwards, it probably wasn't good. Emojis with faces look silly. People can use what they want, of course, but I'd suggest something more neutral.
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:16 AM
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Include emojis such as 🥵 this one. It looks like the face of someone who's just run a marathon. Anything but sexy. I'd suggest these two instead: 🔥 and ❤️‍🔥
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:28 AM
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Perhaps. Sometimes people in here listen, sometimes they don't. I'm a lone chick in this coop of cocks, so I usually just write stuff without expecting anyone to listen, lol.
/r/seduction09/04/26 03:25 PM
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In your opinion, is a nice guy inherently a pleaser?
/r/seduction09/04/26 11:59 AM
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I find asymmetrical faces much more interesting than the opposite. Perfection is often boring. My face is a bit asymmetrical as well. Fortunately for me, it gives me a bit of a lopsided smile which makes me look flirty. I'm not stunning, but men seem to find me attractive. You've just got to work what you've got to your advantage.
/r/seduction09/04/26 10:01 AM
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What good do you feel comes from rating yourself like that? Edit: The two most attractive men I've ever had the pleasure of having sex with, are around your height. Just saying.
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:45 AM
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It could also just speak of a person who doesn't want to waste their time chatting when a date can show whether or not there's potential.
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:21 AM
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When I was on the apps, I specified what I wanted and didn't want in my bio. I can't stand wine and dine, so no reason for anyone to suggest that. I'm not going to do that, ever. I want something laid back and relaxed, like a bar. It turned out to be a great strategy because I attracted the kind of men who wanted the same thing as me. I would say no though, if a man invited me somewhere I didn't want to go. So yes, you should do what makes you feel confident and relaxed because that attitude sho…
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:13 AM
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What do you mean by teasing? Just asking because some women think it hurts when the cervix gets hit, and some men seem to think that going as deep as possible is a fail-safe way to please a woman
/r/seduction07/04/26 04:40 PM
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But I do feel like the more time you spend sleeping and meeting new girls, the better you get better at it and pull much hotter girls. But then you give up on building your own life. Maybe one could argue that guys will build an amazing life just to attract the finest shyts. So isn’t that just going full circle at the end of the day? Quote = OP. Well, I get the impression that attracting women could easily become his main focus, as it sounds like (to me anyway) he's considering building a life t…
/r/seduction07/04/26 05:58 AM
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I hope he's talking about the cervix. Aint no dick going into that hole.
/r/seduction07/04/26 05:21 AM
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I would have sex much more often if I had the time. But I don't because I have other things to do. Not only chores and responsibilities, but also self-improvement like taking care of my body, building skills, working on my mindset, and so on. And then there's my friends and family, who also need, me and vice versa. Having a strong network is essential when life's difficult at times. My point is that there's more to life than sex. Just because you have easy access to candy doesn't mean you should…
/r/seduction07/04/26 05:12 AM
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And "pillow princess".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:46 PM
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In regard to the orgasm: As many have said already: Focus on eating her out. However, don't focus solely on the clit all the time. There's a wider area to work on. Build it up slowly, take your time and get her going by teasing her. A lot of men seem to think that the clit is a magical button, but what really does the trick, is anticipation. Give her a little taste of what's coming (pun intended), and when she's all worked up, go all in. And very importantly: If she tells you to keep going like …
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:41 PM
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You can ask for her feedback after the deed. “what was your favorite part?” Notice - I did not ask about what she didn’t like or what could be better. I prefer this method. It's a much better way to ask about the things that felt good than to focus on the negative.
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:34 PM
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My favourite is teasing her uterus, How? If you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:30 PM
3

To me, friendship is about wanting what's best for the other. Friends shouldn't be selfish like that. I honestly don't think you're being a good friend to her unless you are open, honest and real.
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:36 PM
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I'm glad you're taking it in good spirits. I don't know her, but she sounds like she's in a vulnerable position, and that calls for extra consideration. There's a significant disalignment between you, and it needs to be handled with care. I think the best approach is complete honesty. She already knows she wants more than you can give. But does she know that it's at a make-it-or-break-it point? If I had this issue with a man, I'd tell him that I treasure his company and that I don't want to lose…
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:19 PM
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You're right about that. But some interactions are more benevolent than others. Manipulating a close friend into thinking she had an idea that goes directly against what she wants because you don't want to lose her, isn't one of those. You're trying to plant a thought in her head to keep something you don't want to lose. That's not her wish, it's yours, and it's insincere.
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:48 PM
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Considering your type of connection, I think that trying to plant the idea in her mind is manipulative in a way, I wouldn't think was okay if I were her and found out. Actually, I would cut you off, if I found out. It's not a way to treat friends.
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:33 PM
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Just to make sure I'm getting it right: You feel like this woman is your soul-mate. You want her close by because of this, but you don't want to cross the line between friendship and something more. But she does. And you're looking for advice on how to make her see you as a friend, like a seduction in reverse? If that's right, then I'd say that I don't see any other way than to put some distance between you. I know that's the opposite of what you want, but if you maintain what seems like an inte…
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:04 PM
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"My guys" hang around as well, which is neat because I know I'll have easy access to amazing sex. Some people get Postcoital Dysphoria (after-sex blues), and it can be caused by various things. Shift in hormones is one of them. Also, remember that being attentive and wanting to please your women is quite possibly why they keep returning. For my part, I only want to be with men who focus on giving me the best experience possible (which I, of course, reciprocate). A selfish, mentally detached love…
/r/seduction06/04/26 03:06 PM
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There's a lot of signaling going on in regard to bodylanguage as well. Not to downplay the significance of eyes and lips, but if you overlook how they respond with their body, you'll be missing out on some significant cues.
/r/seduction06/04/26 02:15 PM
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I don't get why it's a problem that you want to treat the women you sleep with well. It's what elevates it from being okay sex to great sex. Have you ever considered, that this might make you a better fuck than someone who doesn't give a shit about making their sexpartner feel good? Edit: And have you considered if FWBs might be a better choice than random hook-ups?
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:32 AM
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I need help. Why cant I be just a POS guy and be heartless, treat it like a pure hookup. I have been 40 girls, mostly hookups yet I always act like this. Like I feel after the sex to try to gain their approval, or even before sex... I hate to be like this. I feel even more emptier after the hookup, I feel like my life is shit compared to her social one. I feel like a completely loser, with no social skills, with nothing. I feel like I dissapoint this girls even with the sex I gave them... I feel…
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:14 AM
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This is very good advice and deserves more upvotes.
/r/seduction05/04/26 08:28 PM
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I usually like direct approaches like that, but it depends on the context. Being called gorgeous when I'm out, e.g. at a bar, could be nice, but not if I'm at a coffee shop or something mundane like that. In the night life, I expect to meet men who are looking to connect/hook up by commenting my looks, but I'd feel like it was out of place in this setting. Anyway, even if the guy did say something I'd find interesting and then hurried along, I'd not ask for his number. There's too little to buil…
/r/seduction05/04/26 06:48 AM
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Super late reply, and I don't expect you to read or reply. But I've thought about what you wrote, and would like to comment. Instead of continuing the discussion, I'd like to address what I think we might have in common. You say that you have bad experiences because you've always been nice. I think I get that, and I understand your motivation to change your path. Now, I'm not comparing, because I don't know what you've dealt with, but I can tell you that as someone who's always been nice and exc…
/r/seduction03/04/26 01:21 PM
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And how do you go about finding this life partner? Do you wait with sex until you're sure, there is a potential? Or do you determine if she's got potential after sleeping with her? Considering that this is a sub for people who want to learn how to seduce (and people who want to help others learn), and considering how often men in here tell about how many women they've slept with, you must be busy yucking.
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:49 PM
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I've (F) slept with 10 men over the course of 28 years. 3 of them in long term relationships. I've mostly met them at private parties, but 3 of them was on dating sites/apps.
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:17 PM
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it literally makes her cookoo in the head I'm going to play along with your claim: So when you seduce women, which implies that you are deliberately trying to get her to do something, she might not otherwise have done, you are causing a heightened level of cookoo-ness. Is that okay with you, as long as you get what you want? Or do you not practice "leave her better than you found her"? And how does casual sex affect men? Do they get cookoo in the head too? Are they less likely to have happy and …
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:12 PM
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Yes, sex with multiple partners has drastically more consequence for women than men because of the hypocrisy they are met with.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:55 AM
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Fun fact: Some people believe that a woman's vagina will get worn out from having a lot of casual partners. But not from having a lot of sex with a partner in a long term relationship. Apparently the vagina knows the difference.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:47 AM
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In a sub that's dedicated to learn how to get in people's pants, it's kind of weird to see comments from men who have a problem with women doing the same thing.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:38 AM
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Are you here to learn how to seduce women? What are you going to do with them, if not get in their pants? And how will this affect your own "bodycount"? But perhaps it's only "yuck" when women are doing the same thing?
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:33 AM
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When you can't remember their names. But I don't judge, it's not "too high", just high. I have a fwb who I think has had several hundreds sexpartners. It wouldn't surprise me if it's more than 1000. He has been a frequent guest at swinger- and sexclubs, so that has contributed significantly. He knows what he's doing, so it's definitely a bonus.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:25 AM
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Guys who grab my ass without knowing if I want them to are creeps. You're talking about ignoring a no and breaking barriers. That's creepy too. You don't take criticism well, btw. I don't think you are a predator, I think you are insecure. Edit: Depending on the man, playing "the predator comes for his prey" can be a lot of fun. If I know him and have given him permission. Edit edit: Okay, I shouldn't have called you insecure, that's an unfair personal attack. Sorry about that. But I do think wh…
/r/seduction31/03/26 02:24 PM
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I think it's so funny how you switch tone from "Arise ye men! Embrace your predatorial nature, do what you want because you want it, break those barriers and bang those ladies to oblivion!" to "Oh hi! We're friends and then we're lovers, and it's all soft and fun and based on signals of mutual interest." I'll keep it short: If I haven't talked to the guy beforehand and feel like I at least know him a little bit, a hand near or on my ass will be the last time he touches me.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:04 AM
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Nice to know it's appreciated. I've read the descriptions and rules of the sub more than once to make sure, women are welcome, but I still feel kind of out of place at times :D I like your analogy. I think it reflects the kind of mindset, I know works very well when meeting new people. An open mind gets you far. The thing with sexting is that it gets awkward and corny really fast, so it's a make it or break it-situation. Either it works, or it falls terribly flat. There are some things that made…
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:33 PM
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There are definitely variations and nuances to it. I had a date after a month of sexting, which we initiated very early on. We couldn't meet up earlier on because we were both busy, but when we met, the spark was already ignited, and we had sex within minutes (we met at my place). But that's an exception. Usually, I go on "chemistry-check" dates to gauge if there's potential, and it's my impression that this is very common. As I've dated solely to find casual relations, feeling sexualized is wel…
/r/seduction30/03/26 09:22 AM
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A hug is fine with me, but being touched near the lower back is way too intimate. It's too near the butt. It easily comes off as creepy, especially when it's done too early on.
/r/seduction30/03/26 08:55 AM
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I can confirm that this approach works very well. It's all about presence, confidence and integrity. OP, as this guy says, only give compliments "for free", not to seek validation. You are talking to her because you find her attractive, not because you need her to make you feel good about yourself.
/r/seduction30/03/26 08:47 AM
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When do you typically initiate physical touch? I'm asking because the problem with physical touch is that it can easily come off as creepy if done to soon.
/r/seduction30/03/26 08:42 AM
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I Can just making intense eye contact and saying I find you really attractive work? Depends on what you mean with "intense". If you're staring, it can easily come off as creepy. But a bit prolonged eye contact and a smile goes a long way. Not all women are good at decoding signals and won't register subtle attempts at flirting. This goes for me as well, which means that a more direct approach where a man states his intention of getting to know me clearly, is much more likely to pique my interest…
/r/seduction30/03/26 08:35 AM
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When is typically the right time to initiate physical contact, according to you?
/r/seduction30/03/26 08:29 AM
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How does a serious FWB behave as opposed to an unserious one?
/r/seduction27/03/26 01:01 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with asking if she might want a FWB-relation. But it would be wrong if you weren't honest about your intentions. She has to know that you're not interested in a LTR.
/r/seduction27/03/26 01:00 PM
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I was throwing negs randomly If a man negs me, I'm done with him. Maybe she didn't like it either? How did you neg her, btw?
/r/seduction27/03/26 07:26 AM
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Nope, I didn't say most of us. I said a lot of us. And I chose this statement only because he claimed that every single woman feels the way he said we do. It's just not correct. "Most of us" wouldn't be correct either. But there are enough women who prefer not to shop dresses, bras and panties with a stranger standing outside the dressing room, that my point about his statement is relevant. I would tread very carefully, as suggesting this activity as a first date can easily come off as creepy. (…
/r/seduction24/03/26 09:03 AM
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He said: "no woman ever turns down an opportunity to go dress shopping". I said that lots of women prefer online shopping. Not that everyone does. Or that most does, for that matter. Why is he allowed to make this statement on behalf of every single women, and I'm not allowed to correct him?
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:34 AM
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No woman ever turns down an opportunity to go dress shopping! It’s even more special if your first date is on or around her birthday. I don't think you know what you're talking about. Lots of us don't like shopping for clothes in stores, we prefer online shopping because we can try on the clothes in the comfort of our own homes. Tiny, cramped dressing rooms suck. And going dress, panties and bra shopping on a first date? Have you actually done that, and with how many women?
/r/seduction23/03/26 06:43 PM
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I don't think you need to smile every single second. But radiating positivity is generally sympathetic, and should I choose between a brooder and someone who smiles, I'd always go for the latter. If it turns out the smile's fake, it's something else, but as a first impression, smiles matter.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:30 PM
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In your case, your critique would be relevant to the topic, so I don't see why not.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:27 PM
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Good for you! OP's completely right: Spreading positive vibes will get you much further than brooding.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:24 PM
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You are, yes. Glad to be of service, you seemed like someone who thought their irrelevant comment belonged here.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:12 PM
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You do know that you're writing this in a sub dedicated to discussing and sharing techniques and mindsets for seducing people?
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:02 PM
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Sure :) First of all, I was in a self-help group with other people who also suffered from social anxiety. We talked about how we could expose ourselves to situations that we knew would be awkward. And gave ourselves "homework", which we then talked about the next time we met. It was important that the situations weren't awkward for the people we interacted with. Just us. It could be stuff like pretending to trip over something, asking how much coffee we could buy for a certain amount of money th…
/r/seduction23/03/26 09:42 AM
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I did that, although in a non-dating context, and have overcome my previous social anxiety that way. By exposing myself to situations that could easily turn awkward. I have no problems talking to people I don't know, now. It's very liberating, so just go for it. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction22/03/26 07:43 PM
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I have male friends myself, and don't mind a partner having female friends. I've had three partners in total, and every one of them has had former partners or FWBs as friends. It has never bothered me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:17 PM
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To me, sex is everything involving genitalia, whether it's penetration, oral, fingering, rubbing (also with clothes on) and using sex toys. But it's not that if there was a timer, it would stop just because you spend some time just kissing and touching other places on the body I wouldn't count breaks. But I wouldn't count how many times either, it's more a matter of how long there's action going on. The last time I had sex, we began at 9 p.m., had some breaks in between (one of them I think was …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:56 PM
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Let's say a guy was totally normal and respectful in his approach but you didn't fancy him at all, would you be creeped out/offended? Imagine the hypothetical or you can speak from experience if it has actually happened. No, I wouldn't. The way he looks has nothing to do with it, as long as he's tactful and respectful about it. I've never taken offense of being approached, on the contrary I take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:16 AM
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I'm very selective, or so I'm told. I'm in my 40's now, which means that my life experience has helped me define the qualities a man has to have for me to be interested in him. Even though it's strictly casual, I need him to have the kind of personality I like, because I'm not turned on by looks alone. And yes, curiosity is one of these qualities. But I don't consider it rewarding, or at least: They are rewarding me just as much, then. It's a two way street. Persistence can feel like being peste…
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:11 AM
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I've never hooked up with anyone from Reddit. I usually never chat either, with very few exceptions. Those have been people who thought something I wrote was interesting, and had follow-up questions. I've only used Feeld, as I can 1) Read bios and see photos and 2) Filter the location, so I can connect with people within a certain range from where I live. Been on dates with three men, and I'm having casual relations with two of them. I was lucky to strike gold early on.
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:16 AM
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You said it yourself: Every guy knows he might get rejected. And that's how I know that he knows that he might get rejected, obviously. Some don't approach at all because of fear of rejection. Some do it anyway. And that is what shows courage and resolve.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:27 PM
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As a woman, I can tell you that guys who approach me, knowing that they may get rejected, are already two steps ahead because it demonstrates courage and resolve. And those are attractive qualities.
/r/seduction18/03/26 06:30 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but this is what I was looking for: First of all, I want someone who's mature and intelligent. That goes for emotional intelligence as well, because I need to be able to trust that when we say casual, we both mean casual. I don't want a man who suddenly freaks out because I don't want a relationship with him. I'm going for witty, charming and eloquent types. He needs to be kind and considerate, respectful and openminded. His looks matter, but a man with these qualiti…
/r/seduction18/03/26 05:38 PM
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And do these women know that you don't want a relationship with them? Have you explicitly told them before you hooked up?
/r/seduction18/03/26 01:39 PM
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I've had male friends freak out even though they knew that I didn't want a relationship with anyone, because they thought that "anyone" didn't include them. I had sex with one of them, but not the others. The guy I had sex with explicitly said he didn't want a relationship with me, but it turned out to be a lie. My point is that some people, men and women alike, just aren't capable of listening, because they live in a fantasy.
/r/seduction18/03/26 01:37 PM
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If you straight up tell women you meet that you just want to hook up do you think they'll all just say "of course, let's have sex" if what they really want is a relationship? Because I think that many of them would pass and find a guy who says he wants to commit. And that's the problem with honesty: You limit your possibilities that way. Which is why many people pretend they want a relationship, although they never had any intention of having one. And that's when it gets ugly. Also, not every wo…
/r/seduction18/03/26 01:27 PM
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I'm a woman, and if someone like OP approached me with that kind of bullshit attitude, I'd kick his ass to the curb immidiately. The good thing about it, though, is that waving this red flag in someone's face from the get go, makes it easier to spot the assholes up front.
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:14 AM
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Lol yeah, I get dm'ed from time to time when I write about my "methods", but hitting the ignore button isn't a big deal :)
/r/seduction18/03/26 08:06 AM
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I believe you are right about most women wanting a relationship. There are exceptions though, and some of us use hook up-apps like Feeld. I know women have it a lot easier on the apps than most men, but perhaps it's worth a shot? At least it won't come as a surprise to anyone on an app like this that people are looking for sex, because everyone does, and it's my impression that the majority is interested in keeping it casual.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:35 AM
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A lot of women cna actually hear "I am not looking for anything serious right now" but it needs to be said. I'm a woman, so my perspective is different as many men would gladly accept keeping things casual, as long as there's sex involved. However, I've been in a "people who ignore what you say" situation 3 times now, and I know that being completely open and honest doesn't always mean that people listen. These guys all knew that I didn't want a relationship, and yet they were pissed when they f…
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:28 AM
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The great thing about being honest about your intentions is that people get to choose if they want to keep seeing you or not. These women obviously want a relationship. Being told that he doesn't want one, instead of him pretending that he does, makes it possible for them to decide if they are okay with a casual relation or not. If they then pretend they are, but secretly want a long term relationship, they only have themselves to blame.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:12 AM
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There's an easy way to prevent it from turning into a relationship: Tell them that you're only interested in keeping it casual. Then you'll spare yourself for this emotional and mental hardship.
/r/seduction18/03/26 06:45 AM
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Do you know if she's into sexting? If not, it can get akward really fast.
/r/seduction08/03/26 07:36 PM
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My sexual desire isn't responsive. I have a relatively high sex drive, and if I don't have sex for a certain amount of time, it announces itself spontaneously, and I begin pondering how and when I can satisfy it. Preferably with a partner because taking care of it myself doesn't scratch the itch. That doesn't mean that I'll have sex with anyone who's available, though, and I'm not hypersexual. I spent some time looking for FWB-relations (I don't want a relationship), and I've found what I was lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:16 AM
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This is very good advice. I don't have a sexually related trauma, but it's connected to my body nonetheless, and especially dancing has helped me reconnect body and mind. Therapy helps a lot as well. I used to feel shame after having sex, but it's completely gone now.
/r/seduction07/03/26 03:02 PM
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Before I met my second FWB, I considered cuddling to be off limits because I thought it came close to being intimate in a lovey dovey kind of way. But with him, it's just another dimension of the way we are physically intimate. It doesn't add to intimacy on a personal level. Which is awesome, because I have the best of two worlds (and so does he). Are you going to tell her how you feel? Or just part ways? And yeah, assuming you are being ironic when you say that being sad about losing an FWB is …
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:18 AM
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With the first man I met (on Feeld, which is an app for people looking for sex partners), we sort of insta-connected. We talked about what we were looking for, what turned us on and how we felt like we matched each other, and so on. And then we sexted for a month, until we had time to meet up (we're both busy people), so the build up was intense. And when we met, we had sex and it was amazing. And now that we know each other, it's even better. I texted with the other guy I also met on Feeld for …
/r/seduction05/03/26 06:31 AM
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It's not that I don't connect emotionally, it's just not in a romantic way. It's more about becoming friends and knowing that my fwbs are men with personalities I vibe with, and who cares about making me feel good. And, of course, the same goes for me, because I feel connected to them as friends. If/when we part ways at some point (and I mostly think of it as a "when", the dynamic can easily change, e.g. if they fall in love with someone and want a relationship with her) I'll miss them, but that…
/r/seduction05/03/26 06:14 AM
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First and foremost: I think it's very important that you know for certain that it's a FWB you want. You can get burned really fast if you deep down want a long term relationship, but meet someone who wants to keep it strictly casual. And the other way around: If you give off "maybe I do want a relationship" vibes, you could hurt the other person as well, if she thinks you might be open to a relationship. Clear boundaries, being completely open and honest are very important factors in having a mu…
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:31 AM
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Where in OP's post do you read that he's introduced his FWBs to his family? Where do you read that they say they want more? Edit: If you're thinking about the monogamy-thing, then it's my impression that OP's using the wrong term, as his relation with his FWBs is obviously casual and they apparently haven't expressed any desire for exclusivity. Which is the opposite of being monogamous. What he's describing is women who seem to be fine with him having more than one FWB, they just don't want more…
/r/seduction03/03/26 10:38 AM
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You're not necessarily "not a nice guy" for wanting a casual relation. As long as you're not lying about your intentions, people are free to opt out if they are looking for a long term relationship. I'm a woman and the last thing I want is a relationship. But I still want to have a sexlife. When I was looking for a FWB, I made sure they knew that, and I feel much more comfortable being with someone who also only wants a no strings attached-dynamic, because then we're on the same page. So that's …
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:37 AM
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If you are in a casual relation, you know that it's not about having a relationship. So I don't see why a man like OP is giving anyone hope, when he's completely honest and open about what he does and wants. If someone can't accept this premise, they shouldn't be in a FWB-relation at all.
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:32 AM
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I agree. It's exactly what it's like for me, as a woman who don't want a relationship, but still want to have a sexlife. I don't do ONS, because I don't feel safe enough hooking up with someone I haven't had a chance to get to know first. The emotional safety is not an issue, though, unless we're talking about avoiding people who are mentally unstable. And that's another safety issue as well. So it's a bit more complicated for me to find a FWB, and I prefer to hold on to what I've got, because I…
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:28 AM
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It's my impression that monogamy involves having a commited relationship, and that the other person doesn't see anyone else either. So it's also about being exclusive. You're seeing other people, so it's not an exclusive relationship, and it also sounds like it's casual, so I don't think monogamous is the right word to use. I don't know if it's common for women in FWB-relations to choose to not see other people, but the reasons you mention make sense to me, as a woman. I'm "off the market" as we…
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:57 AM
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Ladies who are here, have you gotten turned off by either of those, or have you heard of any female friends who have? I've never heard anyone say that before, and I'm absolutely not turned off by it either.
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