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More so, when a woman chooses adoption or even utilizes the 'Safe Haven' law, she suffers no legal or financial recourse. However, a man cannot legally give up his rights to the child without having to pay some kind of child support by law. Therefore, if a woman opts to keep a child, but the father signs away all rights and responsibility, he STILL must pay child support. This is not right. Yes, we must think of the best interests of the child, but no person's well-being should come at the cost …
/r/MensRights13/06/13 12:37 PM
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I would probably more apt to take it in a positive way if everyone didn't insist I circumcise. When I tell them I don't want to, I get lectures and scorn.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 12:09 AM
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Thank you to everyone who shared their stories, and offered insight and thought provoking ideas that I can share with my child's father.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 11:40 PM
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Well I wouldn't think it would be other teenage boys (unless of course my son was gay) more like girls that he dates and becomes intimate with. A lot of girls I know have expressed a dislike for it and it makes me sad. I always tell them just to be happy that someone still wants to fuck then even with their negative view!
/r/MensRights16/10/12 11:25 PM
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Ba dum bum
/r/MensRights16/10/12 11:09 PM
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Because it even though you may believe it to be wrong, it is still legal and you can't arrest people for things that are against the law.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 07:30 PM
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I'm glad your parents allowed you the right to choose. I am also of this stance. It's not me, but the father who has a problem with it.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 07:29 PM
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I'm definitely not pushing it, I don't want him to feel coerced into making a decision. We've talked about it a few times, and I haven't brought it up in a while. Just letting him mull things over and hoping he makes a good decision.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 06:38 PM
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That's terrible, I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope that you have been able to come to terms with it.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 06:36 PM
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And I've already clarified that i wasn't referring I circumcision as a parenting or lifestyle choice, I was talking about making a decision about one thing and then making decisions about others. I have excellent reading comprehension skills. It is you who seems unable to understand simple clarification.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 06:28 PM
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Ok, you seem intent on finding meaning where there isn't any. I DO NOT want to circumcise my son and I am of the opinion that circumcision is wrong. HOWEVER. I live in America, where by law people are free to choose what is best for themselves and their families. I wouldn't dare infringe upon this "inalienable right", nor would I want anyone to do that to me. Mind you, I have been bombarded by people telling me that I 'had' to do this or 'shouldn't' do that, and while it drives me crazy I know t…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 06:09 PM
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I wasn't referring to circumcision as lifestyle choice. I meant whether or not to breast feed or use cloth diapers or home school. Can I just point out again that I am against this, and father is for? I don't want I hurt my son.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:50 PM
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That's awful! The sad thing is that most people probably just paid it and dust even realize. Al of this is incredibly helpful! Feel free to PM me if you think of any other helpful tidbits. Like I said, this is my first and I have no idea what to expect. It's a little overwhelming.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:46 PM
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Agreed!
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:32 PM
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If your parents were making this decision based on less knowledge than we have now, where do you think that information came from? From their doctor, who also had less information than we do now and probably thought it was the right thing to do medically. I'm sorry that they did that to you and I'm sorry it has caused you such anguish.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:32 PM
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I'm not saying I wouldn't argue my thoughts or opinions on the matter (obviously) but I would not condemn someone for heir personal choice to circumcise their child no more than I would condemn them for other parenting or lifestyle choices I disagree with.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:28 PM
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Good to know! This is my first child and I had no idea that it was a procedure they did that quickly. I'm not a "birth plan" kind of person, well aside from I plan to have the baby in a hospital, so I didn't realize this was something I needed to settle with my doctor ahead of time. Thanks!
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:23 PM
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I had a feeling he might be struggling with feelings of guilt. Whenever we talk about it he seems certain that he wants to, but his reasoning is weak and lacks thought. It makes me think he just wants to do this because its "what's always been done". Well, I say it's time we start new traditions. I agree that there are no pros, which is why I'm against it. Medically unnecessary procedures done to people who can't knowingly consent is wrong.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:18 PM
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I'm not the one considering it - I'm definitely against it for my own children, and I don't presume to tell other people what is right for them.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 04:58 PM
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It is a decision that we're both involved in. He agrees that it's wrong but (I think) is having a hard time fulfilling his beliefs through action. I don't want to hurt my son (if I have one); not to mention all of the horror stories of circumcision go wrong.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 04:55 PM
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Well thank you sir :)
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:25 PM
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I didn't mean to imply that keeping away from women would solve any problems. I simply meant that I didn't want to step on anyone's toes or threaten anyone's comfort level in a place made by and for men. That said, now that I know I'm welcome I will not hesitate to participate in these discussions when I feel the urge to. To me, he biggest part of the problem is our past. People, men and alike, spend too much time pouting out past "injustices" and inequalities, instead of moving forward. The wor…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:19 PM
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Thank you for the warm welcome! I promise to always be respectful - I treat others as I would like, etc.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:01 PM
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I can see that. I was hesitant because obviously, it seems that most posters are men and over in twoxchromosones, there's about one male poster/commenter for ever 20 women. Didn't want to overstep my bounds in what seems like a place for men to feel safe discussing their issues/thoughts/feelings.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:09 AM
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When they ask you to escort them to their cars?
/r/MensRights16/10/12 04:52 AM
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Agreed! Personal responsibility is monumental - I think Americans spend way too much time passing the buck. It's never MY fault, it was school/ my parents/ society/ the government that made me this way. Please. You and you alone decide how touché your life and what kind of person you want to be. I know your environment can affect you, I know it better then some, but at the end of the day, ultimately, the responsibility is yours alone. I'm going to organize my questions/ thought into an intellige…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 04:28 AM
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Thanks! I stumbled across it via the random button and I have been completely absorbed! There are so many posts I want to comment on and even more questions I want to ask. Ps men, particularly white men, in America get screwed on a daily basis. Equal rights should be equal rights.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:58 AM
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No problem! It good to know that you would do it if they needed you too. And thanks, it was shitty but that's life and life goes on. I'm still as fearless as I was before and I still refuse an escort to the train haha.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:50 AM
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I'm a woman, and I don't know if its ok for me to post here, but I want to say that I agree with you. The women you work with, if they feel it is necessary, should ask a coworker individually to walk them to their car. Going to the management was kind of a dick move. While chivalrous, I doubt it is in your job description to act as a body guard for your coworkers. That said, I personally have never wanted this for myself, even when coworkers have offered to walk me to the train (i work in the ci…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:05 AM
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