| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | What pushed you over the edge to finally start cold approaching? | Fundamentals | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:57 PM |
| 5 | "Accidental" cold approach vs Going out on purpose | Inner Game | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | 3 Months in and I still can't let go of her... | Inner Game | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How to optimize dating many women at once? | Logistics | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I think I am a rebound guy, how to proceed? | Logistics | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 10:21 AM |
| 0 | I need a book recommendation tackling my ego issues. | Inner Game | Mission-Elevator-100 | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:11 PM |
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| 7 | Went on a date with a girl, I think I was being too much of a nice guy. She’s been dry on the text backs. Is this a bad sign?If its your first date ever, give yourself a pat on the back. You showed up and did your best. Its a learning experience as with everything, you'll get better with time. If she's dry in messages i'd say make yourself busy with life and don't text for like a day, day and a half then go like "hey i've been busy with x... last time with u was fun, how about we do X tomorrow / two days from now? Or don't even apologize, just go "What are you up to tomorrow? I've wanted to try out this new bowling pl… | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How Long Does It Take To Get Rid Of Approach Anxiety?Great post, saving it for later for sure. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | What pushed you over the edge to finally start cold approaching?Thanks, sounds reasonable. I think when I'll finally approach it will be the biggest high ever, I can already tell it will be "liberating and addicting" :) | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:50 AM |
| 8 | What pushed you over the edge to finally start cold approaching?I also realize that, however It's been YEARS of hesitation, excuses and not doing it. I think im in enough pain of not doing something that I want to do for so long... yet there I am - yet to act. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamAre you just guessing, or is it proven that it works like that? Does Tinder gold really get you more exposure and put you before the non-paying men? | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :DBuild on it and approach next gal tomorrow ;) | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | 3 Months in and I still can't let go of her...You're right, I miss the connection. I'm just afraid i'll get hurt again. That being said, great comment. Thank you for that. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:05 AM |
| 2 | 3 Months in and I still can't let go of her...I am working on myself. Advancing career wise, lifting weights etc... Its just with women I am torn. I know how to get laid, but I feel like I am a guy that wants relationship / deep connection more so than getting laid. Sex with someone I know well and can talk deep into the night right after is so much more fulfilling for me. So am I fucked, because it is how it is? Do women find it offputting if I am into it, rather than be a fuckboy that wants to get laid, wants to have abunadance etc? I jus… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Does every girl inevitably goes cold, lose interest and break up?No real issues, no arguments, nothing... Perhaps there aren't many emotions that you're providing to women? Triggering both positive, and not avoiding the negative is the correct combo... Why do women stay with "bad boys" ? At least there is something going on. The relationship isn't boring. Maybe its toxic, but there is shit going on, and women are all about emotions. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | First date advice ?I'd say cut off everything behind "Hi". Say Hi and see what happens, instead of scripting the first 5 sentences. If you come out with the pre-written script you'll come off as unnatural / creepy :p | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | I need a book recommendation tackling my ego issues.I realize that, yet I am avoiding rejection in the daygame approaches at all cost... And I'm obsessing about it. I am decent in the online and dating game, yet I always wanted to get good at daygame. Yet my fucked up ego doesn't let me try to get good at it. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I need a book recommendation tackling my ego issues.Will check him out, thanks | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I need a book recommendation tackling my ego issues.Any titles in particular? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How I turned it around in 3 months.So you've became a dating coach in a matter of 3 months? Nice. Thanks for the advice coach. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I feel like committing suicideSee, you hate working out. I did too, when I was in the gym. I've "tried" to like gym 3 times. Each time I dropped it after 1-3months of attending. Right now I've found boxing and I'm completely in love with it, I can't wait for the next training. Try to find something you really like. Muay Thai, Yoga, Boxing, Swimming, Karate, Ice skating... Idk. Don't force yourself at the gym if you hate it, I know I did. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 10:46 AM |
| 51 | I feel like committing suicideSeduction is not the thing you should worry about rn. Its getting your life together. Fitness, Financial, Relationships. Start with fitness. You'll feel endorphins boosting your mood. You'll feel more confident in your body. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterNext time try to approach out of nowhere, without prepping and going out with purpose. Going out with purpose of approaching gives me big anxiety too. Just try to go for one whenever you're out doing groceries or something. Less pressure. GL ! | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl for the first time todayIf you're like 19 you should absolutely pursue a 25yo girl. You'll be glad you did (she'll probably be a lot better in bed than your avg 18-19yo lady) :) Congrats on acting courageus! | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | "Accidental" cold approach vs Going out on purposeDamn, this is taking it to a whole new level. My goal with approaching is to get to know a girl and set up a date. I do very well on dates, so this would be my primary goal. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | "Accidental" cold approach vs Going out on purposeI do online dating, but cold approach is very intriguing and makes you stand out, so I want to also get really good at it. And good luck getting a real dime out on a date online. Hasn't happened to me yet. What has happened was 9.5/10 dime shows up and looks 7/10 irl :x | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | "Accidental" cold approach vs Going out on purposeOLD? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyHappens when you're still not over that person yet | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl who Ghosted Me Saw Me in Person Again and Texted me back After a Month (need advice)You didn't respond for a few days... so you kinda ghosted her first lol. If you're in a habbit of texting everyday, and then don't do it for a few days in a row, what the fuck do you expect? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:41 PM |
| 10 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyI've had almost a year long hiatus in seduction, when my first love and I broke up, and then she acted completely psycho msging me and flirting & setting up a meeting and flaking. I've fallen for it three times across 6 months or so. Contacting her will only set you back imo. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Pretty sure she'd give up on a 3rd, just go for a hot date first, instead of brining her home, so it feels more natural, and not like u only want to bang her. If not, call her out on this bs. Tell her the chemistry is killing you, and you know she wants it too but for some reason puts on an act. Idk man it worked for me in the past (escalate again right after). | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after the 4th dateIf you like her, you touch her and escalate :x | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?It's normal to feel attracted to women and pursue them. Also even if it would be something bad. You have to be selfish in this world. And having sex with women is one of the best pleasures u can have as a man. Go for it bro! ;) | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:54 PM |
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