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| -1 | 50 women in one day50 women in 1 day? Get a life. | /r/seduction | 09/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Why are the single mums more receptive?This shouldn't be a question. They're more receptive because their dating options have shrunken. They're looking for a man whom will father their kids. It's more about her kids than it is about about them. What are the chances of a childless college male student prioritizing single mother's in the dating market? I'd like to believe those chances are very slim. No man wants to father another man's children. He'd be limited on how he can punish the child for misbehaving. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Online dating - The simple reasons guys don’t get matches.Too many selfies. If all of your photos are selfies, it gives the impression that you are by yourself and aren’t social. It doesn’t give a great idea of what you look like. Avoid selfies, or use sparingly, especially no selfies in the gym, bathroom, or with fish (yes it’s a thing) Selfies are like the cheapest photo's you can put on your dating profiles. Avoid at all costs. Always include a picture with an animal if possible, preferably a dog. Even if it’s not yours, take a picture with a friend… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Any PUA seminars in Atlanta that anyone would recommend?Honestly, you shouldn't even waste your money on seminars/boot-camps. We live in the age of the internet. All of your answers are on it. There are tons of YouTube videos on nightgame and daygame. I would recommend daygame over nightgame. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I hate my own stupid faceCut out dairy products. Grow facial hair. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don't double text or you'll come off as needy. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Pick one. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How to take the next step in taking a girl home from the club?https://youtu.be/AGC4h2vEH7g | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Threesomes have to be initiated by womenhttps://youtu.be/PRjHiv5pNh4 | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 232 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timebut with a sample size of three first dates I should've stopped reading here so I wouldn't have made it to the "covid safety" part. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timehttps://youtu.be/qc90LUZ5yCM | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 131 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timeThe "real date"? No no no. There is no fake date. The first date is as real as the second. COVID is the least of their worries if they agreed to go on a date with you. They trust you enough to be there with you. What do you think happens on a date? Kissing happens. Hugs happen. Being unmasked happens. You don't social distance on a date. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What have you been doing in the 10 years prior to COVID-19 lockdown? | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 3 | I’m boredGo do some cold approaches... | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 18 | Very awkward dateShe mistreated you throughout the entire date because you didn't open the car door for her? Yikes. She didn't even give you a chance. As viewers of your post, the majority of us, including myself, agree that she was the issue here but let's take a look at what you could've done better. Before I get into it, I hope you're dodging that bullet that was that woman. She might've dodged a bullet too. I wasn't there so I don't know the whole story. I highly advise against dating people from your workpl… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 03:28 PM |
| -2 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.I always tell some of "those" women that they wouldn't have existed had their father not approached their mothers (or vice versa) so they should not go around telling guys to not approach women. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Made out with my Crush (f18) but don’t know what to do now!Why do you have to wait for her to call you? Maybe she's busy. This whole "waiting for the other person to call" thing won't do any good for you. Give her a call and eventually ask her out on a dates in that phone conversation. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 4 | To those that used to have a hard time holding a conversation, how did you fix your problem?Surely you get the point though... | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 01:28 AM |
| 16 | Okay I have a hard time turning things sexualWhat are your goals with this girl? If it is anything long term and serious, you're wasting your time. Long distance relationships do not work. I've been there and done that. As an 18 year old, you don't want to waste car gas driving 1 hour away just to see her. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | How do i escalate from here?ESCALATION: Along with the conversation while seated next to her, you want to try to come up with just about any excuse to touch her. If you can read hand palms (or pretend that you can read them), you can use that to your advantage. If you know sign language, you can teach her by showing her how to gesture by guiding her hand. Another way to get yourself to touch her is by using the Ring Finger routine [https://www.yumpu.com/en/document/read/9003488/the-ring-finger-routine-stylelifecom]. Ask he… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to tell a girl she's been acting like a bitch?It depends. Are you a boy or a man? | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Here’s what we’re up against..Should this go to show men that women want sex on the first date just as much as men do? | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | She invited me to her house for drinksI never said that there was something wrong with it. You misread. I pretty much said "Don't go empty handed". Yes, she got the wine but don't go over there with just a condom in your back pocket. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | She invited me to her house for drinksDon't forget to bring protection. Bring a bottle of liquor with you because you're a man. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s your strategy when you literally can’t think of anything to say as you approach someone?"Hey there. I don't mean to disturb you. I was standing there talking to a friend and I kept getting distracted as my eyes kept being drawn in your direction. Then after a third time, I thought, well maybe that's a clear sign to come and talk to you. My name's _____. And you are?" | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 3 | I can’t get a bitch to save my lifeWhat did I just read? | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 3 | NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me)"Just be yourself" is the most terrible single advice that can be given to someone trying to improve themselves in order to become successful in the dating scene. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Simple question for someone getting back in the game: Ask for IG or Phone #?You put it best. I've got to remember that line. Haha. | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Will girl lost atraction if you cant get hard on first date?Just invite her to your place. Try dry humping next time until you've become hard... | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Simple question for someone getting back in the game: Ask for IG or Phone #?Go for their phone numbers. People prioritize looking at their traditional text messages as opposed to Instagram messages. You also don't want to potentially get lost in the long list of "sausages" in her Instagram DM's. Her phones contact list is shorter. That's where you want to be. You want to be higher on her priority list | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I think I have a date for the first time, 20M. But I'm in a bit of a pickle. Need advice and opinions!That's my boy! Haha. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Invited over to a girls house as a first date - do’s and don’ts?Milkshakes? Is that a thing nowadays? Lol. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Texts back but doesn’t follow you on insta...A woman inviting you of all people in her life who she could've possibly invited to celebrate her birthday with? I'd like to think that it means something. There's only one way to find out if she's interested in you on a romantic/intimate level. Go celebrate her birthday with her. Break the touch barrier. Try to take the convo from a platonic place and bring it to a more intimate place. See if you could escalate things to a kiss. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 4 | I think I have a date for the first time, 20M. But I'm in a bit of a pickle. Need advice and opinions!Don't tell her about the park being filled with water. Sometimes when you try to change plans over text with womem, some women don't follow thru with the new plans. You've got a date, go on it. I recommend that you meet her there and just act like you just discovered along with her that the park is filled with water and just improvise by suggesting a walk around the colony. Don't take anything on a date. Do that when you two are already in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Help!!We'll have to agree to disagree. My Tinder dates have never been awkward because of that question. As uncomfortable and awkward that it may be, it's better to make sure you're both not wasting eachothers time. You want to shy away from leading eachother on. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Help!!You've got to keep in mind that "most women" isn't "all women". It's great that she's replying. Eventually ask her: "So what is it that you're looking for when it comes to dating at the moment? Something serious or something casual?" | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Help!!That "What did you want?" line sounded more negative than positive when I read it out loud. That's not how you open up a conversation with woman. Have you two spoken about potentially hooking up before that? If not, I don't see how you should just assume that she wanted sex. People are on those apps at all hours especially if it's a Friday where a lot of people who don't work on Saturday's and Sunday's try to get an early start to their weekend by making early plans. You two have been texting fo… | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Help!!That is terrible and toxic advice. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 6 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.She won, I imagine? | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 10:49 AM |
| 444 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.When you said that you two had "fun" before parting ways, did you mean that she put on a private slam dunk contest for you? | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 10:43 AM |
| 3 | Instant date with cute girl at the park + second date + I think I screwed itYou're wasting your time. There's no recovering from this. The pandemic isn't going to disappear anytime soon. The government put fear into people. I don't see her ditching the mask and saying "YOLO". You can't do without the physical escalation. She isn't going to let a single hug or kiss slide. Move on. Keep on cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 5 | Need advice for a brown guyBe gone troll. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 06:04 AM |
| 7 | Tinder girl dumped me out of the blue and here is the screenshot of the text, still trying to know whyShe said she does not want a long distance relationship. Her education is her priority. You should've kept the door open but you dumped her. Oh well. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 3 | The boyfriend/girlfriend talk?Why potentially risk ruining what's working for you at the moment by bringing up that topic? People are way too invested in the relationship status/tag. Keep dating, hooking up, and having fun with her. Let her be the one to bring up the "what are we?" topic. Quit worrying. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Need some validation here! Help me out bois!That sounded like a job interview because she wasn't making any real effort | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Got my first number today this morning (Update and a lesson about self-respect)That was hard to read. Here are 3 ways you can open and lay the foundation for a conversation: - "Hey Lia, it was fun meeting you. -David" - "Hey Lia, it was fun and spontaneous meeting you. - David" - "So this must be the cheeky (insert nationality/dress/persona her) girl I met earlier. - David" Now, it's time to build it up. These next one or two texts need to be simple and there are a few routes you can take. The purpose of these is to build up the conversation and show that you're not the ki… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women at the bar/anywhere.It works most of the time. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women at the bar/anywhere."Hey there. I don't mean to disturb you. I was standing there talking to a friend and I kept getting distracted as my eyes kept being drawn in your direction. Then after a third time, I thought, well maybe that's a clear sign to come and talk to you. My name's _____. And you are?" | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How should I ask out a girl at the counter at my gym?I'll let others answer your question but this might be one of those "Don't shit where you eat" type of cases. If the dates goes south, are you going to continue going to that gym? You're going to have do continue seeing her and speaking to her everytime you enter and leave the gym. https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/don%27t_shit_where_you_eat | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What can I do?Keep doing what you two have been doing. It is likely that she'll eventually catch feelings for you. Don't worry about the labels too much. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | My best friend and I simultaneously confessed to each otherThis sounded like something out of a video call I had with my friends 15 years ago on OovoO when we were in high school. How old are you and her? Normally, grown adults would be more direct than that. The next move would be to see her in person. Preferably on a date where you will be able to make a lot of eye contact and break the touch barrier. Go for the hug, kiss, and the the hand holding as soon as you you can. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Any hope left? How do I go about this? (23M)You're not supposed to tell her you have COVID. The media made COVID appear way more extreme that it really is. The attraction level is decreasing. She's going to do whatever it takes to keep herself healthy. Now she'll avoid you at all cost. Your chances with her are pretty much over. You could've said something like "I fractured my ankle". This was worth growing a long nose for. Don't beat yourself up too much over this. Don't message her back. If you message her back, what will be your object… | /r/seduction | 08/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Almost all of them have a high body count.Women want sex just as much as us men. That's why I am never afraid to take them back to my place after every date. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How should I ask...She said she'll check her schedule and let you know. Do not go chasing after her for a date. Don't ask her to hang out. She'll get back to you like she said. A week should be enough time. So just wait a week to initiate a convo with her and eventually ask "By the way, did you happen to find a time in your schedule for us to get together?" | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Does a conservative woman cares about the V cardGo out on that first date | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 2 | I’m not sure why she’s still texting meTry going quiet over text and not writing anything for a whole week. When you disappear like a phantom in the night, you create a void in the convo. Your sudden disappearance means she's alone in the convo, and if she's even slightly interested, she'll wonder about you and be sucked into the void you'd created. It's a great way to correct her behaviors. If she texts you within that week, ignore it. Then one day, send her a picture of your drink when sitting at a bar and say something along the l… | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Need advice❤️😔Exactly what messages did you send her? You're behaving way too needy. There are other fishes in the sea. Go fishing. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Can never convert to a GFKeep dating and hooking up. Let women be the ones to bring up the "What are we?" topic. Age wasn't a problem to them during the first 6 months of dating so it can't be the issue. Neediness is a huge turnoff and it's a huge attraction killer. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 12:36 AM |
| -3 | How to deal with women saying "That guy over there seems hotter/smarter/funnier/etc...""There's one thing I have over him. I have more inches than him." One second after saying that to her, use your hand to gesture that you're talking about your height. Give her a smirk "..And you're definitely into tall guys like me" | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Looking at doing a workshop with The Natural LifestylesI would recommend working with James Tusk and his team. I was fascinated with The Natural Lifestyles for some time until I came across Tusks' channel on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | 2020 was my best year with women even though I was unemployed and living with my momWhat are some excuses you used to get them to invite you back to their place ? | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Is no physical escalation on the first date bad?You're dating experience is just a small sample size. I recommend you escalate on the first date no matter what Tom, Dick, Harry, Rachel, Phoebe, and Monica have to say about it. Don't spend the whole first date looking for a Psycho in her. If she isn't receptive of your touches on the first date, you can place her in the Psycho category. Break the touch and kiss "barrier" on the date as soon as you possibly can. Go for the hug as soon as you meet her and just make sure it's not the "granny hug"… | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond to shit tests and insults?I would've phrased it as "We're all attractive to someone." | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Are college age women attracted to men in their 50s?Only if they need a sugar daddy to pay off student loans | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl suddenly dropped off?I don't agree with the double text and the apology part. I would've left it alone and gave her some time. Maybe she has a life and can't text all day? It's a Monday as well. It's like one of the busiest days of the week for some people. Maybe she has children to look after too? Like you said, she's got 10 on you. Set up a date as soon as possible. If things are already going sexual, take her out for drinks and get her to come back to your place right after. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 8 | How tf do i get pussyDid you try your local pet store? | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 10 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?"I've got a bottle of red wine back at my place. I'd really like to continue getting to know you more over a glass. Let's go." "Bars is closing soon. I wanna see YOUR pet/paintings/collection/x-mas presents/etc. Let's go." | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How often do you text in between dates?Correct! 2 days isn't very long. You should be able to get through these next 2 days without texting her. | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone here still have the balls to sarge alone?What are "balls"? | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 14 | Should I drop off the Christmas gifts I got ex gf before the break up?She wouldn't want anything to do with you if things ended badly. She'll likely toss the gifts in the trash can. Return the gifts and get your money back. Use that money to pay for drinks that you'll have with a new girl you'll meet. | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How often do you text in between dates?The date is for sparking. The phone is for setting up dates. Go on dates once every week. I'd message her on Friday and say something like, "It's been quite a busy week for me. Looking forward to seeing you tommorow". She should understand anyways because it's Christmas week and it's always busy this time of the year. If she messages you first before Friday, that would be great. You could have a conversation with slow replies. Meaning, wait like 3 hours to reply to each of her messages. Don't wa… | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Mission 1: Approach 5 women and ask them for time.Leave your watch home before your mission and ask "Excuse me, can you tell me what time it is? My phone ran out of battery life." | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What to do after a good first dateHere are things I would do to improve the chances of a second date. Looking back now, could you have dragged out the date an extra 30 minutes? It would have been great if you'd gone up the scale a bit more with the touching. You could've probably done so with the fake palm-reading routine or even the ring finger routine: https://www.yumpu.com/en/document/read/9003488/the-ring-finger-routine-stylelifecom You could've even asked her what her story is with her tattoo, earrings, bracelets, rings, ne… | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 09:32 AM |
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