How often do you text in between dates?

dontaskreally · 2020-12-22T23:25:31+00:00

You can talk a bit, don’t just say nothing you might give off the wrong vibe. That vibe being only wanting to see her for sex but at the same time don’t over text. Just make it light funny and maybe only mention once you’re looking forward to it, anymore than that is a bit much.

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2020-12-23T14:44:09+00:00

Not much. I avoid texting now. It’s fucked up too many relationships for me, with miss communication. If she texts me I’ll text her back I don’t initiate it.

TosACoinToYourSwitch · 2020-12-24T19:46:48+00:00

lmao. Constantly.

I'm talky and seek women who are the same. The very first test of compatibility for me is "can we talk for a solid 2 hours and both want to talk more at the end of it without sex coming up at all"

There are no rules here. How often do you WANT to text between dates? There are women who match it, seek them.

Captain_w00t · 2020-12-23T00:04:40+00:00

If there’s some back and forth texting, I’d go for a call. Something like “rather than texting, I’d prefer to call you for 5 minutes”. It’s better if done at the end of the day, so she probably won’t be busy and can give you time and attention if interested.

TravonM · 2020-12-23T19:34:09+00:00

Text her when you’re inspired to text her. Don’t force anything. If she likes you it won’t really matter how much you text her, because if she really wants to text she will initiate it.

MistahUndaCova001 · 2020-12-23T19:29:39+00:00

The date is for sparking. The phone is for setting up dates. Go on dates once every week. I'd message her on Friday and say something like, "It's been quite a busy week for me. Looking forward to seeing you tommorow". She should understand anyways because it's Christmas week and it's always busy this time of the year. If she messages you first before Friday, that would be great. You could have a conversation with slow replies. Meaning, wait like 3 hours to reply to each of her messages. Don't want to ever come off as needy. If she double texts you, she's chasing you and that's where you want to be.

RumRogerz · 2020-12-23T21:54:08+00:00

Never. I wait until the date.

If she texts me in-between about something or anything, I just say

"Hey that sounds great, can't wait to hear about it on Saturday. I gotta jet right now though, I'm jammed up right now. Can't wait to see you"

and leave it at that.

The phone is for setting dates. She's not my girlfriend, and she's not my wife.

bojanglez34 · 2020-12-23T02:12:39+00:00

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Title	How often do you text in between dates?
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Date	December 22, 2020 10:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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