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| 1 | What are your guys' thoughts on male virginity?first times tend to be suuuuper awkward My first time was a 3 pump & jump. Definitely glad it was with a girl that had all ready been with me a while, and was down for a second round. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 03:29 PM |
| 26 | What to say when she asks why you don't have a girlfriend?"I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a woman who'd be mad at me for saying that." | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 12:13 AM |
| 8 | The dreaded hook up (guy and girl introduced by a mutual friend who thinks they'd be "perfect for each other!")I agree about the red flags. However, you'll never know for sure until you meet her. Go have a few drinks, but be weary of the crazy that will probably rear its ugly head. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 02:21 PM |
| -1 | Hey Seddit, musician question...absolutely right. its not alpha but it is what a good musician would say. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, musician question...As a much better musician than I am a pick up artist, I'd say be humble. "Thank you, but I have much learning to do before I'd consider myself any good." etc. Definitely not "alpha" but that's just how I think a truly great musician should acts. Or you could learn this song and no words will be necessary to remove her panties. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Do women still notice chivalry?Depends on the woman as well. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 05:21 PM |
| 15 | My guide to the bars...pretty comprehensive. Thoughts?Great advice if you're just looking for a one night stand or fuck buddy. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Advice on rehashing old relationships?It ended for a reason. Extenuating circumstance withholding (girl-of-your-dreams scenario, in which case I hope some one else will provide some good tips) it is much more likely to end again. There's countless women out there to be had, so in general, I'd move on. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Advice on rehashing old relationships?Don't. | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Need advice for dealing with an "alpha male" problemTo be honest, I'd start gathering evidence to use in court. Pardon my foul language, but it sounds like she's a fucking idiot that's fucking an idiot. And that's not a very safe environment for your son, now is it? | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 10:10 PM |
| 0 | This perspective is from a female friend's blog; all the more reason to say, "Fuck AA."You're absolutely right, but I might add that it is fairly poorly written. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 10:07 PM |
| 1 | This perspective is from a female friend's blog; all the more reason to say, "Fuck AA."I'm stuck between her failed attempt at making it a myth and her horrifically ineffective writing style. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Pretty pissed at myself/girl, would like adviceLeave her alone for no less than a week. No text, don't wave at her if you see her, don't even go on her facebook profile. This is also what you should have done at the party where she initially started denying you attention. You should have done the same. Basically, all the things she was doing-dancing with other guys, flirting with other guys, etc- you should have done yourself. Dance and flirt and drink and just have a good time. She'll see this, and that's when she'll want to be with you. No… | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 02:47 PM |
| 23 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfBe his friend. The way you handled yourself was okay, but you make yourself look even better if you can dismiss their game, but still have a smile on both of your faces. Engage him in a conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 02:43 PM |
| 1 | 2 months in - Loosing interest, suggestions to raise her attraction level?I feel it's best if I don't communicate for a while (freeze her out) and wait and see if she calls me or texts me, In the meantime I'll try to talk to other girls and see where that goes. Seems like you all ready know exactly what to do. Stay the course, brother! Get out and have fun. To hell with what's-her-name. (at least for now) | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The hardest thing I've ever had to doYou broke it off with one girl. There are three and a half billion others. You'll get over it. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Just need one quick opinionGo hang with her and her friends. Have fun, and hit on every woman in the room and make sure she sees you doing it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Trying to seduce my smoking buddymaybe nothing at all and drop hints. Stop that. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How to get that perfect five o'clock shadow-stubble lookI have a shaving routine I go through. Let's call day one shave day. I'll be clean shaven for almost exactly 24 hours. Days 2+3 I look presentable without any trimming. By day 4 I need to shave my neck. I shave everything under my jaw. I then have about a week where I don't yet need to shave my whole face, but I need to keep trimming my neck. Then the beard gets unruly so I just shave the whole damn thing off. Don't know if this will work for you specifically, but that's what I do. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Is there a way to overcome my problem with shaking?try having one drink in your system Maybe not such a good idea to suggest to someone who just got out of AA? | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 05:42 AM |
| 2 | This guy talked about being aware and how being fully present in the moment we can improve our ability to react to situations. It helped me out.I also read r/buddhism and r/zen | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Four words that can send your text game through the roof: "I declare picture war."I need to try this out ASAP. Seems like it's fool proof if you've all ready built a little bit of attraction. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Four words that can send your text game through the roof: "I declare picture war."So just to be clear, the general idea is to say that and follow it with a picture of yourself and a witty caption. She responds with something, then you up the ante and maybe make it a little more risque? | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 08:22 PM |
| 2 | So... I'm not really into sex. Is it still possible for me to learn and become good at this stuff?I'm in the same boat, brother. Sex is out of the question due to a few severe repeat injuries (I'll spare you all the details). I still read seduction just to get over my inhibitions though. It's great! I can actually go out and talk to some one I don't know without feeling like I'm tripping over my own feet. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Crosspost from OKcupid How do I reestablish a connection with a girl I messaged nearly 2 years ago.Dude, she's been on a dating website for over two years? I don't know if I'd even want to message her. Part of the reason we play up the "I actually get out and see the world" side of us is so that we meet people who do the same. If she's been on a dating website for two years do you really think she gets out much? I dunno, maybe it's just me but I probably wouldn't even bother. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 07:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] EPIC SUNDAY: Polo match, Picking up an actual Princess, 6 #s, 2 Kisses and more, PART 1 (+ pics)Thank you, but they are mine and you can't have them. Brilliant. Good stuff in here, thanks for posting! | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 11:32 AM |
| 2 | What are the male IOIs?Not another cockamamie pun thread... | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How to get social proof and meet people in a new city?Got a hobby? Start doing it in public. Like minded people will find you. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Movie to watch with a girlNot every girl is the same girl. Figure out what she's into and go from there. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Dating site based on only looks? Time to test out those sexy poses....11 minutes later, password changed. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with women and drama. I could have used this countless times.Soo... We're supposed to do nothing? | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys that work long hours - how do you do it?Last summer I worked two full time jobs. 80 hours a week and one job was fairly hard labor. In terms of seduction relevant material-I didn't do shit. I didn't date for the entire summer. But I was actually able to save money for the first time in my life. | /r/seduction | 29/05/11 03:10 PM |
| 1 | 10 hours of 1 on 1I would recommend not attempting to talk for the entire ten hours. If you think of something interesting, say it. If you find that you've returned to silence after a few minutes or an hour, it's not a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Social Circle Girl - LMR - Maybe Next Time?The girl tonight was into kissing me and seemed very attracted, but in a romantic sort of way. I wonder if I lost the sexual tension somewhere in the mix. For some girls this is sexual tension. Sounds like you did nothing wrong, you just have to work a bit harder at this one. | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 01:39 PM |
| 4 | What would you do if the girl regrets the sex the next morning?Sounds like she's the one with the problem. | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I think I want a fuck buddy. How do I get one? (X-post from R/sex).You've all ready got a target in mind. Here's the next step: "I don't want a relationship but how do you feel about casual sex?" | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Real-life, Online dating, Speed datingWhat's your definition of best? | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Dates should be adventures... how?Ooh interesting. I had heard of the James-Lange theory in psychology classes before but not in this context. | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 10:07 PM |
| 10 | Dates should be adventures... how?My go-to first date? Hiking in a local park. It's almost an hour drive but it's worth it. Every girl I've taken there loves it when I start jumping across the boulders littering the river. It's physical enough that we'll be a little worked up, but easy enough that we still have energy left over for later ;) | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How would you seal this deal?I asked her when I could see her again and she said "I'm not sure", Try to be more direct. Don't ask her when you'll see her again, tell her when you'll see her again. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 06:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] OKCupid F-Close: Logistics, logistics, logisticsOh yeah definitely. I changed things around in my profile almost daily. I deleted it a few weeks ago so maybe in a few more I'll just start from scratch. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Patience is wearing thin!!My advice is learn to love life again, continue self improvement... Too true. I'd suggest getting a hobby. Something that you can do in a public place. Hobbies are always a great conversation starter, and assuming you can find someone who shares your interest, you will always have something to talk about. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 02:25 PM |
| 9 | [FR]First two dates with HB7-8, testing what I've learned from seddit...comments/advice?Bring weed next time. There's your close. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 02:23 PM |
| 10 | [FR] OKCupid F-Close: Logistics, logistics, logisticsLike a boss, my friend. Ah I wish I had learned about the game before I sent crappy beta messages to all the girls within 50 miles from me. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenI'd appreciate it very much! | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenExcellent, thanks for the info. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenNewbie here. What exactly is the role of the "wingman"? | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 01:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Who gives a fuck about Spongebob? #closeand tonight I'm really in tune with my body. I revel in that feeling. That's zen if I've ever seen it. Good job man, sounds like a successful night. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Help Please Seddit. Seduction attempt in progress.Have a beer and smoke a bit with them. Don't get trashed, just make sure you feel good. You'll loosen up and have them melting over you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How does seddit feel about taking a girl from another guy?If she's going to cheat on him it doesn't necessarily have to be with you. She's probably going to do it one way or the other. It's win-win really. If you go for it, and she rejects on the basis of her relationship, you know she's faithful to your buddy. If she accepts and you nail her, her relationship was probably fucked anyway. Also you got laid. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys ever feel that color is a issue?You guys are going to tell me that "its all in your head", "Don't worry about getting laid, just try to have fun" and "Don't give a fuck what people think" but its not that easy. Yes it is. | /r/seduction | 10/03/11 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Trying out online dating, not getting responses after they check out my profile.I've been on okcupid and another much smaller site for more than a few months now. The few things I've noticed are: 1-Not many messages will get a reply. This is more or less normal. I've messaged somewhere in the neighborhood of 120 (maybe more?) women and probably gotten about 20 replies that weren't total BS. Of these 20 replies, I've personally met 3 women. One I dated for about a month or two. A lot of people on these websites are crazy, you'll be able to tell the ones that are. 2-You're 27… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Had a fucked up day? my never fail bad state breaker before I go outmasturbation isn't not encouraged I'll be sure to give your shower technique a shot. My favorite way to assure I'm in the right mood? Light exercise. Do a handful of pushups, crunches, jog in place for a minute. Don't beat yourself up, just get the blood flowing. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 08:00 PM |
| 7 | DAE think that the advice on r/dating_advice is hugely flawed and most of the questions should really be answered by r/seduction?I learned this the hard way before I found seduction. r/dating_advice scewed me over with more than one woman. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Smiling and Movement [mini-FR]Excellent advice. Almost seems like stuff you'd never have to think about, but it makes a lot of sense in hind sight. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Would you take on a Protégé?That's the damn truth. I've been playing guitar for over a decade. Two months ago I got a job teaching guitar to young children. They're all beginners, none of them a day over 13. And you know what? I've learned more about my own playing in these last two months than in the last two years. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Would you take on a Protégé?If I do help him, the stuff that I have him do (all of which I did) will with out a doubt in my mind make his sister never want to see me again. Bull shit. If that was my brother and I was this chick and you helped him get out of his loser shell and become the great guy that he could have always been but always shunned I'd suck your cock till it was dry. No homo. I used to be this kid. A lot of us were/still are. I am not yet an advanced PUA so I still somewhat am. All you have to do is spend an… | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The importance of seducing everyoneGood advice, but somewhat of a problem with me. It will take a lot of effort to overcome some of my old tendencies but it'll happen. Just like music, practice, practice, practice. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 03:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Mixed signals getting incredibly frustrating.You are awesome. But still, forget her. At least for the time being. Go find a girl that puts out and in a few weeks give this girl another shot. Make sure she knows other women are interested in you. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 05:08 AM |
| 2 | developed a huge crush on one of my closest friends just a week ago. since i'm not a fan of silently suffering, i plan to tell her soon. i know my chances aren't good, but what would your approach be?The beauty in this is if she says "I think you should stay friends" no matter what do not worry about this. This is only the beginning of your game. All that means is you need to work at it harder. I'd recommend hanging out in /r/seduction (where we will teach you to be alpha) more and /r/relationships less (where you will be taught to walk all over yourself. Nothing against r/relationships) Be confident. Be the object of her desires. It'll take time but you'll get there. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 04:59 AM |
| 3 | A tactic for meeting people in crowded placesWhy didn't someone teach me this when I was 15?! | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 04:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The importance of seducing everyoneThis is phenomenal. I'm learning so much. One question: I shush her and tell her the movie is starting How exactly did you do this politely? If I had attempted something it would have more than likely backfired and made me look like an ass hole. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Your best/most successful OkCupid openers?That's ingenious. God I wish I had found seddit a decade ago. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 04:03 AM |
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