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Sounds like the stage where things are stagnating. Nitpicking sucks but it’s a cue to examine where you are and what’s next. Whether we know it or not we are constantly being evaluated at home at work at school etc. and our experiences reflect the valuation from others. Lose the weight because it benefits you and then get out there and start sharpening up your conversation skills. I also wouldn’t worry about what she thinks it isn’t worth it. Put more emphasis on your plan and execution. Hope it…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:36 PM
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Seems like she’s interested in building and maintaining your trust. It wouldn’t take a Miami trip to step out on you. A trip out anywhere (groceries, coffee, online, the workplace, gym etc. Once you’ve put the rules and guardrails in place it’s on her to adhere to it. It should be less about whether she would cheat and more about how close you are to achieving your goals and living the kind of life you envision.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:36 PM
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Guys who don’t have the experience of positive friendships, relationships with parents and family and a variety of interests. If you find yourself surrounded by those types you either level them up or reduce time spent with them and expand your social circle. Don’t save hoes or guys on that level.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:25 PM
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Being socially calibrated matters more in settings not specifically defined for gatherings (parties, clubs, concerts, other events etc.). Scarcity of opportunities seems to be a thing. That attractive woman hurrying home late at night? it won’t be over if you don’t approach. It’s cool to meet someone just be aware our attractiveness should be wielded like a weapon of precision. Less like a mace that reminds you of how deadly it is but more like a fencing sword with skills honed from our journey/…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:00 PM
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RP advocates for maximizing your smv. That usually aligns with a womans desire for men with the highest smv within social and online circles. They’d rather filter from the top than reverse. Compatibility for ltr or more short term situations is usually luck of the draw and really depends on the individuals entering the marketplace. If they have advanced enough mentally to know what they want and have realistic expectations based on their experiences.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:08 PM
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Agreed, op got the most out of the situation without falling in. Ignore her breadcrumbs they will only feed your insecurities.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:38 AM
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Small plates become magnified in times of trouble. If you feel like she played you then that’s what happened. Take it as a sign to figure out why you can become so emotionally undone. It’s ok to make mistakes and learn but not ok to waste time trying to relive them.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:47 AM
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Might also be your following what works for everyone else but not adjusting it to suit you long term. Trial and error is a part of life and not something to languish on or use to compare yourself to someone else. Appreciate the things you have done and pay attention to the details when things are starting to shift in either direction.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:30 PM
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What tangible things would you be bringing to the potential group?
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:16 AM
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The need for validation based on our progress can alter how we interact. I lift and am better at xyz! she should /feel/ be...! Versus valuing her in that moment as to whether she’s receptive/ compliant to you.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:07 PM
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She has no legs
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:39 AM
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You really have nothing else going on? No friends, acquaintances, or other women on the radar? Might be time to get to the back of the house and focus on the dishes to get use to having multiple plates.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:23 AM
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If you do find a book you still have to make the decision. I generally choose outcomes that favor me first (ie. What are my needs, what will I not do, what am I open to). Consideration of group dynamics (family, friends, co- workers) follows. How does the decision impact them short term, long term and how will I be impacted? (isolation, tension etc.) what is an acceptable solution for me. In the workplace right and wrong is covered in the employee handbook. Outside of that don’t break the law an…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:18 PM
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You being “naturally alpha” doesn’t help the average guy understand his circumstances or relationships with women any easier. Core trp is self improvement and rational observation and action on the environment that we find ourselves in.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:58 AM
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Your going to the mountains but thinking of ways to booby trap her experience? And if there’s an even bigger bitch with an ego there? You’ll have to do it twice so double up at the hardware store.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:44 AM
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Agreed. Just out here rolling from one bad situation to another. This should be a wake up call to do more reading and less overthinking.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:29 AM
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It almost sounds like big girl is trafficking you for food and snacks.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:56 AM
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Is random girl gonna stop fucking midway when your hair depompadours?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:58 AM
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We’re there any red flags/ signs you ignored?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:24 PM
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How long was your bid
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:16 AM
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Scenario sounds like a sausage fest. Attending events and activities with better ratios is a start. Online is the numbers game, in person is more nuanced and your better able to communicate how far you’ve come along.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:49 PM
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Agreed, she’s playing the long game
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:38 PM
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You seem to have have discipline in all other areas of your life but your mind. Where the mind goes the body will follow. Don’t ignore those thoughts observe them and try to just let it be what it is, a thought. Allow time to do its work and realize there is some more core work (rediscovering value, etc.) that needs to take place to replace this perceived loss.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:31 PM
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I would look at as I should read the room better and always assume you’ll get negative comments from insecure people. They sensed you were unprepared. Maybe practice calling yourself a bitch in the mirror til your unaffected and dry eyed.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:53 AM
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You could balance out the banter with moments of encouragement or seriousness. No set formula exist just be genuine with your words and thoughts. Giving your friend some options from your perspective to help him formulate his own decision is the best you can ask for. We maintain friendships for a variety of reasons and let them determine their place in our lives by their action/ inactions
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:39 AM
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Feigning for the scenario where underdeveloped social skills transform you into an alpha teen wolf is unlikely. Social calibration in understanding how to lead the interaction where you want comes from trial and error. It’s also an outward projection of who you are. Keep improving yourself and be aware of how purposeful you move in space. (Posture, gait, vocal tone, eyes etc.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:25 AM
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Being a decent human being is not a turnoff. Women respond to a wide variety of personalities and it’s not worth your time to investigate the why. This is also a moment where you see that your frame should not be reactionary.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:06 AM
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Kino with calipers
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:52 PM
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Trust your gut. If you haven’t met yet shes about as real as automated telephone banking. Make a plan and execute.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:23 AM
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2 hamsters spinning means twice as much shit everywhere. Say less.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:50 AM
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Unless you plan on living for only one more year you would do better to get back out there. Trying to do a sales pitch at closing time is more trouble than its worth. It is the mans fault if he can’t see his own behavior objectively.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:29 AM
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If savings and retirement are accounted for then your fine. I’m not one to wait until retirement to live or make up for what wasn’t. Sounds like you need to reflect on new goals and challenges. If your getting bored then what do the clients feel? Something tangent to your current line of work could provide motivation or even exploring unrelated ideas that have piqued your interest.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:22 PM
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Exactly. Have a routine and have confidence in it to carry you through the day.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:02 PM
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Probably in your best interest rn that you aren’t into the fun destructive girls. If you view yourself as average you need more time in the gym to change that.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:26 AM
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Yeah. You have to be secure with yourself and internalize outcome independence.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:41 PM
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It’s like a set of training wheels you don’t really need it to learn how to ride. I recommend picking up material on reading body language so you know when the conversation turns cringeworthy.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:07 AM
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When we are born we are actually more helpless than most of the animal kingdom. You won’t see many toddlers foraging or rounding up rabbits for supper.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:55 AM
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Have synergistic goals and plans. Be a skilled communicator able to navigate different social situations. Read material to familiarize your self with the world outside and within.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:19 PM
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Unbreak my heart level
/r/askTRP16/06/20 08:13 AM
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Your juggling what if scenarios, don’t live in third person. Those same university girls are older and out there on the merry go round. Jump in or have your fill of your local college so you can move past those thoughts.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:59 PM
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What’s that saying, if you have to ask....But if she has friends/ associates with similar smv that she would put you on to then go that route. Otherwise reduce contact.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:08 AM
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Look through all of the information given to you and compare it with your current routine. Try to add one new thing or stop doing one thing that does not benefit you. Sustainable progress is the goal so start experimenting.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:46 AM
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Write on the back of your hands “she belongs to the streets”
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:19 AM
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Hopefully boundaries are in place. You have to keep improving for yourself. Don’t be envious be more knowledgeable to contribute to the conversation. Being stagnant in action and purpose will stagnate your relationship. If you can, explore different music that you like and share with her. Invite to a show of whatever artist you both end up liking etc.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:08 AM
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For me in whatever setting or situation I’m in I think of the most ridiculous thing that could happen and work my way back into something mildly amusing. Eg if that light post fell on me I might get the day off work. Corny but after some practice you can find a way to break the ice or fill in gaps of conversations. Helps me to pay attention to setting details and the words of whomever I’m speaking to.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:35 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessary to cut all of them off. The ones that are useless? sure. If you have productive conversations with some of them and they are knowledgeable you could downgrade the communication frequency. I’ve moved to a couple of different places. My communication with old friends took a nosedive maybe a couple times a year. NBD for me or them. They said they were glad I made the move and it was good to see me doing better. My one friend going through divorce now realized that in th…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:17 PM
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My approach is to be proactive about the basics. I have a home weight scale, blood pressure machine, and a glucose tester. Basic information gives me a good baseline. I’ve also had a cmp/ cbc blood test with a lipid panel in the past. That comprehensive test provided much more information related to various organs in the body and they turned out mostly normal. I was quite relieved reading the results. Data is the only way to know and provide a way forward.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:57 PM
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It just happens man. Hanger ons are part of the obstacle course.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:11 PM
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If there is synergy with your goals and gains then the risk is acceptable.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:34 PM
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The rate is the rate, you charge her or someone else will. Maybe she can sense you are seeking recognition and unless your making that effort to get more gigs then it’s best to move on. She still has your info..
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:03 PM
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Body weight exercises. Emulation of effective tactics is not a long term substitute for actually figuring out what works for you.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:51 PM
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The only perception you can change is your own. If the results don’t match the work you put in either change your strategy or change your environment work/ living conditions. Swimming upstream for anything less than foundational results usually isn’t worth it.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:29 PM
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Everytime you go out pay attention to the details ask your self questions. How did that happen? That seems out of place? You can start adding to your own story by adding details you observe along your routine. I went to the gym today vs I saw an interesting thing on my way to the gym.. Every story has a bridge to another story, it can be another of yours or to someone else’s.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:20 PM
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