Mohumasta Archive

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1	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. I think this is the most true answer in the context of seduction. Opening up that line of communication while supplementing that rapport building with affectionate kissing and enjoying each other's (hopefully naked! 😉) bodies while you guys mesh vibes is the most seductive approach. Sex is erotic, it's messy, it's hilarious, it's euphoric, among many other adjectives, but it's also sensitive, and can be scary or intimidating. Good sex isn't just good during the act itself, laying the foundation …	/r/seduction	03/04/15 11:53 PM
11	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. This guy gets it.	/r/seduction	03/04/15 11:23 PM
1	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. I'm picking up what you're putting down. The only reason I got slightly defensive is because I felt like OP's girl was cast as a manipulator without any real evidence being provided. I have a female friend who made her BF wait 3 months for sex (crazy even for my lizard brain to digest, for real). But I'll tell you what, that was 5 years ago and they're still together and she tells me all her dirty secrets, his patience paid off haha.	/r/seduction	03/04/15 11:19 PM
2	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. Man, you're so Alpha you must be twitching with all that cum dripping out of your tearducts. I totally agree with your ideology, I really do. If OP is solely just looking to get laid. I'll let you in on a little secret (not everyone is on the same warpath, everyone's journey is subjective). If I were 18 again I'd totally be out to get my dick wet every day of the week, and when I stumbled upon this community 7 years ago that's exactly what I did. As I grow older I find that I don't need the vali…	/r/seduction	03/04/15 10:54 PM
1	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. If you're only committing to her because you want to fuck her.... I'd agree with this guy, and don't fucking promise a relationship just to get laid.... But if you're dating her because you actually like her and want companionship, 5 weeks isn't a long enough time to be concerned. She may not want to feel used, her apprehension could be that if she doesn't put out you'll bounce and move on to the next girl. If that's remotely true, she's just screening out dudes like the guy who just replied to …	/r/seduction	03/04/15 10:31 PM
2	How to get a girl over her insecurities sex? Lmr is destroying me. TLDR: if you're looking for a quick fix or a manipulation tactic, disregard my answer. This is going to sound clinical so bear with me, I'm not a licensed professional but this modality does work for me in many contexts and I use it frequently when dealing with many personalities. There could be a million reasons why this is happening. As a dude who used to get caught up in my head and was never present, I can totally empathize with her. If she's straight up your girlfriend, and you genuinely fe…	/r/seduction	03/04/15 10:10 PM
3	Approaching cute girls in front of other cute girls? TLDR: It's really gut wrenching at first but if you can swallow your jitters and just approach them with genuine, calm, collected, confidence and express what you're thinking I guarantee you it won't end traumatically. I hung out with one of those Daygame gurus a few years ago for about an hour before he had to fly out to some other city. He basically would point out random cute girls in a crowd and tell me to strike up conversations with them. The idea being GENUINE and direct to the point, no …	/r/seduction	03/04/15 05:17 AM
1	Help for a 19 year old (m) No problem! Hope that helps. Transitions get a lot easier when you're both at the legal drinking age too, especially if you feel you already have mutual chemistry.	/r/seduction	28/03/15 04:54 PM
1	Help for a 19 year old (m) Taking all this jazz with a grain of salt will make your life a whole lot easier. However sometimes you gotta make an ass out of yourself to really find your boundaries, God permitting the person is self aware enough to realize when they're being a douche.	/r/seduction	28/03/15 04:10 AM
1	Help for a 19 year old (m) I assume you share classes? Everything is subjective and there isn't one way to go about anything. One thing that works fairly well for me is find a legitimate natural reason why you two would spend time together. Take the same classes? Tell her you think it would be a good idea to study together; not sure/not comfortable straight up inviting her to your place? Suggest meeting up at a coffee shop. This will take the pressure off since we aren't putting a firm defininition of "THIS IS A DATE, WE'…	/r/seduction	28/03/15 01:17 AM
1	Help for a 19 year old (m) This is the most cookie cutter response I've ever read.	/r/seduction	28/03/15 12:56 AM
10	Request: Condom Etiquette Sorry for format, on phone and too lazy. More often than not when things are getting hot my girls would ask if I had a condom, and I always had one in arms reach (though it's no big deal if you have to walk across the room naked to get one. Let's be real here...) If she doesn't ask about one and she's already naked, I'll just say "hold on, lemme grab a condom real quick." Always have one, never will it ever be a buzz kill to take 30 seconds to find/put one on. They appreciate it, even if it's no…	/r/seduction	25/03/15 08:09 AM
7	Just had the shortest date in my life. Technically it would be the same general guideline. You divide the age of the oldest person between the both of them by two, and then you add seven years. So if you're looking for "how young is too young?" in relation to YOU. Subtract 7 years from your age and multiple by two, this will be the oldest person you could by "society's standards" be able to date. I personally say hookup with whoever you want as long as it's legal.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 04:56 PM
35	Teach me how to steer the conversation sexually It sounds kinda corny but the would you rather aspect can be pretty effective. I've had success with "what do you like more? Being kissed on the neck or letting a guy kiss your earlobes?" Regardless of their answer always lightly defend the opposite, " how could you possibly like 'insert her answer and kiss that region' more than 'insert the other answer and kiss that region'?" If that feels slightly beyond your comfort zone OP, warm up with this question, "what's your favorite way to be kissed?…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 10:42 PM