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MomentSpecialist2020/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 12:32 AM
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A prenuptial is the way. And try to keep accounts separate as much as possible. Couples counseling BEFORE engaging is a must to proactively prevent a divorce. You need to know that you share the same principles and view about the future. Ask questions like what are we going to do if we have a pregnancy with a genetic mutation?
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 04:29 PM
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Maybe she’s a stripper those nights, or AA meetings, etc. asking her is the way. If she is not willing to share, she’s not trustworthy, and you better avoid.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 08:40 PM
3

Have you posted this on the dead bedroom Reddit. You may get a more appropriate response.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/26 09:06 PM
2

I wouldn’t do it. A prenup would be a must in this situation. She needs counseling about her money issues.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 01:24 PM
5

Don’t leave marital home, talk to your lawyer first.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 02:28 AM
4

Psycho.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 02:58 AM
2

You should talk to a lawyer about doing a post nuptial agreement. That way from now on you protect more of your hard earned work.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 07:49 PM
4

Get attorney. File first, don’t leave the marital home. She leaves. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:15 AM
5

Interview lawyers, file first, don’t leave marital home.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 02:48 AM
3

You have to have hope that things will get better, and you have to find a purpose. Have faith that the future will be bright.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:57 PM
7

Probably want child support.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 07:54 PM
14

Don’t marry again, get a domestic partner. If you decide to marry, get a pre nuptial agreement ahead of time. Protect your assets and kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 11:50 PM
3

Best is to have the conversation about money and get a prenup to protect yourself. If she balks at the prenup, it was about your money.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 01:20 AM
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All ears. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 12:39 AM
3

Have her pay half of your health insurance
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 11:19 PM
2

Have fun!
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 06:49 PM
6

See lawyer first. Get your ducks in order then serve. No need to confront.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 10:40 PM
2

r/DeadBedroom is a great resource for this issue.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 09:59 PM
1

40,000 IU daily is too high of a dose. Max dose is just under 10,000 daily for male adults. Check blood level of 25 OH vitamin D, it should be above 50 and under 50
/r/TheRedPill02/05/25 07:31 PM
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After age 40 the skin stops producing Vitamin D. No matter how much sun you get. After 40 you should supplement with Vitamin D3 with Vitamin K2 together.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/25 11:17 AM
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The biological father of the child is responsible for child support
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/25 03:35 AM
2

Displaying high status works to attract women. You still have to have game. Peacoking is a tactic recommended by many pick up artists.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 01:30 AM
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Many women use the dating apps for fun and validation. Some use them to get free dinners. Just have fun, meet only for coffee and see how things go. I’ve met a few good women, but it takes time, effort, money, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 04:38 AM
1

They need worker bees!
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 08:45 PM
1

Decreasing birth rates is a huge problem! System needs to be changed to make having and raising children reasonable again!
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 03:17 PM
6

Very true!
/r/TheRedPill10/02/25 08:44 PM
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No!
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 02:27 PM
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Watch out for palimony too! Keep finances separate.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 06:57 PM
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Grey rock
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 01:51 AM
3

Hinge maybe better to find long lasting relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 06:27 PM
1

No need to test mom. It should be evident who the mom is. Only father needs testing. Should be optional.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 12:58 AM
1

Key West
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 12:32 AM
1

Must ban cars, they kill people.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 05:40 PM
1

Magnesium threonate is really good for anxiety and ADHD. It will take some breakups to find the right one. Keep working on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 03:11 AM
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Stress causes physical reactions in the body. Learning to recognize and how to manage stress is extremely important. Diet, exercise, sleep, support network, etc are great places to start.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 03:22 PM
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Final Analysis was a great movie too!
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 01:22 AM
5

Forgive yourself for your past sins and learn from your mistakes to become a better human husband and father. We are humans and make mistakes and have flaws. Do not let guilt get in the way of the future. Get counseling if you want. Confessing to her will assuage your guilt but bring more bad karma to your house. Move forward one day at a time. If divorce is inevitable talk to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 03:29 PM
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She could be on the spectrum, autists are very sensitive to touch even to the clothing they wear. If it doesn’t have the right texture they won’t touch it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/24 03:36 PM
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There are too many legal risks including libel. Better to just verbally tell the important people in your life and less is more in this context.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 05:35 PM
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If someone asks what you spent the cash on, say things like betting on sports, strip bar, hookers, and donated to homeless beggar.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 12:38 PM
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Remember you are marrying the family too! If they are seriously Muslim and not westernized avoid
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/24 02:58 AM
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Aim for 50/50 custody.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:10 AM
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It’s psyops from her. Disregard her comments.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 08:11 PM
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Consult a family law lawyer up there to see how to prepare and protect. They should give you some ideas.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 11:50 PM
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I know one. Colombian lady. Divorced as soon as she learned to drive.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/24 05:50 PM
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I stopped opening doors for women and stopped putting the toilet seat down! 👺
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/24 09:45 PM
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Discuss a prenup with your lawyer and then her.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 02:20 AM
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You can try an on line notary. I pay $25 for single document on line.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 02:12 PM
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This is a shit test! It’s a power move on her part. Don’t fall for it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 11:54 PM
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Consult a family law attorney for the best strategies.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 11:18 PM
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She’s in denial. Doesn’t want to adult up and deal with the separation. It’s your job to take the adult role.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 02:56 PM
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Please elaborate. How does it work for you?
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 02:33 PM
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Women use dating apps for validation and fun. Not really to meet someone. They also use them to get a free meal. Be careful, smart, and select well. Go for coffee first. That will screen out the gold diggers. It can be fun or a huge waste of time. Many profiles are sex workers.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 11:57 PM
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Are you in a no fault state?
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 02:35 AM
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“Extremely skinny” eating disorder or drugs like speed etc.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 12:46 PM
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I agree with you, but that 50/50 split encourages monkeybranching.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 02:06 PM
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I think 50/50 parenting is THE way to go. I think the OP was talking about 50% ASSETS split. Assets should be split according to % contributed, not necessarily 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 02:04 PM
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Excuses excuses, she’s trying to get back on your good graces. Figures out she maybe able to take a bite off you. Grey rock her.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 10:30 PM
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Ego = power. Manipulative behavior. Not good karma.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 04:47 PM
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Women look at dating apps as fun, validation, and a way to a free meal. Use dating apps wisely. Texting should be used mostly for doing the logistics of a date, time, place, etc. Use the phone/voicemail to chat with them.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 12:32 PM
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Hollywood and TV is all fantasy. Not reality.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 11:29 PM
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Women use dating apps mostly for validation and fun. Occasionally to get a free dinner. Many women are sex working the dating apps too. Very few are seriously looking for a relationship. You are better off in real life. Buy a boat or a cabin, do things with friends and you’ll meet nice ones.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:59 PM
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Prenuptial, trusts, asset protection strategies.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 10:34 PM
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Roomie
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 12:08 AM
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You can negotiate a prenup or something similar now. So when she decides to leave again you’re better protected.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:28 PM
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Stay in the house, it is legally important for you to stay. Talk to your lawyer before making any moves.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 12:40 AM
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Grey rock.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 12:19 AM
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Women use dating apps for validation, entertainment, and free dinners. They look at dating apps as a fun thing to do. Improve yourself and go out into the real world. You’ll meet people and women. Do the things you enjoy doing.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 10:19 PM
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Time to get a hobby. I recommend things you can enjoy with your kids. Camping, boating, sailing, sports, etc. one night a week go out for happy hour, make it a routine. Say Thursday night is happy hour at Wild Bar. Have one drink and an appetizer. And develop some adult friends.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 04:30 PM
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Consult with a family law lawyer first. Then make your preparatory moves with good legal counsel.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 07:11 PM
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Consult an experienced family law lawyer first so you can start arranging things in a way that smooths things out. Marriage counseling and a post nuptial agreement are options to sort of save things, if possible.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 03:49 PM
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Talk to a family law attorney. There are some things you can do to prepare. Generally speaking assets accumulated during the marriage are split 50/50. Custody, child support, and spouse’s support depends on lots of factors. Aim for 50/50 custody.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 07:26 PM
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You can issue a 1099-c if she defaults, but that’s only worth it as a threat. It will not get your money back.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 04:31 PM
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Grey rock
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 07:12 PM
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You could ask for 50-50 custody.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 05:32 AM
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The rate goes up to 30% depending on how’s it done: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1733152/
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 12:54 AM
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When a baby is born who the mother is a given. Who the father is, that’s the question. DNA testing has revealed that 20-40 % of the father listed in birth certificate is not the real father.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 04:40 PM
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Tap credit cards, home equity, whatever you can to retain counsel.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 09:25 PM
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Financial stability helps, but other areas of your life have to be good to get back in the saddle. Mood, energy, fitness, attitude, etc. work on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 09:46 PM
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An attorney that has completed a Family Law fellowship would be the top choice. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 04:10 PM
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If you have these many issues and a dead bedroom it’s over. She’s trying to end it. See an attorney and start plotting how to proceed from there.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 04:06 PM
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Appeal! You’ve got little to lose and much to gain!
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 10:56 PM
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Married women see divorced/bachelor men as a bad influence to their husbands. They see it as a dangerous thing to their stability.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/23 12:52 AM
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Break up. Why waste time?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 07:12 PM
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Prenuptial agreements are a must! Best just live together, no marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 02:57 PM
5

What is MAP?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/23 08:36 PM
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(Every man should) plant a tree, have a child, and write a book. These all live on after us, insuring a measure of immortality. – attributed to the Talmud and Jose Martí, Cuban revolutionary and poet
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 06:07 PM
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You could do a 23 and me dna test, find the family tree.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 05:04 PM
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The money went to gambling, drugs, alcohol, and hoes. Buy an expensive part for your car also. Your local coin shop will sell gold, platinum, and silver for cash. Burn receipts.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 04:08 PM
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She needs counseling and psychotherapy. Watch a movie titled “BLISS” it’s about this issue. Admitting she was SA is a big step forward.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 09:42 PM
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How’s the sex? If you have a dead bedroom situation, something is up.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 12:22 PM
2

On line dating is a relatively new way of playing the dating game. A lot of women are hookers looking for a sugar daddy etc. , some are playing for the free dinners, many are just seeking attention and validation. Most women use OLD just for entertainment. A few are real women looking for a partner. Lots of work, screening, and coffee dates to find a few good ones. I say real life is a better place to meet real women. JMHO
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 05:36 PM
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File for bankruptcy
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 03:48 PM
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Secretly talk to a lawyer and put a plan together. Sorry this happened to you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 01:39 AM
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Not fair. Consult several local divorce lawyers in your area to get ideas on how to proceed. Divorce will cost you, but you can mitigate the damage with good advice and planning.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 03:38 AM
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The best revenge is living good!
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 12:24 PM
2

Hang in there. There are only a few things you have control over, just focus. One day at a time.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 01:18 AM
2

Working the muscles releases antidepressants molecules, it’s great!
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 04:06 AM
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Confabulation
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 03:44 AM
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If she is depressed, consider post partum depression and suicide. Better keep all channels of communication open. Not a good sign.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 10:25 PM
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Read The Rational Male to get an idea of why you are gun shy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 04:32 PM
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Prenuptial contracts. Basically legalizing prostitution.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 04:19 PM
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Marriage is supposed to be a positive experience, if you are just enduring it, better to move on. Life is short.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 02:57 AM
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There is IQ for intelligence. There is EQ for emotional maturity. And there is XQ for experiential quotient. Go create some great experiences that make you grow, and you can do this together with your lady! Go camping, travel, canoe, build a house, whatever you like! Go for it!
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 02:57 AM
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She’s trying to rent space in your head. Do not engage, do not reply. Grey stone.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 03:26 AM
0

Could be she is depressed? Working night shift is really bad for her health. Perhaps switching to day shifts may help.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 01:45 AM
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Marriage is not something to be endured. If you are suffering it is time to make a change.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 11:58 PM
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Talk to a family law attorney first!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 04:44 AM
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Stop the joint counseling, waste of time now. Continue your own counseling with a therapist you trust if you feel like you need that support. Fight like hell for everything. Good luck. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 03:51 AM
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Focus on improving and nurturing yourself. Stop the beta male behaviors, you are an ALPHA male. Now got forth! Most women use dating apps for validation and entertainment and to get free dinners. Don’t fall for that. Better meet women in real life.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 03:22 AM
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That explains the “first born male” preference. Very interesting!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/23 01:46 PM
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Marriage is not some suffering to be endured. If it is not making you happy, it’s time to bail.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 01:23 PM
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Most women on dating apps are there for entertainment and free meals. Use them as entertainment and at most meet for coffee.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 05:42 AM
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Men are the beast of burden, once they don’t provide (or provide enough to make her happy) they are dumped. It is time to stop this nonsense. Marriage today is a business deal. Prenup and postnup should be routine.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 06:45 PM
2

Talk to divorce lawyer and start getting things in order. It is friendly now, but it could turn nasty in an instant. Good luck. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 05:36 PM
1

Grieve your loss first. Stabilize situation with children. Improve yourself. Then start dating. It’s a wonderful world out there.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 05:05 PM
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Being married to someone you do not trust is not a good idea. Good that you talked to lawyer about your options. Go ahead with the post nup, but be ready for her to say “I want a divorce” 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/22 07:39 PM
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She wants to keep renting space in your brain. Go your own way. Don’t pay any attention to her shenanigans. Go forth! Be free!
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 04:47 PM
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It’s a matter of paying attention
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 02:28 PM
4

Congratulations! Taste freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 11:55 PM
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Talk to your lawyer, get your ducks in a row, drop the bomb, and be ready for battle. Good luck. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 03:27 AM
2

Sounds like she has depression. Post partum depression may have continued and become major depression. Perhaps seeking mental health may help her and your marriage. If she is not willing to seek help and take her meds, then divorce is the right to do for your and your Children’s sake.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 12:20 AM
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Are you happy? If not, move on. Enduring all this bs just to spare her feelings and your daughters school is not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 03:28 AM
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Bummer. She probably always considered you her walking ATM. Once the money stops, the love stops.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 02:03 AM
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Talk to a lawyer first. Start planning the divorce. Get ready for a fight.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 04:26 AM
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Talk to your lawyer first. Then start asking her for rent money.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:52 AM
3

You’ve been through the mill. Takes at least 2 years to grieve the loss. Concentrate on yourself, improve yourself and your situation and karma will take care of the rest.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 03:34 AM
2

Are you happy with the situation? If not, move on.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 02:50 AM
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Consult your lawyer first. Then try to figure out the finances. One step at a time. You may need a side job.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 09:35 PM
1

Talk to divorce lawyer about options.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 12:25 AM
4

Where is the father of the daughters in all this?
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 09:16 PM
2

Can’t take a whole week to recover. Find a baby sitter.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 12:50 AM
3

Maybe separate tickets.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/22 11:25 AM
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Lots of women looking for free dinners in dating apps. Coffee should be first date, screens out the gold diggers.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/22 07:56 PM
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Depends on your state laws about recording parties and consent. Talk to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 07:12 PM
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Sounds like she had/has post partum depression. Talk to her primary care physician.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 03:21 AM
4

Talk to your attorney, there should be a legal consequence for lying.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 08:28 PM
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Gold bars. Have a trusted friend or family hold them. Buy with cash, sell 4 cash. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 08:20 PM
7

A good CPA can give you some numbers. Then you can make an offer to buy her out of the house. You still need a divorce attorney to help with other details.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 08:13 PM
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Grey rock. Talk to lawyer. Video and record everything. Avoid conflict at all cost. Start pumping iron.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/22 01:34 AM
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You could also do a post-nuptial agreement. But a clean break now is better.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/22 04:19 PM
1

Off lease car places have great deals. Be smart with your money.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 11:13 PM
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IF you have a drinking problem, take care of yourself first. Alcohol is not the answer to problems. Nobody is perfect, but we can all improve. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 12:58 AM
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Marriage is not supposed to be an endurance contest. Suffering school is bad for you. Try to go your separate ways as constructively as possible. YOLO 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/22 04:51 PM
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It is always darkest before dawn. One step at a time. Build a life for you. Start slowly. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 01:38 AM
3

Could be another scam or a real Person. Many women use OLD just for fun or to try to score a free meal. Keep your guard up. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 05:09 PM
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None of us are perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. You need to learn how to forgive yourself for unintended mistakes. If you spend time in the past you will become depressed. If you spend time in the future you will become anxious. Spend time in the present doing the best you can. The rear view is always 20/20. The present is what matters. Learn from your mistakes and make the best present you can. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 02:10 AM
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All relationships are power struggles. Go alpha, take the lead. Good luck! 🍀
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/22 02:26 PM
3

Then why be so unhappy?
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 11:36 PM
4

Are you in a dead bedroom situation?
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 10:02 PM
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Texting should only be used to set up a date. Changing the dynamics is the key to getting from the friend zone to the sex zone. For #1, set up a casual date and see response. For #2 start improving yourself and living your life. Don’t be beta. 🍀
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 12:27 AM
3

Good move. If you are not happy and she’s not collaborating to change things, why stay.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 09:37 PM
4

Make double sure nobody has access to your diary.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:37 PM
2

It sounds like your wife is suffering from depression. Encourage her to seek help for that. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 11:53 AM
3

She’s testing you. She wants to know if you are Val alpha. Go on with your life. Be strong. If you pass her tests you will get her pussy.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 07:36 PM
2

May the force be with you. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 11:58 AM
8

Renewable no fault contract every three years.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 05:45 PM
3

File now. Do not let the 10 yr anniversary pass.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 02:32 PM
2

Several things could be going on. The problem maybe her. Her sex drive is gone, could be hormonal or psychological. You have done great in improving yourself. All the right moves, etc. at some point having the hard conversation with wife about what’s going on needs to happen. Not being happy is not an option for either of you. 🍀
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/22 05:23 PM
2

I guess it can validate your opinion and it may give you some insight into how to approach her with issues. Otherwise probably not going to change anything.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 04:50 PM
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Women know that at 10 years of marriage they are entitled to your social security benefits. Monkey branch to something better. Watch out. Prenup is necessary always.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 09:24 PM
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Grey rock. Lawyer up. Only communicate in writing or through the lawyer. 💪
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 05:22 PM
7

Why stay in an unhealthy relationship? The thrill is gone, time to move on. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 02:12 AM
22

Just one battle lost. Not the war. Get an attorney board certified in Family Law 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 02:03 AM
6

Never underestimate your enemy. Good luck 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 11:24 PM
2

It takes two to tango. If she’s not wanting to be in a relationship with you it’s not your fault necessarily.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/22 05:13 PM
3

Don’t leave house.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 04:00 AM
13

It takes two people committed to make a relationship work. She bailed emotionally already. It’s not your fault. Be strong 💪
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/22 05:46 PM
2

Start exercising, burn that stress cortisol off. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 04:21 AM
3

Be strong for your kids and your sake.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 05:29 PM
21

Talk to a divorce attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/22 01:56 AM
13

Talk to a family law lawyer in your state.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 03:28 PM
3

Strong work 💪
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 08:06 PM
4

You need to go. Retain a lawyer ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 04:18 AM
8

Be strong! 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 04:48 AM
13

Boating, fishing, camping stuff you can get the kids involved with.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 12:48 AM
2

Be strong. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/22 08:43 PM
1

Congratulations 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/22 08:40 PM
1

Guardian at Litem cost money too! What a mess!
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 10:21 PM
1

Work on improving yourself mentally and physically. Improve your looks, wardrobe, car, etc. Improve your finances and work/life balance first. Then start DOING things that you like. You will meet people in those settings. Your vibe attracts your tribe. Be a chief!
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 04:04 PM
2

Good luck 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/22 10:48 PM
6

Grief has stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, finally acceptance. You will have all of these, not necessarily on that order, and sometimes mixed. You need talking with a trusted counselor to guide you through it. It is always darkest before dawn, every rose has its thorn….. Treat yourself gently. It is a process. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/22 07:46 PM
2

“I’m not happy with this relationship. I want to go my own way. It has been nice, but it does not work do me any more. For the sake of the kids, let’s separate in a friendly way. “
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 08:54 PM
2

Maybe she has a rich boyfriend lined up?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/22 02:36 AM
2

Sitting at the bar is the easiest way. Have fun, enjoy a great meal, then go for a short walk. Enjoy the feeling of freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 08:02 PM
6

You need to do you. If you feel you have an alcohol problem then tackle that. If you don’t have an alcohol problem, don’t give her any ammunition. Contact a lawyer to protect yourself, lawyer can coach from behind the scene even on friendly divorce. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 05:21 PM
1

Thriftbooks.com, Abebooks.com, etc. just google used books and check them out.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 08:41 PM
6

Then you can use your medical insurance to see a psychologist. Get help, at least someone to vent to. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 12:59 AM
3

Do you have Employee Assistance Program at your job? Go talk to them, they are experts in these situations. I’m assuming your boss knows your situation at home is horrible.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 11:43 PM
1

Trust but verify! Keep eyes open. But don’t go to the dark side.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 06:51 AM
5

Live together, don’t marry, or do a pre-nup. Conventional marriage is male suicide.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 08:56 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.billboard.com/music/lyrics/luke-combs-beer-never-broke-my-heart-lyrics-8519505/amp/ Beer never broke my heart song
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 02:12 AM
3

Gray rock and video is the way.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 01:01 AM
1

Perhaps this will answer one of your points: https://llm-guide.com/schools/usa/concentration/family-law-child-law
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 04:52 PM
2

Only use lawyers from top 20 law schools. IMHO most law schools are diploma mills. Also look for lawyers with masters degree in the specialty, in this context Family Law. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 01:06 AM
1

Selling can affect your property taxes in places like CA and FL where the basis for property taxes is based on when you bought.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/22 09:11 PM
2

Hiking, camping, start with road trips. Kayak, canoe, bicycle, sailing lessons, fishing, buy a boat.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 09:34 PM
4

Do NOT Re elect any judge at elections. That is one way to keep the system honest.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 06:01 AM
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Women need: 1, emotional and physical security 2, regular meaningful communication 3, non sexual touch 4, Romance Men needs: 1, feel loved and admired 2, feel loved and desired 3, regular and consistent sexual intimacy Men needs are available in the marketplace. Women’s needs, not so much. A loyal man at your side is hard to get.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/21 11:06 PM
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She may be waiting for more financial info from you, or a bigger payout. Best thing is for you to file. 🍀 is property still appreciating? Waiting to file is smart in her case.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 02:57 PM
5

Thailand is wonderful. Great cultural stuff, friendly people, great food. Teach, stay there after job for a few months. Bangkok can be done in a few days. Phuket, Cosamui, etc need to travel. Take your time. Good luck 🍀
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 04:43 PM
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That’s your hurt ego speaking. It does not matter. The here and now is what matters. You need to be strong, nurture yourself. Go on with your life and be happy. No use trying to analyze, rehash, wonder what if, etc. She is over the relationship, she’s not coming back. Take care of yourself. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/21 04:40 PM
1

Look for a mate with similar goals in life. Has her financial life together, etc. If she also has assets and career to protect she will have no trouble signing a prenup. In the meantime improve yourself. Buy a house. Maybe get a cabin in the woods, or a boat. Have lots of friends. Enjoy life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/21 09:38 PM
1

Salsa lessons
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:41 AM
5

She’s trying to gather evidence. Better change passwords, close accounts, etc. she’s up to no good.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/21 12:01 AM
3

If you do want anything like marriage, must get a prenup to protect yourself. Good luck. 🍀
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 04:25 PM
1

You need to improve your game. First stop going to coffee houses for dates. If you want some action go to fun place that you can move to romantic place next. Be alpha, you plan and control the action. Have different sandboxes for different types of dates ready. Know and control your turf, have fun. And never mix girls in one sandbox. With a new woman go to a sandbox not recently used. 🍀
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 02:56 PM
7

Invite her over for pizza and a movie. Put a sexy movie like Eyes Wide Shut, Basic Instinct, etc. Let things flow naturally
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 08:27 PM
1

Keep in separate account. Do not cominigle. Talk to attorney. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/21 08:55 PM
1

Women’s role is to attract a male that is going to stick around after the kid is born. Character and personality play a big role too!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 11:46 PM
7

If u use money as your attraction method all u going to get is gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 11:45 PM
4

Prenup!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 05:56 AM
3

Prenup!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 01:35 AM
0

Agree and amplify!!! “I bet he’s cute and has a big one, let’s have a threesome! “
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 03:23 AM
2

Moving is expensive and disruptive. Only move for a better job. Keep your priorities. Do not make emotional decisions. Any children?
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 01:37 AM
2

On line dating apps are for entertainment only. Most women in those are there just for validation. A lot of sex workers too. Get your life together. Meet people in real world. Good luck. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 09:44 PM
8

Sell house. No need for financial drama now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 09:36 PM
1

As you increase protein intake, increase water intake to protect kidneys. Make sure the protein you eat has all essential amino acids. Good write up.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 11:26 PM
1

Be authentic, and connect with her by sharing personal stories, eye contact, touching her, and really TALKING with her. SLOWLY introduce her to YOUR world. That means YOU pick the date of when you meet. YOU pick the music. YOU take her to YOUR favorite place. etc etc. YOU DO NOT !!!!!! step into her world. Instead you introduce her to YOUR WORLD. The benefit of this is that you can stay in control, authentic and real. Learn how to turn her on with flirting, touch, seductive talk, etc. YOU need t…
/r/seduction17/08/21 05:30 PM
10

Talk to your lawyer before leaving your home.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 12:37 AM
1

Have you thought of a pre nuptial? Or going forward a monogamous friends with benefits?
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/21 01:51 AM
3

OLD is for entertainment only. Women use it for ego and free dinners. It is a way for them to be entertained. Don’t waste your $.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 04:51 AM
1

Could be low T. Get test.
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:05 AM
3

Or “A gentleman never tells.” with a big smile.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 12:08 PM
1

From the bad boy fuck buddy to a provider. They found a new bf that provides more fun and $$. That’s all.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 01:46 AM
3

On line dating apps are mostly for women’s entertainment. They are for fun. Better meet women in real life.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 12:42 AM
1

Dating apps are for fun, not to meet people. They are entertainment for women. A distraction.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:34 AM
2

Is your ex wife dating her lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/21 05:28 PM
1

She’s playing with your mind. Set your goals and your boundaries. Leave the past behind.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 07:54 PM
15

She’s playing games with your mind while she lines up the next guy. Focus.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 07:43 PM
5

Dating apps are for entertainment only. Too many immature, crazy, hookers, sex workers, Etc etc there. Takes too much $ time and effort to screen all that. Activities like sport clubs like volleyball, hiking, sailing, gallery nights, etc etc you meet some quality women
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 08:13 PM
2

Be positive, take the high moral road. Be a good role model. Kid will figure it out. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 02:18 PM
1

He probably needs a little space and a friend. Stay in the friend zone if you are comfortable. Give it a little time. Then there will come a time when you make the move to the more intimate zone, if he does not move that way, then it’s time for you to move on. Good luck. 🍀
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 01:58 PM
3

Take atm cash for spending money on a regular basis so it does not look suspicious. Use it for regular expenses like gas, food, etc. Squirrel some of it away in a safe place, like at work, friend, etc. If asked where the money went, it went to charity, strip club, gambling, lotto, bar tabs, etc etc. Cant hide huge amounts, but if you take $300 spending money a week and save $200 it builds up. Good luck. She’s probably doing the same.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 04:30 AM
5

Being in love is a really strong natural high. We are genetically programmed to fall in love. The endorphins produced by the brain keep you stoned. You make a lot of stupid decisions when you are high. Plus it’s nicer to face the challenges of life with a partner. But the endorphins don’t last forever. People grow apart. People change. In research studies endorphins are measured in the urine, you can tell when the infatuation ends. The genetic programming is coded for the endorphins to last 3-5 …
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 04:03 AM
8

Get a divorce lawyer. Hopefully one board certified in family law. Good luck. Sorry to hear about your woes. Very sad.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/21 12:57 AM
3

She’s probably trading up to a doctor. Probably cheating already. Sorry to hear that you got scammed. Tough lesson to learn.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/21 12:53 AM
2

Go on a camping retreat. Find yourself first. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 04:52 PM
2

On line dating is just entertainment for women. Go real. Good luck
/r/seduction31/05/21 04:48 PM
1

Excercise, sunshine, fresh air, and good attorney. https://ezaffordabledivorce.com
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/21 07:56 PM
3

Women thrive on drama.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/21 10:56 PM
3

Most people use dating apps for entertainment, not to find a mate. Just have fun. If you get lucky and find a mate, that’s gravy.
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:13 AM
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Http://Ezaffordabledivorce.com Had wrong spelling. Sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 10:54 PM
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