| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 67 | How I act in Bumble... | NICE FOR WHAT? | MommaGypsy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 66 | Even Young Men Know you shouldn't be letting them play games! | MOOD FOR LIFE | MommaGypsy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:02 AM |
| 21 | Am I alone with this feeling? | SEEKING ADVICE | MommaGypsy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?Are you my sister? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 11 | Would love to see your additions 😂We need to get the top 23 songs from this list and create an album titled "I'm a trashie man" by NoAquaBoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:56 PM |
| -7 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.Thank you for your response. I Didn't assume that. My question was specifically for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:06 AM |
| -4 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.I didn't say insecure, I said uncomfortable. She doesn't want to see my butt cheeks hanging out of my shorts or me braless at a size DDD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Need advice on whether I should break things up or talk it out with with himIt's obviously not the platform of choice that is the real issue here. He is using photos of Other women (some who could be underage wether he knows it or not) to get off. You already know he would Not be ok if you turned the tables. You already set your boundaries and he's chosen to ignore them. You already know what you need to do. Either respect yourself and leave(or don't and continue to lower your self-love and respect and end up truly miserable). This will not be the last time he ignores a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Power and Control Wheelhttps://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship.htm https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.thehotline.org/&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwiyvqrz4ObpAhUNCc0KHQ25AkgQFjABegQICBAB&usg=AOvVaw3tPccg0r8hy-cbyb6W7_xm https://www.google.com/url?q=https://nprdap.org/safety-planning&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwiyvqrz4ObpAhUNCc0KHQ25AkgQFjADegQICRAB&usg=AOvVaw3BrE51JvMSgqMyxkNKCU1a | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 25 | Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning.but even though he apologizes Awww hunny... An apology for something that hurts or brothers the one your with should only happen ONCE. If they keep doing it, they're Not sorry for being hurtful. he never “ gets how disrespectful and offensive that is. I'm going to assume you are dating someone who has at least an average IQ and say: yes the fuck he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 341 | Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning.Lol, I dunno.... All my exes are Super Nice when they pop back up hoping to fuck me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 06:24 AM |
| 53 | Dump him.and this is why a majority of men don't deserve the honor of doing so. Say that Louder for the people in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANI had that and while it was good looking from the outside, it was a horrible relationship in reality. I don't think having it as a goal is a "bad" thing or even unattainable but, when the picture of a family is the goal and not Having a Successful Happy Relationship, then you will very likely end up going with the flow to have the goal of being married.... Which is likely to end in divorce and raising the kids alone. I would like you to think about rephrasing the goal to "having a family with a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANI think it does too but the advice can be used for either gender. There's a such thing as toxic, misogynistic & abusive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANThanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:32 PM |
| 15 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANThank You! I am one of those older women and I do not see any value add to getting married. I have Too much I busted my ass alone to get. Edit: maybe we can have a sticky post for us older ladies on how to navigate that particular area without the false attachment that comes from underwear model luvin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 9 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANHumorous Sidebar: I just remembered the 2017 movie Wonder Woman and all the strong intelligent women on her island who not only didn't need men but didn't even like one being On their land. They seemed happy enough. Can I just move there? I can switch teams! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:24 PM |
| 17 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANHonestly, I WAS one of those women a decade ago. I had goals and a plan to reach them mind you.... But, once I achieved them depression hit me so hard because I had pictured having all of these things With a man by my side and not having one made my accomplishments feel hollow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANThat is something that I I love to do and can't wait until I can safely get another one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:09 PM |
| 11 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANOk, but I think the goal of finding one is for marriage. I don't Ever want to get married again unless under some pretty ridiculous circumstances. (Live in separate homes, he signs a prenup etc). So what's the point of finding a HVM for some one like me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:38 AM |
| 34 | HOW TO NOT NEED A MANAll great tips and I can testify that they work.... Until your sex drive and need for Physical Touch from a man(or woman whtevs) shows up. So, what does FDS say we should do then? The toy box only works for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:30 AM |
| 8 | Am I alone with this feeling?I never wanted my son to live with him but, as an adult my son chose to when living with me and following my house rules was something my son no longer wanted to do. My son had no real relationship with his father prior and had only Met him at the age of 15 so, at 18 when he wanted to be a stubborn stupid kid in an adult body, he left home. As far as seeing how things really were for him, I didn't get a chance to see it because I wasn't able to even Contact my son unless thru his father until I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Pickmeisha Rehabilitation: First stepsSigns of active addiction to Anything (porn, drugs, gaming, gambling etc) Signs that they're already/still in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Remember ladies, don't swipe right because "he seems nice"How do you know if you're shadow banned? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:01 AM |
| -4 | How would you feel if your ex/baby daddy sent bigger Mothers’ Day flowers to your mom than to you?A. Your ex sending flowers to you at All is good. B. Your Ex sending flowers to the woman who made you is good. C. Why does it matter what size either bouquet is? D. The larger bouquet going to the person responsible for the baby momma and therefore the baby makes sense... If you choose to care about size in an issue that should Not matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:46 AM |
| 11 | Finding My DignityWow OP, The beginning of your post could have been written by ME! FWB/situationship that started in February as well. He was super attentive, kind sweet etc... He just started being distant a couple of weeks ago and now I'm supposed to be waiting for a call back from 4 days ago. I said Fuck that, you got time to get on FB and post, you had time to call back. BLOCKED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:06 PM |
| 71 | Stick with Logic aka Intuition ✨✨✨ she will never steer you wrong!That's Literally the inside of many of our heads. Hopefully, we listened to "Are you dumb?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | With social distancing, I find myself longing for a partner and looking backward instead of forward. And my exes suck.Can you drive your car in reverse to a destination? I mean, if you can good on ya! But, I doubt it. You can't move forward in life by staring behind you. Every woman has dealt with losers and jerks and frauds who seemed fine at first. Continuing to do so, or going back to a person who has abused you is ON YOU. Move forward. Talk to friends during this confinement stage. Never look at a rejected relationship as a possible new relationship. Your self worth needs to be high enough to not continue a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Instant Left SwipeAnother GEM... You're over 30 and have Lil' as part of your name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Instant Left SwipeSeeing them say Anything negative about relationships. Like: "looking for someone who isn't into Drama". Fool, You probably are the reason for the drama in the first place and need to grow TF up. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Instant Left SwipeAll of those except for has kid and doesn't want more... Because I Don't Want More either. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:08 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Psychology says that a person can only be their "best self" (aka wear a MASK) for a maximum time of around 105 days. He was never what you saw during the first three months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)How long were you dating before things started to fall apart? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)First, do not let a "man" come between you and your friends. Second, your friend must be relaying the negatives you and others point out to her to him if you aren't doing so in his presence. If they are, then your advice is unwanted so stop giving it. Instead give support and show your friend through your own actions what a good relationship looks like. (Friendships are relationships!) Be kind, don't be abusive or hurtful. Be aware of what's going on and don't turn a blind eye to her needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?I just answered that question with "Only if I decide you're worth marrying someday ;)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:58 AM |
| 14 | Comedy hour... What's the longest time period a man has reached out to you after?The longest time for me is 13 years. But honestly, Every. Single. One has come back at some point. All of them simply want sex again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:35 AM |
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