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| 1 | Is it too late to recover from my blue pill mistakes in this situation or is there still a strong chance?Why? I feel like if I don't get closure, I'll always be asking myself "what if....". She's not some random girl I met at a bar/party that I'll forget about in a few days | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Is it too late to recover from my blue pill mistakes in this situation or is there still a strong chance?Hard next This is my last semester in college before I graduate and I likely will not be seeing her again afterwards. If I next her, I'll always ask myself "what if...". She's not some random girl I talked to for 5min at a bar/party so it's not like I'll just forget about her in a few days. I just need some closure. That being said, I don't want to recklessly try making a move just for the sake of closure. Delete off phone, fb and all relevant social media. Impossible. I'm in my university's sal… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late to recover from my blue pill mistakes in this situation or is there still a strong chance?Breaking out of the friendzone once you're in this far is not worth the effort. I understand the getting out of the friendzone is too much work, but the question is am I really in the friendzone? I was thinking that if she did truly friendzone me, she would not be making sexual moves at me (I'm not sure how much alcohol factors into this). It's one thing if someone gets horny towards once or twice, but repeatedly? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate when you're on a date with someone you already know?That sounds like a great idea! However, would I be coming on too strong if I suggest buying only 1 thing to share if I'm not 100% sure that she considers this as a real date? Let me explain. When I asked her out, I didn't use the word date. I asked her to grab food with me and she suggested dinner. Based on how she was texting she seems to be pretty enthusiastic, but some of my guy friends warned me that this might be a "just friends" thing from her perspective. I personally don't believe this b… | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from gym dates to sex?What type of beta texts a girl to come over to his place. That is beta as fuck man don't do it Thanks for this. I consider myself a beta guy but I'm trying to move up the ranks to become alpha. I just have a hard time striking a balance between being alpha and being not rude or asshole-ish. I tend to have a habit of being too nice and doing favors for people. In the gym, I don't go out of my way too much for her. I do my normal workout and she jumps in whenever I'm resting. During my rest period… | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 07:11 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?I have plenty of female friends so that's not a problem. I just never had a girlfriend or a hookup because I keep putting myself in the friendzone | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 02:40 PM |
| 5 | How to remind a girl?I'm pretty sure I told her that I usually go in the evenings around 7, but yea I didn't make that definite then. Anyways, she responded back saying that she was free and I met her there | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 02:03 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Some people like to take advantage of your interest in order to get the emotional support they can't get from their meathead boyfriends. You called it man, that's exactly what happened. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?How was she politely rejecting me? She kept asking what I was doing tonight and if I was going out, which implies she wanted to hang out. However, anytime I suggested anything, she made up an excuse. The polite way to reject a guy would be either not to give out a number in the first place by saying you have a boyfriend, or just say that you're not interested when someone asks you out either in person or by text. You don't keep texting back and forth for this long if all you're trying to do is b… | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Turned out she was messing with me. Full story is in the update | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:07 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Nope. I made an update about what exactly happened | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:06 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Yeah, I was wrong. She was just messing with me (I made an update about it). I was thinking too much with my dick and not my brain | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:05 AM |
| 2 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Made an update! | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:03 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?It was a shit test, she's giving clear signs of wanting to fuck tonight. Here are some of our texts (omitting some texts so this conversation probably doesn't flow well) Her: What are you doing tonight" Me: Drinks at your place Her I like your feistiness | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 12:29 AM |
| -2 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?It was a shit test, I'm going over to her place for a f-close tonight She also said she likes my attitude, bluntness and feistiness | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 12:24 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?It turned out to be a shit test. I texted her back "Ok, see you at 6pm Friday". My intention was to use her as a practice date since I have no experience. She then texts me back asking what I'm doing tonight, which is a crystal clear indication of wanting sex. When I said drinks at your place, she responded with "I like your feistiness" I'm meeting her tonight | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 12:21 AM |
| 0 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?I went with option 1 and now she's hitting me up for sex tonight. Thanks! And yes, she is model-worthy | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Looks like this is a unique case then. It turned out to be a shit test and now she wants to fuck. I'm going over to her place tonight | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 11:46 PM |
| -2 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Well it turned out to be a shit test indeed. She's calling me up to f-close tonight and said she really likes my feistness and bluntness | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 11:45 PM |
| -1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?What's bothering me is that despite having a boyfriend (if what she is saying is true) I think she still likes me. When I introduced myself to her (in a very flirty way, I said to her "You look fucking sexy"), she began leading the conversation rather than me having to do the work. She didn't mention her boyfriend when we were flirting or when I asked for her number at all. Also when I texted her two days later, she responded fairly quickly (30 min) and literally wrote out a paragraph. She refer… | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 09:12 PM |
| -3 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?In my particular case, she never mentioned a boyfriend when I asked her for her number (it was very very obvious I was hitting on her). She happily gave me her real number and told me about her boyfriend only when I actually asked her out via text. Here's the text convo we had Me: Hey, it's MongaBonga. As you know, I turn 21 Thursday night. Because you are the sexiest woman to have walked by me in these past few day, I'm going to make dinner reservations for you and I Friday night. Red wine, or … | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to ask out this girl I've been friendzoned withOne more thing that I forgot to mention. There's something else she told me that may or may not force me to change my approach to asking her out. I know the general consensus here is to stop creating a plan, but this actually might be important. On a separate occasion, we got into a conversation about her ex-bf and how much she hates him. Essentially, the reason they broke up was because, according to her, he had the nerve to ask her for permission to cheat. She also went on a long rant about ho… | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to ask out this girl I've been friendzoned withI actually tried that a few weeks ago. I mentioned another girl and got dating advice from her. She bluntly called me spineless since I hadn't asked out the other girl yet. Further on in the conversation, I asked her what she thought about the concept of friendzone and she claimed that she doesn't believe in it. If a guy likes her, he should grow a pair of balls and just ask her out. | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to ask out this girl I've been friendzoned withyou're so overthinking this Yea, I'm the type of guy who likes to have a plan to action and always be prepared before doing something. I'm not used to just going with the flow, but I guess its something I need to work on Let's assume that she thinks we're just friends. Is there anything I can do to potentially start getting her to think about me in a more-than-friends way before I pop the question? | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to ask out this girl I've been friendzoned withShe has never directly stated that she like me only as a friend. It's just something I assumed due to a number of reasons. However, she's very comfortable around me. Although she won't tell me everything about her personal life, she has said quite a bit about it to me (mainly about her ex-bf and the reasons why she hates him so much). Also, when I slept over at her place one night after partying, she showed up in her underwear in front. However, other than that, she wasn't hinting toward sex at … | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Meeting girls at a frat party?Then what? How do I get the ball rolling, especially since there not much to go off of. Correct me if I'm wrong, but asking generic questions like where are you from or what's your major seem boring in this setting | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming my main flawHow would you suggest start meditating? I tried looking up some methods but there are a bunch of different ways so I'm not sure which is the best one | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming my main flawIv found that when i try to be funny I'm not. when I say something that is funny and amusing to me then every one els finds it funny. I'll have to try this out. I was always under the impression that you got to fake it till you make it do whatthis[2] video tells you. and fully commit to doing it. Just want to say that this guy is quite literally one of the wisest guys I have ever come across. I watched almost all of his videos, especially on his other channel and if you haven't, you/anyone else … | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 12:58 PM |
| 0 | Temporarily living with a bunch of girlsThose are actually some pretty good ideas. I know a few good looking girls that I should probably invite now. In fact one of those girls who I haven't seen in a while had mentioned to me that we should hang out. I also like the idea of making desserts, guess I have to look up some recipes now | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 11:52 AM |
| 0 | Temporarily living with a bunch of girlsI've been here for about 3 or 4 weeks. My housemates do go out and drink but here's the issue with that. 1) We live in a college town, that means no clubs 2) It's the summer meaning no frat parties happening 3) Some of the girls go out to bars, I'm underage 4) They go out to their friends house to drink and have no reason to invite me since I don't know their friends yet By the way, I like your idea for getting their numbers. I'll try out it out next time I'm getting groceries or something | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Temporarily living with a bunch of girlsI don't know if I would call them asshole. This was all being planned by my guy friend who I have known for years and he's usually not a bad person. In fact he invites me out to a lot of other stuff. I think the problem is my social skills which I am so desperately trying to develop (I never made any friends as a kid for various reasons outside of my control). Whenever he invites me out, I struggle to make small talk with his other friends and I end up being the quiet guy even though I want to b… | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Trouble meeting women due to a small disabilityHmm I never thought it about it like that. Next time I stutter, I might make it seem almost intentional and laugh it off. Maybe it can even be a conversation starter | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Trouble meeting women due to a small disabilityIt's my specific name for some reason. I'm not a big fan of changing my name because 1) I'm just running away from my problems. 2) I kind of like my name However, if after trying everything, I might just consider your idea | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Trouble meeting women due to a small disabilityProblem is that I have a very unique name (so unique that if I posted just my first name, there's a good chance you'll find out who I am) and there's no way to make a nickname out of it. Although I could go temporarily by a different name, that doesn't solve my problem. Eventually, I will have to use my actual name. This will just delay the inevitable. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Was it something I said?Oh wow, now that I look back you're right. But those weren't necessarily my intentions and I can see where I went wrong, I feel kinda dumb and embarrassed now. I genuinely wanted to just hang out with her and roommates, not just get her in the bedroom. I decided to invite her to my place only as a change since I've been to her place before. Also, I'm a bit socially awkward in general (which I'm working on) so I felt more comfortable hanging out at my place. As far as my housemates go, they reall… | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 11:37 AM |
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