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This is why listening to understand is important, especially when you remove the lenses and see things for what they are under the surface. Women talking shit about their men have a spectrum of meaning. Bitching about an ex: Hamster spinning and self soothing. Not over ex emotionally. Bitching about boyfriend 1: Has reasons to stay with boyfriend. Is bitching to her friends about the things that annoy her. Loses self control because a woman's mouth can't help but flap about her feelings. Is not …
/r/askMRP02/07/25 04:25 PM
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You're not taking hypergamy into consideration here. BB, AF, I bet she's got cake on the side.
/r/askMRP27/06/25 12:17 AM
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R/Seduction is good for tips that may or may not be effective (for you), it just lacks the main points of TRP.
/r/askMRP09/03/25 09:24 PM
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That was not necessarily a comfort test. Yes it would be nice for her to hear you say that you intend on essentially adopting her and making her your new house wife. As it stands, she still making you the subject of her emotional problem. That would a shit test. Since it's also security seeking, it's basically a Shitfort test. Changes her behavior Need examples. If you're not happy in your relationship then her questions are pointless. If you can't break up with her might as well drop her a "I p…
/r/askMRP22/01/25 02:14 PM
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Comfort test is identified by who she's talking about. You or her. If she's talking about how she feels and it's all about her, she's seeking your comfort. If you don't care that she walks out on you and shacks up with Betabux Billy for security then go right ahead, ignore her. Just stfu and change the subject or tell her that you don't play love games, all you love is her fat ass.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 01:43 PM
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Fucking for any reason other than desire makes it hard to cum.
/r/askMRP01/12/24 07:22 PM
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Shit test: you you you Comfort test: Me me me Shit tests can sound like comfort tests. If it's about you, it's a shit test. Consider frame - frame is your context. It's the topic and the current position of things. It's up to you to decide who you are in the frame. Think of a man and a woman in a photo. The woman is nagging and calling him an asshole. He's asking why she's such a nasty bitch. Dominant topic, he's a chill dude and she's a nasty bitch. She could've been bitching and the guy could …
/r/askMRP14/06/24 01:28 AM
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This is where frame plays a crucial role. Zero-abundance frame is jealous, scared, sporadic, begging, pleading, angry, no bitches they can call. Abundance frame is amused, stoic, having expectations for their mate to live up to or break it off, disappointed over jealous or angry, having options(2 in the kitty.) Mate guarding plays out overtly from a zero abundance man. Mate guarding from abundance, high value frame, is psychological and Covert. I don't need you so if you do this, you're gone. Wi…
/r/askMRP05/06/24 05:33 PM
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The one who needs the other the least has the most power in the relationship. This quote leads me to believe that, in your situation, she feels you've been tamed and you will not walk out if you felt it necessary. She no longer appreciates that you've given her the time of day. The frame has switched and you implying "send me a picture. I want to see you." Told her one thing - you want her more right now. Hence, she feels a glimpse of power: Ask me nicely. She took that validation and shat on it…
/r/askMRP20/04/24 08:08 PM
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Going off the general advice, "you you you" is shit test, "me me me" is comfort. She's not saying "I feel like I'm not important enough" she's saying "you are going to do xyz" essentially a frame challenge. She wants her man to crack a bit. That in itself is not good as you would kill attraction by supplicating to her nagging. As others pointed out, I also trust that his girl has a dying attraction to him. An increase in dread level without going nuclear wouldn't be a bad idea.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:45 PM
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The purpose of shit tests is a test of character, for the sole purpose of reproducing with you. Your character runs away. Your bloodline can't withstand trial. You have no reason being on askmrp other than "its redpill bro gotta be fake alpha".
/r/askMRP31/03/24 09:00 PM
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You're going to always be shit tested. Fact is at this rate you will never notice them unless it's overt. You were hardly shit tested, your frame is trash and that girl doesn't want anything more from you than dick and the fact is you failed at just that because you run away from every problem. Do some more inner work.
/r/askMRP31/03/24 07:28 PM
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Bad take. You'll always be shit tested. You need to swallow the pill, you're choking.
/r/askMRP31/03/24 06:30 PM
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Not married. No current LTR. Previously I used my last relationship as a leg to stand on for learning better leadership. Setting expectations worked best during the vetting process. If she met them during that period, she had a bright future (they need to want you first and more.) She needs to meet these expectations for months. Make sure you take notes on what they are.
/r/askMRP28/03/24 10:34 PM
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She probably thought you were "different than other guys" . You've already apologized, and attempted to comfort her. She's cold and acting weird, so now really there's no choice than to wait and see and if nothing, try to move on.
/r/askMRP12/03/24 12:01 AM
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She doesn't think she can be with me anymore and needs to rethink OK, nuclear approach. You can apologize out the ass since she's your special snowflake or you straight up walk out and go radio silence. What's she hoping to gain? Immense comfort? At this point, I doubt it. She wants to rethink and threaten to break things off, an "OK, I don't sit on the backburner." Or "You're not obligated to be with me, wish you the best." To keep it lighter. And exiting her attempt at some kind of frame chall…
/r/askMRP11/03/24 11:54 PM
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Not a rocket red pill scientist but you could find a way to spice your life up AKA a new hobby/journey and get out more, dress nicer, and pull away just as much as her. Rock the boat a bit and get her eyes leering your direction a little more.
/r/askMRP10/03/24 01:59 PM
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Do you tease and neg her about her work, looks, etc? Might be time.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 12:17 PM
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"Love is the death of piece of mind." - Bad Omens There's infatuation and lust that get mistaken for love. To love is to be loving - it's an action. To be loving is to give love, for a rp guy, in return to those who show in action that they show love to you. Its an equivalent exchange, but you hold the cards close. You understand that they must respect and love you first. They must choose you everyday, or you withdraw. You have options outside the confines of one monogamous relationship. You can…
/r/askMRP29/11/23 12:43 AM
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"Don't control frame just to control frame" Remaining calmer than thou and assessing is a good idea generally.
/r/askMRP19/10/23 05:00 PM
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Did I say they weren't? Most of this I admit
/r/askMRP02/04/23 02:01 AM
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Why would I do that
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:52 AM
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I don't understand how you get insecurity from most of this with the exception of the other guy I mentioned. I can admit that it makes me have some worries, which I think is fair because of hypergamy. I didn't say I go there often. And if I do I don't even go looking for her or even talk to her. I notice her but I don't go there with the intent of physically seeing her, I've even gone out of my way to avoid her so I can pack up my shit and get out of the store with dealing with her woes of how h…
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:49 AM
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How inspiring and you're probably right , Id likely keel over and start foaming at the mouth if she dumped me. Maybe shit myself a little
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:41 AM
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It cant be said that all men working retail should be discredited. In my case, I would discredit most of them with an exception of a select few. Big bux =/= Alpha fux I lift 6x a week and I'm usually doing my own things. Ironic you should mention her coworkers, I've bagged one in the past before the relationship. Another one has been trying to fuck since I've met her and my girl hates it.
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:38 AM
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She does that on her own. Loves to cook us dinner. If there's a part in the side bar about my situation, I'd like to know what section. I don't feel like starting at the top and going thru every term and explanation just for this.
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:30 AM
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I never react to anything she says. If I say something to the extent of "Sounds like a nice kid" and that's it. The fact is they have typical beta qualities. One kid had "vacation" and I asked him what he did "Playing video games on my new PC" and has noodles for arms and slouches. Tell me that's not beta behavior. If it looks like a snake and moves like a snake.. Stats being 172lbs, was around 250 for my whole life until I got into red pill a few years ago. 15-17% BF . 6ft, any thing else? I us…
/r/askMRP02/04/23 12:53 AM
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You're probably right, where did I show insecurities exactly though
/r/askMRP02/04/23 12:40 AM
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