Preface: I plated this girl for a bit, not sure how long. Now we have been in a relationship for 6-7 months. It had been going very good up until this week. She quit the goodmorning/good night texts and will ping me once a day. Her attitude has increasing become more negative or lazy, I suppose.

Below is the original post, and below that is an update on current events.

From the post(copy+pasted):

Here's a link too, it's just the same as half the text below this https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/320978/ltr_just_begged_me_to_start_communicating_more_and_open_up_w (For anyone wondering about stats, check my other recent post on asktp for a physique pic)

This past week with her has been weird. I began focusing on losing bulk weight etc and I feel great already.

She, on the other hand, has grown distant. I noticed it right away. No more good morning texts.

She invited me over for dinner and then spilled on me "I feel like we've been distant. " I really had no idea what to say. I tried to flip it back "Why have you been distant?"

She wants me to text her more. She Said "I text you and you almost never respond, I wish you would talk to me more. You only ever seem to want to fuck but we never just talk"

I told her I " I told you in the beginning, I don't like texting. If there were something for you to worry about you'd know it. I prefer our relationship to be in person and not online. "

She eventually threw an ultimatum. " If you can't do this simple thing and just communicate more then idk If I can do this."

After that I said nothing and threw my stuff on, and headed for the door.

But I stopped. She threw a prepackaged bag of some of my things at me and demanded my take my shit. For a brief moment I stood still.

She was hysterical, not in a chasing sense but in a crazy emotional way.

I decided to shut the door and instead I went and held her. During this she basically said I was hard to read and crack and "she's been trying to break this wall down".

She eventually stopped crying, I suggested we play a board game and we did. During this I told her that I am as open as I can be. I'm a simple man. I like fucking, I like working out. I can't always be there to text you.

I don't plan on actually caving to these demands but, I also wish I walked out. I'm pretty sure I have a case of oneitis. I also felt like maybe I was over reacting.

Here is that update following the post:

That night, after the board game, I tried to fuck her. I couldn't get hard, so I said "Let's hit the sack." Then told her I was taking us to a little festival in the area the next day.

I tried to bang her that morning but she denied. I left it alone because we both woke up at 4am after hardly sleeping.

I left, and she went to work. She comes over after work and I fucked her on the couch, on the bed, i got her gargling and spitting.

And then this morning, after we both got enough rest, I start up some light foreplay and she's not down. She puts her hand over her tits and says no, I'm not down for that right now.

This is pretty new. There's been times when she says she doesn't want to fuck and I just say fine, and then re-escalate later.

I didn't say anything, I got up and looked at my phone and told her "Shit, things to do. I'm heading out. Text me tomorrow morning (having her bring back the morning texts)."

Gave her a kiss and left.

I also told her the next couple days are going to be busy, but really I'm in this state of soft nexting unless I get some behavioral changes.

If she texts me I intend on replying back as a reward for compliance, and seeing if she'll pick up her efforts a bit.

She put a ton of effort in to the relationship up until recently.

Those on the Asktrp forums suggest that shes been hit with a huge amount of dread or that im simply not giving enough comfort. Others suggest im failing in other areas.

Let me know what you guys think. I want this relationship to improve but all I know is give her time and attention for her efforts. I even slowly introduce more and more provisions over time, but im pulling back on that for now. .

Edit: Forgot to mention that I discovered that her coworker, another girl in an LTR, probably told her to try some of this shit on me. I read a text between them in which she goes into full detail regarding what happened. "So I told him my feelings and he almost left like twice and we almost broke up." Is the gist of it.