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Red Pill TheoryMoolg86/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:46 PM
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I thought the kid was 18? Answer the question, if what you’re asserting is sound in any way, that should be fairly easy to do. “Is not wanting to raise another man’s child more selfish than the impetus of a cheating wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:43 PM
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More selfish than cheating wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:26 AM
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i agree. the very least i'd want as some sort of penance would be an acknowledgement, or apology, and a change in behavior reflecting the understanding of the break in trust. I don't think i'm asking for much. I've seen other guys get logins of all her socials, code to her phone and location sharing at all times as a retaliatory measure and honestly that's not my style. it's my decision to trust you again, and it's yours (hers) to break that trust IDK maybe i am a sucker, but I think everyone's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:54 AM
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So you want women to be drafted then call me a “twat” when I treat your equally. reading comprehension, do you have it? i'm failing to see how my response is in favor of women being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:47 PM
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i am chad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:44 PM
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Would you date a woman who was also cheated on multiple times by a Chad? i've probably dated this exact woman you're describing a handful of times unknowingly, but to answer your question probably not if i knew beforehand Men don’t hold other men accountable for cheating. Men call it Chadly and alpha Yeah men aren't a monolith, and sure the men you're describing exist, but there are also those who do hold each other accountable, i'm sorry you haven't' had the pleasure of meeting any of them. Goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:42 PM
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I am accountable. I let that relationship persist for far too long. I should’ve ended things the moment I found out. No victim mentality here. I persisted in spite of numerous red flags. Pretty much in complete agreement. That being said if you’re gonna beat the equality drum she should be accountable for cheating which she was not, as immunity from accountability seems to be a female privilege. The sweeping generalization I was referring to was you assuming I’ve never given an older woman a cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:17 PM
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I’m loving the sweeping generalizations. I did not like the mistreatment, but I found her attractive, so I’d argue that’s why I continued to return, hoping that she would change. you’re right I should’ve picked better, that much is evident. Crazy how this was her exact sentiment when confronted about cheating. It’s giving “you should’ve known I was a whore” I’ve been with older and younger. Both have their trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:00 PM
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but believe all women tho amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:22 PM
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Please elaborate in great detail, your experience if it’s not too much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:01 PM
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Completely glosses over the “can’t admit she’s wrong” and then anecdotally asserts that body count is an incel problem. “If you were actually getting pussy, you wouldn’t care.” Can’t make this shit up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:55 PM
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Oh ok. I guess I’ll go get married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:34 PM
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That’s a bit heavy handed and almost completely absolves her of any agency. Almost feels like I had her chained down and she could never leave. Let’s clarify with additional context. Dated for a few months. Dumped for excessive clubbing. Chance encounter over the phone revitalizes a flame within both of us, she plays me for a club promoter who winds up cheating. I inherit a house and think of her and start the whole thing again. Eventually she moves in with me. Cheats with the last dude she was …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:24 PM
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DeSantis already ended permanent alimony in Florida so there’s a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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Outside of her drug use she had other redeeming qualities, she was a lot more frugal than me and for a time it really seemed like we would have a kid together and do the whole 9 yards, but in retrospect I see how foolhardy of a thought that was. Couldn’t apologize for shit. Was almost willfully obtuse regarding decisions that threatened the welfare of the relationship. No hobbies or interest outside of make-up, clubbing, and reality TV. In her defense these are the little drops that make up the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:04 PM
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For marriage the filter is far finer. I mean, till death do us part right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 PM
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Super weird imo, but I feel like there are swaths of people that know deep down this is an issue but just refuse to look, or rationalize away. I just hope the energy is the same if and when the laws are reformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:38 PM
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Where’s a clip of a divorce lawyer detailing all the pitfalls of marriage/divorce. Seems like that’d be super useful here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:19 PM
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Please elaborate on “the same as women”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:17 PM
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You don’t know the half of it. Marriage on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:55 PM
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Sure. At least the states not coming for half my shit when I smarten up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:37 PM
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Little drops of water eventually make an ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:33 PM
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Damn. You literally hit everyone reason why I stopped entertaining the girl I’ve been on and off with for the last 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:32 PM
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Intentionally obtuse. No worries. You’ll figure it out, or maybe you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:10 PM
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<image> He’s talking about this hun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:46 AM
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Any
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:15 AM
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The standard comparatively is lower for women since men will cram their privates into anything with a pulse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:06 PM
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Nah. Improve and prove the naysayers wrong. Nothing stings more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:04 AM
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Legitimately added nothing to the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:01 AM
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prolly rockin the boat a lil too much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:05 PM
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No, you’re right. I did misinterpret that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:25 PM
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Just because you guys bury our preferences under the guise of toxic masculinity or whatever buzzword fits the bill doesn’t mean we’re not picky. Mens preferences are demonized while women’s are celebrated. Start talking about dating younger women and watch all the xx noses start wrinkling, start talking about not wanting ham planets, women with less baggage, etc. we’re very picky. More especially when it comes to relationships and who we’d want to be seen with. Bottom of the hierarchy my ass. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:58 PM
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That alliteration turning me on 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:44 PM
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Wow I’m saving that for the next time a champ deigns to call one of my ilk colored
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:12 AM
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Lol close but no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:34 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:16 PM
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Go away, it’s been like 3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:09 PM
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Good on him for making some positive changes in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:19 PM
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Saaaaaaaavaaaaageeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:48 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:46 PM
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Never once said it wasn’t a hard decision. I said your parameters are subjective. Where did I say that the standard deviation was too extreme for me to consider, and further how does that translate into my neglect and dismissal of women’s issues? I thought we were discussing whether or not some women found the decision hard to make? You keep hitting me with these snide unpleasant remarks as if I’m the original guy who insulted you, miss me with that, I’m trying to learn something here, your cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:36 PM
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Ehh check your privilege, women hold all the cards in regard to opening those sweet legs. If the man decides I’m bored or wants to leave what power do you have to prevent him from doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:21 PM
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I mean with those highly subjective parameters (how does one measure how hard a decision is to make) you don’t leave much room for refutation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:07 PM
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I’m failing to see the propaganda here. I need supporting details.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:52 AM
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I chuckled a bit when you referred to him as angry boy. I’m a little less lazy, but still too lazy to link an actual study https://imgur.com/a/uJp0dO8
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:40 AM
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Never said anything about her wanting commitment in any capacity, and never explained my thoughts on women’s perception of marriage. We would rather not spend any extra time on/around a person who isn’t as attracted to us as we are to them. Especially if that extra time is spent with the idea in mind that maybe someday she’ll come around and finally pick me because I’ve been a permanent fixture in her life. I guess you could try and make the argument that it’s the individuals fault for sticking …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:07 AM
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Honestly spare me the bs and rip that bandaid off. Save me some time too so I can focus on other women that are actually, viscerally and carnally into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:26 AM
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Spot on with that one, blew me away to learn how little it takes to develop a fatty liver having consistent drinks day to day
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 07:50 PM
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Gummy worms are pretty fire once every never
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 01:13 PM
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How have I never met you, yet am intimately accustomed to the dialogue you just hypotheticalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:30 PM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:28 PM
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Something strange happens after 30. I’m turning 28 this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:27 PM
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Probably what started a few revolts over the mast Millennia tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:01 PM
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Dunno why but I’ve always loved tall women. Long legs maybe. Idk. #giantkiller
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 08:07 AM
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Pfft thanks marvel/detective comics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:55 PM
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Oh man, I’d kill for that peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:17 AM
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Probably because a man is taking care of that ass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:25 AM
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I mean three of those are voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:23 AM
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Sounds like modern day feminism Badum-tss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:14 AM
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Literally my kinda fluffy but lanky roommates measurements at 26
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:51 AM
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No one ever wants to talk about paternity fraud. We care more about shoehorning any able bodied male who meets the minimum competency line into being a surrogate father. To be honest I get it. The needs of the many outweigh the wants of one. You can still be a father; it just won’t be your genetic material that proliferates. I’d feel so cheated honestly. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t look down on step fathers or anything like that. It’s just the sanctity of having a child and all the things that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:44 AM
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I want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:05 AM
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I have a boyfriend and i'm on my period LAWL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:07 PM
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nope. now i can focus completely on a different prospect with zero uncertainty and lingering emotional investment no matter how small. Men would save incredulous amounts of time and money if women were this direct. women would quickly dispose of men they aren't attracted to if they were this direct as well. ​ I think women want men to approach even if they're not interested just to get off on curving them and to bolster their validation. Then there's the aspect of 30% of women going on dates for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:06 PM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 02:39 PM
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You’ve gotta have all your box checking factors in line as a shorter gentleman, because if you don’t you’re not just broke, you’re broke and short. Etc. Girls always have options so online when their inbox is literally busting with suitors something as trivial as height is a quick and easy way to whittle down the herd. I’m not sure where I heard this but women try hard to disqualify you online and try harder to qualify you in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:44 AM
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It doesn’t run that deep, I never said it was a death sentence. Harboring a chip on your shoulder like that shapes your perception of taller women and they can smell your insecurity. Believe that you can and you shall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:35 AM
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I’m kinda with you on that. I dread having to shake hands with someone who used to have their dick in my girl. More especially if it was recent. If it was years ago it matters less and less. Not sure why. Just a visceral gut reaction akin to revulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:20 PM
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I think based solely on being able to secure a date women have a much easier time. Men will gather in small crowds just for a shot at one girl, despite knowing how many other men might be vying for her attention. The Tinder scam where a girl managed to hoodwink a small crowd of men into showing up to court her, and then whittles them away by calling out traits she found undesirable comes to mind. Most women will always have options, the challenge here however is securing a good mate which I surm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:17 PM
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The whole short guy thing is overblown kinda. I only really took significant notice of it after starting OLD. In my personal life I’ve slain a few giantesses. Something about those long legs and the weight that accompanies heavier bones. IME the only girls beating the “ you must be this tall to ride” drum are women who are quite tall them selves (5’10 and up) or starry eyed naive sub 25yo girls looking to media and group think to form their tastes and preferences. I’d even go so far as to say ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:39 PM
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I’m genuinely intrigued by your situation, is there anything about you physically that stands out in a way that could be perceived negatively? I have a few friends that have sub ten notch counts, and I’m trying to correlate something for a theory I have. Please understand I don’t think there’s a place on earth where I could voice a question like this out loud, insight is my sole pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 05:33 PM
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haha "milk"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 08:31 PM
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Take a spin on Tinder, I’ve gone so far as “messaging first” and not just saying hey, or what’s up, kinda huge on there (smfh, meanwhile double standards about this shit on bumble), taken charge and set up a date (always be closing) and left my phone number to gauge interest, and have had chicks, flake, unmatch, or otherwise not follow through with said plans despite seemingly getting further than most guys according to the tinder matches I’ve actually successfully dated. if anything at all, tin…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:03 PM
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You should almost expect flakes.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 08:28 PM
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Literally came here to ask this exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 12:34 AM
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Literally did what was quoted damn near verbatim. I know what i'm about. partying and doing drugs every weekend isn't something I stand for, and I know there's more to you than that because i've seen it. and I left, every time. ​ she can do whatever she pleases, cuz of free will and her prerogative and what not, the only thing I have control over in this scenario is my presence which she is not entitled to by any stretch of the imagination. ​ call it a tantrum if you must, but i'm self respectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 05:37 AM
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well shit lmao, that definitely changes things. i'm still 50/50 on returning fire with the old tit grab, but the gist of my post still stands, although to a much lesser degree now ha
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:06 AM
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slippery slope my guy, maybe she was down, maybe she wasn't, maybe it was up to you to find out for yourself. maybe it's maybelline. ​ jokes aside there are safer and much more plausibly deniable ways to break the kino barrier if you haven't already. you said you've flirted, but never specified whether you've k-closed, or f-closed. ​ from what you've written it seems like Girl A (Ms. Shit test) is pretty interested. grabbing a guys crotch is a pretty distinct IOI, can't think of another reason a…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:59 AM
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Funny that in order to find Prince Charming you’d have to kiss a couple frogs right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:36 AM
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No one can take away your birthright unicorn if you remain pure of heart, noble, just and fair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 09:49 PM
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Willing to bet anyone smart/emotionally fit enough enough to ghost a woman not giving him sex is investing that energy in trying to have sex with someone more willing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 04:00 PM
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Honestly bro, it sounds like you've got a really good thing going. There aren't any immediately obvious red flags. You've highlighted a majority of the vetting markers most of us look for. you may have a unicorn on your hands. I don't think you're wrong necessarily for feeling the way that you do. My roommate has a pretty similar situation going on and has expressed similar sentiments regarding sleeping with other women and feeling like, what appears to me, spending the peak of his youth locked …
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:09 AM
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Pfft. I’m full vasectomy after that
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 08:26 PM
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Error, error. Too many irrefutable point. Must agree, must agree. Jokes aside, I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. kinda stressful that the current object of my desire fits your preferences almost to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:50 PM
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I don't think it works that way at all. I've never turned down a chick because her ass and breasts were sub par. more times than not i was happy just having a bare ass or chest of the opposite sex to interact with in front of me in that moment. If we're talking about the locker room talk hypothetical "who'd you rather" convo that im sure takes place between both sexes, then sure i'd agree that height and muscles might be similar to boobs and butts in that regard. I might be more inclined to purs…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:41 AM
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Because you erroneously believe your chances of getting hurt by a porker are slimmer than getting hurt by those bad bitches you fap to at night. Awalt doesn’t mean every chick is going to divorce rape you, it means if you allow her, every chick has the propensity to divorce rape you because of greater factors out of your control, like the courts, a mostly gynocentric society, and the women are wonderful effect. Keep lifting, updating your style, experimenting with your hair, focusing on your car…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:47 PM
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7 and 3/4ish here(got a slight banana curve so it’s difficult to pin down an accurate pubic bone to head length) same girth, and my experience is about the same. Big enough to be pleasurable but almost never overwhelming. I like bottoming out and I’ve been told a few times I’m going too deep, or I’m kind of a lot. I’m quite pleased with how I measure up and also wouldn’t want to be bigger, and I imagine our penile size probably seals the deal after everything’s said and done. I’m a little jelly …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 10:11 PM
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sigh put a hair catcher in your shower drain and inspect it after every shower after establishing a baseline of how much hair you lose naturally. If you notice an increase in hair accumulation in the catcher I’d recommend dropping the tren altogether. ( I hope you’re running a short ester 😩😩) Not saying that this should be a reason to hop on or whatever but it definitely eased my reservations about dht derivative steroids.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:02 PM
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I’ll entertain you. Girls aren’t always taking advantage of their orbiters. Hell, some are genuinely completely oblivious and genuinely think the throng of guys that want to taste that sweet, sweet punani fruit actually want friendship. Some do, but I’m willing to be a large proportion are trying to friendship their way into some pussy. Some girls however, are acutely aware of this interest, cultivate it and harvest favors and gifts from these guys trying to friendship their way into some pussy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 09:43 AM
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D’oh. I feel like I should’ve guessed that. I think 8 inches might be overkill. There’s definitely a sweet spot/ Goldilocks zone regarding penile length and girth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:50 PM
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Yikes. I remember you. That wistful look on your face and safe proximity from the object of your desire as I casually walk up and strike up a convo. our memories of you fade into oblivion, as we walk away together hand in hand. She mentions you once or twice. Something about how she knows how you feel and thinks you’re a little weird for staring/hovering. My takeaway from this is that some guys are so hung up on what to say and how to look that they ultimately get in their own way, and wind up n…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:46 PM
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How many lays in 3 dates or less my guy
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:29 PM
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I’m curious, what sort of lies have you encountered from the male side of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:18 PM
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I’m slowly coming to that realization
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:13 AM
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Kinda lol, no degrees not even an AA, but I’m an LPN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:12 AM
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The simple version would be that men would rather hookup with a bunch of women until he finds a "perfect" partner. Women don't care too much about hooking up, but rather see it as a gateway to a relationship, which they are truly striving for. ​ I gotta disagree with you here. 26yo male N-count of like 18. A majority, closer to more than half probably only transpired because of overt undeniable indications of interest from the female party. (Guys like girls who like them). Hooking up is fun, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 08:46 PM
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If that’s true then I’m a little confused about why the okcupid data is so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:40 PM
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Sheesh. I’d do great and terrible things to amber
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:16 PM
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Point a.) is really pivotal and I only just learned of it today. I’d argue that omitting that fact does indeed skew the data in ways that might currently be immeasurable and as such should not be leaned on as often and as heavily as I’ve observed it being used since joining this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:42 PM
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And then on sites where the onus is put on them to send the first messages “hey” and “Hi” become valid and acceptable openers despite the fact that it’s pretty much frowned upon for men to open up women that way when the onus is on men to message first on sites like tinder, as opposed to bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:39 PM
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Don't jump on tren if it's your first cycle. No sir, not till after blood (liver enzymes, Bp, lipids and E2 )values return to near baseline after a cruise....maybe. And that’s kind of a strong maybe.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:06 PM
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I don't think we're asking much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:11 PM
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Not that i don't somewhat agree with you, i just feel like this issue is part of a larger problem that can't be solved with a sentence, it's just not that cut and dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:00 PM
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Those are her standards for random dudes from the internet, not necessarily what she's expecting. I agree completely, you've gotta have a finer filter when all you've got to go off of is a couple of dirty mirror selfies with poor lighting, and small blurb about broad interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:55 PM
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I find it more than a little ironic you patronize young women for passing judgement on physical characteristics of men, and then a few paragraphs later you turn around and pass similar judgement on ethnic women. I implied that young women often times pass strict judgement on things out of her potential suitors control due to a lack of specific and intimate knowledge that comes with braving the rigors of dating. In my experience the height thing is almost exclusively a sub 25yo trope; it's someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:37 PM
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seriously underrated savagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:38 PM
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I will in another post. pitching my tent now, you sound very informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:00 PM
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/ thread
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:40 PM
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mirin hard bro, nice clean af natty gains from 1st to 2nd ​ protocol and cycle length for 2nd to 3rd? (totally cool if you PM me given that AAS discussions of this acuity might be frowned upon here)
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:31 PM
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I think I disagree with your view almost in its entirety. ​ To clarify, my understanding of the whole "lower your standards" schpiel is that women with a variety of undesirable traits/baggage often have extensive and opulent lists regarding what they want/are looking for in a man while simultaneously offering almost nothing of equivalent value. In my most honest opinion women who fall under this umbrella (as with all things there are varying degrees of intensity) are delusional and should indeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:58 AM
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I'd say just shoot your shot, you'll only get one of two possible answers and micromanaging the method is a great way to build up anxiety regarding actually following through with the shooting of your shot.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:56 AM
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sigh ​ Everyone: being exposed to increasing levels of dopamine stimulating media and then complaining about why life doesn't imitate art.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:47 AM
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People: always complaining about the quality of people they think they can have (owning another human is frowned upon in most cultures now) in relation to the people that they actually have access to. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:41 AM
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I do think tinder is unfair, but so is life and pretty much everything else I've experienced thus far. this doesn't make me want to use tinder any less. ​ What I hoped to convey is that within the realm of tinder all too often i've come across a woman who was an exorbitant checklist of what she will and won't do, all while bringing nothing to the relationship except maybe some other schmucks kids. and you know what? that's fine. totally cool. her prerogative. but at some point you've gotta wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:31 AM
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26yo this year 18 so far.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:12 AM
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take a stroll down tinder lane, you may not like what you find there. Hell. i'll go so far as to say the rate at which this trope is prevalent is to such a degree that i've seen memes referencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:58 AM
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Virtue signaling intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:02 AM
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Fuck man. You went in on this.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 05:08 AM
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I hear this all the time and yet I’ve never heard a muscular guy complain about not being able to pull bitches. Someone some where is telling a lie.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:54 PM
1

Lmao you probably think toothpaste is spicy
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:39 PM
8

liKe YoU NeEd tO ReAd ThE SiDeBar MaN
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:01 PM
18

The “you vs the nigga she tells you not to worry about” meme is a meme because it’s true. This type of behavior is so prevalent and so relatable that in order to talk about this particularly common and uncomfortable occurrence it has to be coated in a thick layer of plausibly deniable humor; a meme. Meant to be funny, relatable, and then gone.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 10:50 AM
1

if you're genuinely tired man, i can't call you wrong. a break from work or career change might be worth looking into if things seem as bleak as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:07 PM
1

what does she look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:55 PM
5

i mean y'know, "Find what you love and let it kill ya" or whatever..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:55 PM
1

I seriously doubt that, if men known for anything it’s over estimating their SMV and punching above their weight in regards to attracting females right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 08:26 PM
1

And now please remove those rose tinged lenses, as they account for some of the errors in visual acuity we experience when reminiscing via the minds eye /s I’m sure lots more unattractive than attractive dudes hit on you but those don’t count or are being repressed by your subconscious, because they detract from the opinion you’ve formed about yourself. I do it too, I tend to forget my less attractive lays in favor for the more attractive or those that were particularly difficult to land. Who wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:26 PM
1

That’s what we all hoped for in the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:05 PM
3

Gotta disagree with ya there, some likes is better than no likes, and ugly likes are still better than no likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 06:39 PM
6

Dude got chucked by the Holy Spirit, t’was an honor smh lol
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:24 PM
11

Funny thing, I remember reading a story here or somewhere on reddit where a young woman was having some sort of melt down because her primary social media validation funnel seemingly dried up, come to find out she had it set to some sort of private setting she forgot about or something. I could almost feel her relief when she realized what was going on and finally returned to her regularly scheduled programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:30 AM
1

tinder is an ocean of single moms and landwhales either hiding kids or excess adipose tissue behind cleverly angled photos and filters. Of the few viable women you'll find there (viable based on looks) a significant percentage are there mostly to be validated or to talk you to death.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:24 AM
8

Amused mastery response, maybe lightly roast his choice of beer and then no response
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:12 AM
33

Semi decent example of men dating down, this is a lot more common than you’d like to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:04 AM
1

This might be the best response in the whole thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:12 PM
-1

Why is it so easy to remove the agency from women in regards to this topic? Close your legs and ignore those tingles from chad, otherwise bang on and deal with the supposed consequences later. I don’t think this idea is set in stone however, I think as with all things there are varying degrees of these effects from woman to woman, kind of like how dairy products affect people who claim to be lactose intolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:53 PM
3

Oooh. Sounds like dick cancer. I’d get that checked before it falls off.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:49 PM
6

I mean if she’s odorless than why not?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:47 PM
3

Lol I don’t want that responsibility, I think a halfway decent metric might be how many times you’ve F-closed a tinder match. Bear with me here. I’m saying how many times you’ve crammed your private parts into a girl you’ve taken on no more than three dates. I think this works because it shows how willing random girls might be towards fucking you after only knowing you for a little while, I think we can all agree that physical attractiveness plays heavily into whether or not your average tinder …
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:24 PM
5

Some guys just don’t know how to have a Gf/plate/Fwb/Ltr and friends at the same time
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:43 PM
1

Social proof and preselection go hand in hand with being amiable and well liked. C’mon man this is TRP kindergarten.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:24 PM
3

I’m 5’7 and I’m laughing my ass off at you, I routinely pull women taller than me. Those height chasers have no idea how little of the population is actually 6foot and over, eventually they compromise for a shorter guy.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:23 PM
1

The heart wants what the heart wants, even if it has to cheat a little to get it, and you can always count on lower smv guys to peacock because they know they’re lower SMV; they’re just trying to put their best foot forward like all other human beings while overcompensating for certain deficits.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:14 PM
1

I think you’re reading too deeply into this particular interaction, I also noticed you didn’t mention anything about your facial aesthetics.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:11 PM
1

Because you’re shattering their overblown perception that they have of themselves. Women are all about keeping up appearances and controlling others perceptions of themselves. When they’re rejected you’re basically telling them “No, you’re not all that and a bag of chips, I don’t care how many orbiters make you feel like you are” then the ego in efforts to protect itself hamsters a narrative that explains why this particular outcome occurred using literally every other possibility except that of…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:08 PM
1

Alcohol makes me more likely to strike up conversation, I suffer from resting nigga face so I’ve heard things like “you’re unapproachable, or intimidating or what have you”. Alcohol allows me to very nearly completely forget about any of those criticisms, that being said I drink once every never and find myself surrounded by unfamiliar people while mildly intoxicated even less than that. I watched pappy grow a beer belly, and I figured I’m good on that
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:58 AM
1

I swear by next level apparel 3600’s not too thick, but just thin enough to accentuate your muscles if you have them. Jiffy shirts is a great place to get them for near wholesale prices, and shipping is pretty speedy depending on how far away you live from a warehouse.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:44 PM
1

Lmao what? i think i precede you even being on Reddit by about a year, stop responding so emotionally, it makes you look like a petulant child, oh wait let me guess, you don't give a shit about what I think makes you look like a petulant child. ​ "Woman flakes on a date with me like the always do and always will if your SMV isn't high enough, better block her, that'll teach her" ​ The fact that you're on askTRP asking such a painfully trivial question instead of just soft nexting (not blocking l…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 06:10 PM
1

idk man blocking comes off as a little butthurt. state your terms and be on your way, she never mattered in the first place, and it never hurts to have a cabal of bitches that wanted to fuck you at one point watching while you're fucking on one that's hotter than them.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:19 PM
2

Seconded. Tinder and the like are so full of flakes it’s in dire need of some selsun blue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:47 AM
3

Lol where have you been? Open your eyes, I’m sure that great of a disparity between ages is rare or even scant, which is probably what you meant to convey given your reaction, but it does happen, probably a lot more than you’d like to know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:44 AM
1

Idk dawg, contrast alexia gold vs Cody sky and Alexia gold vs rob piper. You might not like what you find
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:13 AM
3

I wouldn’t go so far as to say hatred, maybe a general disdain.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:58 AM
5

This particular comment caught my attention because of how pertinent it is to my upbringing. For perspective, I’m a first generation Sierra Leonian male, although most people assume I’m descended from slaves, like most black people in the US. Both of my parents are still together, I turn 26 this year, my father and mother maintained a strong though relaxed religious environment, meaning church every Sunday until about the 3 quarter mark of high school, Sunday school when I was too young to sit s…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 08:07 PM
3

You dun good bro, you dun good
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:44 PM
2

I hear you on the bumpers bit, there is such thing as too much ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:36 PM
1

I get it, everyone’s entitled to their opinion. I also think there’s an underlying bias regarding the varying degrees of fitnessVariations in Fit female bodies P.s. my formatting is probably shit, but bear with me, I’m posting from my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:31 PM
1

Maybe he REALLY likes hourglass types and nothing else? My roommate is the same way, he only likes thin girls, and even then there’s a range although minute in variation. I’m not sure if I understand your definition of a “range of body types”. Op asked for 10/10, usually that’s a very specific set, I mean it’s the highest number in the scale. Handing out novel prizes to everyone devalues them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 09:35 PM
2

But but but, what do you hold onto when hitting it from the back?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:47 PM
1

Salma is definitely one of my faves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:45 PM
3

I’ve always felt like she’s had unusual proportions, that being said I’d still smash because she looks enthrallingly soft
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:43 PM
5

I think it’s safe to say op prefers a specific range of body types that fall within the not fat category
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:41 PM
1

Fair enough, that second one was pretty close to disgusting though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:42 PM
1

I actually fooled around with a few girls who were considerably less attractive than what I'm used to. Once was strategy and another was because I hadn't gotten any action on a really long time, and it was so painfully obvious that she was into me. I'm a piece of shit, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:37 PM
2

I feel you on the brown skin. No love for melanin out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 08:44 PM
3

Look man I just like to occasionally break my foot off in someone's ass at smash 4, stop calling me a loser. It's much more satisfying to land Oil panic than it is to match with a girl on tinder just for her to diss you. That being said, I'm pretty fit, and on paper am doing pretty well fory age (25 this year) Nurse for two. It's these girls who make tinders for validation and Snapchat points (which I learned recently are UTTERLY worthless) that are the real losers. Constant streams of validatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 08:43 PM
1

casual sex focuses primarily on the novelty of the interaction. two people who barely known each other will almost always put their best foot forward. The part you mentioned about not getting a relationship afterwards, overlooks a lot of the hurdles that come with a more permanent arrangement. Meeting the family, tolerating your partners idiosyncrasies, managing any baggage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:25 PM
2

TY :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:16 PM
3

Yikes, I think the main idea here is everyone likes/eventually can’t help playing the victim and falsely thinks their situation is unique to their own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:34 AM
2

Something so oddly comforting about hearing your rhetoric echoed by what appears to be, a member of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:16 AM
1

Mmm fresh out of a relationship, just the slap to my face that I needed
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 06:03 PM
6

This girl does not see you as a sexual entity whatsoever. As such she should be dead to you. No ghosts, no Marvin’s room, not another state of entropy, DEAD AS A DOORNAIL. Her responses to you convey a sense of contempt cultivated by your level familiarity. You can be the juiciest sweetest, most muscular, maximum alpha peach; hell the branch is bending from how robust of a peach you are... this bitch hates peaches. Let that sink in, and focus your efforts on other girls that are more receptive, …
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:17 AM
4

Hear fucking hear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:35 AM
1

Most ltrs are 2 parts red 1 part blue. Titrate that there blue pill a leel bit and pass a few more comfort tests
/r/askTRP19/09/17 11:09 AM
1

Why aren't you talking to the hundreds if not thousands of girls attending your community college? What extracurricular activities do you regularly engage in, and is engaging in them conducive to meeting women?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:39 AM
1

a lot of if not most of the supporting details you've laid out here lean more towards the uncontrolled and ineffciently mananged side of letting negative emotions motivate you. if you understand why you feel this way, what causes you to feel this way and then channel it through an appropriate avenue you should be fine. personally, I crush more PR's in the gym after a fresh curving. i'm in the zone crushing my set and the dreaded last rep approaches. I think of all the hoes that curved me for wha…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 06:45 PM
3

Maybe some voice acting work, but live action? Nah son
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:56 PM
1

athena was born from the forhead of zeus, you must mean aphrodite
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 08:00 PM
1

6'8" nigga? you are well within the range of a profession basketball player. you are a few inches shorter than SHAQUILLE ONEIL, I on the other hand share air space with kevin hart. I like to think i've done pretty well, but only because i've almost constantly been chomping at the bit playing the numbers game
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:22 PM
1

I'm kinda with you on it. Two of my old buddies getting lost in the pursuit/maintenance of recurring pussy. (I'm 23 btw) I've never seen a clearer depiction of oneitis and straight up beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:20 PM
1

Given how much dick rains down in the average girls life, I'm gonna say it's highly unlikely your pre-oneitis "waited for you". I mean think about it, if you could get pussy that Easily would you wait?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:08 PM
7

I'm really interested in how one might employ dread effectively from a great distance. probably something with instagram or snapchat, but at that point you're putting an exorbitant amount of effort into maintaining something that's likely going to do exactly what you don't want regardless. maybe a soft next or fadeout is ideal here
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:37 PM
16

agree and pressure flip brah redpill 091 brah
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 04:01 PM
3

Most women want to be a guy's first choice, not his third or fourth or fifth choice after he's already tried (and failed) with all her friends. oddly familiar sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 03:36 PM
4

I was always under the conclusion that girth mattered a bit more than length, but I figure the longer the dick the girthier it gets
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:06 PM
2

that story's been posted here so many times.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 12:05 AM
1

kind of corroborates the dualistic mating strategy theory. being good looking will get you chased, having good traits will get you chosen. makes me wonder how many of the divorces are as a result of betting on the wrong horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 06:26 PM
0

Those are bottle rats darlin'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:28 AM
5

This girl prolly got some sort of validation out of confirming whether or not she could get you to chase after her. (Pro tip: girls love the validation of being pursued) You need to not be so forthcoming with your validating actions.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 07:13 AM
2

I'd be overjoyed. In my experience what you've described is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:51 AM
1

all that being said, most divorces are initiated by women, and I believe no matter how much vetting you do, you can never fully be certain that your unicorn is for life. Let's not even factor in any exogenous variables that might ultimately result in your divorce rape yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:31 AM
3

I guess all the dragon ball z and He-Man masters of the universe and power ranger action figures don't really count as being bombarded with idealized male forms right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:27 AM
1

Babies are money vampires
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:38 PM
1

I don't see how a statistic about women out earning men in marriages applies to me not needing women. Imo the only thing I'd really need a women for is having a baby. I don't want a baby ever. So....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:35 PM
1

I'm pretty sure my mom out earns my dad. And I only admire her for it. #tryharder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:28 PM
14

Karen straughan (at least I think that's how it's spelled) actually goes into this a little bit in one of Stefan molyneux's podcasts. The expensive hair, nails and other seemingly pointless and spendthrifty shit are simply a way of communicating "look how little work I have to do". Esther vilar also touches on this briefly in her book the manipulated man when she contrasts things like the amount of pockets men have on their various uniforms in comparison to how many women have. It's led me to th…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:23 PM
1

Why would I want a money vampire?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:03 PM
0

Men need women for everything ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 06:43 AM
2

I like girls that act like they like me, imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 06:07 AM
1

i'll give you that. The vibe coming off of them reminds me of this couple at my senior prom, swing dancing while everyone else is grinding/butts to nuts. all that being said however, they look like they belong together, I wounld't double take if I saw them walking down the street hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 05:44 AM
1

I wouldn't say they're ugly, just nothing to write home about really. Leah's prolly the hottest one there, and I say that cuz she's got this innocent look thingie going (i'm a fool for the innocent look), and a pretty nice bod
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 05:42 AM
1

what's your current stack brah?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 04:48 AM
-1

fuck all the dissenters in this thread OP, i'm riding with you on this one. (bring on the downvotes you efficient, alfalfas you) could you have likely spent your time more wisely? sure, anyone who's been here a few months could tell you that, but i'm glad you reached out and settled your score with minimal fallout, I bet deep down a lot of the dissenters wished they had a chance at vengeance, or at the very least are curious about how their revenge fantasy would play out if given the opportunity…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:50 AM
1

2chainz voice "Tell 'em"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 09:16 PM
0

All other points aside I can't for the life of me fathom why you'd advise against or downplay the importance of lifting/being physically fit. Maybe you meant to convey that lifting is not this magical thing that's gonna make bitches hang off your dick or something, or maybe you're hoping to eliminate some competition, idfk. But lifting is the cheapest, fastest and most significantly effective way to start accumulating those fabled IOI's/Tingles provided your not some slob or uggo
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 10:50 PM
20

can't tell if srs. literally everyone you named has some other element (preselection, fame, money, or all three) that are so egregiously present and aparent that they pretty much negate the need for above average muscularity. quit being a pussy and lift. EDIT: Give me an example of a truly powerful, transformational alpha man, outside of sports, who had a body-builder's physique. Arnold schwarzenegger
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 12:12 PM
1

Definitely more confused than butt hurt, but I figure as a man I can appreciate the hard work that goes into building an impressive physique. Interestingly enough, I'm actually pretty happy that the bar is set pretty low in terms of physique, but like someone else mentioned in the thread, this is a perfect example of pre selection, and herd mentality. I am a little salty tho. Where da fuk are my hoes to rub oil on my body dammit?!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:58 PM
-7

That physique is so "meh". literally noob gains and low enough bodyfat%
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 05:06 AM
2

Literally watched this happen to one of my Highschool buddies. she left him for an older guy with way more money as seen by her extravagant EDC costumes and vacations she plastered all over facebook. My buddy said "she told me not to worry about him" surprise, surprise. She tried having a baby with the older dude, but i'm guessing the massive mount of drugs and other shit she was likely engaging in resulted in her having a miscarirage. all this was Pre TRP no less
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:55 AM
2

The narrative is too perfect. I call total bullshit. Great exercise in creative writing though.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:04 PM
2

I don't have to do anything. I understand the school of thought conveyed by the acronym and have found it to be more or less true in my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:56 AM
0

subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:38 AM
2

because human behavior isn't at all predictable. /s that's why we have credit history, work history, criminal history etc. humans are creatures of habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:29 AM
0

AWALT doesn't literally mean all women are like that. moreso, all women have the propensity to exhibit the unsavory traits we so thoroughly enummerate at TRP, given the right conditions. If you said "I'm not like that" I'd say okay, and just watch what you do, rather than listen to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:25 AM
67

skimmed through OP's post history because the narrative is almost too perfect, but lo, and behold; OP is not physically fit, pedastalizes women, and is about as blue as they come. shocker. I'll give the guy a modicum of credit though, at least he has an inkling of what he needs to do in order to improve his situation, not sure what he's waiting hoping for though.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:13 AM
2

I'm not going to get upset, i'm not going to disagree, i'm just going to say "okay" and ignore you. This. right fucking here. since I started reading TRP I've learned that anger/frustration and all other simililar emotions are a good source of fuel, why waste it on a tantrum, when I can blast my chest and tris tonight? I feel like pre TRP i used to be a very angry, vindictive little passive agressive bitch ass spite fuck, when really the best thing to do is to keep adding value to yourself. don'…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 07:19 PM
2

right there with ya buddy, shoulder seams stay where they're s'possed to but the chest and trunk area shink down real nice. I've even taken to washing all my newest tees at least twice before wearing them.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 07:13 PM
20

I heard a quote from a postwall woman some time ago, I think it might be relevant here. "women have sex to get into relationships, men get into relationships to have sex"
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:37 PM
9

IDK man i'd much rather shoot this scene with an empty gun instead of a stuntman wearing a bulletproof vest...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:31 PM
2

I'm struggling to imagine an "ugly ass fine girl"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 03:07 PM
14

Happens a lot more than you think, most chalk it up to luck because they don't know what to look for, or even where to look
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:57 PM
6

I experienced an eerily similar scenario that drove me to the red pill. Looking back I feel so foolish for thinking what she claimed to feel for me was real, I missed or hamstered all the potential indicators, and thinking that this was some rare opportunity, communicated my subsequent thirst for a relationship and drove everything into the ground.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:55 PM
7

hit em with the socratic method at least. what you're doing for them now is a disservice, but don't get me wrong, maybe keeping a few betas around makes you a bit more alpha, like that hot chick and her landwhale friends.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 08:33 PM
1

you have oneitis. cut all contact with this girl, but remain plausibly amiable whenever you cross paths. whatever she's got going on, has likely been going on longer than you've known her, and despite what you might think/feel it's not your responsibility to patch this girl up. objectively speaking, your time would be better spent pursuing girls who are more receptive to you advances, and less downtrodden with various types of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 07:40 AM
2

Black Knight level :Vantablack
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:11 PM
6

your girl might be a homie hopper
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:06 PM
2

Totally agree with what you're espousing here, but the thought of my exes feeling like the fucked up when I come up is more than enough fuel to finish that last rep brah
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:48 PM
2

Currently working a nurse in a rehab center/nursing home. can confirm. seeing all these people from various walks of life humbled by time always lights a fire under my ass when i feel like being lazy/unproductive. you gotta get it while you still can, and maybe even handle some things proactively. but the outcome is the same for everyone. everything dies.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 01:20 PM
2

seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:44 AM
2

didn't even read past the first bullet before thinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:40 AM
6

I guess she figures that if she can find this chump, it will be just as easy to find another. Unfortunately it most likely will be just as easy, if not easier
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:36 AM
3

Jesus fuck. I skipped pity/sympathy and went straight to shock and awe of just how pathetic this sort of thing is. Guy wantonly ignores, only the most Crimson of red flags, gets cheated on, and treated like an atm, and at the end of the day he's the one who feels like he's losing. Thank god for the Redpill, who knows, without it many of us might wander down similar paths.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:33 AM
1

Oh. Excuse me I misread your comment! I thought you meant you tried poaching girls and they were loyal to their boyfriends at the time or whatever
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:45 PM
2

you might think that was loyalty, but there's always the possbility she just wasnt picking up what you were putting down
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:46 PM
3

Everytime I see this trope I always think back to the real life example of that tennis player that obliterated one of the Williams twins after drinking and smoking, and how much the sister complained about how he was unbeatable
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:07 PM
2

I really like the style of writing used here
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:12 PM
1

Faithfulness and loyalty trumps all. Knowing that my LTR is completely and irrevocably faithful easily compensates for everything I may or may not be missing out on with option B. I don't want much really, and I prefer to earn most of my possessions with my own hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:54 PM
2

I was approached a couple times when I used to be AFC, in fact i lost my v-card to a chick that approached me now that i think about it. Anyways, it was really weird and totally unexepected, I found myself torn between, is this really happening, and how long can I make this go on for. Knowing what I know now though, I wonder how i couldn't have seen something so clearly when it was happening right under my nose.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:58 AM
13

yes. let the rage flow through you
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:56 PM
26

I love how she carries on and on about how disrespected she feels in regards to him keeping his options open, and not investing too deeply into the relationship. How dare he not commit to you because you showed up and spent the night. He should be flogged. /s
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 12:34 AM
9

In fact, the only ones who downright adore me are the ones who barely knew me when I first got here. I notice a significant difference in the way that people treat me between those who have known me for awhile, and those who I'm just meeting. It's night and day. Adoration is the state furthest from understanding.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 08:25 PM
1

what's most interesting to me in this entire exchange is the language/word chioce she uses to describe each SO, and the fact that the current SO is good looking and checks most of her boxes, but is still so inadequate she felt compelled to complain about it via the internet. Being good looking will only help you so much.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:59 AM
1

Oh look, another instance in which someone is trying to remove agency from women. The ring, finger, and decision to either wear or not wear the ring all belong to her. If she's choosing not to wear the ring she's leaving herself open to being propositioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:03 PM
1

There is no doubt in my mind that Cody still smashed that red-headed chick.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 06:42 PM
2

Sometimes it is because the 4th girl of the month just walked out in the morning, and your buddy is happily sitting on the couch with his LTR, and you wonder what the fuck you are doing with your life. Sometimes it is because you are having dry spells. The thoughts vary depending on the situation, and where I am at mentally. I have doubted the very nature of my existence. Maybe I should have married that girl. Is this life sustainable? What the fuck am I doing? Is there more to life than this? I…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:45 AM
1

I like girls that like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:55 PM
1

B&C master race ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:33 PM
1

Just out of curiosity what's your stack brah?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:56 AM
1

oddly this reminds me of a trope within the realm of amateur/noobie porn. The girls only seem to hate and villify the porn industry after they've been burnt, or can no longer participate.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:45 AM
4

Looks to be the start of some sidebar material
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:22 PM
1

You also get brought down by your male friends because they can see you are gonna have options in a while and they no longer can take you for a granted easy validation & attention source like they always did. But if you persist and do get slim, they will eventually be willing to fuck you nevertheless. Can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 12:25 AM
3

playing with fire my nigga, don't get burned.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 03:40 PM
7

I think the thing that drives most men to TRP is the fact that they're following all the rules available to them, and are dissatified with the results. this leads to the nagging feeling that there might be something more that they're presently unaware of and so the search begins. I disagree with your conclusion point slightly because there are many more men who ignore that nagging feeling than there are those who investigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 02:26 PM
5

Most of a man's attractiveness has nothing to do with his looks, in my opinion, and more to do with his social skills and confidence. ehhh, I think his looks factor in a little more than you want to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 03:06 PM
1

always be cognizant of your value and its fluctuation patterns in a given environment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 12:28 PM
5

I'm not saying every action taken by men is a bid to be more attractive to women, i'm saying alot of them can be distilled down to playing a part in increasing attraction as an incentive to do those things I don't see how you think you can honestly speak for all men, but even besides that I think what you're saying is wrong. You're basically boiling down any achievement of men to "they want to get laid", which in my opinion is seriously undervaluing men and their sense of drive and ambition - mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 01:21 PM
8

if i could be with the object of my desire without having to make a real effort would it make sense for me to make an effort? ultimately everything most men do winds up boiling down to making himself more attractive to women, sure you can rationalize that everything he does is for his personal sense of worth, for his future, for money and stabilty, but part of the value of those things comes from their ability to attract women. you could even go on to say that attracting women is a byproduct of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 12:23 PM
3

oh the sweet, sweet nectar of rejection. drink from the skull of thine enemy. on some real shit tho, you shoulda pumped and dumped, icing on the rejection cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 12:15 PM
6

Most things I have done, I have done to create cognitive dissonance to the woman who way back in 5th grade rejected me by calling me a fat retard. Which is to say, everything I have done to be successful, is ultimately in the hopes of one day being loved. BRO!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 12:13 PM
1

we all know what the response would be "Men aren't entitled to sex" "all you think about is sex" etc
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:14 PM
33

Having persued both threads and their comments i'd disagree with you saying that the situations are exactly analogous. your assesment of the concept at play here is spot on, but in the first scenario the man regularly takes from his wife what the wife from the second scenario cannot take from her husband. Maybe if the second wife was actually slipping the husband viagra i'd agree more with your comparison, but what the first husband is doing is not at all what we advocate here and doesn't really…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:46 PM
2

Wouldn't really call this guy alpha, probably just a good looking beta. Op is hung up on him and his good looks and fallaciously thinks that her academic and professional acheivements factor in to his attraction for her, when really he's probably slumming it by fucking her, because he's used to much more attractive women. Naturally all she can see is why he won't commit. I gotta hand it to her though, 5 months is pretty quick for the average female IMO, but then again she's probably only a few y…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 07:25 PM
3

well if it's that extreme i'm sure I wouldn't mind the infidelity, I probably wouldn't even have been aware of it, to object anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:39 AM
7

didn't wiz khalifa and amber split because he was caught cheating with groupies?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 04:20 AM
2

am i paralyzed below the waist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:39 AM
2

I think I hold people to extremely high standards, althought I understand your reasoning in that scenario, I still think two wrongs don't make a right, and according to your hypothetical scenario you didn't really cheat. excuse me if I come off as unyeilding, but I have a zero tolerance policy for the most part and have yet to come across a scenario that would make me reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:20 AM
2

For me personally it's not so much the act of infidelity but moreso the actions surrounding the act. The person is question is sneaking around doing something they know would devastate most people, but cares too much about themselves to put the feelings/emotions of their partner before themselves. An oath was taken, one of the most sacred oaths, and to violate it so wantonly cheapens and destroys its value. if you're in a deadbedroom the way I see it you've got three options Endure, Divorces, Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:47 AM
3

I'm really interested in how infidelity can be justified, because that sounds like some serious reaching right thurr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:36 AM
1

I can't for the life of me come up with a motive for sending dick pics to a famous model, like, what's to be gained? i'd send dick pics to a SO maybe but i've never been asked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:32 PM
2

begged me to take her back when i broke up with her, so suck it ben :p
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 03:36 PM
1

40 something odd years and she's still playing this game. Maddening.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:24 PM
2

Was pre TRP then. And she only ever brought it up once, so it wasn't really a sword of Damocles or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 02:22 PM
6

damn gurl, you picky. but that vet is like the ubermensch in the looks/physique dept, you have exquisite taste
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:37 AM
2

oh look famous mostly white males that are probably way out of the reach of most of, if not all of the subscribers in that sub. I think what people desire most is ultimately what's out of their reach, plenty of space for imagination and fantasization, as the chances are pretty much the same in any scenario = Highly unlikely -height doesn't matter so much when you're famous blatantly coveted by many women -get to sub- or just slightly above 10% bodyfat -be white and you're probably halfway there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:33 AM
4

lmao this is that one chick that called in to the show talking about how she wasn't particularly attracted to whomever she was seeing at the time, but because he earned enough or had something else of physical value she didn't want to leave him; or something along those lines
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:11 AM
4

If I was repulsed by the idea of going down on a girl, I probably am not that sexually attracted to her. can confirm lol, but I once dated a girl who claimed to have been orally molested and was a vegan as a result of it, never did get her to blow me, but I could tell she was definitely into me regardless, ate her out too .^
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:05 AM
6

BONUS ROUND FOR GUYS: How many of you would be into the female version of the above? Ie, a stable, loyal chick who would never cheat, has somewhat nerdy hobbies/interests/career, is average in looks (you would rate her as a 5), and uses communication/honesty as the basis for the relationship. I'd sell my soul b -No mind games -fiercely loyal -shuts down advances from other men -shares my love for all my favorite video games -FUCKING HUGE ONE MATE: Honesty and communication, takes all the guesswo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 01:27 AM
3

If there was ever video proof of a failed shit test, the interaction near the very end serves that purpose. Those girls hurling insults as he walked away, and him failing the shit test by engaging them.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:18 AM
64

Women don't get paid as much as men and this is one of the biggest issues facing our nation today." There are people that believe this completely. Mind numbing.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:03 PM
0

This. I always thought the 80/20 rule was a way of objectively quantifying the phenomenon of all those guys we all know who just seem to slay with women regardless of their circumstances, there isn't that many of them from our individual perspectives i'm willing to bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 10:01 PM
1

IMHO kanye was way out of line claiming that the only reason sebastian (wiz's son) even existed was because of him. by that same logic kk (kim kardashian lel) entire career could be atributed to ray j's penor. I think for the most part the general public will side with amber in spite of her "breach of confidentiality" because kanye resorted to personal attacks whereas wiz khalifa was just expressing an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 05:29 PM
1

This was a gripping and magnificent work of fiction, couldn't put it down, encore, encore!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:04 PM
26

But Cad, It's not "Alpha" to snoop on your girl" or "That's an invasion of privacy and its wrong sometimes it's not about what feels right, it's about what works.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:53 AM
4

However, he then has to deal with soul-torturing loneliness, lack of intimacy, an inferior financial situation, reduced life expectancy, reproductive failure, and never being desired by a woman. holy shit he's not trying to be a hobo, he's just fed up with the ever increasing prerequesites that he thinks he needs to fulfill in order to be successful with women. responses like these are so toxic wtf. wags finger of shame and dissapointment "If ya don't do this, you'll die with cobwebs in yer unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:12 AM
32

i've never understood why anal is so coveted, that's where poop lives. maybe i'm a bit more reserved but, if and only if i'm feeling wild and adventurous the most i'd stick in there is a finger or something. The possibility of getting shit dick makes my skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:02 AM
10

prime example is just a guy who thinks he's won at life and is humblebragging for extra points.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:17 AM
1

guy in the blue tank top dropping red gems left and right
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:54 AM
7

please do write such a post. This sub is inundated with big city game for obvious reason, but i'd love to hear of how dynamics pan out in other settings
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:48 PM
3

They're trying to pretend like there aren't other markets out there. They don't see much outside of their small town, probably have lived there all their lives, so i'm willing to bet the legitimately believe there aren't any other markets out there, and why would they need to? they're never going to leave, they've essentially sequestered themselves in this microcosm, this tide pool compared to the vast ocean that is the world. They're own little world complete with a regional culture and ecosyst…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:44 PM
0

fuck em, run tren every day!
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:34 PM
1

I might have found a hotel with room. Trying to figure this all out. But I do hear movement upstairs now too. This fucking guy. Plans to leave his girlfriend with the dude that she cheated with, and is hiding in the basement like he's the one that did the cheating. Fucking spineless.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:29 PM
3

I would hope that the person I intend to spend the rest of my life with would be emotionally competent enough to understand that, Yes, I too am feeling the effects of our finances being spread thin. Op's wife's response objectively seems dissmisive of OP's needs and to add insult to injury, she seeingly regularly puts OP down and I think anyone here would agree that routinely putting someone down would take some sort of toll on a person. were his actions "beta"? was asking for sex in than instan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:55 PM
3

the final boss of sex acts to get the girl to submit to. LMR version of Test your might
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:14 AM
54

her pretending like she was doing nothing wrong. it's not that she's pretending, I legitimately believe that she doesn't and won't ever see the error of her ways. fucking mind boggling
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:59 AM
7

what continously blows me away about these sorts of situations is that there are people out there who actually think like this or only seems interested in sex. There are three guys I hook up with occasionally but all of them have said they're "not ready" for a relationship or "like the way things are". Seriously, what is wrong with most men that causes them to act so horrible all the time? You're calling men in general horrible people for not wanting a serious relationship with the woman who's c…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:56 AM
4

However, online feminist grievances about lack of oral sex from men contrast strongly with my personal experiences of about half of girl point blank refusing to let me go down on them. fucking this. in some instances it's like pulling superman's teeth XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:47 AM
9

Not currently in a relationship, but holy God, I la-la-love giving oral to my girl. it's not really a sexual encounter if I didn't go down on her, probably have gone down on ever girl i've eve been with at least once. love at first lap man, i almost love it more than a good kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:46 AM
2

Lol there was a post on r/relationshits about this very approach. girl got to thinking "wow i'm so hot now, i could probably pull a hotter man; deuces"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:53 PM
3

Bro I felt this shit coming, should've called it lol
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:25 PM
1

I guess it's a good thing i've never had to consciously consider Am I being creepy? I think i'm pretty good at guaging attraction and not wasting too much time chasing girls that aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 05:24 AM
4

It's not a strategy for long term happiness ehhh, happiness is largely subjective. i'll be enjoying my rotary sushi bar of pussy brah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 05:15 AM
2

Gotta be real high. I'm talking borderline celebrity, nightclub or bar owner, millionaire, socialite. .. No. You need a six pack and an OKC profile. Plenty of older dudes can get with younger women. A lot of them just let themselves go. I definitely think these things would "lube" up the process considerably, but they aren't a prerequisite. I think the single greatest determinant in regards to being successful with the aforementioned archetype of women, is being in an environment that is conduci…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 05:09 AM
1

I think it'll always be on the tip of their tongues, i'm sure most people know these things to some degree, they just ignore them hoping they'll go away, or someone else will take care of it, or best yet, that it won't happen to them.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:00 PM
3

The "friendzone" is more of a mental space than an actual zone. you are correct when you say that men often times put themselves there, and it's usually as a direct result of over investment/outcome dependence. The whole bit about nexting and whether or not you should continue relations with a girl who already rejected your advances is a slightly more fluid concept. IMO I wouldn't spend any more time than I had to with said girl, because my time (which i have a limited about of, and am constantl…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:55 PM
-9

the post is so short, there're some lazy motherfuckers in here.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:58 PM
1

Sounds like you still haven't forgotten your first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:03 AM
1

2nd sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:40 AM
1

Sure, as is the nature of these things, but who forgets their first?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:37 AM
1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 12:40 AM
2

The thing that tears me up the most about promiscuous women is the lack of novelty in our intimate interactions. I've been with both virgins/sexually inexperienced and promiscous women, and to be dreadfully honest if the choice was always up to me i would choose virgin/sexually inexperienced every time. With sexually inexperienced women there isn't this "burden of performance" or "minnimum sexual fitness" I have to live up to, and the thought of being compared to partners past is almost nauseati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:17 PM
7

Year opens with a bang; QS tells KB that they are done, moves in with her rich ex. OP I applaud you for your admirable efforts in trying to save one of your brothers, you sir are a scholar and a saint. I'm more than sure after a certain point however, that you knew this was the only way somthing like this could've ended.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 07:04 PM
2

I've always thought a cult is a religions that's too small to be recognized as such
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:09 PM
5

fucking hell. 270k lost. i'm hurting for you bro. goddamn.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:04 AM
3

looking at his responses though I'm willing to bet the sheer audacity og lucy's antics probably turned him off, and ontop of that he already had a hotter fine china with him etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:30 AM
21

gotta swim to the butt now
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:28 AM
-1

okay but why not smash lucy too bro? dangle that carrot? EDIT: Current comments advocate a possible threeway, but meh, I still say you could've smashed both
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:46 PM
12

i'll raise you and say he never even hit it
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:42 PM
1

hell yeah brah, gotta get on that A9 swag
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:57 PM
9

"i gave u head baby" Bro
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 02:39 PM
8

Again calibration is key. Some women are deers, some bears or bunnies. Dominate the bears, play with the deers, and make the bunnies feel safe. every so often a very red nugget of truth appears
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:27 AM
0

sure, just as women likely over estimate the amount of ancillary beautification men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 12:06 AM
0

I think men appreciate the more "grotesque" bodies because there's a level of dedication it takes to achieve that look. think of women and some expensive/difficult to maintain hair-do, similar concept. I like women with long healthy looking hair, don't care about that cut/layer/color/perm/ombre bs, just doens't compute for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:39 PM
1

in all seriousness if he was just some joe schmoe on the street you happened to walk past there'd probably be a lot less N's in that hngh so is he hngh because he's brad pitt or is he hngh because of his body?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:19 PM
-1

Strangely I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 08:19 PM
1

just realized there isn't even a D9, what are you playing at lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:41 PM
0

griddddiiieeeee that's not what i asked you please just answer my question, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:29 PM
0

yeah I choose ripped every time XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:10 PM
0

so if a9 picked you out of a crowd you'd turn him down for his washboard abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 04:21 PM
4

hahaha /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 01:29 PM
2

I think you're generalizing, but personally i've always been more interested in why something happens as opposed to what actually happens. TRP explains things that I previously didn't even have words for, or the ability to articulate, I now have a checklist to refer to whenever things don't go my way, and a way to analyze my interactions and eventually make them more beneficial. I'm into perfecting a design.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:28 AM
32

I think this was said somewhere else before, but I think most men who come to TRP actually "Love" too much. TRP IME teaches men to ration out "love" instead of dumping all on the object of their affection effectively killing their relationships by being to available, or meeting needs before they're expressed. I think there will always be varying degrees of understanding/internalization/expression and what you might percieve as dislike might actually be someone's anger phase
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:23 AM
21

They get angry at single mothers yet are exactly the type of men who create single mothers It never ceases to amaze me how many ways society tries to absolve women of their agency. we're not "angry" at single mothers, it's just that their stocks have fallen significantly, and more times than not aren't worth the invesment. Further i disagree that we "create" single mothers; with the myriad of female contraceptives available pre and post coitus it's undeniable that the responsibility of not getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 12:09 AM
1

When I find a girl I want to have sex with, I want to make sure she loves me first or at least that she thinks she does. I at least want someone who's going to stick by me for as long as she can. I don't want her to disappear the next week. Don't feminist women want the same from a man? I can empathize with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:16 PM
2

Women employ a passive inherent dread relative to their SMV. The hotter she is objectively, the more potential suitors she'll have. Think of all those times a girl's humblebragged about being hit on or approached
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:04 PM
40

Nah. Still camping out for valsagel. I'm almost insulted by this "sperm switch" and its rudimentary design
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:48 AM
2

oof. dat last curvy one tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:45 AM
3

cheerleaders are really high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:44 AM
8

Just be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:04 AM
1

I value my conquests more than my moral inhibitions. mwuahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:13 AM
1

ugh. Let's not and say we did. even a broke clock is right twice a day.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:09 PM
18

When he can finally let go of the crank he continually turns day after day in order to earn love and, even if only for a moment, it turns by itself to nourish him in return, that is when he will know he is loved. Fuckin' beautiful. Shed a thug tear.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:29 AM
2

Red. ASS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 09:59 PM
1

You honestly think a community of ~135k (not accounting for alternate/sock accounts, bots and the like) has exclusive access to the affections of the entirety of attractive women in the world? I'm really interested in where you extrapolated this from. Op's post details the heirarchical and analogous properties of the relations he's been observing within the microcosm of his highschool band/orchestra or whatever. In raw numbers, BP men get more attractive women than RP. They are 'madly fancied' b…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:50 PM
2

Honestly OP this sort of thing happens alot more then we'd all like to believe. I definitely agree with you in regards to the whiteknight commentator. unfourtunately there's not much that can be done if one were to find themselves in such a situation, and if anything gayle shouldn't stuck his neck out so far, and because he's probably somewhat of a public figure why wouldn't the reporter go for broke and try to win all those cash and prizes? After all, Why buy the whole cow when you can get the …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 04:45 PM
2

a lot of people will gloss over this and probably misintepret your words as hyperbolic at best. I see you, and I understand the message you're trying to convey. saving this in a notepad for frequent reference.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 09:53 PM
1

I get it. but why trip? use this time to double down, and when you finally come up for air you might find your head up the skirt of a girl similar to the ones that curved you while you were in college. every day a new girl turns 18 ;) that's what i'd do/am doing anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:34 PM
7

What are your thoughts on a small town girl expressing a desire to move to a larger US city?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:24 PM
5

I'm trying to wrap my mind around TBP. Not only do they disagree with a school of thought so pervasisve that it penetrates the very fabric of reality for all people, but they deny it so vehemently, deem it so ridiculously preposterus that their first and foremost action is to ridicule the idea with "hyperbolic emulations" and lambast anyone who even considers entertaining the ideas discussed here. copernicus is doing infinite barrel rolls in his grave. EDIT: They'd be more respectable if they co…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:57 AM
15

sheesh. some the comments in that thread you linked.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 08:32 PM
2

does being alone scare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 04:08 AM
7

He should be on his knees thanking this woman's father for instilling at least one positive virtue in this woman during her life. nah bro, i'm willing to bet his oneitis was so strong that it took physical form, so she told him this knowing he would never leave her
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:00 PM
5

Lmao who's so in denial that they downvoted you?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:01 PM
7

"puscon-3" I love it haha. but seriously, how did you think this was gonna go?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:22 AM
1

I might've, but the definitive factor is left to perception. my perception of their seemingly happy relationships, and your perception of their alpha widowhood. I think however the effects of alpha widowhood are negligible unless the source is significant, like with a celebrity or some other extremely high status male.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:29 PM
1

Idk man, i've slept with a lot a white girls and a good amount of them are in seemingly productive relationships with their white boyfriends. YMMV I guess
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:21 PM
1

Genuine question. would you ltr a girl who's had 1 black lover or 5 assorted (but not including black) lovers?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:17 PM
5

I'm interested in why 13 seems to be such a big deal for some men. i'd love to hear a rational explanation and maybe read some applicable studies regarding the deleterious effects of having sexual interaction with blacks.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 06:28 PM
2

whoa whoa whoa, how ugly're we talkin' here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 12:13 AM
6

I mean, you do realize that girls feel an emotional attachment to the people they have sex with, don't you? That sounds like their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:20 PM
2

I think if she legitimately doesn't want it she'll make her best effort to not let it happen, and if she fails she should immediately contact the approapriate authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:19 PM
1

36 at 20 is egregious, but to be totally honest if i had sex on tap I probably wouldn't care much; at least until the time came to select an LTR. IMO value is determined by rarity and in the given market a girl with a low partner count would be quite rare, and equally valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:12 PM
0

I'd tell my daughter "If that made you feel bad, make sure you never allow yourself to be in a position like that again" I'd tell my son "be careful of pushing past her no's and not tonight's, you might wake up the next morning with a lot more than you bargained for" EDIT: don't bring up my hypothetical kids again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:48 PM
1

i stand by what I said before, in spite of my hypothetical son or daughter (i'm hoping to be DINK if I even get married). OP sounds like he enjoys "pushing through" LMR, and I think a lot of the people responding are fueling the hypoangency that terpers mention so much. If I didn't want someone to put their dick in me, I'd damn for sure make a legitimate and determined effort to keep that dick away from me. If I were to fail I would do my best to ruin the experience for him, and consequently not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:40 PM
2

to be totally honest none of this sounds rapey at all. at worst it's slightly opportunistic in regards to the AC unit being on MAX cold or the couch and bed being the same entity. Even the "I'm a high ranking official on this planet" bit comes off as somewhat hyperbolic if not typical of someone in a superior hierarchical position, similar to how an older guy might feel when engaging in sexual relations with a younger girl. OP probably just feels bad because the bloopy society has told him what …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:47 AM
11

I always used to wonder why the women in those "Hurr durr we're getting married soon amidst a bunch of hilarious antics" rom coms, always freaked out considerably more than their male counter parts whenever strippers were mentioned in regards to the bachelor party. I think i just figured out why.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 12:35 AM
1

I think consciously trying to poach girls from their SO's is going to be significantly more difficult than acting the way you should if such a scenario were to arise organically. In my understanding, TRP allows for a more precise direct influence rather explicit control of a situation in most cases, simply because there are way too many variables to consider and way too many possible outcomes of a particular situation. that's why we tend to genralize and lump experiences together to increase the…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 10:32 PM
1

"D.G.M" Gotta trademark that
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 12:31 AM
42

I think some extra elaboration is necessary here. i'm very interested as to why she felt you should be fired
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:58 AM
5

Just don't let it become a crutch bro.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:15 AM
4

Sometimes, they won't date you not because the guy beside you has a higher SMV, but because unfortunately Women value more a man who can fulfill her immediate needs than a man who has a higher inherent value. Very poignant piece of information that we could all do well to remember.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:11 AM
40

"see that ex-quaterback college/military/drug dealing stud ? The one over there changing diapers for my kid? IM THE ONE WHO BROKE HIM LADIES ". This is mine; this is where my babies come from
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 05:51 AM
4

diet is going to be your most important factor. might help to tweak your macros if your diet in terms of caloric intake and TDEE is already pretty solid. /u/OmLaLa 's body isn't insanely unatainable
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:00 AM
6

And what does she want? She wants exclusivity, of course! "This wouldn't have happened if we were exclusive!" I wasn't going to give her my exclusivity before - how in the world could she think that fucking a random dude on Tinder would propel us into a relationship...? If you reverse the genders here it might've propelled the two of you into a relationship lol
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:00 PM
3

You won't vocaroo though. I'm mildly curious about this alleged gold voice
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 03:33 AM
6

I may be completely misinformed here, but i've read/heard that employers don't take online degrees as seriously as one you would acquire in person, or something along those lines
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 08:43 PM
1

just rub one out real quick right before?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:43 AM
3

I think at least acknowledging HB7 would've helped in keeping her at bay, still a tough call though.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 07:13 PM
1

you have my pity if you truly believe that statement
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:12 PM
1

sigh I really enjoy a lot of the information I read on this sub, but I think it's kinda fucked up When someone brings up race as an effector of SMV and the general consensus is: "No you're crazy" In my understanding every aspect of someone's existence factors into SMV, some being more obvious than others. That being said, using your race as a crutch is super blue, and your lack of confidence in regards to it will seep into your interactions and slowly undercut your success. you should wear your …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:25 AM
1

perhaps you're intimidated by your LTRs SMV, perhaps you're more invested in the relationship (it would hurt you more if you broke up), maybe you've yet to resolve your scarcity mentality etc. I think the whole fear of "Now I have to maintain frame forever" stems from a mixture of outcome dependence, scarcity mentality, and varying amounts of insecurity. If you're constantly having those doubtful they'll wreak havoc on your actions eventually, it's not good for you to have these feelings all bot…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:15 PM
2

Its so tiring and so unnatural. I know you have to "fake it till you make" trust me I tried but there always come a time that I go back to being my normal self. kind of like when you first start lifting weights after not doing so for a long time. TRP isn't a lightswitch that you can just flip and suddenly all is well. Why would you purposely shut down the "goodness" in you PERMANENTLY out of your life? Fake it till you become a sociopath? I just don't get it. Why would you want to do that? Why b…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 11:58 AM
1

was it even worth trying to secure the closure of knowing whether or not she fucked steve? what's there to be gained, and what is so valuable about it?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:16 AM
32

"so there you have it, girls don't have sex on the first date, but they all have friends that have sex on the first date; maybe we just got super unlucky and couldn't find those girls today" couldn't type that without snickering
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:20 PM
4

Sounds like joe sides-stepped a cannonball.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:44 AM
2

realest comment i've read today, you can catch an upvote for that good sir!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 06:07 AM
2

now it sounds like you're hamstering a little bit about doing drugs at a party. To reiterate: There are various outliers that go through college without engaging in drugs at parties etc. The typical stereotype hovering over them is that they're "high inhibition, rigid, and don't know how to have a good time" it seems to me that you're giving way to much credence to the thought that you have to do what everyone else is doing in order to fit in, when the most basic premise of TRP is to stand apart…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:17 AM
8

I think at the very end of the day, right before the sun sets this boils down to having a solid frame. Here at TRP we know that women are highly suceptible to groupthink (i.e. the fallacy that you have to engage in drugs/alcohol at a party), and even moreso at younger ages. The initial thought based on what you've experienced is that the "straight edge guys" are weird etc. It's very possible to maintain a straight edged status without coming off as weird if you frame it right. it's not what's be…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:25 AM
0

I think you should submit ladder theory to be sidebarred. excellent metaphor for the underlying themes at play. also looking forward to your youtube series
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 08:25 PM
6

As the enlightened man begins to raise his value and garner the attention of multiple women, he should take the care to ask why that attention is garnered in the first place. What is it that she values so highly? Why is she initiating with me over others? What does she lack, that she's planning to supplement with me? an astute explanation/description of that tickle in my balls about a new girl in my life.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:26 PM
2

Solid post, Very simple approach that many including myself could greatly benefit from. the methodology is so consice as well, I personally feel as though I've struggled with these kinds of interactions in the past due to the emotional fall out, it sucks being the the one doing the firing so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 04:12 PM
1

a lean 210? how tall are you?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:07 AM
8

Honestly this sounds like the first shit test I learned about when I joined this sub. Simple A&A the first time around could've prevented this from escalating.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 09:19 PM
8

y'know, the only thing a woman seems to hate more than settling for a beta is realizing she missed out on something huge like this Oil Tycoon
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:44 PM
2

But if you saw the 'after' photo without seeing the 'before' photo would you think anything's amiss?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 12:15 PM
7

I take a little pride in knowing the chances of me winding up as said beta are significantly reduced thanks to the teachings here at TRP
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:15 PM
10

I got "divorce raped" but, like the sorority girl who wakes up in the morning with a beta, the rape is more Regret Divorce Rape than Actual Divorce Rape. great pun, I cackled like a witch
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:34 AM
153

Never let a woman's interest go to your head. Her interest means nothing about your value so it is also true that her lack of interest ain't a ding. If i ever have a son this will be my goodnight quote to him.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:23 AM
2

I think you made a mistake by trying to bring her back to your place after she denied the kiss.The situation reads strongly of bidding for emotional validation in the form of hanging out with you "just like old times". I'm gonna echo the rest of the comments and say hard next/radio silence etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 12:45 PM
12

Damn son. "Leg beard" gonna steal that
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 05:24 AM
7

I'm listening to this as I'm typing this out. got the gmail notification when it posted. I can't help but shake my head in dissapointment, and marvel at the mental judo this woman's hamster is capable of.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:29 AM
5

I think you meant pavlov, but I haven't heard of this experiment. care to explain, or share a link on it?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:55 AM
18

Basically feels like an extremely long ranged version of keeping your options open. All those failed flings pretty much function as orbiters as a result of the LJBF fail safe. I mean all the ingredients are there. 1. Prior sexual history 2. General availability All that's needed now is a catalyst (insert some activity involving alcohol/chance of unique DHV) and then we get hit with "oh I slipped and fell on some cock"; but not all at once of course. The truth trickles out like a choked stream be…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 03:36 PM
7

this needs more upvotes. solid piece of knowledge here
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:01 AM
5

height and weight in that pic btw?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:08 PM
5

I feel like a weekly cheat day is far to frequent, bi weekly is a little better, every payday or something like that. I do agree with the 20-24 hour fast afterwards though, hell sometimes even before is good
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:26 PM
5

If there ever was a better depiction of AF/BB! I can only imagine how cheated that other guy must've felt, and to add insult to injury, he didn't even hear it from her!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:51 PM
3

"Tinder is better for me than going out to a bar because I can't go up to every guy at the bar and talk to them whereas Tinder gives me a wide selection of guys to choose from instantly and I can make decisions on whether I'd be interested in talking to them more and I don't have to awkwardly leave a conversation if I'm no longer interested, I just block them." Kind of corroborates the argument against the ashley madison profiles being fake, and straight from the horses mouth no less.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:28 AM
2

I think you're absolutely correct in theory, and i'll speak for myself, and perhaps a few others when I say this; although the pinnacle of white women is intoxicatingly intruiguing, i've often found it's much more entertaining, in regard to "pleasing society" when i've got a foreign girl in my orbit. don't get me wrong, white girls are great, but rare, exotic looking women definitely take the cake. there's a vast multitude of blonde haired blue eyed women. very few extremely attractive ethnic wo…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 05:45 AM
3

Fight on brother, though the journey may be long and arduous, the rewards are much sweeter.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:02 PM
2

i'd go so far as to say this could be expanded into a seperate post
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:03 PM
11

Just goes to show how ruthless the rest of the world is willing to be to make their ends meet.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:14 PM
2

The general consensus of the comments so far seems to be a lot of admonishment of Op for reaching out to a former celestial body he used to orbit. I don't think it's impossible to plate an old and powerful oneitis. (I've done it before, albeit accidentally and pre trp) it is however an uphill battle, and imho not worth the conscious effort, because you'll start from a place of outcome dependence, and it'll be easier to slip back into beta tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:50 PM
10

I went so far as to read the original post, and concluded that he wasn't really forced into a relationship. Op's boyfriend failed a shit/comfort test (her threatening to leave) and adopted her frame.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 08:42 PM
1

probably one of the better analogies i've heard regarding the wall. +1
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:08 AM
11

They want you to do better, but not better than them
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:35 AM
-13

I don't think I've been alive quite nearly as long as most members of this sub, but I have noticed that generally women gravitate towards a lower body fat with minimal muscle mass. This is not to say that you can't or shouldn't be bulky, I think it highlights how little women pay attention to the minutia regarding muscle building.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 04:56 PM
58

I guess she misses the validation. This is the second article I've read today about a post wall woman missing the attention she used to get from men, and I think it gives a little credence to my theory that in general women don't know how attractive they are, and rely pretty substancially on the actions of those around them to guage it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:32 AM
4

well written guide, love the smattering of pics for clarity. I noticed one of the girls address's was left up, not sure if that was accidental or not.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 10:35 PM
1

I think what hits most of us the hardest when we first become aware of the pill is that, not only is there a science to this (albeit not exact), but there are countless theories corroborated by studies, evolutionary analyses, and personal anecdotes. I think at some level every man knows there's got to be a way to make heads or tails of what's happening, but those creeping doubts are continuously suppressed by blue pill platitudes and programming. it still amazes me how many layers this "world" i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 06:36 PM
4

bro. You were in first place the ENTIRE race, and then you shot your self with the blue turtle shell right before crossing the finish line with that "what? You started it" comment.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:29 PM
2

If this is even remotely true, it'll feel good to be the exception to the rule.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:49 AM
38

I was always under the impression that people in general did this subconsciously, and if observed is a probable marker of a dominant frame. I think it ties into the whole "people look at other people when they don't know what to do/how to act" thing. Very interesting post, seems pretty valid
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:44 PM
2

you might be just a touch over invested in your plates if juggling them winds up being too much work/time consuming imo. Your last paragraph answers the brunt of your question.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:50 AM
5

I think you have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding a relatively red-flag free ltr worthy gal. I think the whole rock stars bit is self limiting, and indicative of slight outcome dependence on your part. Of course she'll be a tougher pull. If things don't work out with you, there are literally hundreds of others ready and waiting for her to blink in their direction. Also, if the tinder girls are requiring 3 star Michelin restaurant dates as first dates, you might want to look in…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:52 PM
3

Really cathartic FR man. Perfect for anger phase and subsequent relapses.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:24 PM
7

Good lord. Paragraphs for 500 please.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:29 AM
2

Seems like this "cool girl" bit could be spun into some passive dread if applied properly.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:47 PM
3

This girl is mid branch swing, and is probably still emotionally invested in the other guy. I think by "giving her room to come back to you" you're playing into her frame. AF/BB man. I'd say soft next with a titration of dread.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:27 AM
14

I like the reiteration of the fact that "she's not your girl, it's just your turn". Serves as a great check and balance.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 08:31 PM
2

I think a lot of your commentary regarding how you felt about widow served as a subtle DHV.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 03:05 PM
4

I think in the past i used to hate guys like you. It would completely wreck me inside to lose a girl to someone like that. but now i feel as though, I watched a seasoned captain navigate treacherous waters lol, and I can't help but hand it to you for being so deftly successful.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:50 PM
2

Bruh. You let the kissing (which will probably be a lot less frequent than you'd like) blind you and you agreed to enter her frame. Almost reads like a dead bedroom post except the sex is kisses, the chores are "friendship" and you two aren't in an ltr. I kind of admire your oneitis's tact though, that kissing partner rubbish would've gotten me too a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:53 PM
0

it's been said before; be the best in your vicinity, the master of your domain.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:22 PM
2

You don't know someone until you know what they want
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:08 AM
13

i think your method is the most effective. Making light of a potentially volatile situation through amused mastery shifts the balance back in your favor immediately.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:10 PM
5

as odd as this might sound, it's suprisingly comforting to know that everything everyone else around you was too blind to acknowledge, or fought so hard to keep hidden is true on almost every level you imagined it to be. TRP was a dose of clarity I so desperately needed. I always had thoughts and ideas about these sorts of things, but never was there a place where they were discussed in such great detail.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 09:39 PM
4

I'm really interested in papaya seeds as a natural contraceptive. Stumbled upon that in a thread discussing a similar topic. Unfortunately a lot of the research surrounding the seeds is inconclusive.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:11 PM
9

Taking the time to comment because this is an almost completely identical situation I went through that inevitably led me to TRP. Whatever you do, KEEP DANGLING THAT FUCKING CARROT It seems like you've got a pretty good grip on the mindset you need to maintain in order to keep extracting sexual encounters from this person. I think you should go for the close on this one. you might learn more about falsely romanticizing having sex with somone you've wanted to have sex with for an extended period …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:55 AM
1

What are some subtle ways to DHV? Best methods for facilitating dread?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 03:12 AM
14

I believe you successfully demoted her to a plate. Some radio silence would complement your paradigm shifts, and as always be wary of oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:59 PM
77

One of my classmates put it so poetically: "we all want to go to heaven, but no one wants to die"
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:59 AM
9

How about establishing a dominant frame, and effectively ousting further bullshit
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:11 PM
20

What particularly interests me about this interaction is the incident where she left to speak to another guy at the bar. How would a fully initiated redpiller deal with such an occurence(inb4 don't date post-wall women), and what are some takeaways for future reference?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:41 PM
67

I kind of admire the MIL's actions in a way. expertly calculated response. worst case scenario there is some sort of cheating going on and she's alerted her son and immediate family members that something isn't right. in one fell swoop she shifted the entire balance towards one end, if in case there was an affair going on. and on the other hand, if nothing was going on, or an affair was beginning to crescendo, she effectively ended/prevented one by painting out OP as a sketchy woman. a sort of s…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:39 PM
3

To nitpick your story, you said "we're done" but then you let her convince you to change your mind. This shows that you made a decision but then you broke down and went back to her which is not a good precedent for the relationship. I may be totally off here, but i've been thinking about this particular phenomenon pretty heavily; couldn't this function as a sort of push/pull emotional dynamic if properly implemented?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:06 AM
11

i'd almost say it needs an anger phase trigger warning. /s but really, this is sidebar worthy.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:27 PM
1

"Those who are too choosy often miss out altogether"
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:51 PM
1

Funny thing about bullies is that they seem to sense who is mentally weak and they go after them. Eugene was scrawny, wore cheap clothes, and kinda awkward. he might as well have worn a sign that said "pick on me" Hopefully Eugene learned something from all of that, but unfourtunately, and not unlike some of us, he probably had no idea what was going on at the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:34 PM
2

we pursue that which departs from us.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:59 AM
5

I was the person everyone was looking for to have a good time. I was the alpha of that group. I had guys and girls coming in the room to talk to me just to say whats up. I knew people by name. I was giving value to those around me. I wasn't sitting there waiting to be entertained, I was the entertainment. I looked fucking cool to these guys and girls who have never been to our house before. This is huge. I can't stress enough how important this particular aspect of AMOG-ing is. in the right amou…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:18 AM
3

how her friends will view you two together ( not as important) this phenomena has always fascinated me. It's almost as if she's dating you for her friends. a sort of " look what i got, my horse is bigger than your horse" kind of deal. Factors in with preselection and social proof as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:42 PM
3

IIRC she called three technical fouls in one minute. Clearly something's amiss.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:03 AM
0

Unecessary, seemingly unintentional dread game. That and your girlfriend has some extremely vigilant friends. take care to maintain your abundance menality, but IMO i'd ease up on the textual telegraphing. she's called your bluff, and as per your description, she's already used to shit testing you relentlessly. hopefully all that abrasion has resulted in some tough calluses.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 03:40 AM
2

Women have always been the gate keepers of sex. because of their biology they have to be selective. Good looks on a primal level translate to good genes. when a woman finally decides to settle down and make-a-da baby she's out of comission for 9 months, where as for a guy he's out of commission for like 9 minutes lol. and of course those 9 months turn into anywhere from 18-22 years (lately).
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:16 PM
5

probably a lot of single mothers source: Male nurse in Nursing school
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:51 PM
1

Fourtunately you have enough self awareness to see this for what it is, and you have the resources to respond in kind.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:23 AM
1

Tread softly, but carry a big stick.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:24 PM
9

Given that the posted example is a relatively small sample size, I think it excellently illustrates the concepts we discuss here at Trp within a "semi-controlled" microcosm.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:03 PM
8

A lot of people here are calling OP butmad for annoucing that he wasn't going to be friendzoned by this girl. I've yet to see any examples on how one would properly decline such an offer in a manner that wouldn't register as buttmad however.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:40 AM
15

It's never women's fault dude. She's probably not anywhere near as sexually open with the new dude, and she trying to rationlize why that might be by putting all her freaky desires back onto you, when in reality he's just not giving her the goods she's so used to, which explains why she's still fucking you. I'm willing to bet she jumped into a relationship with this guy primarily for validation. I mean if she's cheating on him, how much respect attraction does she really have for the guy?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:45 PM
1

screaming at that trouser gravy crack lol
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:08 PM
1

a comment worth saving. in all honesty, is low libido even a thing, or is it like one of those 1 in 10 million things that everyone who seems to think they're a special snowflake seems to have?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:02 PM
1

Personally I've always felt like a "K" comes of as ever so slightly butthurt/passive agressive. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong but in this situation it might have been better for you to not even acknowledge her.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:11 PM
1

So say by some freak chance nothing actually happened, let's humor your hamster. would you still want to be anything more than just a convenient fuck for a girl who willfully goes to an isolated area with multiple strange men she's only just met while intoxicated? If that's not a huge red flag then I don't know what is. I understand why you're asking though, seems like a mixture of mild oneitis, and her trying to DHV you by proving to you she's still a hot item, in an overbearingly masculine way…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:42 AM
1

Dood. I unknowingly did something like this. I was in highschool and was seeing this girl who had been homeschooled pretty much all her life, at somepoint I said something along the lines of "nobody should be grabbing your ass, beta beta beta" ofc I grabbed that ass while making out with her shortly after. I distinctly remember her bringing up the discrepancy later, and I'm almost certain I attributed the occurrence to her being so irresistible that I couldn't help myself or something like that.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:00 PM
5

damn. she might as well have put that pussy on a silver platter.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:42 AM
1

Not sure where I read it, but it's on the sidebar somewhere, something about women's group strategy revolving around the general consensus as a opposed to men's group strategy that employs a leader (alpha male); who at the cost of being challenged for his position as well as shouldering the brunt of the blame should the group's endeavors fail, is compensated by power over many men which factors into DHV and attracts the ambient females.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:36 AM
6

To add to this, given the girl has any morals regarding fidelity, putting her in a position that compromises her ability to attract other males effictively makes your long distance relationship an obligation. Humans in general try to outrun responibility in varying degrees and this is even quite pronouced in females, you don't want to make her feel like she's responsible for being chaste and waiting for you to get back. LDRs IMHO are very risky, unless your smv is significantly higher than hers,…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:16 AM
3

no PIV but you let her sleep over... Nah son.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:44 PM
9

A really well put together explanation of AF/BB. I especially love the bits when he talks about how phee looks at jonas in comparison to liam. There are lots of subtle as well as not so subtle cues as to what type of person jonas is. Think about the importance of that shot of the motorcycle. we only see it once, and even at that for a few moments. on a side note, i'm willing to bet that the woman who was "gouged" probably did it to herself, or otherwise influenced the event because she realized …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:58 PM
7

This is going into the archive. +1000
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:13 PM
2

Seems like a severe case of unrealized potential.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:28 AM
4

Stark differences. really eye opening post under the red pill lens
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:27 AM
3

you can do anything to women except bore them.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:45 PM
0

8 week meal plan for 500 please
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 09:09 PM
1

I feel like this post in itself is a shining (if not somewhat veiled) example of TRP
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 09:07 PM
33

she just gonna slide you in like the long tetris piece and complete her lines
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:00 AM
10

crazy how you can see it all
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:36 AM
25

The wanton disrespect and disregard. unbelieveable.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:29 AM
1

be sure to update us if anything else comes of this.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:08 PM
2

Truly, honestly, it's a little bit of both for me. I take guilty pleasure in being better than someone at something. and the prospect of being able to indefinitely improve my attractiveness to women through working out drives me to always strive for excellence in the gym. that being said, you won't find me bending over backwards to defeat someone at something for the sole purpose of defeating them, it's just nice to cultivate a skill that eases the process of success and achievement.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 09:01 PM
6

used to be really guilty of quite a few of these. the shame is overwhelming. brilliant post.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:29 PM
1

You are falsley romanticising the concept of being in a relationship. Sureley even you must know of the drama and emotional taxes that come with being overly involved with a woman. There is so much you don't see going on in those relationships around you, and to be honest it sounds much more like you're infatuated by the possibility of being in a relationship than by being with a girl who's company you genuinely enjoy etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:23 PM
1

I was having an intense feeling of deja vu before reading this comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:02 AM
6

I think it takes a special type of person to truly enjoy a dynamic challenge. The walls are high to keep most out.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:34 PM
1

To further expand on what I belive to be your point, i feel as though more times than not the distiction of "alpha" and "beta" is better illustrated through tendencies and the propensity to engage in certain activities denoted as "alpha" and "beta". No one is "alpha" or "beta" so to speak, like i've seen here quite a few times now, it's usually an uneven split in percentages, and even further, if i'm not mistaken, TRP encourages small spurts of "beta" tendencies in regards to LTR's in order to m…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:36 AM
2

Reads as a touch forward, but very concise and almost curt. "Always be closing". I think you embodied that adage well.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:53 PM
2

I love the entitled tone hanging around the one bit: "I'm asking you on a date" Almost as if she was expecting you to respond gleefully and enter her frame...
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:50 PM
11

i'm a little curious as to what this guy looks like now
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:45 AM
1

wow man. that shoe analogy REALLY resonated with me. I'm a bit of a sneaker head. dead serious, no sarcasm intended.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:18 PM
1

this might be way out there, but a periodical "best of", of snippets like these might not be a bad idea...
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:11 PM
3

I met a girl that's lied to her boyfriend about being a virgin, giving him the ego trip of "being her first" kinda sad. but kinda funny too. a little petty as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 04:16 PM
42

"That's nice, when's the wedding?"
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 04:04 PM
1

All women have the propensity to do these things. What I gleaned from this post is that as men we should be at the very least, prepared to encounter such occurrences. Denial ain't just a river in Africa.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 12:17 PM
2

Solid analogy. gonna commit it to memory in case this argument ever comes up
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 05:22 AM
1

I think this is one of the hardest bits to stomach, It really blew my mind the first time i read this here.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 01:20 AM
2

Met a girl like this once. I think she lost her scholarship. She took that period of her life pretty badly, a couple suicide scares here and there. I'm good friends with her father I like to think, tremendous respect for the guy. He put up with so much of her shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:43 AM
1

yeah, i'd agree with you there.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 12:27 AM
1

A comfort test is a shit test but in the context of an ltr more times than not. It's primary intent is to seek out and test for behaviors and reactions that lend themselves to the more "beta" side of a male; as opposed to a shit test with the primary intent of testing the boundaries or "alpha" side of a male. Can't think of a better example currently (omw to nursing clinicals) : "Does this dress make me look fat" VS "I danced with so many hot guys at the club last night"
/r/askTRP18/11/14 10:01 AM
25

reminds me of Neo's reaction when he sees the state of the real world for the first time.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:09 PM
0

these types of stories make me think of female insects that devour the male after getting impregnated.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 02:14 PM
23

I thought it was particularly interesting how quickly the wife shutdown his tinder account. Almost as if she wanted to severely limit his exposure to women.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:21 AM
3

Underrated comment. This really spoke to me. +10
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:54 PM
1

sigh The whole point of that post was to illustrate the wonders of holding frame, and not succumbing to the concept known as "pussy pedestalization" yes. there was definitely a chance at getting laid, hell, even a threesome if the aforementioned poster's game was tight enough, but that's not the point. It's not about pussy, it's about sending a message
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 03:23 AM
2

I keep catching myself doing this sort of thing after the fact. a little tidbit i always tell myself, is to be more like the preview than the movie. less is more
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 03:08 AM
5

do know if this guy even exists? I shit you not, i had a situation where a girl i wasn't being too serious with tried to lie about dating someone else just to try and force my hand. I distinctly remember thinking to myself that this girl in particular didn't really have a lot of guys chasing after her, and that the possibility of her actually telling the truth was pretty slim. pressed her for the truth some time later, lo and behold...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:31 AM
1

sometimes I feel like these things are almost to fantastic to believe. flabbergasted.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:37 PM
8

she slipped and fell right?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:27 PM
3

buy her the pill and have her take it in front of you.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:14 AM
7

man. you really like living on the edge don't you? With each passing day within those 72 hours the efficacy of the pill drops significantly. get your head out your ass and handle this, if you keep being so cavalier with your approach, essentially your life as you know it will be over.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:59 AM
2

I'm no expert, but I think you were right to assume she tried to put you down as an orbiter with initial rejection. I figure if you have to ask, you probably shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:04 AM
1

If this is even real, no sympathy whatsoever for this guy. he states several times that he found all the ideas appealing. sure we're allowed to regret our decisions, but this is like pouring a glass of water on a slice of bread, gotta eat it or throw it away.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:42 PM
6

really good response here. demonstrates a clear understanding of the problem, and offers a clear headed response
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:33 PM
3

Am I being overly vindictive when i say OP should just pump and dump when his foresight comes to fruition?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 07:55 PM
35

Sometimes I think to myself that I should be living up my 20's smoking weed and soaking my liver, and just being an all around screw up, not giving a care to what happens around me until all my problems are right on top of me. but then, every once in a while someone on here post a video like this, and it serves to remind me that whatever it is i'm missing out on, is being falsely romanticized by my still growing brain, and that i should stick to my medical field pursuits so i can one day be the …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 10:09 PM
2

love the book, but I will admit, it's pretty radical stuff for the newly initiated
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:02 AM
9

Really stressful wading through that cesspool of AFCs. interestingly enough though, some guys seem to have an idea as to how things work, but they seem to be more aware of it as if it were a shadow, or a barely visible outline of something camouflaged by bending ambient light.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:45 PM
2

I'd recommend reading the Manipulated man by Esther vilar, stumbled upon it yesterday. Shit had me like
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:32 PM
2

Hear, Hear!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:25 PM
1

there's two sides to every coin I suppose
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:07 PM
7

that "i'm on my period" bit is getting so overused, seems like it's a go to for LMR
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:02 AM
38

Deflecting harder than captain america. +1
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:58 PM
1

This is a great post, really refreshing read that assists in coping with the anger phase IMO
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 04:40 PM
2

I've always had a theory that more times than not a girl doesn't really know how attractive she is, or rather has to be "told" so based on the way men and other women act around her. Now I might be re-inventing the wheel here, but I think this post gives a little credence to said theory, and really opens up the possibility that women's power lies in the actions of men toward/around her. I'm still a little new to TRP but I've always had a sneaking suspiscion that this might be true
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:47 PM
15

Maybe one day soon, after much lifting and smv increasing, I can be just like you.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:37 PM
0

bruh you could've been a doctor 4 times within that time
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:07 PM
2

this is the level I'm trying to be at. from where i'm standing right now, it sounds like a fantasy, but hearing someone talk about it makes it that more tangible. Thank you for your service.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:43 PM
1

looking forward to the later parts
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:27 PM
2

bruh. you explained this so beautifully, and so concisely. underrated post.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:24 AM
5

also. I agree with the haircut bit. It's a little startling how much a haircut can do for a person. for example, take a look at all of brad pitts haircuts throughout his life, IMO the guy looks like almost a different person with each significant change in style, i'd even go so far to say that the haircut evokes a particular mood, not unlike being in a room that's all red vs. being in a room that's all blue. finally, hair is an extension of your head (duh) and there are hairstyles that augment f…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 02:23 AM
2

idk man, that girl's probably a 6 on a REALLY good day. she looks like a band chick or something.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 02:19 AM
3

I'd really like to hear your thought process as to how anything Vengfully_yours said to the woman in question is demeaning.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 01:16 AM
2

I think the hugo boss ad is pretty accurate, watching it makes me feel as though that man is probably a ceo, or other high ranking individual. what "normal" person dresses that sharply? guy looks like he's ready for fashion week in paris along side nick wooster. he's not driving some honda, or camaro/challenger, that's a benz. regardless of anyone's upbringing, most benzes invoke feelings of status, and luxury at the risk of sounding slightly homo-sexual, I'd even say that man "looks" like he sm…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:51 PM
2

This is some heat right here. kind of an "I look for you pain" mentality. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:10 AM
2

Those top comments though. Right on the money.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 04:05 PM
-2

I'm very concerned with the state of things from this perspective. lurking for further insight.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:52 PM
2

you're a dick. but goddamn, I aspire to be like you.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:17 AM
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