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Yeah, my problem is, though, that I am afraid I might pursue and commit to such a woman that is not worth pursuing. That and I don't know how rare women like you are.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 07:44 AM
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In theory yes, in practice I've seen lots of men saying that when they did show emotion they were not met with kindness, but with disimissiveness, ridicule, and sometimes even loss of respect and attraction.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 11:34 PM
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Thing is, I'm not really an emotional person. I rarely watch sad movies, but I do sometimes tear up at them. Thankfully there haven't been many tragedies going on in my life. I don't have any unhealed trauma that causes me to break down if I remember about it. I am even slow to anger. I rarely get angry and easily brush off things. That's another reason why I'm afraid of this, though. You'd think that this is a good thing, and, in part, yes it is. It feels nice not actively working on my emotion…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 11:11 PM
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That sounds great! I'm just trying to gauge how rare women like you are, lol
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 09:38 PM
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Thank you for your wisdom. Truly.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 07:36 PM
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So trial and error basically.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 07:25 PM
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I guess that you are right. I have no idea how to accept this truth, though.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 05:38 PM
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I am of the same opinion, I am merely wondering if that's however a common enough occurence.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 05:32 PM
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This may very well be the case in some situations. I have read many a stories though from those who said that they were always supportive but when it came to their emotions theirs were dismissed, used against them or have been the catalyst for the death of the relationship.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:39 PM
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I truly wonder how many well-adjusted individuals there are.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 02:06 PM
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I guess I am afraid that if I experience negative responses from my future girlfriend(s) I might just close off completely. Which isn't exactly how I want to live my life, because I think that being open with your emotions in a relationship is very important, so I wouldn't want to be in one where I can't do that (in moderation of course). This also triggers my fear of ending up alone, lol.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:37 PM
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If there is nothing she can't do about it, I'm staying. If there is (i.e. maybe she gained weight and she can lose it), I will encourage it all the way, because that is healthy and if I love someone I want them to live as long as possible.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:47 AM
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I think lust is different this way. Seeing a more attractive woman is one thing, displaying vulnerability and having her perception of you destroyed because, suprise, you aren't always an immovable rock, is another, very different thing.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:41 AM
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therefore you are perceived as more attractive for it Really? I mean, I'm sure this is in theory, but is it actually in practice?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:30 AM
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Regarding your last question, truth be told I haven't really seen it IRL. At least my parents and most of my friends' parents haven't tried to instill the "boys don't cry mentality" in them.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:27 AM
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Amongst my age, not really, at least not openly.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:21 AM
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Romania.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 03:47 AM
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I understand where you are coming from, but it is easy to say what you think you would do, yet it doesn't always happen that way. How can you be certain that even if at surface level you KNOW how you should react, that is going to be how you react? Maybe you will lose attraction towards him regardless of how he shows that vulnerability even if morally you know it's wrong, but you just can't help it?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 10:35 PM
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Actually I'm from Romania, not the USA. And regarding your last questions: I am assuming you mean how certain do I need to be in order to be vulnerable in front of a romantic partner? Very certain. I actually made a point to myself that I'll have a discussion with a girl I want to enter a relationship with regarding boundaries and expectations, among which I am going to state that I expect to be able to share (at least almost) anything with each other, including vulnerabilities, and that I expec…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 10:21 PM
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Truly? The disturbing amount of accounts on this platform from men who have gone through such negative experiences, sometimes repeatedly with different partners.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 09:57 PM
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In my country conservatives aren't really a thing. I mean sure, you've got the stupid old people who say that communism was the way, but no sane person born after 1980 believes that shit.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 09:55 PM
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I guess that I am scared that I'll never find that compatible partner, like asking this (being able to be vulnerable) is too much of an ask.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 09:39 PM
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I agree. Problem is, it kinda seems that most women are like this, in which case, good luck finding one who isn't.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 08:35 PM
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Yeah, problem is that sometimes you can't really gauge this. She may say that she thinks it is alright, maybe even attractive to show emotion but when it actually happens, she's turned off by it. though there’s probably data out there if you care to look Believe me, I tried to find it but couldn't. Maybe if someone else knows of any resource on this, because I don't.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 08:22 PM
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The question is: how does this affect your quest to find a compatible partner? Good question. I guess it's the fact that I won't know until it actually comes to it, but the thing is that it's so out of my control. I am not an especially emotional person, little things do not affect me, and so far I have been lucky to not go through any trauma or tragedy, but I know I have a breaking point. Sometimes, that breaking point can be a very sad part in a movie, or a very sad song. Not always though. Th…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 08:18 PM
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This isn't a truly religious country, believe me. Divorce rate is like 29% I believe though, so yeah, that's rather low. Now regarding shame, you didn't quite get what I said. They don't do it because it affects them DIRECTLY, not because they care about what their parents say. If a college girl gets drunk in the club and does some stupid shit it ain't her daddy finding out and punishing her, it's her peers gossipping and talking behind her back. Tate overestimates the amount a girl who gets dru…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 08:43 PM
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They say it's a god fearing place LOL, who's they? The VAST majority of young people couldn't care less about God and church and all that. Certainly not God-fearing, lmao. Romanian girls party but don't get drunk. Reason? Because it brings shame on family and their fathers will beat them Girls DO get drunk. But they mostly do it in close quarters with people they trust, but not all of them definitely. But not because it brings shame to the family or their fathers beat them, no. Maybe if they are…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 07:55 PM
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Eastern European sort of Christian Orthodox but not really practicing faith.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 07:54 AM
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Sure, I can participate. Message me when you can. I prefer reddit message exchange though.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 01:10 PM
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Yeah, I find myself thinking like this usually when my social life is duller. Right now most of my friends are busy or away and I am just working and then horsing around. I also went out a few times with a friend and his girlfriend's friends (also girls) and they were some pretty great gals who didn't fit the pattern the redpill tries to sell, at least not from what I've seen. Truth be told, if I didn't have positive experiences like these I would be so fucking deep into the redpill, lol. Also, …
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 05:57 PM
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Hey, thanks for these resources, I'll be sure to check them out.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 05:48 PM
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When I tried to counter they got all fussy and with the "I am right" mentality and would disregard my opinion because I have little experience with women.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 05:46 PM
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I can't read this graph for the life of me, dude, care to explain it a little?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 06:56 PM
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You are in the self improvement part of red pill. That's great! But that's not really red pill, that's just... self improvement. True red pill runs much deeper, and delves into the really sexist crap that you, thankfully, filtered out. But, as someone said, redpill does not equal self improvement. You are just aspiring to be the best version of yourself. That's called being a functional, intelligent and self-aware human being. By saying that you are redpill, you are basically associating yoursel…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 11:05 PM
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