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Frankly, I think that it's always best to just be upfront with men; if you're wondering if they're into you, just ask. I, personally, would never go for a guy that would take a long time to ask me out, but if it were me: I'd take him aside and say "hey I think you're really fun, and I wanted to know if you'd like to join me for dinner sometime?" He could say yes or if he seemed uncomfortable, then I could suggest bringing along friends and make it a group thing. If you're intent on being covert:…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 07:45 AM
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What? Literally none of this makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 08:54 AM
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As someone who has dealt with severe anxiety for my entire life, and has gotten better, I relate to this. You sound precisely like I did when I was your age (I'm 27 now). Now, I do not know you, and I do not know what your life has been like. But, based on what you have talked about, I can say that likely someone in your past has blown small things out of proportion and taken that out on you. You sound scared to have even small moments of negativity for fear of the consequences. Something that h…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 06:44 AM
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First off, yes you have time. You're still young, and I know that its intimidating to see women around you getting married and being in relationships, but you are in the unfortunate position of having just moved somewhere where you don't know anybody from Adam. A lot of conservative places are kinda cliquey (despite usually being very nice people in general) because most of the people grew up around each other and have something in common by proximity alone. That's a disadvantage, but not imposs…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 06:07 AM
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I think this issue would be solved just by asking why he took it off….
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 04:38 PM
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Once you have broken up with someone, if you get back together, that knowledge that you were willing to leave them once and might do it again will linger in the back of their mind. That’s not a healthy way to navigate a relationship and can create trust issues.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/22 12:56 AM
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The main principle of stoicism, above everything else, is objectivity. Not a lack of empathy. Objectivity means being able to view things from outside of your bias. That does not ask you to throw away your emotions, but to be aware of what they mean and yet not allow them to control you. It's okay that you're upset by his reaction, but you also need to try and see things from the other perspective before acting on those emotions. Do you really think that he meant to be insensitive to the situati…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 07:24 AM
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My favorite way to describe femininity is to say that it is the light in the dark. A lot of people here will say "a soft place to land". It's where you go when things are hard and you need to be cared for. The hospital in the battlefield. So if I were to choose a distinct quality, it would be "nurturing". You can have all the right curves and all the right surface level attitudes, but if you do not have that nurturing spirit, you do not come off as feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 06:59 AM
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No i’d say it’s normal. I’m alone most of the time as well, which i actually enjoy. We both have intensive hobbies that preoccupy most of our downtime. We try to be in the same room while we do these hobbies, that way we can talk a little bit every now and then if we feel like it. we have a sort of have a joint office, pretty much. That way we feel close to each other but can do our own thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 02:46 AM
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I mean, generally your gynecologist/midwife is your best resource. Not super sure what other resources you’re in need of.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 08:02 PM
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Well, my husband and I met at college. I was outside smoking (Yuck, I know. Thankfully we both quit a couple years ago.) He came over to give me a compliment and we ended up missing the rest of our classes because we got caught talking for, like, five hours. No joke.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 09:58 PM
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So, my question I suppose is how would a man go about limiting a woman's exposure to "brainwashing"? I mean, he can't really tell her to delete her socials and not watch mass entertainment lol. I am huge proponent of getting off socials, I don't have any outside of this account which I use solely for use on this sub. However, that is not the status quo. Most people engage with social/mass media, where most of this propaganda is.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 09:33 PM
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I will say that going into a relationship hoping that the other person will change in a certain way is a one-way ticket to a break up. Not to say that you're wrong, because you're not, however it's a really shitty gamble to date someone that you don't already align with. However... this was the case with my husband. I was the total opposite of who I am now, and he did change me, but I had certain baseline characteristics that made it more likely that I would be open to change. That's really impo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 09:05 PM
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Well, since you are (I am assuming) some denomination of Christian, think about it biblically. In Corinthians 6:14-17 it says "For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy." So don't push him. This is not a dire situation. So long as he is not actively engaging in bad morals or trying to make you do anything that goes against your beliefs, it's not …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 06:20 PM
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I would suggest that you make your needs clear, and see if he’s willing to compromise with you. Be respectful, be solutions based, and be calm and collected. Could go something like “I understand that you’re busy, and I respect what you’re doing with your time, but I would like to be spending more quality time with you. Is there something we can come up with together to make that happen?”
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 08:43 AM
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Well, personally, i don’t think that any outside opinion should have any decision making power within a relationship. My husband was disowned from his family for moving across the country to be with me, and while he has struggled with the repercussions of that, he had never regretted it because it meant that he was no longer under the thumb of an overbearing matriarch, which sounds similar to your SO’s mom. It sounds like your SO is also tired of that pressure. You guys have known each other lon…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 03:51 AM
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When you say that it wasn’t part of your lives years ago, you mean that neither of you were religious, but then you decided that you wanted to be?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 03:38 AM
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What matters is what you and your fiancé think. Have you asked what his serious thoughts on this are? I know you said he said you could elope as a “last resort”, but does he really want to wait four years?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 03:33 AM
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Confrontation is an art form of sorts. It's something that's gonna take some time to learn and be comfortable with, but you can do it, and do it appropriately. The first rule is to not lose your temper, period. Keep your voice at a normal tone and volume, and keep the words you choose neutral. The second rule is to be solutions based. You need to address the problem, and then offer a solution, or make it evident that you are open to a solution. We can use your brother as an example. Instead of e…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 07:52 AM
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Here’s the thing about surgery: Men desire attractive women because they make attractive babies. If you alter yourself surgically and then produce unattractive kids, that’s gonna be a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 08:43 PM
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The only men i’ve known that are into their girl being into other women are men that are looking for something casual and the possibility of a threesome. I’ve never met one that desires that quality in a wife.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 11:58 AM
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Well, it’s fine that you view it that way. That’s your prerogative. Finding a man that views it that way is likely going to be harder. Not impossible, but it does narrow your possibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 11:27 AM
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A body count is a body count, regardless of gender. Men do not want a woman who will sleep around, period. The only way I could see a man not caring as much about women is if he sees lesbianism as a casual thing rather than a serious sexuality, which I doubt is a trait you’re looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 11:21 AM
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There isn’t anything to do other than understand that you cannot change the past, but you can change the future. We’ve all made jacked up choices. That’s part of the human experience. I suggest you think hard about what you learned from the experience, and then forgive yourself. And if it’s any consolation, I do not think you’re a slut. It sounds to me like you were searching for someone worth your time and you weren’t finding it. Pure intentions, shitty execution.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 07:27 PM
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Someone that respects you, first and foremost. That means communicating appropriately, without a lot of anger or walking all over you, that she dresses modestly, that she says good things about you to others and doesn't make your issues known to other people. She admires you. Meaning, she genuinely enjoys you as a person, isn't constantly nitpicking, genuinely thinks highly of your accomplishments, etc. And she needs you: She values your opinion and asks for it regularly, she asks you for help w…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 03:29 AM
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Well, I'll just throw this out there, and hope mods dont hate me. Its hard to find RP women in the wild. However, the best way to find them is to create a situation where they would be attracted to you. Become the best version of yourself that you could be, and likely you will find that quality women find their way to you. There isn't really a specific spot they all hang out. Even church is full of the feminist types.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 03:10 AM
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No worries, I just wanna be sure before commenting. Happy to help if it's allowed
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 03:02 AM
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u/pearlsandstilletos Idk if we're allowed to give men dating advice here?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 02:59 AM
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I've kind of reverted to playground rules. If I see someone that looks interesting/looks like we have something in common, I just go up, say hey, and try to talk to them. If we click, I tell them we should hang out sometime, give them my number, and let it go from there. Usually do something that relates to what we have in common. Also, if you are religious, you can meet people in prayer groups or something equivalent.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 05:32 AM
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I would say that watching Jordan Peterson's lectures are a great place to go. It's not specifically about femininity or relationships, but he poses a lot of questions and arguments that are meant to help you understand yourself and the world around you on a fundamental level, which I think is important when you are going off on a journey of self-discovery and change. He makes a lot of eye opening observations. And he does have segments (which I would start with) that are focused on the roles of …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 05:22 AM
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I'm semi in the same boat. I'm working while my husband finishes his degree, after which he says I am welcome to do as I please. But right now, I work full time. It sucks. I don't like it. However, what helps me is looking at the positives: Jobs help you stay on a good, consistent schedule which is proven to be good for mental health. It helps you feel like you are contributing to the community. It helps you meet people. Etc. Each job has its own upsides, you just have to seek them out. And remi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 05:15 AM
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Don’t feed into the drama. Keep your head. Let them be upset. Calmly and simply apologize for upsetting them and leave it at that, even if you feel like you didn’t do anything. Then, when they want to continue being upset, that’s their problem. You apologized. Dramatic people seek out drama, no matter the situation, and no matter what you do or say. I also have very dramatic family members that pull this sort of stuff, so I know what it’s like. I’m really sorry that it effected your wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 04:10 AM
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You are eighteen now, which means you need to be thinking about what a woman would want from a man, rather than what a girl would want from a boy. This is typical high school drama crap, and it’s meant to stay in high school. If he cannot commit or connect to you on even a basic level, he is not worth your time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 04:03 AM
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You're looking at this from a very shallow perspective. First, like the other commentor pointed out, you need to be sure that the guy you're looking at is worth your time. This community has a lot of info about what makes a guy attractive in previous posts and in the sidebar. Secondly, what you are describing are the shallow examples of what are deeper personal changes that are made when a woman decides to explore her feminine side. Cooking for someone is an act of being nurturing. Dressing mode…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 06:00 AM
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I think of it as the light in the darkness. It's a reprieve from the fight, a space to breathe, to be soft, to feel calm, to heal. The hospital in the battlefield of life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 05:47 AM
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Not sure how cold it is where you live, but I live in severe cold weather (as in, could die within ten minutes of going outside during half the year), so I suggest checking out Russian fashion. The women there are well known for being feminine and put-together, and of course their winters also try to kill them, so they have a lot of good ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 05:40 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 09:02 AM
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Love the love! Happy wishes to you guys!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 07:45 AM
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People love to beat around this bush these days. The bottom line is that men and women cannot be close friends. Period. That is an uncomfortable and, frankly, unfair reality. I've been down this road more times than I really care to admit: My two best friends all through high school, whom I shared some of my best memories with, had a bet to see who could fuck me first. That stung quite a lot. The two men that my ex was besties with, and whom I had a similar friendship as to what you are describi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 07:39 AM
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Well, if something were posted before you were even together, and nothing had been posted since you were together... Wouldn't that say that the behavior had ended? And so how are you supposed to be upset about a behavior that had already stopped? People grow and change. If I were judged based on who i used to be, I would be in a world of trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 07:20 AM
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This seems like a non-issue. He wasn't cheating. It wasn't even on his phone.... I'm failing to see what the issue is.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 07:18 AM
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I think that you need to talk about it with him. You need to discuss your goals for this relationship and you shouldn't be assuming just because he has those apps. My husband has apps on his phone that he hasn't used in years. It doesn't mean he's seeing other women. But at this point in your relationship, you should both be able to talk about what you want and what the long term plan is.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 10:40 PM
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Borax is a natural mineral that's been used for a long time for a lot of different things. I use it as detergent booster, to help it clean more effectively. I do this because it balances pH and softens the water that your clothes are washed in, which makes it easier for detergent to do its job. It can be toxic if ingested, (as it used to be used in kids toys like slime that they would put in their mouths...) but its otherwise completely safe.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 10:20 PM
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Very sticky grey residue builds up in your tub, which is extraordinarily difficult to remove. Wiping it with a rag, paper towel, or even a white erase block will not effectively remove it. Brillo pads are the best thing I've found to get it off.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 10:09 PM
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Hi, professional housekeeper here. Here are some basics that you should know. Every day, you should make your bed, do your dishes, and wipe down your kitchen and bathroom counters. This will keep dishes from becoming overwhelming, a made bed pulls an otherwise "meh" room together, and keeping counters clean makes sure your spaces look polished. All of that should take a half an hour or less. Weekly, pick up your outdoor space (if you have it) vacuum/sweep/mop your floors, wipe down your toilet, …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 12:07 AM
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