| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Didn't escalate, and now i am blocked! | Field Report | More_Character_6071 | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show. | Logistics | More_Character_6071 | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 07:36 PM |
| 0 | [21M India] Paralysis by Analysis. I treat a simple "Hello" like a bomb defusal. High-capacity thinker, zero-capacity doer. Roast my mindset. | Field Report | More_Character_6071 | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 10:20 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The Magic PillUpgrading your internal mapping is hard, I've failed time and time again and again | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 02:37 PM |
| 2 | 18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girlPlease define casual sex. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | how do i increase my exposureyes, you can't do much when it's hot outside and everybody just wants to get back to their rooms all the time. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Honest question about a dating double standard I keep noticingtrue, and for the wrong reason and the real ones get away with it | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Didn't escalate, and now i am blocked!I did call her out "Hey, it's not an interview, i already had 4 this week. I don't want to do one more." She brought the suicide up when she was telling about why she got admitted to my uni, but i quickly changed the topic. Nobody approaches girls at my uni, its very restrictive, conservative and lonely place. when i approached her, there were literally 5 guards next to us. they do a lot of moral policing, stuff like no hand around a girl's shoulders. the place is a literal hell. She's from a ru… | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Brush and Floss your TeethI brush and floss everyday. But I feel like straightening my crooked teeth is like changing who I am. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach in college?I get it. Ratio is still better than India. Yesterday i approached a cute girl, she's a bit of a vulnerable type of girl, conservative. She kind of hinted at marrying. We haven't even been on a date yet 😭. Girls really don't know how to flirt here... | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?i wonder how to make your intentions clear that you want a serious one, but right now you are not settling. wouldn't it turn somebody off? obviously some are brain damaged, but you wouldn't want to feel like you are using each other's body for pleasure. I'm seeing a girl rn and i'm 90% sure that this won't last long term. i wish i can make it last long, only if we ende up in the same city. How should i communicate about this? | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?Thanks for taking time out. Yes, I actually don't know what i want. I don't think so as of now, directly making my intentions for fwb would not be okay, as I have never had a relationship. And I don't think I can maintain boundaries. obviously I'm respectful and all, but i can't guarantee that i won't fall in love with someone. The idea of multiple partners doesn't interest me much, but i also think that I'm someone who would get bored of sleeping with the same person. i think it's mainly becaus… | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach in college?It sounds like you are living in India man lol, i'm from india & I'm in the exact same boat and that 50k stat is exact same, but the ratio here is crazy there are 200 boys for 1 girl in my uni. And boy oh boy, it's so hard to do the warm approach, and if you cold approach the trust is so low, like even chads who cold approach with charisma are labelled "is he that bad that he had to cold approach?" Maybe the girls aren't just horny enough ig lol. I see a lot of 6-7 girls orbiting around a single… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?hey, ur right on about having what exactly somebody wants, and i am still figuring out what i want, but the thing i wanted to know is what is it that makes some girl have this type of pathway? i have no experience and would never judge over anything. And i know that something like fwb has existed for a long time, but I never really thought about how that dynamic is established and what makes it work, apart from the convenience. Since i am not in the market to get feedback, i would love any insig… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?i am pretty much sure that i don't want a fwb, but how do you get to that level of acceptance stage. ik its all seduction, and also you have to establish the "not a nice guy" frame first and become friends later. But still as somebody who never had proper female friends, it just baffles me that girls can have this level of acceptance dynamic. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 09:16 AM |
| 1 | The 7 Sources Of Suffering - Why Pickup Never Brought Me Joylet me be honest, im quite a reserved person, not an introvert, but I have no game at all. i started reading about game in the last 2 years, but by far the thing that i lack is coherency. i am not honest about what i want, what I need, and who I really am. game demands something that i am not. I'm a talker, but coming from a society where social trust is really low, cold approaching just made me hate myself and people who are already in relationships. Obviously it's comparison (i never had a gir… | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | My first successful approach – never doubting the myself again!!Ur right. Tried DG @ uni (India). Sh*t’s hard. Every set felt like I was just butting in. I’m avg looking but inner game is solid. Girls here just don’t vibe. Even in college they act like talking to strangers = illegal lol. I’m Gen Z but lowkey millennial mindset. approached 25–26yo (I’m 22), way more receptive. Let me finish my set. Gen Zs (19–20) just don’t. No clue what they want or how to game ‘em. Campus girls mostly just gossip + eat, no diff vibes. How do I improve my calibration? | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Spend more time out there, less time on heredig snow and then touch grass . | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Spend more time out there, less time on heretotally lost; don't relate | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 07:13 AM |
| 0 | The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why?I want a woman who's true to herself, isn't performative all the time, and doesn't like malevolent men. There aren't such women. Guess what? Even if i want something, I can take it. even if it is not too much to ask for. It's not just girls, I was at a debate competition. we all know the charismatic asshole wins, but lately i've been seeing that even trashy, fumbly, fidgety assholes win too. | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | [21M India] Paralysis by Analysis. I treat a simple "Hello" like a bomb defusal. High-capacity thinker, zero-capacity doer. Roast my mindset.I don't have fear of being judged, but I can't express things. Whenever i see a girl, I get no feelings to express, apart from the fact that i have never spoken to a girl, and i want to change that. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 01:29 PM |
| 3 | [21M India] Paralysis by Analysis. I treat a simple "Hello" like a bomb defusal. High-capacity thinker, zero-capacity doer. Roast my mindset.It doesn't work out like that, they always say yes, but never show up. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 01:18 PM |
| 2 | [21M India] Paralysis by Analysis. I treat a simple "Hello" like a bomb defusal. High-capacity thinker, zero-capacity doer. Roast my mindset.I have only self-deprecating thoughts and am afraid and ashamed of being myself. I have always been away from women, but i have never had bad thoughts about them. Maybe I'm invisible; idk. I have seen boys harassing girls and taking videos of women without consent, and guess who's talking to girls? It's the same people. I couldn't do it, i have tried and failed every time. I can't be like them boys; i have waited from when i was 10 till now to find a place where i can be respected and heard. i h… | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 01:18 PM |
| 1 | is it just me or is malevolence way more rewarding for a guyThis might be biased as I stay away from people who display asshole behaviour and most of my friends rarely talk to girls as they treat people fairly!? I'm in college and all the girls interact with only morons, who have no civics sense, no sense of humour, no actual topics to talk about, forget misogyny they are completely inhumane, lack empathy towards nature, behave like an imbecile, the girls clearly know he's fake and full of shit but they still only talk to them. The good men, they are awa… | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Why most Indian guys come off desperate and thirsty when flirtingYes, you got the word right: calibration. that's what's missing, both in girls and boys. You can see both extremes, and both are symptoms of each other: either men treat women as cheap sex objects or overvalue them like gods. and both stem from not interacting, and there are very few common spaces to interact without being locked or having an out. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show.Yeah, I have read this a lot, but i see girls only when they are walking; there isn't a place where i can see a girl doing something else, so only a cold approach used to make sense. I tried going to cafes, but there it's just full of couples and only dudes who stare at couples. what other places i could look towards. help me. so far now, i have explored cafes, bookshops, gift shops, grocery shops, student societies, parks, libraries, and hospitals. | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show.What is the thing i need to read? i have read a lot about approaching, but i just simply cannot apply to day-to-day life even though i wanted to, just because the logistics are different. I am not able to find any opportunity to practice these principles. This is a problem because there is no need to be perfect in what you say or what you do, but this doesn’t mean you can be completely disconnected from reality. You still need to have basic social cues and see when the other person isn’t interes… | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show.Yeah, I know i need to shed the identity that i have not been spoken to or spoken to girls, but it's really hard to do that. | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show.Since the last 23 years of my life, I haven't spoken. It's very hard to be normal with a girl; i unknowingly pick some character that's not me and try to perform the best and get burned out. What you said is the exact thing that i want to do but am not able to. There hasn't been a single convo where i am talking about weather or some silly thing with a girl; it's either hitting on her or nothing at all. sometimes i get appreciation from girls for being good at something, but i don't know how to … | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show.You are right to some extent, but when i started to cold approach, i found myself doing very inauthentic stuff, and i was being called out, so i had to stop. I was thinking too much about how i was acting and forcing myself to be around girls. It hurt a lot. I was there, but i couldn't be me. I was being too much in the head tbh. maybe i need to take a break and start again. My class shifted again, and this time there are 72 boys in my class and zero girls. So, yes i have to cold approach, or el… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 06:35 PM |
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