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If a girl has you in her place at the end of the night, she will make it very clear if she wants you to say, or leave. Just read her body language. Girls want to get laid as much as you do, but don't want it to be obvious, so the bathroom trick could be an acceptable way for her to let you into her apartment, without it being explicitly about hooking up. But again, she will make it clear. If she wants to keep talking, you could be in. If she's yawning and talking about how early she has to get u…
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:21 PM
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Yeah, sounds like you've adapted to your environment, which is a definite advantage. I'd say don't go look for a cheap pool hall per se (if one is even near your spot) but moreso import the logic, and get to know your immediate neighborhood, and develop one or more solid options (she wants to go to another bar, but is hungry? know that spot with a solid late night menu. ...but wants to dance? know that spot with the DJ. wants to just chill and keep talking? know that dive sportsbar where you'll …
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:56 AM
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I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. Learning how to man up, if it doesn't come natural to you, as I'd say it doesn't come natural to me, takes time. I've been on tons of dates, some good, some bad, in the past couple years, but slowly keep making progress and getting dates with better women, and I feel like I'm on the right track. As many other comments note here, you probably dodged a bullet. The thing about that drug is that so many girls love doing it, but you won't know until they're around…
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:01 AM
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It'll never not suck, but if you're sure one of them isn't your girl, you can just say that you are looking for a different connection, that she's a great girl and wish her luck finding a great guy who will make her happy, and let it be that. At least that's generally what I have said in the past. You can avoid this by really asking yourself what do you want in a girl, and being patient enough to wait for a legit opportunity to come along. Going on dates with girls you're not completely interest…
/r/seduction20/01/14 11:22 PM
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The term is called "Approach Anxiety" and there are plenty of resources available to read up on it, and different ways to overcome it.
/r/seduction31/05/13 10:32 PM
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Not necessarily, I meant that when a girl does it, it makes it hard for my method to work (I'm not really good at cold approaching without something to go on). In my profile, I have all pictures of me having fun in various sized groups, but always smiling. I'm serious about my interests, but I kept it short but fun. You're a stranger online, so the best thing you can do is exude confidence and optimism. Make yourself sound fun, and make yourself sound like a guy who has everything under control …
/r/seduction18/05/13 02:16 AM
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I have good success on OKCupid with "Hey _____ ! (try to deduce what her name is based on her screenname, otherwise, just use the screenname itself) and then just a couple sentences noting similar interests. I NEVER complement them on their looks, ever. Then close with something like "If you're free this week, I'd love to get a drink and hear about ____________ . " (some story in her profile). Basically, I only write people that have something similar in the profile as I do (similar band, simila…
/r/seduction18/05/13 12:40 AM
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I guess my only reply is that "seduction" is a large language, and Seddit is a large community of people at different levels, and with different goals. If you're only talking about maxing out banging 10s, I'd agree with you. But there are other people here, who are simply trying to improve themselves. If you read some of the posts, there are people here who are happy just to ever get their first number close! So, there's a range of perspectives, and to some people, this advice is a bit more dige…
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:07 AM
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I hear you, and agree, that that should be the main focus. My only thing is, how many guys have you seen (if not yourself when first starting off) use those proven techniques too robotically or unintuitively, and just completely look like idiots. Considering the female perspective of how it can and often does come off is just something worth considering, and to be discarded before being considered, just because it's from "the fish." That's all I'm trying to say. Open mindedness.
/r/seduction12/05/13 11:16 PM
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Okay but deer are fucking idiots, they don't communicate with each other, and they haven't adapted at all to human hunting, whereas women do communicate with each other, and see what works and doesn't, not to mention shooting someone is a one-time thing, whereas being taken home for a night is a process that repeats itself, and the subject can draw from their own personal experience. What's wrong with considering a different perspective? Why is it worth turning away from, as the quote implies? Y…
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:28 PM
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Seriously, some of you people here are so painfully insecure, someone comes to try and offer a different perspective and you have to try and prove yourselves, like not only did you not need this, but that this girl should hush. The "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" quote sounds cute, but it's fucking stupid because FISH DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER! If they did, they might have long ago figured out not to bite the worm on the hook, and humans would've had to adapt to the change. To ac…
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:25 PM
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Yeah, the dark side of seduction! I usually try to be vague a day or two, meaning no immediate replies to anything, and sometimes no reply at all. Then just say, "Hey, I think you're really great, but I'm looking for someone that I have more in common with up front." Obviously expand on that, but the point is to let them down, without slinging mud. You can also Google for things like "not interested second date" or something like that, and get a bunch of pages from relationship advice. Lastly, y…
/r/seduction10/05/13 02:59 PM
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I don't have that problem (but trust me, I lack in other areas, greatly, so I'm nothing special...) but I've read a lot of people say that you should take what the girl is saying, and expand on it. Everyone knows girls love to talk about themselves, so just listen to what they say, and expand on it. Fake curiosity about some subject that she alludes to, just to keep her talking. And if you're stuck, fuck it, talk about yourself a SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, until you can think of another question. If …
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:49 AM
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Awesome advice, man, thank you!
/r/seduction04/05/13 02:08 AM
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Ha, thanks. Trust me, it's taken a LONG time to keep revamping my profile and what I say about myself. Basically, in all my photos, I'm doing things with friends or family, and I'm smiling, to try and convey that I have a social life, and that I enjoy it. I try to keep my actual profile simple, fun, and positive. When I write girls, it's only to the ones where they've listed things that I'm also into. I usually say "Hey! I really like that you're into _____ band, they were amazing when I saw the…
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:26 PM
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Awesome advice! BTW -- I always feel like I lose girls' attention in those few days between. Is there any way to keep the interest going over text, or just best to leave it where we left it (that we'd play it by ear on Sunday, which was her suggested day, after I offered to get a drink tonight).
/r/seduction03/05/13 03:41 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Good to hear that other guys find themselves slipping a bit, because I've definitely slipped, after having a brief period where I was doing really well and feeling super confident. Maybe it's just the winter? Anyway, cheers and good luck!
/r/seduction06/04/13 02:23 AM
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I want to see an 8 and a 9 so I can see where the 0.5 comes from!
/r/seduction02/04/13 08:55 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the reply.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:46 PM
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Granted, but, what's wrong with trying to ask the seduction crowd if they've ever experienced something similar (having a diet affect their game)? I'd think it likely that I could find others who, by virtue of trying to self-improve, would be on diets and perhaps having similar experiences.
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:53 PM
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How do you figure? Not everyone who is on diets is into seduction. As someone who is not naturally gifted talking with women, I've gotten the impression (and even seen some explicit validation) that you have to keep a lot of things in mind, to remain dynamic in a situation talking to a girl, which obviously can be thrown off by a lack of mental energy.
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:45 PM
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Awesome! All these haters were like "DON'T USE IT!!!!" It worked for me every single time.
/r/seduction29/09/12 01:01 PM
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Yeah, you don't just take her number; you suggest things you can do when you meet again. Save the firm plans for later. Not sure I understand what you are saying. Mind you: I'm hardly an expert.
/r/seduction25/09/12 12:29 PM
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Not sure if this is relevant, but, my friend has the most hilarious jokes. One of his funniest is: "What do Neil Armstrong and Michael Jackson have in common? Neil Armstrong walked on the moon, and Michael Jackson raped little boys." I can't say I've seen it used as an opener, but it's certainly an attention grabber.
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:55 AM
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Just go over there and say hi. If she's a shy girl, all you need is confidence. If they are loud a boisterous girls, you'll have to think of something better. Just be relaxed. One possible thing you can say (if you know how to sell it) is "I'd regret it forever, if I didn't come over and say hi to you." Nice girls like that one; cocky girls will eat you alive if you say that. Another thing is, at least when I was at Penn State, most of the people in the given cafeteria lived in the surrounding d…
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:51 AM
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Great analysis man, thank you! I'm actually super stressing hard with closing out my fiscal year this week, and last-second trip planning, and she's getting ready to move. Hm, I'll have to kick around some ideas. If I can't think of a homerun, maybe I'll just send her a short, sweet text before I leave. Def when I get back, it's GAME TIME!
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:42 AM
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It's just very compact and simple, for what it does. I'm a naturally shy person, and I've had problems remembering moves, remembering things to say, forgetting girls' names 3 seconds after they say it. This one is so simple, it's easy to remember, and therefore, makes you less nervous.
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:00 AM
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Actually, I haven't been studying PUA stuff very long. Usually, I just try to talk to them. But, another one I've heard is "I'd regret it forever if I didn't introduce myself to you." Again, less about the words, more about the confidence and sale.
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:58 AM
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Actually was thinking about this. Good call. In fact, maybe that's what I was saying, I don't exactly remember. I just remember it worked every time I tried it!
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:28 PM
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See?! There are a few haters here tonight. As the poster, I've gotten all their messages. WOMEN WANT TO SMILE, GIVE THEM A REASON TO SMILE! :)
/r/seduction24/09/12 08:10 AM
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I should have clarified that it's a go-to, when you have nothing else to work with. But, now it's on the front page, and I don't want to completely re-edit at this point. It is what it is; I'm offering one of many ways to accomplish a goal, and, it's sparked a healthy conversation. Everyone wins, right?
/r/seduction24/09/12 08:09 AM
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LITERAL INTERNET GUY! I'm living well, just trying to help others.
/r/seduction24/09/12 08:07 AM
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YES! I use this line at bars. Especially after a few drinks.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:54 AM
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It all depends on HOW it's said. I promise you, if I said it to you on my best day, at the very LEAST, you'd smirk, but, you'd get that I was a fun, confident guy, and if you were in the mood to talk to a fun, confident guy, I'd read your body language, and we'd start talking about something else. This line is a hard one for a girl to completely shut down.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:54 AM
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What's the difference between Neil Armstrong and Michael Jackson? Neil Armstrong walked on the moon, and Michael Jackson raped little boys. (Hey! I'm one of the biggest MJ fans! Chill out and appreciate humor for what it is!)
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:48 AM
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To be fair, I didn't make this up, I just read it somewhere else. Maybe I have good taste in what I go with, but, point is: keep reading a lot of diverse pickup sources. Some of it makes sense, or works well with your personality; others, not so much. See what works, and be natural; don't make it seem so mechanical. A lot of these guys are dropping pickup ACRONYMS!!! Jesus christ, women are EXPERTS at detecting bullshit.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:18 AM
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Think about the contextual answer behind her saying no. In your case, she's saying "No." (...you cannot have my number). In the second, it's "No." (...I do not have a phone number where I can be reached). In other words, her saying no to "Is there a number I can reach you at?" makes her sound kind of weird -- who doesn't have a phone number they can be reached at?!. But, as always, it's 10% WHAT you say, 90% HOW it's said. You can give the smoothest dude the worst lines, and he'll still get what…
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:11 AM
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Huge agree. Cheers! I guess another point is to live a fun life -- a lot easier to sell the fact you live a fun life, by living a fun life, instead of embellishing that you do. And by living a fun life, you have fun stories, fun friends, fun ideas of where to go next, etc...
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:07 AM
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I probably should have elaborated this is my go-to, if there's someone I really want to talk to, and don't have a better in. Usually I try to see if there's something obvious I can roll with. Out of curiosity: why are you here, as a female? Absolutely do not mean that in a negative way; I think it's cool, actually. I assume entertainment, or to give the "girl's perspective"?
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:11 AM
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There are a number of variations, and it depends on the woman. A modest girl will hate "pick up lines." Hotter, more confident girls who hear a lot of pickup lines, like this one, because it's simple, and it's just trying to get them to smile, nothing more. It's fun to do it, because most of them SMILE at what you say -- you've instantly put them in a good mood, it was unreal to me, how often it worked. That's all I'm trying to say. No one size fits all, ever, anywhere.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:56 AM
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You can cheer a girl up and still get in her pants. Everything about seduction is hard to fully convey in typing over the internet. When I sell this move, there is a smile and eye contact, and I'm cute (so I'm told) and I'm confident as shit when I do it.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:38 AM
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Less is more. All you need is a couch, bed, TV, computer/internet, and a small cocktail set. If you have too many props, it's harder to make the focus on you, and, you'll be too reliant on your things doing the work for you (like, to impress a girl) when in fact, your personality is what needs to entertain her, not your things. You don't want too little, either -- it's not an interrogation. Do you have access to any outdoor common space? I have a small back patio, and girls love going outside to…
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:35 AM
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I repeat: it works for me. That's all I need it to do. Oh, and women like a lot of shit they SAY they don't like. FACT.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:30 AM
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I agree; I'm not into rehearsed lines. If I pulled this line on you at a bar, and you called me on it, I'd laugh it off, like "you got me," but the only girls who don't smile when they hear this are frosty, un-fun girls. In this sense, this move is like a filter to get them out of the way.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:28 AM
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You can get a girl's number after 2 mins, if you're smooth enough. I posted this, to try and help other guys because it's helped me. There are a number of ways to approach someone, and I'm not big on rehearsed lines, but, this one is easy to sell, and leaves you in a really good place. You pull it off, you've got a girl smiling, thinks you're funny, and from there, just talk. Be upbeat, sound like you live a fun life, and are having a fun night, and say "Hey, I'm leaving soon, but I want to see …
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:25 AM
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One thing I learned, that you might want to use in the future -- not sure if you're doing this, but, don't ask if she's free. Instead, you pick a day, you have an idea in mind of something to do, and say you would love for her to join you. It's proactive and bolder. ONLY THING IS: don't make it a big elaborate thing like dinner + movie. That's too much; you don't want to offer up "heavy" plans.
/r/seduction24/09/12 12:16 AM
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Like anything else, it works for some people, and not for others. You just have to feel out what works. I'm just sharing it with other guys, because it helped me tremendously. I used to be cripplingly shy, approaching girls at the bar. For me, because I've used it successfully a bunch of times (and by success, I mean getting a girl's initial attention), I'm even more confident when I use it, because it almost always works.
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:55 PM
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Well, it works most of the time for me :)
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:47 PM
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Better yet, here's my go-to icebreaker: go up to a girl, and say "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile." And if you deliver it with confidence, and a bit of a smile, she's going to start laughing and smile. And then you say "I KNEW IT!" Someone gave me this tip, and it works ALL THE TIME.
/r/seduction23/09/12 07:01 PM
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What did one tampon say to the other? NOTHING! They're both stuck up cunts.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:58 PM
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Yeah, don't ever give up too much, to one girl. As soon as a girl knows she has you, she'll get bored and move on. It's a very challenging delicate balance to display interest, AND disinterest. And as seemorehappy said, don't spend money on her. And, you know, maybe this girl just sucks. A lot of this pickup stuff is easier/makes more sense, with fun girls, who WANT to play the game. Cold women who want to control and manipulate, aren't worth your time. Shit dude, you live in NEW YORK CITY, do y…
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:55 PM
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Just wait a bit. Don't ever say too much, because you can never get that back. But, if you did, it's not hopeless; just wait a couple days, and then hit her up, something sweet, and not too intense. Another thing -- I just started getting into PUA stuff, but, your writing sounds like you are maybe being a bit too mechanical about this stuff. My advice is to study this stuff, but, make it your own; don't keep going back to the book. Get a feel for it, but be yourself. And one last thing -- if tha…
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:48 PM
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