Hey guys,

So, I met this girl a few months ago, through a mutual friend. She's hot, but modest -- foreign background, not too big of a head. Had enough fun back then that we became FB friends. Was just starting to get into PUA stuff then, and hadn't had my "AHA!" moment, where it started to click. Kinda wrote myself off, but there weren't any awkward moments.

Flash forward to about a month ago. I put a FB pic up of a backyard grill full off steak and veggies, and she commented on it (out of the blue) that it reminded her of her Dad's style, and she hadn't seen anyone do that. So I told her, "pick a night, I'll cook for you." (I've since learned, you tell her what night...just follow my story; it comes back later). She told me she was looking for apartments, and was stressing about moving (moving does suck, after all).

Over the month, she commented on another food pic, we traded small texts, nothing special.

Last weekend, I had an extra ticket to a concert of my favorite band, and I called her (having learned my lesson since). Said, "Hey, I'm really excited to see these guys, and I would love it if you came with me." Went home, took a nap. While I was asleep, she'd since called me back, and left me a voicemail that she was really happy that I asked her to go, but she had a friend in town. Whether or not you believe me or my words, just take my word for it, it was genuine.

I called her back on my way to the show; she answered immediately. So she said she really wanted to go, but had this friend in town and they were going out (it was a guy, but it sounded innocuous). Told me to join them later, but, it was waaaaaay on the other side of town, and, getting there was unrealistic. Talked for like 15 mins, she told me about her new apartment, and I told her about a trip I'm about to take, to Europe. She's moving closer to my part of town, but ironically, onto the same block as two live-in couples who are some of my best friends.

So that was all last Friday night. Today she posted on FB about needing "strong men to help her move stuff." I texted her I'd have loved to have helped her, but that I'll be out of town. Flirted with her a bit, saying she was strong enough and could do it on her own (total lies; she's super thin). I leave town this weekend and will be gone for two weeks. She's moving in the meanwhile.

What should I do? Just wait until I get back? Send a postcard?

Thanks!