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7

Yeah, use that anger and become Batman, like I did.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/26 03:00 AM
27

What they want changes like the seasons. If they can't commit to family, they had no business getting married and starting a family. I went through hell for her and the kids and I probably will until I'm dead, long after this divorce. That's what I get for being a committed, good man with good intentions.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/26 07:50 AM
6

She fucked up. Just stand back and let her keep making it worse. Document, stay 3 steps ahead, don't make a single bad move and listen to your lawyer. Any other dirt on her or if cps is involved, get that to your lawyer and don't let her know. This is going to be a long poker game. But if you're clean, sober and smart, could work out well for you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/26 07:44 AM
3

Or just do a legit divorce and leave, so they don't have to sneak around and lie to you anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/26 07:57 AM
2

They love security and old dick, man. What can ya do? Grandpa is waiting! 😅
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/26 11:46 PM
10

Yup. I got a gf who comes over after the ex takes the kids for a few days and fks the shit outta me on the inflatable mattress, which is all I could afford after moving out of the house the ex kept. We just cook, play videogames and fuck. Being single is awesome! 😅
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/26 09:46 PM
1

And/or, what their therapists say they deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/26 12:17 AM
2

Wth? That's nuts. Sounds illegal af.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 07:40 PM
1

Which is why you need your attorney to agree to an impartial mediator.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 07:34 PM
1

Yes. If marriages came with health warnings like cigarretes, nobody would do this shit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 07:19 PM
2

Give it time, get any dirt on her you can. You'll need all the leverage you can get. Bonus points for anything illegal she's done or is doing. Become a detective.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 07:01 PM
10

Yup. Looking back, she was just shopping for a benefits puppy and free slave labor. Never again.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 06:58 PM
1

Just more liars, cheaters and thieves out there, waiting to trap you again. No thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 05:20 PM
2

Push your lawyer for mediation. It'll skip the judge.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 04:44 PM
4

All I've learned from mine is what a waste everything is in this society. Good, bad, nobody gives a fuck about men. Why the fuck did I even try?
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 06:34 AM
1

Chances are likely pretty good once you figure out what she wants and leverage her for balance in mediation. Don't show all your cards though. Once they know your plans, they change goal posts to throw you off.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 01:41 AM
1

Her next step is to give you the axe once she finds someone for longer than short term. By then, she'll have the jump on you, possibly with a lawyer and a couple of nasty methods up her sleeve. You need a game plan now and to get three steps ahead of her while you file. She became your enemy once she decided to spread her legs and throw the whole family over her shoulder for her own desires. Remember, she could've done this cleanly and nicely, but she doesn't give a shit. Shots are fired.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 12:42 AM
1

She'll just lie to beat him to the punch for a divorce filing. Never show your cards too early.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 12:33 AM
2

Tell her to fk off, you're gf won't appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 11:27 PM
1

They get more attention now and zero attention in old age. Only they're pets and therapists will deal with their toxic asses at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 11:19 PM
11

Yeah, that was mine. Was trying to keep me on the hook for bills split, free health and childcare. Like naw, fk off. Pay your own shit, do your own chores bi#$@.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 11:15 PM
1

My discovery itself was like a full time job for the 3-4 weeks to get all the bs together. I'd rather eat a handful of broken glass than do that shit ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 07:28 AM
6

A viking funeral, man. Shit's over. That life is gone. Pour out a beer, cry your pitty out and get excited about your future. She robbed you of that old life. Don't let her have the rest of it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 07:03 AM
4

This society is shit and it just produces new generations of weaker, dumber and shittier people than the last one. I'm sorry, but you can even hear it in the god awful "music", see it in the instant, shitty food, the glp-1, instant quick fix for being a lazy ass instead of hard work that sticks. The old world is gone because the standards are gone. It feels like purgatory for the few good, quality people left with actual morals, standards, dedication and loyalty. I'm not even talking about me. I…
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 06:59 AM
10

Stay away from her, don't deal with her in person and record / document any time you are around her. I smell false dv incoming. They'll be baseless if you're not around though.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 05:15 AM
13

Cause women don't know what they want.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 05:10 AM
1

Because there's at least one person in every 2nd marriage that is unfixable or was too fkd up for any marriage to begin with.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 05:03 AM
1

Y'know, in a better world, I probably would be there for her, cause I'm a good person. But honestly, she fucked me up too much.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 12:21 AM
2

Yup. She can probably get endless disposable fucks, but no one's gonna put up with her shit, problems, issues or clean up after her anymore. I'll tell you that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 05:49 PM
1

Yup. Outside the kids, I don't even wanna look at this chick anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 07:18 AM
1

Good point.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 03:30 AM
9

Yeah, I was always the villain in her story, even though all I did was sacrifice and provide for the family. They hate seeing us happier without them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:34 AM
12

Good point. I moved out and she no longer had a slave to till the fields. SHE had to.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:30 AM
1

She crossed the line. The merrit is self defense and protecting you snd your kid's future now, rather than wait to see when she drops the axe on you. Whatever your plans are in moving forward, keep em to yourself. It's a poker game now. Leverage is the name of the game and you ned to be two or three steps ahead of her. Any dirt on her is gold. You're a detective now.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:25 AM
5

Whenever you want man. Just keep them at arm's length and never cohabitate or marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:20 AM
15

They never change back man. I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:09 AM
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Marry her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/26 12:45 AM
1

She's playing you for a fool. Lock your finances down, get 3 steps ahead of her and bounce before she makes you homeless. They can snap at any minute and who knows wtf will happen after that. The game is over and that's okay. The future is bright and beautiful.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 08:23 AM
7

Both middle fingers, every month.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 05:55 PM
1

When she keeps taking, using, abusing you and never gives back.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 05:35 AM
3

Detailed, daily schedule documentation, photographs of chores done, meals, play time, etc, monthly calendar of events screenshots... Also annotate when your stbxw is NOT present to help out, chooses to go out instead of kid time, doesn't meet you halfway, etc, etc. For every one thing she calls you out on, you need like 5 things on her to balance it out, since she has a vagina. Also, start collecting any dirt on her you can get. She's likely already doing that for you. Be stealthy though. You're…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 04:44 AM
2

She's just being a pain in the ass cause her life sucks now, even though she probably initiated and wanted this. Mine's doing similar shit. Bugging me endlessly on my time with the kids. Like, shouldn't you chasing new dick or something? Fuck off already. 😆
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 12:51 AM
1

Right. Once you find out, it's been months, maybe even years. They're great deceivers.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 06:54 AM
2

They never change back. Time to remove this cancer from your life. Good luck comrade.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 06:29 AM
1

She didn't feed you your cat, did she?
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 05:45 AM
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Don't let her win twice. You live a goid, simple, self gratifying life, so the next time she sees you, if she does, you're happily smiling, enjoying life. That's the best revenge and it'll grind her gears knowing that all the shit she said and did to you, means fuck all to you now. Celebrate. You're free!
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 08:56 PM
2

Forget dating. Help feed the hungry, the homeless, disabled, elderly, children, etc. Love is dead. Only the light of true morality in service to the needy continues to shine on.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 09:11 PM
3

Healing gets painkillers. The marriage, no.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 02:03 AM
10

"Healing" is scraping together enough motivation to build a sandwich, so you can keep living for the next day, to see what life in this society has in store for you next.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 12:18 AM
5

He's just the next unfortunate victim. Modern women treat men like Netflix movies. Ignore the b and have fun with your kids. They're all that matters now.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 02:52 PM
1

Meet somewhere neutral for pickup/drop offs or this will never end.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 12:42 AM
1

Can you just block the b and her idiot bfs? Try that out.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 09:02 PM
1

Quit drinking, dump that crazy ass b and get back on your boat, Captain Ahab!
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 11:10 PM
11

Their new relationships always start out great like that. Do you remember how yours and hers started? It's just a matter of time before your ex wife changes again, then the dude she's with now will go through the same shit you went through. And probably the rest of the next dude lineup. May be months, may be years, but women's changes, emotions, chemicals, desires, boredom, comes and goes like the seasons of the year. Inevitable. Which is why I don't understand why they think they want kids, mar…
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 01:10 AM
5

Focus on your kids, the fun with them, build your body, get a bicycle, go running, take walks, watch movies. Enjoy the simple things and the complicated things work themselves out later.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 05:45 PM
7

Why do you have to leave? Have you talked to a lawyer to see if she can pay you to leave? How long have you been married and lived there? What contributions of time, money or effort have you contributed to the family in your time there?
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 05:40 AM
13

They usually move on before you're even aware there's a serious problem. Have a little funeral in your head for your old life and reinvent yourself. She did you a favor. You deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 01:06 AM
5

Yes. Op has a prime opportunity to let her retarded lawyer march her right into a minefield of stupid, emotional decisions to get signed off in an MSA, if played calmly, cooly and passively.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 10:31 PM
7

Sounds about right. I'm sure there are some great women out there that could prove me wrong, but I don't think I'm willing to spend another decade trying to find one.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 02:29 AM
13

Now that I know that I live in a world with no trust, honor or morals, I feel like the only human being on fkn earth right now tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 02:21 AM
9

Wouldn't recommend it. If someone actually loves and cares about you, they won't need a legally binding contract where they get half of your life's work if it doesn't work out.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/26 12:57 AM
1

They spread sti's like the plague.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 07:33 AM
3

Don't let her win twice.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 10:09 PM
1

That's her fkng problem. If she can't care for your daughter, daughter should be with you. Document all this to show the court she can't teach your daughter how to read or feed her and she's shit with money. Might want to contact cps as well because that shit is neglect. If your wife drinks and parties, that's abuse. Document and report her ass. She wants to play ugly, you should too. While you're at it, go dig up any other old dirt on her you can. The best defense is a good offense.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 09:49 PM
1

She abused and ruined you. It's not your fault. What I've learned about life is this. Nobody gaf about you and what you value more than you. Self reliance is key. There's no trust, faith or love in adult relationships anymore. It's just convenience masked with smiling lies. That's it. And that's okay because before you met her, you were fine and you'll be fine again once this shit mess is over with. It's the natural order, balance and it's inevitable.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 06:20 AM
1

All the years of taking, closing doors, forcing change, never listening and never giving back. Zero compromise for years was torture. Looking back, I think just about anything is better than more of that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 03:06 AM
6

For me, the grieving process was more of a funeral. A funeral for the person I thought she was, and the person I thought I was. It all turns into smoke and mirrors for the kids over time. Which is why marriage is death. If someone truly loves you, they'll stick around. No need for a legally binding contract.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 08:49 PM
3

Document, get all the dirt on her lined up, let her March into court looking like an ass.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 10:06 AM
1

She only wanted back in cause she couldn't replace you as easy as she'd like. They never change. Time to move onward and upward.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 02:08 AM
1

She probably found some dirt on you for leverage cause she can and women are shitty like that. Get whatever you can on her to leverage back and evidence to defend yourself as well. The more illegal her fk-ups, the better.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 01:59 AM
13

When she spread her legs for some fkng randos and threw the whole family and our dream life over her shoulder for feelings. Afterwards, it will be bliss.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 08:12 AM
7

Once they confess to something, they've usually been doing it for a long time. The guilt cracked her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 09:34 AM
0

And now the world has changed, so since we've been held in captivity all these years, getting released back into the wild is like a social death sentence. People are shit. Everything's a waste. Love, trust and commitment are myths, fables, wive's tales.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:28 AM
1

Those types of people are unpleasable. They need to just stay single and leave the rest of us, who can actually commit to the marriage and family tf alone.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:19 AM
0

Not true. I just had both and I'm fine.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 09:25 PM
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Or, you can unclench a little and relax dude. It's just reddit. Not your taco bell order.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 09:21 PM
-4

Welcome! I'm available. What do you do for fun? What are you passionate about?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 09:12 PM
10

The best revenge is living a happy life. Let karma take of her. Enjoy!
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 09:09 PM
2

That's great to hear. Gym is where I go to purify my body, soul and commune with God.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 11:20 PM
10

Oh good. You got easy mode then. First, you need you realize that she stopped giving a shit about you long before you realized and this happened. Women treat even the best of good men like Kleenex. They use em, fold em half a couple times, use em and use em again until they're falling apart, then discard them for a new one or a box of new ones. Whichever they desire. Next, give up trying to make sense of it. You could spend months, years, decades trying to figure it out. It'll never make sense b…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 11:16 PM
2

How old are you and are kids involved?
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 10:55 PM
1

See if you can get CPS involved. Get all your evidence lined up. Facts are powerful and child endangerment is a big deal.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 05:36 AM
1

Have your lawyer get a mediator and push for a date. If it falls through, court. Let the judge slice and dice shit up.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 05:15 AM
1

Welcome new fendo!
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 08:10 PM
1

Yes. Fear of being homeless and destitute due to another divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 02:00 AM
8

She should've stayed single then. She can " never ask" endless lines of pump and dump dudes and leave you alone.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 10:24 PM
6

Juice aint worth the squeeze. I'd rather do yard work and exercise than chase electronic whores all day.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:33 PM
1

She was already shit. I just didn't see it in time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:31 PM
8

Hell yeah. Fuck her. There's a special place in hell for those dumbasses. Ruining good men should be a fkng felony offense. First beer's on me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:28 PM
1

Take a picture of his face. Print it out, cut it out, make it into a mask and wear it when you pick up the kids. He'll punch you. He goes to jail.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:07 PM
4

What's the difference between "romance" and con-artistry at this point?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:04 PM
2

Using the same, nasty old, greasy controller.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:03 PM
3

It's such a fkng exhausting mess and I can't wait to never do this shit ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:00 PM
3

You got lucky. Most of us lose limbs in the trenches. There's no option to maybe go playing out in a minefield again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:55 PM
2

Exactly. When I look back, I don't even know what I was thinking trusting someone who gets their advice from facebook, with basically my life, happiness and well-being. Would've been more convenient to just gradually saw my own leg off over the years.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:51 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:47 PM
5

She never stops being a headache. Only gets smarter about hiding it from the next dumbasses. But after a certain age, they can't hide that shit anymore. It's all on display. Just have to step back and observe the limp.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:41 PM
6

It's too much song and dance bs when you already know how it ends. They get bored, your life turns to shit, you're broke again, have to start over. Naw I'm good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:39 PM
1

Why bother when it all collapses everytime someone else changes their mind?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:36 PM
3

Or I've learned the truth about society and I won't forget this time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:35 PM
6

I'm sure its fun, but I'm not a fan of walking, talking, std compilations.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:42 PM
1

Sure it does. I don't need anybody to justify my existence.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:40 PM
3

We're only leftovers if we're serving ourselves to others. I'm not playing that shit no more. Let the rats eat eachother.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:38 PM
1

Well, on the bright side, at least it's over man. If it wasn't her, it would've been some other nut job. Maybe you're lucky. It could've been worse.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 08:56 PM
1

Just tell em you're happily married, have kids and a house. Instant fuck magnet.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 08:38 PM
9

Those people should never even consider marriage or having children. They don't deserve to get past dating.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 05:30 PM
2

It was a lie for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 03:02 AM
1

Have you tried pickle ball meetups by chance?
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 02:32 AM
1

Pickle ball
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 02:29 AM
5

It's because real trust and relationships was always a lie. By this age, everyone finds out. All there is now is convenience, consumerism, extortion and entertainment. Faith, loyalty, devotion and trust all died in the 50's and 60's.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 02:25 AM
12

There's no good spouses because they all change. Then they end up bitter, old cat ladies, sitting by a window, hating all men forever.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 10:08 PM
4

Marriage is death. Love and loyalty are lie$.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 09:44 PM
2

A "good man" to a woman, is a useful "yes" puppy. Be a good simp or face the consequences.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 05:28 PM
5

Every 10 years it seems.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 05:24 PM
7

Be glad she's leaving and you have no kids with her. Sounds like heaven compared to my shit.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 02:42 AM
6

It's simple. This society is shit and it produces shit people who don't gaf about anything or anyone anymore. The best thing we can do is be better people and lock em out. Let all those vermin eat eachother. Fuck em. We don't need em.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 07:00 PM
6

Let it collapse. Marriage needs to go extinct.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 05:27 PM
3

If this shit keeps up, things will only get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 04:28 AM
6

She's gorgeous. Lemme at her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:58 PM
1

👆👆👆
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:57 PM
2

And too often, they divorce as a career choice because the lopsided rules cater to them, not men. Definitely a women thing.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 04:37 PM
1

My condolences. The person you married is dead and gone. You move on by having a little funeral for them, poor out a swig of beer, cry yourself to sleep a couple of nights, whatever you gotta do. Then, the next day, delete that ass. Tik-tik, bye-bye.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 06:18 AM
9

All that needs to be understood is that they're selfish psychopaths who's thoughts, feelings and actions will never make sense. Your hard work, faith, loyalty, boxes checked, financial stability, kids, house, cars, American Dream lifestyle. Nothing means shit to them once the switch has been flipped. Badeep-badeep-bapeed! That's all folks!
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 06:04 AM
1

Why not have your own celebrations for them?
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 05:29 AM
1

I'm working on a psychological horror novel based around my life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 03:07 AM
8

No. There is no love. Only pr marketing campaign bullshit and convenience.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 07:28 PM
4

You don't. It's a tactical war now. You just have to know how to avoid the minefield and let her walk into it instead.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 08:03 PM
4

All the fit ones are married, which means they're highly available for whatever needs you or any other men desire. Ask me how I know.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 07:58 PM
1

I just sit there, moaning at the sky.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 05:59 PM
1

Personally, I'm waiting til my 60s or 70s to date. The dating pool of people with nothing to lose.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 01:46 AM
1

You don't need things to get "better" to enjoy something in life, man. We may be "dead" to the world, but the world is not dead to us.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 01:40 AM
1

The only really nice thing I think is sex, but with the amount of effort it takes to wine and dine the shit, I could just rub one out and be done in 5 minutes and save the exhaustion, funds and emotional rollercoaster, drama bs. I don't have the patience anymore for these silly ass games.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 07:17 PM
9

Honestly, I think there's just something that breaks in the minds of these people and the only way they can move forward with a smile on their faces in their lives is to blame the one person who's actually and ironically there consistently. Their husband. No matter how much you provided, work you did, boxes checked, pleasure given. Even if you did absolutely nothing wrong, they need a "villain" in the story and it can't be them or their reality construct collapses. I used to joke (but was seriou…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 04:21 AM
1

They know if they're not liked by the client, bye bye $.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 07:06 PM
1

Just start a new life and fuck all those idiots. The future can be whatever you want.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 07:02 PM
2

They all start awesome and end in a big poop pile.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:52 PM
3

When they check out, it doesn't matter what you do. You can check all her boxes or do nothing. It'll end the same way.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:44 PM
4

I feel future relationships pretty much are a waste of time. There won't be marriage, house, kids, financial sharing, probably even sufficient trust fromhere on out, sooo, what the fuck is the point?
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:41 PM
5

When I need a reminder things will be fine, I watch "300". "This is Spartaaa!!"
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:29 PM
1

Yeah. If they can't stick it out with you when there's kids and a house, what makes them think they can stick it out with some randos cause they're "fun" or "get them" for now?
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:28 PM
3

They keep everything a secret because they're not sure if the new shit will collapse or not yet. You're the safety net until they're absolutely sure that they can survive without you or when they give zero fucks anymore. Whichever happens first. This is with or without kids and / or American Dream lifestyle because they're selfish psychopaths with no morals, loyalty or foresight.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:25 PM
8

I wouldn't be surprised if her therapist is like a facebook friend, egging her on, men bad, "you're being abused", "he's a narcissist" bullshit. That what my stbxw's was telling her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:02 PM
4

How can we filter them out when their true selves don't appear until post marriage, kids, house?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 01:28 PM
1

Hell yeah. Getting my popcorn.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 06:53 AM
20

They always do that shit. Must be fucking exhausting having to be a walking tv commercial every new relationship just to hook some companionship.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 06:32 AM
1

Yes. It's sad. I can't even be mad now cause I know what he's in for. Nevermind the cleaning up after her, the everything that revolves her and her constant issues. Nevermind all the cardboard boxes he'll have to breakdown cause she's lazy ass shit. Only a matter of time before she gets bored and spreads for the next, new attention dispenser.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 05:57 AM
1

What's your opinion on selling a house that's "under water"? Should I look into getting a loan to cover the difference and sell to a realty investor? They're similar to the cash buyer types.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 03:22 AM
0

They all start awesome and end in a big poop pile.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 03:10 AM
0

Exit plan, now. When the sex stops, it starts for someone else. Maybe 1, maybe 10. Doesn't matter cause it's over. The financials are the last thing you'll notice collapsing until you file, then the rest of the iceberg surfaces. Plan ahead, stay 2 steps ahead of her, secure your valuables, play dumb, act stupid and give her enough rope to h@ng herself. Never fails. You are now a detective, a security guard for your kids, a paralegal, an academy award winning actor. Also, trust no one. Act like y…
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 12:44 AM
4

It's not you. They all do that. If you don't have kids, gtfo of there and reclaim your manhood.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/26 03:14 AM
5

Stay away from her as much as possible. Get out when you can. Burn your frustration out on long walks, runs, gym, cycling, whatever you can. Never engage in person.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:49 AM
3

What also helps me is watching kids play in the park. I just go for walks and chill and watch happy kids playing and enjoying the simplicity of a playground. It reminds me that life is beautiful for someone and it goes on. Just like it always has.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:45 AM
8

You gotta let all that "die off" with your old self. Just like who you thought she was, it's over. It's gone. Like a snake sheds It's skin, the real you needs to shed all of that old life, which includes who you used to be and all the negativity and disappointment. I've been poor, homeless, eaten out of dumpsters, but I'm still here man. Seeing the beauty and purity of the world, even though I have no one. You can do this. If for no one else, help some people who have no choice, like children, d…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:34 AM
1

Quit drinking, smoking, become a saint and document any folly she makes. Get any old dirt on her you can. That's what she'll be doing. Try and stay at least 2 steps ahead of her and this process. Research. Think before you act. Stay calm and chive on.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 06:09 PM
7

They never change. Pedal to the metal.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:53 AM
0

Tight f me pants, heels, glp-1 fake ass body to match the fake ass narc, tv commercial smile to sell to endless shitheads while the looks hold up = self worth / value on the pre-40's meat market.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:41 AM
1

It's me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 01:56 AM
7

Keep looking like a carrot on the end of a string until mediation. Then let the trap snap.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 05:35 PM
1

Tell him get ready be locked up again if you see him.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 03:48 AM
-2

At least she said something. Most of em just lie, cheat and rob you with a big smile, fake "love" and silence until you find out years later they've been spreading their legs for randos online.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 09:51 PM
2

It is me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:46 PM
3

Once you know the truth about people, how they function and where it goes, there's no going back.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 05:48 PM
1

Boycott marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 03:36 PM
9

The tv shows and audio books got them excited, their therapists and facebook friends sealed the deal. For the record, people that fragile and susceptible have no business getting married and having kids.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 06:36 PM
2

This. One of them even baked me cookies and gave me a massage.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:13 AM
1

👏👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:51 PM
1

It's me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:49 PM
1

Seems like they all do. Scary shit.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 02:55 AM
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