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2

Yup. She can probably get endless disposable fucks, but no one's gonna put up with her shit, problems, issues or clean up after her anymore. I'll tell you that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 05:49 PM
9

Yeah, I was always the villain in her story, even though all I did was sacrifice and provide for the family. They hate seeing us happier without them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:34 AM
12

Good point. I moved out and she no longer had a slave to till the fields. SHE had to.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:30 AM
5

Whenever you want man. Just keep them at arm's length and never cohabitate or marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:20 AM
15

They never change back man. I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:09 AM
3

Detailed, daily schedule documentation, photographs of chores done, meals, play time, etc, monthly calendar of events screenshots... Also annotate when your stbxw is NOT present to help out, chooses to go out instead of kid time, doesn't meet you halfway, etc, etc. For every one thing she calls you out on, you need like 5 things on her to balance it out, since she has a vagina. Also, start collecting any dirt on her you can get. She's likely already doing that for you. Be stealthy though. You're…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 04:44 AM
2

She's just being a pain in the ass cause her life sucks now, even though she probably initiated and wanted this. Mine's doing similar shit. Bugging me endlessly on my time with the kids. Like, shouldn't you chasing new dick or something? Fuck off already. 😆
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 12:51 AM
2

They never change back. Time to remove this cancer from your life. Good luck comrade.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 06:29 AM
2

Forget dating. Help feed the hungry, the homeless, disabled, elderly, children, etc. Love is dead. Only the light of true morality in service to the needy continues to shine on.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 09:11 PM
3

Healing gets painkillers. The marriage, no.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 02:03 AM
10

"Healing" is scraping together enough motivation to build a sandwich, so you can keep living for the next day, to see what life in this society has in store for you next.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 12:18 AM
5

He's just the next unfortunate victim. Modern women treat men like Netflix movies. Ignore the b and have fun with your kids. They're all that matters now.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 02:52 PM
1

Meet somewhere neutral for pickup/drop offs or this will never end.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 12:42 AM
11

Their new relationships always start out great like that. Do you remember how yours and hers started? It's just a matter of time before your ex wife changes again, then the dude she's with now will go through the same shit you went through. And probably the rest of the next dude lineup. May be months, may be years, but women's changes, emotions, chemicals, desires, boredom, comes and goes like the seasons of the year. Inevitable. Which is why I don't understand why they think they want kids, mar…
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 01:10 AM
5

Focus on your kids, the fun with them, build your body, get a bicycle, go running, take walks, watch movies. Enjoy the simple things and the complicated things work themselves out later.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 05:45 PM
7

Why do you have to leave? Have you talked to a lawyer to see if she can pay you to leave? How long have you been married and lived there? What contributions of time, money or effort have you contributed to the family in your time there?
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 05:40 AM
13

They usually move on before you're even aware there's a serious problem. Have a little funeral in your head for your old life and reinvent yourself. She did you a favor. You deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 01:06 AM
5

Yes. Op has a prime opportunity to let her retarded lawyer march her right into a minefield of stupid, emotional decisions to get signed off in an MSA, if played calmly, cooly and passively.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 10:31 PM
7

Sounds about right. I'm sure there are some great women out there that could prove me wrong, but I don't think I'm willing to spend another decade trying to find one.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 02:29 AM
13

Now that I know that I live in a world with no trust, honor or morals, I feel like the only human being on fkn earth right now tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 02:21 AM
9

Wouldn't recommend it. If someone actually loves and cares about you, they won't need a legally binding contract where they get half of your life's work if it doesn't work out.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/26 12:57 AM
3

Don't let her win twice.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 10:09 PM
1

That's her fkng problem. If she can't care for your daughter, daughter should be with you. Document all this to show the court she can't teach your daughter how to read or feed her and she's shit with money. Might want to contact cps as well because that shit is neglect. If your wife drinks and parties, that's abuse. Document and report her ass. She wants to play ugly, you should too. While you're at it, go dig up any other old dirt on her you can. The best defense is a good offense.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 09:49 PM
1

She abused and ruined you. It's not your fault. What I've learned about life is this. Nobody gaf about you and what you value more than you. Self reliance is key. There's no trust, faith or love in adult relationships anymore. It's just convenience masked with smiling lies. That's it. And that's okay because before you met her, you were fine and you'll be fine again once this shit mess is over with. It's the natural order, balance and it's inevitable.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 06:20 AM
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For me, the grieving process was more of a funeral. A funeral for the person I thought she was, and the person I thought I was. It all turns into smoke and mirrors for the kids over time. Which is why marriage is death. If someone truly loves you, they'll stick around. No need for a legally binding contract.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 08:49 PM
3

Document, get all the dirt on her lined up, let her March into court looking like an ass.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 10:06 AM
1

She only wanted back in cause she couldn't replace you as easy as she'd like. They never change. Time to move onward and upward.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 02:08 AM
13

When she spread her legs for some fkng randos and threw the whole family and our dream life over her shoulder for feelings. Afterwards, it will be bliss.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 08:12 AM
7

Once they confess to something, they've usually been doing it for a long time. The guilt cracked her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 09:34 AM
10

The best revenge is living a happy life. Let karma take of her. Enjoy!
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 09:09 PM
2

That's great to hear. Gym is where I go to purify my body, soul and commune with God.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 11:20 PM
10

Oh good. You got easy mode then. First, you need you realize that she stopped giving a shit about you long before you realized and this happened. Women treat even the best of good men like Kleenex. They use em, fold em half a couple times, use em and use em again until they're falling apart, then discard them for a new one or a box of new ones. Whichever they desire. Next, give up trying to make sense of it. You could spend months, years, decades trying to figure it out. It'll never make sense b…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 11:16 PM
2

How old are you and are kids involved?
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 10:55 PM
1

Welcome new fendo!
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 08:10 PM
1

Yes. Fear of being homeless and destitute due to another divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 02:00 AM
8

She should've stayed single then. She can " never ask" endless lines of pump and dump dudes and leave you alone.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 10:24 PM
6

Juice aint worth the squeeze. I'd rather do yard work and exercise than chase electronic whores all day.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:33 PM
1

She was already shit. I just didn't see it in time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:31 PM
4

What's the difference between "romance" and con-artistry at this point?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:04 PM
2

Using the same, nasty old, greasy controller.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:03 PM
3

It's such a fkng exhausting mess and I can't wait to never do this shit ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:00 PM
3

You got lucky. Most of us lose limbs in the trenches. There's no option to maybe go playing out in a minefield again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:55 PM
2

Exactly. When I look back, I don't even know what I was thinking trusting someone who gets their advice from facebook, with basically my life, happiness and well-being. Would've been more convenient to just gradually saw my own leg off over the years.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:51 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:47 PM
5

She never stops being a headache. Only gets smarter about hiding it from the next dumbasses. But after a certain age, they can't hide that shit anymore. It's all on display. Just have to step back and observe the limp.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:41 PM
6

It's too much song and dance bs when you already know how it ends. They get bored, your life turns to shit, you're broke again, have to start over. Naw I'm good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:39 PM
1

Why bother when it all collapses everytime someone else changes their mind?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:36 PM
3

Or I've learned the truth about society and I won't forget this time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:35 PM
6

I'm sure its fun, but I'm not a fan of walking, talking, std compilations.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:42 PM
1

Sure it does. I don't need anybody to justify my existence.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:40 PM
3

We're only leftovers if we're serving ourselves to others. I'm not playing that shit no more. Let the rats eat eachother.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 07:38 PM
9

Those people should never even consider marriage or having children. They don't deserve to get past dating.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 05:30 PM
2

It was a lie for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 03:02 AM
5

It's because real trust and relationships was always a lie. By this age, everyone finds out. All there is now is convenience, consumerism, extortion and entertainment. Faith, loyalty, devotion and trust all died in the 50's and 60's.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 02:25 AM
12

There's no good spouses because they all change. Then they end up bitter, old cat ladies, sitting by a window, hating all men forever.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 10:08 PM
4

Marriage is death. Love and loyalty are lie$.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 09:44 PM
2

A "good man" to a woman, is a useful "yes" puppy. Be a good simp or face the consequences.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 05:28 PM
5

Every 10 years it seems.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 05:24 PM
7

Be glad she's leaving and you have no kids with her. Sounds like heaven compared to my shit.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 02:42 AM
6

It's simple. This society is shit and it produces shit people who don't gaf about anything or anyone anymore. The best thing we can do is be better people and lock em out. Let all those vermin eat eachother. Fuck em. We don't need em.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 07:00 PM
6

Let it collapse. Marriage needs to go extinct.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 05:27 PM
3

If this shit keeps up, things will only get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 04:28 AM
6

She's gorgeous. Lemme at her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:58 PM
1

👆👆👆
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:57 PM
2

And too often, they divorce as a career choice because the lopsided rules cater to them, not men. Definitely a women thing.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 04:37 PM
1

My condolences. The person you married is dead and gone. You move on by having a little funeral for them, poor out a swig of beer, cry yourself to sleep a couple of nights, whatever you gotta do. Then, the next day, delete that ass. Tik-tik, bye-bye.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 06:18 AM
8

No. There is no love. Only pr marketing campaign bullshit and convenience.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 07:28 PM
4

You don't. It's a tactical war now. You just have to know how to avoid the minefield and let her walk into it instead.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 08:03 PM
4

All the fit ones are married, which means they're highly available for whatever needs you or any other men desire. Ask me how I know.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 07:58 PM
9

Honestly, I think there's just something that breaks in the minds of these people and the only way they can move forward with a smile on their faces in their lives is to blame the one person who's actually and ironically there consistently. Their husband. No matter how much you provided, work you did, boxes checked, pleasure given. Even if you did absolutely nothing wrong, they need a "villain" in the story and it can't be them or their reality construct collapses. I used to joke (but was seriou…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 04:21 AM
2

They all start awesome and end in a big poop pile.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:52 PM
5

When I need a reminder things will be fine, I watch "300". "This is Spartaaa!!"
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:29 PM
3

They keep everything a secret because they're not sure if the new shit will collapse or not yet. You're the safety net until they're absolutely sure that they can survive without you or when they give zero fucks anymore. Whichever happens first. This is with or without kids and / or American Dream lifestyle because they're selfish psychopaths with no morals, loyalty or foresight.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:25 PM
8

I wouldn't be surprised if her therapist is like a facebook friend, egging her on, men bad, "you're being abused", "he's a narcissist" bullshit. That what my stbxw's was telling her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:02 PM
4

How can we filter them out when their true selves don't appear until post marriage, kids, house?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 01:28 PM
20

They always do that shit. Must be fucking exhausting having to be a walking tv commercial every new relationship just to hook some companionship.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 06:32 AM
4

It's not you. They all do that. If you don't have kids, gtfo of there and reclaim your manhood.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/26 03:14 AM
5

Stay away from her as much as possible. Get out when you can. Burn your frustration out on long walks, runs, gym, cycling, whatever you can. Never engage in person.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:49 AM
3

What also helps me is watching kids play in the park. I just go for walks and chill and watch happy kids playing and enjoying the simplicity of a playground. It reminds me that life is beautiful for someone and it goes on. Just like it always has.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:45 AM
8

You gotta let all that "die off" with your old self. Just like who you thought she was, it's over. It's gone. Like a snake sheds It's skin, the real you needs to shed all of that old life, which includes who you used to be and all the negativity and disappointment. I've been poor, homeless, eaten out of dumpsters, but I'm still here man. Seeing the beauty and purity of the world, even though I have no one. You can do this. If for no one else, help some people who have no choice, like children, d…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:34 AM
7

They never change. Pedal to the metal.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:53 AM
1

It's me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 01:56 AM
7

Keep looking like a carrot on the end of a string until mediation. Then let the trap snap.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 05:35 PM
2

It is me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:46 PM
3

Once you know the truth about people, how they function and where it goes, there's no going back.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 05:48 PM
9

The tv shows and audio books got them excited, their therapists and facebook friends sealed the deal. For the record, people that fragile and susceptible have no business getting married and having kids.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 06:36 PM
2

This. One of them even baked me cookies and gave me a massage.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:13 AM
1

👏👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:51 PM
1

It's me, new fend!
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:49 PM
1

Seems like they all do. Scary shit.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 02:55 AM
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