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Cool :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:44 PM
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Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:35 AM
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I would love that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:35 AM
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Just between you and me I fucking hate friends. I know I am a bit unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:31 AM
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Your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:40 AM
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The funny thing is I do not even play video games. I gave them up after high school. Figured I wanted to put all of my focus on a romantic relationship lol. I am kind of looking forward to get back into gaming :) Music maybe 6 to 8 hours. Porn, well if I am masterbating or whatever and getting off multiple times in a day I would guess like an hour maybe? I mean I only use it for one purpose. I remember like a year or two ago someone made a joke about movies. They just wrote "That movies are like…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:18 AM
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I guess I agree with that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:49 PM
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Sorry. Look I am probably just a day or two away from deleting reddit and shutting myself off from the world as much as possible. I am trying to have a little fun before I lock myself away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:48 PM
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I am not trying to be rude. I guess I know what it is like to endlessly have people endlessly dismiss your concerns and just suggest you should go to therapy. I am not sure I believe we should do that. Probably just giving someone a hug right then and there would be far more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:47 PM
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Funny I was thinking earlier today how many therapists I have seen for at least multiple sessions. I think I would have to put the number somewhere between 15 and 20. I have spent many many years in therapy. I know exactly what goes on at therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:37 PM
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Fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:33 PM
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In my experience the performance people give when they are on camera, have the potential to be on camera, or can smell a camera within a few miles has nothing to do with reality. And it certainly is in no way a reflection of a person's day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:32 PM
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That is awesome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:29 PM
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Believe me, the last thing in the world I expect is a relationship. Yet I desire a relationship just like everyone else. I am very very lonely :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:27 PM
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I went to many years of therapy. Even a couple of therapist metaphorically threw ther hands up and said we cannot help you get into a relationship. And the biggest thing I needed in my life was a relationship. I spent many years in therapy. I really do not know what therapy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:25 PM
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Not even close in my case :( I am as clueless as they come when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:05 PM
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No one has ever expressed an interest in me. I know who I am :( But if someone does I will 100% always remain open :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:00 PM
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In my experience people put more skin in the game when it comes to a relationships. The only and I mean only way I can interact with people long term is if they care about my emotional, physical, and spiritual well being. Perhaps you have experience different types of friendships (if so I am certainly envious) but none of the brief friendships I have encountered involved those things I have zero interest in dating someone who is not supportive, kind and caring to me. I rather be dateless for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:58 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:55 PM
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I plan less on focusing and more on distracting myself forever :) Hello weed, video games, porn, and music. I fully intend on discovering how much pleasure these four things can give a man over the course of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:53 PM
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That is awesome :) Thank you so very much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:51 PM
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I will be honest with you. I do not know what human connection is and I do not believe in it anymore. To all the other people out there who still want connection and feel they can connect with someone- I am slightly jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:49 PM
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I won't argue with that :) thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:47 PM
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Maybe this will end up being a break. I am not sure. The truth is I have tried breaks before. I have such a hard time dating I have spent two years trying to date and got the exact same number of dates as when I was 33 and 34 and I was 100% taking a break from dating- zero dates :( To be honest it all pretty much looks and feels the same whether I a trying or taking a break. What I have not tried while taking a break is to change my lifestyle and my activities. I am going to try that this time :…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:47 PM
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Because it is the only type of relationship I have wanted to be in for the past dozen years. I have not desired a friend in about 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:43 PM
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Thanks, I know you are just being kind and helpful. And it is appreciated. But I no longer think I have the energy or perhaps even the desire for a real relationship anymore. I want to start taking the concrete steps that will help me be happy and content even if I am single for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:42 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:06 PM
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Maybe. I can only speak for myself. I am not sure I have ever made real human connections with people. I have 100% given up on trying for that. If other autistic people still believe they can make genuine human connections- then God bless them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:05 PM
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I only know I cannot be picky at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:02 PM
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It is funny. I literally have zero clue where the idea that you should not go looking for a relationship comes from. In my experience absolutely nothing could be less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:52 PM
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I will admit I sometimes wonder if I could be happy in a relationship with someone who does not speak very much. Obviously she would be intelligent and caring. But not super verbal. I actually went out in grad school with a classmate who was a bit like that. She was a very kind person. Probably way too good for me. I imagine very few people (including me) understood her. We actually went on two dates. She was the first person to ever go on a second date with me :) Looking back I wonder if we cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:50 PM
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Rereading your question I would say no matter what a person should at least be thirty (I think they should try longer than tha but to me 30 years old and ten or more years of trying is probably enough to know. In my 18 or so years of really really trying my grand total of dates has been 8. I have been on six first dates in my life, and I have been on two second dates in my life. My last real date was in 2017. I think it was time for me to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:43 PM
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I would say from when the person starts trying to date and get into a relationship. Later this month is the 20th anniversary of me graduating from high school. Perhaps that is why I am thinking in decades. A very solid argument could be made that I really did no start trying to date (asking women out in person, God wasn't always a disaster) until I was 20. So perhaps I am cutting myself short by two years. I guess at least to me the writing has long been on the wall :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:40 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:13 PM
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Thank you so very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:13 PM
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Just extremely lonely here on my end. This seems to help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:06 PM
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Thanks. At least for the time being I am 100% done with trying to get into a relationship. Thank you so very much for sharing all that. I would never critique someone who does keep trying. I can only give my point of view on the issue. Thank you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:04 PM
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I do not consider my autism to be a disability. I am not sure how others feel. I am not trying to be unkind. I just thought I would stand up for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:02 PM
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I do think that is a totally fair and valid point. The question of why does it have to be all or nothing is probably the smart first question. I can only answer from my own perspective. I have had extreme issues with lonliness my entire adult life. My desire for a relationship only made my lonliness that much worse. Lonliness almost ended me a couple of times. I have struggled immensely with lonliness for so long. And I realized I needed to get rid of my desire for a relationship in order to fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:47 PM
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I can't argue with that. I guess that is one reason I never give advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:43 PM
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I do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:40 PM
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Cool but I find you dull
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:27 AM
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Fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:22 AM
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Cool :) but the only one I am interested is a romantic relationship. I am not interested in platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:15 AM
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Are you asking me? I guess stick to online and dating apps like me :) Loke take me. I love music with ever fiber of my being. I listen to it more hours than I am awake than I am not. That said I do not attend concerts. And I do not know how to talk about music with people. Like people will sometimes ask me what genre I like. And that is tough for me since I do not know how people talk about music.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:13 AM
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Thanks I agree people have been kind to me. I am super grateful :) Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:10 AM
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Maybe :) I will be honest people never seem to happy when I attend things I think I am better of hanging out with people one on one. Like I said I really struggle with group activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:04 AM
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I would be open to it :) But I doubt anyone would ever invite me to one. People do not normally like me that much and prefer I avoid them socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:31 AM
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I do ok one on one with people. I struggle socially in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:45 PM
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Thanks. But it is tough online. And lord knows nobody gives you any sympathy. But it is all I have to work with :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:14 PM
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Thanks. It seems like I have to stick with online only. It just has not worked in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:01 PM
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To be fair I am not into those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:01 PM
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I don't interact with people really. It normally does not go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:00 PM
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I am too shy and awkward to go to events like that. I have to stick with online I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:00 PM
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Cool. I wish women had alottle interest in me online. They do not seem to :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:58 PM
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Thanks. I think I am mostly looking to just date. I might stick to the apps. Meeting person is too difficult for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:57 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:56 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:55 PM
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I honestly do not know what a pill color means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:55 PM
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Cool :) But to be fair I am not into anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:51 PM
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Thanks I guess I am happy to date anyone :) It is hard finding someone who wants to date me though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:51 PM
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Thank you :) I sort of agree with you. But people online think it is impossible to meet anyone online. I am honestly not sure. I am rather confused though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:49 PM
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Thanks :) I have a lot of interest and hobbies. I am a very busy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:48 PM
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What do you mean? I live with my parents and have zero friends. I am not a social person at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:53 PM
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Cool :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:53 PM
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I have been on six first dates in my life. Two second dates. And zero third dates. I have not been on a date since 2017
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:51 PM
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I just struggle so very much in social settings. I do ok in one on one social settings though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:49 PM
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To be honest I really really struggle in group settings. I a much better with people one on one. Three or more and I become a social disaster. I guess thay is my concern. I do not know of any social activity where I could shine at. I really only work well with people one on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:47 PM
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I guess another way to look at it is this. I am only built for maybe 1% of people. For everyone else I am far too much. Is it worth it for me to try and meet dates in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:46 PM
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I feel depressed asking stuff like this. You seem nice and I know you are just being helpful. But man socially I am a mess. I don't see any of that working for me. Socially I just do not mesh well with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:40 PM
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Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:36 PM
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Thank you so much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:45 PM
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I have not been on a real date since 2017 :) I am not sure I go for anyone right now lol. But I get what you are saying. I mean I certainly do not mind being used for a free meal out. I am used to paying a lot more for a date. So just paying for the cost of a meal is a dream date. I am happy to do simpler first dates. But honestly my confidence is already a bit low. My confidence in my abilities to want to get coffee or go for a walk with me us quite low right now. Although I would love it. Lunc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:06 PM
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I am not sure. Usually first dates to me involve a lunch or a dinner out somewhere. Maybe it is a bit much for a first date. But I have to be honest I like the commitment it takes for someone to agree to an actual meal with me I honestly am not sure I trust a first date enough to just get coffee or go to a park or something. I am far too worried she would just not like me and walk off. I admit I have a bit of a fear of liking someone and them hating me and just walking off. I guess I like knowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:17 AM
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I agree :) Thank you so very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:37 PM
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I will do exactly that this evening. I think someone else recommended Feeld. I will look it up this evening :) thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:37 PM
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I am pretty open and up front with everyone that I am not looking to have kids or start a family. Thanks, it is a great point :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:32 PM
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These are all very fair questions. Thankfully West Virginia has cheap property taxes. That said no. I will not be able to afford and maintain the house on my own one my parents are passes. Which means I can either sell it. Have friends move in with me to help afford the expenses. Have a girlfriend/wife help me afford it. Between my girlfriend/wife and maybe another couple be able to afford it. I am open to any of the above. But who know what the future may bring :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:04 PM
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I already partially own the house :) I guess you could say my goal is to keep owning and living in the house I live in:) I love it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:34 PM
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I have autism. A 20 year old can take care of themselves :) It more just means I have different priorities than most people. I centre my life around having fun and relaxing. But I am very responsible and conservative. So I make sure my lifestyle is sustainable and ethical :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:43 AM
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That is totally fine :) I am just not interested in any of those things :) I get that they are great for others, but they are not for me. Thank you so very much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:39 AM
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I have a small trust fund and the house I live in now is already in my name :) So I will inherent that at the very least:)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:37 AM
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:) Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:35 AM
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For starters I think I offer things, a perspective, a worldview and a personal history that is completly unique. No one else in the world speaks loke me, no one else in the world thinks like me. I think there is really value in that alone. Also I am willing to work very hard on a relationship. I am willing to be very commited. I know any relationship involves a great deal of sacrifice and compromise. I am willing to do both within reason. I am willing to work hard to learn how my partner communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:34 AM
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That is great :) I am just looking for the right person. I know she will be hard to find. So if I have to look that much longer thay is totally fine. Thank you so much for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:16 AM
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That is totally fine :) I guess it should go without saying; but, obviously I only want to dae women who want to date me :) Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:13 AM
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I understand that. I guess we are both looking for different things. And that is totally fine :) Thank you so much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:12 AM
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I already have a house in West Virginia. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:06 AM
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To be honest not really. As an adult I have both lived alone. And with others. I have much come to much prefer living with others :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:05 AM
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I am just grateful everyone was kind enough to read and to share :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:09 PM
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Seriously? I mean a date might cost me 100 to 150 dollars. I can afford that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:05 PM
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I will be honest. To me everyone has been super polite and understanding. I realize I a not made for everyone. Just as they are not made for me. And that is totally fine. I think everyone has been extremely kind if I am honest :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:45 PM
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I will do my absolute best :) Thank you so very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:37 PM
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I get that. I really do. But I am who I am. I just need to hope and pray the right person is out there for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:33 PM
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I mea I would hope I would be happy to spend time with anyone :) I think everyone is special and amazing in their own way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:32 PM
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Well for starters I have never been past a second dae with someone. I think I want to share my life with someone. I am just not 100% sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:29 PM
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Maybe :) I think my answer is yes. But she still needs to be kind and at least a little bit supportive :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:28 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:52 PM
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Oh ha. That does make more sense lol. Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:46 PM
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And that is totally fine :) I do not see myself in competition with anyone else. I do not concern myself with others. I do not see life as a race. To me we are just on out own journey. Thank you so much for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:45 PM
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Cool :) Thank you so very much for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:44 PM
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I mean it would not bother me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:43 PM
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That is what the trust fund is for :) Thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:42 PM
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Thank you for sharing all of that. Yes, I have been to many years of therapy (well over a decade) it has helped me tremendously over the years. But I will admit right now I a not in therapy. I went back and went for a few months last summer. But it has not felt right since then. I do not have any friends right now. I suppose I could go out socially a bit more with my parents. But I really am not sure that would help my dating life lol ;) But I really do think they are great suggestions. Thank yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:14 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:56 PM
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Maybe who knows lol;) Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:54 PM
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Thank you so much :) I hope I am doing a decent job of that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:52 PM
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I am not able to handle social events without a partner. I am not ashamed or afraid to admit I need help in that department. So to answer your question- no. Not while I am still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:51 PM
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I mean yeah other people may want to have kids. But let's just say I won't be having sex with them lol. Different goals. Thank you so very much for sharing all of that :) That is wonderfully kind of you. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:50 PM
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Thank you so very much :) That is so wonderfully kind of you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:47 PM
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What if they will be the sole inheritors of the completly owned house someday?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:37 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:35 PM
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I will be honest I am not a very mature person. My mentality is about that of a 20 year old. I get that I am different. I just hope and pray the right person is out there for me :) Thank you so much for sharing all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:33 PM
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I am 38. Thank you for asking. And thank you for your kind note :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:24 PM
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I get that. And it is totaly fine. I do not feel I am in a race with anyone. I do not concern myself with others. I certainly never compare myself with others. To me we are all on our own path and our own journey. I am only looking for one special person out there to share my life with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:22 PM
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I mean nothing I wrong with that :) I am certainly open minded and eager :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:18 PM
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I mean yeah, I agree :) Trust me I know I a unique. I am justlooking fir the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:16 PM
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I am not sure what I am looking for. I have no clue how to be the person other people want me to be. I hate to play the autism card. But all of this confuses me.a
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:15 PM
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I also really enjoy weed, sex, music, paintings, country drives and evening walks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:04 PM
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I mean yeah. I am kind of living the exact life I want to keep living :) It is kind and sustainable :) I want to date someone who is a lot like me. Not looking for more money or super into her career. Someone kind and low key like me :) I really do believe that for the right person I am the catch of a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:02 PM
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It does. I guess it would just seem a lot less demanding if she went on one date with a guy first before deciding his finances need to be at a certain level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:00 PM
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I agree. But I do not have the money needed to move out. Besides I am happy loving with my parents :) I know it shrinks my dating pool a ton. But I guess I am willing to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:55 PM
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Yes you may.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:50 PM
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I mean I would love to be a great husband someday. I am willing to work very very hard on a relationship. I am willing to make sacrifices and I am willing to make reasonable compromises in my life. I am willing to learn how to communicate and help someone. Just as I am willing to help someone learn how I communicate and need help. I want to be a great partner a d a great husband someday. I am willing to work extremely hard on this goal. And while I keep busy I do not have a career to slow me dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:48 PM
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I totally get what you are saying. Here is the thing. I am doing exactly what I want to be doing. I am living the life I want to lead. I know I am very unconventional, but I love it. I do think there might be room in my life for a relationship. But no one seems to want to give me a chance because of my unconventional life. I guess that is the issue :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:44 PM
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Own a house and live in West Virginia :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:42 PM
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Oh well my only other goal is to own a house and land in West Virginia and have enough money to live there :) I think I am doing a good job :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:41 PM
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And that is totally fine, thank you. I am not absolutely certain what I want out of dating yet. But I think I want to share my life with the right person :) So it does not really matter if I do not appeal to 99.99999 percent of the women of the world. As long as I appeal to one right woman :) Thank you so very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:39 PM
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Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:37 PM
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That is awesome. I am certainly open minded :) Thank you so much for sharing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:37 PM
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Three broad goals I try to live by. Work hard, always be honest, and be kind to everyone no matter what. I am far from perfect. I have many faults and shortcomings. But theses three guides are what I try to love by. I always work hard and keep busy. I am aremarkably honest person. And I do my best to be as kind as possible. Tha one is hard for me. I do my best though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:35 PM
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I suppose I have other goals as well. Like a goal of mine is to always be kind to people. I am not perfect. I fall short plenty. But I cannot think of a better goal in life :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:33 PM
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I mean a goal of mine is to always live in West Virginia. Like I have goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:30 PM
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Maybe I could get some goals with the right person :) I am certainly open to it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:28 PM
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To be blunt I cannot afford them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:27 PM
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And that is fine :) But surely there are women out there accepting of alternative lifestlyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:27 PM
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I totally get that. I am just not one of them :( I know I am an outsider. I guess I have been all my life. I never really fit in anywhere. One lovely thing about an autism diagnoses is you get to be told officialy how different you are. It is hard, it is lonely and isolating. But I can handle it :) I know I can. I am not really sure what I want out of dating. Who knows I may not even enjoy it. But if I do I think I will want to spend the rest of my life with one person. Because always being alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:25 PM
1

I do not know. I always want to date women I am physically attracted to. I guess I figured it was the same for women. But I am really not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:21 PM
1

And that is totally fine :) They have just never been concerns of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:18 PM
1

I do not fully know what kind of future I want :) But I get your point. Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:17 PM
0

And that is fine. I just hope there are single women who prefer men like me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:16 PM
1

For starters I am very happy where I live :) I guess it is surprising to realize how unique I am. I get it I am autistic. But it still makes me feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:14 PM
0

I am sorry then. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:12 PM
1

Honestly because I am autistic and have a unique world view. I have never worried about money or a career all that much. It is tough to realize alot of people do really care about those things. Makes me feel lonely realizing how much of an outsider I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:11 PM
1

I am trying I promise. I have major social anxiety issues though so for the time being I am only searching online and on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:10 PM
1

It is a great suggestion. I promise I know you took the time to write it and it is great. I started having panic attacks socially. It sucks. I have ti take things very easily socially. Thank you so much for your kind words though. It really does mean a lot to me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:08 PM
0

I guess all I can say is that we are all on different paths and different journeys in life. I have no clue were mine will take me. I just try and stay open minded and positive no matter what :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:06 PM
1

I mean I am super thin. I am not sure what relationship they have are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:04 PM
1

I mean maybe they could meet me and we could save up together :) I am not sure. Like I said I do not know what I want out of life yet. But maybe if I meet the right partner I could get a new dream :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:03 PM
1

And that is fine. I really believe that for the right person I am the catch of a lifetime :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:02 PM
1

I do not handle social events very well on my own. But I do have a little private gym at home :) I work out all the time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:01 PM
1

I mean I am open to dating a woman with a busy job and career. But I would prefer to date a woman with a lifestyle just like mine :) There must be women out there with the same preference in their dating partner :) They are who I am looking for. I believe for the right person I am the catch of a lifetime :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:00 PM
1

I just hope and pray I can find the right person for me :) Thank you so very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:58 PM
1

I totally get that :) I am a bit different and a bit unique. I just hope and pray the right person is out there for me. I have never been in a relationship before. But I think when I meet the right person I am going to try and share the rest of my life with her :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:57 PM
1

To be fair I am in great shape :) I stay very active and healthy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:53 PM
1

But there are lots of millenials living with their parents. Surely there are plenty who are not so concerned with status or money. I can't be the only one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:53 PM
1

So all women want the same thing? That makes no sense. Surely women want a wide variety of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:50 PM
1

Yes, and I am certainly down for trying for some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:48 PM
1

I get that I am unique. But I do not know what I want out of dating or relationships yet. And since the vast majority of single women will not give me the chance of a first date it is hard for me to know what I want out of dating yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:47 PM
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I mean people are allowed to date without set goals right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:46 PM
2

I totally get that. I guess to be fair though I do not fully know what I want out of life or relationships yet though. And without getting a chance to dae ut is hard to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:45 PM
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I honestly do not fully know what I want out of a relationship yet. But one thing I do know is that it will be a lot harder for me to figure out what I do want if no one wants to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:44 PM
1

Thank you so much. I am sorry. I promise if I ever do the datbate tag again I will make the terms of the debate way more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:43 PM
1

Because I have not been on a date since 2017. I would like a date again eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:41 PM
1

I totally get that. To be fair I do only want to spend my life with one right person. That is my only goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:41 PM
1

I am trying my best right now to add it. I am more used to using reddit on my laptop so I am not sure how to change it on my phone. I am sorry. I sometimes have anxiety issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:40 PM
1

And so do I :) Surely there must be women out there who do not care about those things. They are who I am looking for :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:38 PM
1

I am looking right now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:37 PM
1

Yes I will add it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:36 PM
1

I totally get that :) But I am looking for someone tha would date me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:34 PM
1

I hope there is one out there that will be :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:34 PM
0

I get that. But it is not a race or anything :) I just hope you meet the right person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:33 PM
1

I just hope and pray there is at least one out there :) Thank you so much for sharing all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:32 PM
1

I just hope and pray there are some :) Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:32 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:31 PM
1

Yes that is fine. Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:31 PM
0

It feels like it is tough for me to get a first date because a lot of women expect a man to be earning a certain amount of money before they go on a first date with them. But how is a guy like me supposed to get a first date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:29 PM
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And that is fine. We are not talking about you. But surely there are lots of women out there who just want to date for fun right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:27 PM
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But there must be some right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:27 PM
1

I hope that helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:26 PM
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I am curious why women seem to put a career standard on a guy they have never been on a date with. Lime shouldn't they go on a dae first with him before make a judgment like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:26 PM
1

That is awesome :) Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:24 PM
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Why do women care about the ambitions of single guys they have not gone on a date with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:23 PM
1

Attraction is the fuel of all relationships. Some attractions are base and more universal. Other attractions are deeper and longer lasting. None of us here on Reddit can pretend to be saints. When I am not attracted to someone, I see it as a fault of my own. For some reason I am not open to what they are offering. I think it is important for us to work towards having different type of attractions and deeper less superficial attractions :) But I do not really see the need for a romantic relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:48 PM
1

Honestly when I was in high school and college the vibe was there was just no difference between men and women :) At least that is how 'Tootsie' was explained to me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:29 PM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:17 PM
1

I guess to answer your first question- physical attraction :) To the second question I loved everything. I loved the way they talked, the way they looked. Loved whatever we did. From going out to eat to playing video games. I love being with women :) Always have. I just see it all as a good thing :) I mean I am not too picky. And maybe I can find something to love in everyone :) to me that is a great quality to have :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:34 PM
1

Vodka has the effect of making myself feel attractive as well ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
2

I agree :) At least I really hope I get to that stage someday in dating :) Thank you so very much. That is so wonderfully kind of you to say :) Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:14 PM
1

Thank you :) All I can say is my DM's are always open if anyone would like to chat. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:14 PM
1

Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:13 PM
1

I enjoy it :) I am sorry you feel that way. You are more than free to block me if you would like :) Thank you for sharing :) Sorry, I am not trying to be rude. But that is the answer. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:34 AM
2

I agree :) I just hope to someday meet a woman who wants me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:22 AM
1

That is really cool :) Thank you so very much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:46 AM
2

That is really cool :) Thank you so very much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:46 AM
1

Awesome :) Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:45 AM
2

I will be honest I have never been in any sort of relationship before. Not even a super short one. I have no standards beyond attraction. If I am attracted to someone I want to date them. I have never been with a woman who I was attracted to before whom I did not love every second I spent with her. I have never spent enough time with someone to not like something about there personality. I know that does not help narrow things down much. But I think it helps keep me open minded :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:44 AM
1

Awesome :) Thank you so much for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:42 AM
2

That is awesome :) But I have to be honest, as soon as someone uses the word ambition, I know I am not for them. It is all cool though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:41 AM
2

It would be awesome to be part of a partnership with open communication :) I would love that. No one has ever wanted that with me yet. That part is very hard on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:40 AM
1

My standards are pretty low if I am honest :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:39 AM
1

I would imagine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM
1

Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM
1

Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM
1

Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:37 AM
1

:) thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:37 AM
1

I seem to have a very difficult time finding women who want to talk to me. That is something I struggle with a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:37 AM
1

See that is one thing I really struggle with. I so do enjoy one on one conversations. I would love to talk for hours. I am not sure I have ever met anyone who really enjoys talking to me though. That part is very difficult for me. That is why I am so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 AM
1

Cool :) Just between you and me my only standard is attraction. I have never been able to develop any taste beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:23 AM
1

I enjoy it :) I am sorry you feel that way. You are more than free to block me if you would like :) Thank you for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:18 AM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:17 AM
1

I would love a relationship very much. Whether it ever happens for me or not I am not sure. I may never appeal enough too someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:16 AM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:15 AM
1

So here is the thing about me I do not mask. In public I am not a total jerk; in fact, I am normally pleasant. I probably typically come across as a bit awkward but polite. But I do get tired socially very quickly these days. I grow frustrated pretty quickly, and I just prefer to avoid people immensely. I find myself a much much happier person now that my social life is very small. All of that said my social world has shrunk a great deal more in the past say 4 or 5 years. But I am not going to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:48 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:37 AM
1

Thanks, To be honest I have been far too anti-social for the last ten years or so to have had much of an opinion on the issue. More of an outdated stereotype in my head I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:34 AM
1

I'll admit I seem to have the kind of autism that doesn't listen to others very well ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:31 AM
1

Thank you for sharing all that :) That really is remarkably kind of you. Thanks again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:29 AM
2

I imagine for some Freudian reason independence is a really weird thing to be attracted to in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:25 AM
1

I imagine a certain percentage of guys with all personality types are in great relationship for all kinds of inexplicable reasons. But perhaps we have a tendency to see others with personalities we do not personally like and wonder why someone would date them. I have just kind of come to accept the heart wants what the heart wants :) Beyond that I am not sure I believe in much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:23 AM
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Perhaps, I really do not know. But surely, they see things beyond those eventually, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:20 AM
1

Damn man. I did not know "Woman Hater" was a tag you could have. No judgement from me but still, seems harsh. Here is the thing, when people go out they like to drink, have a good time, tell jokes, say silly things and well get silly. Does not mean that is what they are like all the time. And the other thing is trust me often time the guy who is the funniest, telling half the jokes and stories, well he is going home alone like the rest of us. Humor is great, it is one of the best things in life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:18 AM
1

I am a pretty clueless guy. But I would imagine humor can get your foot in the door. It probably normally does not get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:15 AM
1

I mean I am obviously a guy so not the target audience. But I did not know humor could be faked. I mean I thought something was either funny or not. Some people are obviously funnier than others. Maybe I am a clueless guy in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:12 AM
2

God, is it weird I almost never think about that word anymore? Like what is the current idea about neuroses? Sorry I know that is a big question. I am just super out of the loop on it. I live an odd life. Sometimes things completely fall through the cracks on me because my lack of a profession and social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:10 AM
1

I think it is a great suggestion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:09 AM
1

To be fair I expect kindness from anyone I interact with. Not just people I am dating. Or yeah, I am not going to interact with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:08 AM
2

Honestly, I enjoy it. And I like the way it looks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:06 AM
0

Seriously no one lacks humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:05 AM
0

I agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:05 AM
2

I am a very happy person :) A bit lonely at times. But still very happy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:05 AM
1

I mean yeah. But perhaps not in the quantities that one would want. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:04 AM
1

Look, I am about as apolitical, kind and non-offensive a person you are going to meet. With that said, and I really hope I do not offend. Those sub three-digit guys seem to be doing alright ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:02 AM
1

I have to admit there is a little bit of a cynic in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:00 AM
3

I agree :) I am just looking for my person I guess :) I can't wait to find them :) Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:49 PM
2

I will be honest I would not be for you. I have horrible issues with anxiety. I struggle a great deal with them. But I totally get it. Not everyone is built for everyone else. I am just looking for the right person for me :) Thank you so very much :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:48 PM
3

That is awesome :) I hope I can do that :) Thank you so very much for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:46 PM
4

Awesome :) And I totally get that. It just seems when I meet people or chat with people online I never seem to connect with them. We always seem to have different goals and visions. Which is fine. I like people going on their own paths in life. But after a certain point you start to wonder why has no one like me yet? I am not sure what it is I do not offer from a personality perspective that so many other people seem to. It is hard having autism. It makes me worry there is just something about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:29 PM
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That is awesome :) I wish someone would have seen those qualities in me by now. But it happens :) Thank you so very much for sharing :) I think that is so wonderfully kind of you. Thank you again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:24 PM
3

Thank you so very much :) That is wonderfully kind of you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:19 PM
5

Awesome :) But I will admit I wish someone would have seen those qualities in me by now :) But I totally understand :) Thank you so very much for sharing :) I think that is remarkably kind of you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:16 PM
4

Nothing wrong with that I guess :) Thanks for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:05 PM
6

That is cool :) Thank you so very much for sharing that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:05 PM
1

I mean none of us can predict the future :) I guess I will just take my chances. Thank you so much for chatting. I hope you had a lovely weekend :)
/r/MensRights06/04/25 11:11 PM
1

I mean I am just going to look for a relationship :) That is my chief goal in life. If it never happens no big deal. But it is my primary goal. Wish me luck :)
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:39 PM
1

:)
/r/MensRights01/04/25 10:55 PM
1

Fair enough. But if someone is that busy, I do not want to be a part of their life. I only want people who want to be a part of my life in my life :)
/r/MensRights01/04/25 12:00 PM
1

I rather someone evaluate me after a first date at least. I gather no one has the right to judge me without giving me that curtesy. And if not, that is totally fine. But I rather a person not judge me. And if they do, I do not care.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 05:39 PM
1

I am not sure. I have never been in a relationship before. I am not sure what I would be like in a relationship.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 10:14 AM
1

Like I said, people can be different.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 09:59 AM
1

Ok, sorry.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 09:58 AM
1

People can be different and unique :)
/r/MensRights31/03/25 09:58 AM
0

I mean I am autistic. My attitude is not exactly a selling point lol ;)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 05:41 PM
0

But thank you for sharing :)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 05:35 PM
0

I honestly do not give a fuck about men's rights if I am honest. I am apolitical. I just enjoy the conversation :)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 05:35 PM
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You seem nice ;)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 03:03 PM
1

I am not asking for anything I do not offer completely in return. I am fully comfortable with who I am and what I offer.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 02:16 PM
-1

I am autistic. I will admit that. This is only my perspective. It does not need to match your reality. To me the world seems like a giant race where everyone just wants to acquire as much money, status and power as possible. I have zero interest in any of the above. This isolates me. I feel like we need to put those old desires to bed and wake up to the new reality of the world :)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:30 PM
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No one is more aware of this reality than myself :)
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:25 PM
1

:) fair enough. I probably was a bit rude asking that. Thanks for such a kind response. Honestly, I flirted a little bit with academia but found the academic freedom to be about nil. I had been thinking quite a bit about how much intellectual freedom there is in academia these days. It probably varies :) Thank you so much for responding. I probably did not deserve it. But it is greatly appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:19 PM
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I understand the game. That is why I will never pay for a dating app. I will use whatever is free. If it works great. If not, no big deal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:19 AM
1

You really think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:45 AM
2

Fair enough, thank you so much for sharing :)
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:28 AM
1

Thank you. Yes, I rocked a glasses and braces combo from 8th grade until 11th grade. Damn three years.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 10:31 PM
1

Thanks to be fair I was really self-conscious about wearing glasses when I was a teenager. I had laser eye surgery when I was 20. Haven't had to wear them since. I was just thinking of things I used in the past to hold me back. To be blunt thinking no one would want to date me because I wore glasses was one of my sillier concerns lol. I was much younger then :)
/r/MensRights28/03/25 10:22 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:20 AM
2

If I am really honest I do not think about it all that much. I am not sure it ever makes much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:20 PM
3

I am constantly given the same piece of advice over and over again. But I really do not know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:37 AM
1

I would upvote this more if I could :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:07 PM
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Imagine being autistic when the whole concept of confidence does not really make any sense. Fun world :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:02 PM
1

I pretty much only evaluate woman based on how she looks naked. Nothing else really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:23 PM
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