| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 79 | "Women’s expectations of the opposite sex are at least as unrealistic as men’s" | MountainGoatSC | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 05:46 PM | |
| 2 | Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane? | Fundamentals | MountainGoatSC | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Matching too Quickly On Hinge? | Fundamentals | MountainGoatSC | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Instagram/Social Media Worth it? | Fundamentals | MountainGoatSC | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 12:12 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itShe wants vet you by looking through your social resume (Instagram). If you have a decent one then add her but yeah if your IG is whack then don't bother. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 10:51 PM |
| 7 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I mean yeah the advice is going to be aimed at the majority audience of Reddit what do you expect | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:43 PM |
| 53 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?Stopping porn is more important than stopping masturbation | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Is getting hot girls still fun if you’re a late bloomer? Like a virgin in your 20s or older?You're still young af | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Did having a hot tub, help you with the ladies at all?I would only get it if you personally like having a hottub not just as some kind of lure for girls | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Money, status and lifting is outdated advice in 2025Lol | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusIf you think she is then she will be. But also this sounds more like oneitis than anything, talk to more people | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Never compliment her looksDon't be too effusive in your praise, especialyl early on but "never compliment her looks" as a blanket rule is pretty dumb | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Anyone try using makeup?Skincare > makeup in most cases but if you haver some obvious flaws some cover up might be warranted. Otherwise makeup is a no in north america for men unless you're interested in certain sub cultures and niches | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 12:56 PM |
| 3 | What is the best summer job to become more social?How did you get into it? | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 87 | What is the best summer job to become more social?Reading 10-20 books on charisma is a total waste of time. Read one, maybe two books and then go out and practice it in real life, reading an extra 10 books on it won't help you. As for jobs, anything in service industry or sales is sociable. But also camp counselor, if you can stand dealing with kids you also get to socialize a lot with your fellow counselors who usually young people like yourself looking to have fun over the summer. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Travelling and a girlLMR? | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 03:55 PM |
| 16 | Seasonality in seductionDefinitely. Just logistically people are much less likely to want to go out when it's dark and cold. It's also a time where people are traveling for family holidays, wrapping up end of the year projects etc. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I think I am going to die alone because I am uglylmao ok | /r/seduction | 20/12/23 06:12 PM |
| 13 | Central American Women's Guide to Seducing a GringoI don't think they need this much advice lol | /r/seduction | 02/11/23 02:25 PM |
| 37 | How to prevent flakes (slight manipulation)So you have to pretend your phone is dead for the rest of the day? | /r/seduction | 20/07/23 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??You're more confident and relaxed | /r/seduction | 19/06/23 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Cold reading a women? how to tell whether the lady is super horny?...What? | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with her Instagram stories?There's way better stuff to spend your time on than worrying about this. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Women, why you do that?Looking at someone's stories doesn't mean shit and she isn't posting stories and pictures just to let you know that she is online. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Need advice for seducing my live-in nannyBad idea | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Be a Leader of Men and the Ladies will find youYou can quibble with some of the terminology here but I think the overall point of building a strong social circle beyond just chasing women is a good one. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Not responding after connecting on instagramA lot of girls are on OLD just to build their social media following. Don't connect on instagram until you've already met if at all | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on voice notes?It seems like to me that if she's not going to be responsive to a text I don't think a voice note would make a significant difference. But I might be biased from my own personal dislike of voice notes | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?Not ideal but you can def still pull | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How has woke culture made it more difficult for men and seduction?It hasn't | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:27 PM |
| 30 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?When you have options you're not obligated to fuck every random guy who walks up to you and asks to fuck | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:16 AM |
| 8 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsYou were a virgin but you spent years collecting womens nudes? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Lost interest in chasing women, so I'm slowly trying to improve myselfKeep at it | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 48 | Asking for feedback from ex datesProbably not going to result in anything useful. I've had productive discussions with women after we've broken up about what we're looking for and how we differ as people and it can be useful to think about but I don't think anyone who wasn't into a second date is going to have anything insightful to tell you other than she wasn't feeling the "vibe" or something vague like that if they answer at all. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?That does happen but I think it's very much age/social circle dependent. Certain groups of people use IG as their main communication platform and do not really text normally. IG is just their main social conduit and how they normally connect with friends and potential romantic interests. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 3 | script for not having photos on instaYou don't need a fake story just say you don't like to spend too much time on social media | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | What do y'all say to a girl you match with on the apps but she doesn't reply to that initial messageSpeaking from experience on Hinge (I don't use Tinder) if I really like them I give it one more shot and it sometimes works but after that you pretty much have to just move on to the next sadly. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 7 | How to seduce auntWait until she gets stuck in in the washing machine | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How can I (19m) go about improving my status?Better start rapping | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?It's pretty hard to be friends with a woman that you originally solely went in for romantic intentions with. It's also especially hard so soon after the breakup even if it was a relatively relaxed one. But I've honestly had good friendships with an ex before so it's not impossible. Fine to stay in contact but take it very slowly imo and do not let it stop you from exploring your other options normally | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How conventionally attractive are you?I'm tall and in good shape but pretty much average face and hairline is starting to go so maybe a 6 or 7 I guess. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 3 | The “Age knowing” thingDoes it matter? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | It is awkward to find her profile to contact her?Feels a bit stalkerish. Definitely do not reach out on Linkedin for dating purposes | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Should I fly her into my city this weekend?Doesn't seem worth it even if you have money to blow unless you're crazy about this chick which it doesn't seem you are | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 5 | I have a naturally self-deprecative nature that I think is unappealing to women.Some amount of self deprecation can show you don't take yourself seriously and are confident enough to notice your flaws but if you're just always knocking yourself down then it reveals a serious lack of confidence and most women are not attracted to that at all. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:46 PM |
| 24 | Being seen on a date by a girl who I took out the night before. AdviceYou don't need to say anything about it | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themMen are mostly the same if not worse | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Does smoking weed get you laid?It helps only with a small subset of girls who are into smoking weed which is honestly not that many | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how some guys can be fine with not getting laidSeems like you're cool with it if you've gone years without it | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Is me Eating Out my Girl Simp Shit?It's not | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:20 AM |
| 3 | I'm an early sleeper and sometimes get late night text messages but fail to respond. What to do?Good sleep and sticking to your schedule is more important than responding to texts from random thots | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 9 | Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual directionA lot of things hurt way more than that | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Best European city for a 30 year old single man to move to?For what? Go somewhere that has stuff you want to do, a good place for a hobby you want to pursue, a place where you're interested in the history/culture etc. that will be more ultimately satisfying then just picking somewhere solely on what the girls are like | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls follow or coming to your place but won’t sex?Sometimes they just don't wanna fuck yet. I've had girls sleep over and not go all the way only to put out on the second time she slept over. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 3 | NYC or ChicagoChicago won't even come close to the dating scene in New York. Options are limitless of every type of woman you can imagine in New York, that won't be as much the case in Chicago which is smaller and less international. However, your dollar will go farther in Chicago so that's something to consider too. If you have any kind of social connections in either city that would be something to consider too, it's easier to get started in some place where you already have a few friends. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Should you let a girl lead you by holding your hand?Seems OK but don't let her drag you around like a dog on a leash or something. Walk side by side | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:54 AM |
| 9 | What messages do women respond to when they get flooded in dm's by guys?OK girls do tend to get more DMS but 10-20 messages every 5 minutes is a huge exaggeration lol. It doesn't have to be anything crazy, just be more specific and interesting than "hey" or "how was your weekend" | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I get past my looks?You're probably not as ugly as you think and even if so, you just gotta work on other ways of being extraordinary. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 11 | What are some good ways for a 20 year old guy who can’t legally drink yet to meet women his age?College? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Is instagram so important?Yeah just say "I don't really do social media but here's my number" or something like that | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:56 PM |
| 33 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?Keep it somewhat vague but don't lie about it | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Is instagram so important?It's better to have no instagram than a lame one. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Guys…can you be just friends with a girl?It can happen but most guys, especially single ones probably aren't going to be into that. Especially because so many guys are desperate and they see any girl willing to talk to them as their big opportunity to finally get laid | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever circled back and tried again after initially being pretty sure someone isn't interestedCan't hurt to test the waters a bit as long as you're not too needy about it | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Penis enlargementNope | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Why do some girls, especially ones who are more chubby, tell me to go find another girl, or that XYZ girl looks better than her, especially during the first date or first phase of getting to know each other?They're insecure | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Gotta brag, freaking out a little, but keep at it boystl;dr most of it but happy for you | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:27 AM |
| 231 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?You must be at least this handsome to match with me | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I have no clue how to attract foreign women"Foreign" women... There's a lot of different countries dude your approach will vary | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Serious Question: How to Keep a Girls Interest, When One has Severe Mental ProblemsIf you're interested in having a significant relationship with her you can't hide your problems forever. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl whether she’s taken/got a boyfriend if you know her a little?If she wants you to back off she'll tell you pretty quickly | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Is 4 bodies a lot for a 19 year old Girl?Why do you care what some internet strangers think is the right amount of men for a 19 year old woman to have sex with? | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:58 AM |
| 6 | Low effort post: If she says you’re annoying…"Omg you pervert" but then keeps talking with you... you're in. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?The corporate grind def is an obstacle but far from insurmountable | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Do rich girls really date poor guys, or is it like girls only date up?Women are less likely to want to date down but some are down for it. They'll certainly be up for slumming it for some sex even if they don't see you as a relationship prospect | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Do short guys still have a chance in casual relationships (hooking ups or one night stands)?Can we pin an answer to this? Feel like this same question gets asked everyday | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:04 PM |
| 13 | Why do so many guys simp?Their Moms told them to just be nice to girls | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:51 PM |
| 83 | What things do women go through with dating?Looking for an authentic connection and relationship with someone and realizing that the guy learned a bunch of cheap tricks on an online seduction forum to get in her pants | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | She takes ages to reply, we didn’t kiss on second date. Is she not interested?Can't hurt to ask for a third but you're running out of time. Some people just text slower, hours in between isn't a huge issue, not texting back at all is | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | It’s a numbers game, use social media to your advantage!Get a haircut.. OK that's easy Dress nice.. OK not too bad go out with some friends to do whatever you guys have planned and anytime you see a cute chick, approach her and try to get her to follow you on insta... Gonna need to expand on this one lol | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 10:39 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go-to move in making first dates less awkward and more fun?Do something a little more active. Staring at each other over coffee like an interview is inevitably a bit awkward. If you're walking around a farmer's market or something like that you have stuff to vibe off of and random distractions to comment on/drive the conversation beyond the interview-type questions. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 10:19 PM |
| 8 | Should one be able to close with all (if not most) of responsive women?No. Of all the women you meet only a fraction of that will be responsive, then only a fraction of that will end up going on a date with you, a fraction of that you'll lay and/or develop a relationship with. Even the most successful guys don't close anywhere close to 100% of the time. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Instagram/Social Media Worth it?How do you boost it up in a day or two? | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 01:25 AM |
| 7 | How do you stop feeling inferior to women?This sounds like it might be some deeper issue than an online forum of random people can help you with | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 21 | Met her friends 72 hours after meeting her - yikesDoesn't seem like a yikes to me | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 157 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreSounds like a shitty "friend" | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Are you ever really yourself around women you’re interested in?I feel like I'm a different person around different people. There's a person I'm around certain groups of friends, family, girlfriends etc. The key is to find a part of yourself that feels real for each and to not be a complete phony. You can express different parts of yourself with different people. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I call her?Nope, on to the next one | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Pics review that are acceptable for tinder? Any of these?You don't look bad but selfies aren't ideal | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 67 | How to not fall into the cocaine trap....You probably didn't converse with them as well as you thought, you were just high | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Just determined to ghost me... smhGirls do weird stuff sometimes. They still want to be seen as nice so they'll go through these extra hoops when it would be easier for both parties to just drop it sometimes | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Just determined to ghost me... smhCan't waste time getting hung up on one girl who lived far away anyway. Sad but time to move on | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | New Game of Throne AdvertIt's just a often-said phrase from the book. "Valar morghulis" http://awoiaf.westeros.org/index.php/Valar_morghulis (minor spoilers) | /r/MensRights | 14/03/14 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way someone can do actual activism for Men's Rights?Just be really informed and a great advocate. If you have the facts behind you and argue calmly you can change minds. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/12 12:49 AM |
| 3 | School bans Movember because girls can't grow facial hairWhat a misleading title OP. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/12 05:21 PM |
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