Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane?

burncushlikewood · 2022-06-02T04:54:21+00:00

No man that's not right, it's nice when people approach you and give you attention, everyone wants that, it's not approaching that makes her dislike you, it's what you do on the approach, it's how you lead the interaction, and generate interest and commanility. This is what game is.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-02T12:11:58+00:00

You find out if you have mutual values and interests by talking to her for 5-10 minutes, that’s what daygame is about. Talking to girls. getting to know them on the spot, and seeing if there is chemistry, before you think about asking for a number.

It’s not just approach and immediately ask for number, it’s approach, get to know her for 5-10, minutes and then you ask to continue this other day or maybe that same day if she has time

Alive-Doughnut2345 · 2022-06-02T04:31:21+00:00

No one is saying those other methods are not useful or more effective we were not born yesterday

Krouser1522 · 2022-06-02T06:04:49+00:00

Just think of it this way..if you see a woman you are into while getting coffee just chat with her, if you see one while you are getting something at the mall strike up a conversation..you will see them in your daily travels you don’t necessarily have to go out of your way and approach every hottie you see but being able to cold approach when the time arises is a very useful skill if you know how to execute it properly. If you can go up to a complete stranger and get her interested in you in a matter of minutes then talking to one in your social circle like you mentioned will be a cakewalk

puma085 · 2022-06-02T07:07:31+00:00

Such sceptical posts are made here quite often recently. I can get it somehow. Daygame is tought. Nobody said that day game is the only way to meet new women. It is just one way of many.

Nobody is forced to do game. Just do what you like op.

And consider yourself lucky if you do not have to do game. Others like myself are not that lucky.

My hobbies are male centric, the few females in my social circle are not into me and they are already married or in a long term relaltionship. The women in my work place are all in the their late 40s, 50s an even early 60s. Too old for me.

So I need to resort to day game to advance. It is an uphill battle and not easy but never mind. I need to start somewhere to advance.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-02T10:39:42+00:00

It is absurd because you are doing it the wrong way. Do you think normal socially adjusted guys wander the streets hunting for lone women to bother? No! You are doing day game wrong. Day game was always meant for you to be going on about your day, running errands, shopping, going to and from practice/gym and when you spot a woman you fancy to have the balls to go up to her and chat her up.

The systematic going out just to approach is only okay if you are trying to practice or trying to get rid of shyness or anxiety. Even then, I recommend society approved venues such as bars and clubs.

Rastaman143 · 2022-06-02T04:59:45+00:00

I used to think that too, it’s so weird and creepy. Talking to the people on the street? Nevertheless I started approaching women and realized how many women like to talk and talk their head off. Online is ok for women but it’s guy after guy messaging them. In real life it’s different also it’s a game treat like one have fun. It’ll Shock you how unweird it feels after some time.

vardarac · 2022-06-02T07:50:28+00:00

Have you ever successfully been panhandled?

Swept into a spontaneous fun conversation or event by a stranger?

Seen someone so interesting, unique, or amazing that you wanted to say something?

We have been made to perceive that for some reason it is not okay to want to talk to a stranger because we find them attractive. That perception is just that, a perception: irrelevant, poorly-considered, and spread by people who don't have your interests at heart.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-06-02T09:37:38+00:00

I’ve seen it done awkwardly and had a few bad interactions but I’ve done it tactfully a few times and met a few nice people. It should also be mentioned that other methods take a lot of time and investment and $ too

Archyblackcat · 2022-06-02T17:40:56+00:00

Yeah bro it’s absurd but if you have no social circle or time to Créate one , then your best bet is cold approach.. online or in person.. I’ve succeeded a few times with cold approach in person and a lot more online.. just straight up asked for their number after Introducing myself.. and I’ve actually gone out with a few chicks I met this way and made out etc ..... so just get over the initial discomfort phase and you’ll be able to pull girls this way consistently

cronasminate · 2022-06-02T06:16:36+00:00

Anyone who says day do street daygame is either lying, they didn’t tell you whole story or they are straight up insane. Street daygame success vary wildly on what that street is surrounded by.

If you are doing that street daygame near a festival and everyone is having fun, then that’s easy. If you are doing street daygame in a business district then you’ll be wasting your time.

Title	Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane?
Author	MountainGoatSC
Upvotes	2
Comments	20
Date	June 2, 2022 4:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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