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| 6 | I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information?Interesting take. Never heard about such things because I never had the asumption that women working in certain fields are more promiscuous than others. Still not sure if I should take that info at face value. It is still nice food for though . | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceA good and very bad piece of advice at the same time. A very good piece of advice for young folks (the majority of the guys reading such posts, I presume) and a very bad piece of advice for the more mature crowd. I am not saying you should give up on yourself because you are older. But getting older comes with some flaws that are impossible to cover. At some point, focusing on looks is not gonna work anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?I am too old to get the appeal of tik tok. But I doubt that internet personas and real life persona have that much in common. The sentence young women not interested in men anymore would imply that young women managed to overcome there basic biology. It would mean that all young women turned into robots. I do not see a lot young women these days, i am only among dudes at work and while in town every women is between 50 and 80. But in the are occasions where I see young women they look completely… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 06:23 AM |
| 1 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively?I think is a good midset but just for teenagers and guys in their 20s. As soon as old a degeneration starts it is a bad advice. I know that I am just 40 and not 80. I also do not consider mysef as the ugliest human being in the world of humans. But I have some weekspots that stick out like a sore tump which makes it impossible fo to me attract. I will not get fare in the world of attraction af the first sight. for younger folks giving their best, and try represent something great is a neat advic… | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 06:27 AM |
| 2 | American dating advice is useless in europeI would not say useless but the difference is still striking. I am from Austria and I have lived in the states for 6 month for work related further education. American women are different and it is easier to do some small talk with the american ladies compared to the Austrian women which all have the do not talk to me look on their face when walking around in public. Social circle game rules supreme here in Austria and maybe dating apps for the younger folks. I cannot judge that. I turned 40 las… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to visit other countries just to fuck?No. It you suck in your home country you suck everywhere else too. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Did seduction change over the years?Depends on your age I guess. In my age social media are just a suggestion and not is not mandatory. I am getting to old for this sh*** to bother with the unsocial media. I was basically there when they emerged but was not assimilated by them like a bunch gen z people. Sometimes it is good to be a tad older (born 1985) it makes you more indifferent towards stupid stuff. But tech aside i really do not think that much as changed. The instincts and needs are the same as they used to be. The whole se… | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 06:55 AM |
| 3 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Did not do anything. Like I said I was when I was Teenager. I did not take the girls seriously. I asumed they were just playing around and test their boundaries. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 10:19 AM |
| 5 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?I do not know. When I was younger sometimes women approach me but it was mostly weird stuff and thaught they were just pulling my leg. One time a girl asked me in straight dailight if I want to fuck. That was the most weird thing. another time one said to me her friend is into me. Another time one girl complemented my jacket. And one time a girl sat on my lap when I was in the bus. All happened in my early teen days. In my 20s and 30s only a smile a couple of times. One smile was weird. I was lo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 07:29 AM |
| 1 | What do 18-20y.o girls want on tinder? I get matches, one reply then silence. Why?How about attention and validation? I do not want to be mean, but it is striking that people really take dating apps seriously and think that one swipe means anything. This a low-effort move that does not require any strength. Sounds like op is still young because he gets confused by that. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:11 AM |
| 5 | Become a Host (and Bang the Participants)The negativity in the thread is astonishing. Not saying it is always going to work for everyone, or that it is an easy breeze to so so it is still great hearing some new ideas for alternative approaches. I am even saying this although I am among the people such ideas are not going to work. As guy born in 1985 most people around my age are not he party people anymore or generall into trying out new stuff. And a older dude hosting parties where younger people migh show up does not sound feasible. … | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 09:47 AM |
| 2 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?There is also no need to feel bad about my desire. This is not the problem. The issue lies in the fact how to communicate the desire to fuck in classy way. Got lots of usual advice in my thread already. | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 08:19 AM |
| 2 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?thanks for your helpful post too. I will also check out your book at some point in the future. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?Yes makes sense just to their stuff and do not care. But easier said then done in sober state. When drunk I am a master with that mindset and it seems to work for me too. Like mentioned in the entry post in that state of mind I was able to get the few hook ups in my life. But this cannot be the solution. drinking once a month is ok but not all the time. not ginv a dam when sober is harder. My problem is not so much to worry about what others might think. i will most likely never see the other pe… | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?Thanks what you feel they feel is good advice and interesting advice and being horny is the most easiest part. I will also check out your other posts to learn more about your way of thinking. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?Yes that i something I want to know as well. Just a small reminder the question of the entry post is how to it with style. Trying to show them in primitiv way what you want is possible of course but very convincing. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Drunk or sober for night game?I think drunk game is fun and I like it a lot but I still think doing sober is the way to go . Drunk game can get out of controll pretty fast. especially when some girls invit you to drink with them. When you are already little tipsy when approaching them and the girls chose some potent drinks to drink with them it can into the totally wasted territory rather quick. Especially when you are not a alcoho lconnoisseur. At one instance some girls invited me to have some cocktails with them. Was tota… | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | how to maintain the "Abundance Mindset" in world without "Abundance ?Thanks for your reply. Yes ehancing my source radius is a good advice and totall possible from december onwards. there is going to be a new railway track in december that enables people to travel to the next big city within 90 minutes. I could make day trips to that bigger spot or go out there on saturday night. | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 06:53 AM |
| 19 | Remove Fillers from your lifeIn general, what you're saying makes sense. Masturbation combined with porn can definitely be a bad habit — I get that. But that doesn't apply to me, as I don't watch porn and only rely on my own fantasies. Even if I stopped that, it wouldn't help me get more women. It would just make me hornier, which is an obstacle in itself. I'm already 40 — the golden days when potential partners were everywhere are gone. Dating at my age isn't a sprint, it's a marathon. And for a marathon, I need a clear mi… | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Good point. I do not see being polite as currency. If I get asked for help I I can. I do not expect anything for return. In order impress a women you need to deeper. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Yes, this makes sense lol. Maybe I have problem with getting that term because English is not my mother tongue. In german the common soft rejecton phrase is it's not you but me. Equally stupid but never mind. Being nice, polite or whatever you call it is a mindset for me. It is not rule to play to get something in return. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it?There are many ways. I was never lucky getting one active but the only 5 lays I had in my live fond me. was just putting myelf outthere in enviroments where alcohol was consumed. Sometimes that being just there led to some drunk sex. So maybe just being there were many women are and just having fun without focusing too much on women might help. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are romantic/dating situations so common at work?Makes sense. but still why ruling out a place you spend most of the time for romance? not saving you should pester women at work. But just inorging it and hope to get lucky in the outside world is a bold move. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 06:15 AM |
| 8 | Moving to europe to meet women?Yes, demographics can be important, whether you are lucky or not. But why Europe? You live in a big country; I am sure there are some states with plenty of white women. Have you been to different European countries before? Do you know how different some of the countries are? Would you be able to find decent work there? I am from Europe, and I am not saying you shouldn't come. But before you decide to come, you should try to see the whole picture. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are romantic/dating situations so common at work?Being against workplace. romance is such a Us thing that does not make any sense. Adults spend most of their time at work . Romantic interactions are bound to happen. I really where the anti work romance guys meet their women if they rule out the place where they spend most of their time | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 02:17 PM |
| 7 | How does everyone pick up girls in the club?If you do not like the club atmosphere, do not go clubbing. Never do anything just to get women. Guys are doing that give off a strange vibe that works very reliable as a pussy repellend. Just have a nice time at the club, and dance. Sometimes this helps to raise the attention of the girls and some nice interactions might happen. If you are asking for a method that is working all the time I am the wrong guy to ask. Not even sure if such methode exists in the first place. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?Could be the foreigner bonus. Austrian dude here doing work related to further education in the states (California) and I am also doing quite well. Never underestimate the novelty bonus. I do not buy into the easy country theory though. it is the same in every country but being a foreigner might help to raise the attention of the ladies but that's it. There is no magical country where every dude can score anytime. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Is Vegas really as good for gaming as they sayI thought it is obvious what I meant when using the term gaming in seduction reddit. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Is Vegas really as good for gaming as they sayYeah that is the other side of the coin. I have heard that too. Some people say it is great while others warn about the danger of being scammed | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Is Vegas really as good for gaming as they sayApproaching women in day and night settings | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Alcoholic beverages are destroying your game, Stop now and have full control over your actions and become a more skilled seducerNow tell me how to bear people under the influence of Alcohol without being one of them. I agree drinking is not that great that is why I do not do night game that often but how to bear a classic night game setting without being under the influence of a drink? How to keep your frame sober while being among the drunks? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I approach girls at a bar or parties?If you do not drink and smoke why do you want to go to bars or parties? Drinking is one of the main things people do at such events. You can try it but it will hard match the energy of the people there. You will feel like you are on the wrong planet. You can go to parties without drinking if you have a purpose that has nothing to do with girls. You want to watch a game at a sports bar, or playing darts or pool is a good reason. And for parties visting a friends birthday for example is good reaso… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | My short coworker is my source of hopeBut what can you do against hairloss and the wrong skull form plus big scar on the top of the head? No muscles in the world can outweight this problem. I am not there yet. Hair is starting to say good bye but there is still enough left for now but I do not want to know how it is going to look in 10 or 15 years. I`d rather bett on charisma than pyhsical traits. I am beyond my phsysical prime already with being in my late 30s. It is still ok but no one nows for how long. But that is just me. Every… | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 10:43 PM |
| 8 | My short coworker is my source of hopeIt is just you. Being physically attractive might be easy for younglings but it s a battle you cannot win the older you get. bad gentic trades makes it impossible to attractive as soon as you reach certain age. Charisma on the other hand is age indepedent. it might be hard to learn but if the skills is yours you can use it until you die. Unlike the phsycial stuff. which wanees at some point. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 09:52 AM |
| 1 | How is Game different in Europe and USA?That is right. At least in Austria we do not have dating rules. It is unspoken law to just date on person at the same time. In the states it seems common to date more people at once. I sometimes had the impression that it is even expected. Had 2 dates where the women asked me if I am seeing othe women too. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 10:06 PM |
| 0 | How is Game different in Europe and USA?Sounds good. In case you can pull this off never use hook up as your end goal. Just go out and have fun. Learn more about the different cultures and see what happens. If you look speficially for hook ups you might not find them. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | How is Game different in Europe and USA?It is or at least it can be. I just do some casual dating stuff despite being a long term relationship guy. This option is out the question now because I will leave the US in t he middle of the year. I am doing ok. Just inteacting with as many women as possible and see what happens. Even managed to pull of 5 hook ups. It is very smal number compared to all the women I was talking but I am still content with the result. I just go with the flow. Bein abroad can be funny experience to just do stuff… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 0 | How is Game different in Europe and USA?The game language is different. But seriously Europe is way too diverse to make a general statement. I am a guy from Austria and am doing work-related further education in the States at the moment. The biggest difference is the language and despite the bad things American men say about their women I find American women rather cool. I would not say gaming in a foreign country is not necessarily easier than in your country but being a foreigner can help. It can help to get the attention of women w… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:33 PM |
| 8 | So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect ThemselvesI know this is the seduction Reddit and most guys reading this sub are here to get better with women. I am no exception to this. I still strongly disagree that guys are not chasing women and have no self-respect for themselves. to self-respect yourself you need to feel good in your skin. You do not need external factors like women to be content with yourself. Women can be an enrichment. But it is a grave mistake to think that your life is worthless without women. Seeing women as the only source … | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | how to master sh***t tests which you can hardly win?Yes creative answer would have been the best reaction. I really need to stop to overthink. The tone in her voice playful so it might have been classic shit test. Next time i will do it better and learn from my mistake now. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 10:26 PM |
| 13 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?As a European doin work related further education in the states I can confirm that. Had 5 hook ups in my life and all happened in the states. Europe, especially Austria is rather prude compared to that. It is due to the grass is always greener on the other side that so many dudes from the US have nothing postive to say about their country game wise. Sure thing there are many shitty women in the US but the same can be said about any country. Have not seen anything negative I have not experienced … | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | how to master sh***t tests which you can hardly win?Thansk for the advice. I think you are right sometimes it cannot be avoided to be seen as cringy . I need to be more easy going. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksIt applies to all older people I know and I know many. I do not know all people of course but I know enough people to say that is getting harder to meet new people the older you get for many people in that age range. The days are gone when you can just meeting new women by living your normal life. Now the only chance to meet women is acting like a sales representative and try sto sell myself to as many women as possible. This can be exhausting sometimes. But how about you? Are you in the discuss… | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksThis is common opinion but is it possible to take this IO serious? Sometimes random women smiled at at me for no obivious reason. In the past I ignored that because I always assumed that the women is just friendly or she just felt like smiling. Now I am into cold approaching and never I had te feeling that the type of smiling women reacted any different than the stoned phased women when I approach them. Some are more friendly than others. In my book similing or looking at a guy with wide eyes is… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?Due to the internet it easy to give everbody a voice. Even a minority can have very loud voice under such circumstances especially among younger people who take everything they read or hear online very serious. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksIt is not great because there are not many quality singles. It is hard to meet other singles just by doing stuff. in the past it was easy to go out to meet people via people that were single. These days there are only singles are single moms or women that are feed up with realationships. In younger years having peers that are still optimistic about dating is a big advantage. It is great that things are differnt for you but some of us older guys do have the luck for sucessful social circle game. … | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksCould you please eleborate why the op is wrong? I am curious about your opinion. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 09:27 AM |
| 14 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksWhat are you saying is partially this is true. I also got my l 3 long term relationships over the social circle game without looking for anything. But now it is impossible to met women by just doing stuff I always do. Your advice is good for people in their 20s but starting from 35 plus the advice is not great. Not wrong per se but not great. The social circle is going to thin out and the chance to meet friends of friends that are still single decreases. So being more pro active is only the way … | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who was successful with getting girls in their home country move/vacationed to the US can tell us their experienceBack home I was more the long relation ship guy and did not crave for hook ups. I just had 5 hook ups in my life so far with being in my late 30s and all 5 happened while partying in the states. I would say that is possible in general. But I do not know if the hook up culture is more ubiquitous than in other places of the world. Party places where alcohol is involved could be a good place to find such things. All my hook ups started at such places. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here who was successful with getting girls in their home country move/vacationed to the US can tell us their experienceAustrian dude here who is currently in the States until June for work related to further education. It is possible to score here and my foreignness especially my accent can be used as a good opener. All in all, it is similar to Austria. Only the game language is different English vs German. Another thing I noted is that everything is more extreme in America. Austria is the land of average. Many average-looking women here and not many ugly ones or beauties. In California, I have seen some really … | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?You have to talk to people in order to connect with them. That is just natural. Humans use their language as main way of communication. It is beyond me why so many boys these days are afraid to communicate with women like humans do. Approaching a women is just talking to a women. I do not get it why the boys think this is bad. As long as you respect the bondaries of women it is a not a crime to talk to a women you do not know. It is possible to hit on a women without acting rude or intrusive. I … | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 07:17 AM |
| 7 | Post-2020 game feels so different. What changed?I also have not seen a real change over the years. It is interesting that such statements come from people that have not been out in the wild for quite some time. Which makes me think that maybe the memories of these guys about their past nightlife experience is just glorified. The basics of nightlife are still the same. Night game is not easy endover , never was, never will be. You have to be good to score. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember me after night, because she was too drunkDo not do night game if you are after some deeper connections. During night time girls simple want fun. They are not after some deeper connections. If you want to be more serious do day game. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 07:19 AM |
| 4 | Indications of Interest (IOI's)If I would have waited for IO I would still be virgin. In my experience looking at someone means nothing. Each women has different style about looking at someone. Most of the time it means nothing. I learned that during my cold approaches. It is true indeed that some women looke at you in different way than others. Sometimes Women look at me with dilated pupils . This can be intepreted as sign of surprise they say. So far so good but when appraching they do not act different to women without any… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | French in the US (Seattle): Tips for Trying My Rizz with American Girls?No experiene with Seatle or Washington state in general. I am Austrian guy that is doing work related further education in LA until mid 2025 and my experience is decent so far. Being a foreigner with an accent can help to raise some attention. It is not a guarantee for anything of course. But maybe you can use your foreign nature as opener to get some conversations that might lead to something or not. One final advice just approach and do expect anything. Don't let yourself be led by prejudices.… | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 09:21 AM |
| 1 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?Sorry for the late reply. That is another great advice. Putting myself out there to broaden my horizon is a thing I do already. I will also try push the experiencing new horizons even further. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?That is a great advise to follow, Will do that thanks. It is really important to be outside as much as possible in order to experience new things. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?That is true. My accent proved to nice opener for conversations at bars. Once a girl asked me at a bar where I am from after she heard me ordering a drink. I think just being out there and try to social could lead to some more favourable circumstances. Worked 5 times already maybe it will work few more times | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?Have to agree. Logistics play large part and also the cirumstances. Like mentioned in the answer to another guy I just had 5 lays and before that only 3 long term relationships. I am orignally from Austria (all my long term relationships happened there) but doing work related further eduction in LA now until mid 2025. All my lays happended in the states. Maybe being a rare "animal" in the environment I am now also helped to trigger the interest of some women. You made a good point. Have put my f… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?5 different people for casual sex and besides that had 3 long time gfs in my life and could collect experience there too. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:38 PM |
| 7 | getting laid due to skill vs getting laid to luck?Good point about the luck. Maybe I was doing something right all along subconsiously that helped me to get into pants of the girls. Having good time might help a lot to give a positive vibe | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:00 AM |
| 2 | The harsh realityWooing women with money sounds like a horrible strategy to me. Even in poorer countries, the chances are very high that sooner or later another passport pro could outbid you. Leaving your country, friends, and family for women also sounds crazy. Have you ever been to one of the countries you have mentioned to see how life is down there? | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Centered Man vs. Nice GuyI have some trouble with comparison. Maybe that's because English is not my first language. This comparison is way too extreme. Being nice is always labeled as bad. I know women use to term too nice to get rid of guys. But when women say this they do not really that the guy is nice. Nice ist just another word for boring. I would not consider my self as centered. Being centered means to be that a person is just foused on him or herself without caring about others. I am considering myself as nice … | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 11:16 AM |
| 14 | Girls trolling on dating appsYou should stopp taking dating apps serious pal. The only point of dating apps is that women are trolling men. Or Men are trolling women. There is no need to be sexist here. Many people are online because they are bored. writing few words to each other and at some point they do not have anything more to say to each other. They part away and the game starts again with new people. If you are looking for deep connections get off the dating apps asap. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 11:28 AM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] What If You Treated Seducing Women Like Playing A Video Game?Yes of course caring is the next step after a sucessful initinal approach. The strategy changes for as soon as the defence is down. But getting their defence down is tricky and it is never a bad thing to be rather cold blooded. Had a funny encounter once. I am originally from Austria but dong work related further education in the states now. At one occasion I had to ask a women for direction because the battery of my cellphone was out. Her first reaction after the intianal exuse me was I have a … | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] What If You Treated Seducing Women Like Playing A Video Game?Caring about the emotion of women is good thing but only if this caring is mutual. Many women do not care abou the emotion of guys they reject. Somtimes they are very unfriendly wih their rejections. Seing random women just as points is good strategy for the beginning. Later one you need respecting the emotions of women is absolutely important. But I presume OP is talking about the barbones of the first approach. The guy does not know the women and the women does not know the guy. In such scenar… | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Every non-club/bar/event approaches seems to be frowned upon?Sad but true. I am not that old, just in my 30s, was there when the internet got big but I still cannot understand the onlinen world of today. Will never understand the appeal of socialising online. Even dating aps are not working for me. To be attracted to women I have to hear her voice, see how she talks, how she moves etc. It is impossible for to get attracted to profile pic. Especially to the plain boring picitures most women have on their profiles. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 07:26 AM |
| 7 | Every non-club/bar/event approaches seems to be frowned upon?Young people these days seem delusional. It will nver get in my brain: Why exclude places where you spend lots of time meeting women? There is nothing wrong with approaching such places as long as they accept a no. So-called designated places for meeting gals like nightclubs, bars, or dating apps only work for a small percentage of men. To succeed in such places you need to be very special in every sense of the word. Or you are getting ignored. | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Fear of coming as a creepYou are way more creepy when you are arround women and do not say a word at all. Why do you think that they might see you as creep when you talk to them? Do you look creepy? Do you always say creepy stuff ? Where does this fear come frome? | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What is the Obsession with Cold ApproachesThanks. These are rarely discussed her because the sub is more catered for people in their teens and 20s and not so much for guys in their 30s. In that range things are different and cold approach becomes a valuable asset. For younger folks cold apprach is not really necassay. if you do not live like hermit you have plenty of changes to interact with your peers. Especially in high school and college. Later in the working live the age ap can become way to big and you do not chance to work with ma… | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 07:20 AM |
| 3 | What is the Obsession with Cold ApproachesOf course, it's debatable whether a cold approach is as great as some pua gurus on the Internet claim. It has some definitive advantages over other forms of approaching though. You do it any time without preparations. You do not need a neat online profile and you do not need the right friend circle It is just you and the women you can approach. Cold approach is also the only way of approaching that will always work. Social circle game is nice and even writting to random girls can be nice. But th… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?About 2 to 3 hours. Cannot tell for sure. Just had 5 hook ups in my life and they were all in nigh game settings with alcohol involved so the memories are bit blurry. I also would not consider my hook ups so far as real achivement. Just pure look. Just hanging out at places with lots of women partying, then trying to interact with many women as possible and sometimes nature takes it course and I can get into some girls pants. Do not get me wrong i am not complaining having some beginners look is… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Can we always rely on women's body language and facial expressions?Women are just people at the end of the day. Sometimes people have erratic behavior. It depends on the women of course but my journey of cold approaching taught me one thing. You cannot rely on body language. Women who act friendly on the outside with smiles etc can turn you down in no time while other women who do not seem to be that open can be nice. Guys should take their shots when they see a woman they like. Relying on signals and body language leads to madness. There are even some cultural… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?I'm not so sure about that. In my opinion, the bitchyness factor increases exponentially with the age of women. As older dude myself I do not find older women nicer. But mabye that is just a question of the perspective. Maybe they threat younglings different then their peers. I have also read countless ponts of young dudes complaning about women of their age range. I on the hand cannot say anything bad about younger women. They seem to be ok. But maybe they threat me different than their peers. … | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | best strategies for gaming at a house party?As always the plan is just to have a great time socialising with girls with the open of getting laid. I also think that a house party is great event for socialising. Should be fun. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Hooking up with a woman at work?Never done it. Back home in Austria I just work with women that are much older then me. I am in my 30s already and with much older I mean 50 or even 60 plus. Here in the states where I am doing a work related further education programm until next year the situation is different. There would be some potential targets but in America it seems a rad flag to get involved with some people you work with. I respect that and as they say when in America do do what the Americans do. So I have never though … | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 07:14 AM |
| 3 | 2 random signs of attractionThe points are not bad. Point 1 could be plain courisity though and not attraction. As Austrian guy living in La now for work related further eduction I get quite some attention due to my accent in a night game setting. It lead to some funny conversations. Curiosity can lead to attraction though. So plain curiosity could be a good entry point. The drink example is also not that bad . It might lead to the "event" of taking some shots some girls. Can be fun too but I also one bad experience with t… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Can you approach at the park ?Some guys really must stop to limit themselves with artifical boundaries. You can approach everywhere besides areas that are not only designated areas for women. So ladies bathrooms and locker rooms are off limits. The rest is fair game. Approaching women is nothing else than just talking to each other. you can talk to people at every place that is open to the public. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 06:29 AM |
| 3 | What’s up with dating apps?If dating apps where the only way to meet women I would be still a virgin. Dating apps never worked for me. And despite being a men I cannot get attracted to women via pictures only. Ok thats only half true. There are some women that could blow me away via picuture only and but you only find these girls in a penthouse or playbay magazine.. The normal women you find on the dating apps do have the necessary charisma to impress me. I do ok in the real world and that is enough for me. I am in my 30s… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Why woman are going to test youI am really glad that i am already a bit older and the women in the age bracket I deal with rarely do such stuff like testing you with some weird stuff. I prefer women getting straight to the point. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:38 PM |
| 5 | When did women gain so much leverage?It is really funny to read the musings of 20 something guy about dating. Dating always has been complicated and it always will be. It is just human to blame external influcenes on personal short comings but it is pointless. A guy who is bad with women in 2024 would be bad with women in the past as well. Nothing has really changed in the real world. Most of the changes just happen in the head of the 20 somthing guys that are struggling. What was really different in the past compared to today? I a… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 08:17 AM |
| 3 | 4 Reasons Approaching Women In Real Life is 10x Better Than Dating AppsI prefer a real approach. I am way more successful with that. My success rate with dating apps is 0. Back home in Austria I was completely ignored by women on that app. Since living in LA for work-related further education I get some likes here and there. But these women are not my type. I am into girls with the big Kardashian-type lipps. I am also not sure if there is something fishy with the apps. Ok, admittedly Los Angeles is much bigger than my Hometown with a mere 100.000 inhabitants. The d… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Maximum age gap? Your own thoughts and moral standings.As long as both parties are legal it is ok for me. Being able to get someone younger or not is another question of course. It also question of your own age: mostly young folks and gals are on a moral trip. The older you get the less important that way of thinking becomes. When your age increases, the number of potential singles in your age group decreases exponentially. Without considering young people the chances of stay single are high. Morals are a changing target anyway. Only a few decades a… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | With rising anti-men sentiment, how can we game in a way that does not add to the negative stereotypes?How many of these women have you met in the real world? I have read lots of weird stuff on the internet but oddly enough I rarely see such things in the real world. If you want to game, do not care about other people. Who gives a f.... what other people might think about you? You live your choices. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Definitive list of IOI's (indicators of interest)I am not a believer in IO. I would be still a virgin if had waited for them. I also learned that women acting in certain way are not always more friendly than women that ignore before you approach them. IOs might work for certain guys. I am not among them | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 07:18 AM |
| 2 | What is/was your goal?My long-term goal is to make approaching strange women feel completely normal to me like second nature and have some fun along the way. So far I am doing ok. Out of many approaches, I could get 5 hookups so far. The End game is having another long-term relationship. For now, this is not feasible because I am living in LA now for work related to further education at last until January (maybe longer there is a chance it is getting prolonged) before going back to Austria. So at the moment, I can on… | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 01:03 PM |
| 8 | College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day GameI am in my 30s as well and college girls are not my forte because I feel too old for them. But the advice go for women your own age is weird. How is this going to work? Not many single women in the 30s age range out there. So why single guys in their 30s should limit themselves like that? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle?I prefer cold approach. Cold approach is the only way to go because it is not limited to age and other circumstances you cannot controll. As long you are young social circle game is great. It is a carefree way to meet new people without leaving your comfort zone. But as soon as you hit a certain point in your life social circle game is a waste of time. At one point in your life trying to meet people in your social circle is as pointless as looking for snow flake in the desert. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Student Introduction weekIf it is ok for your moral code, don`t let other people decide for you. As long as the people you interact with are adults by the legal code of the country you reside in, there is nothing wrong with dating younger people. I always find it cringeworthy when people tell you to just date within your age range. You're just limiting yourself with that way of thinking. And when you reach a certain age range that advice sticking to your age just leads to a monastery. You won´t be able to find any singl… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What are the basics of "friends with benefits?Ok thanks for the warning. She was the one suggesting to do the fwb thing so I assumed she is fine with it. I already have texted her to meet up again without mentioning the fwb thing just ask for a new meeting. She agreed to do so for next weekend but we will see if she is flaking or not. I am fully aware that te fwb thing could end up messy and might not be worth it. So I am not going to force anything. Just meet up again with her if possible and see what happens. Not gonna to force anything. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the basics of "friends with benefits?Thx for the explanation. I have texted her already without bringing up the word fwb. Just asked her to hang out again and watch a movie next weekend. she agreed. She can still flake but I am glad that I asked her. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:11 AM |
| 3 | What are the basics of "friends with benefits?That`s correct. Developing feelings is one thing I do not need right now. Under normal cirumstances I am more a longterm relationship guy but like mentioned in the entry post I am in LA now for work related further eduction. My time in LA will end in January 2025. So catching feelings for somebody I am not going to be able see regularly after January would be bothersome. So I hope I will be able to keep having fun without any of the parties start to catch some feelings. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a girl steal from you after bringing her home?I just managed to bring 4 girls so far and it did not happen to me so far. I was lucky so far I guess. All the 4 lays I had so far were night game lays that lead to drunken sex. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 4 | do younger women like older men? lets settle this debateIt depends. Some women do and other women don't. Some women are not specifically into older guys but might fall for a special one. And some women are not into older guys. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 08:53 AM |
| 2 | How do I get consistency taking someone home from the bar?Do you want to take home a girl every time you go out? I was able to pull it 3 times so far and it always ended in drunk sex. It was fun but in the long run, having sex with a girl was sweety from all dancing is not the end of the road. I do not say that to bash the girls. I was smelling equally sweaty from the hot air in the club plus the alcohol smell. I think a sober lay would be more fulfilling in the long run. (that is something I have not achieved as of now). I am not saying that would tak… | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting tired of this and that's why I'm asking for help...You should also ask your self if you would date yourself if you were a women? What do you like about yourself? What things do you have to offer to a women? | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting tired of this and that's why I'm asking for help...I am not from America either. Well actually I live in America now for work related further eduction but i will go back to my home country Austria in January 2025. So I am not fully imersed in the amercian culture and I will probably never will be. Because i am here for only a short time lol. And no with no bigger conversation needed I just mean to talk to women. Just for the sake of talking. You need to mature first because thinking of having a gf. How are you going to keep the women in your lif… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:44 AM |
| 10 | I don't like taking the lead. How do I change that?I am no expert but I would also say your problem is deeper than just the dislike for leading. I also do not like the concept that men have to lead but I am not disengaged and apathetic all the time. I just do like it because it feels tiring that the guy has to do all the work while women have just to sit there and wait. Your issues are beyond that. You should really find out why you are disengaged and apathetic all the time. There must be a reason for that. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting tired of this and that's why I'm asking for help...Step 1 stop calling yourrself a virgin. That's just cringe. Step 2 Try to get a social life. Without social life. Try to find stuff like and look for like minded people you can share your passion with. this way you might able to get some friends and you might find some women this way. If you want to meet women on your own try to talk too many women as possible. No deep conversation needed. Just try to talk to strangers to get used to concept of just talking to people you do not know. But be awar… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | "Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure"I am not sure about the quote you have mentioned itself but I think it can be quite effective to act a bit "off script" and not behave like the girls expect you to behave. Austrian guy here that is living in the states until january for work related education. I got lost at one point and my cell phone had no battery anymore. So I was forced to something old fashionend and asked for direction. A rather hot women was the first person I saw. The first thing she said after i said excuse me was I am … | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | I can’t take it anymoreYou really need to find the route for your problem. What are you afraid off if you can get real women easily? In the pick up context guy normally get a low self esteem when being totally invisible to women. You can have women but chose not to have them because you are afraid? Being afraid of what? | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I had a unexpeted hook up and I feel bad about itYour life your decisions. I respect your standpoint. But are you sure you are asking this question in sub reddit like this. hook up is part of the game so asking people in seduction community if you should feel bad about hook ups or not is not the best idea. Because I think we have more pro hook up guys (me included) here then other way round. In the end you must do what feels right to you. If hooking up is against your moral codex than do not day it again. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s the general consensus on approaching women in uniform?I would say it depends on how good your game and is and also on your location. If you are in your home country it should be fine but if you are just a guest in a foreign country approaching a women in uniform might come off as weird. I am a Austrian guy living in the states now for wor related further eduction until December or january and I would never dare to approach a woman in Uniform. My general consens still would be to just go for it you are citizen of the Country the military women belon… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 06:59 AM |
| 4 | Where to go in EuropeNot Vienna. As an Austrian dude, I can tell you that Austrian women are rather cold and unfriendly, and as a brown dude you can be mistaken for a Middle Easterner after lots of horrible things some Syrians and Afghans have done to the female population some women might be very careful to interact with brown guys. Not knowing the mother tongue of the European country you visit could also be a disadvantage in many European countries. And no offense but what makes you think Europe is a good place f… | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:35 AM |
| 16 | Dating apps in Japan are only for foreigners?Do you speak Japanese? if so then move away from the American dating apps and look for some Japanese-only dating apps. I am no expert in dating apps but I would be surprised if the Japanese do not have a domestic, Tinder, Bumble and Hinge alternative... | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:02 AM |
| 4 | First night out in JapanYes of course. It was not my point to say that women are not generally into guys in their 30s. I was just guessing that maybe the women in Japan that have thing for foreigners are just into younger dudes in their 20s because the women with that preference are in a similar age range. Japanese women in their 30s have no time for that bs. But maybe it was really just my vibe. I did not do anything the first place to show interest in women during my time in Japan because I was taken. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:30 AM |
| 85 | First night out in JapanGood story. In my book, Japan is the worst country for games though. I have been 3 times and in no other country I have been so far I was ignored more by the local lady population. But there could be many reasons for that. Maybe I was just too old already (I was in my 30s already when I visited for the first, and I am still in my 30s now). Was also taken during these 3 visits so I did not try to get any girls. I still want to warn other girls not to overestimate Japan. It is just a normal place … | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Where should you not approach girls?I think if you are acting like a creep any place that is not assigned exlusivily assigned to women only (eg. bathroom,locker room) is fair game. Also have to mention that not dating at work is mainly a american thing. I am from Europe meeting your partner at work is quite common. It is not encouraged but not probited either. I really do not understand why Americans are so against it. I am in America now as well for work related further eduction for the whole year and even we short term workers w… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet womenCold approach is the only form of approach that can always work. From super young guys point of view your advice make sense. But everyone is getting older though. Everbody reaches some point in live where it is impossible to meet new women via friends. All of your friends and their friends have either found the one and are married with children or they just gave up dating in general. Cold aproach can be done at any age range and you do not need any other person for it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookDo not change. Just change your target audiance and look for girls who are into similar stuff then you are. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:22 AM |
| 2 | When a girl says “have a good one.”In order to move the discusion forward you need to be a bit more precise. Why are you thinking that? Which words women normally use where you live to say good bye? Worrying about simply semantics can be fun but meaningless in the end. Maybe the girl is from certain area where have a good one is just a common way to say good bye. Who knows. In the end overthinking is pointless. It leads to nowhere. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Are German women direct in their rejection?Not from Germany but Austria, but our direct nature is similar. So yes they can be very direct but this direct nature makes it very difficult to approach. Many women have that non-look and non-take-to-my-face which makes approaching quite difficult. I am away from home now and living in the States until late December or early January and I prefer the fake friendliness of the Americans. In a culture where meaningless small talk is seen as normal approaching is easier because talking to strangers … | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says “have a good one.”English is not my native language but "have a good one" just sounds like one way of many ways to say bye. It has no negative meaning to me. Is have a good one such a unusual thing to say where you live? Or why does it feel off for you? Do women normally talk differently to you? | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | how do you answer the "soo what are you looking for?"Honesty is the best way to go. That is the advice I got here when I asked a similar question As a foreigner living in the States just until late December 2024 or early 2025 for related further education, I get this question quite often. I just say normally I am a more long-term relationship guy but due to my current living situation I am more in a short-term connection. So far every woman was ok with that explanation. The most important this to be sure about yourself. You have to know what you w… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Should you always trust your gut feelings?Depends on your gut feeling I'd say. if your gut is working correct then yes but if it is broken like mine I'd say don't do it. The worst rejections I ever had where from girls that showed IOI and my gut telling my I should approach. Was way more sucessful with girls that were not interested at the first glance. But it depends on the person. Some guys are good with such stuff other guys like myself fail completely. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Thick markets VS Thin Markets.Yes location matters a lot. I was raised and born in rather small 100.000 inhabitants city and that place is a snore feast as far as women are concerned. Just old people (50+) wherever you go. The only hot girls are hight school girls which are out of my reach. I am staying in the states (LA) for work related further education now and it is really nice to be surrounded by hot women when being in public most of the time and not just people that are about the retire. Will be hard to back next year… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How hard is it, to take 2 Women from the Club home with you?Trying to achive that is on my bucket list as well so I am not into the position to say blame you for trying that. But like other guys said you should learn to walk befor you run. Focus on pulling just one girl at first for few times before thinking about pulling more girls. It will take you some time to able to just please one girl. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Being to nice?The meaning of the words depend on the context. There might be some girls out there that really mean it while for other girls it is just the girly way of telling a guy that he sucks just without appearing too rude. When dealing with women it is really important to read between the lines. A skill very hard to master. i am still working on it too. You also should ask your self the following question. How did you treat the girl during the date? like a male friend or did you try to show her that you… | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 07:16 AM |
| 2 | I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence.Yeah sometimes such things just happen. I had just one hook up in my life and really was that simple. I was just at the right time at the right place. A Long Island Ice Tea an whatever drink she had ( I cannot remember what she had to be honest) took away our inhibition and it just happened. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 08:12 AM |
| 2 | going out is way better than dating appsYes, sure thing. You can also waste your time the real world out there without seeing anything you like. But this depends on the person and the app. It seems that the Tinder algorithm believes that I am hot enough to recommend my the type of girls I like. I see way more interesting girls in the real world than online. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 4 | going out is way better than dating appsNot really new revelation for myself. I have always considered dating apps or online dating in general as waste of time. It is not like that I am incapable of getting attracted to pictures no women that are as hot as some playboy or penthouse magazine models are recommended to in these aps. Just normal to ugly girls. I am perfectly fine with dating just normal or average girls but in order to get attracted to them I need some kind of connection. I need to talk to them and see how the act in real… | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How change your vibe without giving yourself upThat's right Too much acting would be draining. After thinking about it again it is not even worth wearing a mask after all. I do not want to change that much. In the long run I am looking for deep and meaninful connection aka long term relationship. I cannot do that do that now due to some external factors I cannot control. So looking for some short term relations is the way to for the rest of the year. I will just try how far I can get. A ltr trying to attempt things unsual for long term relat… | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 07:29 AM |
| 3 | How change your vibe without giving yourself upThanks as well for you response as well. Yes you right just being honest and being a bit playful about my current unsual situation is the best thing to do. I really need to get a better frame. I just caught of guard by the directness of the above mentioned women. Normaly I seem to meet more the indirect type women do not really say what they mean. The open playful nature of girl was refreshing and too much for my brain to comprohend. Well I will learn from that mistake and just being about my de… | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | How change your vibe without giving yourself upThanks for your thoughtful respeonse. I have to agree with all you said. Wearing a m ask is not thing I should even think of. Nothing good will come out from it. I will just be honest. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 07:06 AM |
| 4 | How change your vibe without giving yourself upA really great post.. Have never seen it this way but it makes sense. I think I will live by your advice. And I agree next time I should try to escalate earlier. During the second date ar maybe even during the first one. Was not brave enough to escalte during the first 2 dates because they took place during day time at rather cafe setting. Need to work on that and try to be more daring. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | are some girls actually mean to the guy the like?It is common movie trope but I never bought into it. Normally mean girls are mean. But have to admit that there was one time in my life where the trope was right. Maybe. It happend many years ago when I was 13. There was girl in my class who insulted me fro from time to time with some weird sexual stuff. I did not care at that time didn't get interested into pu*ssy before I turned 14 a year later. Anyway I will never find if she was just a rude person or comments like she has seen more bautiful … | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectI was always aware that primal instincts play a role in the game but they might be more important than I have thought. Have a rather libido and since I am single I do lots of handwork but since I am living in the States for work related further education with other guys there is not much space to play with oneself due to the lack of privacy. The lack of using the single-player mode enhanced my vision of women somehow. I see more women as women (potential mates so to speak) and I also feel the pr… | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?That's a great advice. I will try to adapt to your way of thinking. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?Yes, it can totally happen that you get the oppsit from what you acutually want. There is even saying about that stuff. In my case there is no danger of such thing. I am always honest to women and tell them that I will only be here until late December. So no women with intentions of having a relationship should should waste her percious time on me. Anyway wish you all the best and hope you are going to find a girl that always wants a relationship. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?Yeah makes sense. The good thing that my goals are broad. Just going out hand having fun interacting with women in various ways. Hooking up is just one of many ways to have a good time together. I just want to learn to get better with women. Being in LA is a once and lifetime chance. That city and the states in general are very different compared to my 100.000 hometown in Austria. Being there only until late december gives me also the chance just do casual dating without having to worry encounte… | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?That's good advice. I never went out all night so far. Just for fun having a few drinks and then leave. Getting late to the party shortly before the closing time is thing I have not done so far. But I will do that next time. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?You are really brave. Takes lot of determination go on a such mission. I am rather happy with the just having fun attide and see what happens but it also could be a good way to learn more about yourself going such mission. to find out how strong minded you really rare. And having lots of fine if you succeed is also a good thing. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?Yeah that's a good strategy, thanks for sharing it. I will do this strategy as well the next time I have night out. Taking shots together of she smokes, smoke together should break the ice rather well. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?Yes makes sense. A proper mixture of both mindsets should be the best. It is still long way for me go there. I am very good with the just having fun and really do not care mindset, but I still need to master the skills the really pull the girls. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?That's interesting that you are doing both. And yeah my bad going to the girls place would also be a option I have not considereded at all. In case the girl is livin nearby and I think my place could be reached from my favourite party spot within 30 min if the traffic is not that bad. I can also relate to guys you have watched. I am one of them to be honest. Even when things start get physcial during night game (which happend already with some touching and making out) it is hard to know how far … | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 07:25 PM |
| 14 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?Going out just to have fun, staying at places I like and meeting gals is also my main objective. I also think that hookups do just happen if you are at the right time at the right place and do the right things. Or even just sheer luck plus the Long Island Ice Tea I had before my first and only hook-up. I also see no point in really planning it. But what do I know so I decided to ask what the guys think about that matter how are good with it. Getting the right balance between being decisive and n… | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How to conquer the fear of escalation when not being aloneI agree. The context and the setting is really important. The setting was the mean reason why I was so fearfull I guess. Starting to touch a women during broad daylight I barely now with no other couples around doing couple stuff can really look weird. Luckily the third date is going to take place at a night setting where the general mood should be a bit more inviting for trying to get a little physical with her. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How to conquer the fear of escalation when not being aloneThx as well another great advice I will try to implement when meeting her again Saturday evening. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 2 | How to conquer the fear of escalation when not being alonethat‘s a perfect advice. Gauging her interrest in me is exactly what I want to find out. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDI only do direct approach. I need to see a women in real live and need to know how she talks and moves before i can attracted to her. It is impossible to me get attracted to pictures alone. Ok this is only half true I have to admit. There would be some really hot playboy or penthouse magazine models that would sweep me away with their pics alone but that kind of women are not on dating apps. And even if they were the app would not recommend women like that as potential match. Attracting women by… | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | HelpShe was interested in you for a short moment and no she is not interested in you anymore. Keep the glasses in a safe place in case she wants them back and move on. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 11:14 AM |
| 2 | How do we feel about Daygame?Day game is the most economical way to approach this. You can do it anytime even when you are just doing your daily chores. At the moment I prefer night games because it is easier to get some short-term connections but due to the main pitfall of night game alcohol it is not easy on the wallet and on health to do it that often. 2 times a month is enough. I would never go over my limit on my own but when drinking with women it is easy to get carried away. Especially when doing shots together and t… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Very good post. Might be to basic for some guys considering the the backlash you gut but you are totolly on point. And it is not even night game. Many men (inlcuding me) takes things way to seriosly and think about the future with the girl you just started talking too early. Living just for the moment without thinking about tomorrow could lead to much better results. I had to leave my home country to realise that lol. Living in the states now until late December for work related further eduction… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 07:12 AM |
| 7 | How exactly can you maneuver dating in the workplace?Very discreetly. The non dating policy at your workplace seems to be mostly a American thing though. Back home in Austria the work place is common place to meet your significant other. I am in the states now fo work related further education and even we short term workers were told it is not advisable to date within the work place. No enforced rule just a "strict" advice lol. Not going to say anything against it. When in the United States do as the Americans do. It is still funny though. A norma… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Did I (M23) miss a cue?People tend to look at each other for no real reason when in public. Women are no exception to this. And the reasons why they look are various. If you are interested in a woman just try to talk to her and see how she reacts. Overthinking over every little detail is a waste of time. Nothing good comes out of it and it leads to nowhere. | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?Have to agree partially. I am not rulling out women in their 30s as potential dating partners but because I managed preserve my youth internally I also think that women in their 20s match my personality better. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Hitting on women feels exactly as if I was asking a random person for $1000I can understand where you coming from but that's the wrong mindset for approaching. I used to think in a similar way but I felt more than a Door-to-door salesman. I was too much focused on a positiv result and that can be really self defeating. I know try to approach just for the sake of approaching. Not the outcome matters just the action. But I have to damit that my current living status makes it easy not to expect anything. Being abroad for just a limited time makes it very easy to be ignora… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 07:37 AM |
| 39 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?Early 20s might be creepy. Late/mind 20s and 30s not at all. The thing I find the most creepy is we have so many people here think it should be mandatory to date within their own age range. This a recipe for beeing lonely forever after you have reached a certain age range. At certain age singles are very rare breed and there are not enough singles left for everyone in that certain age range. There are legal and moral boundaries of course that should not violated. But making it as general rule ju… | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 02:09 PM |
| 12 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?May I ask how old you are? You sound super young with your prejudices. You have a point that it can be creepy if older guys approach younger women. But you may it sound that it always creepy? May I ask why? You are also going get older eventually. And the older get the potential number of available is dwindling. Making it a unversal rule to just stick to women around your age is receipe for permant lonliness if you are unlucky enough enought not to find one until you are still young. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong about that?Yes that makes perfectly sense. If that's the case I am not really prone to that behavior. Being abroad makes it easy to see the game as a game literally. I just wanna approach for the sake of appoaching and see how far I can get. The most thing I hope I could possible achive is a short term hook up. With that mindset there is reason to spend too time with a single women. Especially when she shows some erratic behavior . | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 08:34 AM |
| 2 | I finally stopped pedestalizing models after learning the truth.I think that's a very intereesting insight. Have to admit though that I have never thought of dating models at all. There are no models were usually live, a mere 100.000 inhabitants city with no model industry. Until late December 2024 I am living in LA for work related further education so in theory I could think about dating models. But it is impossible to turn theory into reality. As foreign nobody I can hardly infilitrate the circles where these models normally are. I am not really sure if I… | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong about that?Thanks for the explenation. And to be frank I have not really a clue what shit test is. I just know what some people on reddit thin it is a shit test. and the people on reddit might be wrong. Your explenation makes total sense. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong about that?That's right. I have no problem being left per se. Like you, we do not owe each other our time. Besides that she was the one starting to conversation I have to admit. Being a foreigner with an accent can be a good opener. That was the opener she used to talk to me. And I'd say she asked why I left the line in rather a drunk way. Not aggressively drunk but drunk. Just felt weird that she made it look like I was the bad guy who stood ur up while it was vice versa. The same can be said abou the sec… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong about that?i have 2 good examples for that. Scenario 1 Talking with me in club setting and then all of sudden talking another male friend of hers that was just passing by. I left to talk to my co workers again. Met her again later in the club and she complained why I just left. Scenario 2 Texting. Ingorning my question for another meeting fo many days and then she complained why I was not texting more. In each scenario another woman was involved. I am not sure if that was even was a shit test or just errat… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Women never show iois to meSame here. none of my 3 long term gfs I had gave me IOIs I would have never dated them. IOI might work for some of really good looking dudes but for normal looking guys waiting for that stuff could be waste of time and could lead to permanent loneless. Being proactive and approach is the only way to. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?Thanks I will . | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?Just normal bar settings. And under normal circumstances you are totally right it hard to talk to them because they are never alone. But being a foreigner, not giving the typical not from America vibe plus having a accent might make them to talk to you. Does not work always but sometimes it can be a good opener. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?Yes that is very fascinating indeed. Next time when I am going out I won't make the same mistake again und just go with the croud and lose up a bit. Just going with the flow. Taking things easy. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?You have a point. On that day the above described "incident" happens I was really on the sober side. Normally I have no issues going with the flow and enjoy some drinks while partying lol. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?Good advice. Worth a try for sure next time. She was my type after all | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?That's a good comment. I completely agree but to me, the level can be fluent and that makes it difficult. The girl(s) that approached me were very pretty drunk already. They could still walk and were still able to have normal conversations but it still felt weird to interact with them. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyInteresting take. I cannot personally deny that statement. Western European guy here but have not met any Eastern European women. We have just lots of southeastern European women here in Austria like from the balkan states. These women are into us Austrians due to their different religious beliefs. Maybe I will check your theory out when I am back in Europe. Now I cannot check it out because I am going to leave Austria next Monday to the States for at least 6 months for work-related further educ… | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.It admittedly is. But is not that older guys have much choice left. Besides the option of living like a monk for the rest of his life. But I personally would passon that. Or waiting until being really old is also an option. Then you can some old people's hobbies in groups to meet some new acquaintances. Late 30s is the most difficult age for being single. Because you torn between 2 worlds that you are not really part of. Too old to be considered one of the youner ones but too young to part of th… | /r/seduction | 08/08/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.I would say that a social circle game is a good way but it is not going to work for your whole life. If you reach a certain age bracket your social circle just consists of married people or people in long-term relationships. I am in the unfortunate position to out of a long-term relationship and I am in my late 30s. i used to meet my previous gfs via social circle game. Now aged 37 that's not working anymore and I need to use other resources. Cold approach is neither easy nor hassle-free but tha… | /r/seduction | 08/08/23 08:25 AM |
| 1 | best countries for datingYes, that is correct things are changing fast. I am not even sure if my perception is still true. The last time I have been to Tokyo was in 2018. Covid might have changed the same things as well. But my knowledge about picking up girls in Tokyo is very slim and purely theoretical. As mentioned above I was in n ltr during my visits to Tokyo so I was doing other stuff that had nothing to do with girls. I am single now though and the next time I might come to Tokyo I will do other stuff I haven't d… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | best countries for datingThanks for the valuable insights about that topic. Didn't think that international parties might be a good place to find those hunters though. I never attended one but I talked with some other foreign dudes that lived in the same guest house as I did about that topic and they said it was dick fest. In case I can make it to Japan again next year I might check such parties to see things with my own eyes. The reports about international parties are very conflicting in general. Some say they are oki… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 3 | best countries for datingYes the open mindset in the states is amazing. It could make approaching way easier than in Europe. Even though I did nothing special during my time in the states just getting a drink to check out the us bar vibe my not from America Aura/look and my accent was enough to get into some random conversations with random women. Such stuff would rarely happen in Austria. I had stayed in the states more than just 3 weeks I might have even attempted to game seriously. It might turned out to be perfect p… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 07:11 AM |
| 4 | best countries for datingThe best country for dating is a highly subjective matter. if you ask 10 different people you are going to get 10 different answers. One Example. Many US guys will laugh about it probably because they do not have a high experience with their women but judging from my small experience with the Women during my 3 weeks stay in the states they are decent and way better than the cold and unfriendly Austrian women. I think Austria deserves its place as the second most unfriendly country for experts it… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Play into your archetypeThat's interesting advice. Not sure though if also applies to older dudes like myself. Finding my archetype with 37 might be a bit late but still worth a try. it is a very interesting thought though. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfYou are not wrong. Getting laid is not a remedy to solve all problems. But in my situation single not fully over my last ex gf so not interested yet in letting another women in my heard but still horny af getting laid would not be bad for me. It would make my life a bitter for sure. At least theoretically. Have to admit that I never had single hook in my 37 years I live on earth. The only intercourse I got was with my ex gfs in relationship. Will be hard to start to search for plain hook ups in … | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | On the rise of lonely single menAre sure people had social media back then? I have the feeling you were not even born 20 years ago. Yes social media was about to happen but did not play a part in the life of the people when I was born. Here in Austria we were still in the unplugged world. Only a few people were using some European social media like schülervz studivz or meinfz. Social media did not happen until Facebook got bigger and bigger. So the world was bit different then. Socialising still happpend the unplugged way. May… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | On the rise of lonely single menIt was as hard back then as it is now when you are not among the 10 percent of women. Blaming social media for that rather sounds really lame. It might make stuff harder but that's not the whole story. I am not 63 but 37 and it was easier back stories make me cringe. I cannot count how often I have been rejected for not being good enough when I was younger. The competition was as merciless now as is today. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | On the rise of lonely single menHe asked you many things. Not just the picture. I can relate that you do not want to send a picture but how about the other questions he asked you? You can answer them without being afraid that your privacy is invaded too much. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.I can and cannot relate to your problem at the same. I am not over my ex as well and want her back although I know it is a lost cause. That's also the reason why I have not bothered her again since the breakup. I can just let it slide and hope eventually the feelings will fade away. Now to the point I cannot relate with. Unlike you, I did not have a single sexual interaction with another woman since the break up so I cannot tell if some hookups would help me to get over it or not. I could also j… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 08:52 AM |
| 0 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?I understand what assumptions are. But I am assuming nothing. You really think if you really want to be an the top have enough time to be a good partner. For being on the top you need to sacrifice nothing. Something like time. You really think these women on the top have enough time or energy for something like a partner.? At the least the ones in my company do have that time. If they had they would not be single or divorced. I know that because some really funny conversations can happen at some… | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?Would a nice theory if these signals were not so super unreliable. And what's your advice for us guys that do not get such signals? The only way is either stay single or dare to the a cold approach without any signals. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 04:33 PM |
| -1 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?Personal opinion and no assumptions. I work with such women for 15 years now and they are just obsessed with their work . Money and the work is the only thing they care about. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 5 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?Old guy here. You really sound a bit confused op. But that's normal you really lack life and especially relationship experience. In general, there is nothing wrong with being ambitious and putting money and a job over everything else. The only problem is that most of these workhorses are rather single-minded. They are not fun to be around and they also tend to make the worst partners ever. They often do not have time for their partners because work matters the most to them. People that do not ha… | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?37m here and this statement is so wrong. At best, the difficulty stays the same; at worst, it is just getting harder. For some guys like myself, the body starts to deteriorate (like hair) which sucks because it is a huge downgrade in looks. The potential dating pool is also shrinking because there are not so many single women available in the age range. In theory, you could get some younger females of course but only if you are among the lucky guys that did not age badly like me. Stop thinking a… | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?I do not believe in them. To me, they are either a myth or exaggerated. The only time I was relying on them was during school and besides the women were ticking all the boxes for IOIs I get rejected . Since that day I stopped looking for that stuff and cannot say that I have ever seen them again since that day. I am that kind of guy that needs to convince girls to like me. It is impossible for to impress women with just my plain experience. That's not cool but it is the truth for me. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 09:05 AM |
| 2 | 3 hours. zero approachesFor most teens and twens mabye. For older guys like myself social game is waste of time and cold approach the only way to go. A social circile that just consists of married with kids people is not the best way to meet singles. Meeting people at your workplace might be a alternative for social circle game of course but in my case not valid as well. Most people are way older than me and I am not into people in their 40s, 50,s and 60s, with 36. Cold approach should not be written of that fast. For … | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 07:40 AM |
| 5 | The Tinder advice you don't want to hearShould be better for mental health, in general, to stay away from that stuff. Living in the real world and trying to approach there might be harder than just swiping left and right but it is more real when you talk with women that are straightly right in front of you. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 19 | The Tinder advice you don't want to hearStopping using dating apps is the best advice. There is definitely something fishy about dating apps. I think that at least the algorithm of tinder has a serious bug. Here in my 100.000 people hometown in Austria, the number of matches was rather small but during my 3 weeks trip to the states, I just came back home the number of matches was significantly higher which is outright crazy. I was honest in the profile and wrote clearly in my profile that I am just visiting for a short number of time.… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Holding conservative / right wing political beliefs is not good for dating.Using politics to get women seems a rather weird way. The point of view is also very American and cannot be applied to other countries as well. Here in Austria, we have way more parties than just the Democrats and the Republicans. And many parties we have are either right or left wing. It is hard to draw the line between what is really right and what is really left. In America it might be easier to get caught in these extremes due to the 2 party system. I a not in the position to judge the syste… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | It’s Not a CompetitionI agree but I can understand that the competitive mindset might be a good stuff to motivate the younger crowd. But for me as an older guy a competitive mindset is just the road to madness. I am too old to compete with the whole world. The antidote against aging has not found yet and younger guys beat me in many fields. Especially in the looks department like hair. So I have no choice to just try create the best version of myself and do not compare myself with others. Or try to compete with them. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 02:05 PM |
| 3 | What are some countries outside of the USA that are good for dating?You really should try to work on yourself to be better in your country. Being a foreigner can raise some attraction at first glance ( I see that now as a European guy in the states now) but in the end, it is just a start-up. In the end, you will face the same problems you have with a local woman. If you cannot make them feel good they won't stay with you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?It depends on the country but in Europe terms, 178cm is not that short. Many guys with that height can have success. At least in my home country Austria. I can understand that you want to enhance your chances to appear larger but I want to ask you again. How is supposed to work in settings where you have to put off your shows. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?How long have you been in Europe already and where? The last time I have checked it was about 10 days ago (I am not in Europe at moment, on my 3-week vocation in the states) now and I saw many shorter dudes having gf while me a 183cm guy is single at the moment. You are not short with your 178cm for European standards. And how is the show trick even supposed to work? Everybody would notice it as soon as you take off your shoes every would notice it. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlI also would say that IOI are misleading at best or BS at the worst. So called IOIs lead to my biggest fails with in history. Back then many many years ago at school I was sitting next to a girl. We were friends and although Id did not know what IOI were back then my instinct told she was into me because she did certain things that were later known as IOI. Like smiling a lot, when I was talking to her, touching me in a playful way as forth. Then I had the great idea of asking her out and got rej… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Women, why you do that?Since when does it mean a woman the following somebody on Instagram means that they want to talk and are interested in the person they follow? The just ad you to have more followers. It does not mean that are interested in the person they follow. Again it is just about FOLLOWERS. Do not invest any emotion in that kind of women. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Sober game and your experience with it?Sober game is really harder than drunk game. It is way more challenging than drunk game but also way more rewarding if you suceed. I did not succeed during nightgame yet but mabye I will be lucky once. It would be way more easier to drunk game because I am way more outgoing when drunk but my problem is am bit to outgoing then because my horny side shines through. this horny side of mine could be interpreted as too needy by the women. So I just stick to one drink when I go out. Being super horny … | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:58 AM |
| 3 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?Have you done it in your home country already? if so do the same stuff you do at home. If you have never done a hook up then I do not know. I cannot help you. I had my only sexual experiences with my 3 long-term girlfriends. And as a matter of fact, I am also a European Tourist in the states that would be interested in trying to hook up. As a total noob, I doubt I might make it through, but time will tell. I have still 2 weeks left for my vacation so I will visit the at least 2 times or maybe 3 … | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 01:00 PM |
| 23 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.Good rant. I have to agree that many men are lazy and give up too early. But you also need certain amount of luck. The more opportunities you have the better. Did not released that before my current US vacation that is still in progress. Despite all the shortcomings LA has for example (the quality of life is better in my Austrian hometown) the changes to approach women is endless here compared to my Austrian hometwown where you are lucky if see 3 or 4 women in datable age on the street in genera… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.I can undestand your point. My comment was meant in a more general way though. the human mindset is rather unpredictable. Although it is true for sure that same races are more "unpopular" than others you will find individuals in any race that prefer to date only their own and so they would reject any other race. So I stand to my words in the first post th at the truth is somewhere in the middle. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 8 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.I would say the truth is somewhere in the middle. Of course, race matters a bit but how much it matters depends on the individual. Some people do not mind interacting with other races, some people might be biased but can be convinced and for some douches, the race is indeed a red flag. But in most cases race alone should not be a red flag to date. But the race stuff can be tricky especially when you are not used to interacting with other races. I am n Austrian national and here in my home countr… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done?Could be either hitting on you or playing games. I was never able to find that out when I was a young man many years ago. I had many weird encounters in my youth that did not made any sense at all to me at all. Once random girl on the street approached me and that her friend wants something from me. That is the literal translation of what she said in German and in german this slang word is used to signalise possible intrest in a person. Another time a random girl asked me on the street if I want… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Why can't I get no action in high school (18M Senior)His answer is helpful. It is just not the answer some people want to hear. Many people who are bad with girls looking for instant solution. like if you this and that and you will win. Human interaction is not that simple. You need to able to connect with women. You need to able to find out things yu have in common with the girls. So you can talk about stuff with them. Social skills is the most important stuff. Advice like go to gym is not bad, a good body can help but without mental training it … | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Anybody have a go to approach for 18-19 year old Gen Z girls? This age range puzzles me.Judging people prematurely is indeed rather uncool. But can you really blame them. You sound much older with your complaints. How can it be that 24 year old thinks that 18-19 years old are from another entire generation? As 36 almost 37 year old man your comment made crinch. I do not see any difference between 18-19 years old and 24 year old. Both are younglings to me that have not seen much about the world. Maybe you are rather mature for your age or it is general more common your country to be… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?My first guess was embarrased but smiling as way to acknowledge the presence of person is also a posibility. I do not tend to interpret anything by the way. The cultural norms are to different to that anyway. I am from Austria for example and people here do not tend to smile at strangers at all. Women are rather gloomy to strangers here. If I would see a woman coming out the bathroom in Austria fo example she would look right away or give my gloomy look. That's why I found the scenario in the gu… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do people who engage in casual sex usually only do so with strangers (bars, nightclubs, pubs etc…) or is it just as commonly done between friends and people who know each other?Interesting question. In that regard I am total noob though and cannot answer it. The only sex I had so far was with my long term girlfriends. Have to admit though that getting hook ups on the fly is a skill I want to learn though. Why do you want to know this op? Are you planning to try it for yourself or what? If that's the case I would recommend to start with people you do not know. Doing it with people you know could be embarrasing because you are going to see this people again and again. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Lol. That idea never crossed my mind back then but i would be not a bad idea at all. She was pretty hot after all. But back then I just found the situation weird to smile in that situation. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 06:54 AM |
| 211 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?You can't. Some women just look for the sake of looking. Same look because they find your outfit weird or for another reason that has nothing to do with personal interest. Or they are into you. The only way you find out is to approach them. Even the classic smile can be a false friend. Being into a guy is just one of many reasons to smile. I had a weird situation during my time in Tokyo for example. Once I was looking unintentionally in the direction of the bathroom when a western girl came out … | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcThat's a good advice. I think so too. I might be wrong but when I look at comments of the op it seems that he does not enjoy that type of enviroment. He does not even to understand it. Nothing wrong with that. Everyody has his own taste. Clubs are neither the only nor the best way to meet women. There are plenty of other venues to meet women. I am not the biggest club fan myself. I go to clubs once or maxime twice a year. It can be funny to be drunk and let loose and do stupid stuff but only onc… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?I do not know where you are from but are women in your area/country really that superfical so that believing women must be into you just because you have certain atributes that are considered normal? Sounds funny to me. You should never do stuff to please others. Do stuff just for yourself. Improvement is about self growth. It is not about pleasing others. You are probaly really young so you do not think about that deeper stuff but you should be grateful what you have. Many people are not health… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 5 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcYes they do. This is the whole point of the clubs. In most clubs it is about conversation it is about drinking alcohol, letting lose and have fun with weird moves that are usually called dancing. It is way less sophiscated than tradional dance of course. It is ok not to like such places. There are other places where you can actually talk and meet women. A mega party environment is only good to meet women if you like that type of environment. If you feel you do not fit into crowd you should not b… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 17 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcYou are not cut out for party environments. Just go to other on party related places. Or visit some upscale places that migt be better. Visiting environments that you are not into is just a waste of time. Look for places that are suitable for your own taste. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guyWell, the grass seems always greener on the other side I guess. As a guy that never had a one-night stand ( I only have experience with my 3 long-term girlfriends), I would not mind having a few ones. Especially now after my latest breakup, I have not fully recovered from it. So letting another woman my heart is out of the question for now. My little friend between my legs on other hand requires some action though so a hook-up would be a good thing. Hard to get such stuff here in Austria though … | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to most women?Thanks a lot. Yeah, I am gonna go for it and start tonight hitting up some bears near my accommodation. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to most women?That's right. It is a solo trip. Mainly for simple tourist stuff and not ladies though. But I might try some game a bit as well when changes arise. Checking out a bar and club to get a grasp of the American nightlife was on my bucket list as well. And when visiting such places I''ll try to take my shot and approach. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Are you attracted to most women?In my case it strongly depends on the location. In my Austrian home town the attraction rate is rather insignificant. It's a old people 100.000 inhabitants town. During vacation the attraction rate is much higher for me. During my Japan and Korea trip I found many women attractive on the street. I am on my 3 weeks us vacation now and even in America the attracation rate is highter and I am just talking about the street. Not everyone is hot here but if the girls are hot they are really hot. I am … | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I hate my brother because of his successLife is not fair. That's fact you cannot change unfortunately. The same things goes for emotions. You cannot change what you feel unfortunately. But you should still ask yourself if is worth it to embrace the darkness in yourself. You can hate whoever you want that is just natural but hate should not be only thing you live for. Hate won't help you grow. It will just drag you down for the rest of your life. You are still young. I do not think you want to live further 60 or more years with that ha… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | I hate my brother because of his successYou are full of hate and envy. I do not know if these emotions are really warranted or not but they are bad advisors. Why should any sane woman be interested in an individual that is covered in darkness? Do you really think your hatred and envy are going to attract women? Let's turn the tables for one moment. Would you want to date women who can only feel negative emotions?s | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Is casual sex a realistic goal for an AFC?You sound emotionally rather unstable so should ask yourself the question if you are able to have sex without developing any emotional attachment to the woman you are having sex with. If you feel for her emotionally after having sex and she is just into casual stuff you could end up being hurt. Maybe it would be better to find a gf in the traditional sense. But the decision is up to you. In general, I cannot answer your question, to be honest. Technically I am neither n AFC nor a Virgin I had 3 … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?Just approach. Signals are fickle and not really really realiable indicator that she really likes you. Some women are just friendly or playful. Got rejected quite some time despite the women should be into me according to the"signals". Reality is a bit more complicated then shen just relying on set parameters I am afraid. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | I’m tryna get asian girls but I’m failingI see. That sucks for you though bout sounds quite promising for me. I might try my luck after all during my 3 weeks in the states. ps: I also hope that you get lucky once and meet a girl that is interested in you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:14 AM |
| 0 | I’m tryna get asian girls but I’m failingI can relate as well. Asian girls would be my type as well but we do not have any here in my small Austrian home town. So they are going to remain unreachable for me. I am flying to the states tomorrow for 3 weeks for vacation and during my vacation I might practising game a bit and going for Asian American girls would be possible theoretically but after reading all the stuff about yellow fever i feel to intimidated to approach them as a white guy. So will keep practising with white girls instea… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Distinguishing friendly behavior and romantic interestDepends on the women but in the worst case it is impossible to distinguish especially when the women is bad at it. Some women know the deal others don't. Such behavior totally burned me when I was young. It was back in 2000 when I was 15. Was sitting next to a girl which acted very playful towards me. She ticked all the boxes of the so called indicators of interest . I did not know the word back then of course. So I decided to ask her out and it appeared she was just interested in friendship. We… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Konnichiwa, learning japanese to get laidWithout being fluent I do not think the same small Japanese skills might not help you much. I also depend on what type of women you are into. If you just want to have fun with some ladies that are into foreigners then you should be fine with little to no Japanese. It is hard to tell what your chances are. Especially at your advanced age. No offense dude, I am almost as old as you are (36, almost 37) and during my time in Japan, I was rather invisible to the female crowd. The rumor that Japanese … | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsNothing wrong with that mindset. I plan to do that as well once in a while year for a bar or club game. I am new in pua in general so any little help when doing club/bar games is welcome but it should not be used that much to avoid becoming dependent on it. Dependency would just lead to big problems so it should be avoided at all costs. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsThat's a good point. It is something I will never going to achieve. In order to get the skills you need to drink regularly and get a full grasp how much you really need to reach certain state of mind. For an irregular drinker like myself, this is not possible. When I fell like drinking I end up rather drunk after a certain amount. That's fine though I do not want to resort to a drug to enhance my approaching skills on a large scale anyway. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 08:51 AM |
| 0 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsYes i personally think I think it is not worth it. Luckily I am not in danger to get addicted that fast. I just go out only few times a year and when I am not going out I do not drink any alcohol. As a beginner in bar and club game it migh help but my main goal is to do bar/club game without any cheats. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach is ineffectiveThere is not THE only effective way to meet women. There is no ultmate methode. It depends on the person and age. For guys in my age range mid/late 30s social circle game can suck like in my case. In my circle there are just couples or even maried couples with children. Not attractive enough for online game. I also cannot get at attached to women online. It just does not click. You are right cold approach tidious method and it can suck. But for me it is the only way. It really sucks to be single… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:06 AM |
| 22 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsI also I have to agree with the alcohol part. It can really help. But it is a double-edged sword. it feels like a cheat code somehow. Resorting to a drug to really express yourself freely is rather lame. And in my personal case when tipsy I might act too horny and say stuff I never would say to a girl in a sober state. That matter is a double-edged sword again. In case the girl is into you the dirty talk might help to escalate but if she is not into you you might appear like a desperate horny gu… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | College freshman helpIf you like club hockey it could be a great way to enhance your social circle. The bigger the social circle more chances for meeting women. You could also try to talk to some girls that are attending the same classes as you after or before the classes. Talking about college stuff is not the most original ice breaker but it might work in a college setting. good luck. I am a foreigner who does not know anything about college life besides the stuff in the movies. But in case there is a tiny lit… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.Yes it surely depends on what are you looking for. I am not interested in long term stuff because i am not fully over my last relationship I just approach to practise. To get better at it. So I do not care for long term results. This the way how I do it in Austria and I will try to approach women with the same mindset during my vacation in the states. Just approach to learn and then see what happens. It is not for everyone though. If you are looking for more substance I can fully understand your… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.Not all bars are the same. Are you sure you can say that also about the upscale bar or stuff like hotel bars? Hotel bars with many people on vacation or on business tripps should more "sophisticated "customers compared to an average dive bar. It might be a matter of taste but I also would not consider dive bars or the people there bad in general. They were just more dick fests. That's not the fault of the bar scene. It is default problem of my Austrian home town. The general demgrophic statics o… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Your self-esteem must be really low if you are holding on to a potential drug addict just because she is hot. I would prefer a normal-looking person with a sane mind over hot looking drug addict anytime. You really should work on yourself. At first, you should look into your own mind and try to find out why you are so attached to such a person. is it just because she is hot or because you liked her as a person? If it is just the looks I can hardly believe that she is the only hot person in your … | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Relaxing, chilling at the beaches, and trying out food is the main purpose of my visit. Gaming would be just a side quest to speak in video game terms. Concerning trying to approach ladies I will try it if I get the chance when visiting a bar or club. I take everything easy and whatever happens happens. Trying out surfing is on my bucket list too. Would be great if I have the chance to try it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Thanks. No worries I am aware of how big the USA is and how far everything is apart. It is impossible to say everything I would like to see in the states in one trip so I have just chosen one state to start my journey and that's going to be California. I will maybe also visit Nevada. Have heard that there might some good domestic flights from LA to Las Vegas. Good to know that the slang is thing is exaggerated I also think that I am not going to have to deal with people that are using heavy slan… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Making a Arnold reference as a joke is good idea. I have though about doing it as well. My English is not perfect but it should be good enough to have conversations about various topics. That should not be a big concern. I might have some problems with some slang words though. So far I have just used my English skills for researching technical and scientific stuff. My talking skills have also been used so far only for proffesionall stuff. When talking to women about personal stuff could lead to … | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 06:40 AM |
| 19 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Accent can boost your attraction for sure. I just wonder if my Austrian Accent would help me to get some attention from the ladies during my time in the states or not. some accents might work better than others. It will be funny to find out if sounding like Arnold Schwarzenegger is considered a pro or a con there. But the most important point for gaming while traveling is the holiday mindset. A relaxed and easy state of mind. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 04:24 PM |
| 10 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Which European nations are you referring to? For Austria, that's dead wrong at least. Status is everything in Austria. Not only in dating but in Austrian society in general. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:06 PM |
| 22 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Maybe the game does not translate just to you in your home country? You should never underestimate your tourist card. You are a rare and fresh treat for the local women so that's why they are more interested in you. You are not the first dude telling such stories. So playing the tourist card might be valid. I really wonder though if the tourist card also works if a non-american guy like myself visit the states for the first time for about 3 weeks on th 30th of August. I wonder if America is as b… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Looks are subjective indeed and this rule is just utter bs. If that is true where are all the not-so-good-looking guys around? Where do these guys come from? From a secret cloning facility? According to this rule, the whole planet earth should be just populated by model-type guys. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsYes Estern Europe is a vague term. From a geographical point of view you are right. I am 1980s born guy that grew up in the 1990s and back then here in Austria the chzech were Eastern Europeans because they belonged to the east Block until recently. That 1990s way of thinking might be totalyl outdated and I have not thought about it any further. It is just how I learned it and I do not want to disrespect the czech people. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsMight depend on the country and also on the time frame. When did your uncle backpacked through Europe if I may ask? Here Austria at least women tend to be very cold and stiff. Maybe things are different in Eastern Europe. Cannot confirm or deny that in person. Have been in a long term relationship until recently so I did not paid much attention during my time in Eastern Europe. Have not been to many places there either. Just the Czech Republic. But that's just my personal opinion. Experience fro… | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have to get absolutely shithoused to do well at bars/clubs?In general drunk game is like cheating in a video game. it helps you to move forward on the short run but it does not help you to really get better with woman. It also depends what type of drunk you are. For me drunk game is double edged sword. I am introverted person and when drunk I would say things I would never say in a sober state of me mind. Like being more open about my horny and I would outrigh tell women that i want to f**k them. Having the will to escalate is not bad per se but not in … | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?Good luck then. Relationships without compromise is hardly possible. You are not perfect so women also would have to make compromises in order to be with you. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?Unlike humans, cloning is perfected and if you order a female version of yourself you could end up alone indeed. you seem to be rational, but what do you mean by good taste inn media? There is no good taste in media because the taste is highly subjective. You mean you are looking for people with similar tastes in media. Speaking of good taste makes you sound arrogant. You are not the world only authority in taste. And did you ever loved somebody? Does not look like it considering your approach t… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Thailand a bad idea?You made 2 big mistakes. 1)You posted this in the seduction segment where sex plays a big part. 2) I do not know if is warranted or not Thailand has a dubios reputation that some men just go there to exploit the female population as sex tourists. So it is not a big surprise that some people see you as one of these creeps no matter if is true or not. If you just want to talk with the women there let's hope their English is good enough to do that. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Thailand a bad idea?Visting Thailand is nothing bad per se. it should be a interesting country that is my bucket ist to travel as well. But I never got it how visting a poor country is going to boost the confidence of shy guy? How is going to help in the long term? It might be fun for these guys to get the attention of women due their money and/or their exotic look but that's usless. As soon as these guys are going back home nothing has changed. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Daygame vs nightgame and which ends up being the better long-term.I think it depends on the type of women you want to meet. Day games should be more diverse. You are able to meet different women with different backgrounds and different interests. That is not supposed to mean that party girls are dumb and plain but I think there is a certain truth to it that nightclubs do not attract the intellectual type on a regular basis. In theory, it should be easier to get some instant adult action during a night game. But this depends strongly on the country and or ventu… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you seem to attract a certain type of person / ethnicity more than others?No I cannot say that. It's just white girls. But that's not surprising because Austria is white Country. People with non white heritage prefer to stay among themselves most of the time. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Any foreigners here that have experience with dating in the US?I have not been to the states yet ( I am about to visist in 14 days though) so I have no clue how American women act in their home turf but I dated one american once in my home country which is Austria too. It does not lead to anything but it was a nice experience nontheless. I felt different than dating a Austrian women. But that was not because of the rules it was because talking about private things in English with real person. Never have done that before. I had no clues about the rules and s… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching on the NYC subway. How aiming big can speed up your learning process.Thanks. it was inspiring for sure to think out of the box and try to approach at places there considered as suitable places for gaming in a conventional sense. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 4 | I often hear the advice "Don't try too hard" and "Stop looking for a relationship and one will come to you". How is this not BS?What makes you think it is BS in the first place. Persuing women is skill. Like every other art out there you will find people that will never become good at it no matter how often they try. And some people are bad at first and will get eventually good at after many failures. But it is not the solution for everybody. I had 3 long term relationships in my life and they just found me by just living my normal daily life. It just happened. The only reason why I am trying to get familar with PUA is t… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | College adviseMy advice might be not the best because I just atteneded a University here in Austria and have no clue about that average college life in America besides the stuff I know out of movies. And these movies are not very realistic I presume. In general a college should be a good place. Plenty of women around to interact with while just doing normal college stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | College adviseMe too. Although in my case it was a university here in Austria and not a college. Luckily I found my then gf elswhere. My University time was still interesting I learned a lot but i did not get many women. It was not like in these american college movies. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys tell girls that you are older than you actually are to get with them ?No. I am old in reality already. Making me older would even further limit my chances. In general it depends what you mean with "getting" them. When you mean with getting just some short term interaction than making yourself older might increase your chances to get them. If you plan to interact with them for a long term don't do it. Do not lie. Be honest. In general age should not matter that much. Some women might not be into younger guys but there are enough older women that have younger bfs. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | approaching women in sober state at settings where lot's of alcohol is consumed?That's a good advice. But to be honest I do not expect anything. I just want to practice approach for the sake of approaching then see if anything is happen. If nothing is happen fine as well. Every approach helps to get used to approach. I might not be sad if some wilder stuff might happen that why I mentioned it but that is big if. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Solo Travelling Advice for approaching localsIt depends a little bit on the country too but in general visting places where people are open to chat to unknwon people like bars,clubs and other social events should work. It should be possible to google such places rather easily. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why I getting more attention from foreigners?I would think too much the why. Just enjoy being a novelty when being aborad and try to learn as much you can while being there. The more attention you get the more you can learn about it. I will be in the states for a few weeks in the end of August and i will also try to learn as much as I can while I am there. I from a non English speaking country so trying to game in a language that is not my native tongue can be quite challeging and a worthwile experience no matter of the outcome. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Dudes living in Western Europe (not including UK), how do you do game/ meet women?What makes you think that these countries are different? We might do have the "dating rules" the people in the states have but besides that isn't it everyhwere the same? people meet via friends, work, hobbies and some approach a club or a bar. Some do online dating as well. I can neither confirm nor deny if the English speaking countries are more open than the other countries. The last time I have been to the UK was in 1995 when I was 10 years old. Was not yet into girls back then. I also have n… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youI am not fan of chosing signals because they are too vague. I also cannot say that I had good experience with them. In fact relying on chosing signals lead to my first rejection I ever got. It was many many years ago when I was 15. I was sitting next to certain girl at school. She threated my different than other girls I have met until that point. She acted quite playful and was touching me a lot at random points on my body. I though that's it and asked her out and got rejected. It turned out th… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone been to South Korea? whats are the girls like?Yes I also think you should be fine. Hope you are going to have a nice trip in case you want to go. Have been to Seoul already but I want to go again in the future. I really liked the city and there other spots in Korea I want to visit as well Busan is also suposed to be nice. I can't help you with the day game as I have said when I was there I was taken so interacting with other women was not on my agenda. In case I should be still single during my planned seconed trip to Korea I also might try… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone been to South Korea? whats are the girls like?Many of them are very attractive if you are into Asian girls but I cannot confirm or deny that rumor is true that you have pretty good chances there as a white guy. I have to admit though I have visited Korea(Seoul) in my early 30s (I am in my mid/late thirties) so maybe if I had visited the country 10 years earlier I might have raised more attention because I was younger. Guys in their 30s might not be the first joice for some 20-something girls that are into foreigners. Another factor is that … | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Club game /Streetgame 101 in in the states😎 You are also totally right that having fun is the main goal. It is my main goal in the first place. I want to experience the life in a counry I have never been before. Seeing things I have not seen before. Visting venus that we do not have in my small hometown. It is not the best thing to visit a place without really enjoying it and just focusing on the ladies. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Club game /Streetgame 101 in in the statesThanks for your reply as well. Checking out the website to get an idea about the dress code is a good idea. I will certainly do that. It might be also a good idea to check out different places for the different vibe. For example visiting a beach or a pool bar is a thing I would consider as a must because we do not have such things here in Austria. And thanks for the warning about the "buy me a drink" girls. We have them in Austria too. I never fell for it luckily n my hometown and I am not going… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Club game /Streetgame 101 in in the statesThx for the reply. And sure thing overthinking is bad but I have never been to the states before it is going to be first visit. In order not be THE annoying foreigner I thought it would not be the worst idea to gather some information how things are done across the Atlantic. ps: Have not planned to visit Florida (at least not during my first visit) and that's news to me Miami is not the best place for Pua due to big competition. But good to know anyway. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Las Vegas is nutsThat's interesting information. I am about the visit the state for the first time in a few month and Vegas is on my list of potential cities to visit. I would not mind getting the the chance to have some NSA fun to be completely honest but I think it is also a big gamble. I think it is hard to differentiate just "normal" ladies that just want to have some fun from some criminals that just want money. Are there some subtle hints to discern normal horny females from criminals? like some common tac… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Thanks for your detailed answer. Well as white guy living in a almost completely white country myself white girls would my main demographic. Asian girls would also be my type but was not able to interact with them because there are no much Asian girls in my rather small home country. If i could interact with some of them during my stay in the states I would not be mad. My look might be good enough to fit the bill. 182cm (sorry for using the metric I am not familiar with the imperial metrics) not… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Interesting theory. Is that advice also valid for an European game who is travelling to the states for the first time? I am visting the West coast for 3 weeks in August for the first time. I have not considered getting laid is a posbility and I am going to do normal tourist stuff must of the time. But I am also an novice pua student and I might have considerd practising some aproaches in English. It could be good exercise to approach in another language than my mother tongue German. I would not … | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?I have never been good at online dating. I also do not the trust the system at all because it does not even remotely makes any sense at all. I was using Tinder was for fun without expecting anything. Did not get match attention from the women in my Austrian home town at all. I decided to test tinder gold for one month because it was on discount. I am going to vist the states soon and although I am coming not for game I might practise game a bit if I find the time. I tested the tinder passport fu… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Do all women adjust thier clothings when you pass by themCan't say that I noticed something similar but I am only surrounded by older/old females most of the time and I do not watch them so closely. Not much eye candy for me on daily basis lol. But it really sounds you are overthinking a bit. They could adjust their clothes because of you but there might be another reason as well. Maybe the clothes they where are a bit loose and they just want to adjust them. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying so hard and you'll get laidYou are right and wrong at the same time. Just focusing on yourself might work. It helped me to get 3 long term relationships. So if you are lucky it migh help. But is not a reliable way to meet somebody especially when you get older. I old now (36) and now my old ways are not working anymore. There are no datable women in my life anymore. My female friends are either in a LTR or even married. And even if they weren't they are not into me. My hobbies are dick fests. The women at my work are no q… | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Are women really intimidated by tall guys?You have indeed been brainwashed by the media from a certain point of view. It is true that girls prefer taller guys but your vibe or "Aura" is also something that should never underestimate. Maybe you looked grumpy or scary to hear. That does not mean that you really are that type of human being it might have just looked that way. You should stop assuming that just because you have a trait that women are supposed to like puts you in a better position than the guys that do not have that trade. i… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Is the average person here 15 years old?I am not sure if is true but as a mid to late 30s guy I certainly feel that way. Many people here have a overly simplistic look on certain things. If you do A then b follows automatically. I really wish things were that simple. But the women I had encoutered so far on my beginner journey for PUA were not that easy to read or manipulate. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What's some harsh truths /r/seduction needs to hear?Point 1 is either totally wrong or I am the exception of the rule. I am admittedly not the biggest ladies men out there. Just had 3 long term relationships so far and none of startet as an instant like . I had to convince the ladies to like me. On the other hand over 20 years ago when I was 15 there was a girl I was sitting next next in school. She smiled at me, touched me with her hands and legs. It looked like she was totally into me. But then when I said I like her it ended up in my first rej… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching on the NYC subway. How aiming big can speed up your learning process.Thanks for your report. That is really inspiring. I am going to be in NYC soon as a part of my first ever vacation to the US. I only here for tourist stuff but as aspiring PUA I also might to try to practise my game abroad as well. Your game worked quite well and that is funny. I have done some research visiting NYC and many guides so that is the best not to bother people in the subway. And that was in non Pua way. That's why I have never considered the subway as a playground. I considered parks… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:46 AM |
| 3 | Waiting for IOIs:m/choosing signals vs. being proactive as a beginnerI would say be pro active. Waiting for choosing signals can be misleading. Especially if is something so simple as smile. There are many reasons for women to smile at you and only one reason is being intrested in you. Sometimes women also smile for other reasons. Maybe embarrasment or feeling uneasy. A few years ago when I was staying at guesthouse in Tokyo an american girl that stayed in the same guest house smilled at after coming out of the bathroom when I was looking in the same direction co… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Picking up girls in a clubFor quit guys a club is the wrong place. It is a playground for extrovert people. Are enjoying clubbing at all? Do you like the vibe of it, the atmosphere? or do you just go there because of the women? if you are just there for the women let it be. With the mindset you do not want to be there but you have to because of women you will stick out in negative way. Cool guys that enjoy their time there would attract some women mabye. But guys that acutally do not want to to there don't. There are oth… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFI also think it's hard to get some emotional connection just via a picture and text game. I just think general attraction can only be built when talking to women. To see how she acts and moves in real life. Even if I would get more attention in my Austrian hometown than I get now when browsing around in the states via tinder gold I would not necessarily think that would be a good thing. Text game is way too tedious for my liking. I prefer talking to people in real life. It is also way more hones… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFMaybe. But that does not mean that is working for everyone. I am among the people such things simply do not work. Not good-looking enough and not rich enough to stick out among 1000s of other men women can choose. Not hating just saying. Luckily there are other ways to meet people. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFNo just tried out my hometown so far which is way smaller for Vienna. But good idea. I will try out that region as well. Could be a funny test. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFI seriously doubt that online dating is real. it also depends on the region I guess. I only got few results when browsing in my Austrian hometown. I decided to test tinder gold and visited some locations in the states that I am going to visit with the text that i am going to visit soon and that I am looking for people to show me around. And it seems that I am more interesting across the Atlantic. The funny thing is that everything seems so fake. I am decent looking 36 year old guy but I would de… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Gaming in the states as a Tourist Yes or No?Thanks. I am not so much worried about the girls though. They should be indeed quite similar in western nations. I am more worried about violating some social rules without knowing them. I do not know anything about American culture. Never haven been there. And at least from my Austrian point of view an obvious foreigner trying to pick up women would raise some attention. Not a negative pereception per se but it would be more noticeable then an average Austrian dude trying to pick up. It would d… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane?Such sceptical posts are made here quite often recently. I can get it somehow. Daygame is tought. Nobody said that day game is the only way to meet new women. It is just one way of many. Nobody is forced to do game. Just do what you like op. And consider yourself lucky if you do not have to do game. Others like myself are not that lucky. My hobbies are male centric, the few females in my social circle are not into me and they are already married or in a long term relaltionship. The women in my w… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Gaming in other countriesJust compared to British women or European Women in general? I am going to be in the states for a few weeks in a few month fo the first time and although I am not here for dating I am thinking of trying to approach some women to improve me self confidence with gaming in a foreign language. My mother tongue is German so gaming in English would step up the difficulty a lot and that's good. But how are Western Europeans are perceived in big cities like New York City. Are there some fellow Europeans… | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to overcome my fear of cold approachingI cannot really help you because I am not from New York City. Not even from the states to honest. But I am going to visit New York in October and as anspiring PUA I am planning to some approaches there in order to improve my skills. Gaming in another language that is not own mothertongue german is going to step up the difficulty of the game. That's great way to grow. In general it seems that NYC has rather a good reputation for approaching. At least according to the internet. Just some general a… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Which is better to live for a single man? College town or big city?Ok, that sounds good. The more places are available to approach the better. I will try my luck when I am there. Thanks for the detailed answer :). | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 08:46 AM |
| 5 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?You have not even reached your 30s and you start worrying about your 40s already? Just why? Use the 12 upcoming years befor you turn 40 to improve yourself. That is a long time. It is funny how different people are. Unlike you it would be justifiable for me to worry about my 40s because I am 36 already. So I will be 40 soon. But to honest I do idgaf. I just live in the present. You should try that too. Because your only hope lies in the present. if you do not overcome your insecurities now you w… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | "Gaming" in New York City as foreign non native speaking touristThx for your advice as well. I am indeed rather new in approaching but I am practicing here in Austria as well for some time. Practicing abroad in a foreign language is just a continuation of my journey. I do not take it too seriously though. I practice just for the sake of practicing. Day and Night game. It just for fun and whatever happens happens. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | "Gaming" in New York City as foreign non native speaking touristOk thank you too for the tip. Yep that makes total sense. I am going to focus on the night life then. Wanted to check out some clubs anyway also for tourist purpose to experience the NYC nightlife which should be quite different than the nightlife in my rather small home city here in Austria. Are there some special areas or clubs you would especially recommend visiting for game? | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | "Gaming" in New York City as foreign non native speaking touristThanks for the reply. I am fluent enough in English to hold long conversations. So the speaking part should not be a problem if they are willing to talk to me. Smart phones are the best friends of women here in Austria as well so that's nothing new to me . | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Approach at a bar doesn’t seem working well compared to daygameThat's true. I feel that the competition during a day game is as hard as during a club game. The competition is just different. Although do not have to compete with many other guys during the day game because most dudes do not have the balls to approach a girl any way you have to compete with time itself. Maybe people at other places in the world are more laid back but here in Austria, most younger women have a "mission" when they are on the street. They just want to move from point A to point B… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Girls think I'm gay.Have you ever tried to ask the women why they think that? There could be many reasons for that. Maybe you look or behave like gays behave in the head of these women. Prejudice is still pretty strong in the head of some people. Or it could also be a total different reason. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching normal in France like it is here in the US?That's true. Europeans have some type of shield. But when you break through them sincere friendships are quite common. I either go to New York or the West Coast (Southern California) but for now, it is going to be the east coast for about 90 percent. I am already curious how interacting with people is working over there. And although in the states for gaming mainly I am still curious to try out day games and night games when I am going to visit a club once or 2 times during my stay. Us nightli… | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching normal in France like it is here in the US?That's certainly true to some degree. Here in Austria, it depends on the generation though. It is really unlikely that the younger generation starts small talk out of nowhere on the streets but it happened a few times already to me that some senior citizens started small talk. In general, it is safe to bet to assume that strangers do not talk to each other normally in western Europe. Cannot see how that behavior compares to the states until the end of the year when I go there for the first time. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Getting laid as a man has more to do with favorable circumstances and logistics than looks and confidenceVery wise words. The circumstances are not the same for everybody though. Some have better circumstances than others. But in general, I would say very good advice. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Just experienced the worst cock-block of my lifeWell, I am known to the pua stuff so I am not that familiar with the pua vocabulary but isn't cockblock something a "competitor do the sabotage you on purpose? Blocking the only bathroom to do non bathroom stuff and then being interupted by person that wants to use the bathroom for it's initial purpose is not something I would consider as cockblock. Look for another place next time with more privacy. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | had a real wakeup call with my lack of confidenceReddit is weird sometimes. Some people consider downvotes for no reason funny or something like that. There is no reason to downvote your comment. You are just speaking the truth. Although it is not completely hopeless to learn the game later in life it is way harder because it is harder to meet possible partners. Being young while still in school and later university/college is the best place. Because you are around people around your age the whole time which makes learning to approach way easi… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | had a real wakeup call with my lack of confidenceI am also against the advice although focusing on other stuff worked for me. I was never a player, I met my last 3 gfs (the only ones I had in my life) by just doing stuff and meeting them through life. So far so good. But now being solo again with 36 and without any proper experience courting girls' life is difficult. I would not say that I am totally doomed I had sex already and as soon as I am in a relationship I can do quite well. My relationships also lasted quite along. But getting there i… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | To drink or not to drink this is the questionThanks for the info. Have checked out your field reports and it was indeed a very interesting read. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | To drink or not to drink this is the questionBein in full control is essential. Anything else is a no-go. Have already seen plenty of plastered guys that try to approach women on the dance floor. It did not look pretty to say at least. I never wanted to be that guy. The main issue with the drinking stuff is that it is hard to predict the group dynamic. Sometimes we drink more sometimes we drink less. Depends on the mood. And nothing against my friends but they would make terrible wingmen. On dude is still taken and the other guy is enjoyin… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | To drink or not to drink this is the questionI do street games too but the street game is not enough because my rather small hometown (100.000 inhabitants) is rather on the old side. there are days were not many younger women are on the street just middle-aged ones or really old ones. So enhancing my reach with clubbing and other places where more younger women are must to get more experience with approaching. I am a newbie, and my current goal is just to get used to doing small talk without expecting anything street game is really the b… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet good looking girlsThat's a generic question. In theory the right answer is everywhere. Just go out. Another standard tip would be to try to get some new hobbies that are potentially interesting for women as well. You also could name the city where are you from and then redditors that are from the same city might help you. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedI would say video games are easier. They follow certain rules and logic. If you screw up you usually know why. Interacting with sentient human beings is a completely different matter. They are impossible to predict and there are no rule sets you can follow that will always work. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveNot everbody has to do. If going with the flow and just meet someone by just living your live is what want to do and if it is working that's great. That was way to go too . That was how I got my 3 gf in my life. But that is ot working for me anymore. I only meet dudes and old women by the flow. So I have to rethink my ways with 36 and try to start cold approaching. Not easy and needs lot effort but it is my only way. If you have other easier ways than go for it. That is great for you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveYou really sound frustrated. Cold approach is hard yes but is not ineffective. Actually it is very effective because you do not need anything for it. Just go out and talk to women. Yes it hard and the sucess rate might vary a lot from guy to guy but for some of us it is the only way the meet potential new mates. Not everybody is 20 something guy with a big circle and many like minded people around them. For on old timer like me with 36 the circle game is not working. My circle consists of the sa… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionA negative attitude is very attractive. Maybe these guys that say bitches everywhere act like bitches themselves and the women just mirror the behavior of that strange guys. lol lol. And seriously generalizations are bad. They just lead to madness. Blaming a big group of human beings for your shortcomings is so lame. What is the point of that? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | You should lie more.Nice story bro,nice story but how is this supposed to work in the long run? If you just want some hook ups that method might work wonders but how about a long term relationship? If you want a long term relationship you cannot lie about your social status. The truth will emerge sooner or later and then you are screwed. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How to learn to game in the mid 30s?As a fellow Austrian, I can attest that most women are quite busy during the daytime. Robotic is not a word I would use to describe the state of mind of that woman but it is somehow fitting lol. But what makes you think that the club game is easier? Theoretically speaking you got a point but the club game is not that great for many guys. Spend a lot of time and money in my 20s in bars and the pseudo clubs my small hometown had to offer but I could never score there. I did not meet any of the 3 g… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | The real reason why dating in America is more difficult than other countriesMe too. But maybe not in countries besides Japan where the women are radically different from Women in Austria. You might be right though. Do not say that such countries do not exist. When I am in the states I am going to see it with my own eyes. Won't get a deep insight though. Because dating-like scenarios are not gonna happen. There won't be many gals that would date a guy who is only in the country for three weeks. So my insight is gonna be limited. Your insight as an American citizen is alw… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The real reason why dating in America is more difficult than other countriesIt is never wrong to enhance the pole of potential dates but do not feel victim to the grass is always greener on the other side effect. It is really funny because every time some random American dude is complaining about American women I must think about Austrian Woman. Just extreme Feminism has not arrived in full swing in the old world. But besides that Austrian Women have the same shortcomings as US Women. Being too fat, unfriendly, and arrogant you name it. The states are not alone with tha… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How introverts flirt?Introvert guy here. In the past i did not flirt the classic way. I just used my environment to meet new people and new women. And when woman get to know me better it worked quite well. I am not a total loser with the females but also not total hero. AndI really to adapt to a bit more offensive flirting that is totall against my nature. If i do not do that my future will be ready dry. I am 36 now and single now. My old ways of meeting women via considence does not work anymore. Even if new people… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Does not happend to met yet though I would not mind it would happen one day (though unlikely because I am rather old with 36 for that stuff to meet a girl at a club that would go that far so fast) but in general it could happen. Even in the rather small city here in Austria i go out. I noticed quite a tumoil infront of the ladies room because there 2 people inside banging each other. I also have heard stories that such thing happens from time to time. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not really a field report. Just let's call it first contact with American women. I have never had meet a American woman before I had 2 dates with that american woman that is working here in Austria now. At first i have women are women no matter where they are from. But some subtle differences cannot be demnied. I am not sure if that is really a cultural or just a personal thing. Cannot compare the behavior of that Americian woman with the others. Because She is the only one I know. She was more … | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]it is not my style either and would never do that even if was in the position of the OP. I am not a ladies man either but was decent looking und luckily enough to be at the right time at the right place to get 3 gfs so far with the age of 36. Need still to step up my game and learn because the changes of meeting somebody just by luck and coinsidence are rather slim at my age. And is not getting better even with older age. So I have to agree when people here in the sub reddit say to the Op that h… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:28 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You need to be a bit more precise about your location. The answer always depend on the location. for my location (Austria) the answer would be. For White girls. Just go anywhere. For Latin Girls I have no clue. I do not think there are many of them in Austria. But I assume you live in the States. It should be easier to find lots of Latin Girls.But it depends on the state I think. Have not been to America yet (will go later this years) so my post is just an educated guess. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The 3 gfs I had in my life were always a bit younger than me. So I do not mind younger women. Would also not mind dealing with ladies in their 20s in chase they are interested in older guys like myself. But no general age preference. I am open. Anyway thanks for sharing your experience with online dating. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ahm ok would you mind to elaborate the creepy part a bit more? What was so creepy about the ladies you have met online? Sorry for nitpicking but the creepy part got my attention. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Around 30 euro is not cheap but worth try. Having a greater potential dating pool within Austria might be a good move as I really live in the middle of nowhere. Reaching out to the states would be a bit to extreme though. In the chase of America I will just to the approach the old fashioned way when there in bars and clubs. Thanks for the advice with Tinder. I am completely new to the Dating apps so I was unknown to me that tinder has more options. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the further book tips. You are totally right. Going out and just practise without any expectations is the right mindset. Easier than than done these days thanks to pandemic but they are still ways. And then whatever happens. Happens. I am fully awaret that constanct practise is needed. That was also the reason why I want to include my soon to happen US trip into that was orginally planned as a pure sight seeing tour into my game. Well at least one part of my journey will be included. … | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]that' s really cool. I pre ordered a hardcopy of the book on amazon already. I will go throught it as soon as I got it. Thanks again for the recommendations. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Carinthia | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the advice. I did not know the book yet but it seems really interesting. I will check it out for sure. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes that is my plan. Just practising the cold approach with no reason. If I have a reason I have no problems apporaching somebody. But just for the sake of talking without my real reason was not my style yet. That is the biggest flaw to overcome my passive nature. It has to feel natural to approach somebody without looking bored or to overly shy. I am not going to worry to much about further steps like escalation yet. Opening up naturally is way more important for now. It is also funny coinsiden… | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes over thinking is indeed my old nemesis. I really need to see the things more in a relaxed way. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Day game spots in NYC?Thanks. I did not feel offend by the way. I like to make my own experiences btw and do not give much about the talk about the internet. If I have chance to grow during my 3 weeks in the states I am going to do it. I do not give much about the grass is greener on the other side btw. People that bash woman of their country of origin are often not the most sucessful crowd of people of the other sex so they blame the woman and not themselve. The negive things you hear about the american ladies can b… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Day game spots in NYC?Ahm thanks I guess. My main goal is to work on my fear of rejection and approach anxiety. But in case nature takes its course i see no harm in going for it when propper protection is in use. What is wrong with that mindset if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Day game spots in NYC?Ok cool. Thanks again for the advice. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Day game spots in NYC?Party girls and college girls are the best thing for practise I think. It is just about practising the approach. After all I will be only for 3 weeks in the states and then back in Europe /Austria again. So my main goal is rather innocent just get practising to overcome my approach anxiety. Would not mind a casual hock up as well to be honest but that is would rather inconviant because I wouldn't have a place for that. I can hardly bring same random lady at my hotel room. I do not think that the… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Day game spots in NYC?Ok that is a good option as well. I wanted to check out the american nighlife as part of the travel experience any way. Could you recommend any bar or club for 20 to 40 years croud. I am 36 myself already so I just fitt the clubs or bars where the older people hang out. Thanks for the recommendation. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Day game spots in NYC?Would you consider the central park as save? I will be in New York for 6 to 7 days as part of my east coast journey. I will primerly be there as a tourist for tourist purposes but as newbie in Pua practicing approaching woman at another country that I will never meet again is too tempting to not ake the choice. It should be good practise. The reason why I am asking about the central park is that i want to go tehre anyway sightseeing and if would be considred save for approaching ladies I would d… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:19 PM |
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