How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?

OpinionThink481 · 2025-12-23T10:55:20+00:00

Your purpose is to start the sexual experience is to be direct by expressing what she makes u feel in an emotionally driven way, not to try to get sex (or a relationship or reciprocation or anything else) but rather to invite her to feel the arousal u are feeling internally, so that she submerges herself into the emotion and u both just allow each other to sit with the emotion.

And what is the emotion that u express? The way she makes u feel in terms of light-heart sexual desire (not of love).

The emotional effect that her body, her behavior, her mannerisms have on you. That's what flirting sexually is. Expressing ur male sensuality both non-verbally verbally by telling her the things she makes u feel in terms of attraction and sexual desire, for example:

"The way u are trying so hard not to kiss her right now", "the way u lose concentration when she smiles cute like that, the way ur heart rate increases when she does "that" particular thing", "the way her gaze kinda hypnotizes you", "the way her touch hits you like a wave", "the way her mannerisms warm up ur heart". “The way u feel so drawn to her and can't help it", "the way your mind just short-circuit when you saw her wearing that dress", the way you forgot what u were planning on doing today when u saw how cute she looked", "the way she just took ur breath away", "the way you can't help but imagine how u'd like to pin her against the wall and make her yours",...

This is how u flirt verbally, not by telling them compliments or descriptions of what good qualities she has, but by expressing the emotional effect or reaction that her attributes or actions have on u instead, and combining it with the body language and it’s sexual self-expression.

When u flirt sexually, you are expressing the desire she causes u to feel in such a way that invites her to feel that desire, lust and sexual tension that is going through your veins.

Their impulse to start creating sex with you is something they have to feel, and they feel it when you express that desire in such a real and intense way that she imagines ur emotions in such vivid detail that she can’t help herself but to feel it as her own.

She sees the way you check her body up and down, the way you bite your lips suggestively, the tone of contained lust in your voice, the way your gaze pretty much says to her: “I’d fuck you so hard right now”.

That is what motivates her to feel the sexual energy and can cause her to just want to make out with u on pure raw impulse, and to have sex with you, without u needing to ask her if she would like to have sex and without her evaluating whether she should or not because she is not in her head, she is just feeling it and letting herself be carried by the current of your vibe in that specific moment.

It's something that you say without expecting anything in return, so you should not expect her to tell you “thank you”, or “I feel the same way”, or “you turn me on too”, or "ok let me kiss you"...

Just express it because it's just how you feel and only want it to share it right now while you are currently feeling it because the only purpose is inviting them to create a sexual experience if they feel it what you are expressing.

Now she could say whatever she wants: "We barely know each other", "you are so direct, so crazy, so forward", "i have a boyfriend"... Whatever. If she says things like that, you don't say sorry, try to argue, take it back, go defensive, or anything, you simply double down by saying:

"I hear you, I don't want anything, it's just how I feel". While you continue ur self-expression verbally and non-verbally.

See? Ur not trying to convince her, you are not asking for something, you just keep expressing how you feel internally because that should be your only focus.

This is the secret. Literally. Express feelings without demanding anything in return for sharing your feelings. But if you express feelings expecting her to give you something, then that's pressure and it won't work.

What this does is create sexual tension. And sexual tension is the emotional state where a woman starts to feel aroused, horny, etc because she is feeling your arousal and horniness, which is contagious

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Flat-Ad7982 · 2025-12-23T09:06:12+00:00

Something id like to understand too

tattooedpanhead · 2025-12-23T10:47:45+00:00

I've met some guys who have no trouble getting girls. The trick is that they don't care. They don't give a damn if she was interested or not.

For these guys it's about hiding the fact that they are gay. Using the girls to prove to everyone that they're straight. But they have to be drunk most of the time they're with the girls.

The big lesson to be learned from them. Is to not give a damn. They're cocky a little aggressive sometimes rude but they don't care. If the girl doesn't like him he moves on.

theadoringfan216 · 2025-12-23T08:58:31+00:00

Look like you want to fuck them

Budget-Kick822 · 2025-12-23T19:34:35+00:00

Have the mindset "I make no apologies for my desires as a man".

the-old-guard90 · 2025-12-23T17:12:27+00:00

In general I just text her like we’ve already slept together.

“Girl I thought I told you to stop running through my mind all night 😏”

Ideally tho you flirt briefly then communicate clearly you want to see her

“Hey fr tho I can’t text much, come grab a bite w me tonight at 7”

Then if she’s actually into you she’ll oblige if she says no without offering an alternative I move to the next girl

Texting is primarily to meet up

Meet up is to flirt and escalate

Far_Secret_2710 · 2025-12-24T16:35:18+00:00

Post an ad to apply for an all-expenses-paid trip to Dubai. Dimes only

merf_me2 · 2025-12-24T21:27:54+00:00

easy. first have a mustache. if you cant grow one glue a fake one on. next you need to put your leg up on a table, desk or even a shelf (think captain morgan pose). then you need to look the person in the eyes and just make a load moaning sound while licking your lips and winking. oh i should mention that its important to wink first then moan and lick or the other person will think you are being sarcastic

ghostcatzero · 2025-12-24T17:18:18+00:00

Gotta give off the energy that you are interested without trying to hard. It's gotta be subtle. Unless you have great conversation skills. There are some people that can can not much while giving off a lot of sexual energy. Just gotta find your flow

Whole_Caramel_7279 · 2025-12-25T18:21:02+00:00

Communicating sexual desire is actually low level needy behavior. Playfully do the opposite act like she’s wants to fuck you and you’re unsure.. the point is to make the interaction sexual while taking the frame of she’s the one trying to fuck.

Title	How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?
Author	puma085
Upvotes	23
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Date	December 23, 2025 8:49 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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