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| 0 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenSomething stand out almost immediately the difference between full-time employed volunteers men and women is 8% I looked directly at the chart and for most organizations the differences are not that huge with the lowest being 0.1% difference. What I found very interesting as hell straight up rude this is considering that the differences are so small here's something that came out "One common explanation is cultural expectations. Men are often conditioned in America to think that they should devo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedhttps://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/19JR7v95xt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThe question literally has nothing to do with that at all. Not one bit I do not know how you're connecting it to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenDon't know about this whole autistic thing now certain things can and cannot be measured when an absolutely can. Objectively like a couple things you said are not even relating to what I said You're just starting a conversation based off a topic that did not discuss. I never say anything about making the Mikey more I'm just saying is the flow one way more than is the other in general I'm more likely to give someone money because if you know friends and if you know friend give me money. I am more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenAlso the work bit. Men work on average 4 more hours a week compared to women so in general seems like it averages out to be equal work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:28 AM |
| -2 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenAs some one who has volunteered and currently does I can assure you women volunteer more simply because they are more likely to be the stay at home parent/ stay at home wife.. and even with that it's not that big of a difference. Women also get survivors benefits because more often than not men will still die first. The sick think is spotty but true. What's also researched is that women were 33% more likely to divorce their husbands when they lost their job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenLol. So they're looking for a Fair exchange? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenCould be a unique experience could be an overall fact I know that as far as individuals I am consistently asked for emotional support and physical support and financial support. Almost to an annoying degree it's like a multiple times a week type thing. I still help I'm getting a little burnt out from it of course but The last time a woman did something for me was on my birthday and it was a friend. I've helped out with rides counseling someone after a breakup getting someone food and all that. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedBut that's legitimately nothing to do with who I posted I'm asking you if there should be a punishment in general She doesn't even have to get pregnant It's still in many opinions some type of assault. Do you have opinion on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThat has absolutely zero to do with the question here at all. Like I specifically pointed it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenYou definitely did not need to go out on a limb to guess I'm a man It says it right there in my tag 😂. But going back to the point I think it's telling that you have to use yelling as a key point of communication or going through the density of your stubborn husband You've pretty much have trained your relationship to only truly communicate by heightened emotion representation. And yes I'd rather have change behavior than a fake apology. And that goes both ways yelling is not a prominent thing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI have not once in my whole life seeing yelling that didn't have any of the predicators of the four horsemen or more specifically hostility, or critisim. I also have not seen a lot of yelling occur where immediately still willing to listen to a lot of things without a lot of work. I think you're focusing a lot on the yelling itself which is valid But I think the partner drafting or not acknowledging is the fact that yelling comes with a lot of baggage attached to it That is detriment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI do think you have to look deeper than that because yelling along with contempt is a symptom of the four horseman. If you're yelling something serious has already occurred. Also sites harsh starts to interactions as well. Even in stable, happy relationships: When conflict begins with hostility, defensive sequences result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenNo call message moving mean you're failing but yelling in a relationship is an absolute that you have failed somewhere. It's not surprising that you say you don't need to cite it back and that's okay. That's why I expect within a highly emotional framework You don't have to prove your thoughts you just have to feel them and feeling is a false sense of objective validation. That's interesting you think yelling is acceptable but snarky contempt as a button pusher for you? I think that's a little t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenDr John gottman. A renowned couples therapist: Dr. John Gottman, a psychologist whose work is widely regarded in relationship science, identified communication patterns that predict relationship breakdown with over 90% accuracy. In his research he and his team found that certain negative behaviors during conflict — notably harsh communication styles — are strong predictors of relationship dissolution. While yelling per se isn’t singled out as a stand-alone “worst thing,” aggressive, hostile, or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenIt supports communicating emotions not yelling at people and also you're missing some of the core components of emotional intelligence but good job on the basic overview the ability to communicate in healthy ways. There is not one healthy therapist or person who says yelling is the best way to go. Actually there's a guy who does examples of responding versus reaction. Just because you feel validated and why you would yell doesn't mean is the right decision to yell. Was your approve of a man yell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenThink what's interesting is that you're response is literally the opposite of emotional intelligence and something that therapy would not recommend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI think you’re arguing against something I didn’t say. I’m not saying emotions are irrelevant, and I’m not saying people shouldn’t be accountable or apologize when they’ve caused harm. What I am saying is that emotional escalation is not the mechanism that creates accountability or change. Accountability comes from naming behavior and correcting it. Apologies matter when they’re paired with action. Validation acknowledges feelings, but it doesn’t fix the underlying issue. Wanting regulation and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenLol It's interesting that men get what I'm saying even when they disagree but ladies don't this is not an insult just an observation. I guess another way to put it is that there's too much emotion in the conversation You can talk as much as you want when you're disagreeing with someone and I actually support that. But when you are just talking about feelings versus working towards solutions then I consider that a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI think it's objectively valid. Women are the first to say men are not good with emotions and they also say that it's detrimental to a relationship so you would think by their own logic and standards to women would make better relationships.. also validate this by looking at how my female friends feel about advice they get for me I noticed that when you talk to other women they get feeling space advice when they talk to me they get practical advice so I told my friends go to your ladies if you w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenIs actually valid in some cases but this wasn't really relativeism It was just different standards and desires altogether It was usually a semantics thing I once watched a video with a woman literally flips out because the husband made the bed for the child and the orientation of the dinosaurs wasn't the way she does it.. objectively that has been the correct way so the kid would be able to see the dinosaurs almost eye to eye The wife made it by the way she was looking at the bed. But those are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI agree and to restate I don't think emotions are bad You can certainly have emotions but I've never been in a situation where I was like Man this tense situation needs more emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenOkay let's clarify something she's telling me that she believes that's the be all I am disagreeing with that. Of course that's what she's telling me directly what she thinks I disagree with that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI think you feel that I'm not the co-regulation partner. But if you used reasonable thought process you're saying that the guy who's talking about don't be overly emotional is not the guy you can come to , to help calm you down? I am Definitely there to reasonably get someone off the emotional unstable high 😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenYou don't address anger when someone is hungry. You addressed the hunger. Lol. You can't emotion your way into not being hungry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenTell me in any literature that trying to solve bigger issues off the back of an initiated smaller issue is the best way to solve it? And I would say that any person not just women who brings up a wider array of issues in the heat of the moment are not doing it with a clear mind it's usually with some anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenEmotional outbursts can be understandable in some moments. I’m not denying that people have them or that they’re human. What I’m saying is that emotional intensity does not help resolve problems or preserve relationships. Regulation does. An outburst might make sense emotionally, but it still doesn’t do anything constructive. It doesn’t clarify the issue, set boundaries, or move toward a solution. That only happens once emotions come down. You can behave emotionally. Everyone does sometimes. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenWhat you’re describing isn’t emotional expression solving the problem. It’s co-regulation. Co-regulation works by reducing emotional intensity, not increasing it. One person stays calmer so the other can settle. The resolution wasn’t “more emotion.” It was de-escalation. That distinction is exactly what I’m talking about. Literally in summer you said my husband was angry and I called him down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenAnd you are right about what it relies on but the variables within those things it relies on are severely different sometimes. For a lot of women expression is the goal. For a lot of men resolutions are the goal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenOkay now I know you're messing with me. Emotion levels should not have heavy impact on a solution If I say hey I'm hungry right now The solution is going to be to eat. If I say I'm so effing hungry and I don't want to deal with anyone that's probably going to start a little bit of a problem a slight argument and then eventually you'll find something to eat .source- dating women since I was 14. And addendum to that wouldn't it be a lack of emotional death to only start solutions when someone is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI would like to say on one side those are interpretations of certain things. Man who has lived with a woman before I've had heart to hearts about things that were fixed the deeper communication Was it poorly done or do you have a particular way about things. Did I forget or am I not on your timetable on when you want things to be done etc. I've had the same issues and they were fixed by communicating. I told her hey Saturday morning at 8:00 is not a good time for me. You clean all your chores an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenAbsolutely it's unreasonable because emotional outburst solve nothing. Can she do it absolutely. But by almost pure definition she's not trying to solve anything. You have emotional outbursts when You're trying to purely express things. And I'm not going to stop anyone from doing that if that's what the moment is. But if you're trying to resolve something emotional outburst does not help out at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:47 PM |
| -3 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenLol. My whole thing is a communication. Whoever if you're just breaking down into emotion that's not good. I don't know what's counterproductive here I think most therapists would agree that an emotions are high connection is low. I never not said one time that you should not talk to your partner. But if I did please go ahead and quote it for me. What's even crazier is that even in my post I didn't say don't talk I said I'd rather go to a arbitrator. So you're wrong in like three dimensions. I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenEmotions are emotions logic is logic. I'm literally talking to someone and this post about how expression of emotions fix his problems. Logically that's false emotionally it can be anything she wants it to be. My feeling is that I want to use logic to try to resolve problems. Logic is not an emotion in the same way emotions aren't logic. Emotions can be anything and are hard to disagree with. Logic is a flowchart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenBy literal definition they don't solve problems at all these are at best key points within problem resolutions. These are not the solving of the problems. If I tell you I'm angry and that's it that solves nothing. If you tell me I see that you're angry that literally solves nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenThere is no scenario where emotional outbursts are unreasonable, and emotional outbursts themselves exist on a continuu Are you serious? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenOh man that's kind of tough that you can't see which one it is communication. If I tell someone hey I'm tired this week let's go out to dinner today That is communication. If you say you never take me out anywhere that's exacerbation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenNope not that many variables. Just say what you want plainly with solutions. It could be true that the person hasn't taken her out in a long time. You can still communicate in a way that also brings a solution. I think of that one episode of the show I used to watch. The woman says it's cold out there and the guy says well damn what do you want me to do. I always was curious as to why she didn't say hey let's go inside or can I use your jacket or hey I'm going to go get the jacket right now and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenYou’re right that a lot of men drop the ball on effort and empathy. I’m not defending that. Where I think the disconnect happens is how problems are brought forward. A lot of women correctly identify an issue, but stop at expression instead of moving into solution design. Saying “I’m overwhelmed doing all the housework” identifies the problem. It doesn’t resolve it. Resolution looks more like: “I need help. I’ve thought about it. Here’s a fair split that accounts for our schedules. Can you handl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenValidating emotions validates emotions. By definition that does not solve a problem. All that does is say yes I see you have a problem and I can see is detrimental to you. Expressing emotions by definition is just expressing emotions. It's like you're proving my point almost verbatim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI hear your point, I counterpoint with the fact that talking is not fixing in the way that just saying something isn't equal to doing something. Kind of in a way that some people think that if you don't show passion that means you don't care. And those are part of a relationship in my opinion not the relationship If you're talking that's half the battle if you're talking with intent that's the whole war. If you're leaving that's a answer. If you're trying to come to a resolution that is the solu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenInteresting, I don't have that issue usually but I think it's my approach I do invite emotions I just don't like when I becomes debilitating part of the interaction. I want them to feel happy I want them to express sadness and want them to express any emotion that they want. I just don't want it to be a crutch. But yeah that also needs to be said that men have emotions too we just don't want to be the fuel to our interactions sometimes and I think that's a benefit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenIf you want to argue that being overly emotional when trying to solve problems is counter productive, that's a completely normal take. I had to go back and reread what I wrote and I think that's actually exactly what I said lol. The first paragraph and a half pretty much talks about the indulgence of being overly emotional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenNo, that’s not what I said at all. And I think you’re kind of proving my point by reading what I wrote entirely through an emotional lens. Emotions are essential. They’re how problems surface. You feel something, you react, you bring it up. That part is good. Necessary. Where it becomes a problem is when emotion doesn’t stop there and instead drives the entire process. Staying emotional throughout a conflict doesn’t create space to reassess, regulate, or actually solve anything. It narrows persp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:14 PM |
| -4 | Emotional Addiction Is Ruining Relationships With WomenI never said you couldn't share your thoughts. Share all the thoughts. Never stop sharing thoughts. It's the difference between saying I'm tired of cooking this week let's go out versus I feel like you never take me anywhere All I do is cook for you and we do nothing.. communicate don't exacerbate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityHow does this conflict with the anecdotal experience at women are the main pushers of relationships and marriage in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingI mean you could apply moral judgment to a depending on the topic I think that's okay or something is detrimental to an individual or two society with knowing the risk and/ or the causes the nest on some levels sometimes you are morally failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedOops you're right. Sorry about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:38 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedYou're debating a different topic it looks like. We can debate stupidity on a different post and I would agree with you. I'm talking about ramifications for lying. Can you be more direct or not reply with a tangent answer at all? I'm just going to assume your answer is no You don't believe that birth control fraud should be a criminal offense for men or women otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI strongly disagree There's a difference between a green to something that has a 1% chance of pregnancy versus 30%. People specifically go through processes to reduce risk with any type of contract verbal or nonverbal You have to clearly be presented with your risk and benefits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingYeah it's like a endless pit of what aboutisms and contradictions. I get you. I think people just take it personally especially if it applies to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedOn a slight tangent I personally would love the option of not riding with people who have their dog in the front seat. More options for all seems pretty chill in general. I support it. I support women being able to report drivers who sexually harass them. I also support drivers to have accessible easy pathways to submit recorded proof of the interaction if it is false. ( That's a number one complaint on the Uber side where men say they were accused of something but they have video proof that it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI don't know about most of the examples you said I truly personally wouldn't care those are not things that really affect me too heavily if women want to drive with female writers that's a non problem for me. I can see how women would feel more comfortable with a woman. This is not tit for tat This is just making things right If stealthy never happened I would still ask that women who lie about their birth control status receive some repercussions.. And for the thousandth time this has nothing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingI hear what you're saying. However saying that 5% of relationships have this issue can be dismissive to a lot of people so it can actually derail a conversation. Most issues we have in society are not high overall but they're impactful. So so I would say objectively even if I'm stepping outside of my own argument anything could be anything to anyone as far as if it's important or not but I do agree objectively that calling something rare is not sufficient enough to happen but I also believe that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedNope I'm just asking for right now if you have any punishment for lying and that in the future and then they're going to have the same access to lie as some women have done. I'm not asking about paper abortion that leads nowhere most of the time. You can choose just a specifically answer the question. I am foregoing any implications. I am Blessing you to not answer any implications you might be perceiving I am asking you specifically only to answer the question stated or to not answer at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingWell considering that I'm black I think it's probably more of a hitting point for me considering that black men like me used to get hanged for white women lying about rape. And considering that with the innocence project men of color specifically are getting out of prison due to depression of evidence, prosecutor misconduct, and DNA evidence I think I have a good reason to think this as well. Considering that within the last year I've seen men of color who ran away from incident still get arrest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingNo I can advocate for anyone on any topic honestly. As long as I'm invited and it's appreciated the thing is I don't have to. And me advocating for something that's specifically for men does not mean I'm against a specific positive policy that would be beneficial for women. That's what freedom is. And I am okay with that. Please let's put all the bad actors in jail or at least make sure they get some punishment. On the feminist mantras is a consistent brought up thing that they do not have to ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingWhich part of what I said would dismantle the efforts to protect women at all? How does keep liars accountable do that? How does empowering women to advocate for themselves mean men aren't advocating to make things more difficult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingOkay that's not what the study said at all. It kind of shows that you're not really paying attention to things. It went into detail that's why men are more likely to cheat than women It's nothing to do with being biologically male It's all based off the things that are skewed towards them. And because of that they already find out that if it applies to men and then you apply it to women they have a higher chance of cheating as well I advise you to go look at those studies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingI would disagree that outliers are not meaningful. I would agree that it currently does not affect any policy. It's not a male supremacist thing to be concerned that someone might lie on you and that there isn't any known policies that heavily pursue these people who after investigation beyond the reasonable doubt lied on you. But in general policies change all the time a lot of time for the better It's okay to pursue different things women should advocate to make life extremely difficult for vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingOkay yes absolutely let's go back to that . Women and men are terrible cheaters This is a big problem and we should definitely focus on why men and women cheat because they are absolutely going to be equal as far as recents. Nothing could be learned at all by focusing on why men treat specifically even though statistically they do it more. Spreading and tension to spectrum cheating will give better solutions. Even though existing studies on this already give us an answer as to why this happens Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingThat wasn't that type of post my guy. I literally also mentioned how 1% of men are violent and how that shapes policy. This wasn't an analogy about how 10 % invalidates assault this is an analogy about how outliers still shape policy and overall social concern. But if you want you can rewrite that portion for me and I'll interject it so it will appease you 😊. Or You can write a post about how 90 to 98% of accusations are true and then I will post on your saying wow you're not mentioning the 2% t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingLet me rewind a little bit and most studies and resolutions to a problem you don't apply your resources and understandings broadly You pinpoint on the problem so you can understand it first. Saying all people cheat and looking what you can do to make it so all people don't cheat will not make a bigger effect than concentrating on why men cheat and making a gallatarian rules based off that your focus should be on where the problem is heviest 😊. This is why when trying to feed the hungry you don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI think this is mostly a wording issue not necessarily a breaking down of argument. I think the issue is that you're pigeonholing the argument when I'm trying to make it a little bit more broader. In general as a man I am going to consent to having sex with a woman without a condom only if she states that she has some type of birth control I take the risk and nuances associated with that. If a woman has birth control it is using it honestly and she gets pregnant that's it I took the risk and I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingIt or is it to go deeper we think of it as a social Construct when we're trying to defend ourselves in more of a hard line when we notice faults in the other gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingI hear what you're saying in the first glance that should be the way to go about it But in reality a lot of problems don't do well when you're trying to fix them by spreading it across the board. For example some places give you a flat penalty if you speed. If you say well everyone should stop speeding we're going to give them a $200 penalty when they speed. For poor people that could be debilitating for rich people that could be your license to speed for that day that's probably like 30 minutes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingMost studies look at self-reported not by investigation so these are men and women admitting that they're treating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingCouple studies is not that big of a gap but it's like 50% more so it can be like 16% women and 23% men. The God is decreasing and also it looks like it's also a correlation between positions of power and a relationship. The guess is because things are becoming more equal that's why the gap is natrowing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingI specifically used stats that came with proof in my examples. And what you're saying actually doesn't negate what I said at all. Even with stats people can still say that's not a gendered thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:36 PM |
| -2 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingThat could be a good point! Also do you think it's a defensive measure? Like a man says women cheat too that kind of dismisses the fact that socially and studied wise men do it more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedOh no. I think you missed the point I said specifically in the body that I'm not talking about forced abortions or anything like that I'm not talking about parental rights. But the illegality of the act itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:59 PM |
| 4 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI don't know if I agree with that rationale. Where it is illegal it's not based off chance of getting an STD is the fact that you change the type of sex you consented to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:23 AM |
| – | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI mean it's not too difficult to prove of you were told one thing most birth control has some type of paper trail. As someone forgets to take it I can believe that but someone straight up just does not have it then that's easy to prove | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:04 AM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedGotcha so you should be smart enough not to be a victim in this situation! I understand and agree with you But I'm asking you just for your own consistency if you're saying it should always be responsible within your own mantra then you in a way don't have any reason to sue someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:55 AM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedSo you're saying that if one person tampers or lies about any form of birth control that they should have no repercussions? Because it's on both to have adequate birth control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:51 AM |
| 3 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedYes they do and there's someone lies about using or having these do you consider it something The man should go to jail for. Same as if a woman gives you a condom with a hole in it or lies about having her tubes tied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:49 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedWell it's still depends on someone remembering when to take it most likely which is not nefarious as I myself have been with women who have forgotten to take their birth control and I would get upset but wouldn't be angry cuz I know people forget | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:34 AM |
| 3 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThat's an interesting way of looking at it. Because in this situation the person was never on birth control they're just saying they are so the person is consenting to a specific type of sex. And also in the cases of vasectomies of a man lies about a vasectomy or not there's actually no hormonal differences before or after as well. As far as the definition of rape fraudulent representation is included and if you fraudulently represent yourself as someone who is on birth control then yes technica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThat's a fair addendum to it but I still think having it be illegal is still something that slows it down at the very least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:53 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedYeah of course I agree with that. I imagine when mail birth control comes out it's going to happen the same way with dudes too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:49 AM |
| 5 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedI would just do it like this for IUDs and depo those actually have to be traced back to a doctor. If us can subpoena your records and shows that you didn't ever have those put in place then yeah you broke the law for the man if they have a procedure they just have to prove it. I'm not saying it isn't difficult what I'm asking for a specifically is if it should be illegal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedBeing hard to prove is different from It should be illegal a lot and actually it's not that hard most type of birth control has some type of paper trail It is very unlikely that you can get pills or IUD or anything like that without some doctor prescribing it to you. A lot of things are difficult to prove but still illegal The question is if it should be illegal and my belief is yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:33 AM |
| 7 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedYou can sue but it's not illegal. Would you support making it illegal versus just punitive damages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:13 AM |
| 14 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedAs it should but currently is not illegal to lie about birth control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidThe main topic here is about changing the topic in general. This person replied with domestic violence. This person commented that they don't want to talk about my topic. They could have simply just not reply that all. They specifically changed and avoided the main point of the post..... Completely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidI'm okay with putting you in the same category as well. You proved my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:33 AM |
| -4 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidIt's like you're almost close to getting it You're actually very close like you're right there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually Said😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidYeah you would think that would work and it should work within normal conversation but often it does not. Let me restate this I agree with what you're saying I disagree with it working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidSo when a woman does this it's because supplying an abusive tactic?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually Said😂 that is a valid response lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidI hear what you're saying and yes I hate when people respond like that but that seems like it's still related to the original post without hitting the point. I. My cases i have had conversations about how Is it safe for men to talk about their feelings with women and women ask if they were gay. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:48 PM |
| – | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidIt's pretty tough too because like objectively what they're saying is it wrong sometimes it's just not what's debated at that specific point. It's like they Like the point of what is being said so they changed the point to something they can agree on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:28 PM |
| -2 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidI have to disagree with this of course this is all antidotal but going off the fact that when men and women argue in a relationship women do normally bring up a whole bunch of other things unrelated.. I do believe for this specific thing it is more likely gender than it is not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I said enough to prove a point like I always did :-) I'm happy you're laughing. It's best not to take these Reddit conversations to too deeply. I'm sure you're a very smart individual who's worked very hard. that was never truly up for debate and it should have never been included in the conversation miss. Just remember I didn't escalate however a graciously and enthusiastically met you where you were at with my own flavor 😎. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?You have made it very obvious that we are not playing the same arena,game, or engaging in the same topics. And thank you sis I did not work that hard on the essay I wrote for you. The topic was simple and easy to master 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Let's be very clear about what happened. You made an insinuation and then I corrected you. And I think it hurts your feelings that you were corrected by someone who's essentially a janitor in your eyes. And I'm assuming you have a lot of pain points in your upbringing that make you a prouder individual. And when You approach a situation where you're losing you either tend to change the summary of the point or hide behind accolades and credentials. Because You can lose an argument but you can't h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Let's assume English isn't my first language. How does that bode well for you considering that I'm doing a better job of staying on topic? And upvotes aren't a measure of success people on Reddit would upvite a ham and cheese sandwich. I've legitimately seen that happen. I've seen people download a post where the guy was saying I love my wife. Going to law school does take a lot of work. I also know most likely you're very new because accolades are a shield when confidence is new. And yes of cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I have no doubt that you're a great lawyer. I'm pretty sure you confuse the hell out of the jury. Also as a little note. When we started this whole back and forth I wanted to say something about how the fact that you're saying stuff off topic kind of reeks of women who start spelting off accolades randomly in the discussion. And you being a lawyer now actually makes a lot of sense. And if you were a very good lawyer you'd understand that The argument you're most likely having is a concept of mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:54 AM |
| 2 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Ooof yeah I'm definitely going to own the proofreader aspect as I am tired but I'm staying up to battle you. But that's on me ( accountability). But you're definitely wrong on the whole telemarketer thing. Business lunches and all that good stuff. Near zero calls are made on a phone call. Mastery over the English language you might have that too I don't know what you want to school for. But I'm very confident in my ability to stay on topic, be snarky and to be terrible in spelling And grammar on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:37 AM |
| 2 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?No miss , that's saying something rude and mean in a polite tone which is different from saying something polite which you took as mean. Jeeze you're kinda bad at this huh bud/bub ? My fictional friend is fine. We actually just talked a moment ago. But I feel very very bad for the point you're trying to make, it exist It's just in a different part of the universe that you happen to not be in. Hope you appreciate the points that are near and dear to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?You made up your own summary to then make yourself feel like I said something mean ?(Summarizing) There needs to be a metal pass gold for that mental gymnastics.(Snarky) You're also saying something politely worded can be mean how can something be polite and mean at the same time? (Accusative summary) And I know What plausible deniability is. It means we don't want to take accountability for something completely so you have a technical out for it. Sounds like you would know more about that than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:18 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I agree. Been away it's kind of too prevalent to ignore people do get defensive rightfully so and almost too much at the same time. I would say I was less likely to be involved in the gender war space until I had close female friends during the whole kill all men/ all men are trash train and then would be like if you're upset about this then you're the man on talking about. That kind of rug me the wrong way. Admittedly though it's mostly all online stuff and real life I'm not afraid to really br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Are you going to spend the rest of your evening applying to other comments? I'm ready for the two on one. It looks like there's at least two people who like to be tangent on post. Let's goooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Well I'm not a mean person. So I decided to do something a little more docile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:10 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Understood!my question to you is when does it become a gender thing if everything is just humans and are s***** people why can anything be attributed to men or women at all? Even within my own responses I say this is stats or this is interpretation of stats even if men are high on something I could just say it's because it's police more and thus quantified more heavily. At what point do we say okay this might be a gendered thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:57 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Lol end of discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:50 AM |
| 2 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?companies would sell 62% less effectively ? at very minimum. I thought you're supposed to know these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:44 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?That's a very interesting take that I've never heard before. I will say personally just for me before I even got on Reddit I would notice this in my interactions with female friends. So I wouldn't say it's necessarily from any religious sentiment. But that's something to think on and marinate. Maybe there is a point of view I'm not considering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:42 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I agree with you that men make up a majority of crashes and accidents. But the study wasn't on accidents This is based off being stopped and what happens afterwards. That's assuming that you're stopped for a good reason why is it that women are less likely to get ticketed put in jail and other things I have no disagreement that it still would result in less incarceration than men but there's still something to be said by the fact that mostly you guys have less initial touches by law enforcement … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?That's love inferences there. I'm not trusting anybody who goes from the post about accountability to elementary school topics. You're not credible and I have no trust in what you really know and honestly no one else really should either. Inconsidering I agreed with a lot of your facts I didn't try to brush them under the table and try to stay on tax as much as I can with you I don't know where you're getting on a liar from You have no basis other than the ethereal unquantifiable "my intuition/g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Because the post is about women especially in personal spaces. My boss is doing an all right to great job depending on the day. It shows that I don't have problems with all women and all situations but more particularly the women I know personally in personal situations. Objectively that should be a less deep-rooted situation it shows that my bias is contextually personal instead of universally set.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Yeah. And bub is a little weird too. So So what are we going to do now Are we going to get back to the original post or are you going to talk about chemistry now since you already talked about 6th grade math? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:29 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?That's the 100% true when it comes to how police interact with different genders just based off this one study about police stops You can Google it Racial and gender profiling can affect outcome of traffic stops. You are 25% less likely to get ticketed if you're a woman, 55% less likely to be arrested in 76% less likely to be searched. This is a known thing. This is also a felt thing. If you go talk to County organizers and judges one of the main things they will admit is that they're less likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:28 AM |
| 2 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I sell ads to and for content managers which are overwhelmingly women :-) bet you didn't see that coming. Oh nice now we're getting personal. She is hot. I would dare not want any type of relationship with her. She doesn't take accountability and has had nothing but a stream of unsuccessful relationships with men who did not want relationships at all. We've been friends since we were babies basically. However she is a homie so she is definitely hooked me up with some of her female friends who lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Try not to call someone bub when communicating with strangers. It can sound condescending. Or maybe I took it as a way that we were getting friendly and amicable. I will take responsibility for Miss reading your intent. I now know that you were trying to get unnecessarily clever with a stranger from the internet on a point that's way past the initial intent of the original post. That's on me. 🫣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Oh yeah we definitely know you're not talking about the main topic at all. That is very self-evident. Are we talking about facts of now or things of the future? You keep on changing the topic I started with a conversation about individual accountability now we're talking about sixth grade math. Correction now you're talking about sixth grade math. I do not know what type of mental gymnastics you play to get to this but I'm going to award you a gold medal. And she doesn't have to explain math to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:18 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Also my bosses are women right now. And I have zero problems with that. Again you're making points that I'm not even trying to argue against lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:09 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?We could talk about the future when the future comes. We're talking about facts over feelings babe 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:06 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I mean one can say that in general women are less likely to be arrested initially in the first place It's only until recently that they changed the rules on how to approach domestic violence. I mean I've seen a few videos where a woman is actively trying to beat up a man and the woman was just told to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:06 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I'm not arguing your facts. And it doesn't Make anything crumble. This is a unrelated thing to the core aspect of my post. But if you do want to get into it Most managers in the USA are men. Most women take jobs that are unrelated to anything that makes a lot of money and more likely to relate and feelings. Women usually take on more debt than men to graduate college. But these are all outside these facts. What I'm debating has nothing to do with college. Which is very strange but I feel like yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:01 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Which is very interesting. There was a study a while back ago that was done I'm trying to find the specific link but it showed that female judges were actually harsher on crime on female perpetrators showing that male judges were fair to women. Also considering the fact that males do get harsher punishments for the same crime compared to women. I wanted to look into the makeup of the links you sent me and it looks like it was 45% women in 55% men. I want to look more into the study it's pretty i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:56 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?That would be a completely different conversation altogether. The main thing was a question. I gave a antidotal experience to give you my point of view. Not taking responsibility has nothing to do with graduating. You're making it completely different point, unrelated. And this is about individual levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenYes but a majority of child support is either being paid fully or paid on. And there are definitely reasons why child support isn't being paid most likely they are in jail or being punished or dead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:43 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I mean you can just ask another man of a single mother or talk to some of your single mother friends who have boy children.. I'm telling you as a man who was a boy and as someone who has friends who raises boys. I've yet to hear the boys will be boys phrase in my life without it being said ironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:41 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I wanted to give an example. It's funny you say that too because I gave you a specific example about how someone doesn't and then you're responses women are better. Women can be better at a lot of different things this specific woman is not 😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:39 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I think you might be confused a little bit. That in which you said the statistically true. It is already accounted for. It's a statistical fact. However if a man who cheated said my wife divorced me for no reason that would be an example of a man not wanting to take accountability. Now If a woman chooses to date a man with a violent past and then someone says why would you date some man who's known to be violent then they say wow that's victim blaming I would say it's not. If a woman is upset th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:38 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?When you tell a child that they are the man of the house that influences them just like how you tell a a girl that they must mature faster. We're using the same type of line of thinking I don't know how it's confusing for you and both statements we are saying that girls and boys being told something influences their beliefs and understandings that we to patterns of behavior when they become adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:32 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?The relationship example was just an example that actionable responsibility aspect was an overarching statement. In that situation about the relationships both are escalations and emotional releases both of them are in a way things that get in the way of conflict resolution. And I think that's what you're saying as well actual responsibility is like hey this is what I did That led to the result that is not favorable to either you or me. Again going back to the relationship example both yelling a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:31 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Honestly I've seen men and women do this in some ways. Especially so with "boy moms" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women70% of all child support is either in the range of fully paid or partially paid. And there are a whole bunch of factors that can go into something being partially paid. Also some of the fathers who are not upstanding gentlemen could just be in prison. And no I don't think that's fair at all. One person's decision to be a parent should be separate from another person's desire to be a parent. But let's say I concede a little bit to what you're saying You would also have to say that someone cannot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:22 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Strangely I think we do in the way. Bear with me on this and you can definitely criticize this response but I feel like a lot of men tell other men they need to get rich, they need to dress better or they need to be more appealing. There are tons of podcasts that talk about this as well. Kevin Samuels talked about this a lot he would actually make men feel so bad about not being attractive lol That's one of the first things men do. We also criticize people who are picky.but men are probably one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:19 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?It comes from the responsibility that the adults in their life tell them. This is one of the things that women can be guilty of too. They call their young boys my little man my little king the man of the house I do everything for him. Etc a child boy or a girl should be in a child's place and women contribute to that just as much as men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:15 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I think a lot of men especially have been told they have to be the man of the house or protect their younger siblings or to not cry. We are pretty much trained to be protectors at a very young age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenI'm saying once the baby's out in the world they should both have equal rights to be considered perpetual parents until the age of 18 to 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenAnd I would not change that at all. That makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:11 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Well no because I'm acting as a sounding board to a friend. If a male friend told me the same exact story I would say the same exact thing. But if anyone tells me they don't know why they're not getting a promotion and then they drop oh I'm late 80% of my shifts then that's an obvious reason why. And if they are not told hey this is a factor then why even be friends with someone? If another woman were to listen to my female friend say this and not say hey maybe you should be more on time what ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:10 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I like that point out. Self-reflection is key to a lot of the times I criticize partners or female friends about not taking accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:08 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?Curious do you think it's inappropriate to ask "why" or to criticize when someone had a perceived option to avoid a bad thing happening to them ? In all situations? I had a friend who woke up This hotel room robbed he was obviously drugged by a prostitute. We asked him why would he hang around prostitutes at all. We felt bad for him but it didn't negate the fact that he had the ability to avoid the situation altogether. I guess what's the fine line between victim blaming and criticism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:07 AM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?I hear what you're saying I like your examples and makes it easier to digest your point of view I think it's interesting though because I kind of see it like this: more often than not regardless of a man takes responsibility for something or not the ramifications are thrust upon them. But for women they usually have to accept the ramifications. For example if a woman cries during an argument with her partner he is expected no matter if he's valid right was too strong or very gentle to do what he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenNo one's talking about pregnancy at all. It's really wild that women keep on going back to how men can't get pregnant we know we can't get pregnant we're not talking about pregnancy. We're talking about parental divorce. We are not taken away that right at all. Most of us aren't saying you should be forced to give birth we're saying if you choose to give birth that men should have cleaner access to be able to not have to be financially responsible for that kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenI'm happy you don't see it as a struggle. It is for some women. It's okay if you don't It doesn't matter if you see it as a small thing a big thing and nothing thing This is something that some women talk about has something that they wish would change. As with men who struggle with momentness they wish certain things would change. As with women who have multiple kids or even one who can't find a man It is a struggle they wish it would change You not seeing it as a problem doesn't mean it's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenI truly don't know what you're upset about. And I didn't even mention that those women were upset with other women. They are obviously not debating with themselves about this. I think you're a little bit lost. You're making connections on things that I'm not even alluding to. I am clarifying things with you as you need and you're still adding more things on... Why ? I keep on talking about struggles and you're talking about women aren't the arguing amongst themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 6 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenThat is a struggle they're literally complaining about being approached and not approached. People are having varying struggles within society some don't like being approach others want to be approached. You're literally saying "you said not everyone agrees.... You must think women are a monolith. " I gave you varying examples about how different types of women are struggling and you are saying yeah they're not a monolith and I am agreeing with you. Do you understand the words that you are sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:58 PM |
| 13 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenThat's interesting that you believe that I listed off a couple of examples and you assumed it would all be feminist. Also my point in this is that women have their own struggles that don't look exactly like men. So I'm not saying that they are a monolith I'm saying the opposite that women suffer in different ways. Also I want to repo out that it's very strange that I pointed out different types of scenarios with women and you're saying oh they are monolith. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:53 PM |
| 12 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenOkay let's be a little bit more obvious on this one. There is real life and also there's a whole page of feminist that their core questions are literally how can this thing that's ultimately my responsibility tie back to the patriarchy. There are whole conversations about women with kids who cannot find a man. There are multiple pages and conversations in real life and online where women are like why don't Men come up to me anymore. But also them saying I don't want men coming up to me at all. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenBetter prepared 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:41 PM |
| 14 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenI mentioned this before they are complaining about the unfair parts mostly. The things I don't make sense or the things that don't have a lot of consistency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenThat's avoiding having kids all together. If you were to get pregnant and husband, boyfriend or male stranger who got you pregnant did not want to have a kid and you did Will there be a easily accessible right They can execute to make sure they have no parental responsibility at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenAs you should you should have all the rights to it I'm saying about it man should have the right to completely opt out of being a parent of that's what they so choose and this should be not too complex at all. No one on either side of the gender spectrum should have the sole choice and making someone a parent or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenI mean yes that's opinion people can have those but I don't really see anything that says women shouldn't have this one right. You could be better or worse than anything. But I don't see any big movements on this post or in real life saying " women shouldn't be CEOs" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenYes no one is disagreeing that people who voluntarily go into the military want to be there. But I think it's very telling to work so hard against something that everyone can admit is very unlikely to happen anytime soon. And it only became a point only when things started to get a little bit more equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 14 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenMen whine about the unfair parts of feminism rather than anything else really. I think you'll find some of the most prevalent anti-feminist points is how you want the benefits without the consequence or byproducts of it. For example I remember when putting women in the draft was a talking point in national news and women were like yeah we got straight up remove the draft versus say yes men have had it to where they couldn't get a driver's license or something like that if they avoided the draft … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than WomenYeah that's absolutely agreed. However it's still happening The main point is all the benefits are happening regardless of people like it or not. The detractors of equality is something you guys are definitely even not speaking about are heavily against | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:47 PM |
| 6 | A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men.I kind of agree with them OP. It's often where if you have healthy boundaries for yourself in ways of being able to communicate that well that the other person might not like it if it's against the response they want to hear. So with that I think a lot of women who want emotional intelligence do just want emotional validation. Imagine a situation when someone says hey I don't like the fact that you don't like to help me clean on Saturdays. And instead of them saying you're right babe They say we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?I think for this example you should define it What do you think the average man experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?If you were treated like a man while still being a woman you would have less sex with women. If you were emotional like a woman but treated like a man you would actually be worse off. Emotional men in the workplace are almost always seen as threats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?I agree with The part about women getting the baseline. We are so much more careful with women in the workspace and in most general spaces because we know how They can perceive us as a threat more often than not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?If we talk about specifically the work place what I notice is that the women are given more praise for the same or less work. It was actually a noticeable point of contention within the workplace that the men felt like they were not getting enough recognition for the work they do. interesting point about additional expectations What I find interesting about that is that I see that too however it is definitely swapped work like we all have an expectation for the day sometimes the women would get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?Very interesting perspective there. I think that being treated fairly by the female gender is probably something that a lot of men wish they had. Thank you for your perspective! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:53 AM |
| -1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?Thank you for adding your perspective. It's very interesting to see how women perceive how men are treated by other men. Mostly I feel women are treated with kid gloves compared to other men. Usually male-dominated at best gets us a little bit of access but it's cut throat. Not trying to change your perception just adding a little bit of my own. Very interesting thank you for the share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:22 AM |
| -1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?Thank you for adding your perspective. It's very interesting to see how women perceive how men are treated by other men. Mostly I feel women are treated with kid gloves compared to other men. Usually male-dominated at best gets us a little bit of access but it's cut throat. Not trying to change your perception just adding a little bit of my own. Very interesting thank you for the share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:21 AM |
| 8 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?Sorry I stand corrected It's not that much of a difference It's virtually identical 23.4 for women and 23.5 for men https://bjs.ojp.gov/document/cv22.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?What does being treated equally mean to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?You are 1.5 to 2 times more likely to be attacked as a man in public compared to a woman. Feeling less fear yeah I give you that. Focusing on your career that's getting married and making babies? Depends on your family but honestly I get asked all the time I was like in my commit to early twenties about having babies and getting married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at commitmentYes of course. But you thrive better when you're with a good man 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentThe results would be the same The only way that your points look strong is if you look at percentage increase. If you do per capita end by total I believe your point would still be lower because leaving someone because of sickness it's just so rare. Statistics can be crazy when telling the story so we have to be a rare that's why I can say the following and it's true I can say you are statistically more likely to die in a hospital than at home but if you're very sick please go to the doctor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentJob loss raises divorce risk by about 30-40%, and serious illness in a wife increases divorce risk by 5-6x but job loss is FAR more common. Roughly 5% of workers lose a job each year, meaning most couples face unemployment at some point. Meanwhile, major illnesses like cancer, MS, or stroke have only a 1-3% risk in early and mid-life. So even though illness has a stronger effect on divorce when it happens, job loss creates more divorces in the real world because it's statistically way more likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentNope I mentioned this point directly in the post and still gave caveats. It's still lower than the chance of a woman leaving a man when he loses his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are bad at commitmentWomen and men legitimately thrive better in relationships/ married. By nearly all measures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Women are bad at commitmentHello this is just interpretation of data that fits a narrative a true believe that for two people in the marriage There's usually a benefit in general, The first biggest financial one is You're as a woman or an automatically hire tax bracket or higher income than by yourself, since you mentioned men living 3 years longer I'll also like to say that women less likely to have earlier on set cognitive decline. Most married women are less likely to get Alzheimer's than the general single population.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are bad at commitmentI don't get what you're getting that exactly Are you focusing on the smaller portions of male origin divorce ? I'm a little bit confused. It won't change the statistic on it women still introduce 70% of divorce. Leaving because your female spouse got sick it's still one of the lowest reasons Aman divorces his wife. So you may try again but men aren't the one leaving primarily it is women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Women are bad at commitmentNo most people do not become terminally ill in the earlier parts of their marriage it is significantly rare. As someone is dying due to old age is the most likely scenario for healthy relationships. and even with that being said the rate in which a woman is likely to divorce a man after he loses his job is higher than a man divorcing his wife when she gets sick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentIn summary when you are quick to leave certain situations you don't have the opportunity to make them better and for it to be in depth. By no means am I saying to stay in something that ultimately doesn't suit you but I do believe there is a clear difference between calling it quits too early and really giving it all you had and considering that a lot of the reasons women step away from a lot of those relationships while at the same time heavily push introduction into those relationships means t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentL If you can't handle it then yeah quit but you have to also understand that if you could a job consistently you don't look as appealing to other people and you don't get a lot of seniority at the workplaces. But it is your choice If you leave as soon as things get bad then people will leave you as soon as you are at your worst and again it is your choice to leave. Or a lot of these things are plus and minuses when it comes to commitment as long as you don't look for the benefits of deeper commi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Women are bad at commitmentI mean the question still kind of remains why is it when gay men get together they find a dynamic that works for them whereas when lesbians get together and have the emotional depth they look for that they usually don't get with men they seem to fall apart very quickly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Women are bad at commitmentSure,with the caveat understanding that about 75% of all divorces are not due to cheating at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Women are bad at commitmentDepends on the study it's anywhere from 55% to 70% Men take the lead. No real consistent stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentCheating in general makes up 22- 25 percent of all divorces. There's no real stat on admitting who cheats or not in the USA. The main one was women who admitted to cheating which was 15% of all divorce by cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Women are bad at commitmentDepends on the survey but it's about 10% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:37 AM |
| -9 | Women are bad at commitmentMy person. Then it would be an actual divorce. Stay on your own topic that you mentioned your kind of changing and giving what ifs. Even with that divorce due to infidelity makes up 25% of the reasons someone might get divorced That means 75% of the time beer divorcing for non- infidelity reasons. So if you have accounts with that I'm willing to listen to it but please bring up some type of statistics that back it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Women are bad at commitmentI did some more research and called it estranged or long-term separation. 2% of all marriages end in long-term separation and of those 50% of those become divorces so 1% chance that your marriage will have a non paperwork divorce and even if we say 70% of that 1% is men , it would still be dramatically lower thin women initiating 70% of all divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at commitmentI just responded to the same statement. In mathematically does not equal out and it's a very rare thing to leave a marriage without paperwork being done It's anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:27 AM |
| -13 | Women are bad at commitmentThis is a rare thing. Very very rare. To the point there is actually no study I can find on it. But right now women are initiating 70 to 80% of all divorces. Doing some quick math If we were to assume that men are leaving marriages without filing paperwork at the same rate that women are divorcing with paperwork that would mean that the net marriage rate would be zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYeah you can. You can have hypocritical opinions anytime you want. You can have a double standard for yourself You can hate women approach you but specifically be upset that they don't approach you anymore. I don't think it's healthy but it definitely happens. I don't want any pets but love playing with my friends pets when I see them. Rules for me but not for thee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:07 PM |
| 4 | What standards should men and women actually look for in someone they want to date?I think realistic is such an underrated trait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Yeah I don't know about that. I don't know any major situations in which publicly a man has threatened a woman and there have been zero repercussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?But it does happen very publicly I mean look at about it this way men who publicly are privately crap on women are considered in cells and all types of bad things. Why don't women suffer from this type of backlash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?The topic was women's responses to men's emotions and how they seem to want us to suppress them and be vocal about them simultaneously. And how it seems contradictory and confusing. Men's emotions are the secondary aspect to it the primary driver is women's responses to it. Men respond to things that can induce a level of disapproval That is not a new thing I am not surprised about that I am surprised that women don't have consistency and what they look for when it comes to what a men should do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?You know as I'm going through these responses I have to ask you a question I mentioned it earlier but I wonder if a lot of emotional responses are just seen as explosive? More often than not I feel like men do give proportionate responses even if something irritates them. But showing any type of distaste is often seen as threatening. I kind of think this way because for some of the most simplest things women will call someone a in cell or abusive even though they're just talking and giving an op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?The post is literally asking women. Asking women why women do certain things that is the main topic lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?So I guess what's the emotion and women are saying kill all men are men are trash? If you say it's anger as well then it would mean that most of the time they are the starters of a lot of anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?I am starting to think women only recognize things as anger. I never said the only valid responses are anger. Maybe the problem is women are everywhere response or non response as anger. And truthfully that makes a little bit of sense based of my experience. I've been silent before and someone thought I was mad 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Again I think a lot of women on this post are going to a bigger extreme that even led toward in my main post. This is taking a turn and I feel it's because the turn you're taking it's one that you can actually have a better footing on. I'm not talking about rage I'm talking about general proportionate responses. I think on this post there was a response where God was like women don't want responsibility of having to be nice to men. Then the lady was like I'm going to assume that you are an adult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Abuse is never a good thing. Never said it was I'm along the lines of you say men are trash and someone says hey it's stupid to say men are not trash and then you were to say you're proving my point that's stupid I think this guy escalated a little bit further than the initial point. There is a difference between responding with overall high level abuse and then responding in defense. This has absolutely zero to do with domestic violence. This has nothing to do with verbal violence. This is spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Going back to my original point Don't say something rude and be upset that someone reacts to it. I don't want attention off my main point too much. So that's where I'm at :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Yeah I was good on that. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?You know I'll tell you a small story. There was this woman who is irritated with me because I didn't text her and one or two days we had a time difference so that happened. She chewed me out and I stopped the conversation I was like hey how can you just don't tell me you miss me. I rather connect with you than argue with you. Tell me why that blew up the whole potential lol She never talked to me again 😂. I guess to say if you know someone too well that could be disarming and uncomfortable as we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Well they've told me their stories in the responses there's at least three or four of them now. But yeah if I know someone is unstable I'm just going to move out the way. It's not about responsibility for another person is about the safety of myself as someone who's dealt with a manic woman before I can tell you they are specifically some things I could have done to make the situation worse. I chose not to do that. It goes into another conversation a year or two ago I had about it's not victim b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Lol indeed and I communicated with her about it and I'm like hey these questions aren't doing it for me I don't mind talking with you but I feel like I'm being interrogated on a crime that didn't happen 😂. One time we were getting busy and she straight up asked me " why are you horny". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:18 PM |
| 6 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Yeah something like that for your example. So many men have a experience like this. Also I think there's better ways to bond with men other than to crap on them. I get it in a public forum but there are too many ladies out there who are comfortable with talking s*** about men and especially their partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?I think we kind of are. I was listening to something about emotional intelligence and something stood out to me. For this to work one person has to be the more emotionally calm individual. Considering that a lot of women want to be able to emotionally express themselves without any repercussions men usually have to be the calmer one. On this post alone I see a lot about how women are afraid of men flipping their crap. And that's a valid concern. However there's no mention of they themselves bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?😂 wild. I hear what you're saying but I do usually see this when the response is proportionate. For example when the unalive all men trend was happening men would be like this is terrible and disrespectful and they'd be like typical man. I saw this on Facebook and in the comments memory like wow this is not nice to men and someone needs to change their marketer. And the women were like " The terrible dudes are showing themselves". One dude straight up said hey actually she almost exclusively dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Okay couple things here. Yeah that dude has some issues. I think there is a difference between something like that and for example if you were to say something rude and then be upset that he was upset. On the side note I have in the past and sometimes currently got irritated when I get asked to explain something that I feel is either self-evident or not important I don't get angry but I do get irritated. I was dating this woman for a while and she would ask why and how come to everything to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:04 PM |
| -5 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Oops sorry about that! Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?😂. I laughed a little bit at this. I think that is the main answer right there. Emotional response expectations. Even if it's unreasonable. It's interesting Let me ask you a kind of meta question. In a way when men do respond to certain things is it truly that we don't respond how you think we would or is it possible that they know it's going to get us irritated and that's why they say it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 9 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Let me ask you this. Where's the emotional intelligent that when you're upset that someone has a response to something you say? And I'm not talking about going off the chain because no one should. But when someone hears all men are trash and then says hey men are trash and then that woman responds with you're proving my point You can't really call the man not emotionally intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?No. I don't think it's like that at all I think it's more like You asked for cold water You get the cold water and then you're like so typical of you to give me cold water. Then when we give you room temperature you're like you know I want It cold. Going back to the main point in the post there is a thing about fashion men publicly without any provocation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationIt sounds like a scapegoat but it's kind of true. There's a whole plaster of reasons why certain models could not work over here I mean you could do it but it'd have to look dramatically different for example you can't talk about the Japanese judicial system without acknowledging the fact that the state can keep trialing you. People are so afraid to commit crimes because of the way the system is. Certain things work because they have certain infrastructure set up for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 09:45 PM |
| 3 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationYou're arguing a different point I don't think any man is going to say that men don't commit most of the violent crimes. We're saying we at least want them to be charged fairly and equally when it does happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 09:43 PM |
| 3 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationOkay can you name me non-famous cases then? Also here is a fact If it gets to a prosecutor then there is about a 53 percent chance that it will lead to somebody going to prison. The only times are most of the times that it does not lead to a prosecutor referral if there's just not any evidence or enough evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationCan you cite the most recent famous one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationYou can't export a model like to like without adopting the culture. And wiping away the multi cultural aspects of out country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:49 PM |
| 4 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationSo you're saying that if you find a woman naked then you are free to take pictures of her and posted on TikTok or any other social media? Women specifically push for a rule that made this punishable and then it will invite it the rule and she got punished In fact this is not even the first time something like this happened when you flip the genders there are men who rightfully go to jail for taking pictures of sleeping half naked or naked women. People v. Perez (California, 2018) Man recorded a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 4 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI found it weird especially because it was one of the things that women in a lot of good people in general would say about a woman who's drunk half naked or fully naked in the street when you them alone or help them. This kind of falls along the line of a male version of saying they were "asking for it". The guy was drunk and knocked out regardless of the door was open or unopened she should have at least called the cops or just walked away there is no way in hell by any stretch of definition th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:43 PM |
| 0 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationOh wow I only knew of one offhand but I decided to chat GPT some more. It's actually more prevalent than I thought United States v. Maples, 827 F.2d 684 (8th Cir. 1987) United States v. DeMarco, 72 F.3d 1421 (9th Cir. 1995) United States v. Moore, 947 F.2d 919 (D.C. Cir. 1991) State v. Badger, 162 Wis.2d 355 (Wis. Ct. App. 1991) People v. Ayala, 2000 WL 33156237 (Cal. Ct. App. 2000) United States v. Wills, 881 F.2d 823 (9th Cir. 1989) United States v. Fonville, 5 F.3d 781 (4th Cir. 1993) United … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 0 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationNo this is already gone to court This is already thoroughly studied and there are federal stats on this. The average sentencing difference for murder men versus women is about 40%.. they're way less likely to get five sentences and they are less likely to get the death penalty. Out of everything being said these are Not opinions these are just facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:32 PM |
| -2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationActually there's like a whole subreddit about Uber men who record all their interactions and still get accused of sexual assault and they have no recourse for it. I chat GPT. Specifically to tell me cases within the US and it does happen. I didn't even mention like a month ago where there's Indian man was accused of kidnapping and it was on camera showing that he did not. There are a lot of cases like this Is it a heavy percentage now but is there a pattern of women not being accountable or givi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 7 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationThey get way less jail time compared to the male counterpart for the same crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:23 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationThat's why I said after the fact there are tons of cases where someone who lied about something gets puts in jail every result in someone going to prison. Sexual assault is an outlier And no I disagree about that jail time rate thing. I'm not talking about committing a proportion of crimes I'm talking about with him the same category the differences Do the sentence and commission the difference is usually about 45% more for men. When taking apples to apples it's still very but men are still on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:20 PM |
| 6 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI will summarize my counterpoint. Is it as big as some people believe it to be? No not in my opinion. Is lying and sexual assault more prevalent than it stated? Yes in my opinion. With that being said regardless of the size of how often it happens I do believe there is a pattern of if there is a woman who knowingly lied they do not if any see any jail time or major reprocussions. And to clarify my point going forward I only want women who truly lied knowingly about sexual assault or any other cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationEven for the violent men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:00 PM |
| -2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationPerjury in sexual assault cases are definitely not punished. There are many cases where a woman either was caught lying or confessed to lying and it was never pursued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:00 PM |
| 5 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationAt this point is a known fact that the law is not applied equally especially in punishment between men and women. It's already studied. It is a known fact that women get punished less harshly for the same crime compared to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI don't think most women really understand that. You have a good chunk of him no population wondering why the DoorDash girl who went into someone's house while they're drunk and knocked out It's going to prison It might be on the sex offender list now. And if they did the prison population incarceration rate wouldn't be going up compared to the general female population. It would be around the same or go lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:54 PM |
| -8 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI have a two-part response to that. I have seen feminist and non-feminous women say they don't want women who lie about sexual assault to go to prison and they have defended that point aggressively. And women wouldn't say they don't want criminals held accountable they would say that the patriarchy is oppressing women and there's something wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:51 PM |
| – | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Wait are you saying that in this example that we've been talking about. "I would like to see you" is brutal? And isn't the original scenario of would you like me to come over dependent on them being very direct but also in a non honest way? Being a furniture feelings it's not unheard of for women. It seems like the issue is when it comes to positive vulnerability. Unlike direct communication as well sometimes. This is why you have women who say why aren't men approaching me. Some men are just to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:54 PM |
| – | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Sounds like a lot of emotional labor there . Sounds like certain women don't know how to be up front with their emotions. And this what men are criticize for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Good response. I guess the nuance question I have is what's a healthy response to something like this. Beyond the scope of getting what you want versus getting what you need Is it healthy in a relationship You have someone gives you something deeper you fight over something shallow? Objectively would I as a man be considered a healthy person for example if I asked for sex and she took time out of your day to do makeup get her hair done and buy lingerie and I say now you should just came in bed w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.How did you deal with it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Oh absolutely I don't think I'm being contradictory here. There's a slight difference and when I'm communicating here is that my peace makes you want to ask if I'm not at them versus not automatically assuming that I'm at peace. If I was walking around irritated then it's a healthier assumption now when someone asks me I give them a direct answer. I don't flip out about being asked. It would be like if you're eating something and someone ask you are you hungry? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:02 AM |
| 0 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Yeah I don't consider a weaponizing competence if it's really just not knowing something lol. Maybe I'm more forgiving. I've never flipped out on a woman for mistakes that small | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.You know have everything you listed here I'm really willing to fight about to come over if you want thing. Because it is honest. I like it if you come over out will not be heard of you choose not to. I guess my counter question would be what's the harm in saying I would really like to see you right now can I come over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I hear you. Now if she talks about flowers a lot or if she's a amateur arborist I think that would come up naturally for me and for most people. However the way I think men look at it or a lot of men look at it is like this I want to do something nice for her \She has been mentioning how she needs a vacation soon but she can't afford it \I can afford it so I will pay for it. So of course I'm going to give more attention to things that are prevalent versus what is shallow Kind of reminds me of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I guess it comes down to masking. I do strongly believe a lot of people especially women mask who they really are in the beginning of a relationship. I don't do that I'm pretty upfront about what I like don't like willing to give and want to receive and also how much flexibility I'll give. It's always kind of a ripped lash for me when things change and you're like whoa this is not who I got with before. For me personally it takes a lot for me to Make the choice to commit to someone. So I do kind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Yeah thank you for understanding where I'm coming from. I think more into it is that in my case performative romance versus natural romance are two different things for me performative means you're doing it for the sake of versus natural meaning because you are kind of compelled by yourself to do so. Look at it like the difference between marrying someone because they told you they need to get married before they turn 35 versus you marrying them because you can't imagine your life without them t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.It's usually some of the stuff that don't necessarily matter but fulfill some type of self-crafted fantasy. I think this is why you could be doing 95% of the things correctly but they will shatter a relationship over things you forgot about versus the things you remembered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Corrected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:29 AM |
| 0 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Sure those are legitimate communication issues. I think we're alive women get lost at is that they don't believe they themselves don't fall to this. And that they demand some type of grace They just assume that they're putting in more work simply because they're more expressive about this. Yes you should definitely listen if you say light milk five times yes there's an issue there but it does not correlate to being taken seriously or not. It just means they're not good at certain task. I don't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:28 AM |
| -1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I think what's funny is the book in most cases can tell you exactly what someone is thinking. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Outside of the meaning for it though Do you think it's fair to have a heavy emphasis on something like flowers especially a flowers or not a significant thing in your life but more of a romantic checkbox. For example I really like bracelets if a partner brought me a bracelet that would mean a lot to me. If they did not buy me a bracelet it would not be a detractor. I feel like for women They don't really have a big passion for flowers but they have a big passion for someone buying them flowers. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:18 AM |
| -1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I agree with a lot what you said but I don't necessarily agree that this isn't a woman like behavior in a relationship. I would say even on this feed their women who say you should just know, It's so common, etc which Epson shirts are not healthy within a relationship what I'm saying specifically is that communication especially direct communication is an area that you can't go wrong in. I thoroughly believe based off my experience in general understanding of women as I am friends to many and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I mean, again what the average person knows socially can be different from person to person. But saying that you should be able to communicate your needs that is something every adult should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:03 AM |
| -2 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Why are you missing the part when I'm saying you have to communicate your needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:55 AM |
| -2 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I think you're kind of reproving my point. You're like skipping everything else I've been saying and specifically focusing on the flowers. flowers don't mean much they're just fulfilling something you want which into itself is not a bad thing but it's such a small thing that I can't really give you any depth. I bought a plant for someone I would not do anything else for them past that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Great response. No She never asked for flowers she was just upset that I never got her any. Which goes to a deeper point of communicating needs. It's a stupid need like can't be punished for something I never knew directly. And I do have to contest a little bit about what you're saying on the considering her emotional needs part and it kind of goes to what I'm saying in the post If I'm doing all the other things for her that are caring about her emotional needs and I don't do one of the things i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I have to disagree there is no burden of communication. Being direct with your needs is one of the most healthiest things out there. It's okay to want intuitive pre-action however there should be no conflict and having to directly state your needs That is not a burden that's just leftover residue of people liking having their needs met proactively without communication as a child. We are all adults and sometimes you have to ask. And asking it's okay. Making a narrative is not okay. If I am able … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:29 AM |
| -3 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I think it's pretty interesting that a minor detail of what's the occasion can assure you someone cares about you or not. Objectively flowers mean nothing. Anyone can buy any one flowers it's not a specific thing I am not in a relationship with you if I were to get you flowers it would be a nice gesture but it wouldn't really show I care about you. There's a lot of jerks that will buy someone flowers and it means nothing it's just going to the store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Mind reading fantasy is destructive. It is a definite plus and also can happen intermittently that you can be in tune with your partner's needs however there is absolutely nothing wrong about being direct about what you need. In fact being able to convey my needs and desires directly to a partner and it being well received is definitely a huge desire of mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Oh of course not. I just don't think she had a healthy habits I think one of the issues that some people do is they conflate unhealthy habits in a relationship with someone with non-compatible communication styles. Objectively crying over the flowers is not healthy regardless of how you communicate if you are still being shown love. I don't want flowers but if I was getting flowers I wouldn't be upset about it that's not about compatibility that's just more about performative things And no there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I think we agree on some parts. Love can be shown and love is shown in so many ways. Performed is a different thing. For example I had an ex who cried one time because I never bought her flowers. However I did buy her a printer that way she wouldn't have to keep printing things for her dissertation going to the store. I paid for her trip when she was stressed because she couldn't afford it and she was overworked. I wanted her to go on vacation my treat with her friend. When she got sick I would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:51 AM |
| -1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Very possible. And that's why you just choose to ignore every test or just explode every test. Or someone ask you if you think their friend is hot just say yeah they are lol. But it is true high caliber high society men that I know never talk about these type of test being done to them. They don't have to consistently prove themselves to some girl they chose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:27 AM |
| -3 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Everything is human when a human does it but it's not externally validatable because it's something you feel to be true. And within communication there is a sensitivity of words that hold different Wait. If I am quiet check in and say hey everything is good? Versus are you mad at me rings two different conclusions. Your emotions are only felt and are real thoroughly to you. Having feelings it's not a validation of your thoughts of a situation it's just your internal emotional response. Sometimes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Happy that you're in love. No I'm an ex because I'm good to myself and no one to leave unhealthy situation. Staying with someone who's not good for you it's not something healthy people do :-). And I'm happy to stay on my ex's mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Agreed and this is what I say. However after some time they can't hold the facade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.I was a great boyfriend . Three of my exes texted me on the holiday. I feel like some of these things are hitting you and you felt like you had to respond. Be a better partner and less drama :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Thank you for seeing that I'm happy you do I think it just comes across a little hypocritical not you specifically but within for minute spaces that kind of concentrate on patriarchy things to not see how they are reinforcing patriarchy in the same breath. There should be no reason I talk to the average self-proclaimed feminist who is against well meaning rules. And actually a lot of the stuff I learned was from listening to from they speak about their issues. I have seen groups of women make wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Online conversations may be exaggerated, but the real-world fallout for men is real: women asking for money, OnlyFans funnels, paternity scares, false accusations, and mixed messages around consent. Men carry wounds too, they just get less cultural permission to speak them. Stealthing is rightly illegal. But if a woman lies about birth control, it isn't considered assault, she faces no legal consequences, and the man is still financially responsible if pregnancy happens. That double standard is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Taken from the Indiana website How is paternity established? MARRIAGE A man is presumed to be a child’s father if: • He and his wife are married when the child is born; or, • If the child is born not later than 300 days after the marriage ends. If a husband says he is not the child’s father or another man claims to be the child’s father, a court may require a genetic test to determine paternity. PATERNITY AFFIDAVITS AT THE HOSPITAL Parents can establish paternity within the first 72 hours after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.It's almost like I hang around more women than women. Women in my age range a little bit lower and a little bit higher are definitely talking like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I hear what you're saying in your response I just think it's a little wild though that people can say that patriarchy harms men and then say forget that when we try to eliminate things that harm us. It's like a lot of women want to take the nuance of being a feminist with the defensive style of being toxic masculine. And then a lot of movements especially social ones are not used to rehabilitate the connection and stop agenda war but instead used to make jabs. And even more than that any meaning… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.It was a time where women would make a video with their clothes off but make it very dark so you can only see their Shadow for the most part and there was a red lights. That you didn't realize that people can just edit the video and see everything. I think it was either called the silhouette challenge or the red light challenge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.That's not true. Women can fit a man's name on a birth certificate without their permission | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.No. That's not true It is near possible to take your name off of birth certificate after a certain point in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 5 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.The math doesn't check out. Encountering any bear that leads to death in the woods is higher than encountering any man in the woods. It's just a poorly or it's zeitgeist statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:10 PM |
| 3 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.It's not a waste at all You know what I wouldn't even go further and say this could be a big benefit. A lot of men and women can benefit from DNA testing for many things for genetic abnormalities and the fact that a lot of men are getting released from prison because of overturned convictions due to the NA connections it can actually help a lot more people. Let's open up more DNA and genetic centers, let's release wrongfully convicted individuals and solve crimes. Let's invest in DNA infrastruct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 11:05 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Extra security for men is a great thing. And also to use a common trope that women use. It's of the benefit of the child as well. It could be mandatory It could be conditional. But this absolutely hurts no one. It would not hurt you and any real way it would just hurt your feelings at best. But the fact is of a man's name goes on a birth certificate he should have first choice just like women do. In addition to that I might even go further and say that Maybe we don't need DNA test unless it's vo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 11:04 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Not believing someone doesn't take away their freedoms at all. Your points are so wrong it's actually a little bit funny I feel like you have to be leading us on as a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:55 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Okay, if right now a woman could technically put any man's name on the birth certificate how are you getting I want to make it to only men can put their name on it as a sign of automatic control? In fact throughout the whole situation a woman's not controlled at all she can have the baby nothing really changes at all with her. What thing did I actually say will take away rights and make it so men have control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:53 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I'm confused here It's true it's just an objective fact. And after a certain time it is near impossible that take your name off a birth certificate. Women should not have the right to just put anyone else's name on the birth certificate. Again you're telling me how it takes away from one person's rights when I'm just reallocating the rights to where it should be. Men should take care of their kids women should take care of their kids. Women should pick their names on the birth certificate the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:42 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I knew nothing of this origin until women out of nowhere start saying it in real life and in other public spaces. I couldn't talk to female friends without a random conversation about choosing a bear, I couldn't look at memes without a random conversation of a woman talking about choosing a bear. Again I know almost nothing about the initial origin and what the mano spare did but I do know women definitely catapulted that conversation into the zeitgeist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:32 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I mean considering that at birth If the father is not in the room the mother can put a name down. They can essentially apply any man's name on that line and they are the father and they have a very limited window otherwise. What I am advocating for it makes it fair. The current reality makes it so we don't even have access to put down our name ourselves. So you're thinking what I would do would make women a second class citizen. Right now Men can't even say no to having their names put on a birt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:31 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Yeah that's fine. It's a public forum I don't know what kind of initial protections you want here. It's like going on a stage saying some stuff and demanding not to be criticized. And I noticed you're talking about specific person I know nothing of that specific person but what I do know is that every woman came out of the woodwork start saying this stuff and it was extra annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:23 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Yes I am agreeing with you on that, we can and we should. But there's still some things are unbalanced please tell me specifically what is unfair about one of my things I hope to be true What is unfair about a man confirming that a child is his. What is unfair that at the point of divorce if you do have to give child support which you should if it's your kid confirming that it's your kid? Kind of reminds me of something I read not too long ago where one city or one state was saying that all cust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:22 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I mean at this point I'm just kind of believing that anything that can make men make smarter choices is considered an offense to women. I don't hate women I hate any systems that pit men at in unfair disadvantage. Get a prenup, get that DNA test. Or change the law to where if you have to pay child support it should automatically come with a DNA test at the very least. Societal security with legal rights is not dumb That's actually what marriage is . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:15 AM |
| 5 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.No, I'm just saying minute to be safe. I can advocate for the safety of men and their mental health without calling women sluts. Does the safety of men come off as a threat or insult to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:07 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Of course her opinion is not wrong to her no one's opinions are wrong to themselves. Once you bring it to a group forum it absolutely can be judged. Facts to yourself are different. She can have the opinion she wants It's a stupid opinion One with a lot of flaws and again this is a form where opinions are challenged and questions are asked and that's okay too. You yourself are debating me on my opinion as we speak, And you're calling me arrogant. You literally saying I'm dismissing her while you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:06 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Yeah that's what I support hospital should allow quick easy and low cost and DNA test for the child and the father. The mother doesn't have to be involved at all I could just be an extra security step for them. And again with the laws as they are now there is no recourse in the future past a certain amount of time So yeah I'm all for it if it can take away your license garnish your wages and put you in jail potentially then yes you should be sure from the beginning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:59 AM |
| 8 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.You can have wrong opinions. People have them all the time. Expecting your thoughts not to be challenged especially on a public forum as you group all men together kind of invites that. I mean if you look at this post alone people are defensive which is fine I don't come on here saying hey these are my opinions you can't debate with me. I invited because I post here. And the fact is when women in real life start to say this it gets a little aggravating because you are a man. It's like if I go ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:57 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Again, considering the fact that the other side can literally go to jail and they have no rights past a few months if it's not their child why is it do humanize anything to give someone insurance is that their lifetime commitment is to a kid that's actually theirs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:43 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Wait you just admitted to it being false equivalency stats and then we're upset that men were like hey that's very wrong. Or men not allow to have a counter criticisms to things that are obviously just incorrect? You can't say we make everything about us when that whole thing was about men being unsafe primarily women could talk about how they're not feeling safe but the minute you try to put stats into it that's where it breaks down. I had a friend who said she wishes she were gay so she would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:33 AM |
| 8 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.No they're doing something worse. They are saying literal bears are safer than literal men. And again it's an exposure thing It was always a dumb thing to say and I'm kind of confused why women believe otherwise on this specific topic. Almost anything in the world is more dangerous by raw statistics than a bear simply because you're just not by bears that often. I mean in that same vein men are also safer with bears than they are with women. Just looking at the math about 700 men die a year from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:00 AM |
| 8 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Why is it dehumanizing for women to take a DNA test but not dehumanizing for men to go to jail if they don't agree to pay child support for a kid they never wanted/m might not be his? If you can go to jail for it's the humanizing if you're just proving paternity that's just dottong an I and crossing your ts unless you're a cheater. Where as a man he could be in a situation where he's not the father and still be held accountable. There's no socially accepted and sold for a woman who makes someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:42 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.So just in general do you make the same argument when women make generalizations about men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:38 AM |
| 10 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.The reason why this is so dumb it's because most people are nowhere near bears. This is a exposure thing I myself have male siblings who I see more often than the bear so statistically I'd be more likely to be killed by a male relative and than a bear. You're actually safer with a bear than you are in your shower. You are safer with the bear than driving a car. Statistically you are safer with the bear then you are around drinking water or swimming in it. The difference is exposure. Women tried … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:38 AM |
| 11 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.My last post literally had women who said that actually every post I've posted on here or have seen that were either critical points about women or some that key points about DNA testing or false accusations have had some of the same responses on here. These are many different women and also in real life it's the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:22 AM |
| 8 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.I don't know. I do a pretty good job of comparing it to The toxic men. I pretty much connected in the body and in the title and mentions both men and women who say the same perceived toxic thing. I don't know looks like I'm doing but you're asking. In addition it's not hypocrisy for men since they're the originators of that assume toxicity the women would be the only hypocrite since they're saying that the men are toxic for doing so and then repeating those same talking points themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalBut that's not itself contrast to women who sick They don't want to be approached at the gym and that they don't go to bugs to talk to other men ? And in general they do make these both claims on how it should be That's what I'm trying to get at exactly what you're saying is not exactly wrong I agree with like 85% 92% of it but what you think should be a standard is not necessarily the standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalConsistency is not a sign of autism exclusively. However having trouble with analogies could be a sign of it. Also I've seen your name in a couple places I think you just devolved to telling people to calm down when you don't have a solid response at the other person said it is a debate forum and you replied to a debate question. I'm sorry if someone countering what you said and requiring accuracy is too much for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYou see what I mean here You're saying different from a couple woman in this same post about how we should be interacting with each other other women says that I should be all five to your saying be direct and yet you're saying that men should be and she saying that men should be doing the other thing You're saying personal things as universal truths | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI can't tell you the last time I've heard a guy say that the woman should be a virgin. I'm not dismissing that it happens but outside of Middle Eastern cultures I just never heard of that. Now I have heard of people wanted women who don't have a bad reputation of sleeping around with everybody. And yes sex should be free no one should be paying for it we're not looking for prostitutes for looking for partners that can share in wealth and responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIt's not said directly it's pretty much said by action. I'll give you an example. I saw a video about how these women said this dance place has a problem where men try to flirt or date women from the group. They spoke about an hour on it. What was funny is that they said two out of three of them currently date a dude from that place and all of them have had sex with someone from that place. Truth in action not in words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI don't feel to roasted. But confused as to why don't see the confusion on what I am saying. I mean even women are asking why men don't approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menSo I guess I have a little bit of a personal question that I actually been mowing around in my own head You can answer it here or privately but my question is should men trust couples therapy at all ? If a lot of therapists are not trained on non physical , female origin abuse how can it ever be balanced ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:31 PM |
| -1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYes it was the example. Then you took the aspect of someoje selling you something and took it out of the mall environment. Just trying to stay consistent 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalMostly. We have what is culturally accepted. And then personal preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYou can't depend on vibes. Vibes are feelings of the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIf you go to the mall... It's the mall we are talking about. And yes. Many have dynamic desires | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:21 PM |
| -4 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI think you're misreading what I'm saying There's nothing wrong with but it's a bill but 90% of the time or a man and pay it they're not going to be like how dare you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI'm very confident that I would lose a friend. It's also a confusing thing because allows women to say they do not like it when some guy wants to be friends with them when in reality they want sex/ relationship. But they also I just general hated when guys don't try to get to know them as friends first..y closest friend is a woman. I've seen her half naked. She ask me if I think she's pretty. And invites me to thinks. I tried to make a pass at her once and she straight up was not chill about it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menVery interesting I have a question I've never been to domestic violence therapy but I have done couples therapy just for general relationship maintenance. Our therapists supposed to call out abuse as soon as they hear it for example it wasn't to a recently I realized I was financially and verbally abused. Or are you supposed to be subtle with that. Because every therapist I want to never called that out. Even my current therapist does not call what I went through abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:11 PM |
| -1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIf you go to a mall and expect that no one will try to sell you something you're crazy. I just say no thank you and walk along. No one's entitled to my time and that's why I say no and the social contract is we both part ways at some point. That's why no one's on the internet saying no one's trying to sell me stuff why is that and no one's another side saying no one better sell me anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:08 PM |
| 13 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalVibes are deceiving and change quickly. Ive been told I was like a brother to women who sent me nudes and we're obviously flirting. I've dated and had sex with women who by first hang seemed like they wanted nothing to do with me. I've had female friends who went over guys houses they were not attracted to. There was a whole comedian who went off vibes and almost got cancelled. Vibes are dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:06 PM |
| -2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI think there is a lot of things that are mutually understood even if you have defer an opinion. For example almost everywhere in the world is acceptable for men to pay on the first date. You can have a different opinion on it You can talk about it but 85 to 90% of the time it will not be your problem If you volunteer to pay and are a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalI'm kind of disagree there is a general thought even when individual opinions defer on a lot of things. Most people will not get mad if you stop them and asking for directions if you do it respectful. You could have an individual opinion on it and you can even be against it but it's commonly okay. It's okay to offer someone to drink if they are at your house especially water. No one gets upset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalOf course. I have free will too. But I know in civil interaction I can't punish someone for what is commonly understood as a non toxic approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:56 PM |
| -2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIt goes without saying that not all women are the same. But it seems individual women like to make rules for the group. A women who believe that men should not approach think all men shouldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIt goes without saying that not all women are the same. But it seems individual women like to make rules for the group. A women who believe that men should not approach think all men shouldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menI rewatched it again and made a mistake. They wanted to arrest her. They were trying to and then they actually just arrested her mother instead lol. And even with that being on camera and in front of a cop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menI have to say I like the discussion so far. I do find it strange that only physical violence is being mentioned mostly and not a lot about emotional or verbal violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 9 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menStrangely I saw a video of this woman who was hitting this man over and over and then this masculine presenting woman came by and punched the woman in the face and she said don't you ever put your hands on a man. At first I was like wow the woman didn't deserve that. And then after some self-reflecting I was like wait that's exactly what we would do if the genders were flipped and that would be the right thing to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menAgreed I also want to say that verbal abuse is very prevalent and hetero relationships from women even when everything is going well. It doesn't happen all the time but women do love to be rude or mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:17 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menI hear what you're saying. I think there is a little bit difference in that as a man or a group of men who call a cat fight a cat fight that's from inherent bias and cultural conditioning and maybe just personal understanding. But for those two women in that fight they are really trying to mess each other up. So I can call two women fighting a real fight or kids at play but in reality they're really trying to hurt each other. And that comes up in relationships verbally or physically sometimes wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:00 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menLol marines are a different breed. They are a special category lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:56 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menBut kind of to reiterate with the guy said I don't think a lot of men know when they're being abused I think they just assume that's just the way it has to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:51 AM |
| 9 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menOh I definitely agree with you on that one. I don't mind a good joshing. But I think it's a difference between Come here you dumb ass vs I really have to wonder if you're just that effing dumb Do I have to treat you like a child now. This has not been said to me however I've seen it happen and it was not joshing around lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:50 AM |
| 10 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menI think there's kind of two levels to it. Making a point hits are definitely valid. I do that everyone does that. But there are women who do hit men out of frustration even minor frustration. But for the last few weeks I've been looking at certain videos and kind of rolling back in my own memories plus the memories of when I hung out with male friends when they were with their girlfriends or wives. Some of them would get straight up disrespectful and feel too safe doing that. It's also the verba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:46 AM |
| – | AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It.There's a boat that's going down and only enough space for two people to go on a safety boat There's a family a mother father and child. They both work so they can be taken care of financially the father has a problem with food but he's going to the doctor for it. The mother spanks the child but her family doesn't agree with it but she's going to therapy to stop. Which one do you choose and you have to choose one to save the mother or the father There's a boat that's about to go down and there's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:50 PM |
| – | AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It.There's a boat that's going down and only enough space for two people to go on a safety boat There's a family a mother father and child. They both work so they can be taken care of financially the father has a problem with food but he's going to the doctor for it. The mother spanks the child but her family doesn't agree with it but she's going to therapy to stop. Which one do you choose and you have to choose one to save the mother or the father There's a boat that's about to go down and there's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:48 PM |
| – | AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It.There's a boat that's about to go down and there's only a safety wrapper two people There's a family there a mother father and a baby The father is a therapist the mother is a scientist. The father has flexibility in his schedule. The mother also has flexibility but she's also bipolar and takes medicine to help with that. You have to choose one for sure which one do you choose to save to go with the child There's a boat that's going down and only enough space for two people to go on a safety boa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I think maybe either you or I must be confused with something. I lived with a woman who was always late on her bills, and I paid a little bit more than her simply because I made more which was fine. Bet you came into play when she felt like she was being financially oppressed. Women in reality she was just bad with money. My friend is the one who lives with her family is upset she has to clean instead of pay rent. And all my relationships that I am enthusiastic about are they stuff fairness and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.There's a lot of things you can apply from what I say That isn't one of those things lol In fact I'm saying the opposite I don't want to pay for anything. Fair exchange of labor and taking care of each other absolutely. But paying for sex is a no-go for me. In fact women spend their own money (Uber/gas) coming over to my house to get some. Oh yeah I know how to choose better partners but like we do on this website we make generalizations and observations And I wanted to share it with you because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Lol 😂 where did the paying for sex com into play ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.And I like to give a good show. But also these are valid observations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Why are you debating some someone who might not have a social life. Wouldn't that makes us essentially the same ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I think at a point when you're on a public forum and asking why do people care as kind of obviously we have some interest in a certain point that we are trying to make. I'm going to ask you why do you even care to respond on a post if you can't see the nuance.. sounds like you were bored or don't have a good counterpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I think you misunderstood me she's working and not financially helping out in her parents house and complaining that she has to clean even though her brother who is also working is financially helping out and he doesn't have the same expectation to help in the house | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Nope. Have my own house, I've just dating women. I've actually lived with one and took care of all the bills. And I've actually heard how other women complain about certain things while not realizing them the blessings they get. Since we're on the topic of leaving their parents house I have a friend who moved back in with her parents. She's upset because she is expected to clean up after everyone. That would be a valid concern for the simple fact she does not pay any of the utilities or rent but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.😂😂😂😂😂. It seems so silly you think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I say the following not to be compatible but just observation plus statistical fact. Aren't lesbian relationships right with a lot more turmoil and higher rates of divorce? Just from my bisexual lesbian friends they have their own types of stresses and just based off what I read and some of the research they're just statistically not as stable. So could it be That woman can have a bias that does not benefit them when it comes to these relationships? And as someone who currently dates women I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I come with my own pots and pans. Sign me up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I was saying it in jest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:40 PM |
| -1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yeah I think it's great that your husband is still working and taking care of home, Plus managing his hobbies. Seems like he's killing it and providing emotional labor while taking care of himself and still working and it doesn't seem like it's stressful to you. I'd love to do that too ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Obviously he's providing a lot of emotional labor that you can't realize because it's invisible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Well of course you want to find someone you vibe with. But historically and socially the vibe ends up being that the man takes more of the provider role then the woman on average. I'm saying before kids come along women have the opportunity to set themselves up to be providers for a man and give themself an easier life and that's why I mentioned the most talk to example still not stepping into a role that a love women and especially feminist fine toxic or unhealthy. The provider role is very imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:06 PM |
| -2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I agree with that but also I guess the more core point of what I'm saying is obviously the house manager role is much more convenient if even the most empowered women, toxic women and average woman lean or prefer that position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yeah the provider role is the most important one in the household it feeds into everything else that helps a relationship stay stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:59 PM |
| -2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Lol. That's good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:57 PM |
| -5 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I feel like everything I heard about how men have it easier has to do with doing deviant or unhealthy things and never the responsibility aspects of it. Been general I think a lot of housewives will say their work is the hardest and/or the most important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Are you saying that any woman who specifically looks for the mal provider is inherently looking for an unstable / unhealthy relationship dynamic ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?That logically does not really make sense. You would just have one joint account with two credit cards. That's what people do in healthy relationships even if both people are bringing money in most of the time they either have their own accounts and a shared account for bills or they put everything into one account and then have multiple cards. You should not have two separate accounts unless you have two different incomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?Your situation was terrible. But statistically most households are living check to check. And you did do something you divorced him. And I'm happy you did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?I'm going to apply an argument that I myself don't like a fight usually but it seems very accurate for this. Everything is worse in the worst case scenario but an average scenario this is just not how it works house budgets and income tightly budgeted. It's less like you the case of not wanting someone to do something with the money is more of the case of not being able to. I think of a time I was called financial diffusers with an x I lived with because I would make a big deal when she would bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?That doesn't really work well there are some countries that culturally do this and the fact is if you're with someone you care about then you're going to spend money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?No you brought up slavery so I was using something from that time as well not that as much backbreaking labor in child labor is happening now. I think you're not understanding my reasoning. My thing is if you are scrutinizing what women are owed you have to also scrutinize what women are giving are more specifically those who do house labor. Also kind of go by this flow a lot of ladies I work with dream about being a housewife instead of working. A lot of housewives being about having more freed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?I mean again when you start talking about paying people fair wages you have to really break down what's being done. What is a fair wage for something and not like the over explained not near logical way of explaining that someone who does domestic work is worth getting over 100k a year for it or something like that. What is a fair wage for someone who also has access to the thing more than you? If I am missing from the house 9:00 to 10 hours a day for work and they are there most of the time how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?Yeah that's how I feel about it too but this is definitely of you playing a lot of women have talked about. So I'm just trying to ask what is a fair in reasonable system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?I recommended this before to a woman who said she does too much in the house And she feels she is in value. Ask her how come she just doesn't get a job in both people can pay for maid service or she could pay for it herself since she sees working as more freeing than housework. She did not like that answer It actually got very upset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?Correction on a few of those Statements you made. I wasn't saying it Should be the case. In fact I am against it . And these are things that I didn't make up these are what feminist themselves give as options. Also sex is a mutual thing and is intimate not domestic labor. And logically if someone's working in the home and they are compensated and they do not contribute to the household financially and they wouldn't get any of the equity they put into the house art any other finances. This is act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 03:45 PM |
| -1 | How Could Paying for Domestic Labor Truly Work Without Canceling Its Own Benefits?I looked at as much variations of this and then looked at the downfalls It doesn't look like there is a system in place that would support this while not having drawbacks for women. Or a general net positive. In most cases it ends up being a wash in the most liberal of cases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 05:04 AM |
| – | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.Yes. But only you are allowed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:40 PM |
| – | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.I don't know that seems like your folks are statistical anomaly since the older men were most likely to have tighter gender roles. Kudos to your parents! Also checked it out older generation hadn't been that helped out way less than current so yeah your folks are definitely an anomaly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.But you would think that you would teach your children things that you yourself are frustrated about right? Considering chores is essential to everyday home life You would assume they would be taught how to do this next to cooking basic food and showering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.Oh I agree with you. You can't blame your parents as adults. But you can still blame your parents that's why they didn't teach you other kid. Learning things as a kid 100% helps you out. So it is a curious thing why don't mothers teach their male children how to participate? I think it's a fair question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:52 PM |
| -5 | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.Of course. I'm an adult who lives alone I keep my kitchen clean and I was raised with all boys so we were taught. What I'm saying here is a lot of people learn habits from their childhood why aren't mothers teaching their boys how to participate in household chores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:44 PM |
| -4 | Women can't keep blaming men for poor household behavior if they're the ones raising them that way.I kind of low key disagree with this. I can't think of a generation a women who are happy with the way men contribute to the house hold. And seeing some of my peers and how they treat their kids I think women are still perpetuating the same behavior they say they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:43 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themIt's not as misleading as you are presenting it to be. The fact is usually the victim has to say yes that person is the person that assaulted me or raped me. They don't usually just find someone and say hey here's your person. You have to corroborate it. As far as the real attacker it is very possible that there is a real attacker. But you'll have to lie or not be sure who it is or if you were attacked to incriminate someone who genetically didn't match the DNA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:27 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themIt's not liable to say" This person is accused of sexual assault" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 01:06 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themhttps://cfrc.illinois.edu/pubs/pt_20190408_SexualAssaultCaseAttrition%3AAnExaminationoftheFactorsRelatedtotheFilingofCriminalCharges.pdf? https://aequitasresource.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/beyond-conviction-rates.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 12:55 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themFrom everything that I've read that's actually not true The majority of rape allegations that fall through are because of the inconsistency of the accuser, not incredible evidence and / or he said she said situations. There are rarely any cases where it slam dunk and it results in a non-conviction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 12:35 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themI'm not trying to invalidate sexual assault I'm trying to talk about how when it's not valid here's no major ramifications of it You're arguing a separate point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:57 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themFalse accusations are already a criminal offense They are just not pursued heavily. And again this is more along the lines of egregious and very self-evident I even possibly near yourself evident fabrications. Usually something becomes criminal if there's an offense to an individual and it's in the best interest of the state. False accusations hurt society as well. If you spend time effort and resources on the case that shouldn't even be a case then that's a problem If someone's in jail then tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:13 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themI agree and disagree with what you're saying in some parts. If we use the same standard of threshold for guilty or not guilty then it would be fine to go after false accusers. Now in some examples that have brought up and that I've read some of these people are obviously guilty. Either text messages or self-admitting to things. And I would say SA compared to other crimes as far as the standard have to be fair if you accuse anyone of any crime there must be sufficient evidence. If there is not su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:48 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themYou would have to equally say that there was an insufficient evidence to say that an assault did happen. There was absolutely enough evidence to have benefit of doubt considering every other explanation would be absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:39 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themI agree I would say it this way There's a case of false accusations that is so overwhelmingly blatant we should make an example out of them. I have absolutely seen cases get overturned because the one finally admits that she was wrong or she lied and that woman does not get sent to jail. Look up the story of Crystal Magnum She accused three specific guys of Raven her none of their DNA were inside her later on she goes on to murder someone and then later recants on the initial rape charges. In th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:38 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themSo based off what you believe you believe a man who picked up something for someone decided to pick it up put in someone's hands and then grab her butt and walk away in the middle of a hallway and also simultaneously acknowledged the positioning of a camera in such a way where you can sexually assault someone openly but not have it be visible or did this on accident compared to A woman who was wrong or lied about it? In your world it would mean no matter how much evidence is there someone is alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:29 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themSituation with my friend was super simple They were both walking in the hallway She dropped her book he picked it up and gave it to her. She accused him of rubbing her butt. Cameras came out later showing he didn't. I counter what you're saying with the fact that men being incriminated of something without sufficient evidence is not unheard of. This guy was sent to prison for over 30 days because of a woman who has a history of false accusations https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/charges-dropp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:12 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themFor the friend or the Uber guy ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themNot a sueable offence to report on what the government is doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themAs a non combative counter how is it that people both have experience where the law wants to convict an offender on nothing and put people in jail based on lack of evidence. And also experience where victims are not taken seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:37 PM |
| 15 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themCouple of things: You can't sue Uber because they have clauses that make it so you can't. Some have and gotten their profiles reinstated You can sue the rider who lied on you and some people have done that successfully. But Uber in general doesn't want driver suing riders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themOnly part I disagree with is that women and men lie equally They lie equally in general but men are less likely to lie on someone to the point that it hits the legal system https://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themThose men should absolutely go to prison, and then your friends example there is a resource they can attempt to access. If they call the cops that will start a train of responses They have tons of time too depending on your city with statue of limitations. If your friend had audio or video recordings text messages and DNA if they had absolute proof of what happened happened it might not even get to court because they'd want to make a deal to at least serve minimal time. And if your friend did wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themhttps://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to them6% women/ 11% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themStatistically twice as likely as any woman. And you're right all the time is an over exaggeration. Can't change titles though still I'll admit that it's an over exaggeration to get to the point of the body of the post which has most statistical backups. Any opinions on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themBut how about the men who are victims? I don't agree with your statement but if I were to say you should at least go after the women who overwhelmingly lied what would be the problem in that? Example if you accuse an Uber driver of assault and they have recordings that our counter to the fact what is the ramifications that would make it so actual victims are not safe going forward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themHopefully. It was surprising some of the things I was reading up on. It's kind of wild to think that almost 10% of overturned cases are sexual assault related | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionActual, legit, in real life, women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI understand the point of view of the internet but I think that bleeds into real life usually. For example the whole not going 50/50 with the man is an internet thing but that is definitely prevalent in real life dating now. Outside of that touching on your plan about neurodivergent mean shy Do you remember that. The time where women were chronically self-diagnosing themselves with things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI haven't been met with a good argument for me to change my mind on the matter. Again you're attacking weird points You're basically saying 'you don't think you're wrong How dare you." And again I'm not making excuses I'm giving consistency. I've even given you an explanation with my bias and you did not even attack that. I am open to hear how you might refute it. Again you are attacking points I did not make. And I don't feel like I'm being ripped a new one.feeling Like I'm debating someone doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI don't feel like I'm getting ripped a new one at all. I see some interesting point of views that both follow along with what I'm saying and go against what I'm saying. Majority of people are attacking the point I made mostly. And that's fine. And basically you're telling me to own my bias. The bias of what. You're basically saying you're trying to defend your point in opinion, You have a bias. Well duh. It's because I believe my point of view has merit I don't know what you're trying to make a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNope, you're now redefining my initial statement and even my further clarified follow-up statement to fit your own narrative. You are simultaneously saying that I excuse what men do while almost simultaneously saying that I agree that men do the same thing as women. You have to kind of choose a side. Am I dismissing what they do or saying they're the same? The thing is you're not even proving me wrong on my statement. You're just trying to find a bias The thing about bias is people can have a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionAs far as your second part I didn't defend them I said I understand what they are trying to say because when males use the psychological terms which are rarely they are least all incorrectly saying it around the same way. It is not an excuse. It is saying I understand their dictionary. You're making some big jumps to some big conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionOh my . I'm literally talking with you and you are not a comment that agrees with me. And you can see evidence against your statement if you look through the comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo I think by opening sentence outside the title was " more and more.The first response to you was men can do this. And then my responses in a couple different comments here it says that women are more guilty of this. I never said that only woman can do this. I specifically pointed out women Without dismissing men having the ability it's just that women are more guilty of it :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionYeah I think you might have commented in that and I don't know if you remember that lady was noticeably nicer and more agreeable with the woman who disagreed with her and observably nasty with the men who tried to call her out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionYeah I don't know enough about that topic to accurately agree with you or not but yeah let's say yes. You can write about that on your post with your details informations and opinions. This post is about a whole different specific topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI think you're looking at it from the wrong point of view I think with everything men and women can be very guilty of in certain ways and that certain levels. I think the difference is there are people who are the prime offenders of a certain thing. And women be violent yes. Is honest to say women are the same level of violent as men very much no. That's the type of thing and process I'm putting on for this. men and women Have the capability of incorrectly using psychology base words for their o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionYes you are correct. My belief is that women are way more guilty of this than men. Your response is not an intake of revelation. I'm not trying to be sneaky about it It's pretty obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI think you're confusing two things. Do we know the definition and apply them accurately? I think yes. Can men be wrong about sexual assault and harassment. Also yes If someone doesn't believe you're telling the truth that is a lie However if I called you a liar because you hate men That would be the incorrect definition. You're arguing the wrong point here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionYes, I believe that there are some men that do accuse women of those things. Do you think men overwhelmingly use the wrong definition of gaslighting, manipulation, narcissism, hysteria, lying ? Women can lie Women can gaslight Manipulation is a thing in relationships as well I've met more women who defend hysteria then who say that they aren't hysterical sometimes especially during period times. And I invite you to look up signs of narcissism in women when in a relationship. P.s. Not all women j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo wonder you’re hitting sewer lines. you’ve missed the point so many times, you had to strike something underground eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo they're more likely to go to place and be exposed to words that will allow them to have the opportunity to misinterpret them on their own. Is your favorite pastime digging holes in the wrong place and hoping for Gold but hitting a sewer line? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI mean we can play the semantic games all you want I mean one could say you are doing the same thing by assuming that there isn't a difference. You can't on one hand say we're both doing it and then say you need to cited examples within your most recent report you would have to say I am completely wrong which contradicts the one you said previously which is no you're being one-sided. You kind of have to choose a lane here. But outside of that I can kind of extrapolate by using anecdotal evidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI have eloquently described the difference between the two gave examples and all that good stuff. Can you pinpoint exactly how it's different since you're so eloquently concentrating how it's basically the same? I'm curious if you can see the nuance and what my argument is :-) Thank you Just to show you that I understand what you're saying I'm assuming what you're trying to say is that the varying levels of the misidentification of words does not matter it's the fact that it happens itself that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo not at all. I mentioned that many can be guilty of this as well. I think this is one of those things that are women dominated and honestly very unproductive. Dynamic redefinition of words do not improve well-being of anyone. Be consistent. This one's on the ladies men have a lot of things to be guilty of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI get it. Yeah I wouldn't mind it I think it'd be interesting to see what people say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:19 PM |
| 8 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo,. What I can say for sure is if a group of people are consistently using it wrong that means it was conveyed in a way that can be defined as such. It's stagnant. If a group of a demographic use a word in varying ways that only work to their own benefit then more incline to believe that it's being abused. Is like when people use the word irregardless and correctly. I know exactly what they're trying to say because everyone uses it incorrectly in the same way. Now if there were five or six diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI actually low-key thought about that myself lol I did something like that last week when I asked what does emotional intelligence mean to you. I gave some examples in my post and the woman said I was wrong but they were other women in the post we use some of the same examples and no one was calling them wrong except the men. I found it very illuminating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionNo it's not right at all. However if it's fairly consistent for a certain population then you at least have a chance of having a steady conversation and are not weaponizing a word or phrase. It makes the infringement more palatable. You can't communicate with someone if they're constantly changing the terms. At least when you talk to dudes you at least know what they are trying to say and what they mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:58 PM |
| -1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI was noting that even when it's wrong it's still fairly consistent across the gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI think that most mens definition of gaslighting would be mostly the same. As far as your example I can assume it's something along the lines of women telling men that looks shouldn't matter, don't be shallow and they like men who are kind. Then also hearing women say of course looks are important, preferences are great. Nice guys are the worse etc. I think men are fairly consistent on what they think gaslighting in(opinion) however a group of ten women would probably come up with 8 different me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI don't know if there's a full connection there but maybe there's a couple things I can go along with that. That I can connect to this. There are many times that divorce can be building up for a while but there are also times where women hold on to things and explode at the last moment or in a way that's not well received. I myself have never been divorced but I have been in relationships where I thought certain things were fine until they were not. I had next who I was on distance with who held… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:54 PM |
| 0 | What is emotional labor, really?I could definitely try if I value that person. The fact is though I would never deliberately date a person who would choose forgetting a birthday as a reason to start a huge argument or to potentially break up. But just to be fair historically it's not that deep. You just mention something a week before and say hey my birthday is next week You got something planned or should we try something now. I can't see a logical reason why you would wait the day of or even the day before to tell someone it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:34 PM |
| 2 | What is emotional labor, really?If I want a birthday party I'm historically going to charge of planning it myself. If I want something small and intimate I also just tell them what I want to do. I can honestly say I've never flipped my limb for someone not remembering my birthday and it's happened before they have felt sad and they were upset with themselves and I spent a good chunk of time consoling them. I never thought that they didn't care I just thought that life was happening and we're all adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What is emotional labor, really?I'm having trouble understanding which way you mean this lol Like they don't deserve to celebrate it or if you don't remember it that's okay Don't worry about it? Either way I probably would still disagree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What is emotional labor, really?I agree with you but if you look in the post a lot of women say that it is emotional labor. I don't agree with it being emotional labor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:05 PM |
| 3 | What is emotional labor, really?Agreed. The best you can do is ask about particularities in the beginning and try to spend like a month together beforehand. But other than that you just got to raw dog the whole experience and hope for the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What is emotional labor, really?Oh yeah your last part I do agree with that The household manager would be the person who gets a heavy load of the household management just like the household resource acquire would have a lot of the responsibility of the resources. I guess whear it's kind of weird for me is that a lot of women will only look at their work that they're doing and then say they're doing everything instead of saying I handle all the house management stuff. I guess in a way how come they don't see that acquisition … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What is emotional labor, really?For the first one I wanted to see how women define it. For the second thing you are right but a lot of times you don't know so you're in deep enough which is fine. I talked to her about how that's not a way to speak to someone and that as someone who lives here I can do any type of cleaning I want as long as it's neat and clean and that you prefer certain things that make her get emotional of them any other way she can do it herself or at the very least talk to me beforehand to see if I can agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 0 | What is emotional labor, really?Thank you. What I think is happening that I see on many topics between men and many women is that let's just take this case for example If it's not emotional labor that a woman would do then it is not considered emotional labor. As a man I don't do the same things that a woman might do in any given situation but it doesn't mean I am devoid of putting effort for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | What is emotional labor, really?Emotional labor: “It’s their 30th I want them to feel deeply loved and celebrated.” Mental load: “How do I plan it? What’s the budget, guest list, timing, logistics?” One is heart-driven .carrying the desire to make someone feel cared for. The other is brain-driven carrying the steps required to make that care tangible. And that one is easy as far as some men not knowing what to do to help. It's because a lot of men when they try to help they get yelled at for not doing it right which in truth i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What is emotional labor, really?Okay, But don't you see how emotional labor and mental load or two different things? And if you are trying to save mental load there's no way in heck that men and women are not near averaging the same amount of pure mental load in different ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:15 PM |
| 0 | What is emotional labor, really?But that still sounds like mostly administrative things. Things to be appreciated for sure. But not exactly emotional. In fact I can do all of those things without emotion and just duty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:08 PM |
| -4 | What is emotional labor, really?No, computers emulate us ,not the other way around. And most of what you’re describing sounds like basic life management. If you’re single, you’d still be doing those things for yourself. Calling them “unpaid labor” inside a relationship turns partnership into accounting. When I got my ex’s food, I didn’t call it forced Uber Eats. When I helped her while she was sick, I didn’t think of myself as an unpaid nurse. It was care, voluntary, human, mutual. And let’s be real. women don’t exactly hide t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:09 PM |
| -6 | What is emotional labor, really?Remembering little things is not emotional labor. That's a long line of regular labor. Again I feel like that's along the lines of home admin stuff. I could turn my phone into a calendar reminder that wouldn't make it an emotional thing. The next thing is just you being worried in controlling your own feelings. That wouldn't be keeping the peace It would just be letting someone be stressed and not stressing them out more and your example. The only one there is reducing aggression and forgiven hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:58 PM |
| 4 | What is emotional labor, really?But isn't that in most relationships It goes back and forth? I mean using your first sentence written a man working overtime so his wife doesn't have to go to work be emotional labor? Though I consider it to be just actual labor? The second one seems like the first one Actually the third one is just the first and second one. All three of those things pretty much are the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 0 | What is emotional labor, really?These are great things! But These seem more like home admin/ home maker things. And being a solid partner thing. I don't see anything on here that are in the realm of emotion that they do overwhelmingly more than men do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:30 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsI did top post of all time not for today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:16 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsYou know I will say though that it looks like it's almost too well moderated If you look at their top post most of it has nothing to do with feminism It reads more like a magazine talking about makeup when it does the social progression of women in a patriarchal society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:10 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsI don't know about that sometimes it's trolling sometimes it's real questions dismissed as trolling. It's okay to be uneasy or not like a question but you can't immediately identify it as trolling sometimes. I go over to ask men and they do a pretty solid job of policing themselves. I was actually really impressed on how well they were able to call people out men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:04 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsYou know what's crazy about that is that I've seen them debate topics and take hard stances on situations that were proven false. Remember that lady that got hit in the head with a brick and we found out it was fake? They used the whole situation to prove how men are trash and no one came to protect her but when someone posted about how it was proven fake there were people still defending it. So I guess I'm trying to say to your statement is that being potentially not real doesn't stop feminist … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI hear what you’re saying, but I do want to counter a bit. Requests to go to therapy are often emotionally led, especially by women in relationships. What’s really happening is they’re hoping the man will shift his structure based way of thinking to fit their emotion based one. My concern is if we already know emotions can distort reasoning and escalate conflict, why design a resolution model that leads with emotion instead of structure? Why not blend the two, but make structure the anchor? If w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemDon't you see how you yourself say You don't want to resolve a problem unless you are validated first. Meaning that your feelings about the situation mean more than the actions of the situation. And unfortunately this lines up a lot of things when it comes to breakdowns in relationships. But it's interesting you say that men feeling the desire to be right as a problem but you're also saying validation is important to bring first. I can barely think of a lot of common relationship problems roblem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI mean I think this way , if someone is conditioned to add emotion into things that don't require heavy emotion that's kind of something you need to train yourself out of. Do you remember when women were testing men by pouring ketchup on a counter to see if they would clean it up? The dreaded bear conversation? If you wanted to he would? These were things that were self-inflicted emotional wounds when reality these are structure and logic required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI think what’s getting lost here is that my title, the body of the post, and nearly every one of my responses have stated the same thing I am not against validation or emotion. What I’ve said, repeatedly, is that they shouldn’t lead the process. So I have to ask. why do so many people keep responding as if I said validation doesn’t matter? It makes me wonder if some are reacting to how my post feels rather than what it says. My whole point has been that validation should be a step within resolut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI was using that as an analogy to show how effective that structure can be, not to say human relationships are machines. I think you bought up business? The point was that in both scenarios, validation or acknowledgment is the initiator, not the end goal. Even in customer support, the "I'm sorry you're experiencing this" line isn't meant to be the main event - it's a quick empathy bridge that leads straight into problem solving. In real relationships, the same principle applies: acknowledging fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemA documentary. For part of it I did mention Reddit and also personal experience and also friends experience. Validation as a checkpoint. It's the equivalent of being hungry and buying food but not cooking or eating it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemThank you for the link ,you're right to point out how validation is foundational, especially in high-conflict relationships. But I also want to know that things were more logical in a relationship It would be less likely to evolve to a high conflict relationship. Therapies like SFBT shows strong evidence that after emotional safety is established, goal-oriented, action-directed work leads to quicker and sustained improvement. So here's the nuance I'm making: I'm not saying validation is unimport… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemOh you're actually speaking in my area .I work in client management and I think you're missing the nuance of what I'm saying. You don't go into an office with the goal of validating feelings.you go in to fix the problem. If the computers are down, you say "let's get them back up," not "I understand your frustration." Validation is part of communication, but it's not the lead. I see this in customer service all the time: when reps spend too much time trying to make people feel good before solving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemWhen I went to therapy with the next one time the therapist was trying to guide her into seeing the impact of what she does and then from that when she did not want to go anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemBut again that's feelings telling you that, not logic or structure. There's emotional weight when you collect things versus letting things off constructively as it happens. I mean technically if you really think about it when you're emotional and hold on to things you actually build the platform for resentment You can't resent someone easily if you don't allow it room to grow. Takinh initiative in your relationship is important men and women can learn from this. It stops a lot of pain later ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI hear you and I think your point is valid in some ways but with talking about being resolution first you wouldn't get to the point of the straw that broke the camel's back. every time straw was on your back you would handle it at that point . Emotions tell you to explode until you had enough. logic says be clear be concise communicate that your back is not meant to hold any straw instead of thinking you have to be strong enough to hold all the straw until you collapse under the weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI think you're saying the same thing I'm saying. Be actionable be structured still you can validate after you start solving stuff. But if your circle drinking up around emotions and validation You're literally not solving the issue You're appeasing and then some people's cases patronizing someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI never said not to state your problem I said not to make validating it the main event. There’s a difference between identifying what’s wrong and circling it emotionally until it grows. Validation should accompany resolution, not replace it. Otherwise, the conversation becomes therapy about the problem instead of progress through it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemYou’re absolutely right acknowledging perception isn’t the same as dismissing it. But I don’t dismiss anything; I prioritize. Being emotional or presenting perception only works if one person momentarily suppresses their own reactions to make space for the other. But when both people are emotional at once, conversation collapses into noise. That’s why I believe in logic-first resolution, not because it rejects emotion, but because it gives both people a structure to exist within it. With validat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemThat was the action. It was literally solving the problem not validation. It was actionable, It was a direct plan. Validation of emotions would be either saying I'm sorry you feel like I don't validate you or saying I don't think you're right and then saying I'll do better. My objective was resolution first. And it was The logical conclusion 😁. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemYeah relationships are not logical often but everything has logic to it for example I had a relationship once where the woman said that I don't appreciate her and do enough for her I disagree with that and I said hey you know what I don't necessarily agree but let's do this let's sit down every week Have some us time we'll get snacks and let's just write down what we've done for each other small things and large things and let's also include why we did it. For example I said hey The cooked break… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:24 AM |
| – | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI agree. It is annoying but again coming down between emotional explosions and repetition those are two different things. Now she just does not want to do it that's a bigger problem but personally reminding someone to do something that they're willing is a problem but a blessed problem. However again I want to restate that it's not bad to have limits If certain things become too much in some situations I support leaving or escalating it just can't be the first set of tools | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemYou shouldn't have to say it often. But if that solves the problem what does it really take away from you more than having emotional outburst? If you're asking me would I rather remind a wife of a task she's supposed to do and then have a solid heart to heart to see how we can make it more efficient. Or yell at her until she doesn't and then feel resentment even after the task is done I think my answer would be obvious If we are going to put work into something it should be into something that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI don’t want women to think like men ,I want women (and men) to be resolution-focused. Logic isn’t a male trait any more than emotion is a female one. Both are human tools. Therapy, in my view, should help us strengthen both: the structure and the empathy, the resolution and the validation. But when it comes to solving recurring conflict, structure and resolution should lead . with emotion and validation supporting, not steering. Feeling your way to success is rarely documented, but feeling good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:34 AM |
| -2 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemOh I 100% agree with you. I wouldn't say that I just want to make her happy is a great resolution but it's a culmination of trying to make someone happy by solving the problem but that won't work against someone who wants the validation first before the solution. I'm happy you're significant other gave you emotional space but you did notice even and what you stated is that he put the resolution as part of the process. The feelings were there but the feelings weren't the sole objective of letting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemSure I'll give you one from real life. I had a friend who was upset because her boss kept on planning stuff during her lunch hour. I said why don't you just make a lunch block that's recurrence on your work calendar that way they can't plan over it. She said no I just want you to listen to me then don't try to solve it. We had the same problem with her venting about it sporadically. Had a friend where her car broke down and she couldn't get to work. She cried for about 2 hours stressed out and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI want to reiterate that I'm not saying that feelings or validation Should be dismissed I'm saying they shouldn't be prioritized. And feelings about things can get you into a problem feelings should not be the primary tool used to solve it ( my opinion). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemSaying "I appreciate you" without addressing the issue doesn't actually show appreciation - it just verbalizes it. But saying, efore I try to understand everything you're feeling, I'm going to remove the problem that's causing you stress so we have space to talk about it, that's appreciation in action. Solving the problem first doesn't erase emotion.it creates room for it. That's validation with action not just words. I mean in reality the worst of us can say anything. We can validate any emotio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:18 AM |
| -2 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemGreat point and I think we agree on the first part when you're in your feelings things could be a allegory for another thing versus the simplicity of what the situation actually is. Sometimes not taking out the garbage is just you being lazy or forgetting. But for some others who are more emotionally driven or driven by validation they look at it to represent other things. That's prioritizing the feelings of the situation sometimes and not the reality. I mean if were sticking to the garbage thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemSometimes.. But I still think the primary driver should be resolution. If you are a person who prioritizes validation over resolution than even after someone takes out the garbage You can still find yourself upset and angry because the fact that you even had to bring it up and feel invalidating. There are people who will interrupt some body relaxing because they feel something is messy That person will get irritated and say yeah okay I'll start cleaning and then the other person would still comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI'm against relationships where lingering problems become concurrent stresses. Venting is never a problem unresolved issues are. You can even maybe start off with venting and a lot of situation but that cannot be your primary focus the problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemYes most people don't like to admit they're wrong. For more often than not women will debate you on how they don't want you to solve problems They just want you to listen which still leaves them with problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemWell I mean we can use a couple of examples we can go with any cliche example of I don't want you to fix it I just want you to hear me. Validation itself does not solve a problem. But solving the problem and then getting validation or not still makes it so your problem goes away with or without validation Outside of that in the specific documentary almost all the women were terrible They were explosive and interrupting anytime a valid response was shared One literally said f*** you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemI do not dismiss validation but I strongly disagree with it being the first step. I think in a lot of scenarios if you attack The main cause of a lot of issues It will make it better for validation. How can you fully validate something you have no full understanding of. It kind of makes it hollow. If my wife or girlfriend is upset what does it really solve to say I understand you're upset. Does it show that you understand why? Or does it just show that you can regurgitate with someone else is sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemGreat response. That's why I also included experiences on here, I mentioned friends experiences and I have my own experience in couples therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemThat’s a great question. What I’m saying is that understanding and acknowledgment shouldn’t be the primary goal in a conflict . because if acknowledgment becomes the priority, that’s all you’ll end up fighting for. Validation should come after resolution,it’s part of the healing process, not the strategy itself. For example, if the argument is about taking out the garbage, the focus should be on getting the garbage taken out, not on how the act makes you feel. If you center the discussion on emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:51 AM |
| 6 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemIt was not reality TV It was a documentary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI've been interested in this topic since you brought it up as a counterpoint and it looks like based off the research is that researchers say there's proof and frontline corrections officers will always see a criminal. It looks like this is along the lines of exposure bias. But let's skip this and go back to my original point social punishment for things you do it's not a bad thing I do support rehabilitation then you were you call it it still taking someone out of the community to punish their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanWell that adds some more confusion because based off research since the '70s and by admissions from our government they are less likely to commit any other crimes after they get out. I don't believe that anyone wants these type of people out in the first place and if they do they don't want them to look like upstanding individuals so why is your experience different from stats and research so dramatically. Do you think you're probably experiencing some exposure bias? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanNearly every statistic I've looked at in the past and currently say that sexual offenders are very unlikely to reoffend compared to other offenders of different types. Sincere question why are this national stats and research different from your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:20 PM |
| – | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanHere's the kicker on that.. So out of all crimes rapist do not commit the same crime after leaving prison and they are less likely to commit any other crime. Meaning statistically rapist are the easiest and most effective to rehabilitate and the most stable. So I don't know if I agree with you ... Lock them up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:04 PM |
| – | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI don't disagree that she has a reason. I don't even disagree about it being a difference between a stable mind and an unstable mind. But I do disagree on the type of punishment. There are tons of people mental instability issues that can make crimes and if we're staying specific a lot of men who go to jail for sexual assault Have themselves either have PTSD, some developmental issue etc. heck if you look at a lot of chomos they have huge developmental issues. Still no excuse. Lock them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanAre you asking me how people are found not guilty for something when found not guilty ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI don't know that's 100% true about what feminism is I've seen everything discussing your feminism. It was once a paper that went around talking about how men who love making women orgasm What's antiferous because it made the pleasure less about The woman and more about them. It was the stupidest thing ever. But I guess I'm trying to say is if anything can be considered pro or anti-feminist then it's discussion unto itself can be valid. I mean in a way a lot for minutes have said that the suppre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:37 PM |
| 3 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanAnd some of my individual responses I didn't use real life examples. One of the things I use is this real life event that was used for the TV show there was a woman who actually faked me pregnant and lie about being raped and sexually assaulted 50 doulas. She legit initially only got some house arrest every three years of probation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanWhich part of that is not true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanYeah we don't police other men we're not police officers will not most of us at least. We are however people who keep each other accountable to the best of our ability and most of the time legality of it. Police officers police people. We can come to the 8th of women we can make non-profits to support them we could do a lot of things we can choose not to hire them if the local law allows us to. What we cannot do without ourselves becoming part of the problem is used our bodies to commit violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI looked it up looks like the real one served two years of house arrest in 3 years of probation. But that was then turned into jail because she violated some stuff. So essentially if she had behaved she was only gotten 2 years of house arrest for 50 assaults basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanOkay I'm going to have to hard push back on that women do not police women at all. Almost every type of mindset within women are given space to breathe. The most common response is that women are not a monolith. To use what you said before I've seen deadbeat mothers, verbally abusive women and more been giving so much grace compared to men in the same situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:54 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanBecause all men aren't the police. And I will say even with that there is only so much men can do outside of committing violence of their own to get someone out of a harsh situation. But outside of that there are a ton of resources for victims especially for female victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanHell yeah we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanYeah I didn't say anything different as far as the first part and infanticide. It's 71% women. And Yes under five but over 1 euros is almost evenly split. But again that's no excuse What I'm saying in general is that This is a problem You can't use until illness as a excuse It is the primary factor but one can say that army veterans who come back and beat their wives are only doing it because they have PTSD. Or the high school love who's beating you and assaulting all the time is because of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanNope it's not. Infanticides des are specifically babies that are born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI don't mind being deep but I feel like you're going so deep you miss the point. The actions are vastly different in reality I do not care if a man or a woman complains online strong enough to want to put them in jail or have them see legal ramifications for doing so unless it's specifically harms and individual or group of people specifically. Don't you see how it's a little bit problematic to equate a woman using the justice system to harm someone as the same level as a man complaining about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanLol maybe because I can get it whenever I want it. But I applaud and bow down to your calling good sir lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanActually women world wide are responsible for 71% of all infanticides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI mean in the way it's kind of ridiculous to correlate men who have problems with women to a woman who's actually trying to use the law to put men in jail. And I'm happy you agree with If not completely trusting women. But to be fair here I am saying that some women are given too much benefit of the doubt and you are kind of debating against that. I am here saying you shouldn't trust all women either and that they should have legal ramifications for when they do something bad and Not really 100%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanYeah it's becoming more blatant. I saw a video of this Uber driver who recorded his interactions in this woman kept on trying to say the guy assaulted her her friend was like no he didn't stop saying that and she was calling the cops. The guy not only had a camera in the car but his glasses had built-in recording. She was blatantly lying and I couldn't assure you she saw zero jail time for it but there's a good chance the guy probably lost his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits woman😂 I had a good reason. And trust me it didn't happen often. I've only probably done it maybe three times in my whole life and every time it became a huge problem ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanThe guy who went around killing people in Sydney was shot by the police. On another response I listed four women who killed one or more children and did not serve any jail time. If we want to keep it to stabbing there's a woman who stabbed her boyfriend 108 times and only got probation. The story of the guy in Sydney in the story of this woman who stabbed her boyfriend both happened in the same year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI would say it's along the same lines as the SVU episode If you're not found guilty would it even be considered a stat? Andrea Yates killed five children and was found not guilty Melissa Towne killed her child found not guilty Casey Anthony killed her daughter got some misdemeanors Who's actually a good size list of women who got away with killing one or multiple children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanYou ever told a woman no to sex? That is the scariest thing in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 0 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanRapist men in real life Don't get treated well either. (For good reason) You get on that offender list people know you're address or general area You have to announce yourself and you can't work places your life pretty much turns to crap again for a good reason. Deadbeat dads are not violent offenders I don't know why that's there lol. But even with that You can be put on child support even when you're not the father. And if you don't you're being put right back into jail or losing your driver's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 5 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanAnd just like the red pill men are told they can't make their problem with one or two women the problem of every other woman they see or interact with. And I'm sorry The series of events to where someone can mistakenly accuse someone of raping them would have to be egregious and violate the laws of chaos order. I can't even believe he said that in a serious setting. But to answer your question directly it was an actual false accusation. The fact is she has a history of this but imagine any distr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:07 PM |
| -2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanMental instability is not an excuse. It's a reason. You should still be held accountable at most it gives you slightly away when it comes to sentencing maybe and that's only if it was outside your control that's the difference between malicious and passive. But even with that it's still dangerous to give an excuse for certain actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:03 PM |
| 0 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanThere's no reasonable man and maybe even slightly unreasonable man That would say no leave that man alone even though he killed his family he was in psychosis or mentally unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanMen are heavily policed men who are rapist do not last long in jail or they are terribly beaten up often. Statistically is inaccurate to say that men don't please other men socially or judicially. We over policemen we over incarcerate men. There's a whole project where Men are being let of out of prison because of the shady stuff that went into putting them in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:00 PM |
| 4 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanYes. Reading more into it now she has 20 incidents of unsubstantiated claims. She has accused other people of kidnapping in the past and in 2019 she accused a taxi driver of raping her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:49 PM |
| -2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanOh I'm up to date on all the SVU episodes I've watched the whole series like three times now lol And though they do Have ridiculous plot points in times This one was open and close. She lied and said she was raped and was having the baby. She had done this to 30 different women. Often the SVU cases involving men that are hard to prosecute either have an element of he said /she said or some type of very convoluted aspects to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:44 PM |
| 4 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanNo I'm asking you to clarify so I understand what your definition of it is. Also want to add in the fact that this wasn't this woman's first time falsely accusing someone She has done this multiple times in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:42 PM |
| 4 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanCan you clarify with a mistaken accusation is? She straight up said She was attacked and this guy tried to kidnap her kid. Video showed he moved the kids inside cold interaction lasted one second. Did not attack the mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:33 PM |
| 3 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanThose are completely two different things. But why does it rub you the wrong way for me to say that the law system as it is benefits women who lie. I hate the legal system for what it does to men who are innocent. I don't like women who used to legal system against men. I don't like how legal system disproportionately goose women more leeway. And in this specific example this woman is the way bigger problem. Also let's be honest could you imagine what would happen and what kind of storm it would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanIn this specific instance why wouldn't I blame the woman too ? Aren't you kind of proving my point a little bit by not wanting to target the person who started the issue? Why would it be hating women for wanting them to be accountable for something they did ? 😂 I actually really laughed in real life because that doesn't make sense. You could have said both are a problem but you're trying to completely eliminate a woman's contribution to the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 6 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanIt is a woman's issue because the justice system treats women disproportionately better under the law. A lot of feminist theory correlate social contract send legal understanding with the fact that it benefits men You can't be couple it just because I'm bringing up something that correlates to how women benefit. Have a false accusation is made that affects someone it's always going to go through the legal system. The fact is a woman used the law as a weapon to hurt a man. And now that same legal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI mean in reality if a man does no harm he can still be punished harshly. Very recently a man was accused of kidnapping a kid out of store there was camera evidence saying he didn't and he still was in jail for over 30 days. The woman who lied is not in jail at all. So let me ask you a question if false reporting barely gets an indictment why would we trust the stats on false reporting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:04 PM |
| 6 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanI sort of disagreet. What is one of the first things they talk about when a mother kills her children ? They almost rarely turn her into a monster unless it's super egregious. They ask about the mental health of her and that postpartum is real (which it is) But you see often they give excuses not dismissing what they did but trying to soften the impact of what she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:02 PM |
| 0 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsSure: The worst way to handle cleaning with a partner is to start loudly cleaning around them while they’re trying to relax, say nothing, let the resentment build, and then explode with “you never help me.” That isn’t emotional intelligence .that’s emotional buildup with no communication. A better approach is saying, “Hey, the mess is starting to stress me out and I don’t want to end up irritated or cleaning around you while you’re trying to relax. I’d rather plan it together so we both feel res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 11:07 PM |
| – | What’s a fair exchange when one partner is the homemaker and the other provides financially?Sure but what does a woman provide in exchange for being provided for? Even by traditional standards women were watching clothes by hands and all of that. I guess in general what do you get out of the equation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI'm so sorry to hear that schools are pretty much crap with dealing with any type of violence. Hopefully you've called the cops? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 11:11 PM |
| -1 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?I mean honestly they don't suffer from a lot of things that we do. It really just depends on what you benefit. I guess the really get an answer you have to ask a man who lives under those laws if they want the women they have or a westernized woman and out of those who say yes ask them why. And I've gone to multiple Muslim majority countries and I can tell you the reasons they say they want an American woman are both true and nothing that any American woman should be proud of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsI actually agree with a lot of what you said ,specially about mutual awareness and venting. My point isn’t that women lack emotional intelligence; it’s that emotional expression often gets confused with emotional discipline. Starting to clean because someone else is cleaning isn’t emotional intelligence; planning so both feel respected is. And problem-solving doesn’t invalidate emotion, it anchors it. That’s what I’m trying to highlight: EQ is more than empathy. It’s cooperation, timing, and sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsNo not at all. I expect them to carry the full potential of their emotional intelligence capability not just emotional expression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedI agree with what you're saying. I think with the lady might not be understanding me at is that you should be all or nothing when it comes to standards. The same situations ugly or attractive should make you feel the same way. But even more than that feeling disgusted that an unattractive person talks to you just on its own speaks more to your character and anyone who thinks like this is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:50 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsI never said it was the whole thing. But it's definitely at least 33% of it. Think you should have a good measure every you lack at before you start saying someone is not being emotionally intelligent as they interact with you. It breaks literally make it not only so you don't crash but you don't crash into others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedLet me reiterate what I've been saying. Me:Women in the same situations should treat people respectfully and keep their standards regardless of looks. You: I think you might be abusive and possibly autistic. And You might have a God complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedYou you're leading on that I have abusive behavior and you're also saying that I should get tested for autism in the same message.. classic definition of gaslighting. Which is in actuality abusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsNot The situation itself but how it's handled. If you don't know what you want for dinner that's totally fine. How the situation usually is handled by women is typically not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:56 PM |
| 0 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsEmotional control is inside emotional intelligence. You literally just said managing emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:48 PM |
| -2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsYeah how even a minute I'm guilty of that sometimes. And even now I can't fight against the scenario but I do see how that can be problematic in a relationship. It's just hard to fight off you know If there biological solutions to a problem and I am the more logical thinking one why shouldn't I be in charge? But also the ability to bridge that connection is what's very important in any dynamic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedLetting your standards lower for people only because they're more attractive is literally victim behavior. Is literally how abusers get away with things. But more to what you said Are you saying that autistic people or abusive? I'm not getting why you combined those two things ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsSure is! But knowing that you're unhappy is one part of emotional intelligence knowing how the properly communicate that is important as well. It's a consistent learning and teaching process a give and a take. Sometimes you're going to be giving other times you're going to be taking but you're not fully emotionally intelligent if you're only you then get to know the quality of intelligence you're receiving and not giving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsTolerance of an unorganized adult who uses schedules for their responsibilities? Like a CEO ? Or any busy person ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsMore tolerant of.... An organized schedule ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:02 PM |
| -1 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsI agree. I guess it's never a bad thing for everyone to have emotions. I think where I see the breakdown is when women think they seem to be in charge of what's okay or not. I've never wanted to have a relationship like that It's almost happened though and they feel so righteous about their emotions that nothing else even matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:00 PM |
| 0 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsThen don't choose to procreate or be with that man. Have you both are not flexible to each other's needs or if what they're willing to get this objectively below part than just don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsThat is low maintenance too. High maintenance would be if I don't clean it right now this woman's going to flip her crap because she likes things to be done her way on her time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedHaving a nonsensical bias is objectively problematic. I'm not saying women should entertain everyone - I'm saying your standards shouldn't shift just because someone turns you on. If it's a standard, it should exist to protect your peace and maintain your quality of life, not vanish the moment chemistry shows up. Otherwise, you end up dating men who are bad for you, ignoring red flags because attraction numbed your judgment - and then regretting it once reality hits. If that pattern became norma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:55 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsI mean, you could look at it this way: If something works for certain couples and you dismiss it with "that's for kids," that actually says more about emotional inflexibility than maturity. I'd honestly feel bad trying to find a low-maintenance solution to a problem with you, and you refuse it just because you think you're above it. That's not adulthood ,that's ego dressed up as self-awareness 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:49 PM |
| 0 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsThe emotionally intelligent thing to do would be to talk about these things in depth and work on them earlier on any relationship. Cooking cleaning other things usually get maintained on a schedule at least they did and this is why I never had a problem with cleaning. Yes of course do your dishes something gets messy then that's an emergency You clean it up. My old schedule with my ex was basically something like order on Mondays. She takes Tuesday's for cooking and doing the dishes. Next day I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:46 PM |
| 4 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsYou’re absolutely right ,women generally score higher on emotional awareness and empathy in studies. But awareness isn’t the same as application. There’s a huge difference between knowing emotional intelligence and practicing it under pressure. Most of those studies use hypothetical scenarios . controlled, predictable questions — not real moments where emotions are hot and reactions are instinctive. It’s like testing martial arts on paper. In theory, a black belt knows how to fight; in reality, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsYou're totally right. Healthy cleaning and home maintenance schedules is something that we should be teaching kids. Wouldn't want them to grow up demanding things out of people whenever they felt like it without consideration. You're so wise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedKnowing how some humans works and hoping they could be better people Is a good thing and it's also something someone who's autistic can also process. I am curious if you are of the thought that autistic people shouldn't approach people and that's only something for neurotypical people? (I'm not autistic, But I'm very happy to see that you're being inclusive and I'll just assume that you had good intent and asking that question 😁) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:32 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsThat's how mature adults do it They have cleaning days and people split responsibilities. Outside of emergency cleanups the cleaning should not start when one person feels like it and that person feels that everyone should be cleaning while they're cleaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:27 PM |
| 7 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence IsLol. What's funny is that when women talk about emotional intelligence to someone they're trying to belittle they actually don't do it in a very emotionally intelligent way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedHow Should someone know they are unattractive to someone until they attempt to talk to them? And why does someone being unattractive and want to talk to you should way on you more than someone attractive trying to talk to you? I don't like seafood. If someone sexy try to give me seafood it would be the same response. I also don't like to be slapped in the face by strangers. If someone very attractive did it I'd be equally as angry if they were unattractive. Your standards for yourself should not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:20 PM |
| 5 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedI see how you're trying to make caveats for certain behaviors. If you don't like being approach by strangers I can totally get that and I respect that. No argument on that. However if your mindset is only your approach me if you're hot and you know it? That's objectively a problem and speaks more to your character and chat on this. To reiterate: Not wanting to be approached? Understandable. Not wanting to be approached by people who should know they are unattractive? Problematic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:02 PM |
| 5 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedI would mostly agree with you on warm reception If these women weren't saying they didn't like the reception only because they were ugly. And to be fair I'm sure they probably didn't curse the person out in person. But this is more about the thoughts of these people. It's pretty gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:57 PM |
| 9 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedYes but it's like the response to the main comment on this thread. It's true a lot of women do not respect men who approach them that aren't there preference. There is no way you should feel disgusted when someone who's not your type tries to talk to you. It's almost like you expecting to know they are unworthy which is impossible. It's a very disgusting topic honestly. Have you read through some of the comments in the different post It also assume that unattractive men must have terrible attitu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:47 PM |
| 9 | So, if women are truly only attracted to 1% of men, they can't help it and they shouldn't be shamedGoogle " I hate when unattractive guys approach me". This is not just an online thing but I have friends who are women who I thought were mostly nice and stuff like this to me and the guy wasn't even unattractive. They were just not their type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:15 PM |
| – | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?If we're talking about specifically cleaning I feel like this is more about not being a good worker unless of being low with emotional intelligence. For example when I did live with a woman her hair would constantly plug the shower every month or two. Messy yes she was, lazy? Maybe. Maybe she had a skill gap on how to clean it or was disgusted by fixing it a little bit. Whenever I shaved I'd clean up after but sometimes it'd be a couple hairs that are too small for me to immediately recognize. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:56 PM |
| – | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I guess if I'm being critical to both sides of the equation and forgive me if I'm missing that on something If someone has to be forced to do some cleaning then yes they are childish I don't think it's emotional intelligence I think it's lazy and entitlement. But also at the same time where's the emotional intelligence and staying with someone who has to be manipulated like a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?No I mean like there's a time and the place for example why don't you ask anytime when they're not gaming? I would not tell my female partner to help me with something while they're doing makeup or while they're reading a book I would do it at a time before they are in a mode of relaxing. Even better yet but I see a lot of older folks do is have "honey do" list Like here some things I want you to do today Do you think this could be done before you're playing games or after you're playing games o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?A question it's tangent to my main post but I am curious cuz I see stuff like this all the time. How come he has to stop playing when you start cleaning? I noticed this in my relationships as well when I do some type of relaxing activity or rest and she was doing some type of cleaning that would then turn into I must do some type of cleaning with her. Funnily enough I've always felt like when I decided to rest that's when she wanted to be more active 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?Yeah I guess it comes down to the why behind the desire or need. For me personally for certain things there's no difference in feeling for the why As long as there is love there ( love for it or do it for love). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?That's awesome. I think it's very great and things like that happen proactively. Would you feel like The relationship would be considered toxic if he no longer did that but relied on direct communication? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I agree with you but also I've kind of felt very strange when I heard someone wants them to do it because they should want to. I've heard this conversation about someone taking out the garbage or taking care of their drunk girlfriend. No one wants to do both of those things but they do it out of love not because they love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I feel like there's a difference between compatibility and complementary relationships. Do you find you have zero communication issues because you find people who were very alike as far as personality and desires? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I agree with that and I'm going to interject a little bit of bias on my part. I seem to find is that women hope men change to their preferences as time goes on. For example some women will be surprised that a man won't help with cooking after she gave birth even though she never saw him cook or he never volunteered to cook. To summarize women are surprised that men don't change. Men are surprised that women start to change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 02:12 AM |
| 5 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I agree with this. I rather be hurt temporarily for a communicated need then to be hurt by surprise for something I thought was okay the whole time. I mentioned this in another post but I just can't see myself starting to argument based off something I never communicated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:47 AM |
| 3 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I think the 'Do unto others' rule only works if we both want the same things. True empathy asks us to notice what makes the other person feel valued - even if it's nothing like what we'd need ourselves. And I think even beyond that we have to blend both. How does that person want to be treated if they miss the mark on someone else's needs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:40 AM |
| 5 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?Exactly. I would say I grew up like your husband. And when I'm sick I mostly like to be alone. I had an ex who was upset about that and didn't understand my needs. So I communicated what I needed and she understood and we were able to make a new cell that both of us felt comfortable with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I agree that awareness matters - emotional intelligence includes noticing when your partner's carrying the load. But to me, true EQ also means not assuming your perception matches theirs. I think the healthiest version blends both - intuition that senses effort, and communication that checks in before acting on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?Do you ever feel that people often confuse empathy with project? If empathy is thinking about someone else and what they would want in the situation, I think what happens sometimes is people project what they would want done for them if they were in that same situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | How Much of Your Needs Should Be Communicated Directly - and How Much Should Be Understood?I think I agree with most of the things you're saying. I think you need to communicate some things you want spontaneously for sure. I think there's also benefit in directly telling someone what you need. I think where I defer is I never had a uncommunicated need/desire I was willing to start an argument about or feel some type of way about. However I do understand having an argument about desires or negative already previously communicated multiple times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Cardi b is seen as a role model for some women because of her demeanor as a independent strong aggressive woman, sexual liberation in songs about refusing to be domesticated. She has specifically gotten pregnant by two men who are known to have cheated on her. One of the men who cheated on her made a video in her house showing her cooking and cleaning and saying it was all a lie 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:32 PM |
| 5 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesYou're right , men absolutely built that old image of the "fragile woman." But here's the thing: we don't live in that world anymore, and no one's forcing anyone to keep it alive. But women are definitely defending it. The problem now isn't who invented the myth - it's who keeps benefiting from it. If equality's the goal, then it has to include accountability too. Otherwise, we're just trading one kind of bias for another. I support disrupting all forms of bias and preconceived notions not just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 03:30 AM |
| 3 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI'm not invalidating the video - I'm clarifying what it actually shows. A lot of those interactions were sexual harassment. But not all of them. Saying hello or good morning in public isn't inherently harassment, and context matters. She deliberately walked through areas where that behavior was expected, which makes it a poor sample of "average" male behavior. Using that clip to define men is like using Tinder to define love - it's a skewed environment that tells you more about the setting than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 03:17 AM |
| 4 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesHow did I deny inappropriate behavior when I literally said no one was surprised by it? That means I acknowledged it exists - I just said it's not all the same. Saying hello isn't harassment, and picking the roughest neighborhoods to "prove" a universal point is misleading. What I described isn't denial; it's context. The beauty of this format is that everything I said is written right above - and anyone can read it. Technology keeps us honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:18 AM |
| 2 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesBy rational standards you're wrong. By feminist standards you're anti-feminist Through observable debate youre inconsistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesHere's an excerpt from survived and punished from a UCLA feminist group "Decades of research confirms that the legal system systemically fails to protect survivors from domestic and sexual violence, and then punishes them when they save their own lives." Also Here's a quote from imperfect victims commentary She argues that greater state intervention in cases of intimate partner violence, rape, sexual assault, and trafficking has led to arrest, prosecution, conviction, and incarceration of victim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:43 AM |
| 7 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI think telling a victim how to defend themselves is inherently wrong You're assuming that through the same pain They must act different. In general I don't think that's fair it's not that I want to go out and start beating people up if they're smaller than me I just don't want to be assaulted and then have to care about how I defend myself or attack them. "The responsibility for violence always lies with the attacker, not the person defending themselves." Was this me saying this no that's a lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:31 AM |
| 5 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology Evolves15 years of a lifetime sentence. She got out. Personally she should have never went in. But but If we want to be fair we should treat men and women equally or similar at least. Any Man or a boy who is a sexual violence victim should be able to have the same or better consideration under the law and within society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:22 AM |
| 8 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesYou're right Let me apologize for that. You're basically saying that a victim should know better I'll stick to that point. In that victims of different genders in sizes should react differently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:17 AM |
| 6 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI was using an example of a woman who used disproportionate force compared to your example of a man who use disproportionate force both were victims. Women hated the guy for defending themselves a lot of women supported with the girl did. I'm showing a bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:13 AM |
| 8 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesBigger people should just take abuse? Abusers should feel moderately safe when they're abusing someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:09 AM |
| 12 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesYou saw someone who needs to be a perfect victim and not hurt an abuser. Be honest If that woman knocked him out after he hit her first it would not be a discussion to say that and abuser has to use proportional force when protecting themselves is problematic on itself. You have to write to defend yourself at any level. Cyntonia brown Was a trafficking victim who shot a man while that man was sleeping and not an immediate threat to her She shot him in the head took his wallet and his car. People… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:07 AM |
| 7 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesYou saw a person defending themselves from a starter of violence? Are you victim blaming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:59 AM |
| 2 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesGreat point however I would say that they get to the point of a major accusation the truth can be found for example a recent celebrity case came into play where one side try to use AI to fabricate a text string it was easily found to be false because one the data was found to have AI markings and then two You could just confirm with the network operator.. What I'm saying here is with current technology It makes it harder to lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:53 AM |
| 5 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesMost technology has metadata. At this point in time it's kind of hard to pass off AI information as fact. Heck they're a real life pictures that have been used to misidentify real situations like in Portland and it was near instantly identified as false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:14 AM |
| 8 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesAs far as the police thing I would say it has benefited Goodman more because they were the number one victims of bad police. And as far as cat calling you didn't need technology for that It was a known thing It was like a staple and a lot of '80s and '90s movies. No one was surprised that women would be looked at sometimes. Really almost absolutely no one is surprised that a very attractive woman walking down New York would be cat called. I'm referencing the video call 10 hours in New York. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:08 AM |
| 5 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI disagree with you a little bit because without that technology it wouldn't have helped to progress as much as it did. I wouldn't say iPhone specifically. But having access to technology can be a major equalizer. For example a whole bunch of people especially black people who are incriminated for a whole bunch of things that they didn't do. DNA technology came out with conjunction with the innocence project and about 60% of people who benefited from this were black people and overall almost 50%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 11:39 PM |
| -1 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesBut we also have to say that could be due to a cascade of benefits. One women get less incarceration for the same crimes committed even if found guilty. Two local counties are less likely to actually make new prisons for women so they rather not let them go to jail at all than to have to make a new female prison. There or some legitimate studies that say that men are treated worse under the justice system compared to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 11:27 PM |
| 8 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesSo one person is a IPv perpetrator. The other person would be an interstate sex trafficker who would do the beating he gave Cassie but times 10 or more. By simple math the ladder would be the worst person. Have you considered the opposite it would be like saying " yeah he trafficked a lot of men and women but at least he didn't beat his girlfriend". That would not make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:49 PM |
| 3 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology Evolves😂 hell yeah. Look mah, I am a feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 6 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesHow are you disagreeing with something that was reported. She was literally made to say her own text messages in court as part of diddy's defense? She literally exposed herself with her own words with her own messages You can't disagree with that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:43 PM |
| 4 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI think it's starting to happen now. I think it really started with the whole Karen thing because everyone men and women have definitely experienced this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesHe's abusive he should go to jail for that 100% and he is a monster. Yes he is. Is he a interstate pimp and rapist sex trafficker type monster ? Should the DA bring cases against them for beating his ex-girlfriend Yes. But in actuality for all the other stuff that he went to court his ex was a legitimate partner and sometimes leader of certain heathen sexual activity of he went to jail for the stuff he went to court for She and a lot of senses would be equally or near equally as responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:41 PM |
| 11 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesDude was murdered. And the woman was definitely an accomplice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:36 PM |
| 9 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesCelebrities are a whole different thing Martha Stewart went to a retreat. Mariah Carey sexually harassed her bodyguard Cardi b admitted to drugging men and sexual situations and then robbing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:35 PM |
| 7 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesI'm for justice and fairness with undeniable proof. Anyone who uses the law as a tool to oppress and I sent people should be scrutinized and arrested. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:34 PM |
| 10 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesIt's okay to disagree I don't know what we're disagreeing about They were literally messages from Cassie saying she looked forward to a whole bunch of the orgy stuff and she participated willingly and wanted a whole bunch of things. P Diddy only got found guilty on paying prostitutes to go from one state to another. something almost no one gets sent to prison for. The text messages show that she was waiting for the next freak off and encouraging it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesIsn't the mine said that most men are problematic coming from social media rather than day-to-day reality? How is what I'm saying less brain rot then what a lot of women believe about men? But outside of what social media does isn't it not true that if you are recording someone doing something that has to be true if it shows enough of the situation? Do we not have situations where women say they are the victim yet technology proves otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 4 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesIn which algorithm is that? Women caught doing bad things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 9 | The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology EvolvesOn the diddy thing he was a crap person for doing that ultimately garbage. 100% agreed Ironically the text also proved that his girlfriend was a willing participant in the freaky oil filled stuff and he wasn't a higher level of human crap. Just a basic level. Technology proves that sometimes the monsters are not as big as we think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What’s a fair exchange when one partner is the homemaker and the other provides financially?Of course. This is more like what should be the standard of something. You can always make it malleable to your relationships comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 04:20 AM |
| 3 | What’s a fair exchange when one partner is the homemaker and the other provides financially?There's a couple things weird about what you're saying. You're looking at it as purely beneficial for the male for example you're looking at it as his housing expense is not going up instead of The woman's housing expenses being completely eliminated let's say rent is $1,500 That means $1,500 worth of work hours you no longer have to do. You're expenses for food are eliminated. All your expenses are erased and potentially your leisure time is increased. You're looking at it from a point of view … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:10 AM |
| – | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?I agree. So often male emotional labor is overlooked because it's not valued as much as emotional expression. But this can be easily viewed when women ask men for advice and they don't like how we might respond They want us to suppress our emotions and suppression is work and that suppression helps women feel more comfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?It's funny you use the Mike Tyson example because Mike Tyson was harassed by some guy on an airplane and he definitely punched them and no one was mad at Mike Tyson 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 06:09 AM |
| 8 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?Just curious how do you rationalize your adjustification with the fact that beating your wife back in the days was more prevalent than it was now. Wouldn't the cultural historic context of don't hit a woman be counterculture to what the patriarchy was in it's Hay Day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?I agree. I think in general it's a very strange phenomenon that any average woman would get angry enough to fight someone who is way stronger than them. Not even in the same category But I'm a big guy I can't see myself being so angry at another good guy to want to proactively attack them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?I don't 100% agree because you don't always need to have physical dominance to dominate someone. And degree of harm doesn't negate that it's hard all together If I just pinch a woman but still abuse by puncher that's definitely more intense but still abuse there are women out there who proclaimed they are being financially manipulated and abuse is all types of movies You can't invalidate it because you have less of a physical threat. There are men out there who are afraid to break up with someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 08:26 PM |
| 10 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?It's so weird I saw a video of a man who was getting hit by a woman and he just stood there and take it until he couldn't and then he punched her and then a whole bunch of other men decided to beat him up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?Lol I did. And correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?I agree with a lot of what you said I think it's perceived as punching down. It's kind of like what they're saying men should do is what I would expect myself to do if I were fighting a toddler. But women are not toddlers especially if they have weapons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Statistically not true Most working couples either pool their money or split bills proportionally to income. Since men on average earn about 18% more, they end up covering more of the financial load in those setups. Only about 16% of marriages have the wife as the main breadwinner, so while it happens, it's not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?If you're in the house with someone and you only have to pay let's say 35 or 40% of your share to enjoy the same access as the other person then you are being compensated for your work.. for 20 extra minutes a day. If anyone came to me right now and said I will handle 10 to 15% of all your annual cost to live and entertainment all you have to do is work 20 minutes a day for me. I will take that all day. I actually had an ex who tried to said she was doing everything around here and that she felt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?No I didn't side step it at all I acknowledge that everyone participates in their own way. And then went even further to say that if someone doesn't work outside the house they are still contributing and if someone only brings in money then they are still contributing. But Even with that statistically when both people are working men work more hours at work usually and women do 20 extra minutes of home labor a day on average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Physical work is not a constant daily occurrence. But financial contribution is literally measured in hours and investments. Everyone contributes in their own way which is my belief. Just because someone doesn't help in the house doesn't mean they are not contributing to the household. And just because someone doesn't contribute financially doesn't mean that their work isnt important either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Then you are a mythical beast that must be protected at all cost 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?I'm agreeing with you. It's very strange yet if you go to any woman say all you did was laundry today They probably would take offense to that folding this legitimately the hardest thing and no one in the universe likes it but laundry is Not a difficult thing but there are people who claim it is substantial work but also in addition to that it could take hours for them to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Nope the committee was 3 dudes and 2 women. For arguments sake fairly split down the middle as far as gender. As employees we are all expected to do the quote unquote paperwork and planning. But for active physical labor The men either are the only ones that can Do it or we are expected to do it. But as far as what's visibly seen for the final presentation set up is what the women are doing. And that's okay. That's just the logistics of how things work but I find historically if I'm breaking it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?Doesn't that equal to less than 20 minutes extra per day ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?I mean I wouldn't I just usually waited for the bell to say done and that automatic dryer would be right. She would set it on 2 hours and say it took her 3 hours to get the laundry done (between washing and drying) The fact is I usually can get stuff just as clean and a shorter amount of time there was actually no complaints about how I got stuff done but anytime I try to give her advice she did not like it. I valued her labor cuz it was appreciated but often I felt she caused her own stress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?I will test to that having live with a woman and I would take significantly less time to do the same chores to the same standard. For example doing laundry it would take her an hour longer simply because she would choose the maximum amount of time to dry something and I would just put it on auto dry. Both were the same level of dry. There are other examples of stuff like this in our relationship but the fact is when she cleaned it took longer but it wasn't necessarily better It was just done in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Do touchy feely women really think they are being platonic when they grope men, I find it kinda hard to believeEvery single work environment I've been in has the second woman I think it's just what you want to notice and what you don't want to know this but I've actually tried to explain this to my ex before that if I were a little bit more sensitive I'd be going to HR nearly everyday. Some of the main things they talk about historically and in sexual harassment videos as how you shouldn't touch someone without permission and how you shouldn't talk about sexual stuff in front of people who didn't get inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notOf course it would be easier but it doesn't necessarily mean it would be better. I'm just going off statistics and what's calmly understood. And even admitted in this post by other woman they seem to be very passionate very short easy in the beginning but ultimately does not result in anything long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notYeah break up with him if you're not happy. I've read some of your posts and honestly they don't seem like big deals. But if you're unhappy break up. I hope it's more than the gas thing and the flower thing but if it is more than that and it's deeper and these are things that are legitimately problems go ahead and break up with him. But on the other hand a lot of these issues can be solved just by communication and being direct and I would go ahead and suggest that first. But if you don't want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notYou noticing that too right? It just feels like some of the responses I'm getting here is either unhealthy is good. Or feelings don't care about fact. And I'm saying this not in a way that's trying to be adversial but if I were to say this about hetero relationships it would not go the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notI agree that you can't fully know someone so I'll take back my point of Matt a little bit. But the fact is of you're with someone who you say it's easier to be with why why does this result in more consistent short relationships. Hetero and gay relationships don't have this but lesbian ones have this prominent thing of it's so much better than being with men but has much less stability and hope for a long-term relationship. It's like an a lesbian relationship you're trying to validate things tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notBut if you're with someone who You have a good connection with and it's easier to be with why even get to the point of a relationship until you fully know them? It seems like you're taking away agency and going between society and impulse. You don't have to go into a relationship quickly You can choose to get to know someone a little bit better to save yourself the trauma of a short relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notThen I'm kind of confused why would you want multiple short relationships in this society? And wouldn't it be easier to break up with a woman in your stance since you're both on the same page and you yourself have said it's easier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notPeer pressure from who? There's so much empowerment for women to leave men. People are doing photo shoots post divorce nowadays. If you're in a regular relationship you could just leave marriages are doing it at 50% rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notTheir studies that say near opposite. It was a 30-year study that said that having longer-term relationships have better outlooks on mental health well-being ATC They said that short-term relationships can be better for sex but it doesn't necessarily help with quality of life in an addition to that of every short relationship ends with chaos and actually can be a lot worse than neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notI mean that's one way of looking at it. But that kind of just shows that women are driven by emotion and get into relationships that on the long-term but not work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:08 PM |
| 15 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notI like your answer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notOh no definitely I used to have a bisexual roommate and she said that women are very difficult and intense she's intracted to them of course but she would never say it's easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notI mean that's easy to say but if there is a true connection wouldn't they be eventually not short? Unless you're saying that women are more tolerant of men than they are women? Doesn't it sound like more of a string of passionate dual flamed relationships than it is stable connections? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notBut is not kind of counters the reality since relationships with women don't last as long and divorce rates are higher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notBut gay relationships are more successful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:54 PM |
| – | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?I don't know because if you really think about it especially since you said you thought she looked better in the show than Sweeney. Zendaya was literally dressed up to look like a drug addict... I will concede that people have preferences and in real life person to person I can see why you might have a preference for Zendaya but if you're telling me in the show you thought she was hotter than there's something else going there and it's deeper than a preference 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:54 PM |
| – | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?This is so odd because Zendaya is not ugly but objectively she is not more appealing than Sweeney. It's a very interesting topic honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.😂😂😂😂😂😂 this made me crack up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I was (😃 jokingly) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?I understand your point of view so let me ask you this question If you do this within your personal friend group and please don't because that would be terrible Do you think they would go off conventional looks or levels of extrovert? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.Give me his number I'll talk to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I think the difference kind of is one is literally a hyper focus where other one is a main attribute. If you want a variety of different things to intersect into what you find attractive then you should not particularly proclaim something as the only thing that really matters to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?And I always see this too when I'll talk with women about attractiveness when it comes to other women They always want a nuance in about different types of attractiveness. And that's true there is different types of attractiveness but I think in most cases we were talking about physical traits You can be beautiful as a person which is fine and I love it but there is nothing wrong with calling someone average unattractive or attractive. But I do find in general almost every time without someone a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I think you misunderstand my response. I never said that women don't find looks great in that they are not attracted to hot men. I'm saying that women will debate you on if it's important in a relationship or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.The issue here is that Men arent necessarily butt hurt that looks matter. We feel gaslit by women because they keep saying it doesn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.You are right however It's slightly different. You don't have to find every person of the same sex attractive. But you do have to find the same sex attractive. You can't say I like other men too. But they also have to be women. They key attraction still has to be there as undisputable. Gay men fine men attractive regardless if that Man is gay or not. Safety of sexuals can find intelligence attractive regardless if the guy is conventionally attractive or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.A foot fetish person is heavily interested in feet and how they look for the most part I believe most people who have any type of fetish will specifically look at the thing made fetish size. You cannot redefine a word that already has a definition there is a textbook understanding of what a sapiosexual is. To argue anything else is not necessary. You can like intelligence and want someone conventionally attractive there is nothing wrong in that. But to say got someone needs to be hot and highly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.Definition: Value of Mind Over Matter: For a sapiosexual, the "mind" of another person is more important than their physical looks or conventional qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.🤣🤣. I had a friend dumb as rocks to most things but he was a genetic freak and was very attractive. I'd laugh at how all of his exes would call him very smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I have no idea about that I haven't seen a woman in a relationship say they are sapiosexual. They just say they're happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.But when you say specifically that you are sapiosexual intelligence is the main driver of that not social skills. By definition it is a heavy attraction to intelligence. And again it's okay to not be able to sexual but You don't see foot fetish folks going around saying they love feet but the person's personality also matters 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I think there is a slight nuanced difference. For example no man goes around saying they are a big boob sexual. It is the common joke that men " will do anything with a pulse". And what we do have preferences in that are spoken on for attraction are usual actual physical or sexual performative traits. Ladies however will say they are specifically only our primarily heavily attracted to intelligence and then not really care for it when it comes to conversation. I feel like a lot of discussions ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.I've never seen a couple that had a ugly partner say that they are sapiosexual. They would just say they are in love but I see very attractive women more often than not saying they are sapiosexual. I think it's used by some people to disguise their shallowness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.Isn't that less about intelligence and more about a shared niche or at least a shared curiosity on a niche topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.😂😂. I love a smart woman but I do not like a smart ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sOne dark fantasy book just one sold 12 million copies in 2 years The Bible sold 14 million about a year. No it's not that niche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sYeah. Books never seem to invoke major societal shifts, cultural explosions or idea changes. Excuse me as I read the Bible, after reading my Harry Potter. Then I'm going to go ahead and read the news. Those things have zero ramifications or impact right ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sIs your dissertation four sentences long too? Should I publish my four sentences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI triggered you. You're very upset. You just admitted to not looking through the comments but you felt four sentences was a dissertation. They usually correlates to having a traumatic effect on your nervous system. I'm sorry the emotional load was too much for you. I hope the four sentences, technically three about the writing doesn't invade your dreams. If the four sentences is a dissertation I don't think you read those type of books anyway. books have multiple pages with a lot more sentences … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sAre you talking about in the post or the comments. The post had four sentences about that part. And the comments I expanded when someone had a rebuttal or a deferring opinion. I see that this is a true and topic for you though. It's okay to Not want to participate. I'll put a trigger warning next time just for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sIf I saw only the toxic side of them I would say women are 100% toxic. I didn't say that at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI love dating women. I'm not looking for reasons not to date women I'm looking for acceptance or a counter to my initial thought. Why would you even think I have only negatives to say about women?. I gave like three examples of things that's not enough to hate all women 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sThat's the thing it's something that women and overwhelming scenarios cannot ask for. But on the other hand women are now asking for credit checks and background checks through the tea app. You can go on Harley-Davidson man pages on Facebook put a name in a picture on there and women overwhelming Nebraska for feedback Is this not assuming the worst in some way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sYou get exactly what I mean. Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 10:46 PM |
| – | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’s😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI'm more than balloon to have any conversation with you but I feel like you're asking me to debate My point of views on the specific thing which I do validate but that's not what I'm disgusing The point wasn't If this is better than that. The porn vs adult fiction book are examples. My point is there are toxic behaviors that are very much similar or the same in different flavors. You can like and or hate both for many reasons I'm not debating your reasons to like or dislike I'm debating on why y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI do not disagree with that . I didn't say it didn't however there's no studies on it because it's not a focus right now. Remember how everyone was swearing up and down that vape pens were healthier and then kids start dying getting popcorn lung ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sDo you consider one not toxic simply because it's less toxic? Both have a willing exchange of agency. Power dynamic isn't just financial in physical ability you can do convinced into something that's not good for you. For example let's take scammers from another country. They called to America they target Richard and more privileged men and women with better education and still make them victims. The authority figure is a moot because both have objectification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI didn't disagree. Not at all I said it can't be in all types of porn. Not only did I agree with you I pointed out the statistics of how prevalent drugs are prevalent in the adult film industry. Not only that I gave stats as to how writing has near the same amount of drug use. I'm not disagreeing with you I'm saying one thing is very similar to the other. Again not disagreeing. Very much agreeing. Showing you something else that's basically the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sThat wasn't my response at all.. My point has been that there's a lot of similarities more than you think and you can't say one is better just because the flow of the toxicity is different. But let's get more to the root point. Do not believe that fantasy books are similar because no one is getting hurt. I don't believe that. But as I work to indulge you there are a lot of things that women need that do hurts that have no real ramifications. If you are a woman who cheats and gets pregnant by ano… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sYes I said father figure. We can extrapolate daddy from father. Just like we assume a bang made as a woman based off context clues. I didn't describe what a bang made is and depth but you understood just like what you did above. You can infer the other way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:06 PM |
| -1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sYes because in the end apples and oranges are still fruit. It would be like saying no apples can't be fruit because they're crunchy like a potato. And yes that's exactly what I'm saying This came up for me as a topic because I recently saw a post about a woman who murdered her own kids. And all the women in the comments were like oh yeah postpartum is a legitimate thing where was the husband where was the father he should have been around. She should have got help. Then later on in my doom scrol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 9 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sGirl math was one of the funniest things that came out in the last few years because like they quantified their own delusion and called it beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI'm a little bit confused that's just one aspect of the whole "daddy" archetype. You think that the woman who wants to step a man is expecting him to say no? Do you think that people who have bang maids don't want them to be hot and attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI think it's very strange to assume that all porn involves these dark aspects. However I do want to say statistically writers are two to three times more likely then the general population to be addicted to alcohol and/or drugs. Most recent stats are about 18% of the USA uses drugs. So that would make them 52% And drugs and alcohol are amongst 60% of adult entertainment actors. So technically not that much different. Both are bad both have every drug use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI see your point But I don't fully agree. Because some things fall along the line of bias and not necessarily something that should be combatted. Regardless of how I feel about porn or about erotic novels I think independently of my core opinion they are basically the same thing. I can objectively see a woman is conventionally attractive without her being my type. I can like beef and hate chicken and totally see how they are both meat. I guess my post is less about whataboutisms and more about h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:44 PM |
| -7 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sNo why would I women and men do things differently. I admit that. You guys don't have strokes the same way we do. This is the same reason why you don't have to do a prostate exam. Naturally things happen differently and culturally things happen differently. So for certain things You have to judge differently. And that's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI don't know and again this is not me agreeing with it but I look at something like Lolita stuff. I've seen more women dress up like high school girls from Japan than men who say they want a woman to dress like a high school girl from Japan. But it's still considered something that men are trashed about. Into the expectations and fantasy I've seen more women out in real life or online say they want to be sexually dominated and choked out and that was considered empowering. I don't think I've see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | If you were a man what would be red flags in women you might want to date?I've never watched or heard of anything more deviant than anything in a adult fantasy book. I've read 2 of those books before and between them had beastiality,rape,incest and so much worse. If you're a woman or man who constantly indulges in books like this then it's literally a problem to want to read it if you feel that porn is deviant. It's okay to reprimand both but it is contradictory say one is a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | If you were a man what would be red flags in women you might want to date?Yeah I can also tell you that if it says they're 18 it's most likely a lie. Just like how women don't get stuck in dryers with their horny stepbrothers around. Etc it's very fake. But the fact is you can't say to like things are very dissimilar. The fact is if you're using books in a way that you get arousal from it is not to dissimilar to the fact that men will primarily use actual porn for arousal. I think it would be totally fair to say I don't like it when you read adult fantasy books. I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | If you were a man what would be red flags in women you might want to date?I mean it's not justifying a female but activity. Women say this and I mostly agree however a lot of men feel the same thing about p*** it's not real relationship you're not having sex with anyone and so thus is not really hurting anybody. Even more so if it's only fans. I personally don't do it but I do see the hypocrisy and women who don't like that men are watching porn Bev themselves are masturbating to books. I've seen women at work bring those books into the office and they are totally fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:31 PM |
| 0 | If you were a man what would be red flags in women you might want to date?Considering that what you're saying is valid would you also say in a woman's case at maybe if they're reading sexual fantasy books that would be a red flag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:37 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?Single mother hood has gone up dramatically though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:13 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?Yes sir you're right about that however I look more at the comments underneath certain posts then the actual content. Because you can say anything online but agreeing to it is a whole another thing. And that's true about your second part about the people represented on Reddit but the thing is that's still a representation of a good chunk of people in real life. If someone said there are introverted people in the area and someone said oh that's only online that would be a straight up lie 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:08 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?21% if the statistic is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:35 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?Not that much different but I think the other side of this is women who have relationships and then get divorced think you'll be easy to find another man who will take up the role | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:33 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?Really hard to say. It's a very nuance thing because it's not really a class thing it's a age thing it looks like for example a lot of the times it happens when you're in high school but you're in high school so you naturally will not have a lot of income. But as you grow up you still have that baby out of wedlock. You couldn't make more or less so basically the stats are pretty open to interpretation but the fact is about 40% of women who are parents have had babies out of wedlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:28 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?U.s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:24 PM |
| – | Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online?Which is interesting cuz the statistically 40% of women have baby out of wedlock. But but that also makes a little bit more sense considering that you choose your friends but also as a woman most single mothers would not talk to you or complain about you as they are looking for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:19 PM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?I agree with this. Always found it interested in how in some people's relationships and sometimes even in my own I was criticized for not helping out and cleaning things that I had no choice in accepting in the house or criticizing me for cleaning things specific way not because it's bad just because it's not the way you would do it It would be something as simple as using lemon pledge instead of lavender or demanding that I wipe down a bookcase that I don't like or never use. If your standards … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:33 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?I agree. I think if you're doing above minimal stuff that can get tiring and that both minimal stuff comes on occasions. Not a consistent level of give and take. If you are doing above the standard activity consistently then that just becomes the new minimum standard 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:18 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?When I search bare minimum on Reddit I found a ass woman page and they did not like it at all and in fact most of the bare minimum stuff was actually below minimum. I do sometimes feel like the women on here and the women who are on other feeds have different definitions and understandings of things. I've only heard the bare minimum in a negative context in real life and online. I never heard of it as a neutral state that people are okay with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:09 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?I agree. I think it's pretty toxic and more damaging to dating culture that people are criticizing the bare minimum like It's a negative thing. I was talking to someone and I mentioned how the most expensive jet planes in the cheapest brand new car both have to meet minimum standards before they go out on the field | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:57 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?Do you believe that one should be praised or criticized when they are doing the bare minimum in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:47 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?I agree I think it's wonderful stuff all together but wouldn't you say that's like the standard and most relationships? Do you believe realistically that women are doing much more than the standards or minimums of what's considered a healthy relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:22 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?Let's just keep it simple just two people in a relationship living together or not living together no kids both work in a job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:19 AM |
| – | Do you see men being as direct in their dating profiles as women are?I agree. I appreciate the out frontness but I think what kind of feels weird is that It's less about compatibility but more about benefits that I see. Like if you said hey I'd like a very healthy family dynamic where we can prioritize our goals and have clear expectations on both sides that can lead to a fulfilling near traditional lifestyle. That sounds awesome. But it's kind of strange how often I see the words princess treatment 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Do Prettier Women Have Worse Personalities?Yeah my cell phone knows that they are very terrible at conversation actually and when they do talk more consistently it's seriously to bring down other people are to vote their own vibrant personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeWell your question wasn't based off the post it was based off my reasoning of posting it. Maybe you should try reading it again and asking the question based off it :-) And I see how hard you're trying though so if you want to inbox me I'm more than happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeYes, I assume this much. I I'm guessing that it's very hard for you to understand a lot of things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeI think it would be sexist tonight like something a man says just because it comes from a man especially since both a man and a woman who do gender studies brought up the same point and it was the first thing that came up when Google and also how it's analyzed realistically in public by both men and women. But I'll go ahead and ask someone near me. Is it sexist to understand that women and men might do things differently and then based off my own circumstances find it to be cumbersome or easier … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeBecause I'm open to other perspectives. Especially those will come from other backgrounds. I don't want to be foolish or ignorant. If I were more close-minded unable to listen or appreciate very are often point of views that contradict my own I would try to attack people not based off what they say but the thought itself. I would find myself in real life or online asking people why they like asking questions in a forum that's meant for people to ask questions. And I would just be so silly if I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:43 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeLook up Narrative and gender as mutually constituted meaning-making systems a study done in Cambridge by two students. Obviously I'm not unique in thinking this. But thank you for being a great observer and kind of proving the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:28 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeI'll make it even tighter for you then: I focused on women because this is a pattern I've noticed in situations involving women more often than men. I wanted to share it in a gender-focused subreddit to see if others have observed the same thing, and to hear perspectives from both men and women. It's not about attacking anyone - it's about exploring whether my observation is unique to me or if it's more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:06 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeThat is a great question be back if you want to know more about my thoughts and inspiring you to ask meaningful questions to understand me more. I asked because I find it curious that this happens. As with most humans we sometimes 10 to see habits and patterns in nature or artificially. I have the many things I think about day to day I find that this became most prevalent at the time I crafted the post. And knowing that there was a subreddit of thinkers that focus on gender related things I deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:59 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeWhy to what exactly. Why do I have an opinion why do I feel that way What are you saying why to exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:53 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeMy intention was not to ignore double standards I'm specifically pointing out narrative changes that seem to be mostly exclusive to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:51 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeI don't know where this whole theory of assertive men in the workplace gets praised comes from. There's a fine line between assertive and just being a douche and I mean that in the gender-neutral way. There is never been one time at all working in corporate , blue collar and gig jobs where I was like oh wow this a****** is great to work for of this person was a woman I'd hate it. I think what usually happens is that some women tend to be too assertive and then they equate their own bad behavior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:07 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeThis is a legitimate one I've seen that I've also experienced and it's crazy. I don't think they do this on purpose . But rather be playing video games or hanging out with friends They will see it as neglect but if they have a girls night out or any type of activity they do for their own enjoyment it would be considered abusive if the husband or boyfriend doesn't want them to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrative100% bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 06:52 PM |
| – | Women should accept the fact that they're all dating the same terrible men.I do know what a sample bias is. But let me also ask you the question think about some terrible men you've dated if you're a woman Do you think they only dated you or were they probably more successful than the average man as far as dating? I would also say wouldn't a habitual cheater be more successful than someone who's consistently faithful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:30 PM |
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