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Pray, love your 2 kids, and file for divorce! Not worth it!
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:45 AM
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People deviate from realities, vows, great memories and think life will and could be better without you; however, that is not the case. Marriage breakdowns happen for good and bad reasons. Pray for health, mental sanity, your kids, confidence....I only believe in 1 God the almighty creator of earth. We are human, and yes, we make mistakes, some more drastic than others...
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 01:39 PM
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Marriage is a GAMBLE! Period.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 10:45 AM
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I agree 💯%
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:55 PM
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Sounds like a true narcissist! I have been there my friend. Pray, go to gym and remember, remain calm man. She may have a mental disorder or perhaps just a short fuse in her that WILL NEVER defuse. Stay strong bro!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:54 PM
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Sign an uncontested divorce and bounce! If you have children, always be a top dad by protecting the children, provide emotional support and basic needs! Some women simply get their kicks out of emasculating men and treating them like a rag, thanks to all those feminist movements!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:52 PM
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Damn right! Amen to that. God bless. My attorney in NYC is charging me $325 p/hr. Her attorney $400hr. And the fucker expects me to pay her legal fees. Dirty divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 11:31 AM
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Wife's are very repugnant and play the victimization card even when their lame ass cheats. Seems like this therapist and your wife had a 1-on-1 prior and you didnt know. They are sneaky as hell man. Yes, we are human + we all make mistakes. Love God, yourself and your kids (if any)....along with those who only you know valorize you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 11:29 AM
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Amen man! Separation+divorce becomes grief. Glad you are doing better. Love is easy to start and many times hard 2 finish!
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 10:23 AM
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That is a process. When the heart and mind combined had the custom to seeing kids every day and suddenly that changed after decisions were made- it hammers the heart + mind. However, start a routine, gym, dating, travel or a new diet to get yourself in a new stage of life. Also, have a talk with her new partner and be direct "If you ever have any issues with my children, call me immediately, but do not be abusive nor ever lay a hand on them!" That is the talk I will have 100% when my X gets a pu…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 12:17 PM
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Get close to God or simply pray and please please do not engage in any ALCOHOL nor pills, etc. Let the river flow and lAWYER up
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 09:35 AM
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Maybe she is f her male friend, but that is only something she and he knows unless you start to bug the apt. Regardless, this is a rough time for this man.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 04:18 PM
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This is amazingly sad to read due to the emotions involved. Damn, man, helping her out financially despite not leaving with her is like an indirect alimony. Were you unfaithful? Abusive? There has to be something that triggered this drastic move. Regardless, your mind is important to keep pristine throughout this process. Go to a gym, help out others, spend quality time with legit family and friends. DO NOT drink ALCOHOL during this storm! Wish you the best and God is good man! You are trying to…
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 01:11 PM
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Correct! Bingo🎃💯
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 11:52 AM
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The reality is this ~ "Once you file for divorce the CLOCK stops (In NYS at least). So whatever $ spouse had in her 401K acct when either filed-50%. You may need an accountant if you arent good with numbers.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 11:52 AM
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Interesting
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 09:24 AM
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You said it: "Only if BOTH parties are willing to work it out!" Mine wasnt because there was someone else silently in the picture of which she denied, denied and continuously denied. Same page as those fuckers? I guess. Therapy could help for both parties to be civil and proper! God bless you and your child. Life is beautiful and kids are a gift from the Lord! Enjoy your holiday!
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:53 AM
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You said it: "Only if BOTH parties are willing to work it out!" Mine wasnt because there was someone else silently in the picture of which she denied, denied and continuously denied. Same page as those fuckers? I guess. God bless you and your child. Life is beautiful and kids are a gift from the Lord! Enjoy your holiday!
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:52 AM
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Man, to begin with, get closer to God, attend a gym, start a routine to look and feel better, smile at all times for your 2 angels, and try to sit down with her and dialogue about the issues, which she may say "No!" "You are wrong, this relationship is not going to work etc!" Here you have 2 kids, but if you sincerely do not love her and she js simply a hardheaded and irrational person, this is your call. When family members are the issue- shit it is evil and diff. I am divorcing my former spous…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:47 AM
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Amen
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:33 AM
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In New York State (NYS) -equitable distribution. Sucks! It is time for you to hide some cash man. Never let money suddenly be withdrawn fron your account and let it be~ hell na! What a RED flag! God bless and sucks your kids will have to deal with her absurd money spending. That is when you must teach and integrate the $ fundamentals. All the best, be the best for your kids NOT her.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/22 10:33 AM
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Then do not marry again! This D process will make you valorize many things and will also create a "Zero tolerance for bullsh** with women." God bless and stay smart and cool.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 08:47 AM
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This is tough. #1 go to your Pastor or local church and vent on what is going on. Yes, people do strange things in life of which many times it remains unfair to explain. May the Lord Restore her mind to clarity! I mean man, your adorable son loves you and he alone is your utmost # 1 energy to avoid sin towards his mother. I discovered that my son's mother was a total tramp. Lied and gave me countless false hopes until PI told me todooooooo. Again pray and go to church man. Or if not simply liste…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 04:55 AM
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Marriage until either party files the divorce. You automatically stop the clock.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 09:55 AM
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Me too but my mind was so clawed on saving the marriage that I tried to be her friend for 17days and just couldn't because her infidel actions simply haunted me like Freddy Kruger. I was NOT mentally strong or done with my questions. I couldnt bury the topic as promised. She is a rat who was caught.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 06:07 AM
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Same shit happened to me! "Oh let's leave it in God's hands." "Oh let God guide us!" "Oh let time play its course!" It was all horseshit until I hired a PI and the sneaky rat was screwed by some wolve that fucked her and left her. Sad but true. Dignity is surely key to rebuild man, but most importantly- change and change for yourself and become that man the Lord wants you to be. The past maybe like vomit, but secure yourself because there are women out there who need to be loved and it is NO dou…
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 06:04 AM
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Great message! Truth and only the truth. Acceptance is surely the first part of this process!
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 05:57 AM
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Amen! Let it rain!
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 11:58 AM
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Amen!
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 04:16 AM
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Must get closer to God man! I can only imagine how you feel, but I am not in your position, but I can only speak for myself when I was. Please eat well. Second, working out and seeking a new pattern of things is essential. Life is not easy, especially when the kids arent at home with you. Yes, they are dearly missed and sometimes we can suddenly weep(normal). Never give up on yourself no matter the circumstances. Listen to "Above Inspiration" via YouTube~ it helped me calm down and reoriente my …
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 04:15 AM
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I totally agree and believe me~ you could get bored as she may not! Life is abstract, however, if you both have God "genuinely" in your hearts and souls~ you both will shine. Temptation however my friend is a bitch and sucks! When one is married, there are opportunities that presents us that one says "why me?"
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 12:47 PM
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Run!
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 12:44 PM
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Take it easy. Get closer to God. Pray for her because man, I felt depressed, down and lost 23lbs when my wife threatened me with the D word! This led me to get enraged and drink. However, my psychologist advised to stop the drinking and focus on myself. Yes, now I divorced her after discovering her infidelity and shady odd behavior. Sad because we have 1 wonderful son. Listen to "Above Inspiration" via YouTube...it helps. Be yourself and be mentally strong because it seems you have had it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 09:19 PM
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Emotions will definitely be a rollercoaster!
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 11:45 AM
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Agree : )
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 11:45 AM
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As per meeting the bar of a bona-fide marriage you guys would fail asap! Is she bipolar? Is she going through a tough time at work? Or perhaps not feeling 100%with you in bed? Does she expose a "whatever" ~ cynical attitude? I wish you the best, but this is NOT good! Constant div. threats is draining man. No kids? Freak that, but if you love her then go to marriage therapy. To me the D word was frightening and a bit traumatizing. Life is short, stay mentally strong please. God bless you guys!
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 11:33 AM
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Stability, financial security and facts that you are a real man leads her to come crawling back. The only only element that can change her is the LORD. I really mean this; however, this is your sole decision and Yes, I have been cheated on by my X wife, but I just couldn't bear the fact that another person was inside of her while I was being gaslighted and viewed as a clown. It was like Freddy Kruger haunting me down in my mind. I prayed and I just couldnt do it. God bless you man during this st…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 11:36 AM
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Pray my friend and get out because just by her having a paramour (BF), na man~ structure a new life and mindset. Women are monsters once they do not love us.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 12:27 PM
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Awesome man!
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/22 02:49 AM
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Women become MONSTERS during divorce period.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 08:56 AM
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Amen! Continue the great work.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 08:51 AM
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Fake fathers (step-fathers) trying to scold or well-orient our kids makes me vomit given the reality that it is 99% of the time false love.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 03:17 AM
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100% great advice. Also, life is too short.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/21 10:52 AM
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What a fucking fact!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 04:42 PM
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Amen jajaja. Enjoy your holidays man and the boat! Cheers from NYC!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 02:29 PM
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Damn! What an evil woman man!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 02:28 PM
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Thanks for sharing this man. My prayers to you. I have gotten closer to God during my storm (separation), which has led me to become a better man and father. God bless you and thanks again!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 02:26 PM
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Love this~ "Evict her from your thoughts!"
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 02:23 PM
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They play the victim card! However, those women battered have reasoning to let go of the monster. Now, my firm belief is that once there is any dude they MAY like for X or Y reason, they change drastically! Hide their phones, stonewalling, silent treatment, etc. We havent filed yet, but I will soon given her odd and toxic behavior. Women act dumb, but they play it very well.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 02:20 PM
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What a fact!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 02:15 PM
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Amen
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 02:05 PM
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Damn! This sounds like a soup opera full of reality. Shit man, what sucks is that we as men cannot live without females. However, man they bust our chops and balls off! They are manipulators to the fullness, especially when they start to weep!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 04:25 PM
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Mine claimed she was sick of my character. I still havent caught her, but she is full of pure suspicion after I left the marital home due to her toxic silent treatment and hiding her cell phone. Idiot.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 04:22 PM
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Amen
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 04:18 PM
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The behavior and attitude exposed by an angry woman is unbearable, which is a true turn off because one only wants to save the family bond, but again, the toxic behavior is what stabs many men. Your spouse may just not care or he perhaps doesnt want to engage in that same cycle (only you know). Wish you the best and God bless you and your 3 angels!
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 10:27 AM
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Talk to a stranger- true, i actually bought a street vendor for a slice of pizza while talking about the used books he had on sale. Life is abstract man. I wish i could have taken that avenue since May 2021. The silent treatment is harsh and toxic. There has to be a key reason why suddenly she wants out?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 02:36 AM
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Amen!
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 02:31 AM
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They always deny infidelity man. Why? I suspect my wife is cheating now after we separated and agreed on not dating anyone. You are a true dad man! Continue the great work with your children and hope your children are ok after observing their mother's mistakes. We are human and sucks that women leave great men for horse shit....why?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 02:30 AM
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Not true man. She jn fact may come back once she sees that the grass is not greener on the other side. . . Women these days are not like our mothers, aunts and grandmothers who stuck it out through thick and thin. You talk nasty to a wife now, you gonna get the boot especially if she is being boned by the bull.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 02:26 AM
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Great advice man! You surely provided some awesome incite and the reality above all on this case. Women normally to always deny infidelity. God bless.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 02:22 AM
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This is tough man. Same shit I am going through. I decided to leave the marital home because she gave me the stonewalling and silent treatment....(cold in other words). When this toxic radical behavior happens, bro, somebody is chatting, f@:&?"- or grilling her. Life is abstract my friend. However, my advice is to get close to God man and that has been my main focus! It continues to help me. I've been separated for 4 months and living with parents. Wish u the best! Also, dont drink!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/21 09:54 PM
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Amen : )
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/21 09:31 PM
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Amen!
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/21 08:13 PM
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Jeez man! Time to pray for her and allow God to handle her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/21 08:11 PM
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I totally agree!!!! Once you confront them, bro, believe me, they get defensive in spite of the evidence! It is sad. But remember- be strong, and going through her personal messages, or tracking her, isnt going to do any any good besides increasing your stress levels and the creation of pure anger.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/21 12:18 PM
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Def demand your rights to her nicely before she calls the cops again or you end up doing something regretful. Many prayers man!
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 02:05 AM
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Could be, yep! The other side wasnt as greener as she thought... women play more mind games than god knows what!
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 02:03 AM
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Damn man! Many blessings to you from God. This is a tough situation. #1 Do you love her? #2 Does she have a mental disorder? These are fundamental questions bro, but damn, false allegations~ that is evil evil evil evil evil evil evil evil evil evil evil! Praying for you man and God bless your son. I can only imagine your state of mind. Divorce is tough and a real bitch!
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 02:02 AM
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Whatever we do as men for our wives, never enough!
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 07:09 PM
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Especially due to the effective silent treatment~ man that hurt me when my wife did that.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 01:33 PM
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Great! My wife refuses family therapy to reconcile, so I am out and loving with parents for 4 months. Yes, we split the bills to pay. But I adviser her that I will fight for joint physical custody at court and started weeping saying no. Takes 2 to tango, but she wants out and has a shady behavior with her phone, etc. drained and i want to file, drained and in pain after striving to save my m.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:51 PM
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Yeah buddy seems you were full of rancor and fierce bitterness, which was obviously exposed through the silent treatment given to her or simply the way you interacted. Dude, kids are sponges when it comes down to observation. What led you to become fiercely bitter with their mother? Addiction, infidelity?
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:43 PM
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So what will you do man? Listen brother, i can feel your helplessness, God hates divorce, but one think I can say is that You are a good dad just by wishing never to hurt your angels, the clear cut question is "Do you love this woman who gave you angels (kids) and wish to strive it out with God, therapy, literature, etc. Wish you luck and much success to you and the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:39 PM
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Wow! You should be proud of yourself for staying put so long and I am assuming it was for the kids. Marriage starts out like a bag of Skittle candy, but woman eventually take out their machetes, and ammunition to seek your pocket and leave you dry! As per lawyers, they play the retainer rate game "Oh your retainer is up, sorry!" $300 p/hr. Divorce is a billion dollar industry. Please watch on YouTube "Divorce Court and Laws that will outrage you."- The Law Center. It will make you vomit how F/@-…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:34 PM
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You sound energetic, certain and ready for this battle. God bless you all man and it can be an emotional rollercoaster. Also, her mission to leave you broke~ typical mad women in a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:22 PM
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I clearly would have done the same man after discovering infidelity on her part. Kids as per research, it does take a toll on them in a host of ways. Just be cordial as possible when you speak to the witch acting innocently now and be there for your angels man! Be cautious on any move you do during interaction because she can easily call the police~ frequently happens you mike Tysoned her or feel you are a threat to the marital home. Have you moved out? Don't unless things get extremely controve…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 12:16 PM
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Agree! My buddy was arrested at his first mediation session after putting his wife in the headlock for reasons that I could understand, but he screwed himself. Women are monsters both verbally and manners during a divorce. Then again its a f&:$/@?! 50 billion dollar industry. God bless and hope for the best! Pray and bite the bullets.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 02:02 AM
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Same on my end man! Place her to attend college and the rat started to change gradually until I had it! We do have one child, but it is incredible how people can manipulate one human being converting them to an unknown human : (
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 06:20 PM
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They all get too relaxed and think it will simply get easier! Thanks to bad mouths of friends, family and colleagues, leads them to F. Up.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 04:44 PM
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Wow. Thanks for being real and blunt!
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/21 11:21 PM
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Such a scam in spite of being a good dad : (
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/21 11:20 PM
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I agree man! Everything begins like a bag of Skittles - nice and rainbow; once they get pissed off, create a rancor or simply another bastard gets in their ear~ Sergeant Slaughter Boot is coming to your ass. Women are not loyal as our mothers and grandmothers were...reality. Wish everyone blessings and much success.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/21 11:20 PM
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Once they are in their ear~ forget about! Spouses start to think they know it all and literally will be updated upon the law.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/21 10:42 AM
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Agree
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 02:38 PM
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Great advice! Thanks a million.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/21 01:08 AM
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Amen.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/21 01:07 AM
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Stay healthy number #1 ok. Love is amazing, but I have learned that i simply doesnt last forever. This is the 21st century and women certainly do not put up with men (our bullshit). Reroute your mind to workouts, therapy, yoga, or simply volunteering in ideal things. Remember, the mind is powerful!
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/21 05:00 AM
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