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So the accusers don’t get due process They do get it. Amber Heard got her day in court, she got to present evidence and witnesses. She lost
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:24 PM
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It's more of paragraphs and legal jargons. Check it out. It's an interesting read
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:22 PM
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Show me the data
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:21 PM
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Those were not small mistakes or mere technicalities. That's like saying your builder forgot to put a roof over your house. It's not a job well done. Yes he later came along, charged you more for the roof that he should have built in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:20 PM
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Not all woman are liars, but feminists are taking away the right of men and making them vulnerable to women who do lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:07 PM
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Cosby's case was very severe violation of 5th amendment rights. Weinstein case was very severe violation of criminal code procedures. It's was not like they found an obscure precedence from 1886. Any person would be acquitted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:06 PM
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First of, due process was followed. They were allowed to appeal, the appeal went through, and they were acquitted They won the appeal BECAUSE DUE PROCESS WAS NOT FOLLOWED. due process is different from right to go to court
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:04 PM
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you agree that being acquitted is not necessarily an indicator of innocence YES I agree with that. But why can't you agree if a man is acquitted he might actually be innocent? You guys say it like if a woman made allegation, he must have done it, no questions asked. Fuck, innocent people are found guilty sometimes. You want us to believe that acquitted people are definitely guilty? WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:02 PM
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Why would judges deliberately take away due process rights of those men? It's because they got caught up in feminist hysteria of believe women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:00 PM
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You should read the supreme court ruling on Cosby's case. They had a lot of interesting things to say about lower court.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:59 PM
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So we need to force the public to love these people? No, you just need to monetarily compensate for unfair loss of reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:57 PM
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Feminists are doing bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:54 PM
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Well it's technically illegal to comment on judge's motivations. You can go to jail for doing that, But let me tell you a secret. There is a reason judgements are written the way they are written. The structure and legal framework is designed that way. You can always figure out the judge's motivations by how he writes a judgement. Judgement itself is the evidence if you know how to look at it. That's the standards for judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:53 PM
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So you are saying that if a man is rich and he proves his innocence, that doesn't count for anything. So how exactly should a man prove his innocence for you. Go ahead tell us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:47 PM
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The rest had a hit to their reputation sure Reputation is everything Right to life is not limited to animal existence, social well being is integral part of right to life. That's why solitary confinement is illegal in so many countries. There is a reason defamation is still a criminal offense in so many European and Asian countries. Only in USA you can defame someone with impunity. It's because of 1st amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:45 PM
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There are two things that are taken very seriously in criminal justice system. 5th amendment. Relevance of evidence. They are not excessive legal red tape, they are basis of criminal law in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:42 PM
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Whether Cosby or Weinstein are guilty is irrelevant. Judges knew what they were doing was wrong. They didnt care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:39 PM
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Yet he still had his conviction overturned because feminists wanted his head on the pike so much, they took away his due process rights. What are you trying to achieve here? Kangaroo courts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:37 PM
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By taking away due process rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:35 PM
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The DAs fucked their cases up No, DA's didn't fuck their cases up. They and the judge were in cohorts with feminists. They knew that they couldn't win the case on merit alone, they knew that the verdict will be overturned on appeal. They didnt care Evidence wasn't compelling making procedural errors designed to safeguard innocents. Or do you think that unsubstantiated, unrelated, claims should be allowed to paint you in bad light in front of the jury. Claims that has no relation to case in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:33 PM
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Name one accuser who was able to prove that kebin spacey is guilty or liable in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:31 PM
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Of course not, but black community needed payback for Rodney King. Not to mention police and prosecution decided to frame a guilty man. I mean, your own police officer is pleading the 5th when asked about fabricating evidence, then what other verdict do you expect? You tell me, was prosecution able to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he was guilty? To me officer in charge unable to answer question regarding fabrication of evidence is more than reasonable doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:30 PM
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When the accuser says Spacey carried him to the bedroom and pushed him on the bed and spacey is able to prove that there were literally no bedrooms in the fucking mansion. Or when other accuser says that spacey assaulted him in a car and Spacey proves that it was literally impossible to have happened? 6 only in UK, he was sued for millions in USA and he got cleared of that too. How many times does a man has to prove his innocence? Why is there not a single shred of concrete evidence against him?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:25 PM
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When you’ve got like 50 accusers, Spacey had multiple accusers, he got cleared on every one. In UK as well as in USA. Uk case, jury found all 6 "victims" to be baseless. He one by one proved every accuser to be liar in courts. He won every case brought against him except breach of contract case by house of cards. What more do you fucking want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:15 PM
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Dude, what's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:09 PM
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That's why men had mistresses. Now it's socially unacceptable smh. Relying on one woman for sex is stupid but we are forced to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:45 PM
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I prefer starting an irrational argument and stroking emotions until I get shit tested. After that it's pretty much smooth sailing. Mine has gotten addicted to it. She tries to goad me into starting arguments when she gets horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:46 PM
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It's the emotions. When woman is in her frame, there is a degree of control and logic that reduce the intensity of her emotions. When she is completely in a man's frame, there is nothing holding back the intesity of her emotions. Intense emotions are what creates mind blowing sex, not giving oral for 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:37 PM
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Yeah, her unhappiness caused her brothers cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:32 PM
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Why wouldn’t you want that, unless you’re not actually attracted to women? I never said I didn't want it, I just said I am not in a rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:31 PM
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It's not, it's just bugs me when anyone says "women are conditioned to...." Ducking responsibility for your own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
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You offering to cheat on me or ghost me? Whatever the case, you need to fuck me first. I don't fuck fat women though, so I am gonna need some proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:28 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:27 PM
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I said that if you are not attractive and high value enough, it doesn't matter how good a partner you are. So first job is to be increase your value enough so that your wife starts to sexually desire you. Then all you need to do is give her the attention of she desires, her orgasm is secondary issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:25 PM
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Women are conditioned on disappointment Do women not take ANY responsibility? What's up with this conditioned crap. Women need to grow the fuck up. Strong independent women who can't make independent decisions because society conditioned them so much lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:19 PM
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Not sure how? She moved to Germany, I don't do long distance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:18 PM
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Why would I want to make woman experience emotions fast. What's the rush?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:16 PM
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Her orgasm is the whole point of it No it's not, sex is much much more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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Not being able to make a women cum is beta behavior. It's not beta bahavior. It's just incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:14 PM
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Is it your best bet to ensure repeat business? Certainly. Its one of the ways, but definitely not the best bet. Best bet is and will always remain the social game. Preselection + social value + jealousy + emotional stimulation is something that is hard to beat. But yes, it's always not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:13 PM
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Beta Being beta is not wrong, it creates closeness and comfort, it makes a woman feel loved and care for, it just doesn't create attraction. Attraction is created by alpha behavior. Being high value, being emotionally stimulating etc etc. Without attraction, a woman will not care to be "loved and cared for". You can drop ball on beta stuff, it's recoverable. If you drop call on attraction, you will create a situation where "a woman loves you but is not in love with you". Thats how you get cheate…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:09 PM
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eating out a woman turns me on too Me too. That's why I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:04 PM
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The orgasm is the goal, Nah man, orgasm is not the goal, sex is so much more than orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:02 PM
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My ex loved being a slave, she did her best work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:59 PM
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Women with their hysteria of "orgasm gap" have created bedroom technicians lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:58 PM
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Sex is much much more than orgasm. It's about dominance, it's about emotions, it's about variety, it's about immersion. My favourite thing to do is orgasm denial, shortly followed by sensory deprivation. Something about denial tend to make the actual thing so very intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:56 PM
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Women are temporary, brotherhood is forever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:51 PM
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how shitty 95% of men are in bed. Yes and why do you think those men are getting laid so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:51 PM
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Preselection is alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:50 PM
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Be passionate and want her though, That's the way, but you need to generate value first. Thats where most men fail, their wives don't feel the need for their husbands to want her. Their wives don't feel the need to be sexually desired by their husbands. All because they have depleted all their sexual value from years of betadom. Once you generate enough sexual value, then wanting your wife will make sex good for her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:45 PM
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Truth is truth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:40 PM
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imo satisfying a woman is what will make her want to sleep with you Attraction will make your wife want to sleep with you. Plenty of women have orgasms and low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:40 PM
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Low effort comments are not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:34 PM
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Not really. Best relationship for a man is where his wife is sexually attracted to him and make him feel desirable. "Happy wife happy life" put man in woman's frame and force him to cater to his wife in hopes that if he just do enough things for his wife, his wife will become attracted to him and want to fuck him. Truth is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:33 PM
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Yes, but just because a man loves his wife and so attached to his wife that he dread losing her, doesn't make him a good husband or a partner. Same as a woman who loves her husband with all her heart but has a low libido. She is not a good wife, no matter how much she loves him. A man should be self assured in himself so that his wife's moods don't affect him. But that requires a degree of outcome independence and abundance which only comes when a man is attractive. Funny thing is, women are so …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:05 AM
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It's proved in court that she was talking about Johnny in that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:08 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ woman, do you think only you had the brilliant idea to claim that Amber Heard didnt actually accuse Johnny but was just making general statements? Amber heard had that idea, her lawyers had that idea, they argued in the court and lost. They failed to convince judge to throw the case and failed to convince the jury. Even if you don't think jury was correct, judge's decision was based on law and she could have appealed it if she was wrong. Talking to you is like talking to a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:56 PM
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So basically men should be sacrificed for the good of the society. Thats sick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:32 PM
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Yes, her article blatantly hinted towards Johnny Depp and lead to loss of reputation of Johnny depp. It's not like Amber Heard didnt try to refute it. Her lawyers filed a motion to dismiss the case based on your argument. That she didn't claim abuse against Johnny Depp. Judge penney explained it in open court why she is allowing the case to continue. She found the reasonable cause that either Amber Heard purposely or with blatant disregard to consequences on Depp, tried to defame Johnny via that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:29 PM
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how do I prove otherwise? Suppose a man or woman files a complain that you raped him or her. You say it's consensual. Who should have the burden of proof? Then I get sued on top of this? Only if you say it publically and ruins his reputation. If you just filed police complaint you are protected. No women will ever come forward If coming forward means coming forward in social media without any proof instead of going to police, then you should be afraid to come forward. Defamation is bad, how hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:24 PM
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Turns out (for now) if you can prove that your defamer had reasonable knowledge that what they are saying indirectly can be used to pinpoint you specifically, then your defamer is liable. Johnny proved it in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:19 PM
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How? I am talking about men being seen as statistics. Feminists do it, other men do it, other women do it, but it's bad either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:17 PM
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That's like Russians saying Americans hate Americans, so first americans need to sort themselves out, then they can criticize Russia's war crimes in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:16 PM
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Thats like saying what infowars was doing was meaningless screeching on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:12 PM
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And one million women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:11 PM
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That he abused her. She lost the trial, you should go watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:11 PM
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That's like Nazis saying Muslims hate Jews too. Hating jews is bad, no matter who does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:06 PM
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I can be sued for defamation on top of that? YES. That's how it works in most of Europe. The burden of proof is on the accuser. An accused can't be reasonably asked to prove a negative. Only filing a police complaint protects you from defamation. You can't just go around accusing people without a shred of proof. I feel for men who are falsely accused And I feel for women who have legitimate claims but idk what the answer is. This isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:05 PM
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You are here defending feminists talking point not even knowing how those same talking points are being used to harm men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 PM
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So it's okay for feminists to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 PM
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So feminists are actively trying to harm men and stop them from getting justice and your answer to that is, "atleast for now they suck at it" That's not very comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:00 PM
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But your feminist overlords are not listening to you and they lobby govt to take away rights of men. What you gonna do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:58 PM
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That is bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:57 PM
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You need to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:50 PM
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Then why feminists are trying to make it harder for men to file for defamation claims against women. https://www.businessinsider.com/justin-bieber-defamation-sexual-assault-suing-hurts-women-victims-2020-6#:~:text=TMZ%20and%20People%20reported%20that,that%20betrays%20his%20female%20fans. Justin Bieber had very strong case and they shamed him for filing a case because it may silence victims. Why a man is less important here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:47 PM
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that we shouldn't have legal or social mechanisms in place to help them. That's what feminists are advocating for.. They want to make it harder for men to file for defamation. California makes it nearly impossible for men to do so. Take Johnny depp, feminists lost their shit when a man who was falsely accused dared DARED to have his day in court. They think that if a man gets justice for false accusations, it would deter women from coming forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:42 PM
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If emotions were bother for me, why would I even spend time with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:24 PM
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I don't need to care about a woman's emotions, I just need to care about her and make sure that when she is with me, she is comfortable enough to feel her emotions without any restraint or worry. That she can truly let go of her inhibitions and let go of trying to fulfill any expectations from others. But to do that she needs to accept the fact that she may never be enough for me and that she could try her very best but her best may never be good enough. What she can't do is force me or shame me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:55 PM
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A man's job is to create a safe space where his wife can feel her emotions with full intensity without feeling like she is doing something wrong for just having feelings. I like to visualize it as a woman floating on waves of her emotions without worries or care for the world, while man is the anchor that stops her from drifting away. Or like a dance of feminine emotions around a masculine presence which guides her but let's her flow freely in confines of his arms. Women are supposed to feel str…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:02 PM
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Post your thoughts on redpillwomen. I would love to hear them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:43 PM
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shit test Shit testa have a very interesting theory behind them. When a woman is in an emotionally heightened state, for reasons like stress, arousal, etc etc, she will become vulnerable to manipulation. Just like men. Women have this evolutionary defense mechanisms to not let men who are low value to take advantage of her state of vulnerability. So a mentally weak man would get defensive when he is attacked and would want to qualify himself. He will be the one doing her bidding so he won't be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:23 PM
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Yes, not having sex is a reason for at fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:09 PM
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sexually things were still consistent leading up to when I had a feeling something was up You should grab a book called married man sex life primer. He talks about it. When a woman is cheating, sometimes she feels the compulsion to fuck her husband so that husband believes the offspring (if she gets pregnant) is his. Pretty interesting evolutionary psychology. Latinas tend to be different in some ways Latinas are definitely different but they are still women. She actually believed that she wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:04 PM
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I guess, But that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:59 PM
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Sexual dissatisfaction is a recognised justification for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:57 PM
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Say hi to your wife for me If she has any argument, feel free to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:52 PM
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I make sacrifices regarding his wants You underestimate how rare you are. Most women will just tell their husbands they are not entitled to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:32 PM
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You feel it's only fair that a man be good to a woman, be supportive to a woman who gave birth to his children. But relationships are not fair. If a man only see sexual frustration in his future, if only future he has is the one where he needs to shut his mouth and not expect anything because his wife gave birth, then even if you make his accept it as his fate, he won't be motivated enough to be actually a good husband. He will do enough for you to not divorce her, but that's it. You can coast o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:30 PM
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Let's just say love makes us do things that we shouldn't. Like not wanting to leave wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:12 PM
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They act like we are doing something on purpose What you are doing on purpose is expecting a man to be ideal while not asking yourself whether you even have a good enough marriage to offer him. You want him to make sacrifices but you are not willing to do the same for him. they aren't owed another person's body married or not to get off using Men are owed sex as much as women are owed fidelity. You can't demand sex or fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:11 PM
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Kids =/= wife. Wife is replaceable kids are not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:06 PM
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Love + bad mental models
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:05 PM
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Being a good husband is different from being a good employee. There is no proper feedback loop in household. A man does everything right and wife is still being bitch because of her hormones, will just make a man confused as to what he is supposed to do. Trick is to not judge his success as a man on his wife's reaction. Not as simple as it sounds because it involves letting go of trying to do things right and accept that he may fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:03 PM
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There are times when a man has to lead even in an equal partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:00 PM
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Most people are just scared of each other's emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:56 PM
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Yes and sometimes the best you have to offer a man is not good enough. Then you ask why the husband is not excited about the life as much as you are. Why can't he see that being a good partner to you is also good for him? But you never ask yourself this question, does your vision of life even good enough for your husband to be excited about. Because you are afraid that the answer is no. So it's easier to paint the husband as bad or manchild or immature. It's mandatory in marriedredpill for men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:53 PM
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Your partner makes you laugh. That doesn't make your life easy?? It doesn't help you destress, it doesnt help you feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:44 PM
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My ex-wife said she wasn't happy, and that part of it was my "loss in confidence" cause I had expressed how I was unhappy with my weight at the time.. That's not it. For context, we both gained and lost weight over the years, particularly when kids were conceived and that time frame.. If I didn't also gain, it made her upset and feel unattractive. It was a shit test. She didn't want you to gain weight, she just didn't want to gain weight herself. But thats was unavoidable because of her pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:40 PM
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husbands are taking the supportive role in their marriages and the wives are also trying to take the supportive role. Actually yes but there is more. For a good relationship to exist, a woman should be able to feel comfortable enough to feel her emotions and trust that her irrationality is not gonna cause any harm because husband is there to take the lead. When husband is not able to lead, women have to police their emotions because if they don't, whole family will fall apart. But women dont lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:21 PM
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Alcoholics know that alcohol is not good for them. It's not as simple as telling them that they are causing themselves harm by drinking so much. There are deeper issues. Like there are deeper issues with men who form these bad mental models. What women think is that they can just "communicate" or "nag" enough, their husbands will change and when they dont, they get frustrated. Women need to understand that it's not that simple. Just like you can't nag an alcoholic into being sober, you can chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:14 PM
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Why would women be interested in either? It's what it is, if you want a man who will not leave you no matter what, he would also not want you to leave him no matter what. So you gonna have to understand that the man will have more emotional needs that you gonna have to fulfill. If you don't want that burden, then you have to deal with a man who don't have those needs because he is willing to walk away from you. Question remains then, do you have the capability to support a man who loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:09 PM
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So is it wrong to have bad experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:00 PM
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I don't know why people are so judgemental about men being mentally weak. It's not a sin, they are just not trained to be mentally strong. It's their parents and society that failed them. It was their responsibility. By being judgemental, you force them to hide from their weakness. There is no way they are gonna become better if you condemn them for having a weakness in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:59 PM
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Please elaborate. If you say it, it will stop having power over you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:56 PM
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Name one thing that your partner can do for you that makes you happy but not makes your life easy in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:56 PM
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Codependency is definitely a factor but it doesn't present the whole picture. There are social expectations of not wanting a failed marriage, there is genuine fear of not being attractive enough. I mean, if a woman leaves her husband, husband is blamed a lot and he is not given the courtesy of sharing his side of the story. There are patriarchical elements to it, that women themselves enforce. Men many times also lose a lot in divorces and even lose their children so there is an added pressure. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:53 PM
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Instead I would advise continue loving your wife just as much but relax your impulses to control and manage things by force It's not as simple as you are making out to be. Here is how you do it. Get attractive so that you have options, Actually be willing to exercise those options. No. 2 is more important than no 1. If you are not willing to walk away, you will always remain in the prison of your own mind. Not willing to walk away from your wife is what caused those issues in the first place. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:42 PM
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So they make their lives easier by supporting them and showing kindness to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:32 PM
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Being selfish is not a bad thing. Being myopic is. Being a good partner and having a successful marriage benefits a man too. If a man can't see that bigger picture, then question is not to paint him as a bad person but to figure out why exactly he doesn't see the bigger picture. Honest truth is that most women can not create a vision for a man for a family that is attractive to him. For most women, men should like the vision that she has and if he doesn't, he is the problem. Take sex for example…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:29 PM
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Men and woman aren’t supposed to make each other lives easier, their supposed to make each other happy. How exactly does someone make someone happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:19 PM
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scarcity mentality Scarcity mentality is a very abstract concept. It's not as simple of a solution as just don't have a scarcity mindset. A man needs to dig deeper into his soul and work on his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:16 PM
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There is healthy love for a woman who has proven to be a good wife but who is replaceable. Then there is unhealthy oneitis, which is not good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:13 PM
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That is a part of it. Men judging their self worth based on their marriages or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:12 PM
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The question we need to ask is why they stop giving a fuck about their wives. Is it because they fell out of love or they are a bad person or they just didn't have the mental fortitude to be a good husband and face failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:11 PM
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7 years, give or take
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:09 PM
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So he’s either childish Yes, some parts of him are selfish or too emotional? Men do feel emotions, and sometimes they are not able to cope with them. So they hide in a hole. Same as women, but I hardly rhink you would call her selfish. stop relying on a woman to make his life easier for him A woman is supposed to make a man's life easier and vice versa. Otherwise why would you choose relationship over staying single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:08 PM
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It's quite general. When you see it for the first time, you can't stop noticing it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:06 PM
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Not really, you are just not aware of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:54 PM
3

53 percent of new STEM graduates are women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:05 PM
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Well yes, but solution to that is to just make more women. Developing countries can use the additional money coming from passport bros to encourage people to have more female children. It's good for countries where sex ratio is very low. I guess you could also do that in west to keep men and their $$ here but then you gonna have to restrict college capacity because colleges are just gonna keep enrolling those women and it's not like we can really stop them. If women are becoming too successful f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:04 PM
-8

Nothing wrong with that. As long as no alimony is involved it's fair. It's when men are forced to pay for old woman, it becomes a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:36 PM
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Men are socialized to be stay committed even when it's not in their best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:41 PM
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Are you mad at me? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:57 PM
-4

If men had the choice to be gay, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:56 PM
-2

And women wont be able to be the same with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:55 PM
1

Yes, regular men can improve themselves with discipline to become men who meet women's standards. But by doing that, men will also increase their standards and women are not in a position to meet them forever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:43 PM
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There is a difference between "men" and "high value men". If women want HVM, then men will have to put effort into themselves but if they do, the same women will not be able to match his value forever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:35 PM
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Women wanted no fault divorces because they specifically did not want to do that "Until death do us apart" thing. We are now in a society where anyone can be thrown out of a relationship and into open dating market and there is nothing you can do about it. So you don't have choice but to compete with younger women for your husband and your husband doesn't have a choice but to compete with other men for you. If you won't lower your standards, I donno why you expect your husband to lower his stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:29 PM
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You can make it your minimum requirement. Question is, do you meet the minimum requirement of that man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:21 PM
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something that you sign up for in a long term relationship. That's not how it works, you don't sign up for ANYTHING in a long term relationship. You are not entitled to commitment no matter how long you have been together. If a man stays with woman who is lower value that he can get, that his choice. His wife is not entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:18 PM
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Nothing wring with youth being a standard, it's just that man is gonna have to replace old one with new. It's just that most men can't do that without some serious effort. So if women have a standard of high value men, then they would have to accept that HVM will have the standard they could not meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:16 PM
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Single events are catered towards women, because women are the "commodity" they are selling(just like dating apps). Problem is that women in those events are looking for a beta bux. Its not easy to hide it in those settings. Men get the jeebez when post wall women gather together in such large numbers. It's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:11 PM
5

That is true. High density housing, good public transportation, etc will do wonders for dating. Socialization is tough when you need to drive everywhere. If you have a club at 3 minutes walk from your home then that just make things easy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:09 PM
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Well then, you won't mind if your husband leaves you 20 years down the line for a younger woman because you failed to meet his standards. If you actually don't mind, then Kudos. It's working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:07 PM
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Currently is the key word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:54 PM
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I never said it's happening, result is more men and women being single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:16 PM
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Not being overweight is also not a high standard but women don't like when men leave their fat wives. Standards depends on the society. In France, women are weight conscious and don't feel entitled to commitment while being overweight. And I am sure many american women will want a French guy as a partner. But American men and women are stuck with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:15 PM
-1

The other traits you listed are very arbitrary and need definitions.. Mentally strong- Calm, collected, can handle pressure, emotionally secure, can think clearly. Emotionally stimulating- not boring, can hold a conversation, can make a connection, can engage on an emotional level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:57 PM
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Tldr. But you are welcome to become a single mother and test it out for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:16 PM
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If your step dad makes a decision to not pay for your college, what would your mother do exactly? Leave him, and take him to cleaners to pay for your college (assuming she can) or leave you to fend for yourself. My guess would be the latter, because she can divorce him but then she would be thrown back into the dating market. She won't risk going back. Your step dad on the other hand, can get another single mother to support. He has the $$. Your mother is replaceable, your step dad, not so much.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:42 PM
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So is terrorism, but we take that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:41 PM
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Everyone is replaceable. Do you know why? Because you chose them to be your partner, they will most likely find someone who matches your value. When men choose a woman to have kids with, she becomes special to him. She is mother of his kids, she becomes someone, no other woman can match. That's her value, it's keeps the man with her with all her imperfections. But when the same woman let her feelings destroy the family that makes her special to her husband. Then she is nothing more than a random…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:50 PM
1

You wanna meet my parents? Already? Don't you think it's too early. I haven't even seen you naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:10 PM
2

I am not on winter break, but I am free tomorrow evening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:44 AM
-5

Definitely not. It's not in my best interest to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:40 AM
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That's why society made it so hard for people to get divorces. Otherwise men would just leave for younger women. Women wanted easy divorces, you can't complain that men take advantage of the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:38 AM
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Bear Pill Woman sugar bear Now, you are making me feel like a slut. Justice is justice, whether it comes through courts or by other means. Everyone is entitled to justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:45 AM
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If u want to call me a sweetheart, buy me a drink first. It seems like you do support Saint Luigi. We are in agreement that justice can be take by other means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:35 AM
3

So you don't support Luigi?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:30 AM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:28 AM
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So seeking justice by any means necessary is immature? I guess you support the UHC guy and hate my boy Luigi. You are the part of the problem. It's people like u who support bad people and make them embolden to do bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:20 AM
-1

So you are okay if men stay on sidelines with abortion debate right. To each of their own. I mean, we can vote republican, if we like their tax breaks, but abortion is women's responsibility, they failed to defeat republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:57 AM
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People are entitled to justice. No one should be expected to just "let it go". If courts don't provide justice, there is no reason, other means should be off limits. We have jury nullification for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:54 AM
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Well well well. The house is gonna get paid soon. US is a land of lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:39 AM
0

Men are net taxpayers. They will be the one footing the bill. But you don't have a problem when women are on welfare. How are women like you so entitled that you not only will take bigger share of pie than you contribute but also oppose if something is done for men when they are the one paying more taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:36 AM
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I mean, justice will be served one way or another. Just because courts fail doesn't mean that a victim is not entitled to seek justice. All of that can be avoided with a simple test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:33 AM
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I don't see the problem with that. Wife has (hopefully) carried his children and her body is not gonna be same anymore. So he is doing her a favor by staying with her. If she wants to walk away from the perks of a married life and wants to test her chances in the dating market as a single mother, I don't see any downside. He can always marry a younger woman without loose belly and stretch marks. Kids would suffer in split household, but that's on the woman for leaving. Man gonna win either way. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:30 AM
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The reality is, that marriages end and there is a huge possibility that man will be in a position where he is not able to attract a woman he desires because he has gotten fat etc. So the solution to never really let yourself go is a valid one. It's easier to maintain attractiveness than to figure it out when you are already stressed with divorce. It's basic game theory, possibility of divorce will make men be prepared for divorce and staying attractive is the best way to prepare for life after d…
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